Ask Steve: You can't stare at him || STEVE HARVEY

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  • An audience member wants advice on how to get a stranger on the train to talk to her.
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  • @mademoisellejules3784
    @mademoisellejules3784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1244

    "He's not as pretty as you" I love Steve!!!

    • @e-learning3352
      @e-learning3352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, l love him too. His look like funny man.

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t get me wrong I get it what Steve said was cute and Ofcourse he’s gonna blow smoke up her ass like he does every female but ughhhh......she ain’t pretty though??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @aureateseigneur5317
      @aureateseigneur5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She aint ugly either tho

    • @emabella1000
      @emabella1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ?,?, wow so much hate. Just so you know, pretty women wear makeup too. Makeup is fun and of course is supposed to enhance our features. No need to be rude

    • @nyamheria
      @nyamheria 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@t6amygdala huh?

  • @yasmo5271
    @yasmo5271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3083

    I'm too shy to approach him let me go to a talk show and ask for help 😂

    • @mbangroo
      @mbangroo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lmao

    • @worthlessmutts9598
      @worthlessmutts9598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      i suspect they are just actors.

    • @MRJMXHD
      @MRJMXHD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@worthlessmutts9598 impossible

    • @chillmf9459
      @chillmf9459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MR. JMXHD idkidk

    • @123minko
      @123minko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She wants to be on his dating segment

  • @fuckinzell
    @fuckinzell 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1028

    "I do this for a living!" *remembers Marjorie* "USED TO.. Used to..."

    • @snicker12
      @snicker12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      LOL 😂

    • @clarabelle8911
      @clarabelle8911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Denzel Means
      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @naimjustjokin_
      @naimjustjokin_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Legit read this as he said it😭😭😭

  • @Ep1cxxPredat0r
    @Ep1cxxPredat0r 7 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    or she can just smile and say hi........

    • @adwoakwartemaa8553
      @adwoakwartemaa8553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Zeke2g exactly! 😊.

    • @alishibli4720
      @alishibli4720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly

    • @capgreen3805
      @capgreen3805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Or just ask him out and not wait for him

    • @1Chasg
      @1Chasg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep. If u want something just go for it or else it might not happen.

    • @MizzNR
      @MizzNR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's hard for some people.

  • @CinnaAbble
    @CinnaAbble 7 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    This girl is literally me infront of guys.

    • @jaaptendijk7192
      @jaaptendijk7192 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Ablix me in front of girls✋

    • @icefleura8168
      @icefleura8168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too so shyyy

    • @peterlane1391
      @peterlane1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well good news: I love everything about that woman and many guys do too.

    • @mateoslab
      @mateoslab 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This girl is me in front of girls

  • @erikhayes1
    @erikhayes1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1483

    See, now here is the truth. If a woman followed Steve’s advice and did that to me? I would think she is trying not to laugh at me and I would be discouraged.

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Erik Hayes What about a shy smile as she tucks her hair behind her ear before looking away?

    • @KillShot-ln6mn
      @KillShot-ln6mn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@liliw3977 That'd make 90% of us approach you

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cain City I give women this advice all the time. I’m happy to have some confirmation for them😊

    • @a.l2563
      @a.l2563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So what would u recommend?

    • @liliw3977
      @liliw3977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Tony oneill just be yourself, when you approach her make sure you don’t lead with comments that will make her think you’re only seeing her in one light. Comment about her beautiful smile, eyes, her laugh, how she talks with her hands...that will give her a positive feeling about you and make you seem genuine. Whatever you say, say it with confidence; women find that very alluring.

  • @SethManex
    @SethManex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Those heels are pretty

  • @icetray2727
    @icetray2727 7 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    His face though😂😂😂 2:28

    • @norelhouda677
      @norelhouda677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The same face of old super mario game when he loose

    • @e-learning3352
      @e-learning3352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I think so.

    • @AJCoffeeRani
      @AJCoffeeRani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dove-ina5462
      @dove-ina5462 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @rubyshay6352
    @rubyshay6352 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2109

    If she follows Steve advice, the guy gonna think something is funny and he is a joke.

    • @cheritabispat286
      @cheritabispat286 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Yes, remove the hand but keep and control the smile then turn your head. Lol

    • @alexiskosseify9929
      @alexiskosseify9929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      You should have your own show called ask Ruby

    • @kaymap2061
      @kaymap2061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@alexiskosseify9929 this is funny, and we are the audience

    • @alexiskosseify9929
      @alexiskosseify9929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kaymap2061 hell yeaa, wanna book the first 2 seats?

    • @kaymap2061
      @kaymap2061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alexiskosseify9929 hahaah is it a date? 😅

  • @missylulou5178
    @missylulou5178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    So he sent her off to laugh at the man 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 good one Steve 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @naria2224
      @naria2224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Missy Lu Lou. Well she wasn’t supposed to laugh while doing the thing. She couldn’t help it , she’s nervous about it.

  • @MissAdamLambert888
    @MissAdamLambert888 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    "but he's so pretty..." GIRL I GET YOU ! T_T

  • @madi21772
    @madi21772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    I RELATE SO MUCH TO “TRY AND APPEAR NOT BITCHY” YALL DONT EVEN KNOW OMG I UNDERSTAND

  • @RainwriterMusic
    @RainwriterMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Title: "You can't stare at him!"
    Thumbnail: weirdest face from Steve I've ever seen in my life

  • @philboom9136
    @philboom9136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Smile, little wave, maybe say hi. Thats it.
    Laugh and look away makes us think you make fun about us.

  • @deliamoyle3279
    @deliamoyle3279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    HER SHOESS! YES I WANT THEM

  • @rihazzahir9826
    @rihazzahir9826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Uncle Steve got the answers to almost everything, wish I could meet him in my life time

  • @cherrypath1702
    @cherrypath1702 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    😂😂😂😂 Steve is so funny, that stare and smile 😂😂

  • @ocubex
    @ocubex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Steve must have been a dangerous man when he was in the game...

  • @vanessaantoine4264
    @vanessaantoine4264 7 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    I love her shoes! We need to know where she got those shoes!!!

    • @shalini3336
      @shalini3336 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vanessa Antoine Yess...love em too!

    • @Ibrahim.Raad1
      @Ibrahim.Raad1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vanessa Antoine have you ever heard about Onlineshop !

    • @jeannedarccyuzuzo6289
      @jeannedarccyuzuzo6289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Vanessa Antoine go to ig and look for Backyardshoez

    • @jeannedarccyuzuzo6289
      @jeannedarccyuzuzo6289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Vanessa Antoine go to ig and look for Backyardshoez

    • @vanessaantoine4264
      @vanessaantoine4264 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Max Kurd no I haven't

  • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
    @GetTheGrandFunkOut 7 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Games don't work all the time. Get close enough to the man in passing to smilingly compliment him on his shoes, and when he smiles "Thanks!" in turn, go on about your business. If the man you have surprised with your notice of his good taste is interested, he'll be looking for you on the next train.

    • @Sisterlisk
      @Sisterlisk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      A compliment is a good idea if you're trying to get a guy to approach. He has to know you're interested. A compliment to an opposite sex stranger on a train...definite sign of interest in my book.

    • @1Chasg
      @1Chasg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As a guy yes this would 100% work and get his attention.

    • @frankdeboer780
      @frankdeboer780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow. You should doing the show. Really. Great advice

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That sounds right. I complemented a man on his hoodie, in front of his friends, because I really liked it. I went on about my business. I looked back and he was staring at me like his mind was blown LOL.

    • @GetTheGrandFunkOut
      @GetTheGrandFunkOut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tjaspire Alright!

  • @justicewarrior9187
    @justicewarrior9187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Girls please be more obvious!!!
    We men have no clue about your intentions!

  • @Yincvns
    @Yincvns 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    *yOU cAn'T StaRE AT hIm!*

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Next time you come on the show you're gonna have him with you". Can't wait to see that. 😄

  • @Just.Ashley.S
    @Just.Ashley.S 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I feel her. I have RBF too. The problem is we drop ALL emotion out of our face when most people don’t. The key is to express slight emotion in your face when you’re around someone you like. Can’t do it all the time like most people do subconsciously. We just have to put the extra effort in to be aware of it around those people. It gets tiring answering the same “what’s wrong” question everyday from even friends if I relax my face completely for 2 seconds 😑.

    • @mwilkins1644
      @mwilkins1644 ปีที่แล้ว

      Us men have 'resting axe murderer face' 😂

  • @Dreamweaver777
    @Dreamweaver777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Steve's expressions are priceless. lol

  • @sammiller9855
    @sammiller9855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Three is no harm in just starting up a casual conversation with the dude. Don't turn it to some cat-and-mouse game.

  • @SammySam316
    @SammySam316 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love the lady's outfit.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    His staring face had me hollering!!!!!!!!🗣🗣🗣😭😭😂😂😂😂💀

  • @witting_gull1816
    @witting_gull1816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Imagine she comes to the show again and says he ran..... or something like that xD

  • @iMolikaMenThlang
    @iMolikaMenThlang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Not unless he's married pahahahaha ain't having him on the show without his wife! Dead!

  • @Chrissy-yi5em
    @Chrissy-yi5em 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Steve should never give advice on what the opposite sex should do and how to do it.
    There’s nothing wrong with a girl approaching a guy. How else will you get to know him if he’s not the type to approach. Don’t regret doing what you should have done. You could miss out on a lot of opportunities in life.

    • @georgec8210
      @georgec8210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He only caters to women cause they buy his book. He got divorced 3 times he is the last person who should give any advice.

    • @empressoliver3341
      @empressoliver3341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Steve knows exactly what he talking about. I'm a relationship expert.
      Men are natural hunters. Maybe a lil smile to look approachable but allow him come to you.
      Wait to be approached.
      90 percent of the times women who approach men first, are seen as desperate and watch those kinda relationships, the women loves the man more than the man does her.

  • @SuperMustseetv
    @SuperMustseetv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Love Steve Harvey.....great guy!!

  • @yasmeenalrumaidh339
    @yasmeenalrumaidh339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When the crowds went awwwww, so cute 😂❤️

  • @michellec6034
    @michellec6034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She’s so adorably nervous. I can’t. Steve as a girl- hilarious. Heh heh

  • @candicemiller1018
    @candicemiller1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow No wonder why Lori got all that game 😩 I wish I had a dad like Steve 😢

  • @kandycanesunshine9403
    @kandycanesunshine9403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Damn I want a follow up. I think that when Steve help people they should send a follow up video to the studio

  • @itsme4355
    @itsme4355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Why all these indirect ways?! Just talk each others. So simple.

    • @naria2224
      @naria2224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's Me Well because not everyone is an extrovert. These kind of things are helpful for people that tend to be shy . It’s not quite as easy as you seem to think. Most likely you are an extrovert. Oh well, not a big deal .

  • @luphelelemavuso9882
    @luphelelemavuso9882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve is such a dad😊

  • @KayLovesXOXO
    @KayLovesXOXO 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loveeeee her shoes😍

  • @bigkeith1022
    @bigkeith1022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Here's some advice ladies. Wave, say hello, take initiative sometimes. Especially in today's environment. Women come off as unapproachable because of all these cases of women complaining about mens advances. Thats in my experience, not to offend anyone

  • @ardentdfender4116
    @ardentdfender4116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A good smile and eye contact goes a long way.

  • @icefleura8168
    @icefleura8168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awwww she is beautiful.

  • @faithfulseeker533
    @faithfulseeker533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love when Steve learns something new. Lmaoo.

  • @rakhichowdhury6051
    @rakhichowdhury6051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wonder if she was successful with getting the man approach her !! 🤔

  • @angievalful
    @angievalful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG this was so hilarious but so helpful🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @7Tiffany
    @7Tiffany 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Her shoes! 😍

  • @man_on_wheelz
    @man_on_wheelz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Steve is so right, I never know if a woman is smiling because she's just friendly in a southern kinda way or smiling because she's into me. Doing something a little over the top and kinda corny like cover her smile would totally make me consider approaching her.

  • @xenabbclassy
    @xenabbclassy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂 uncle Steve is the most hilarious 🤣

  • @neda5052
    @neda5052 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "But he's so pretty..." 😂😂

  • @eyejusskant
    @eyejusskant 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    YESSSSS for her outfit!!!!

  • @cali9073
    @cali9073 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    her *eyes* though, beautiful

  • @erich1037
    @erich1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    His long pauses are funny he always looks shocked lol

  • @hyacinthp4882
    @hyacinthp4882 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    resting b. face i am dying...i love her

  • @michellerichardson3090
    @michellerichardson3090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man just give a slight nod and smile.

  • @rostallar4243
    @rostallar4243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God I love Steve, bloody brilliant!

  • @rohitjoshi7150
    @rohitjoshi7150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve's face though 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @d.2110
    @d.2110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want the sequel!!!

  • @658Chrissy
    @658Chrissy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just smile and say hello. Simple. Don't act like you are laughing at the guy.

  • @saartiaipinge7347
    @saartiaipinge7347 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely absolutely yes Steve. I 100% agree with you that a smile bring people closer and that's me. I smile to everyone that I get in eye contacts with. But i think it can also be confusing guys, as they might think that you like them more. So a smile should be controlled anyways.

  • @mollysherman236
    @mollysherman236 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve Harvey you got it going on...awsome..keep up awsome advice.

  • @chandler5982
    @chandler5982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She’s a real sweetheart 😂

  • @vianviannn5592
    @vianviannn5592 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve is amazing

  • @onlyhadiyaaaxo
    @onlyhadiyaaaxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yo HER SHOESSSSS 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @renefranciscocarballocalde2244
    @renefranciscocarballocalde2244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is so cute i love her personality

  • @edwhitson9873
    @edwhitson9873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She totally nailed" the move "

  • @f_r_e_d
    @f_r_e_d 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No hand on the mouth, just smile. Def no rbf, I see this all the time in nyc trains, I just keep it moving. I met an approachable girl once on the train and she eventually became my lover. Unfortunately she was moving out of the city and in 4 months she vanished from my life. I still love her and will never forget our time together.

  • @gailknight5953
    @gailknight5953 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    BABY GIRL , SMILE N SAY HELLO.

  • @jernellelouis3432
    @jernellelouis3432 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol Steve is hilarious

  • @rocknroller77
    @rocknroller77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "You cant stare at the man." 😄

  • @mirimu9300
    @mirimu9300 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww that was so sweet

  • @nonameenimsaj5251
    @nonameenimsaj5251 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her SHOES 😍😍😍

  • @tasneembakhit
    @tasneembakhit 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    wallahi Steve is so loved

  • @SYREN_AmusementMedia
    @SYREN_AmusementMedia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Trying so hard not to laugh in class

    • @SammySam316
      @SammySam316 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In class? LOL

    • @marki4034
      @marki4034 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      INSANETORIUM c

  • @ellejankov8967
    @ellejankov8967 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice!

  • @libraalovee2437
    @libraalovee2437 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That moment when you get that "Come here" & yr feet start to magically move and you have nothing else to say priceless

  • @strawberriesncandii
    @strawberriesncandii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She seems like a sweet person and I love her shoes.

  • @Hollins23
    @Hollins23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    0:51 Steve's face!!! 😂

  • @arseneremy
    @arseneremy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vulnerability and joy will attract anything you want in life ladies.

  • @muhammadnurfarhanmohdzalaz4546
    @muhammadnurfarhanmohdzalaz4546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    steve face dohhhh

  • @ritaakalele4801
    @ritaakalele4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    effing love steve 😆😆😆😆

  • @RemiAdam
    @RemiAdam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's adorable

  • @ravenh3369
    @ravenh3369 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have those same heals 💜

  • @EdLife11
    @EdLife11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I think the guy is already in a relationship so he's not after a lady..

  • @jaydinkaawa35
    @jaydinkaawa35 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hi Steve!!!

  • @beprominent7860
    @beprominent7860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Turns out he watches Steves show and sees this so when she does it he understands and makes his move 😂😂

  • @althearenee7817
    @althearenee7817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need a follow-up to this segment @steveharvey

  • @MYTechFiX
    @MYTechFiX 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    steve really good teacher lol

  • @TheLoveKing
    @TheLoveKing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its gotten to the point where I just see Steve Harvey in the title and I leave a like. Im a simple kind of guy.

  • @caseycreations585
    @caseycreations585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's not a hunter... She's a gatherer 😂😂😂

    • @justtimm1255
      @justtimm1255 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The lioness hunt. Women you can take the initiative just don't be aggressive do it with class. I once thought like Steve I'm 57 but i realize nothing stays the same.

  • @casual720
    @casual720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s stunning!

  • @moperson1
    @moperson1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cute and cute, he is

  • @ibraheemelansari7793
    @ibraheemelansari7793 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That man is the king of resolve

  • @rosemelie
    @rosemelie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We need a follow -up!

  • @jaksdailyworkout2969
    @jaksdailyworkout2969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is real practicals

  • @kcwonder
    @kcwonder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The thumbnail for this video is priceless

  • @joslynbynum4687
    @joslynbynum4687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her shoes are so cute 😍😍

  • @courtney9213
    @courtney9213 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m dying laughing 🤣

  • @PaytonandMommytime
    @PaytonandMommytime 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hilarious...so cute🤗🤗🤗

  • @fleetingreese7642
    @fleetingreese7642 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh yeah great advice too.

  • @kimlec3592
    @kimlec3592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He gots to say summin to you now🤣😂🤣