Thank you for this my house is the same if not worse im trying to cope with the loss of my 11year old grandson so I've just let everything go it's so bad now I don't know where to start I get so overwhelmed
I normally don’t watch clean with me videos because most of them are fake af lol their houses aren’t dirty haha. You are so real and watching you makes me feel happy. I love your videos. Keep it up girl. Remember to just take each day at a time. Nothing is worth getting stressed out about because we will all be okay in the end. If anyone is reading this know you got this and you can get through anything you’re going thru. Just breathe. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Ikr! Seeing posted videos like "OMG My Extremely Messy House/Clean With Me" click to watch n then only to see someone cleaning a spotless Mcmansion. That ishh has me like 😒...Seriously ppl!?! There's no realness to it.
Girl when I became a mom I realized how short days really are, my mom always tells me “you will never fully finish cleaning, & that just shows you and your family live in your home” much love to you 💕 I’m sorry about your dad, 🌹
People are so judgemental. Things do literally just happen. I swear I swept twice yesterday in the kitchen and it needs it again! You've got this girl! #motivation
I hope that through this very real process of watching me do this that you realize you can make the change too and begin to change your home and your life with me. I will never be the perfect cleaner (although I love it when I'm in my zone) I just have my ways and my flaws about being a home maker but I hope every week I inspire you guys to get it done and help another mother see she is not a bad person or a crappy wife/mother for having a messy house. Things happen, life happens, and sometimes we just need time and to work on it and work on ourselves. All of this is very long and mushy but it's important to me that those of you watching just like me be more than motivated and use the inspo to change too. I can't thank you all enough for being so encouraging and kind through this and my growth and backing me up through all the negativity directed towards me in the comments on these original videos! I didn't have a circle of friends or family to share this with, or ppl to call for help, I shared it with you and I responded back to your opinions and suggestions. YOU really are my tribe and I'm lucky to have you!! 💕
Just found your channel last night and I love it 🥰 you’re REAL and relatable. I also struggle with depression and this has given me tons of motivation. Girl forgot them haters and just know you are making a difference in a lot of people’s lives. Keep it up love 💕 also I’m sorry to hear about your Dad. That definitely takes a toll on you but your doing great!
Thank you for your honesty and transparancy! I am watching this while I declutter and organize my garage and other spaces that I have neglected due to post-divorce stress and depression. It is very inspiring. Thank you ❤
I love your cleaning channel and I went into deep depression last July when I lost my father.. But God is helping me get through it..so stay strong and God bless you and your family..🙏👍
I can't even clean 1 messy room in a day lol it takes me at least 3 days to declutter, organize, and sanitize a room so that it only takes an hour or so every week to keep up
I really appreciate you being transparent because ive definitely been struggling to get motivated to tackle my own room. It seems like an impossible task watching all the other "cleaning" vids on TH-cam where no one really has to handle quite as must mess as I have. So watching a legit vid where someone is tackling a similar load is encouraging. ❤️❤️
I hate that people comment negativity! Your home is your home and you are putting yourself out there. REAL LIFE RIGHT HERE! 💜🙏💜 so sorry for your loss!
I'm so glad that I came across your video today and listened to your intro. I am going through a very tough time at the moment having recently lost both my parents just weeks apart and I'm struggling to just get out of bed every day and my house feels like it's caving in on me. But having listened to you and watched your video it's made me feel like I can get things back on track at least in my home. Thank you so much xx
I'm glad you heard the message. It won't be an overnight thing but having control in the house can help us deal with controlling everything else mentally. Frees up space so we an think and ponder and work through our stress and pain. I'm so sorry to hear what happened. Just know your not the only one and everyone changes after and everyone takes their own time but we can still push on. ♥️
Gurl when I tell you I felt like you were walking through my house! You did THAT gurl!!! Thank you so much for the inspiration! Now let me go clean something! Lol
Go easy on yourself mama! I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad, but it sounds like you have a really great outlook on your health, which is far more important than a perfect home. ❤️
Thank you sooooo much for putting the names of the songs!! I added them to my cleaning playlist ✨ I also want to say I'm super proud of you and your husband! I think it's so great we see him in your videos, not alot of women have their help or show them in their videos. Keep up the great work you are my inspiration💗✨
Thank you for opening up! Taking care of your house can be a really daunting task, especially because so much living happens and it feels like no matter what you do, it's always messy again at the end of the day. You're doing great, and your videos are always so motivating!
Thank you! 💕 It is never ending and I hate when we have to put such a priority on it that we go nuts. I just keep telling myself as the kids get older it will get better.lol
Loved this video! Thank you for the true motivation. It’s so nice to see imperfections, because no one is perfect 🥰 I feel so overwhelmed when the house gets to a certain point. This was so helpful ❤️
I'm so impressed by how well you cleaned and de-cluttered your home. It must have felt so satisfying to have things back in order and less stuff to deal with! My condolences for the loss of your father, that must have been incredibly hard to cope with. Thank you for your inspiring video, it helped me get back into reducing my stuff and being more organized! Best wishes to you and your family :)
You are amazing! You don't have to give us any explanation! I am the same way I'll spot clean but then everything becomes so overwhelming in a few days. You're lucky to have your husband to help. Blessings! Thank you for your videos.
I love your honesty! I totally get the depression after a parent dies! Keep strong sistren and thank you for letting us take this amazing journey with you💟
Girl I am full on behind you. My house is a damn mess and im watching this as actual motivation to start day 2 of hard-core cleaning. Keep doing you girl, you are amazing! 💜
I dont usually even comment on TH-cam videos, but girl....THIS WAS LIFE CHANGING. I am a single mom of 2 and suffer from spouts of depression. My house was getting to the point where it was just hard to go through our day to day tasks. This video was so real and uplifting. I've seen other videos that dont seem real at all and are in fact discouraging. Thank you for sharing you're journey in such a real way. I'm tackling my mess now one room at a time. Us Mommas appreciate you. 💖
Thank you. And I appreciate you watching. the video is packed full of cleaning motivation but I really love when people who need to hear the message here it so I really hope that you take the time to get everything cleaned up and really know what's going on in your space. it won't stay perfect my house gets trash regularly but it's been so much better now that it's decluttered and we got rid of what we didn't need. Gives you a lot more space to think mentally. 💕💕
I hear ya on the cleaning. I work full time and then take care of the kids and the house gets so messy but am so drained. Took me two days just to clean my room my daughters room and bathroom and get the laundry done it's so much.
I'm glad to see this, I always thought you had way too much stuff! I'm from England and our houses are generally a lot smaller than american ones, so we don't hoard anything, we just don't have the space. I had a rule with my kids that for every toy that came in, 2 had to go out. Also, no more than 3 stuffed toys. It was harsh in a way but everything they chose to keep they actually played with.
Leo InAMillion I’ve watched a lot of How Clean is Your House (England) and Hoarders.. doesn’t matter the size! It’s a problem all over the first world. We have our hands full, eh? Trying to keep it all in check.
Let me just say..Thank you! For sharing your thoughts, your family, and home. Regardless of what things have been said you have came a long way. And I see that through your videos. I battle with major depression so to not be able to clean or do to much of nothing is soooo hard. Struggle is off the chain real..So thank so much for this video..😁Keep it up girl..
YES!!!! Its the tiny little bits of toys that build up and clutter all over the floor that makes our house messy. And they are like landmines when walking in the dark... ouch!!! Love it babe ❤ keep up the great work 😘
I thought I was the only mom!!!!! OMG my husband and I have 5 kids and ahhhhh this just shows that yes it can get out of hand. We're really young couple 27 and living with alot if stuff you don't need can't drive you crazy. Getting that drive to just throw it away feels so good. It's proven that it can boost ur mood! I'm a stay at home mom and suffer from postpartum Depression and there are days I shut down and can't get up. I would put off editing a video to buy you can do it
My house was the same way and I don’t even have small children. My boys are 26 and 20. I was in a funk and had NO motivation to do anything. After watching your videos (and a few other channels) I deep cleaned my whole house and decluttered and got rid of sooooo much stuff. It feels amazing to have it done. Thank you for the videos and you do an amazing job!
Thank you so much! Its amazing what a community can do for one another. I got I inspired last hear and started getting myself back together too. Glad you feel better, I know how good it feels.
I love your videos. You show that you are normal. Not all homes are perfect and life happens. As a mom of 6, this happens all the time for me. Its hard to keep everything in order all the time. Our homes are perfect in our own way and we dont have to fit in a certain mold. Thank you for being you!
Its amazing how a mom like you is able to clean ur house like that..im 17 years old teenage that doesnt even have enough energy to clean my tiny little room 🙂
I love the transformation of your girls room. 😍 My habits have gotten so much better over the past few months when it comes to decluttering and organizing. It can be so hard to find that motivation, but your videos are so inspirational. Thanks for all you do! 😊💕
I subscribed to your channel during your decluttering journey and have been nothing but impressed with how you have tackled every part of your home. I loved this video 'cause you are so motivating AND you get work done! I am sorry about the loss of your dad. Totally understandable that you were grieving! No explanations needed. Keep producing great videos. I am here for EVERY ONE!
I haven’t met anyone who has a house like me till now! I really do work on it everyday but just can’t keep up. I have 4 kids. One of them is autistic and that makes things stressful. I don’t need to impress anyone , neither do you, but it is nice to have things be clear enough to be useable. To me, someone shaming someone else who is clearly making steps in the right direction is like laughing at an overweight person working out in the gym. This should give us joy and cause for great celebration. Your inner character of wanting to encourage others who are struggling far surpasses even the results of your work.
First off...I’m so sorry for your loss. I suffer from depression & anxiety and it always shows in the state of my home. I just shut down, then get so overwhelmed I don’t even know where to start...so I do nothing and it gets worse & worse. This video is so inspiring, motivating & encouraging. I appreciate you being honest & showing people like myself that there is hope. With a lot of hard work we can press on and make things better. Your house looks amazing!! This has helped inspire me to work hard & create a better environment for all of us to enjoy. We got this!! Thank you, thank you, thank you...xoxo♥️
Thank you , Yes that's what it all about! We can fall but we have to get back up! Happy to hear it helped you get in gear. I wish you the best of luck with everything. Take it one room at a time 🙌🏽💕🏠
Loving this long video and the PLAYLIST! 🙌🏻 I forgot I wasn’t listening to my own cleaning playlist.. 😂 Take each day one at a time, and you’re improving your life with each step, don’t let anyone devalue your progress! You’re so real, and so refreshing. Will definitely keep watching your videos! 😊❤️
You go girl!!! Never let negative people knock you down!!! It kills me when people share to inspire yet turned into negativity!!! Thank you for sharing!! Always remember misery loves company.. unhappy people will always try to spread their poison!! Sorry to hear about your father.. praying the Lord gives you comfort!! Great job everything looks beautiful!
I appreciate this video. It takes courage to reveal your not so sparkling home, but that's real life! I'd rather see a video like this than the ones in homes with perfectly matched decor and they go around cleaning everything that already looks impeccably clean. 👏
Really enjoy seeing real home's. You never need to explain yourself to those heartless people, I have chronic fatigue syndrome and depression plus back and joint pain so my house is like a tornado went through it, and my husband isn't here to help anymore. Those who have time to do a face full of makeup then clean clean just don't keep me coming back for more, I'm happy that they can do it don't get me wrong, but life isn't always a bed of roses is it. Keep up your great work ❤🇬🇧
I would give this video 1000 likes if I could. You have no idea how many people you have encouraged today with this video. Makes me want to stand up and cheer!
There are times My house gets so bad. I have multiple sclerosis. I deal with all kinds of crap especially extreme fatigue. Along with a ton of curve balls thrown my way. Nobody wants to live in a mess but sometimes we need to focus on ourselves to regroup, rejuvenate, rewire, etc to get back to the light. Every video I watch of yours makes me love you even more. You are so real, you don’t mask yourself with tons of makeup like some of the other you tubers, your kids are present, obviously because like me, you don’t have much help. I sometimes question if these other bloggers are neglecting their kids to have a perfect house and to look perfect in each video. Not you. You help so many of us see we are not alone in our struggles of having seasons of sadness and lack of motivation and just getting behind on so much. Amazing transformations you have done. You are so awesome girl!
Sharing life can be hard for anyone especially when it's the not so glamerous sides so I'm glad you can see the good and positivity I want to share with you guys from my craziness. I'm going to be screen shotting this comment for when my days are tough because not that I wanna feel amazing about myself but to really remember it's ok to keep being me. 💕 thank you so much fo this. 🙌🏽🤗
I'm really sorry you are dealing with your illness aswell. I know it has to be challenging, my step dad's daughters had that and it was sudden for her and I know it's not easy. Stay strong!
I remember shutting down as well when my dad died in Feb '17. I beat myself up so much for how bad I let my household get, but sometimes you just have to let yourself go through it🤷♀️ thanks for getting real with us, takes a lot to reveal your vulnerability especially in this genre of TH-cam lol glad you're starting to feel better tho! 😍💪
Definitely understand that 🤷🏽♀️ and yup we all have to get through it with time. I'm definitely feeling a lot better these days. I have my moments but I can live again.
I remember how awesome it felt to come out of that slump! Like the first time a song made me feel anything other than sad, or the first time I laughed so hard I cried happy tears. Death takes more from us than just our loved ones unfortunately, but it feels so freaking good to come out the other side! Happy for ya girl!
I hope you know how much your videos can help people. I watch them so often and they give me so much motivation that I wouldn’t have without your help. I’m currently losing my father to early onset dementia and I have been in such a deep depression for a few months now. Your videos are like a light to me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting these videos.❤️
Thank you Kait. I hope you know your not alone. Remember to take one day at a time. Give yourself grace it's ok to be upset. Sending love and prayers to you and your family. 💓🙏🏽
This video was so motivational for me. I’ve been going through a rough stage in my life as a newly single mom and I’ve trying to find a way to find the motivation to get my home in order again! Thanks for posting!
THANK YOU THANK YOU !!!! Thank you for actually having a normal house ! Thank you for being brave enough to actually post a normal house and how you clean it up ! You are one of my absolute faves because you are freaking normal !!! I just can't handle any of the cleaning channels anymore that I used to watch where their homes were already clean lol and they just like threw a blanket on the floor etc hahahaha ! I just can't handle it, I need something to motivate me and make me feel like im not the only mo in the world who doesnt have a perfect clean house !! It was funny I had an old cleaning playlist going on the big tv in the living room while I was folding laundry the other day and while I was putting clothes away in my room ~ my 18 year old son walked in and said to me ~ "mom, ive just seen the craziest thing ive ever seen in my life ~ there is actually a youtube video of someone cleaning an already clean house ! like how crazy is that mom ?? do people actually watch that ? i just kept getting sucked in watching it because it was so ridiculous! maybe thats how they get people to watch.. you get sucked in and cant stop because its so ridiculous !!! " my two teen daughters were in my room drawing etc and we all busted out laughing because we make fun of those videos all the time and the fact that Dylan was standing there watching it for like five minutes straight because he was just sucked in hahahaha ! We loved it ! So thank you for being normal! Thank you for not worrying about whether your home is already perfect and you throw a blanket down and say oh no! my house is TRASHED! lol. Me and the girls ~ and prob dylan now too hahaha love your channel !
Thank you so much for your video!! My house literally looks the same as yours did and you have inspired me to get my house under control. Thank you and we are all only human!! Keep inspiring REAL people!
I really understand with the passing of your father … I am so sorry for your loss... My grandpa raised me and he past away Feb 5th so I am starting today to clean my house up after not doing much after his passing. Bless you sweetie. Happy I found this video!!
I wanted to watch some cleaning videos for motivation and I remembered a video by you, and thought that was really cleaning, but couldn't remember your name, and lo and behold, I pressed this one and it's YOU!! This is really decluttering and cleaning! Don't let the negative nillys Gerry to you; you are real and we appreciate YOU!!
I lost my Dad last year and it's been so hard for me. I don't feel like myself sometimes. I break down and cry especially in my car when I'm alone because I don't want my kids to see me.Thank you for your video's I love them you give me inspiration and motivate me.
Definitely. I still do. It used to be way worse though. That's how I manage the days fine now but the weird things are the random moments they come to mind or a scent or a memory strikes and you can't control yourself. Don't feel about it. It's a natural thing to grieve so let it out, think about it and get about the day. That's helped me tremendously to just work through it. 💕 Hang in there!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad last year and did the same...any quiet time I cried. I watch the videos to keep pushing for my kids, we are not alone.
I hope you can and do let your kids see you cry some. You will teach them about resiliency. That it is okay to cry, and yet still get through those moments and be okay. While is isn't their job, they can help you, too with hugs and love. 💜💜💜
The happy dance you did after the basement floor was visible.....I felt that sis! This is a video I keep coming back to....it literally helps me relax You're awesome!
Absolutely love your channel!! Adore how you put all the videos together and I can SEE a huge transformation!! You rock girl my hat goes off to you! Sending hugs your way for the loss of your father! A lot of people will never understand depression and how it affects your life! Again you rock keep up the awesome work!! ✌🏽
Thank you for being open to us and sharing. I totally feel you I'm a stay at home and just don't feel like doing anything sometimes. Busy busy busy. Everyday. You had me in tears talking about your daddy. I took care of my dad his last few months. Thank God for my husband for being so understanding and helping. Thanks for the inspiration. Sending love n prayers.
Thank you. It gets hard some days. I was the same with my husband. I don't know what I would have done through that time without him. It was very challenging to get through.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my mom, brother and mother in law within a six month period, so I can relate to depression and grief. Thanks for being honest, real and transparent. I am a newbie to your channel. Loved your video.
I instantly subbed to you after hearing your beautiful testimony about your life struggles. Girl, i am feeling you in this and you described what stopped you from caring so eloquently and real. ❤
Thank you. I am currently going through my home too. I lost my mom last year and had to clean out her home. Acquired to much. I also got custody of my two grandsons at same time. I had to empty our second bedroom to make it theirs. In doing so my home got overwhelmed and so did I. Couple weeks ago I got a surprise visit from someone and was ashamed. My home is usually extremely clean so they were surprised and shocked. Reality hit me and so i have been decluttering and cleaning for week now. Your video was exactly what I needed.
You've earned a new subscriber because I love the backstory of your journey! I can truly relate to the aspects of the curve balls life throw at us and how we use those same balls to play the game coming out as overcomers! 💪 Thanks for sharing, stay strong and being inspirational! 💝 The whole family being supportive and helping shows the unity of love 😘
Girl no judgement life gets crazy! I don’t have motivation a lot of the time and have to push myself to clean but you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone keep up the great work momma!❤️
Thank you for showing your ‘human’ side. I find it HIGHLY annoying when TH-camr’s portray nothing but perfection. I have been depressed due to my mom’s death and am slowly coming out of it. This compilation shows those of us in similar situations that we can get back into our normal routines by taking it one step at a time and that we haven’t failed if it all isn’t done in one day. Keep up the great work. You are an inspiration!!
I have been watching cleaning motivational videos for about a week now and yours and my crazy life are my favs, so, I subscribed to you guys. Thank you for your HONEST inspiration and motivation.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for being "real" and honest. Seeing your home was like looking at mine. We have 10 in our home, 7 under 16. I sit here and just can't get motivated, I'm just overwhelmed and just wonder how it got to this point. You have inspired and motivated me. My declutter and cleaning will be a slower process but at least I will start it. Thank you for putting yourself, family and home out there. The feeling of accomplishment must be amazing, I want that feeling again! U go girl!!!!!!
I absolutely love your cleaning videos! They are so realistic and I can relate so much! I have a one year old daughter and she makes the mess of 10 kids, love this!!! Really inspiring to declutter xx
Thank you!! Finally a real person! I love your vibe and your honesty and I love how it just feels like a work in progress. All of life is a process and thank you for sharing part of yours with us! So encouraging! And what is it with little girls and all the pieces and parts?? Mine used to make the biggest messes when they were younger! So give yourself some grace😁 I just loved all the strides you have made in your home and you should be very proud of your hard work. ❤️I’m now a subscriber!!
thank you for your courage and for sharing this. We all go through stages of depression so I'm so glad that you've been able to come out of it feeling better now. (Rev. 21:3,4)
Thank you so much for that little message when you were talking about your dad passing away. Im sorry for your loss. I've been battling multiple health issues that just aren't getting better. But after hearing that I've decided to pick up the pieces and start my new routine too. ❤❤❤❤❤
You are such an inspiration. Love your messages of motivation, your channel and family. Thank you for sharing it with us. Love all the way from Cape Town - South Africa 💜
The fact that you felt like you needed to explain yourself makes me so sad! People need to realize that people are human and depression is a real thing! My house gets just like your house and girl I get it. I also shut down and put things off as well. You are so strong and you got this! I love your cleaning videos and I watch them every time I feel like trying to clean my house! ❤️ keep up the great work mama!
I'm so sorry about everyone who is mean to you about all this. You have done amazing!!! Life happens to everyone, houses end up in chaos sometime, but they can always be cleaned and taken care off. Then you get to enjoy the feeling of accomplishment. Well done for all your hard work.
You did such an amazing job! When we moved from Arizona to Oklahoma about 3 years ago, I went through everything, I got rid of at least 1/3 if not more of the stuff we owned because it was just useless clutter we didnt need. Have a great day💕
I really love your video ! I’m a house cleaner in New Jersey and believe me you’re house is very normal house .We all have busy life and sometimes we don’t have time for our most simple things so keep going you doing a amazing job 😊
This past November, I loss my mother and I completely understand not doing stuff and/or choosing certain things to just let go at the moment. I don't have children, but college keeps me busy. In addition I haven't officially started cleaning and organizing her stuff yet. By the end of the year, I have goals for my sister and I to go through her stuff. Even my dad wants to declutter and clean up. I definitely can relate and sympathize with you💜.
Sorry to hear. I would definitely give your selves time to do it all. Set aside an hour or 3 at a time so everyone can go through stuff instead of all at once. Makes it difficult to decide right away with all the emotions. Stay strong and take your time! 💕
Thank you for sharing an actual real life video of a real home and the challenges. I am a single mum to 4 kids, it's hard. You have made me feel normal xxx
I had to stop and pause. I am sorry that anyone left nasty comments. They obviously have never had traumatic circumstances. We shouldn’t judge each other- we should pick each other up and adjust each other’s crowns without telling anyone. So far I have loved watching- you are doing a fabulous job! Keep it up! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
GIRL! You know how happy I am you posted this long video?!? I've been wanting a long one for awhileeeeeeeeee!!! And I'm SO picky with who I watch, so I'm even more happy that it was YOU that posted it!!
Thank you this was a compliation of all the major decluttering I've did in our house this year. Since doing all these declutters the house is a lot easier to clean
You have done an amazing job of sorting your home, and inspired many to sort their own, including me! Sorry to hear the loss of your dad, I got really bad depression when I lost my dad so I know where you are coming from... Well done to you for getting through it and doing all this work. You are very strong 😘❤️
Really love this video. I’m struggling with depression being a stay at home mum but this has motivated me to get up and clean up my messy house that has been piling up for weeks. Thank you x
Yeees!! Take your time and get it cleaned up. Crank up your music and power through because having control of our mess can be a help for dealing with what we have going on. Feel better. 💕
My children are all grown and just as they were all leaving I felt I needed to apologies to them for not being that perfect little housekeeper... I felt it was easy for me to say that our house should me this way because we are living in the moment and we have kids, now it's just me and my husband.. so i'm loving the realness and truth behind the way your house looks because you have the realness and truth to post it for all to see!! also it's awesome to see your husband working just as hard getting involved. Great Job!! looking forward to seeing more.
I don't think you need to justify yourself to anyone no matter what. You are a mother and your first priority is your family, if housework laxes you are still a great mom. I'm single and childless and my house still became a mess. No one knows someone else's struggle. Love this video.
Thanks for keeping it real. It really upsets me when people think, oh SAHM, she shouldn’t have a dirty house. Well, hello, the reason we are home is usually to stay at home with our kids. Life happens. When they are infants, the clutter is ours. We pick up and stuff looks tidy. The kids grow and accumulate clothes, shoes, toys. They go to school and bring home art and paper galore. We try to keep up but in between the cooking and getting the common areas picked up, you have no time to declutter and weed thru the stuff. It really does take a new system to dealing with all the stuff. Let me tell you I love that your husband is helping because it really does take everyone helping and adopting the new systems to keeping a tidy home. It makes it harder to keep organized if we have to pick up after the family and try to clean, organize and declutter. Bravo! I love the transformation. And girl, doesn’t it feel good!
Your video was suggested after I binge watched Amanda’s this crazy life. 💕 I’m so happy to have found your channel! Thank you for being so real and motivating!
Remember, perfectionism is not the goal. It, like many things, can become an addiction/disease that can crimple you from having a normal life. It's about balance! My coping mechanism is food. My house is impeccable, but I gained so much weight! I like watching these types of vids because I actually like cleaning, lol! I, like you, am coming out of it (I lost my mom, ovarian cancer) and finally feeling a little bit more like myself again. Great job ... I think being a mom is one of the toughest jobs in the world. LOL, I'm "mom" to 3 dogs ... and even they are a handful! I'm just grateful they don't complain, talk back, or ask for things!
I totally can relate to shutting down. My dad died last year too and it has been super hard on me. I hope you got a chance to grieve. I love your channel so much...you are so real!
Thank you. Sorry for your loss, hope your doing ok. It is very hard at times but it's been a couple years now for me and I have my moments but I can manage my days now.
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Thank you for this my house is the same if not worse im trying to cope with the loss of my 11year old grandson so I've just let everything go it's so bad now I don't know where to start I get so overwhelmed
I normally don’t watch clean with me videos because most of them are fake af lol their houses aren’t dirty haha. You are so real and watching you makes me feel happy. I love your videos. Keep it up girl. Remember to just take each day at a time. Nothing is worth getting stressed out about because we will all be okay in the end. If anyone is reading this know you got this and you can get through anything you’re going thru. Just breathe. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
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Ikr! Seeing posted videos like "OMG My Extremely Messy House/Clean With Me" click to watch n then only to see someone cleaning a spotless Mcmansion. That ishh has me like 😒...Seriously ppl!?! There's no realness to it.
I agree I love cleaning videos but it’s never actually that messy!
Superkellydoll it doesn't feel like it at the moment, my husband has stage 4 stomach cancer and I've just reported my childhood sexual abuser
a lot of times the camera makes things seem cleaner than they really are, especially if the camera is set to be brighter.
Girl when I became a mom I realized how short days really are, my mom always tells me “you will never fully finish cleaning, & that just shows you and your family live in your home” much love to you 💕 I’m sorry about your dad, 🌹
Thank you. It's true the whole house is never clean at once. 😣
People are so judgemental. Things do literally just happen. I swear I swept twice yesterday in the kitchen and it needs it again! You've got this girl! #motivation
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I hope that through this very real process of watching me do this that you realize you can make the change too and begin to change your home and your life with me. I will never be the perfect cleaner (although I love it when I'm in my zone) I just have my ways and my flaws about being a home maker but I hope every week I inspire you guys to get it done and help another mother see she is not a bad person or a crappy wife/mother for having a messy house. Things happen, life happens, and sometimes we just need time and to work on it and work on ourselves. All of this is very long and mushy but it's important to me that those of you watching just like me be more than motivated and use the inspo to change too.
I can't thank you all enough for being so encouraging and kind through this and my growth and backing me up through all the negativity directed towards me in the comments on these original videos! I didn't have a circle of friends or family to share this with, or ppl to call for help, I shared it with you and I responded back to your opinions and suggestions.
YOU really are my tribe and I'm lucky to have you!! 💕
I love all of your video's.
Don't let the haters get to you
There will always be few haters but there are a lot of supporters.
Watching from Africa Kenya hope one day you will bless me with the one you are not using thanks love you
Hey! Bless you with what that I don't use?
Just found your channel last night and I love it 🥰 you’re REAL and relatable. I also struggle with depression and this has given me tons of motivation. Girl forgot them haters and just know you are making a difference in a lot of people’s lives. Keep it up love 💕 also I’m sorry to hear about your Dad. That definitely takes a toll on you but your doing great!
Welcome! Love when ppl get the message and take some action for themselves too! 💕 Thanks for watching.
Thank you for your honesty and transparancy! I am watching this while I declutter and organize my garage and other spaces that I have neglected due to post-divorce stress and depression. It is very inspiring. Thank you ❤
I love your cleaning channel and I went into deep depression last July when I lost my father.. But God is helping me get through it..so stay strong and God bless you and your family..🙏👍
Thank you so much! I'm Sorry for your loss, I know exactly how that is. Bless your family too, . ❤️
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I am so sorry for your loss,god bless you and your father,i with promise you this,you will get past your father eventually
The girl's bedroom transformation from beginning to end was amazing! And the layout of your bedroom too!
Thank you!
I can't even clean 1 messy room in a day lol it takes me at least 3 days to declutter, organize, and sanitize a room so that it only takes an hour or so every week to keep up
I really appreciate you being transparent because ive definitely been struggling to get motivated to tackle my own room. It seems like an impossible task watching all the other "cleaning" vids on TH-cam where no one really has to handle quite as must mess as I have. So watching a legit vid where someone is tackling a similar load is encouraging. ❤️❤️
I hate that people comment negativity! Your home is your home and you are putting yourself out there.
REAL LIFE RIGHT HERE!
💜🙏💜 so sorry for your loss!
I'm so glad that I came across your video today and listened to your intro. I am going through a very tough time at the moment having recently lost both my parents just weeks apart and I'm struggling to just get out of bed every day and my house feels like it's caving in on me. But having listened to you and watched your video it's made me feel like I can get things back on track at least in my home. Thank you so much xx
I'm glad you heard the message. It won't be an overnight thing but having control in the house can help us deal with controlling everything else mentally. Frees up space so we an think and ponder and work through our stress and pain. I'm so sorry to hear what happened. Just know your not the only one and everyone changes after and everyone takes their own time but we can still push on. ♥️
Finally, a house that really needs to be cleaned, opposed to those fake videos out there. This is real motivation for anyone whose house is messy!!!
Gurl when I tell you I felt like you were walking through my house! You did THAT gurl!!! Thank you so much for the inspiration! Now let me go clean something! Lol
Go easy on yourself mama! I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad, but it sounds like you have a really great outlook on your health, which is far more important than a perfect home. ❤️
Thank you sooooo much for putting the names of the songs!! I added them to my cleaning playlist ✨ I also want to say I'm super proud of you and your husband! I think it's so great we see him in your videos, not alot of women have their help or show them in their videos. Keep up the great work you are my inspiration💗✨
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Thank you for opening up! Taking care of your house can be a really daunting task, especially because so much living happens and it feels like no matter what you do, it's always messy again at the end of the day. You're doing great, and your videos are always so motivating!
Thank you! 💕 It is never ending and I hate when we have to put such a priority on it that we go nuts. I just keep telling myself as the kids get older it will get better.lol
Loved this video! Thank you for the true motivation. It’s so nice to see imperfections, because no one is perfect 🥰 I feel so overwhelmed when the house gets to a certain point. This was so helpful ❤️
I'm so impressed by how well you cleaned and de-cluttered your home. It must have felt so satisfying to have things back in order and less stuff to deal with! My condolences for the loss of your father, that must have been incredibly hard to cope with. Thank you for your inspiring video, it helped me get back into reducing my stuff and being more organized! Best wishes to you and your family :)
You are amazing! You don't have to give us any explanation! I am the same way I'll spot clean but then everything becomes so overwhelming in a few days. You're lucky to have your husband to help. Blessings! Thank you for your videos.
I love your honesty! I totally get the depression after a parent dies! Keep strong sistren and thank you for letting us take this amazing journey with you💟
Girl I am full on behind you. My house is a damn mess and im watching this as actual motivation to start day 2 of hard-core cleaning. Keep doing you girl, you are amazing! 💜
I dont usually even comment on TH-cam videos, but girl....THIS WAS LIFE CHANGING. I am a single mom of 2 and suffer from spouts of depression. My house was getting to the point where it was just hard to go through our day to day tasks. This video was so real and uplifting. I've seen other videos that dont seem real at all and are in fact discouraging. Thank you for sharing you're journey in such a real way. I'm tackling my mess now one room at a time. Us Mommas appreciate you. 💖
Thank you. And I appreciate you watching. the video is packed full of cleaning motivation but I really love when people who need to hear the message here it so I really hope that you take the time to get everything cleaned up and really know what's going on in your space. it won't stay perfect my house gets trash regularly but it's been so much better now that it's decluttered and we got rid of what we didn't need. Gives you a lot more space to think mentally. 💕💕
@@MomLikely Definatley! Thanks for responding! Keep up the good work!
I hear ya on the cleaning. I work full time and then take care of the kids and the house gets so messy but am so drained. Took me two days just to clean my room my daughters room and bathroom and get the laundry done it's so much.
I'm glad to see this, I always thought you had way too much stuff! I'm from England and our houses are generally a lot smaller than american ones, so we don't hoard anything, we just don't have the space. I had a rule with my kids that for every toy that came in, 2 had to go out. Also, no more than 3 stuffed toys. It was harsh in a way but everything they chose to keep they actually played with.
Leo InAMillion I’ve watched a lot of How Clean is Your House (England) and Hoarders.. doesn’t matter the size! It’s a problem all over the first world. We have our hands full, eh? Trying to keep it all in check.
Let me just say..Thank you! For sharing your thoughts, your family, and home. Regardless of what things have been said you have came a long way. And I see that through your videos. I battle with major depression so to not be able to clean or do to much of nothing is soooo hard. Struggle is off the chain real..So thank so much for this video..😁Keep it up girl..
Thank you. We can all sulk and recover but we have to get back up and conquer again too. 🙌🏽💕I know it's hard having mixed feelings all at once.
YES!!!! Its the tiny little bits of toys that build up and clutter all over the floor that makes our house messy. And they are like landmines when walking in the dark... ouch!!! Love it babe ❤ keep up the great work 😘
I was watching this late in bed and got so motivated that I got up and fixed something that needed tidying!!
I thought I was the only mom!!!!! OMG my husband and I have 5 kids and ahhhhh this just shows that yes it can get out of hand. We're really young couple 27 and living with alot if stuff you don't need can't drive you crazy. Getting that drive to just throw it away feels so good. It's proven that it can boost ur mood! I'm a stay at home mom and suffer from postpartum Depression and there are days I shut down and can't get up. I would put off editing a video to buy you can do it
My house was the same way and I don’t even have small children. My boys are 26 and 20. I was in a funk and had NO motivation to do anything. After watching your videos (and a few other channels) I deep cleaned my whole house and decluttered and got rid of sooooo much stuff. It feels amazing to have it done. Thank you for the videos and you do an amazing job!
Thank you so much! Its amazing what a community can do for one another. I got I inspired last hear and started getting myself back together too. Glad you feel better, I know how good it feels.
I love your videos. You show that you are normal. Not all homes are perfect and life happens. As a mom of 6, this happens all the time for me. Its hard to keep everything in order all the time. Our homes are perfect in our own way and we dont have to fit in a certain mold. Thank you for being you!
Its amazing how a mom like you is able to clean ur house like that..im 17 years old teenage that doesnt even have enough energy to clean my tiny little room 🙂
I love the transformation of your girls room. 😍 My habits have gotten so much better over the past few months when it comes to decluttering and organizing. It can be so hard to find that motivation, but your videos are so inspirational. Thanks for all you do! 😊💕
Thank you. I hope I can keep it in check come the next spring cleaning.
I subscribed to your channel during your decluttering journey and have been nothing but impressed with how you have tackled every part of your home. I loved this video 'cause you are so motivating AND you get work done! I am sorry about the loss of your dad. Totally understandable that you were grieving! No explanations needed. Keep producing great videos. I am here for EVERY ONE!
Thank you! ❤️ Appreciate you tuning in.
I haven’t met anyone who has a house like me till now! I really do work on it everyday but just can’t keep up. I have 4 kids. One of them is autistic and that makes things stressful. I don’t need to impress anyone , neither do you, but it is nice to have things be clear enough to be useable. To me, someone shaming someone else who is clearly making steps in the right direction is like laughing at an overweight person working out in the gym. This should give us joy and cause for great celebration. Your inner character of wanting to encourage others who are struggling far surpasses even the results of your work.
First off...I’m so sorry for your loss. I suffer from depression & anxiety and it always shows in the state of my home. I just shut down, then get so overwhelmed I don’t even know where to start...so I do nothing and it gets worse & worse. This video is so inspiring, motivating & encouraging. I appreciate you being honest & showing people like myself that there is hope. With a lot of hard work we can press on and make things better. Your house looks amazing!! This has helped inspire me to work hard & create a better environment for all of us to enjoy. We got this!! Thank you, thank you, thank you...xoxo♥️
Thank you , Yes that's what it all about! We can fall but we have to get back up! Happy to hear it helped you get in gear. I wish you the best of luck with everything. Take it one room at a time 🙌🏽💕🏠
Loving this long video and the PLAYLIST! 🙌🏻 I forgot I wasn’t listening to my own cleaning playlist.. 😂 Take each day one at a time, and you’re improving your life with each step, don’t let anyone devalue your progress! You’re so real, and so refreshing. Will definitely keep watching your videos! 😊❤️
You go girl!!! Never let negative people knock you down!!! It kills me when people share to inspire yet turned into negativity!!! Thank you for sharing!! Always remember misery loves company.. unhappy people will always try to spread their poison!! Sorry to hear about your father.. praying the Lord gives you comfort!! Great job everything looks beautiful!
I appreciate this video. It takes courage to reveal your not so sparkling home, but that's real life! I'd rather see a video like this than the ones in homes with perfectly matched decor and they go around cleaning everything that already looks impeccably clean. 👏
Really enjoy seeing real home's. You never need to explain yourself to those heartless people, I have chronic fatigue syndrome and depression plus back and joint pain so my house is like a tornado went through it, and my husband isn't here to help anymore. Those who have time to do a face full of makeup then clean clean just don't keep me coming back for more, I'm happy that they can do it don't get me wrong, but life isn't always a bed of roses is it.
Keep up your great work ❤🇬🇧
The changes look great, enjoyed seeing your family helping out when they could.
I would give this video 1000 likes if I could. You have no idea how many people you have encouraged today with this video. Makes me want to stand up and cheer!
My mom when she finds out CPS is coming to the house 😂😂
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Truly inspiring & motivating. These videos give hope to anyone struggling to keep on top of it all. Thank you 💕
I loved this one!
Can you make lots more like this. It was really inspirational. ❤️❤️
There are times My house gets so bad. I have multiple sclerosis. I deal with all kinds of crap especially extreme fatigue. Along with a ton of curve balls thrown my way. Nobody wants to live in a mess but sometimes we need to focus on ourselves to regroup, rejuvenate, rewire, etc to get back to the light. Every video I watch of yours makes me love you even more. You are so real, you don’t mask yourself with tons of makeup like some of the other you tubers, your kids are present, obviously because like me, you don’t have much help. I sometimes question if these other bloggers are neglecting their kids to have a perfect house and to look perfect in each video. Not you. You help so many of us see we are not alone in our struggles of having seasons of sadness and lack of motivation and just getting behind on so much. Amazing transformations you have done. You are so awesome girl!
Sharing life can be hard for anyone especially when it's the not so glamerous sides so I'm glad you can see the good and positivity I want to share with you guys from my craziness. I'm going to be screen shotting this comment for when my days are tough because not that I wanna feel amazing about myself but to really remember it's ok to keep being me. 💕 thank you so much fo this. 🙌🏽🤗
I'm really sorry you are dealing with your illness aswell. I know it has to be challenging, my step dad's daughters had that and it was sudden for her and I know it's not easy. Stay strong!
I remember shutting down as well when my dad died in Feb '17. I beat myself up so much for how bad I let my household get, but sometimes you just have to let yourself go through it🤷♀️ thanks for getting real with us, takes a lot to reveal your vulnerability especially in this genre of TH-cam lol glad you're starting to feel better tho! 😍💪
Definitely understand that 🤷🏽♀️ and yup we all have to get through it with time. I'm definitely feeling a lot better these days. I have my moments but I can live again.
I remember how awesome it felt to come out of that slump! Like the first time a song made me feel anything other than sad, or the first time I laughed so hard I cried happy tears. Death takes more from us than just our loved ones unfortunately, but it feels so freaking good to come out the other side! Happy for ya girl!
I hope you know how much your videos can help people. I watch them so often and they give me so much motivation that I wouldn’t have without your help. I’m currently losing my father to early onset dementia and I have been in such a deep depression for a few months now. Your videos are like a light to me. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting these videos.❤️
Thank you Kait. I hope you know your not alone. Remember to take one day at a time. Give yourself grace it's ok to be upset. Sending love and prayers to you and your family. 💓🙏🏽
Mom Likely! Thank you so much. It’s very appreciated.❤️
This video was so motivational for me. I’ve been going through a rough stage in my life as a newly single mom and I’ve trying to find a way to find the motivation to get my home in order again! Thanks for posting!
Sending you many blessings! Thanks for stopping by. 🙏🏽❤️
THANK YOU THANK YOU !!!! Thank you for actually having a normal house ! Thank you for being brave enough to actually post a normal house and how you clean it up ! You are one of my absolute faves because you are freaking normal !!! I just can't handle any of the cleaning channels anymore that I used to watch where their homes were already clean lol and they just like threw a blanket on the floor etc hahahaha ! I just can't handle it, I need something to motivate me and make me feel like im not the only mo in the world who doesnt have a perfect clean house !! It was funny I had an old cleaning playlist going on the big tv in the living room while I was folding laundry the other day and while I was putting clothes away in my room ~ my 18 year old son walked in and said to me ~ "mom, ive just seen the craziest thing ive ever seen in my life ~ there is actually a youtube video of someone cleaning an already clean house ! like how crazy is that mom ?? do people actually watch that ? i just kept getting sucked in watching it because it was so ridiculous! maybe thats how they get people to watch.. you get sucked in and cant stop because its so ridiculous !!! " my two teen daughters were in my room drawing etc and we all busted out laughing because we make fun of those videos all the time and the fact that Dylan was standing there watching it for like five minutes straight because he was just sucked in hahahaha ! We loved it ! So thank you for being normal! Thank you for not worrying about whether your home is already perfect and you throw a blanket down and say oh no! my house is TRASHED! lol. Me and the girls ~ and prob dylan now too hahaha love your channel !
This is real. It happens every where sometimes/somehow and I respect you being so open to show us. Thank you!
You're my favorite TH-cam mom. So real. I love your real life content. You have a beautiful family! Keep doing your thing!♥️
Thank you so much for your video!! My house literally looks the same as yours did and you have inspired me to get my house under control. Thank you and we are all only human!! Keep inspiring REAL people!
Thank you! You got this! ❤️
I really understand with the passing of your father … I am so sorry for your loss... My grandpa raised me and he past away Feb 5th so I am starting today to clean my house up after not doing much after his passing. Bless you sweetie. Happy I found this video!!
Sorry for your loss ❤️ I wish you the best. Feel better and thanks for watching.
As a single mom with 2 very young kids who also suffers from extreme depression and anxiety. Thank you for keeping it real. 💕
Thank you for being open, honest and real. You have a great way with words! Keep on doing what you are doing! ❤️
I wanted to watch some cleaning videos for motivation and I remembered a video by you, and thought that was really cleaning, but couldn't remember your name, and lo and behold, I pressed this one and it's YOU!! This is really decluttering and cleaning! Don't let the negative nillys Gerry to you; you are real and we appreciate YOU!!
Yes!! Even after not knowing you still clicked on my video! 😁 That's very cool. Glad you found your way back! And thanks for watching. 💕
I lost my Dad last year and it's been so hard for me. I don't feel like myself sometimes. I break down and cry especially in my car when I'm alone because I don't want my kids to see me.Thank you for your video's I love them you give me inspiration and motivate me.
Definitely. I still do. It used to be way worse though. That's how I manage the days fine now but the weird things are the random moments they come to mind or a scent or a memory strikes and you can't control yourself. Don't feel about it. It's a natural thing to grieve so let it out, think about it and get about the day. That's helped me tremendously to just work through it. 💕 Hang in there!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad last year and did the same...any quiet time I cried. I watch the videos to keep pushing for my kids, we are not alone.
I hope you can and do let your kids see you cry some. You will teach them about resiliency. That it is okay to cry, and yet still get through those moments and be okay. While is isn't their job, they can help you, too with hugs and love. 💜💜💜
The happy dance you did after the basement floor was visible.....I felt that sis!
This is a video I keep coming back to....it literally helps me relax
You're awesome!
Don’t criticize yourself, lots of Mom’s go through things. Thank you for encouraging and doing the video.
Absolutely love your channel!! Adore how you put all the videos together and I can SEE a huge transformation!! You rock girl my hat goes off to you! Sending hugs your way for the loss of your father! A lot of people will never understand depression and how it affects your life! Again you rock keep up the awesome work!! ✌🏽
Thank you! I'm feeling great now. 💕
Mom Likely! That is great so glad to hear!
Thank you for being open to us and sharing. I totally feel you I'm a stay at home and just don't feel like doing anything sometimes. Busy busy busy. Everyday. You had me in tears talking about your daddy. I took care of my dad his last few months. Thank God for my husband for being so understanding and helping. Thanks for the inspiration. Sending love n prayers.
Thank you. It gets hard some days. I was the same with my husband. I don't know what I would have done through that time without him. It was very challenging to get through.
I'm glad that you are still pushing. Thank God for good men. Stay up sister 👆
So sorry for your loss. I lost my mom, brother and mother in law within a six month period, so I can relate to depression and grief. Thanks for being honest, real and transparent. I am a newbie to your channel. Loved your video.
Sorry for your losses. I hope you have a support system ♥️ Thanks for joining me.
Im a mum.of 4 its all i do is clean takes over your life dont it x
jamie&alex never ending! 🤦🏻♀️
I instantly subbed to you after hearing your beautiful testimony about your life struggles. Girl, i am feeling you in this and you described what stopped you from caring so eloquently and real. ❤
Thank you. Welcome! 🙋🏽♀️ Glad your joining us.
Thank you. I am currently going through my home too. I lost my mom last year and had to clean out her home. Acquired to much. I also got custody of my two grandsons at same time. I had to empty our second bedroom to make it theirs. In doing so my home got overwhelmed and so did I. Couple weeks ago I got a surprise visit from someone and was ashamed. My home is usually extremely clean so they were surprised and shocked. Reality hit me and so i have been decluttering and cleaning for week now. Your video was exactly what I needed.
You've earned a new subscriber because I love the backstory of your journey! I can truly relate to the aspects of the curve balls life throw at us and how we use those same balls to play the game coming out as overcomers! 💪 Thanks for sharing, stay strong and being inspirational! 💝 The whole family being supportive and helping shows the unity of love 😘
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Girl no judgement life gets crazy! I don’t have motivation a lot of the time and have to push myself to clean but you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone keep up the great work momma!❤️
You have killed it on cleaning out everything looks amazing
Thank you!
Thank you for showing your ‘human’ side. I find it HIGHLY annoying when TH-camr’s portray nothing but perfection. I have been depressed due to my mom’s death and am slowly coming out of it. This compilation shows those of us in similar situations that we can get back into our normal routines by taking it one step at a time and that we haven’t failed if it all isn’t done in one day. Keep up the great work. You are an inspiration!!
I have been watching cleaning motivational videos for about a week now and yours and my crazy life are my favs, so, I subscribed to you guys. Thank you for your HONEST inspiration and motivation.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for being "real" and honest. Seeing your home was like looking at mine. We have 10 in our home, 7 under 16. I sit here and just can't get motivated, I'm just overwhelmed and just wonder how it got to this point. You have inspired and motivated me. My declutter and cleaning will be a slower process but at least I will start it. Thank you for putting yourself, family and home out there. The feeling of accomplishment must be amazing, I want that feeling again! U go girl!!!!!!
Thank you. Definitely start somewhere. Helps a ton mentally. Go at your own pace. ❤️
I absolutely love your cleaning videos! They are so realistic and I can relate so much! I have a one year old daughter and she makes the mess of 10 kids, love this!!! Really inspiring to declutter xx
Thank you!! Finally a real person! I love your vibe and your honesty and I love how it just feels like a work in progress. All of life is a process and thank you for sharing part of yours with us! So encouraging! And what is it with little girls and all the pieces and parts?? Mine used to make the biggest messes when they were younger! So give yourself some grace😁 I just loved all the strides you have made in your home and you should be very proud of your hard work. ❤️I’m now a subscriber!!
Yes it's all process Thanks so much! Welcome here! ❤️
What an inspiring transformation! Filled with hope! You are amazing! TFS
thank you for your courage and for sharing this. We all go through stages of depression so I'm so glad that you've been able to come out of it feeling better now. (Rev. 21:3,4)
Thank you so much for that little message when you were talking about your dad passing away. Im sorry for your loss. I've been battling multiple health issues that just aren't getting better. But after hearing that I've decided to pick up the pieces and start my new routine too. ❤❤❤❤❤
Yes! Great to hear. That's all you can do is keep going! start small! 💕
Kasey J I hope your health improves soon 💕
This was so satisfying to watch! I cleaned along and got so much done! I'll rewatch tomorrow when I tackle the last room 💃
You are such an inspiration.
Love your messages of motivation, your channel and family. Thank you for sharing it with us. Love all the way from Cape Town - South Africa 💜
thats so amazing to be connected and your all the way from there!
The fact that you felt like you needed to explain yourself makes me so sad! People need to realize that people are human and depression is a real thing! My house gets just like your house and girl I get it. I also shut down and put things off as well. You are so strong and you got this! I love your cleaning videos and I watch them every time I feel like trying to clean my house! ❤️ keep up the great work mama!
I'm so sorry about everyone who is mean to you about all this. You have done amazing!!! Life happens to everyone, houses end up in chaos sometime, but they can always be cleaned and taken care off. Then you get to enjoy the feeling of accomplishment. Well done for all your hard work.
You did such an amazing job! When we moved from Arizona to Oklahoma about 3 years ago, I went through everything, I got rid of at least 1/3 if not more of the stuff we owned because it was just useless clutter we didnt need. Have a great day💕
This is the point, we have too much stuff, that is not really needed. I started minimalism and it gives a much better feeling. 😀
I really love your video ! I’m a house cleaner in New Jersey and believe me you’re house is very normal house .We all have busy life and sometimes we don’t have time for our most simple things so keep going you doing a amazing job 😊
This past November, I loss my mother and I completely understand not doing stuff and/or choosing certain things to just let go at the moment. I don't have children, but college keeps me busy. In addition I haven't officially started cleaning and organizing her stuff yet. By the end of the year, I have goals for my sister and I to go through her stuff. Even my dad wants to declutter and clean up. I definitely can relate and sympathize with you💜.
Sorry to hear. I would definitely give your selves time to do it all. Set aside an hour or 3 at a time so everyone can go through stuff instead of all at once. Makes it difficult to decide right away with all the emotions. Stay strong and take your time! 💕
Sweetie don't let the negative get too you Hun when I lost my mom my house was a disaster.....your a very good person.
Thank you for sharing an actual real life video of a real home and the challenges. I am a single mum to 4 kids, it's hard. You have made me feel normal xxx
I had to stop and pause. I am sorry that anyone left nasty comments. They obviously have never had traumatic circumstances. We shouldn’t judge each other- we should pick each other up and adjust each other’s crowns without telling anyone. So far I have loved watching- you are doing a fabulous job! Keep it up! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you ! ❤️ So true. Kindness goes a long way.
You seriously gave me motivation today! Thank you so much!! I love to see the reality of your situation because I totally can relate! ❤
💕 💃🏽 hope you get something done girl!
GIRL! You know how happy I am you posted this long video?!? I've been wanting a long one for awhileeeeeeeeee!!! And I'm SO picky with who I watch, so I'm even more happy that it was YOU that posted it!!
Yeees!! Thank you. I might do this again soon. Or make a longer newer video 🙌🏽
I love this because this is real life! Some other cleaning videos are just cleaning the clean house from two days ago so thank you!
Thank you this was a compliation of all the major decluttering I've did in our house this year. Since doing all these declutters the house is a lot easier to clean
You have done an amazing job of sorting your home, and inspired many to sort their own, including me!
Sorry to hear the loss of your dad, I got really bad depression when I lost my dad so I know where you are coming from... Well done to you for getting through it and doing all this work. You are very strong 😘❤️
Thank you! 💕 Happy you got inspo from the my process..sorry for your loss aswell, it's never easy.
Mom Likely! ❤️
Really love this video. I’m struggling with depression being a stay at home mum but this has motivated me to get up and clean up my messy house that has been piling up for weeks. Thank you x
Yeees!! Take your time and get it cleaned up. Crank up your music and power through because having control of our mess can be a help for dealing with what we have going on. Feel better. 💕
My children are all grown and just as they were all leaving I felt I needed to apologies to them for not being that perfect little housekeeper... I felt it was easy for me to say that our house should me this way because we are living in the moment and we have kids, now it's just me and my husband.. so i'm loving the realness and truth behind the way your house looks because you have the realness and truth to post it for all to see!! also it's awesome to see your husband working just as hard getting involved.
Great Job!! looking forward to seeing more.
Yes I've been trying to so better , it's easier when we have less clutter but still show it either way lol
You go girl! Thank you for being honest and real. Way to go! Your home looks amazing! 🥰
Thank you
I don't think you need to justify yourself to anyone no matter what. You are a mother and your first priority is your family, if housework laxes you are still a great mom. I'm single and childless and my house still became a mess. No one knows someone else's struggle. Love this video.
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How many days did it take you to clean everything?
Thanks for keeping it real. It really upsets me when people think, oh SAHM, she shouldn’t have a dirty house. Well, hello, the reason we are home is usually to stay at home with our kids. Life happens. When they are infants, the clutter is ours. We pick up and stuff looks tidy. The kids grow and accumulate clothes, shoes, toys. They go to school and bring home art and paper galore. We try to keep up but in between the cooking and getting the common areas picked up, you have no time to declutter and weed thru the stuff. It really does take a new system to dealing with all the stuff. Let me tell you I love that your husband is helping because it really does take everyone helping and adopting the new systems to keeping a tidy home. It makes it harder to keep organized if we have to pick up after the family and try to clean, organize and declutter.
Bravo! I love the transformation. And girl, doesn’t it feel good!
Yeees. I agree everyone should chip in to declutter. We all have stuff.
Your video was suggested after I binge watched Amanda’s this crazy life. 💕 I’m so happy to have found your channel! Thank you for being so real and motivating!
Welcome. Thanks for tuning in ❤️
Hi I'm a younger viewer, I like watching these videos when cleaning. I want to start helping more around the house more. Thanks for the motivation.♡♡
Remember, perfectionism is not the goal. It, like many things, can become an addiction/disease that can crimple you from having a normal life. It's about balance! My coping mechanism is food. My house is impeccable, but I gained so much weight! I like watching these types of vids because I actually like cleaning, lol! I, like you, am coming out of it (I lost my mom, ovarian cancer) and finally feeling a little bit more like myself again. Great job ... I think being a mom is one of the toughest jobs in the world. LOL, I'm "mom" to 3 dogs ... and even they are a handful! I'm just grateful they don't complain, talk back, or ask for things!
I totally can relate to shutting down. My dad died last year too and it has been super hard on me. I hope you got a chance to grieve. I love your channel so much...you are so real!
Thank you. Sorry for your loss, hope your doing ok. It is very hard at times but it's been a couple years now for me and I have my moments but I can manage my days now.
Truly appreciate your honesty and transparency. You work very hard!