Best HFY Stories: The Two Rules

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @Bajuvare14
    @Bajuvare14 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    The one that always sitting alone coming over and sitting next to you is the greatest Honor you can recieve

  • @kingcaragious
    @kingcaragious หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I'm a janitor at an institute for adults who are on the spectrum mostly high functioning adults. One of them sits with me at lunch everyday and I'm told he is very agitated after lunch on my days off. He's never spoken to me. I don't think he speaks very often though he can and the staff does everything possible to get him to express himself. This story reminds me of him.

    • @ireallyreallyhategoogle
      @ireallyreallyhategoogle หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are his friend.

    • @mycroft16
      @mycroft16 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My daughter is on the spectrum and I drive schoolvusses, sometimes for the special needs kids. They are beyond razor sharp. They see amd hear everything, even if they can't communicate it very well. Some can communicate but have trouble expressing their thoughts. He sounds very much this way. ASD is very often deeply routed to forming routines. And if someone makes you part of their routine, even not seeing you can be distressing. The kids I drive know their route home by heart. If I have to go a block off for construction or whatever they know and for some it can be very distressing.

  • @y0ur_name_here
    @y0ur_name_here หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    "He's like a cat" is an accurate description of some of my favorite people.

  • @Maeshalanadae
    @Maeshalanadae หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I was suspecting Gillis was autistic. Not really socializing is one thing, but the real clue to it was how focused he would be on his work all the time, even to the point of ignoring self needs.

    • @Wichitan
      @Wichitan หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I wasn't sure of the reference to 'tist'. Thanks for clarifying.

    • @The_Viscount
      @The_Viscount หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@Wichitan Yeah, that's understandable. It may be slang local to a specific part of the world, or a variation that the author created for the future setting, but "'tist" is intended to be short for "autist" or a person with autism. Gillis is a very accurate portrayal of how some of us are. To the point where I have to wonder if the author based Gillis on a real person in their life.
      That being said autism manifests in a wide variety of ways. Gillis is only one example, albeit a very good one. You've also got people like Temple Grandon, Tim Burton, and Bill Gates. And then there are those who require high degrees of support and remain non verbal. It really is a diverse condition.

    • @melkiorwiseman5234
      @melkiorwiseman5234 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      High Functioning Autism used to be referred to as Asperger Syndrome, after Hans Asperger who described the condition in the mid-1940's (I think it was 1944). It's still a handy way to refer to the depth of Autism which does not require constant support.
      It appears that the condition was practically ignored when a description of it was first published (perhaps that had something to do with WWII going on at the time) and the condition only began to get the attention it needed somewhere around the 1980's.

    • @Raven-rv9jr
      @Raven-rv9jr หลายเดือนก่อน

      to me the giveaway was the lack of social cues for communication. no facial expression, and only the occasional display of emotion mostly intentionally to get a point across.

  • @The_Viscount
    @The_Viscount หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    For those who might not have caught it, 'tist is being used as slang for an autist: a person on the autism spectrum. Gillis is on the more stereotypical side of the autism spectrum. Specifically, he's what most would consider low support or high functioning. His portrayal is simultaneously respectful and highly accurate to one of the ways ASD can present itself. It's believable enough that it wouldn't surprise me if this was written based on someone the author knows.
    However, there's a saying in the Autism community: if you know one person with autism you know one person with autism. The autism spectrum is incredibly diverse in the way it presents even if underlying patterns in behavior may remain. You can find people like Gillis, but there are those of us like myself who are incredibly social, well spoken, and come across as simply eccentric. And there are people who cannot live independently (low functioning/high support).
    As someone on the spectrum myself, I always appreciate accurate, respectful portrayals of us. While awareness is growing, the old negative stereotypes are hard to dismantle. If the author sees this, let me thank you for sharing this story.

    • @dagoonite
      @dagoonite หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Gillis was indeed based on several people I know, including myself, all of different support/function levels. I wanted to present the human crew as being more neurotypical, but also just being kind of meh about him being autistic, acknowledging that he's different but not really caring. Doing that through alien eyes proved harder than anticipated, though, so I quickly abandoned it. I still wish I would have given it a proper editing pass...

    • @The_Viscount
      @The_Viscount หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@dagoonite Writing is hard to do well. For what it's worth, I quite enjoyed this and thought it was well done.

  • @JosephKano
    @JosephKano หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Damn onion ninjas.

    • @billcook7285
      @billcook7285 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yeah. 😢 onion ninjas.🥹 Dirty Bastards snuck up and got me too.
      🥲 maybe I should get some more light in this room.

  • @JimUSCM
    @JimUSCM หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Wow wasn't expecting to be moved by this story, well read sir, well written author bravo.

  • @dagoonite
    @dagoonite หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Author here. Thank you for listening. I really wish I would have edited it before posting. Thanks for all the kind words.

    • @Boopboob
      @Boopboob 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is a great story. Thank you for the great and respectful representation.

    • @MacBorin
      @MacBorin 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I didn't notice anything that needs editing and I really enjoyed the story.
      Warmed my heart to hear about an ASD person having a place where they thrive and are just naturally accepted.

    • @AkReaper
      @AkReaper 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Nice work Dagoonite.

  • @TheRealNiktWazny
    @TheRealNiktWazny หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    4 minutes in as as far as I can see this Gillis guy is almost exactly like me except I wouldn't work through breaks since I can't stand being hungry which is kinda funny

  • @quantemwensday
    @quantemwensday หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    1. one master
    2. one apprentice

  • @devinmelvig8732
    @devinmelvig8732 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Damn onion ninjas at it again

  • @stephenbeyer4315
    @stephenbeyer4315 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Make me get all teary in a public place you evil bastard.

  • @marksisk4397
    @marksisk4397 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That was damned decent. I enjoyed that

  • @australiaisnotrealjustaska4379
    @australiaisnotrealjustaska4379 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like this one 10 out of 10 for this one

  • @timobrien2813
    @timobrien2813 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you both. UKUK

  • @carolinealemoore7866
    @carolinealemoore7866 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Here too.

  • @brendanmcconnell4680
    @brendanmcconnell4680 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    second ??

  • @NolanLaw
    @NolanLaw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First?

  • @justintolentino661
    @justintolentino661 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Third?

  • @Lamp_worshipper
    @Lamp_worshipper หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fourth?