Chelsea please watch Psychology in Seattles breakdown on season 6 on love is blind. It's done in the most loving and empathetic manner. There's a hopeful and bright way forward💕
Except he was doing a breakdown of only things shown on camera. He did no research (aka listening to her side), and didn’t take into account the manipulation jimmy was doing to Chelsea. She wasn’t just acting like that because he was a perfect human being. He played her, and her reactions were in response to HIS actions,
@@KariN-or3sc you made up that he did no research, he mentions listening to what she has said post show in his comment reaction video. listening to her talk in this video, yes she was reacting to him, but her reaction was distorted
I think people don't realize that just because a person struggles in one area doesn't mean they struggle in all. Like AD said, she was shocked to see how Chelsea came off on the show with Jimmy. But people can be totally different at work, with friends, etc., than they are in romantic situations.
chelsea going into "defense" mode and taking zero accountability is really sad. lacking any self awareness, and blaming the edit for your bad behavior only highlights your personality issues even further.
@@PorcelynnnExactly! Honestly surprised that people don't understand that that's literally what speaking my truth is. It's not a lie but it's just saying that there's different sides to help people perceive things and that is that person's story of how they perceived it.
Right but don't people usually say there's like three sides of the truth your side, their side, and then what actually happened. It's like when Zenab tried to tell everyone that Cole was this terrible abusive person that gave her an eating disorder when really he accidentally triggered her because he didn't actually know that she had an eating disorder before because she never really said anything.
@@jclyntoledo People do say it like that but it’s ridiculous. There is only one truth- what actually happened. The other things are perceptions, not necessarily the objective truth.
I don’t find Chelsea to be a reliable narrator at all and she takes zero accountability. If a man acted as controlling and manipulative as she did on the show, everyone would say he’s emotionally abusive. She was emotionally abusive on the show and it doesn’t seem like she gets what was so wrong with her behavior.
Chelsea: Jimmy met my family. It was great. One second later…. Chelsea: They saw right through him. One second later… Chelsea: They love him. 😢😂😢😂 Girl, pick a narrative!!!!
I appreciate Kaitlyn really trying to dive into specifics over and over again because I left this with a “just believe me, it’s the edit” message. She had the floor to explain and I got nothing. Then on top of that an “I regret nothing” 🤯. I thought in the least she would say sharing her fiancé’s secret. Regardless, she doesn’t deserve mean messages so I can agree with that.
Oh man now I’m at the part where Kaitlyn defends Chelsea for sharing his secret to the public. I couldn’t disagree with this more. I hope everyone in their personal lives take note not to tell them secrets. Sharing secrets is never okay as it’s such a violation in the relationship. 😞
She’s protecting Jimmy by not going into specifics. She even apologized to him previously for telling a story on a previous podcast because he was mad about it.
@@FloatingInSpace5702I don’t know. I wonder about her specifics and ability to remember facts once they pass. We saw her accuse Jimmy of not giving her a kiss when he did, twice. Around 20% of people have an anxious attachment style and that could be a factor. If you are interested, check out Psychology in Seattle where Dr. Kirk does a deep dive into their big fight. I think I become anxiously attached at times as well so I found it interesting.
@@Cha0sWarfareexcept SHE didn’t tho. Jimmy admitted he told Chelsea abt the bffs in pods. He said he told her “everything.” He had no clue if production would choose to air that or not. Then the bff outed herself because after that meetup, everyone and their damn mother knew they had a sexual history. Not to mention, Jimmy chose to have them on (and I think he did it bcuz THEY wanted to be on tv and he wanted to score points w the sex buddy), they only knew each other for 2 yrs and had a sexual past and he thought that would be appropriate. Not only all of that, but Chelsea ONLY brought it up in response to his lie….he says “I’ve never done anything physical with them” fully expecting Chelsea to keep up his lie/good edit, then has the nerve to be mad at HER about it?! Nah, 99.9% of the fault for that “secret” coming out is on Jimmy.
I mean I get it. People won't come on to these podcast and really tell their story unless they know they're going on to the podcast of a yes man. Completely fine I get it. But we all have to get to a point where we become sick of the interview. And legit she doesn't regret anything she said? Like she just said she just came from a beautiful day with her mother yet at the same time in the evening you could say you don't feel like he loves you at all??? Many people keep telling her that she needs therapy because they wish that she started 5 years ago. This is going to take a while. Maybe she should have continued to hold her peace until she got a little further along
Chelsea would benefit from taking more accountability for things like drinking so much and owning some of the insecurity that we all saw. It doesn't make her a bad person, just someone who needs growth. When she said "I'm responsible for my happiness" I thought that is something she has learned since filming.
Kinda weird that she thought Jimmy would be portrayed as the bad guy when the only bad thing he did, according to her, was that butt dial that was never filmed or even brought up.
@@KariN-or3sc You have to be a Chelsea burn account because you are ALLLL over these comments saying a whole lot of nothing. WHAT DID HE DO?!?! Stop with the general comments like "not the only thing" or "he played her". WHAT DID HE DO? Say it or shut it.
@@jolielucI could be wrong but I think they're referring to Jimmy telling her in the pods that he doesn't go out that much and then after they get out of the pods he's spending a lot of time going out hanging out with friends. Also according to Chelsea apparently Jimmy would threaten to go out more or to talk to people that she didn't like more when she would ask him to stop or to scale it back. Or possibly their referring to the last day where he took her to his favorite amusement park or his favorite ride and made it seem like they were really going to get through this to then dump her as soon as they get off of the ride. I'm still catching up on interviews so maybe there's more but that's all I heard.
@@jclyntoledoRespectfully, you are wrong. I rewatched the series with my SO and he definitely said he likes to go to lounges or a wine bar and be in bed by a decent time.
@@urgsthewordI call that insecurity and lack of trust. And I don’t freaking blame her for either after the crap he pulled. Chelsea did some messed up things, but nothing she did came from a place of hate. It came from HIM playing with her emotions. He, on the other hand, intentionally toyed with her to get a good edit, and THAT is not ok.
😒🙄 why would I be friendly with someone that butt dials me after pretending to be in bed. If Jimmy was pretending to care about her, why maintain a friendship???
I imagine it's challenging because they can't talk about their experience with people outside the show until after it airs. So she had 10 months between filming and airing, and seeing the cast when they do press, etc. even though they aren't together, and I agree with you, I wouldn't want to be friends with Jimmy, there's an element of living in a bubble together. They can't even really date anyone else because it would ruin the outcome of the season if others knew they weren't together.
No idea who this host is but, how frustrating! Asks Chelsea a question then runs over her e v er y time as she's answering.. Chelsea starts saying about running into Jimmy's best friend, interrupts with her own commentary about hats (umm?) .. asks about people being rude on planes, runs over her with her own experience. Pretty much all of Chelsea's answer's derailed by her own irrelevant banter. its like chelsea was backup for her solo show🙄🙄🙄 missed opportunity! I hope Chelsea does another Interview with a better listener 🙏🙏
Talking about karma and wondering if the tables are starting to turn… I think chelsea is trying to make the tables turn. She has 0 accountability for herself and truly believed she would be portrayed like an angel. Even her mother knew she would look bad and tried to tell her..
Exactly! She’s playing the same card on us as she did with Jimmy, when she will F shit up and then come back trying to smile and pretend to be cute and innocent; ewww!!!
I should have read the comments first. I came into this ready to have my opinions changed and being more sentered but nope. I do hope there will be a new reunion thing where they get to talk though.
Dr Honda never said she's borderline or abusive, he said it's a jumping off point for him to talk about those things, it's a heavily edited tv show and he cannot diagnose from a far. Please stop.
@@kicikicikicikici I don't think Chelsea is the good guy, but I don't think people should make comments stating that Dr Honda said she had borderline personality and is abusive when he did not.
@@kicikicikicikici how can YOU make the determination who is the good guy/bad guy based only off what the edit wanted you to see?! Jimmy did some truly messed up shit to Chelsea. He played her, plain and simple. Her reactions were unhinged, but they did not come from a place of bad intentions, they were reactions to HIS actions. He, however, purposely played her and manipulated her to get a good edit on camera, while having zero intention of actually being with Chelsea. Neither of them is the “good guy.”
It feels like Chelsea is alive and well in this comment section- using yet another pseudonym. No one believes Jimmy “played her” to “get a good edit”. So many men attempt this (like Jaramey and Trevor for example) but Jimmy’s sincerity feels very real. Chelsea’s behavior was and is who she is when she’s either drunk, feeling threatened by another woman, “sad”, or “uncomfy”. Come on, people! The show did not set out to make Chelsea look insecure and possibly borderline. She is obviously both. This isn’t a crime. What is criminal is her continuous refusal to take personal responsibility for her own outcome.
His actions did not feed into your insecurities girl! Thats just the way you are, just own it, just like you will never apologize for your emotions you can’t blame others for them either. 🤷🏻♀️
Nawwwwwwwwwww if you are in an insecure relationship who doesn’t validate or respect the relationship you’re gonna feel insecure in the relationship because there is no safety net. If you are a secure person and a relationship makes you seem like a different person then you are in the wrong relationship. Relationships can 100% bring the worst out in you especially if it’s not meant for you.
@@jessicalehr5867 yeah you have a point too, so then get out of it 🤷🏽♀️🙅🏽♂️ why would you cry so hard to stay in a relationship that makes you feel that way?
He didn't like her. You could definitely tell she wanted him to be honest about it. His energy was off. She could feel he didn't like her. She wanted him to say it! So she pressed the issue.
okay, we saw what we saw on tv. why is everyone now believing Chelsea's version like she is suddenly speaking from a bible that reads no lies? there are three sides to every story: your side, my side and the truth. jimmy has barely said a word and i feel that's because he wants the hate off of chelsea. doesn't mean her side is the frickin play by play truth. she's only telling HER side. jimmy hasn't told his. i sit firmly on the fence.
All the editing in the world couldn't make her look this insecure... Jimmy needs to speak up instead of trying to go with the flow.... she speaks a good one but does she believe it....
"I am not insecure. I was in an insecure relationship that really heightened that, but I am a strong, secure woman. " Oof. First off, by Chelsea's own words, what was there to "heighten" if she was not already insecure? Second, it didnt matter how many "good moments" were edited out. The three fights revealed Chelsea's preoccupied attachment and abondonment issues that she projected onto Jimmy. It was borderline abusive. Jimmy may not have been into Chelsea like she wanted but her frantic patterns made it worse. People aren't reacting negatively to Chelsea being emotional and that cop out isn't working. They are reacting to her dysregulated emotional states , to her spiraling, straight up lying (telling Jimmy someone told her Jess was out that night-lie) and abuse of her partner.
I think Chelsea navigated all this best she could, being highlighted at her “worsts”.. I do believe she’s such a good person. These shows cast certain people for a reason and even when she gives insight on productions “suggestions”, they know how to get good TV out of these people after all the interviews during casting. They know your buttons!
Chelsea please be so freaking for real right now. You have manipulative and abusive behaviors that NEED help. Only speaking to people who don't want to hold you accountable will not heal you. We just want you to recover from VERY clear relational trauma
Kaitlyn's quote of the day "I'm the most self aware psychopath ever" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was a good one. I just discovered Kaitlyn TH-cam channel after coming here because of Dave Neal and his coverage of Clayton and Jane doe. She is such a great podcast host!!! I'm here for the long haul now!!
If people living incredibly privileged lives could stop saying things like "everything happens for a reason" or "good things happen to good people", that would be nice. Tone deaf is the kindest thing I can say.
Great job for speaking up finally! Social media is bs and there are a lot of nasty computer bullies! Rely on real relationships and family! Jimmy treated you poorly and mislead you from the beginning.. keep growing ❤
In their next journey, Chelsea Black Well and her husband will tell us about how Love Is Blind changed love forever and then on their new channel, we want to know about Joey and Kelsey from the Bachelor who found each other After The Final Rose. It's all on the next two episodes of Off The Vine with Katlin Bristowe. Do you think Gerry & Theresa and Kelsey & Joey are two couples after both roses wins like The Golden Bachelor and The Bachelor we saw? Kaitlyn, Joey & Kelsey will be in April for their first video on their TH-cam channel the same as Gerry & Theresa's. What a big surprise.
I saw someone referring to this interview about why Jimmy is such a jerk and Chelsea has been totally misunderstood this season. I can agree that theres several sides of a story but this was back peddling back and forth and it doesn’t match off. I started off watching an interview with her and jimmy for elf cosmetics, where she doesn’t exclude them being together in the future, keeping the option open, and them telling each other how much love they have for each other and that they are friends still. And here she is bashing him like mad but still saying they are on great terms. She says she regrets her delivery on her arguments, and then later on says she regrets nothing, only saying the megan fox thing which I guess is because it affects her directly with the comments she has gotten and not the fact it has an effect on others like the arguments had. And in other interviews or on after the rose she says she is working on herself and going to therapy. But here she says she is very confident and theres no issues, only that she cries easily. Her behavior was super toxic, I understand it was only a part of your story and that other parts were great that wasn’t shown. And the pocket dialing was a bit of a jerk move for sure if that happened the way you were saying. But taking at least a bit of accountability changes a lot and I really don’t see that happening here in this interview. I do wish you good luck though because this dating setting is not ideal for anyone, it puts so much pressure on people to succeed in a short time span and creates unnecessary stress on a new couple.
Yeah, I lost sympathy for her with this interview, sorry. Her narrative is still 'the problem was Jimmy did not care enough about me, if he cared more, I would have been chill'. Jimmy may not have cared (and for the record I did see him as fake), but someone not caring about you still does not defend Chelsea's on camera behavior in those fights. The unhealthy narrative for severely anxiously attached people is ALWAYS they are not cared about enough, and healing is being able to not hyper focus on that and learning to self soothe. If you feel insecure around someone, it is reasonable to walk away, it is not reasonable to berate them as Chelsea did.
And maybe she is working through that in therapy? Losing sympathy as you say for someone who is severely anxiously attached and not being healed enough to realize she needed to walk away seems,like not the right move? Also she doesn’t need sympathy, she needs empathy.
@@FloatingInSpace5702 'Working through' requires accountability. She took no accountability in this interview for her real errors. This woman is not working through things if after a year of reflection her narrative is 'it's all Jimmy's fault, he didn't try hard enough'. Girl! That ain't it. We are not responsible for our traumas, but we are responsible for our actions. Our trauma should not be used as endless excuses for poor behavior.
@@FloatingInSpace5702You don’t get a pass to continue to say terrible things just cause “im in therapy” plus she takes zero accountability, so I doubt she’s in therapy.
Ok I agree with you, working through does require accountability. I think I’m willing to give her more slack since we did not see everything play out and I think there was more to her issues than what we saw. I also think because I’ve seen other podcasts with her where she does take some accountability I’m not looking at it from the perspective of just this one interview. But can totally agree with you that being accountable for her side of things is important and not done in this interview.
@@imjustaturtle641um…..but she did tho? Multiple times. 🤔🤨 I’ve lost count of how many times she’s said she didn’t handle things right and would change the way she responded. Do you want her to grovel? She didn’t take accountability in the way YOU wanted, therefore it’s “zero.” ?? 🤨
I feel like the audio was slightly off. I could barely hear Chelsea and the host has a really wonderful but loud and abrupt laugh sometimes it was slightly hard on the ears. Could be just my audio.
So confusing how Chelsea still has so much to say about Jimmy and even Trevor's behaviour, but always ends with "but I love him, he's been there for me, I'm glad he didn't have to go through what I did" "Trevor is a sweetheart, I wish him nothing but the best". YUCK. It's fine to wish people the best with their life without having to love them. It's not okay to love the guy you almost picked who was gaslighting another girl on the side.
On the show you could tell once Jimmy saw her he wasn't feeling her. Thats why the other girl said what she said she knew she look better. So once they got together Jimmy played alone. Chelsea knew he didn't like her in my opinion . She wanted him to stop with the bs and keep it real. You dont like me, just say it. I feel anyone would press the issue if you know the person you're with doesn't like you.
Ok.. I had no idea that everyone was saying their celeb lookalikes I wish the show included that. Ben said he looks like Jude Law... weird they didn't show these other people doing the same thing.
The fact that he goes and makes a hat about it…. Should prove he used the excuse to not get married. Or he wouldn’t try to be making money off his top secret
I thought I'd watch this cause I am just generally curious about what people have to say after the fact or extra interviews etc but holy fridge is this just a biased feminist echo chamber of a ramble... no thanks
Same. And the same people roasting her blame all the issues in her and Jimmy's relationship on her being "too insecure"... while they're out here being the reason why people get insecure like this.
I really appreciate hearing Chelsea’s perspective and knowing that the show creators were telling her to bring up issues. I have heard about this exact thing from others who have been on reality shows, and she shouldn’t be judged for bringing things up when she was told to do so. Watching the show initially I felt like she only brought up negatives in response to Jimmy speaking positively, but I see the truth on that now. Reality shows are not just “let’s record reality,” they poke the bear for better ratings and more money.
LMFAO! She just identified which of the two female friends was the one Jimmy slept with. It was the brunette! I knew it!! Her energy was completely off. The inappropriate low-cut shirt, the looks she was giving Chelsea.... she has a thing for Jimmy that is not platonic.
This Kaitlyn Lady is soo cringey dude! She is such a ppl pleaser. Like get it together and stop siding with your guests, you are validating all of her manipulative actions.
Nick Vial did the same with Chelsea when he interviewed her. I was disappointed. You don’t have to validate all of your guests’ actions when they’re in the wrong.
She did herself wrong by behaving the way she did. She can’t blame everything on the edit. Until she confront some of her issues, she will continue to repeat the same things over and over.
I think the only reason the Megan Fox thing became a big deal is because of the comment Jimmy made about it after meeting her. He has gotten way too good of an edit though 😅
That's not true. It broke the internet because people saw through how manipulative and desperate she was trying to win Jimmy over hot-girl Jess by telling a big fat lie, then try to dumbby saying 'I think it's MGK's fiance or wife...' Now she's trying to brand herself as delulu so she doesn't have to take any accountability on her actions and just shift the blame it on bad edits...People have to be brain dead to fall for her BS
I wish netflix would release a montage of never before seen footage where its just everyone saying which celebrity they looked like lol
Chelsea please watch Psychology in Seattles breakdown on season 6 on love is blind. It's done in the most loving and empathetic manner. There's a hopeful and bright way forward💕
Totally. I love that show. I've learned so much from that. Love Psychology in Seattle.
@psychologyinseattle
Yes dr Honda explained her behaviour and the abuse she was presenting. Not a fan of her but wish her all the best in her long recovery
Except he was doing a breakdown of only things shown on camera. He did no research (aka listening to her side), and didn’t take into account the manipulation jimmy was doing to Chelsea. She wasn’t just acting like that because he was a perfect human being. He played her, and her reactions were in response to HIS actions,
@@KariN-or3sc you made up that he did no research, he mentions listening to what she has said post show in his comment reaction video. listening to her talk in this video, yes she was reacting to him, but her reaction was distorted
I think people don't realize that just because a person struggles in one area doesn't mean they struggle in all. Like AD said, she was shocked to see how Chelsea came off on the show with Jimmy. But people can be totally different at work, with friends, etc., than they are in romantic situations.
100% 👏
Who said anything else? 😅 People are judging her in that particular are, her relationship and behavior with/towards Jimmy.
I’m trying to find that interview with AD. Do you know which one it is?
@@em8066she said it during the reunion.
“I have zero plans on changing anything about me” - Chelsea
chelsea going into "defense" mode and taking zero accountability is really sad. lacking any self awareness, and blaming the edit for your bad behavior only highlights your personality issues even further.
This whole “speaking your truth” is ridiculous. We need to speak THE truth.
I hate “my truth” too!
“My truth” is now my version of how I perceived the events that happened to me, not actually what happened 😂😂
@@PorcelynnnExactly! Honestly surprised that people don't understand that that's literally what speaking my truth is. It's not a lie but it's just saying that there's different sides to help people perceive things and that is that person's story of how they perceived it.
Right but don't people usually say there's like three sides of the truth your side, their side, and then what actually happened. It's like when Zenab tried to tell everyone that Cole was this terrible abusive person that gave her an eating disorder when really he accidentally triggered her because he didn't actually know that she had an eating disorder before because she never really said anything.
@@jclyntoledo
People do say it like that but it’s ridiculous. There is only one truth- what actually happened. The other things are perceptions, not necessarily the objective truth.
I don’t find Chelsea to be a reliable narrator at all and she takes zero accountability. If a man acted as controlling and manipulative as she did on the show, everyone would say he’s emotionally abusive. She was emotionally abusive on the show and it doesn’t seem like she gets what was so wrong with her behavior.
Agreed ! She was very manipulative!!!
@@tw2184 yes! Surprised so many people on this thread are acting like she’s so awesome and did nothing wrong.
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Yes! Abusive and unfortunately, lack on insight goes hand in hand with this disordered personality
Insecure “Meagan Fox”😂🤣
Chelsea: Jimmy met my family. It was great.
One second later….
Chelsea: They saw right through him.
One second later…
Chelsea: They love him.
😢😂😢😂
Girl, pick a narrative!!!!
I am GIGGLING imagining jimmy under the covers in all his going out clothes
😂
He's the worst
I appreciate Kaitlyn really trying to dive into specifics over and over again because I left this with a “just believe me, it’s the edit” message. She had the floor to explain and I got nothing. Then on top of that an “I regret nothing” 🤯. I thought in the least she would say sharing her fiancé’s secret. Regardless, she doesn’t deserve mean messages so I can agree with that.
Oh man now I’m at the part where Kaitlyn defends Chelsea for sharing his secret to the public. I couldn’t disagree with this more. I hope everyone in their personal lives take note not to tell them secrets. Sharing secrets is never okay as it’s such a violation in the relationship. 😞
Thought the same thing. He told her in confidence when he didn’t have to, she didn’t have to tell the whole of America 😭
She’s protecting Jimmy by not going into specifics. She even apologized to him previously for telling a story on a previous podcast because he was mad about it.
@@FloatingInSpace5702I don’t know. I wonder about her specifics and ability to remember facts once they pass. We saw her accuse Jimmy of not giving her a kiss when he did, twice. Around 20% of people have an anxious attachment style and that could be a factor. If you are interested, check out Psychology in Seattle where Dr. Kirk does a deep dive into their big fight. I think I become anxiously attached at times as well so I found it interesting.
@@Cha0sWarfareexcept SHE didn’t tho. Jimmy admitted he told Chelsea abt the bffs in pods. He said he told her “everything.” He had no clue if production would choose to air that or not. Then the bff outed herself because after that meetup, everyone and their damn mother knew they had a sexual history. Not to mention, Jimmy chose to have them on (and I think he did it bcuz THEY wanted to be on tv and he wanted to score points w the sex buddy), they only knew each other for 2 yrs and had a sexual past and he thought that would be appropriate. Not only all of that, but Chelsea ONLY brought it up in response to his lie….he says “I’ve never done anything physical with them” fully expecting Chelsea to keep up his lie/good edit, then has the nerve to be mad at HER about it?! Nah, 99.9% of the fault for that “secret” coming out is on Jimmy.
Chelsea honestly came off as a drunk- I appreciated hearing from her without jimmy around but she still needs to bffr
I mean I get it. People won't come on to these podcast and really tell their story unless they know they're going on to the podcast of a yes man. Completely fine I get it. But we all have to get to a point where we become sick of the interview. And legit she doesn't regret anything she said? Like she just said she just came from a beautiful day with her mother yet at the same time in the evening you could say you don't feel like he loves you at all??? Many people keep telling her that she needs therapy because they wish that she started 5 years ago. This is going to take a while. Maybe she should have continued to hold her peace until she got a little further along
Chelsea would benefit from taking more accountability for things like drinking so much and owning some of the insecurity that we all saw. It doesn't make her a bad person, just someone who needs growth. When she said "I'm responsible for my happiness" I thought that is something she has learned since filming.
She did take accountability for drinking - it just doesn’t come up in this interview/podcast
Kinda weird that she thought Jimmy would be portrayed as the bad guy when the only bad thing he did, according to her, was that butt dial that was never filmed or even brought up.
That’s def not the only thing, lol.
Umm even jimmy said he thought he’s be the bad guy let that sink in 🌚
@@KariN-or3sc You have to be a Chelsea burn account because you are ALLLL over these comments saying a whole lot of nothing. WHAT DID HE DO?!?! Stop with the general comments like "not the only thing" or "he played her". WHAT DID HE DO? Say it or shut it.
@@jolielucI could be wrong but I think they're referring to Jimmy telling her in the pods that he doesn't go out that much and then after they get out of the pods he's spending a lot of time going out hanging out with friends. Also according to Chelsea apparently Jimmy would threaten to go out more or to talk to people that she didn't like more when she would ask him to stop or to scale it back. Or possibly their referring to the last day where he took her to his favorite amusement park or his favorite ride and made it seem like they were really going to get through this to then dump her as soon as they get off of the ride.
I'm still catching up on interviews so maybe there's more but that's all I heard.
@@jclyntoledoRespectfully, you are wrong. I rewatched the series with my SO and he definitely said he likes to go to lounges or a wine bar and be in bed by a decent time.
I cant help feeling like she is not a reliable narrator. I get that the show is edited. But they cant edit you 100%.
Womp womp get over it
I absolutely agree
But you trust mr “it was 10 mins!” Jimmy? 🤨🤔😅
@@KariN-or3sc Honest question: When Chelsea said Jess was at the bar with Jimmy and Jess came out and said that wasn’t true, what do you call that?
@@urgsthewordI call that insecurity and lack of trust. And I don’t freaking blame her for either after the crap he pulled. Chelsea did some messed up things, but nothing she did came from a place of hate. It came from HIM playing with her emotions. He, on the other hand, intentionally toyed with her to get a good edit, and THAT is not ok.
😒🙄 why would I be friendly with someone that butt dials me after pretending to be in bed. If Jimmy was pretending to care about her, why maintain a friendship???
I imagine it's challenging because they can't talk about their experience with people outside the show until after it airs. So she had 10 months between filming and airing, and seeing the cast when they do press, etc.
even though they aren't together, and I agree with you, I wouldn't want to be friends with Jimmy, there's an element of living in a bubble together.
They can't even really date anyone else because it would ruin the outcome of the season if others knew they weren't together.
No idea who this host is but, how frustrating! Asks Chelsea a question then runs over her e v er y time as she's answering.. Chelsea starts saying about running into Jimmy's best friend, interrupts with her own commentary about hats (umm?) .. asks about people being rude on planes, runs over her with her own experience. Pretty much all of Chelsea's answer's derailed by her own irrelevant banter. its like chelsea was backup for her solo show🙄🙄🙄 missed opportunity! I hope Chelsea does another Interview with a better listener 🙏🙏
I do agree, this girl interviews like she’s having a sleepover…. People want to hear the girl speak
It is because she is uncomfortable with the answer, shes trying to ppl please instead of rebutting the BS answers.
Talking about karma and wondering if the tables are starting to turn… I think chelsea is trying to make the tables turn. She has 0 accountability for herself and truly believed she would be portrayed like an angel. Even her mother knew she would look bad and tried to tell her..
right??? no accountability at all for her behaviour. i can't believe ppl are falling for it
I’m amazed that people are falling for her explanations that deflect any personal responsibility.
Exactly! She’s playing the same card on us as she did with Jimmy, when she will F shit up and then come back trying to smile and pretend to be cute and innocent; ewww!!!
@@Evie534SAME HERE
@@SuppleJoeylol I find it so “ewww” too. It’s not cute at all
Chelsea: 19:01
There you go, that’s the entire interview I saved you an hour of ass pats and no accountability.
Thank you! Zero accountability
Thanks cuz she is ridiculous!
I should have read the comments first. I came into this ready to have my opinions changed and being more sentered but nope. I do hope there will be a new reunion thing where they get to talk though.
Yeah and 53:48 "Honest to god, my only regret is the Megan Fox thing."
champion work!
Dr.Honda has a youtube channel called psychology in seattle and explains really well how she is borderline abusive, recommended.
Dr Honda never said she's borderline or abusive, he said it's a jumping off point for him to talk about those things, it's a heavily edited tv show and he cannot diagnose from a far. Please stop.
It was a jumping point but come on… you believe that Chelsea is the good guy here… connect the dots
@@kicikicikicikici I don't think Chelsea is the good guy, but I don't think people should make comments stating that Dr Honda said she had borderline personality and is abusive when he did not.
@@kicikicikicikici how can YOU make the determination who is the good guy/bad guy based only off what the edit wanted you to see?! Jimmy did some truly messed up shit to Chelsea. He played her, plain and simple. Her reactions were unhinged, but they did not come from a place of bad intentions, they were reactions to HIS actions. He, however, purposely played her and manipulated her to get a good edit on camera, while having zero intention of actually being with Chelsea. Neither of them is the “good guy.”
It feels like Chelsea is alive and well in this comment section- using yet another pseudonym. No one believes Jimmy “played her” to “get a good edit”. So many men attempt this (like Jaramey and Trevor for example) but Jimmy’s sincerity feels very real. Chelsea’s behavior was and is who she is when she’s either drunk, feeling threatened by another woman, “sad”, or “uncomfy”. Come on, people! The show did not set out to make Chelsea look insecure and possibly borderline. She is obviously both.
This isn’t a crime. What is criminal is her continuous refusal to take personal responsibility for her own outcome.
His actions did not feed into your insecurities girl! Thats just the way you are, just own it, just like you will never apologize for your emotions you can’t blame others for them either. 🤷🏻♀️
“Own it” is right.
Nawwwwwwwwwww if you are in an insecure relationship who doesn’t validate or respect the relationship you’re gonna feel insecure in the relationship because there is no safety net. If you are a secure person and a relationship makes you seem like a different person then you are in the wrong relationship. Relationships can 100% bring the worst out in you especially if it’s not meant for you.
@@jessicalehr5867 yeah you have a point too, so then get out of it 🤷🏽♀️🙅🏽♂️ why would you cry so hard to stay in a relationship that makes you feel that way?
He didn't like her. You could definitely tell she wanted him to be honest about it. His energy was off. She could feel he didn't like her. She wanted him to say it! So she pressed the issue.
I love the friendship chemistry in this interview, the best one so far. 🎙️
This podcast host seems like such an enabler 😅
okay, we saw what we saw on tv. why is everyone now believing Chelsea's version like she is suddenly speaking from a bible that reads no lies? there are three sides to every story: your side, my side and the truth. jimmy has barely said a word and i feel that's because he wants the hate off of chelsea. doesn't mean her side is the frickin play by play truth. she's only telling HER side. jimmy hasn't told his. i sit firmly on the fence.
Kaitlyn looks like Megan Fox in this episode 😍
Omg yes !!! Especially with her darker hair ❤🔥
I was thinking that!
Don't insult Megan like that 😢
Great episode. It was great seeing this side of Chelsea. I love how you two were fangirling over eachother 😂
It was so cute ❤
Omg! So excited but I’m also sooo tired 😅 I’ll come back when I have my morning coffee in hand 😊
It’s ok girl. I’m about to watch and take a little nap. My favorite kinda day ❤
All the editing in the world couldn't make her look this insecure... Jimmy needs to speak up instead of trying to go with the flow.... she speaks a good one but does she believe it....
Right!!!
I guess I’m not sleeping tonight 🤣…
"I am not insecure. I was in an insecure relationship that really heightened that, but I am a strong, secure woman. "
Oof. First off, by Chelsea's own words, what was there to "heighten" if she was not already insecure?
Second, it didnt matter how many "good moments" were edited out. The three fights revealed Chelsea's preoccupied attachment and abondonment issues that she projected onto Jimmy. It was borderline abusive.
Jimmy may not have been into Chelsea like she wanted but her frantic patterns made it worse.
People aren't reacting negatively to Chelsea being emotional and that cop out isn't working. They are reacting to her dysregulated emotional states , to her spiraling, straight up lying (telling Jimmy someone told her Jess was out that night-lie) and abuse of her partner.
I think Chelsea navigated all this best she could, being highlighted at her “worsts”.. I do believe she’s such a good person. These shows cast certain people for a reason and even when she gives insight on productions “suggestions”, they know how to get good TV out of these people after all the interviews during casting. They know your buttons!
Very very true...
Loved the interview!!!
Just sad that she still can’t take responsibilities for herself and admit that she is also wrong. Blaming all on editing or her partner is so weird.
I would love them having co host episodes with the both of them!
Chelsea please be so freaking for real right now. You have manipulative and abusive behaviors that NEED help. Only speaking to people who don't want to hold you accountable will not heal you. We just want you to recover from VERY clear relational trauma
What did she do that was abusive??? Crying???
I remember those newsprint outfits from the 80/90’s❤
Kaitlyn's quote of the day "I'm the most self aware psychopath ever" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was a good one. I just discovered Kaitlyn TH-cam channel after coming here because of Dave Neal and his coverage of Clayton and Jane doe. She is such a great podcast host!!! I'm here for the long haul now!!
Kaitlyn is adorable :)
Chelsea is sooo ridiculous an has an excuse for everything … can’t take her
Soooo shes really not going to be honest? This just makes her look so much worse bc it confirms it wasnt an act, she really is like that
If people living incredibly privileged lives could stop saying things like "everything happens for a reason" or "good things happen to good people", that would be nice. Tone deaf is the kindest thing I can say.
Chelsea should really just stop talking....... to everyone but her therapist.
So glad Chelsea is having her moment to show her true self on all these podcasts, she's so chill and cool. She's seems like a fun friend!
Great job for speaking up finally! Social media is bs and there are a lot of nasty computer bullies! Rely on real relationships and family! Jimmy treated you poorly and mislead you from the beginning.. keep growing ❤
Yes, I saw it, too! Love her! 👏👏👏
Such a good episode! Let's make hats lol
I thought this was an interview on Chelsea but the interviewer talk about herself more and that became frustrating.
Youre talking too much - let chelsea speak. Constantly cutting her off is annoying. You have nothing to offer on her experience. Shush!
Dave Neal also brought me to this channel. I would occasionally listen to Katelyn's podcast, but now I'm a fan of the You Tube channel. Great job
This was a great interview. I really liked the rapport. I enjoyed Chelsea and wish her all the best. She definitely deserves it.
In their next journey, Chelsea Black Well and her husband will tell us about how Love Is Blind changed love forever and then on their new channel, we want to know about Joey and Kelsey from the Bachelor who found each other After The Final Rose. It's all on the next two episodes of Off The Vine with Katlin Bristowe. Do you think Gerry & Theresa and Kelsey & Joey are two couples after both roses wins like The Golden Bachelor and The Bachelor we saw? Kaitlyn, Joey & Kelsey will be in April for their first video on their TH-cam channel the same as Gerry & Theresa's. What a big surprise.
I saw someone referring to this interview about why Jimmy is such a jerk and Chelsea has been totally misunderstood this season.
I can agree that theres several sides of a story but this was back peddling back and forth and it doesn’t match off. I started off watching an interview with her and jimmy for elf cosmetics, where she doesn’t exclude them being together in the future, keeping the option open, and them telling each other how much love they have for each other and that they are friends still.
And here she is bashing him like mad but still saying they are on great terms.
She says she regrets her delivery on her arguments, and then later on says she regrets nothing, only saying the megan fox thing which I guess is because it affects her directly with the comments she has gotten and not the fact it has an effect on others like the arguments had.
And in other interviews or on after the rose she says she is working on herself and going to therapy. But here she says she is very confident and theres no issues, only that she cries easily. Her behavior was super toxic, I understand it was only a part of your story and that other parts were great that wasn’t shown. And the pocket dialing was a bit of a jerk move for sure if that happened the way you were saying. But taking at least a bit of accountability changes a lot and I really don’t see that happening here in this interview.
I do wish you good luck though because this dating setting is not ideal for anyone, it puts so much pressure on people to succeed in a short time span and creates unnecessary stress on a new couple.
Her taking no accountability for her own behaviour is a red flag for me. Nope girl. If she was a man, she would’ve been cancelled
She took accountability multiple times… Did you watch this video? Sounds like you weren’t paying attention if you did
@@kendallsmith1583 time stamps of the multiple times she took accountability?
@@kendallsmith1583No she didn’t😂 she literally blamed Jimmy at every turn and literally said she plans on changing nothing about herself 😂
Yeah, I lost sympathy for her with this interview, sorry. Her narrative is still 'the problem was Jimmy did not care enough about me, if he cared more, I would have been chill'. Jimmy may not have cared (and for the record I did see him as fake), but someone not caring about you still does not defend Chelsea's on camera behavior in those fights. The unhealthy narrative for severely anxiously attached people is ALWAYS they are not cared about enough, and healing is being able to not hyper focus on that and learning to self soothe. If you feel insecure around someone, it is reasonable to walk away, it is not reasonable to berate them as Chelsea did.
And maybe she is working through that in therapy? Losing sympathy as you say for someone who is severely anxiously attached and not being healed enough to realize she needed to walk away seems,like not the right move? Also she doesn’t need sympathy, she needs empathy.
@@FloatingInSpace5702 'Working through' requires accountability. She took no accountability in this interview for her real errors. This woman is not working through things if after a year of reflection her narrative is 'it's all Jimmy's fault, he didn't try hard enough'. Girl! That ain't it.
We are not responsible for our traumas, but we are responsible for our actions. Our trauma should not be used as endless excuses for poor behavior.
@@FloatingInSpace5702You don’t get a pass to continue to say terrible things just cause “im in therapy” plus she takes zero accountability, so I doubt she’s in therapy.
Ok I agree with you, working through does require accountability. I think I’m willing to give her more slack since we did not see everything play out and I think there was more to her issues than what we saw. I also think because I’ve seen other podcasts with her where she does take some accountability I’m not looking at it from the perspective of just this one interview. But can totally agree with you that being accountable for her side of things is important and not done in this interview.
@@imjustaturtle641um…..but she did tho? Multiple times. 🤔🤨 I’ve lost count of how many times she’s said she didn’t handle things right and would change the way she responded. Do you want her to grovel? She didn’t take accountability in the way YOU wanted, therefore it’s “zero.” ?? 🤨
I need a Chelsea/Kaitlyn podcast lol you guys have great chemistry! It was such a fun conversation to listen to
I cringe and hate whenever she says “my truth”
I feel like the audio was slightly off. I could barely hear Chelsea and the host has a really wonderful but loud and abrupt laugh sometimes it was slightly hard on the ears. Could be just my audio.
No the host is screaming into the microphone while cutting off chelsea EVERY SENTENCE.
Chelsea saying she'll never do that again yet she and Jimmy are "good" and "not, not together".....grrrrllllll 😒.
?? She didn’t say that, the host did. Chelsea responded that they were def NOT together, and that she will never put herself in that position again. 🤔
Your interview style is a lot of fun
Seriously you don't regret anything you said Chelsea? Nothing? Zilch? Well I guess Jimmy dodged a bullet.
Love this
It's bizarre how she claims that she is a self-confident and secure woman when really.. she showed, continuously, that she is the opposite of that.
She showed she knew he was doing this to Benin tv. That’s it.
It seems she lies to herself just as much as she lies to other people.
Hey I’m also confident but I’ve been in a relationship where I was a complete insecure mess. Horrible men do that to you
The host is soooooo annoying. She loves the sound of her own voice. It’s not about you!!!!
Right! She's such a VIP
Chelsea keeps saying “I want to rebuttal myself”. 😂 You don’t need a show - just stand in front of the mirror.
You did Chelsea super dirty with that thumbnail photo
Fantastic interview Kaitlyn! Love Chelsea. Go Gurl ❤
So , Jimmy did not marry you for no reason... we saw the reasons..you were very insecure of jess.
So confusing how Chelsea still has so much to say about Jimmy and even Trevor's behaviour, but always ends with "but I love him, he's been there for me, I'm glad he didn't have to go through what I did" "Trevor is a sweetheart, I wish him nothing but the best". YUCK. It's fine to wish people the best with their life without having to love them. It's not okay to love the guy you almost picked who was gaslighting another girl on the side.
The host just freaking kisses chelsea's ass.
AND, chelsea, the more you say you're not insecure, yeah, yeah, we believe you.
Why is it such a bad thing even if she is? What are trying to prove?
We need someone from Love is Blind on Dancing with the Stars lol
Cowboys Calgary Alberta!! Shout-out from Calgary 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
On the show you could tell once Jimmy saw her he wasn't feeling her. Thats why the other girl said what she said she knew she look better. So once they got together Jimmy played alone. Chelsea knew he didn't like her in my opinion . She wanted him to stop with the bs and keep it real. You dont like me, just say it. I feel anyone would press the issue if you know the person you're with doesn't like you.
Any normal person would've just walked away. Instead of acting like an absolute psycho.
Why does Chelsea continues to say “I have dark hair that’s why they think I’m similar to MF”!?! Girl your hair is NOT dark
Ok.. I had no idea that everyone was saying their celeb lookalikes I wish the show included that. Ben said he looks like Jude Law... weird they didn't show these other people doing the same thing.
This podcast background looks exactly like Nick Vialls. 🤔
The fact that he goes and makes a hat about it…. Should prove he used the excuse to not get married. Or he wouldn’t try to be making money off his top secret
I thought I'd watch this cause I am just generally curious about what people have to say after the fact or extra interviews etc but holy fridge is this just a biased feminist echo chamber of a ramble... no thanks
Dang she’s getting roasted in the comments but I actually thought this was a lovely, charming interview.
Same. And the same people roasting her blame all the issues in her and Jimmy's relationship on her being "too insecure"... while they're out here being the reason why people get insecure like this.
That’s because some of us see past the humor and giggles and see someone who distorts reality, avoids accountability, and places blame on others 🤷🏽♀️
These are all the people that were portrayed in the movie idiocracy 😏
The only problem is that if I would love 2 people almost equally and one would say he looks like Ryan Gosling. I think my choice would be much easier
am i the only one who felt the host didn’t really watch the show🫣
My first thought was how often Kaitlyn gets compared to Megan Fox and I can actually see the comparison with the facial structure and features.
Do you suffer from face blindness?
@@SarahD19887 what does that even mean? 😂 I’m agreeing with anyone who ever compared current Kaitlyn B to Megan Fox.
@@servedinawinkphotography then all those people suffer from face blindness. Don't insult Megan like that 😢
Kaitlin you are the funniest, coolest, most beautiful broad I’ve ever seen! You’re just a doll! I love you! ❤
I really appreciate hearing Chelsea’s perspective and knowing that the show creators were telling her to bring up issues. I have heard about this exact thing from others who have been on reality shows, and she shouldn’t be judged for bringing things up when she was told to do so. Watching the show initially I felt like she only brought up negatives in response to Jimmy speaking positively, but I see the truth on that now. Reality shows are not just “let’s record reality,” they poke the bear for better ratings and more money.
I see the Megan Fox in Chelsea. She's gorgeous 😍
😂😂😂
loooooool nooooo
girl i am here for the tea and i'm like yes girl plug that shit up and make money but toooo many ads
Kaitlyn is so beautiful geez 😍
The craigslist Christian comment was my favorite lol i cracked up. I love Chelsea she is a sweetheart!
LMFAO! She just identified which of the two female friends was the one Jimmy slept with. It was the brunette! I knew it!! Her energy was completely off. The inappropriate low-cut shirt, the looks she was giving Chelsea.... she has a thing for Jimmy that is not platonic.
This Kaitlyn Lady is soo cringey dude! She is such a ppl pleaser. Like get it together and stop siding with your guests, you are validating all of her manipulative actions.
Nick Vial did the same with Chelsea when he interviewed her. I was disappointed. You don’t have to validate all of your guests’ actions when they’re in the wrong.
@Evie534 … perhaps so, but they get more info from a friend than a foe.
Talks cap could say “I’m not blind to the hindsight “
How about Zac 😇
She dodged a bullet with that dude he is passive aggrieve a chronic illness no one talks about cause it’s hard to prove
If you two aren't best friends now I will be furious!
You were joking about the podcast but please do it anyway ❤
This videos pic of her is messed up 😂 her face 😅
Its very bad that he secretly went out with his friends and one of them he even f****
I don’t blame him. Last time he went out for three hours she had a meltdown.
Really good interview... loved "getting to know" Chelsea more ❤
This host is too much of a fan. Unserious interview.
I can't believe Jimmy and that girl he slept with made those hats. So corny
Such a great interview! Kaitlyn kept going deeper & I appreciate it!! Chelsea is an absolute queen. They’re twin flames 😅🤣 iykyk
Great interview. Chelsea. Honestly the show did you wrong. You are so relatable. Love your giggles.
She did herself wrong by behaving the way she did. She can’t blame everything on the edit. Until she confront some of her issues, she will continue to repeat the same things over and over.
Preach.
I think the only reason the Megan Fox thing became a big deal is because of the comment Jimmy made about it after meeting her. He has gotten way too good of an edit though 😅
That's not true. It broke the internet because people saw through how manipulative and desperate she was trying to win Jimmy over hot-girl Jess by telling a big fat lie, then try to dumbby saying 'I think it's MGK's fiance or wife...' Now she's trying to brand herself as delulu so she doesn't have to take any accountability on her actions and just shift the blame it on bad edits...People have to be brain dead to fall for her BS
It's because he couldn't see her. If they were sitting face to face, it wouldn't have had the same impact
@@rubiiraetotally agree. Not buying her at all
Love this one and I think y’all both resemble Megan Fox and she is really cool and has lots of insecurities ❤❤❤