But also ALR: Give me as many diagnoses as possible so I can use them to my advantage and use them against people and use them as an excuse for my behaviour and attitude....
”I have to fight for my life!” *blames becky for not caring enough to take her to the hospital* I’ll never understand her desire for support when she doesn’t even care in the first place
Simple: she doesn't want actual care and help. She wants a yes man. And Beck was tired of taking her for every little thing only for ALR to call the nurses "minions" and the Dr's lazy.
I have higher grade serous carcinoma. I work on the nuclear power industry. Had an ileostomy bag for 6 and 1/2 months. I tried working with my ileostomy bag but it leaked and it was a big disaster. I tried working during chemo treatments and I was just distracted by my pain and side effects. When I am not having chemo treatments I work. I'm just not myself. Cancer is serious and I had to make changes in the way. I looked at myself because of all the scar tissue and the weight gain. And the fact that I was never going to get better if and that I was going to eventually die.. God is good and I keep striving everyday. Do you think about what value I have to give to this world before I die. I try to love myself everyday but it's hard because I'll never be what I once was..
@@TheWholeEntireCakeA Dr would look at biopsy results.There's no way any treatment plan is done for a cancer patient without knowing the stage. Something doesn't add up. She talks like anyone listening wouldn't see that important info is left out. Regardless, I wish her well. Uterine cancer migrates to the lungs and pelvic organs.
I have Higher Grade Serus Carcinoma I had a full hysterectomy, a bilateral resection of my large and small intestines And laser treatment around the connective tissue of my liver. My surgery was almost 9 hours and the surgery to reverse my ileostomy bag after 6 and 1/2 months (of pure torture ) was about an hour and a half. Followed by 6 months chemo. I am now in treatment again but this time I don't have to lose all of my body here etc. But I still have hardcore neuropathy. I still work. I cannot work during chemo treatments but I do my best to try and support myself. Her cancer is not anything to worry about. And it makes me doubt she at any type of cancer at all because she would be talking about mandatory follow-ups and preventative treatments
Remember that phase (that lasted two days, three days maximum) in which she held a can of soda and a bottle of water in each hand, and challenged herself to take a sip of each, so she'd drink more water?
@@Irene-qk6qm i don’t remember that (would love to see it, she’s so damn ridiculous) but frankly i’m surprised she was even able to make it a whole 24 hours
@@anaism.5821 It definitely happened on a video, but I can't remember exactly when. It might be in the post-Jade breakup era, along with the coloured popsicle sticks. If I can locate it, I'll let you know.
Honestly as sad and awful as cancer is, I think she absolutely thrived over that time. She’s one of those people who loves to have something wrong with her for the drama, attention and sympathy, so imagine when she got to say she had cancer. I think she genuinely loved it, which is entirely disturbing
she's definitely the kinda girl in school who'd be excited to show off her boot after a broken ankle or something, you know she'd have a field day every day over that back in the day. she can hardly walk now and certainly can't wear a boot or use one of those knee scooters, so it's not out of the realm of possibility that she would revel in being able to say "i have cancer". she'd absolutely adore the attention and the worry from some people, but that fades fast, and that's part of why she dragged things out as long as she did imo
I have always thought Amber had Munchausens - She loves having illness and she is positively giddy at getting new diagnoses (but never does anything about them - especially the mental health ones) even small things get blown out of proportion and she dramatises them to be so much worse or extreme than they are - like when she twisted her ankle... That became "multiple torn ligaments"... Which it wasn't. She would have, at her size, been bed bound for weeks if not months if that was the case. She milked that so much with dramatic crying videos about how horrible it is for her... It was a twisted ankle!? And when she thought she had a partially collapsed lung and claimed later she was "misdiagnosed" - which she wasn't... Her discharge sheet said "undisclosed upper back pain" as the diagnosis - The doctor probably said to Amber a list of things it *_could be_* and she heard "partially collapsed lung" and just ran with it because the form did not say that as her given diagnosis - She came on camera to dramatically announce her news, she was sobbing and said she has a partially collapsed lung and then broke down and burst into (fake) tears saying "what do I even do with this information!?" - It was just ridiculous. She definitely loves being ill and the attention she gets from it. I think she also feels like it makes her special or unique. I think that's why Amber doesn't really want to lose weight - her size gets her attention plus it means people worry about her.
@@AngryLittleSponge as sad as it is, she reminds me of my eldest daughter. She’s 19 and since her mid teens she has thrived over self diagnosing. She’s claimed to have all manners of mental illness. From BPD, to DID, to OCD. She had recently been claiming she autistic which she isn’t, and call herself queer which she isn’t (we wouldn’t care at all if she was btw, she just isn’t). She lies all the time, doesn’t want to work, is a victim of everything, and can’t take criticism in the slightest. The only thing that’s different is that my daughter is stick thin.
@@Beka_Rexdamn that sucks, it might be good for her to go inti therapy if thats possible (and if she isnt already ofc lol), best wishes to you and your family
She doesn't even say THE majority. It's always bugged me. She says "I'm so much better than majority of you." She does this weird speech pattern a lot actually. I have no idea why. But yeah, when she's talking about "the majority" of something, she almost always skips "the"
Before you feel too bad for her, know that if she had a magic button that would make you 600 elbees but make her 115 lbs, she'd press it, even as you begged her not to. Then she'd sneer at you for your new appearance.
She's such a drama queen just like her ankle was dangling there but yet it was not even broken or sprained. She was choking and dying from a potato and her girlfriend Jade saved her life. She's so dramatic for attention. I feel like the more dramatic she makes it the less probability that it is to be true.
It's so frustrating that perfectly healthy people, including children, get the big C and it ends them. They don't get a chance to improve their health, or they are already doing everything they can, but they just get unlucky. Meanwhile, ALR is utterly irresponsible with her health, literally eating herself onto an early grave, gets the Big C, BEATS IT, and then CONTINUES to be irresponsible with her health and eat herself into an early grave. There is no justice in this world.
Yep, my dad wasn’t necessarily unlucky but uninformed. He had reflux for years before we all knew how bad it could be. It eroded his oesophagus, and they operated on what was pre-cancer the year my nephew was born. He died before his second birthday. My brother has two more kids now, his youngest is named after my dad. Born with reflux.
@@Sunshine4 oh absolutely. Or how a n*rcissist can bounce from relationship to relationship, ruining the self-esteem of her ex partners irrevocably, but still managing to find a line of willing new victims to feed her constant need for narc supply and filming it all to profit from TH-cam- HEY WAIT A SECOND
@@missybuchanan9631 I have eternally recurring reflux and am on daily medication (and don't eat after 6 PM) due to it. My next EGD is on October 10th, we just schedule them yearly. Sorry to hear about your father. We knew a lot less before. Nowadays, that information is everywhere.
Actually, what she really had was sporadic periods her whole obese life. What happened was so much tissue built up from years of no real periods, that the damage broke, and let it flow.😂
Is it? I believe womb lining tissue doesn't just keep building up forever, regardless of whether it's shed, that's not how it works? People who don't have periods from taking the pill can still have lining build up but it doesn't just keep going until they're stuffed 😅 @@evenstar04
don't you know that it's becky's fault and if she had a more supportive partner she would've gotten that taken care of the second a drop of unusual blood came out of her? /j
I remember seeing the pictures on her Snapchat and I still haven’t recovered. And poor Beck probably had to clean it, listen to Amber whine/cry, AND deal with Amber blaming them for getting cancer in the first place. I’d have a mental breakdown too
She didn’t have anything done with her hymen. That’s cosmetic. Would not be done immediately following this procedure with potential complications. ( experienced surgical tech). Also she later posted her op report and surprise! Not on it…
Why is no one talking about how she’s talking about her hymen. When a doctor does a surgical procedure through the vagina TO SAVE A PERSONS LIFE restitching the hymen is not common practice or a priority. Especially because the risk of post operative bleeding. If her hymen was “restitched” it could impede excess blood flow post surgery. Why would the surgeon STITCH HER VAGINA BACK CLOSED so further medical staff cannot assess the surgical site? Or access the bleeding if she were to bleed out post operative. Makes no damn sense.
@miranndall69 no doctor is going to waste time during an emergency surgery to stitch a hymen together. It's literally nothing more than skin tissue and was insignificant to what was going on. Amber had a weird obsession with her hymen during this time. She wore it like a badge of honor or something. Mind you, there's no way for Amber to even know if her hymen was intact. She was 573 pounds, never went to a gyno and was incapable of performing a self exam. Hymens break down during the natural aging process anyways so it's a waste of time and energy to restitch it.
@@miranndall69 they might do that, but that's irrelevant to the discussion here because the doctor almost certainly *didn't* do that during her surgery because it would have been a waste of time and effort as well as something that could cause potential complications down the road and even impede the healing process. it doesn't matter if it's something doctors *can* do, we're talking about what actually did happen with amber as opposed to pondering what doctors and surgeons may or may not do edit: she released her op papers and nowhere was it noted that she had a hymen reconstruction performed during her surgery. any surgeon with half a brain wouldn't just oopsy-daisy forget to document a whole part of their surgery, our gorl absolutely did not have a hymen reconstruction
Her mouth noises, her tongue sloshing around in her mouth and sticking out of her face, her eyes rolling over fast food, her moaning, and how she makes a platform for her food to sit on so its closer to her mouth all drive me crazy!! I may over react when it comes to ppl eating because i physically cant be in the same room as ppl when they eat (i eat in a different room than what my family does and i haven't been to a restaurant in YEARS) so it could just be me but all the noises make me wanna cry cuz it makes my anxiety amd frustration sky Rocket
@batbrat4412 I'm the same. The Dr says it's misphonia. I get so angry that I fast forward the bits where she is eating. It's the same with anyone. It's actually got a bit better since I started being tube fed, but Amber, nope can't watch or listen. ❤
Guise the guy was so surprised because she was the best breather in the history of breathing and blew the meter out of the water 😂😂😂 my god why does she bother me so badly
Nothing is more irritating than a stupid person who not only thinks they’re smarter than everyone else, but that they also need to TEACH us because they literally know EVERYTHING….yet their life is a total mess….how odd!
Beck crying behind the camera while she explains her scary bleeding situation..but yeah, she didn't care about you at all Amberlyn... But I do feel for her with the cancer stuff. That is so so scary and Im glad she was able to have it removed successfully. Wish her a lifetime of remission.
Ooh meh god yew guise! Becky!! Bring me some cheesy poofs!! No, kitty, this is MY pot pie! No, kitty! That’s a BAD KITTY!! But moooooooooooooommmm! Yes, I really am starting to fill out nicely
You can buy a Baby from a Surrogate from a country with low standarts for "Adoption requirements". In 🇺🇦 for example, a paradise for human trafficking. A LOT of people call that process of buying a baby from a Surrogate "Adoption". I have heard the standarts for taking in foster children are extrelow in the US, no clean legal recorder or mental examination required.
As someone who worked for an oncologist for years, Ambers entire story about having cancer has been an absolute fabrication. She claims that she was bleeding profusely for 2 years, but never went to the ER for that, but she would go to the ER for a her broken toenail. If Amber was bleeding, nonstop for two years, bleeding profusely, not only would she have been severely anemic, she would have been extremely fatigued, and suffered lack of oxygen. So there is no way that she bled nonstop for 2 years. She claimed to over hear the ER doctor tell somebody that if he didn’t perform surgery on Amber that she was going to die, NFW. Yet, she was given medicine that stopped her bleeding. So the ER doctor would’ve never told somebody that Amber would’ve bled to death because she had stopped bleeding. Also, a doctor is not going to tell you over the phone that you might have cancer. That infuriated me. Amber is saying things that are absolutely outrageous. I don’t think Amber ever had cancer. She claimed to be diagnosed and cured of cancer in two months. There are too many things that Amber has claimed that are simply impossible. She’s like 550lbs, surgery would’ve been too dangerous for her to begin with. During Covid, they postponed ALL surgeries unless it was absolutely necessary there’s no way they would’ve performed any kind of surgery on Amber. Amber claims a couple of days after her “D & C” that she got a phone call and told that she had cancer, NEVER EVER would that have happened. The doctors office would have called and made an appointment for her to come in to go over her results and possible treatments.. There are too many things that she has claimed over the years that are just impossible. Amber claim that she had a 21 inch vertical scar from surgery….Her stomach has been exposed a few times and there is no surgical scar, her excuse for that was…..IT SIMPLY DISAPPEARED!?! Also, FYI… every day following her supposed call from the doctor about having cancer she was doing mukbangs every single day, she then just put pre-recorded on all the videos. It’s all been a lie. Do you think it was a coincidence that Becky’s mother, and Destiny’s mother were both dying of cancer when Amber somehow had cancer. Her views at the time were tanking but if you look back on her video when she claimed that she got cancer. It’s amazing how many views she got on it! Also, she had claimed her grandma FAKED cancer!!!!
As someone who knows a few people who have gone through cancer they NEVER tell you over the phone, you're always brought in for more testing and told in person. Also yea where is her scar? She's showed her stomach since.
so I really dislike amber, but I kind of think she MAY have told the truth about the cancer. what I think she effed up on, was that she likely wasn’t bleeding profusely like, ever. except maybe when she ended up GOING to the er. the rest of the time I would bet she just had small like panty liner amounts of blood. also, she only had stage one cancer. that CAN be “cured” with only surgery. my father had stage one prostate cancer, and only had to have surgery. my mother however had stage 3 endometrial cancer, and I was with her when before surgery the doctor literally said “what we are concerned about is that this could be cancer.” she was not told over the phone however when she was diagnosed, as she was still in the hospital after surgery. they biopsied all the tissue they removed and diagnosed it right then. all this to say, perhaps amber did lie entirely, but just from my extremely limited experience I have seen a couple things she said really happen in a way similar to what she’s said. I do think she’s a liar, but I’m not sure on the cancer thing. I also think she is a massive drama queen, and likely way over exaggerated all of her experience regarding the whole ordeal.
I just realized 13:41 that you can hear morning birds in this clip so amber made Becky drive her to Taco Bell at like 4-5am and chow down and film while the boys were sleeping
Her saying the doctors said she had a “remarkable bladder” kinda made me laugh. Like tbh that’s the last thing you want doctors to say about anything going on w ur body. I know she prob meant unremarkable but I got a chuckle 😂😂
However real or dangerous her "cancer experience" has been, if that didn't change her mindset, she is done for good with weightloss and taking care of herself. No need to watch anymore, not expecting anything else than more of the same....
I've got cancer I've been bleeding heavily on and off for 2 years now and I've ended up anaemic several times and needed tteatment for that. How has she not ended having issues she's 600lbs and bleeding like that 24/7. Makes no sense to me! She's disgusting. She will never take responsibility, will always be somebody else's fault!
She *SO* wants to be seen as ✨stunning and brave✨ - That BS about "even if I worked a regular job I would not stop working just because I have cancer"... First off, she'd never work a "real" job and secondly, if she did ever have a regular job, Amber would tell every co worker, her boss, customer etc she had cancer and stay for as long as she could milk it and get sympathy and attention and then soon as that sympathy and attention dwindled she would go off sick, hamming up the symptoms. Her justifying keeping herself 550lbs as "making her money" and saying "people with cancer still have to eat" is just horrific. Money (and having a care taker) is the only things to matter in life to Amber.
She could never. She quit her real job because her back hurt. I work in a team of two. Just me and my manager, then the rest of our team in Auckland. My manager was on leave last week, so I went to work with a headache, worked til 2, almost passed out, watched the room spin, finished all the urgent work, then went home, stole some pain killers from my mum, and went to bed with an ice pack. Real people do real things. She could never.
honestly might not be, ive heard this happen to people i know, not that their surgery was prioritized and others' were pushed back, but where theyve been the one to have them pushed back for people who needed more immediate care, which they base off of a number of things like age and severity if untreated longer, severity compared to the other patients (like, if one is only there to get minor surgery vs someone who's bleeding out)
@@anaysia21 yeah, but i don’t think a doc wouldn’t tell her. “Hey, I pushed 3 other people off the operating table for you.” Lol. The other patient, would be informed their surgery, would be postponed. Our Gorl, is either getting the most incompetent medical professionals or she’s getting the VIP treatment, it’s never just run of the mill common treatment.
Yeah it happens! I have had several ops now and I have t1 diabetes so I normally go down first but the nurse or surgeon always warn me that if they do get an emergency I'd have my op after they've dealt with it.
@@GiveItUpJan it's amazing how she gets treated so well by these idiot doctors and that she even has the money to pay for all of this since she doesn't have insurance and spends almost twice my rent each month on just DoorDash/uber eats/etc every month. i just cannot believe this woman
FYI from an imaging tech: Pet Scan table has a weight limit of 500lbs, MRI tables have a weight limit of 500lbs some even more. Also they have larger and open magnets..so…Also lymph nodes can be swollen for several reasons that aren’t cancer related. She more than likely had precancerous cells and due to the excessive bleeding & irregular cycles, they offered a hysterectomy as an option. That is not uncommon.
How many people don’t fit in the tunnel? Those things feel huge (tho I admit I have always gone in feet first, I imagine head first they feel teeny tiny).
That fact she never visited the gyno by 18 or whenever she started becoming sexually active is so ridiculous. It wasn't Becks fault whatsoever but ALR has got to blame someone besides herself
my sister was always a pretty healthy weight until maybe 4 or 5 years ago, she didn't see a gyno for the first time until she was 26 or 27 years old. i, as her younger sister, had to be the one urging her to go to the gyno, saying that it was crucial for her healthcare and that she needed to take care of herself and that especially because she's sexually active she should be checked for cancer every so often, but none of that seemed to scare her as much as actually going in and getting it checked out. finally after all my "encouragement" she finally went and thankfully nothing was amiss, but my sister is overweight, not obese. especially not morbidly obese or even super morbidly obese. she doesn't have the same worries as amber, but just bringing that up as an example to show how important (or impor-in, if you will) it is to take care of yourself and get these things checked out. pookie very rarely (if at all) went to the gyno before this all took place. hell, remember when dusty was at the gyno and amber came along with her and couldn't even realize that a diagram she was looking at was a uterus and not a vulva. furthermore, she acted like a complete child, a woman in her mid 20s saying "yep, destiny's getting her hoo-ha looked at" and then busting up like a fifth grader. absolutely ridiculous. what a joke of a human being she is
For one, I’ve never had a UTI w/blood in my urine - spotting maybe but full on blood, no. I know everyone’s bodies are different but I still think that peeing blood is a cause of serious concern regardless. Idk who’s she’s conspiring with but for her sake, she shouldn’t be asking friends their opinions, she should’ve immediately called her doctor since you know she literally is supposed to have had cancer? She’s a hypochondriac for the smallest things & goes to the ER/UC for her toe yet ignores something as serious as bloody urine & actually waits for a doctor? Make it make sense.
As a rape victim I no longer go to get female exams. It triggers too much. The men that assaulted me were in medical so I understand the fear of going. Its so scary.
Well everyone should know that she is never going to change herself. No wonder her "haters" say the things that they do because its the literal truth that she wont face. 🤷♀
It honestly frustrates me so much that she lets so much happen to her, yet she doesn't do the one big thing that could prevent a lot of it, that being her weight
So I actually had all of this happen, almost to a T. It was not Cancer, it was a hormonal imbalance which can happen when you gain a lot of weight quickly or in my case, lose a lot. No surgery was performed, but I did deal with anemia and severe fatigue over the course of a year leading up to it. Embarrassment with this stuff can prevent people from getting the help they need. I don't find it hard to believe she waited. A lot of people here are providing anecdotal or experiential evidence as to why the gorl is lying - but honestly, the truth is that we don't know. It's usually better not to assume, I think, even if something seems far-fetched or unusual. I wish her the best, wish you all the best. This body is the only one we get, and it's a lot better to care for it now than when disaster strikes, so grab a glass of water, stretch your legs, and do something good for yourself today.
It blows my mind that Amber would not be slowly losing weight and keeping that small amount off and losing more (after a cancer diagnosis). Given the weight loss she has done over the past 2 years she should be in the 300's. It's Russian Roulette for all other cancers that might not be picked up until drastic measures need to be taken to try and save her life. Then the luscious locks will be the first to go. Diabetes also causes your hair to fall out. If she does nothing, nothing can be done to save her hair.
They don’t do full hysterectomies for pre cancerous cells. Idk why it’s surprising that a super morbidly obese woman would have cancer as a result of her morbid obesity. Look up the risk factors for uterine and ovarian cancer. Obesity is a major one because fat cells produce estrogen.
She contradicts herself so much - before her mammogram she said "some people say it hurts really bad" and " and then other people say it's no biggie, it's pretty easy, pretty simple... It doesn't hurt".... Then after her mammogram she said, as if she was surprised; "I have literally *ALWAYS* been told that it's gonna hurt, like, it's soooo uncomfortable and honestly it like, didn't hurt at all" - GORL you said you knew that some people say it hurts and others say it's no biggie and doesn't hurt at all - why are you now saying *EVERYONE* says it hurts and you were surprised it was simple and not painful!?! She's infuriating.
The poor gyno prob was the one traumatized😅 how she even managed to find her gash under mountains of blubber is beyond me. Wonder how many nurses had to hold her gut up?
It’s the way saying the entire word gynecologist is just impossible for her to say. Like this is horrendous but when she is sobbing and says, “PLEEASE GO TO THE GYNO” makes me laugh so hard. Like in the most serious of times she still can’t say the whole word.
I think it’s wild that people believe amberlynn lied about her cancer because that video of her announcing that she was diagnosed with cancer was the most raw genuine video we’ve ever gotten of her.
Everyone keeps saying she showed proof but the only thing I can find is her video saying “here’s your proof” where she posts an illegible blurry document and then goes on her phone and reads it to us. Is there anything else? Like an actual legible document that’s been seen?
Her cure for a lot of shit would be weightloss but that’s the last thing on her list yet other people fight for their lives do everything they are told and some and still pass away it will never not piss me off! Oh and ps whoever did her epidural is the true mvp!
The way this whole last cancer baiting thing pissed me off....I can't. While she was pulling this shit my mom started immunotherapy for the recurrence of her uterine cancer. My mom was always health conscious but when she was initially diagnosed she went even harder. She started eating raw vegan and doing supplemental therapy along with conventional treatment just to try to hedge her bets and beat this. She is fighting so hard to stay alive....and then there is fucking Amber...
“ I don’t want to change every single aspect of my life😢” But in reality over eating and lack of psychical activity are the aspects in her life🤦🏻♀️🙈🤡…🤣
When I went on immunosuppressants, they gave me an aids test and I almost walked out. That’s the worst I’ve seen, but only because I was focusing on my sister-in-law’s face when she got that epidural.
Before my emergency hysterectomy, i was working my icu RN job, and globs fell down my pantleg. I didn't stop to take picture, tho. I cleaned up and kept working. Almost killed myself on accident. Girls, don't ignore your body.
I wonder if that thing that Alexis knows that would ruin Amber's life has something to do with the cancer Arc? Whatever it is Amber basically agreed that she was afraid to say certain things because Alexis was threatening to ruin her and why would Amber be so afraid if Alexis was lying? I think that it either has to do with the cancer or Alexis knows that the FBI Frank thing was a lie or possibly both. I really believe that she gets a lot of pleasure from lying and deceiving her audience and that she would definitely brag about it if given the chance. It might even be that Amber told Alexis what her real weight is and we all know that she definitely doesn't want that getting out. She hasn't filmed herself stepping on the scale in like a year. She's definitely still lying about that too.
It is 2024, I can't believe people are still having the conversation around the cancer. She did have cancer, she showed the paperwork...I don't know why people are continuing to say she either didn't have cancer or pre-cancerous cells, it literally said what it was lol. She didn't need either chemo or radiation because it was low grade and concentrated to her uterus, so they gave her a hysterectomy and went from there. She was hella lucky that it was caught so early, the conversation should definitely center around why she didn't take her symptoms seriously and why she didn't let this moment in life shape her decisions going forward. Conspiracy theories about her cancer look whacky as shit. Amber has lied but she's not a good liar. She did not get a full ass hysterectomy to own the haydurs.
I just caught that when she was talking about having surgery she said she was worried because she's never had surgery and not that it's because she could have cancer.
I think food noise is such a good way to put it. I think she has lost weight gradually. Like actually lost. Yes due to meds, but the key is reducing the food noise. That's the key for her.
a narcissists only goal is attention, not every narc has a talent so those people might resukt back to the easiest form of attention, victimhood. Nobody has ever felt pain like a narc has, everything they go through is the worst ever, they like to decorate their stories a bit to make them sound much worse, incomparable to any situation ever in the world. A narc will lie, gaslight, manipulate, they feel only for themselves, they are incapable to feel compassion. She is a victim to food, the world, her surroundings, at the same time she must tell how amazing she is despite all the hate, so people compliment her all the time, they love her, even her exes who dump her love her so deeply and truly until she has someone else who loves her then the person never really did and only used her, she has to keep the narrative that she is amazing up while being a constant victim. "Skinny people too" because a victim can NEVER be at fault for their own misery.
Anyone who believes she faked having cancer is . Well insane. She most likely embellished details, but remember Beck was there caring for her and taking her to her appointments. And we all know what her fake crying looks like and those initial videos are certainly not it. Beck was in the background supporting her, providing the details she was missing. Ugh. Sometimes y'all take things way too far and speculation on her cancer diagnosis of all things is not only gross, but also gives her lying capabilities way too much credit lol. She would not have been able to keep that up
She had pre cancerous cells not cancer... I just can't believe she had cancer and decided not to change her relationship with food. Did DramaLynn have chemotherapy or radiation???
Someone tell me why she didn't have to do chemo? Did we ever find out what stage she was in? I've had several people in my life with cancer, all where put on chemo either before or after. I never doubted her cancer, now I am 2nd guessing myself. No hormone replacement therapy! Yet she still has the thickest hair I've ever seen! I only had my ovaries removed due to cysts and I am still losing my hair. It started about month 3 after the loss of my ovaries. All this is why I now question her cancer.
While I’m still skeptical of ALR’s story in particular, I do want to say that this isn’t always the case with cancer - I had cervical adenocarcinoma which ended up warranting the removal of my cervix, followed by several rounds of chemo and radiation. Cisplatin (the specific chemo I was administered) is known to not cause total hair loss, just very mild thinning! The main side effect is tinnitus LOL. It’s a common misconception that cancer is always accompanied by total hair loss
I had to have both ovaries removed. One had a fluid filled cyst the other a tumor. They were benign. I have still lost my hair! Even though they left my uterus as it still produces estrogen. It didn't help . 😢 Congratulations on your recovery and you are a hero to me, keep winning the battle!
as a person who had cancer and suffered so much she makes a mockery of it and it’s absolutely disgusting in every way. this angers me to no end. i’m absolutely appalled
Amber complaining is like someone purposely burning themselves knowing the damage and still doing it them wanting everyone around them to actually care…like babe you did all this to yourself Take care of it
Every doctor to ALR: if you don’t change, you’ll die.
ALR: lolol you’re so dumb.
But also ALR: Give me as many diagnoses as possible so I can use them to my advantage and use them against people and use them as an excuse for my behaviour and attitude....
"I don't know much about anything."
The only honest thing she's ever said
”I have to fight for my life!”
*blames becky for not caring enough to take her to the hospital*
I’ll never understand her desire for support when she doesn’t even care in the first place
It is the suporteeen she's after, noting else.
Plus if she really cared she could have just called an uber. Or maybe get an ambulance so she won't be such a burden to others.
It’s how she skirts feeling shame and embarrassment for her own actions. Blame it on everyone else.
Simple: she doesn't want actual care and help. She wants a yes man. And Beck was tired of taking her for every little thing only for ALR to call the nurses "minions" and the Dr's lazy.
It’s hard to understand the mindset of a narcissist though. All talk, all blame, no follow through or accountability.
And she hasn't been to a gynecologist since her surgery. Unbelievable!
I know and she is too big for the machines that can scan the body for cancer
"If I had a job I'd still work with cancer."
Bro, you quit your job because of obesity.
I have higher grade serous carcinoma. I work on the nuclear power industry. Had an ileostomy bag for 6 and 1/2 months. I tried working with my ileostomy bag but it leaked and it was a big disaster. I tried working during chemo treatments and I was just distracted by my pain and side effects. When I am not having chemo treatments I work. I'm just not myself. Cancer is serious and I had to make changes in the way. I looked at myself because of all the scar tissue and the weight gain. And the fact that I was never going to get better if and that I was going to eventually die.. God is good and I keep striving everyday. Do you think about what value I have to give to this world before I die. I try to love myself everyday but it's hard because I'll never be what I once was..
Perhaps our gorl should re watch her diagnosis video again to refresh the memory of how one looks while actually cryeeen 😅
🎉❤❤❤ 4:10 ❤
Amber: "I'll need to do everything the doctors tell me to."
Also Amber: *doesn't go to follow ups, doesn't lose any weight, continues to eat garbage*
Brilliant
Has zero imaging scans done either in the years following! She’s asking for trouble.
@@TheWholeEntireCakeA Dr would look at biopsy results.There's no way any treatment plan is done for a cancer patient without knowing the stage. Something doesn't add up. She talks like anyone listening wouldn't see that important info is left out. Regardless, I wish her well. Uterine cancer migrates to the lungs and pelvic organs.
I have Higher Grade Serus Carcinoma I had a full hysterectomy, a bilateral resection of my large and small intestines And laser treatment around the connective tissue of my liver. My surgery was almost 9 hours and the surgery to reverse my ileostomy bag after 6 and 1/2 months (of pure torture ) was about an hour and a half. Followed by 6 months chemo. I am now in treatment again but this time I don't have to lose all of my body here etc. But I still have hardcore neuropathy. I still work. I cannot work during chemo treatments but I do my best to try and support myself. Her cancer is not anything to worry about. And it makes me doubt she at any type of cancer at all because she would be talking about mandatory follow-ups and preventative treatments
@@TheWholeEntireCakeShe said she feels in her soul she is cancer free. Truly a witless wonder, this one.
THIS A WHOLE MOVIE LOL
How can someone take such enormous bites of food, and then take these tiny *dainty* half sips of water?
God forbid anything without calories passes her lips 😩
Water doesn't taste as good.
Remember that phase (that lasted two days, three days maximum) in which she held a can of soda and a bottle of water in each hand, and challenged herself to take a sip of each, so she'd drink more water?
@@Irene-qk6qm i don’t remember that (would love to see it, she’s so damn ridiculous) but frankly i’m surprised she was even able to make it a whole 24 hours
@@anaism.5821 It definitely happened on a video, but I can't remember exactly when. It might be in the post-Jade breakup era, along with the coloured popsicle sticks. If I can locate it, I'll let you know.
Honestly as sad and awful as cancer is, I think she absolutely thrived over that time. She’s one of those people who loves to have something wrong with her for the drama, attention and sympathy, so imagine when she got to say she had cancer. I think she genuinely loved it, which is entirely disturbing
she's definitely the kinda girl in school who'd be excited to show off her boot after a broken ankle or something, you know she'd have a field day every day over that back in the day. she can hardly walk now and certainly can't wear a boot or use one of those knee scooters, so it's not out of the realm of possibility that she would revel in being able to say "i have cancer". she'd absolutely adore the attention and the worry from some people, but that fades fast, and that's part of why she dragged things out as long as she did imo
I have always thought Amber had Munchausens - She loves having illness and she is positively giddy at getting new diagnoses (but never does anything about them - especially the mental health ones) even small things get blown out of proportion and she dramatises them to be so much worse or extreme than they are - like when she twisted her ankle... That became "multiple torn ligaments"... Which it wasn't. She would have, at her size, been bed bound for weeks if not months if that was the case. She milked that so much with dramatic crying videos about how horrible it is for her... It was a twisted ankle!? And when she thought she had a partially collapsed lung and claimed later she was "misdiagnosed" - which she wasn't... Her discharge sheet said "undisclosed upper back pain" as the diagnosis - The doctor probably said to Amber a list of things it *_could be_* and she heard "partially collapsed lung" and just ran with it because the form did not say that as her given diagnosis - She came on camera to dramatically announce her news, she was sobbing and said she has a partially collapsed lung and then broke down and burst into (fake) tears saying "what do I even do with this information!?" - It was just ridiculous. She definitely loves being ill and the attention she gets from it. I think she also feels like it makes her special or unique. I think that's why Amber doesn't really want to lose weight - her size gets her attention plus it means people worry about her.
Oh she absolutely loved it people probably babied her even more
@@AngryLittleSponge as sad as it is, she reminds me of my eldest daughter. She’s 19 and since her mid teens she has thrived over self diagnosing. She’s claimed to have all manners of mental illness. From BPD, to DID, to OCD. She had recently been claiming she autistic which she isn’t, and call herself queer which she isn’t (we wouldn’t care at all if she was btw, she just isn’t). She lies all the time, doesn’t want to work, is a victim of everything, and can’t take criticism in the slightest. The only thing that’s different is that my daughter is stick thin.
@@Beka_Rexdamn that sucks, it might be good for her to go inti therapy if thats possible (and if she isnt already ofc lol), best wishes to you and your family
"I'm so much better than the majority of you" will NEVER fail to shock me
The mask slipped lol
She doesn't even say THE majority. It's always bugged me. She says "I'm so much better than majority of you."
She does this weird speech pattern a lot actually. I have no idea why. But yeah, when she's talking about "the majority" of something, she almost always skips "the"
@@DispeckfulOMFG I was just commenting about how much that shit irks me like she REALLY doesn't know she's saying it wrong🤬🤬🤬
@@Dispeckfulyour name😭
@@MunKiDaYwhen you’re on her level, saying “the” is beneath you. It’s just like, a waste of her valuable time
Before you feel too bad for her, know that if she had a magic button that would make you 600 elbees but make her 115 lbs, she'd press it, even as you begged her not to. Then she'd sneer at you for your new appearance.
Was that an ask fm post? :o
And then she would gain it all back
Every now and then I do feel bad for her.
@@JNB520 👍 you have a heart.
@@JNB520whenever I feel bad for her I rewatch the videos of how she’s treated all her gfs and I lose all empathy 😂
She's such a drama queen just like her ankle was dangling there but yet it was not even broken or sprained. She was choking and dying from a potato and her girlfriend Jade saved her life. She's so dramatic for attention. I feel like the more dramatic she makes it the less probability that it is to be true.
The invisible cord of life 😂
That's exactly why some people doubt she had cancer in the first place.
It's so frustrating that perfectly healthy people, including children, get the big C and it ends them. They don't get a chance to improve their health, or they are already doing everything they can, but they just get unlucky. Meanwhile, ALR is utterly irresponsible with her health, literally eating herself onto an early grave, gets the Big C, BEATS IT, and then CONTINUES to be irresponsible with her health and eat herself into an early grave. There is no justice in this world.
Yep, my dad wasn’t necessarily unlucky but uninformed. He had reflux for years before we all knew how bad it could be. It eroded his oesophagus, and they operated on what was pre-cancer the year my nephew was born. He died before his second birthday. My brother has two more kids now, his youngest is named after my dad. Born with reflux.
Some reason why drunk drivers seemingly never off themselves, just others.
@@missybuchanan9631 no justice whatsoever. I'm sorry for your loss.
@@Sunshine4 oh absolutely. Or how a n*rcissist can bounce from relationship to relationship, ruining the self-esteem of her ex partners irrevocably, but still managing to find a line of willing new victims to feed her constant need for narc supply and filming it all to profit from TH-cam- HEY WAIT A SECOND
@@missybuchanan9631 I have eternally recurring reflux and am on daily medication (and don't eat after 6 PM) due to it. My next EGD is on October 10th, we just schedule them yearly.
Sorry to hear about your father. We knew a lot less before. Nowadays, that information is everywhere.
I would feel bad for her, but she had all the symptoms and still decided to not get it checked out for two entire years 🤦♀️
Actually, what she really had was sporadic periods her whole obese life. What happened was so much tissue built up from years of no real periods, that the damage broke, and let it flow.😂
and still hasn’t done anything to improve her health to this day.
@@evenstar04That's so disgusting.
Is it? I believe womb lining tissue doesn't just keep building up forever, regardless of whether it's shed, that's not how it works? People who don't have periods from taking the pill can still have lining build up but it doesn't just keep going until they're stuffed 😅 @@evenstar04
don't you know that it's becky's fault and if she had a more supportive partner she would've gotten that taken care of the second a drop of unusual blood came out of her? /j
i hope beck is doing good. i can’t imagine witnessing the infamous bloodbath and being able to live a normal life afterwards.
I remember seeing the pictures on her Snapchat and I still haven’t recovered. And poor Beck probably had to clean it, listen to Amber whine/cry, AND deal with Amber blaming them for getting cancer in the first place. I’d have a mental breakdown too
@@shimmershine6902I was just gonna ask if y'all saw the pictures and you just know she didn't take a bath or even washed up a little bit afterwards
@@00loudog Beck probably had to clean it too smh
She didn’t have anything done with her hymen. That’s cosmetic. Would not be done immediately following this procedure with potential complications. ( experienced surgical tech). Also she later posted her op report and surprise! Not on it…
I think she’d have to search for a cosmetic surgeon todo it too. Not all of them will, because it’s so detrimental
it's IMPOR-IN you GUISE
Why is no one talking about how she’s talking about her hymen.
When a doctor does a surgical procedure through the vagina TO SAVE A PERSONS LIFE restitching the hymen is not common practice or a priority.
Especially because the risk of post operative bleeding.
If her hymen was “restitched” it could impede excess blood flow post surgery.
Why would the surgeon STITCH HER VAGINA BACK CLOSED so further medical staff cannot assess the surgical site? Or access the bleeding if she were to bleed out post operative.
Makes no damn sense.
Lots of her stories don’t make sense.
Why did she even need to mention that part ? 😂
@@MarsMellow84 she’s a weird person lol
It's mind blowing how obsessed she is with her hymen. It's like a lesbian badge of honor to her or something.
She's dumb as hell.
He cut and stitched her hymen, you guys....no...really....
it’s actually a thing that can happen.
@miranndall69 no doctor is going to waste time during an emergency surgery to stitch a hymen together. It's literally nothing more than skin tissue and was insignificant to what was going on. Amber had a weird obsession with her hymen during this time. She wore it like a badge of honor or something. Mind you, there's no way for Amber to even know if her hymen was intact. She was 573 pounds, never went to a gyno and was incapable of performing a self exam. Hymens break down during the natural aging process anyways so it's a waste of time and energy to restitch it.
@@ximar0ckstrx ya i just stated it's a thing that CAN happen not that it did necessarily. more like a fun fact since it's something i had to look up.
@@miranndall69 they might do that, but that's irrelevant to the discussion here because the doctor almost certainly *didn't* do that during her surgery because it would have been a waste of time and effort as well as something that could cause potential complications down the road and even impede the healing process. it doesn't matter if it's something doctors *can* do, we're talking about what actually did happen with amber as opposed to pondering what doctors and surgeons may or may not do
edit: she released her op papers and nowhere was it noted that she had a hymen reconstruction performed during her surgery. any surgeon with half a brain wouldn't just oopsy-daisy forget to document a whole part of their surgery, our gorl absolutely did not have a hymen reconstruction
@@anaism.5821 im not reading all that but congrats lol
"I havent been eating which isnt good" foods the problem but what ever.
As Dr Now said, “you’ve eaten the food that belonged to the next four years ahead of time”
It's MY sleepover I get to choose the movie!!
"I'll keep stuffing my moon face as long as I can"
her talking about an “energy shift” with the radiologist just makes me roll my eyes. so fucking dramatic
She’s turned her life into a cheesy movie and her main character syndrome is BAD
But you have to realize....she's an empath. She can totally FEEL these things. You know...cause of all of the empathy. 🙄
Watching her eat disgusts me
Watching her eat works as a great appetite suppressant. I lose my appetite every time
@@ximar0ckstrxexactly. Makes me think I’m gonna end up like her💀
Her mouth noises, her tongue sloshing around in her mouth and sticking out of her face, her eyes rolling over fast food, her moaning, and how she makes a platform for her food to sit on so its closer to her mouth all drive me crazy!! I may over react when it comes to ppl eating because i physically cant be in the same room as ppl when they eat (i eat in a different room than what my family does and i haven't been to a restaurant in YEARS) so it could just be me but all the noises make me wanna cry cuz it makes my anxiety amd frustration sky Rocket
@@batbrat4412Totally understand!
@batbrat4412 I'm the same. The Dr says it's misphonia. I get so angry that I fast forward the bits where she is eating. It's the same with anyone. It's actually got a bit better since I started being tube fed, but Amber, nope can't watch or listen. ❤
Guise the guy was so surprised because she was the best breather in the history of breathing and blew the meter out of the water 😂😂😂 my god why does she bother me so badly
Nothing is more irritating than a stupid person who not only thinks they’re smarter than everyone else, but that they also need to TEACH us because they literally know EVERYTHING….yet their life is a total mess….how odd!
Is like watching a wild ravenous beast in a feeding frenzy.
It’s almost sickening
Reminds me of how stray cats gorge themselves
Beck crying behind the camera while she explains her scary bleeding situation..but yeah, she didn't care about you at all Amberlyn...
But I do feel for her with the cancer stuff. That is so so scary and Im glad she was able to have it removed successfully. Wish her a lifetime of remission.
Lmfao. She’s continued to gain weight and eat garbage foods. If she really did have cancer, she’s an idiot for not taking it seriously
She reminds me of Cartman.
No Becky this is my orange chicken!!!!1!
@@ToastJellyLMFAO 😭😭
Ooh meh god yew guise!
Becky!! Bring me some cheesy poofs!!
No, kitty, this is MY pot pie!
No, kitty! That’s a BAD KITTY!!
But moooooooooooooommmm!
Yes, I really am starting to fill out nicely
Well they have the same head shape and attitude
Lol yess. Never would thought of that but yeah that makes sense lol
Wait, she was already all so smug right after the "cancer scare"?! (around 9min)
🥇👏🏻 good acting.
That should be her middle name. Amberlynn smug Reid
I would feel bad if she actually took this as of late up ball and changed her life but we all know she didn't and she's not going to
Amber would never be able to adopt. Never!
You can buy a Baby from a Surrogate from a country with low standarts for "Adoption requirements". In 🇺🇦 for example, a paradise for human trafficking.
A LOT of people call that process of buying a baby from a Surrogate "Adoption".
I have heard the standarts for taking in foster children are extrelow in the US, no clean legal recorder or mental examination required.
The fact that this is 1.5 HOURS long.... and she never woke up got healthy.
1.5 hours long and could probably be longer!
As someone who worked for an oncologist for years, Ambers entire story about having cancer has been an absolute fabrication. She claims that she was bleeding profusely for 2 years, but never went to the ER for that, but she would go to the ER for a her broken toenail. If Amber was bleeding, nonstop for two years, bleeding profusely, not only would she have been severely anemic, she would have been extremely fatigued, and suffered lack of oxygen. So there is no way that she bled nonstop for 2 years. She claimed to over hear the ER doctor tell somebody that if he didn’t perform surgery on Amber that she was going to die, NFW. Yet, she was given medicine that stopped her bleeding. So the ER doctor would’ve never told somebody that Amber would’ve bled to death because she had stopped bleeding. Also, a doctor is not going to tell you over the phone that you might have cancer. That infuriated me. Amber is saying things that are absolutely outrageous. I don’t think Amber ever had cancer. She claimed to be diagnosed and cured of cancer in two months. There are too many things that Amber has claimed that are simply impossible. She’s like 550lbs, surgery would’ve been too dangerous for her to begin with. During Covid, they postponed ALL surgeries unless it was absolutely necessary there’s no way they would’ve performed any kind of surgery on Amber. Amber claims a couple of days after her “D & C” that she got a phone call and told that she had cancer, NEVER EVER would that have happened. The doctors office would have called and made an appointment for her to come in to go over her results and possible treatments.. There are too many things that she has claimed over the years that are just impossible. Amber claim that she had a 21 inch vertical scar from surgery….Her stomach has been exposed a few times and there is no surgical scar, her excuse for that was…..IT SIMPLY DISAPPEARED!?! Also, FYI… every day following her supposed call from the doctor about having cancer she was doing mukbangs every single day, she then just put pre-recorded on all the videos. It’s all been a lie. Do you think it was a coincidence that Becky’s mother, and Destiny’s mother were both dying of cancer when Amber somehow had cancer. Her views at the time were tanking but if you look back on her video when she claimed that she got cancer. It’s amazing how many views she got on it! Also, she had claimed her grandma FAKED cancer!!!!
This 🔥!
I love when people debunk her bs lies.
thank you!
As someone who knows a few people who have gone through cancer they NEVER tell you over the phone, you're always brought in for more testing and told in person. Also yea where is her scar? She's showed her stomach since.
so I really dislike amber, but I kind of think she MAY have told the truth about the cancer. what I think she effed up on, was that she likely wasn’t bleeding profusely like, ever. except maybe when she ended up GOING to the er. the rest of the time I would bet she just had small like panty liner amounts of blood. also, she only had stage one cancer. that CAN be “cured” with only surgery. my father had stage one prostate cancer, and only had to have surgery.
my mother however had stage 3 endometrial cancer, and I was with her when before surgery the doctor literally said “what we are concerned about is that this could be cancer.” she was not told over the phone however when she was diagnosed, as she was still in the hospital after surgery. they biopsied all the tissue they removed and diagnosed it right then.
all this to say, perhaps amber did lie entirely, but just from my extremely limited experience I have seen a couple things she said really happen in a way similar to what she’s said.
I do think she’s a liar, but I’m not sure on the cancer thing. I also think she is a massive drama queen, and likely way over exaggerated all of her experience regarding the whole ordeal.
She loooves to talk talk talk, no action
I just realized 13:41 that you can hear morning birds in this clip so amber made Becky drive her to Taco Bell at like 4-5am and chow down and film while the boys were sleeping
I heard that too…that’s sick 😳
“People with cancer still have to eat”
I’d be pissed if my surgery was pushed back to find out it was due to AmberLynn.
True
“It’s my trigger food. So I got a ton of those.” U can’t make this shit up y’all😂
Her saying the doctors said she had a “remarkable bladder” kinda made me laugh. Like tbh that’s the last thing you want doctors to say about anything going on w ur body. I know she prob meant unremarkable but I got a chuckle 😂😂
However real or dangerous her "cancer experience" has been, if that didn't change her mindset, she is done for good with weightloss and taking care of herself. No need to watch anymore, not expecting anything else than more of the same....
And waddling to the great drive-thru in the sky...or in her case, further south! 👹
@@sharondigness2315 I ll never get this picture out of my head....
Imagine still being able to lie on cue and smooth as butter even on anesthesia and out of it post op 😂 the dedication
Welcome back Waddle😂❤
I've got cancer I've been bleeding heavily on and off for 2 years now and I've ended up anaemic several times and needed tteatment for that. How has she not ended having issues she's 600lbs and bleeding like that 24/7. Makes no sense to me! She's disgusting. She will never take responsibility, will always be somebody else's fault!
Best of luck to you on your journey ❤
IMPORTEN
When she put on the condescending substitute teacher nurse voice to explain to us her scans that she never ended up doing fills me with rage.
She *SO* wants to be seen as ✨stunning and brave✨ - That BS about "even if I worked a regular job I would not stop working just because I have cancer"... First off, she'd never work a "real" job and secondly, if she did ever have a regular job, Amber would tell every co worker, her boss, customer etc she had cancer and stay for as long as she could milk it and get sympathy and attention and then soon as that sympathy and attention dwindled she would go off sick, hamming up the symptoms.
Her justifying keeping herself 550lbs as "making her money" and saying "people with cancer still have to eat" is just horrific.
Money (and having a care taker) is the only things to matter in life to Amber.
*Food* is, and shall always be, *the* most important thing to Amber Reid.
She could never. She quit her real job because her back hurt.
I work in a team of two. Just me and my manager, then the rest of our team in Auckland. My manager was on leave last week, so I went to work with a headache, worked til 2, almost passed out, watched the room spin, finished all the urgent work, then went home, stole some pain killers from my mum, and went to bed with an ice pack. Real people do real things. She could never.
The doc canceled serval peoples surgeries for her. Lah
honestly might not be, ive heard this happen to people i know, not that their surgery was prioritized and others' were pushed back, but where theyve been the one to have them pushed back for people who needed more immediate care, which they base off of a number of things like age and severity if untreated longer, severity compared to the other patients (like, if one is only there to get minor surgery vs someone who's bleeding out)
That's true!
@@anaysia21 yeah, but i don’t think a doc wouldn’t tell her. “Hey, I pushed 3 other people off the operating table for you.”
Lol. The other patient, would be informed their surgery, would be postponed.
Our Gorl, is either getting the most incompetent medical professionals or she’s getting the VIP treatment, it’s never just run of the mill common treatment.
Yeah it happens! I have had several ops now and I have t1 diabetes so I normally go down first but the nurse or surgeon always warn me that if they do get an emergency I'd have my op after they've dealt with it.
@@GiveItUpJan it's amazing how she gets treated so well by these idiot doctors and that she even has the money to pay for all of this since she doesn't have insurance and spends almost twice my rent each month on just DoorDash/uber eats/etc every month. i just cannot believe this woman
Her OB GYN deserves the purple heart !!
FYI from an imaging tech: Pet Scan table has a weight limit of 500lbs, MRI tables have a weight limit of 500lbs some even more. Also they have larger and open magnets..so…Also lymph nodes can be swollen for several reasons that aren’t cancer related. She more than likely had precancerous cells and due to the excessive bleeding & irregular cycles, they offered a hysterectomy as an option. That is not uncommon.
How many people don’t fit in the tunnel? Those things feel huge (tho I admit I have always gone in feet first, I imagine head first they feel teeny tiny).
@@missybuchanan9631as a small person who has had a brain MRI, yes those tunnels are tiny 😅
That fact she never visited the gyno by 18 or whenever she started becoming sexually active is so ridiculous. It wasn't Becks fault whatsoever but ALR has got to blame someone besides herself
my sister was always a pretty healthy weight until maybe 4 or 5 years ago, she didn't see a gyno for the first time until she was 26 or 27 years old. i, as her younger sister, had to be the one urging her to go to the gyno, saying that it was crucial for her healthcare and that she needed to take care of herself and that especially because she's sexually active she should be checked for cancer every so often, but none of that seemed to scare her as much as actually going in and getting it checked out. finally after all my "encouragement" she finally went and thankfully nothing was amiss, but my sister is overweight, not obese. especially not morbidly obese or even super morbidly obese. she doesn't have the same worries as amber, but just bringing that up as an example to show how important (or impor-in, if you will) it is to take care of yourself and get these things checked out. pookie very rarely (if at all) went to the gyno before this all took place. hell, remember when dusty was at the gyno and amber came along with her and couldn't even realize that a diagram she was looking at was a uterus and not a vulva. furthermore, she acted like a complete child, a woman in her mid 20s saying "yep, destiny's getting her hoo-ha looked at" and then busting up like a fifth grader. absolutely ridiculous. what a joke of a human being she is
For one, I’ve never had a UTI w/blood in my urine - spotting maybe but full on blood, no. I know everyone’s bodies are different but I still think that peeing blood is a cause of serious concern regardless. Idk who’s she’s conspiring with but for her sake, she shouldn’t be asking friends their opinions, she should’ve immediately called her doctor since you know she literally is supposed to have had cancer? She’s a hypochondriac for the smallest things & goes to the ER/UC for her toe yet ignores something as serious as bloody urine & actually waits for a doctor? Make it make sense.
Most of the UTI’s I’ve had had blood in my urine; not a lot
Most UTIs have traces of blood in urine.
You can have some, but if you see that you should go to ER that's what my primary care doctor told me. I never Had it though to be honest
As a rape victim I no longer go to get female exams. It triggers too much. The men that assaulted me were in medical so I understand the fear of going. Its so scary.
Well everyone should know that she is never going to change herself. No wonder her "haters" say the things that they do because its the literal truth that she wont face. 🤷♀
It honestly frustrates me so much that she lets so much happen to her, yet she doesn't do the one big thing that could prevent a lot of it, that being her weight
I’ve been watching alr for years through various other channels & it makes me so sad that she’s so delulu x
So I actually had all of this happen, almost to a T. It was not Cancer, it was a hormonal imbalance which can happen when you gain a lot of weight quickly or in my case, lose a lot. No surgery was performed, but I did deal with anemia and severe fatigue over the course of a year leading up to it. Embarrassment with this stuff can prevent people from getting the help they need. I don't find it hard to believe she waited. A lot of people here are providing anecdotal or experiential evidence as to why the gorl is lying - but honestly, the truth is that we don't know. It's usually better not to assume, I think, even if something seems far-fetched or unusual. I wish her the best, wish you all the best. This body is the only one we get, and it's a lot better to care for it now than when disaster strikes, so grab a glass of water, stretch your legs, and do something good for yourself today.
It blows my mind that Amber would not be slowly losing weight and keeping that small amount off and losing more (after a cancer diagnosis). Given the weight loss she has done over the past 2 years she should be in the 300's.
It's Russian Roulette for all other cancers that might not be picked up until drastic measures need to be taken to try and save her life.
Then the luscious locks will be the first to go. Diabetes also causes your hair to fall out. If she does nothing, nothing can be done to save her hair.
you mean no more poop bun? 😢
She had pre-cancerous cells. I don't believe that she had full cancer. If she's started the menopause early, it's because of her weight.
I also believe she only had precancerous cells, but she started menopause because she had a hysterectomy
They don’t do full hysterectomies for pre cancerous cells. Idk why it’s surprising that a super morbidly obese woman would have cancer as a result of her morbid obesity. Look up the risk factors for uterine and ovarian cancer. Obesity is a major one because fat cells produce estrogen.
@PotatoPieYT they definitely do do full hysterectomies for precancerous cells/lesions.
@@PotatoPieYTthey absolutely do
@@princessbani3301 I stand corrected!
30:15 not Amber wearing her mask on her head like a headband 😆
She contradicts herself so much - before her mammogram she said "some people say it hurts really bad" and " and then other people say it's no biggie, it's pretty easy, pretty simple... It doesn't hurt".... Then after her mammogram she said, as if she was surprised; "I have literally *ALWAYS* been told that it's gonna hurt, like, it's soooo uncomfortable and honestly it like, didn't hurt at all" - GORL you said you knew that some people say it hurts and others say it's no biggie and doesn't hurt at all - why are you now saying *EVERYONE* says it hurts and you were surprised it was simple and not painful!?! She's infuriating.
Cant watch, hearing her stuffing herself is to much 🤢
I didn’t realize how long this video was and someone send this to Amber, like get it together girl
Missed you! 🩷
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i’m sorry but she did not call her pap smear “traumatizing” 💀
The poor gyno prob was the one traumatized😅 how she even managed to find her gash under mountains of blubber is beyond me. Wonder how many nurses had to hold her gut up?
She really don’t give no fk
It’s the way saying the entire word gynecologist is just impossible for her to say. Like this is horrendous but when she is sobbing and says, “PLEEASE GO TO THE GYNO” makes me laugh so hard. Like in the most serious of times she still can’t say the whole word.
😂😂😂😂 right!
She just a clown😂😂😂
I think it’s wild that people believe amberlynn lied about her cancer because that video of her announcing that she was diagnosed with cancer was the most raw genuine video we’ve ever gotten of her.
Everyone keeps saying she showed proof but the only thing I can find is her video saying “here’s your proof” where she posts an illegible blurry document and then goes on her phone and reads it to us.
Is there anything else? Like an actual legible document that’s been seen?
Gorl where have you been? 😭
Thanks for the long video 🙏♥️
Her cure for a lot of shit would be weightloss but that’s the last thing on her list yet other people fight for their lives do everything they are told and some and still pass away it will never not piss me off! Oh and ps whoever did her epidural is the true mvp!
21:34 what is this weird persona and voice?
She was feeling herself cause of her big eyelashes and earrings and thought she sounded smart 😂😂😂 I’m dying
The way this whole last cancer baiting thing pissed me off....I can't. While she was pulling this shit my mom started immunotherapy for the recurrence of her uterine cancer. My mom was always health conscious but when she was initially diagnosed she went even harder. She started eating raw vegan and doing supplemental therapy along with conventional treatment just to try to hedge her bets and beat this. She is fighting so hard to stay alive....and then there is fucking Amber...
Hope she’s doing okay. Hugs to you ❤
@@missybuchanan9631 thank you for your kindness. I really appreciate it!
Wasn’t she bleeding for about a year prior to this?? Wouldn’t that be cause for concern?? WTF- she can’t even take care of herself!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️ 5:50
she almost never says grams when talking about protein and it drives me nuts
10 proteins
“ I don’t want to change every single aspect of my life😢” But in reality over eating and lack of psychical activity are the aspects in her life🤦🏻♀️🙈🤡…🤣
She's not a cancer survivor. She didn't have to go through biopsies, chemo, transplants and hundreds of doctor appointments
1:02:01 does she actually think that's a big needle 😭that looks like a 31 gauge
Omg you're right. That thing is tiny. 😂
When I went on immunosuppressants, they gave me an aids test and I almost walked out. That’s the worst I’ve seen, but only because I was focusing on my sister-in-law’s face when she got that epidural.
Before my emergency hysterectomy, i was working my icu RN job, and globs fell down my pantleg. I didn't stop to take picture, tho. I cleaned up and kept working. Almost killed myself on accident.
Girls, don't ignore your body.
I wonder if that thing that Alexis knows that would ruin Amber's life has something to do with the cancer Arc?
Whatever it is Amber basically agreed that she was afraid to say certain things because Alexis was threatening to ruin her and why would Amber be so afraid if Alexis was lying?
I think that it either has to do with the cancer or Alexis knows that the FBI Frank thing was a lie or possibly both. I really believe that she gets a lot of pleasure from lying and deceiving her audience and that she would definitely brag about it if given the chance.
It might even be that Amber told Alexis what her real weight is and we all know that she definitely doesn't want that getting out. She hasn't filmed herself stepping on the scale in like a year.
She's definitely still lying about that too.
It is 2024, I can't believe people are still having the conversation around the cancer. She did have cancer, she showed the paperwork...I don't know why people are continuing to say she either didn't have cancer or pre-cancerous cells, it literally said what it was lol. She didn't need either chemo or radiation because it was low grade and concentrated to her uterus, so they gave her a hysterectomy and went from there. She was hella lucky that it was caught so early, the conversation should definitely center around why she didn't take her symptoms seriously and why she didn't let this moment in life shape her decisions going forward. Conspiracy theories about her cancer look whacky as shit. Amber has lied but she's not a good liar. She did not get a full ass hysterectomy to own the haydurs.
The scary part is she could have it again but she hasn't been checked since her surgery.
11:08 *the answer of all the questions*
Go back 3 to 5 seconds.
You know what’s really sad? I don’t know if I can believe her because all she does is lie.
I just caught that when she was talking about having surgery she said she was worried because she's never had surgery and not that it's because she could have cancer.
I think food noise is such a good way to put it. I think she has lost weight gradually. Like actually lost. Yes due to meds, but the key is reducing the food noise. That's the key for her.
a narcissists only goal is attention, not every narc has a talent so those people might resukt back to the easiest form of attention, victimhood.
Nobody has ever felt pain like a narc has, everything they go through is the worst ever, they like to decorate their stories a bit to make them sound much worse, incomparable to any situation ever in the world.
A narc will lie, gaslight, manipulate, they feel only for themselves, they are incapable to feel compassion.
She is a victim to food, the world, her surroundings, at the same time she must tell how amazing she is despite all the hate, so people compliment her all the time, they love her, even her exes who dump her love her so deeply and truly until she has someone else who loves her then the person never really did and only used her, she has to keep the narrative that she is amazing up while being a constant victim.
"Skinny people too" because a victim can NEVER be at fault for their own misery.
Anyone who believes she faked having cancer is . Well insane. She most likely embellished details, but remember Beck was there caring for her and taking her to her appointments. And we all know what her fake crying looks like and those initial videos are certainly not it. Beck was in the background supporting her, providing the details she was missing. Ugh. Sometimes y'all take things way too far and speculation on her cancer diagnosis of all things is not only gross, but also gives her lying capabilities way too much credit lol. She would not have been able to keep that up
I 100% agree with this. I hate when ppl accuse her of lying about her cancer diagnosis
She had pre cancerous cells not cancer... I just can't believe she had cancer and decided not to change her relationship with food. Did DramaLynn have chemotherapy or radiation???
The words rock bottom does not compute with hamber !
Sorry, did she just say that the surgeon re-stitched her hymen after completing the procedure? Have I understood that correctly? Wtf!
Waaaaaddddllllllleeeeee❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Someone tell me why she didn't have to do chemo? Did we ever find out what stage she was in? I've had several people in my life with cancer, all where put on chemo either before or after.
I never doubted her cancer, now I am 2nd guessing myself. No hormone replacement therapy! Yet she still has the thickest hair I've ever seen! I only had my ovaries removed due to cysts and I am still losing my hair. It started about month 3 after the loss of my ovaries. All this is why I now question her cancer.
While I’m still skeptical of ALR’s story in particular, I do want to say that this isn’t always the case with cancer - I had cervical adenocarcinoma which ended up warranting the removal of my cervix, followed by several rounds of chemo and radiation. Cisplatin (the specific chemo I was administered) is known to not cause total hair loss, just very mild thinning! The main side effect is tinnitus LOL. It’s a common misconception that cancer is always accompanied by total hair loss
I had to have both ovaries removed. One had a fluid filled cyst the other a tumor. They were benign. I have still lost my hair! Even though they left my uterus as it still produces estrogen. It didn't help . 😢
Congratulations on your recovery and you are a hero to me, keep winning the battle!
as a person who had cancer and suffered so much she makes a mockery of it and it’s absolutely disgusting in every way. this angers me to no end. i’m absolutely appalled
You could go to urgent care/walk in clinic for a UTI.
Amber complaining is like someone purposely burning themselves knowing the damage and still doing it them wanting everyone around them to actually care…like babe you did all this to yourself
Take care of it
I had ZERO sympathy for CancerLynn. ZERO!! Still don't.
Isn’t ozempic semi-glutide?
Yes. Ozempic is the original brand name. Semiglutide is the drug in general.
Wow major drama
Trader Joo’s
Salami hurt me too