I had the pleasure of meeting Neil Strauss once in 2007 in a Montreal bar with a couple of my buddies. We recognized him and asked him to work his magic on the hottest girl in the room. Within 20 minutes, he had her number and she was like a puppy following its owner’s commands. He’s an absolute gentleman, and a true lad.
@@regularSenseAppeal too bad most of the stuff will get you cancelled and jailed now. Imagine kino escalating and breaking down LMR and ASD these days. Yikes.
3:15 I genuinely believe that Mystery was so into what he was saying about 'not creeping people out', he had no idea that it was hilarious to everyone else.
The reality is that it's not hilarious at all, if you watch Conan regularly you'd notice that he's a very anxious awkward person and barely likable without all the fame around him. And that's what men in his position do, they make fun of those who are more successful with tricks because it demolishes their core belief that you have to work hard and be famous to easily approach people and be instantly likable. But in reality everyone can't be famous and we still have a need as humans to make new friends and be liked.
@@Gigatlessof course you can approach people withiut beeing famous. IT depends in the Person that you approach also. If She is exclusive Just for good looking or famous Guys than its her Problem.
@@rafomic4210 she might be exclusive to famous men if she's more famous than average Jessica. And yeah anyone can approach a woman, it's about how they justify their behavior. Men like Conan would think "oh Im famous therefore I have a right to approach and hang out with these women" men like Mystery would take a more humble approach like "It's a social game and I know the rules therefore I can play it"
What I like about Conan (not just in this interview, but in general) is that he's truly in it for the humor and making everyone laugh, thereby understanding that being politically motivated, and having an agenda in interviews is bad. He always remains relatively neutral, and doesn't try to make his guests feel bad in an interrogating way. Most interviewers would give him a hard time for being a pickup artists, and bring feminism, harassment, and social norms into it, but Conan accepts it with curiosity and non-judgment, and adds on his comedy.
I'd beg to differ, if you watch the interview again you'll notice there's clearly an agenda and Conan is just a pawn in it. Pickup was often looked at as taboo and frowned upon especially at the time of this interview. You'll notice the crowd reactions paint Mystery out to be an outcast. He barely gets any laughs from the audience while they laugh at the slightest expressions from Conan. This creates a hierarchy as though he is a madman trying to sign up people to somewhat of a cult. Though they promoted Mystery, for them it was to shine a spotlight on a "weird creep" trying to pick up women.
Cancelled by 🔩-cases femis , who a few short years later managed (with the help of the media) to get such content banned.. This video is a reminder of this very recent yet already bygone era before the ⬅️ took over the discourse about everything
I honestly feel like Mystery always did interviews like these soley for more exposure. He had to know ppl like Conan & Chelsea would make multiple attempts to embarrass him but i guess to him it was worth it. I like that he always stayed on track with his explanations & theories even though Conan poked fun. I don't think Conan ever took him seriously,he just put him on as an easy target to make fun
The issue is that PUA community can't be taken seriously or endorsed publicly, because, well, women. Just watch any movie about a great ladies man character, he always ends up domesticated by a woman. These are like female porn. This mystique that women are these unsolvable puzzles must go on. Besides, PUA reality is counterintuitive, so far from what society thinks seduction is about that it turns into an easy comedy subject. Most people have a hard time accepting that more often than not black nails will probably do more for the average guy than a Ryan Gosling kind of suit. Mystery knows that he is there for pure entertainment and not for a formal interview. Just like most women understood that they would go to Craig Ferguson's show to pretend they were flirting with him not for a conventional type of interview.
@@bipultamang7061 Not true. Conan more than others take a great care for not embarrass the guest. Here he was obviously not as caring for Mystery. He was not laughing with him, but at him. Mystery just went along.
I heard about the book and bought the audiobook and I really like that Neil was the Narrator I've listen to now, love the stories. A lot of that wouldn't work today but a lot of it does due to woman are so far advanced now but still good.
@@farhad71414 As I understand it, a frame is like the narrative you present to an interaction, your way of viewing the world. The other parties present their narrative too, and whomever is more confident of their narrative, that narrative will win as the combined narrative between the interacting people. In this case, Conan is trying to ridicule Eric and his ideas, but he is completely unphased by it and holds secure in his view of the world that they are normal and effective. The audience viewing the interaction will be more likely to accept that narrative seeing the interaction too, Similar to an presidential debate. This concept applies to every interaction though. If you approach a girl the interaction between you two starts completely from scratch. Your frame may be "I'm an attractive man and you will like me", while hers may be "you are a weird stranger who hits on every girl, you don't really like me, etc..."
On point his frame is extraordinary. He explains that on the book Being unafected and congruent but although i would love he focus more on that subject.
But IT can also be weird when somebody says Right next to you Hi or something . Depends in the Person. Also when in the street and you Go behind a Girl and Then Tap her at the shoulder or say hey excuse me IT can work But Not always
There's absolute logic in the approach. Never approach anybody from behind! Puts people on their highest defense instantly. Hell, even if one of your friends does it to you and you haven't seen them in forever, it makes the immediate conversation awkward.
he doesn't mean literally circling around them lol. he's saying that if you approach a group, don't just focus ONLY on the girl that you're interested in. you have to engage everyone in the group or you'll get sniffed out real quick by her friends. if her friends don't approve of you, that's an almost guaranteed rejection every time.
Conan is so far beyond other talk show hosts, I don’t understand how he wasn’t the #1 go to for any network. Example: Harrison Ford interviews. Compare his to Leno or Letterman. So quick, witty, and nice.
@@nelsonhibbert5267The lyrics weren’t “taken.” It was literally a cover of the song “back door man” by howlin wolf. It’s not like the doors pretended it was their song. You fucking creep.
@@birdbath4488 A lot of guys just have social anxiety and troubles with confidence in social settings. Mystery and Strauss' advice/methods are really good for helping guys put together the confidence to get out of their comfort zone and talk to women, even if they have to prepare a flow chart of routines and body language to get there. It can be misused, but it's genuinely helpful and earnest at its core.
Working at a retail store, I once picked up a woman who was with her friend by asking, “does it smell like Christmas to you? “ they laughed and said no. I followed up with my reason for the question, which was actually genuine. I had just gone through a breakup after 7 years, and was at rock bottom. I had nothing to lose by asking these women such a rando question, in September no less. About a half hour later, we had closed our store, and I was in the mens section fixing the racks when she suddenly came up and asked if I wanted to grab a drink! It works 60% of the time, every time🤌🏽 we dated for a couple months. My fav fling to this date. 🍻
@@icarovdl the cardboard from the merch shipment filled the air that night, and it somehow brought me Christmas memories. I felt it was rather strange, and I was honestly just desperate for human contact and wanting some form of a connection. Even if it meant a woman disagreeing with my Xmas sentiment
If you can be confident on a TV show in front of millions of people, approaching women is child's play. We all start off fearful and shy, but overtime we develop confidence, but it takes a lot of work for many. Especially those with low self-esteem. Good looking people naturally have confidence and it's easier to get attention. Average and below average looking dudes have more work to do to approach with confidence. But it can be done with experience, trial and error and mostly matching your looks to the other girl. If you are a 4, you don't go after a 10 unless you like rejection. Go after a 5 or 6 or 7 at the most. If you are a 7 or 8, you can go after an 8 or a 9.
@@SPACEDOUT19 In all fairness, Bumble once released some stats for women in the US and something nutty like 75% of them automatically filter guys out that are under 6'. You could have all the game in the world, but if you are already filtered before she can even see you, you're not going to have a chance.
Like he said, you need to be a little bit odd, pick up rule 101, don't be like every single other guy out there you need to stand out to be interesting and women will actually gravitate to you, obviously don't be so weird that you are like some creepy autistic weirdo but eccentricity is often attractive and displays high value that you are confident in yourself to be who you really are!
@@psychedelictacos9118 Holy crap. 13 years later, and here I am, at 6a.m., getting ready for work, getting sucked into the PUA game yet again. Things have changed a lot in 13years, but the one thing that changed the most is: i don't care if i get girls anymore. I stay true to fuck with them as much as i can and don't take them too seriously. The other thing is: after i've realized i don't really need sex as much as i thought (had my share of fun), the pressure was kind of off. It was like a switch: "i don't need what the fuck you got", and all the power the women had all of a sudden didn't exist anymore. This has nothing to do with The Game, or the PUA world, it had all to do with my self-discovery and retrospection and a lot of trial and error. Good to see ya'll are still into all this, i still follow Neil a lot, but that's all munch munch about it:). Keep it real, hombres. I gotta get to work.
@@MrSaiyan333game helps only if you are already attractive to girls. A girl has to find you attractive, you just need to know how to be normal and hold a convo.
Ya but I don't think it was any fault of the guys who started it. Rather, probably the creepy guys who exploited their tools and knowledge, but had bad intentions and didn't really care about the girls they tried this on. Strauss's rule was "Always leave a girl better off than when you found her". Those that didn't follow this rule just make it harder on every other guy and dating in general.
@@chrisr3945 I haven't seen any of these PUA-types, especially the fans, figure out a normal talk-show yet. It is kind of fascinating since they think usually they are cracking social dynamics and cues to a higher level than normal people. The David Letterman Show, Conan O'Brien, Jay Leno... These shows are all about the host - that is what people kept tuning back in for hence they name them to themselves. The whole point is to have repeat viewers. 90 % of the time they have some guest on that largely, the viewers haven't heard about. Especially types like this where just about nobody heard of the guy. They got less than 10 minutes. These shows then has to be entertaining to keep you watching - as the name of the show implies, that usually turns into the host holding a show, keeping it entertaining and making fun of the guest to some degree. They can't rely on random guests to do their job for them, very few guests are Norm MacDonald-types that understand how to keep it entertaining and attract viewers. So that is how it goes - the guest most often becomes the meat of the subtle ongoing joke the host tells every night as long as they are not aware of this (and sometimes even if they are).
conan is a good interviewer, when he was talking about mystery used to be rejected and mystery is thinking ok here are the normal mocking hes expected and conan sees he inadvertently insulted him, he goes and makes a self deprecating joke to change the tone and keep things moving. someone like letterman would have doubled down and start ripping into him.
I met a PUA guy a few years ago. He had zero personality and yet used these techniques to get far more sex than I could even dream of. Watching him talk to women was actually quite sickening though, because it was clear he only wanted sex. He'd be asking for their numbers within minutes of starting totally inappropriate conversations. In short, he got lots of action but still seemed the very definition of a loser.
That's the problem with pua guys. Their entire persona revolves around them getting action. The skill is great but you can't make it your entire identity.
These guys are so fucking needy for pussy approval. These fucktrumpets only get women that are of low quality. High quality women don't fall for this bullshit. I was PUA for 5 years
That’s your perception though, the females obviously see something else in him that make them want to have sex. Stop hating man, life is a game in general. Why do guys even go through the stress of becoming high value? To have the options of women that they want. What good is a Lamborghini if you’re not pulling 9’s and 10’s with it.
@@jumpthegun3910Very few men on dating apps are banging top quality women like mystery and his crew would've been doing. It's a totally different thing. Most men on dating apps are scraping the bottom of the barrel of female quality.
sometimes conan annoys me, like in this clip he is just overpowering mystery. let the guy speak, i mean this is meant to be an interview and not a conan comedy sketch
I like conan but very disappointed in the way he dealt with this topic. He knows how difficult it is to navigate through the world of dating for men and instead of extrapolating good advice or even just being neutral he made fun of Mystery. It's a shame because the men watching could have been helped but no doubt most laughed it off as ridiculous. Now fast forward 13 years and men have it even harder as women all think they are God's gift to mankind so they are lonelier when they hit their 30s and men are lobely too
In Granada in Spain there is a guy who became a nudist as peacocking. He streaks on football games and stuff. He picks up tourist girls just wearing a t-shirt and a little man-bag. His name is Olmo, check him out, he is the king!
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I had the pleasure of meeting Neil Strauss once in 2007 in a Montreal bar with a couple of my buddies. We recognized him and asked him to work his magic on the hottest girl in the room. Within 20 minutes, he had her number and she was like a puppy following its owner’s commands. He’s an absolute gentleman, and a true lad.
Neil Strauss actually had a really attractive wife, I’ve never seen mystery with a bad bitch just saying
B.ullshit, all P U As are lying scumbags.
@@BD-1-And-Only
Neil Strauss betabuxxed his wife with money.
Shit works for those who understand it. Even just a little game is better than none.
@@regularSenseAppeal too bad most of the stuff will get you cancelled and jailed now. Imagine kino escalating and breaking down LMR and ASD these days. Yikes.
He is just makin light hearted fun. Conan has invited him on multiple times. Conan is just lightening the mood.
Nah he’s definitely making fun of him the entire interview
He isn’t.
@@hewhoc8664 sarcasm is a thing.
This guy literally laughs "HAHAHA"
HAH HAAAH! 🤣🤣
Reading this comment ahead of the video messed me up 🤣🤣🤣
LOL it sounds so funny!
You could argue that this man controlled the entire internet at one point
Yep.
Nope. Just a good chunk of people watching this video 😅
he was the andrew tate of that time.....
@@the_first_step1536unlike Tate he didn't run his mouth without proof
@@AM-jx3zf Having said that then where is the proof for your statement you made?
the chemistry between mystery and conan is amazing
plant vs zo mbiues
Soul mates
Conan is the goat. Anything mystery says Conan knows instantly how to play off of it and make it funny
3:15 I genuinely believe that Mystery was so into what he was saying about 'not creeping people out', he had no idea that it was hilarious to everyone else.
The reality is that it's not hilarious at all, if you watch Conan regularly you'd notice that he's a very anxious awkward person and barely likable without all the fame around him. And that's what men in his position do, they make fun of those who are more successful with tricks because it demolishes their core belief that you have to work hard and be famous to easily approach people and be instantly likable. But in reality everyone can't be famous and we still have a need as humans to make new friends and be liked.
@@Gigatless he’s the most likeable talk show host right now
@@Gigatlessof course you can approach people withiut beeing famous. IT depends in the Person that you approach also. If She is exclusive Just for good looking or famous Guys than its her Problem.
@@rafomic4210 she might be exclusive to famous men if she's more famous than average Jessica. And yeah anyone can approach a woman, it's about how they justify their behavior. Men like Conan would think "oh Im famous therefore I have a right to approach and hang out with these women" men like Mystery would take a more humble approach like "It's a social game and I know the rules therefore I can play it"
@@thebakery5555 nice try libtard
What I like about Conan (not just in this interview, but in general) is that he's truly in it for the humor and making everyone laugh, thereby understanding that being politically motivated, and having an agenda in interviews is bad. He always remains relatively neutral, and doesn't try to make his guests feel bad in an interrogating way. Most interviewers would give him a hard time for being a pickup artists, and bring feminism, harassment, and social norms into it, but Conan accepts it with curiosity and non-judgment, and adds on his comedy.
I'd beg to differ, if you watch the interview again you'll notice there's clearly an agenda and Conan is just a pawn in it. Pickup was often looked at as taboo and frowned upon especially at the time of this interview. You'll notice the crowd reactions paint Mystery out to be an outcast. He barely gets any laughs from the audience while they laugh at the slightest expressions from Conan. This creates a hierarchy as though he is a madman trying to sign up people to somewhat of a cult. Though they promoted Mystery, for them it was to shine a spotlight on a "weird creep" trying to pick up women.
@@thekifantasyanother trickster here…😂
Conan was trying to make fun of Mystery the whole time, the whole session was Conan trying to deride him
@@thekifantasyTime to get back on those meds bub.
bro this was 2000s people didnt talk about feminism harassment ect back then people werent bitch made like now
I come back and watch this episode at least once a year!
This dude is a legend
A legend of bullshit
I hope you mean conan cuz he cracked the hell outta me
@@gokusgames True that! 3 legends in fact
of stupidity
I love this guy and its 14 years after the video was loaded up :))))
this actually sealed the deal with him being a cool guy in my book, he is genuinely likable and has a noble cause that got cancelled
hahahahaha
Cancelled by 🔩-cases femis , who a few short years later managed (with the help of the media) to get such content banned.. This video is a reminder of this very recent yet already bygone era before the ⬅️ took over the discourse about everything
The ring and nails and all this is apart of their peacocking.
If they're the bird, the accessories are the feathers.
You know whats crazy, some young me. knowadays literally dress crazy like this painted nails etc these guys were years ahead of their time
I honestly feel like Mystery always did interviews like these soley for more exposure. He had to know ppl like Conan & Chelsea would make multiple attempts to embarrass him but i guess to him it was worth it. I like that he always stayed on track with his explanations & theories even though Conan poked fun.
I don't think Conan ever took him seriously,he just put him on as an easy target to make fun
He’s the perfect target 🎯
thats normal thing in late night shows especially conan he likes to make fun of all thats y its interesting to watch and not take joke seriously
The issue is that PUA community can't be taken seriously or endorsed publicly, because, well, women. Just watch any movie about a great ladies man character, he always ends up domesticated by a woman. These are like female porn. This mystique that women are these unsolvable puzzles must go on.
Besides, PUA reality is counterintuitive, so far from what society thinks seduction is about that it turns into an easy comedy subject. Most people have a hard time accepting that more often than not black nails will probably do more for the average guy than a Ryan Gosling kind of suit.
Mystery knows that he is there for pure entertainment and not for a formal interview. Just like most women understood that they would go to Craig Ferguson's show to pretend they were flirting with him not for a conventional type of interview.
@@bipultamang7061 Not true. Conan more than others take a great care for not embarrass the guest. Here he was obviously not as caring for Mystery. He was not laughing with him, but at him. Mystery just went along.
@@ernestoberger7589 Interesting take
I heard about the book and bought the audiobook and I really like that Neil was the Narrator I've listen to now, love the stories. A lot of that wouldn't work today but a lot of it does due to woman are so far advanced now but still good.
I laughed my ass of on Conans reaction to zebra and lion metaphor😂
Dude believe me this is exactly what I said too, then I saw these methods in real life right in front of my eyes..... its freaking works.
Lol ok
@@dsfgasdgqweq3456t534 yes it does. I use them and get girls more than any guy i know
Yeah it does work, I remember reading the game when I was about 20 and using it when I went our drinking
@@patwaddington drinking and game dont go together too well
It even works in every country .
These guys are masters of frame control, holding their grounds, even under unique pressure.
What is frame control?
@@farhad71414 As I understand it, a frame is like the narrative you present to an interaction, your way of viewing the world. The other parties present their narrative too, and whomever is more confident of their narrative, that narrative will win as the combined narrative between the interacting people. In this case, Conan is trying to ridicule Eric and his ideas, but he is completely unphased by it and holds secure in his view of the world that they are normal and effective. The audience viewing the interaction will be more likely to accept that narrative seeing the interaction too, Similar to an presidential debate.
This concept applies to every interaction though. If you approach a girl the interaction between you two starts completely from scratch. Your frame may be "I'm an attractive man and you will like me", while hers may be "you are a weird stranger who hits on every girl, you don't really like me, etc..."
@@EatYourVegs good explanation
On point his frame is extraordinary.
He explains that on the book Being unafected and congruent but although i would love he focus more on that subject.
...and neediness. Revolving their lives around pussy and it's approval.
this looked like so much fun
you should take a look at "erik von markovic" yt channel (its mystery's name)
Conan is so awesome
6:05 I cant believe how much modern PUA trainers ignore this point, this is why cold approach fails so much these days
You mean that mystery is Right With His Trick ?
But IT can also be weird when somebody says Right next to you Hi or something . Depends in the Person. Also when in the street and you Go behind a Girl and Then Tap her at the shoulder or say hey excuse me IT can work But Not always
There's absolute logic in the approach.
Never approach anybody from behind! Puts people on their highest defense instantly.
Hell, even if one of your friends does it to you and you haven't seen them in forever, it makes the immediate conversation awkward.
he doesn't mean literally circling around them lol. he's saying that if you approach a group, don't just focus ONLY on the girl that you're interested in. you have to engage everyone in the group or you'll get sniffed out real quick by her friends. if her friends don't approve of you, that's an almost guaranteed rejection every time.
Conan is so far beyond other talk show hosts, I don’t understand how he wasn’t the #1 go to for any network. Example: Harrison Ford interviews. Compare his to Leno or Letterman. So quick, witty, and nice.
Leno is witty too.
Probably network politics. The “human element” as I call it, is often the culprit when the best aren’t recognized.
too smart for tv
"The men don't know, but the little girls understand." -Jim Morrison
Original swagger! 😂 "I eat mo' chicken any man ever seen yea, YEAH!!"
@@jasonvoorhees895 These lyrics were taken from a Howlin' Wolf song.
@@nelsonhibbert5267The lyrics weren’t “taken.”
It was literally a cover of the song “back door man” by howlin wolf.
It’s not like the doors pretended it was their song. You fucking creep.
People would try to rip on mystery or belittle him but then they secretly go read all his stuff 😂😂
Mystery is a fraud, in fact the entire P U A industry is one massive FRAUD.
funny thing is is being genuine and honest with a woman get's you a lot of respect within pickup
@@birdbath4488 A lot of guys just have social anxiety and troubles with confidence in social settings. Mystery and Strauss' advice/methods are really good for helping guys put together the confidence to get out of their comfort zone and talk to women, even if they have to prepare a flow chart of routines and body language to get there. It can be misused, but it's genuinely helpful and earnest at its core.
@@SefniAsheforr an honest review from someone who isn't judging the videos content on a surface level. Bravo.
Men can't stand smart good looking 🤣🤣🤣🤣
if only tyler durden would get on, he would tool conan to no end
I want to go to one of his Mastery Courses before I die.
Working at a retail store, I once picked up a woman who was with her friend by asking, “does it smell like Christmas to you? “ they laughed and said no. I followed up with my reason for the question, which was actually genuine. I had just gone through a breakup after 7 years, and was at rock bottom. I had nothing to lose by asking these women such a rando question, in September no less. About a half hour later, we had closed our store, and I was in the mens section fixing the racks when she suddenly came up and asked if I wanted to grab a drink! It works 60% of the time, every time🤌🏽 we dated for a couple months. My fav fling to this date. 🍻
where did u get the question from?
Wait you aksed her If its already Christmas ? I am Not American so i dont understand well
@@rafomic4210 I think it was another way of asking "does it seem like Christmas to you?".
ANY opener is better than no one! As you so nicely demonstrated.
@@icarovdl the cardboard from the merch shipment filled the air that night, and it somehow brought me Christmas memories. I felt it was rather strange, and I was honestly just desperate for human contact and wanting some form of a connection. Even if it meant a woman disagreeing with my Xmas sentiment
The audience laughs like it's complete bullshit, but the funny thing is that it's absolutely true.
Is it though?
Yes.
Yes.
If you can be confident on a TV show in front of millions of people, approaching women is child's play. We all start off fearful and shy, but overtime we develop confidence, but it takes a lot of work for many. Especially those with low self-esteem.
Good looking people naturally have confidence and it's easier to get attention. Average and below average looking dudes have more work to do to approach with confidence. But it can be done with experience, trial and error and mostly matching your looks to the other girl.
If you are a 4, you don't go after a 10 unless you like rejection. Go after a 5 or 6 or 7 at the most. If you are a 7 or 8, you can go after an 8 or a 9.
imagine mystery when he's eighty years old stumbling around in a smoking jacket going kino
2021 still this shit
sa
light kino
And proably getting what he wants
Conan O'Brien is a very good laugh dude!!
I've been looking for this interview, specifically for this: 3:53 LOLOL
Sonic the Hedghog's Dr Robotnick with his big ass aviator googles and Mustache rides was the original pick up artist.
sounds like this guy is being 100% sincere, and conan and simon are just jerks!
because PUAs treat women like objects to be won, and Conan is classy/successful enough to know a clown when he sees one
@LongRider lol, I'm neither-- young, non-binary, and with a lovely life partner. Bye;
I feel like if mystery would have hung out with comedians, he would have had more than 15 minutes
Conan went for cheap jabs the entire interview. He's normally witty
Conan was being so condescending, Mystery remained a gentleman
wtf... lmao... conan obrien that funniest dude ever? ok
"Hi.... " ultimate pickup line
You know, it kind of helps that he is like, really really really tall.
stop searching for excuses and do your homework kid
@@SPACEDOUT19 In all fairness, Bumble once released some stats for women in the US and something nutty like 75% of them automatically filter guys out that are under 6'. You could have all the game in the world, but if you are already filtered before she can even see you, you're not going to have a chance.
@@TheBruceKeller sure, and what about Neil Strauss?
@@TheBruceKelleruse the world as your dating app or lie about your age then. And as mentioned below Neil Strauss is 5’7
I read the Game and the Mystery method one week before Covid Lockdown.
this guy is awesome
You need help
Mystery has some really good techniques!
Its all about communication and play with that, incongruence is important because it breaks people expectations.
One of the OG’s. Owen Cook’s and all the RSD guys mentor
Why does Mystery keep coming back on the show? Conan always makes fun of him
No such thing as bad publicity
Conan’s “👌” after Mystery explained that he didn’t used to do it to get girls was absolutely golden 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mystery is the goat
What's the Amazon or Home Depot link for the specified welding goggles? ;)
This is the best interview/roast Conan has ever done
I had forgotten what late night comedy even looks like. Conan is on fire 🔥
Ridiculous outfit aside, this Mystery guy seems a genuinely cool, interesting person. As long as one isn’t hurting anybody, I say God bless!
Hung out with musters for a weekend in 2010. Honestly it was incredible and the dude is insanely chill
This works. I never had girlfriends till I was 23. Then I just said eff it I have nothing too loose and I couldn’t be happier.
Connon is such a charmer 😂❤
he's a little odd sure, but his confidence and ease is breathtaking ... plus, he can get any woman he wants =).
You must be heterosexual male.
@@kwclove7623 I don't think he will see your comment, as it was written 13 years ago... what brought you here ? ;-)
Like he said, you need to be a little bit odd, pick up rule 101, don't be like every single other guy out there you need to stand out to be interesting and women will actually gravitate to you, obviously don't be so weird that you are like some creepy autistic weirdo but eccentricity is often attractive and displays high value that you are confident in yourself to be who you really are!
@@psychedelictacos9118 Holy crap. 13 years later, and here I am, at 6a.m., getting ready for work, getting sucked into the PUA game yet again.
Things have changed a lot in 13years, but the one thing that changed the most is: i don't care if i get girls anymore. I stay true to fuck with them as much as i can and don't take them too seriously.
The other thing is: after i've realized i don't really need sex as much as i thought (had my share of fun), the pressure was kind of off. It was like a switch: "i don't need what the fuck you got", and all the power the women had all of a sudden didn't exist anymore.
This has nothing to do with The Game, or the PUA world, it had all to do with my self-discovery and retrospection and a lot of trial and error.
Good to see ya'll are still into all this, i still follow Neil a lot, but that's all munch munch about it:).
Keep it real, hombres. I gotta get to work.
Conan is so funny here.
I can't stand some of these show hosts don't even let the guests speak.
Excellent stuff, Mystery
I wish Conan would just shut his mouth and let the guest talk.
And say 'HAYYYYYYYY, DO FISH COUGH?!?!?'
Conan is insecure because mystery is the greatest legit pua so conans trying to disqualify him infront of thr women
OMG So this is the origin of Conan's big hair!
His the best! Both
I just noticed Conan's hair got bigger after this episode.
that was the hardest I've laughed in a long time lmao do fish cough?????? lollllllllllll
Thing about mystery is you gotta be tall and look just like him.
None of this works without looks and he has it obviously.
I'm pretty sure he has the height and looks before he became successful with women (and he was a twenty-something year old virgin).
Or have insane fame & musical talent. Prince was 5'2'' and used to dress the same 😂
@@MrSaiyan333game helps only if you are already attractive to girls. A girl has to find you attractive, you just need to know how to be normal and hold a convo.
This entire movement did not age well, I remember a time when every guy read the game and had a code name.
Ya but I don't think it was any fault of the guys who started it. Rather, probably the creepy guys who exploited their tools and knowledge, but had bad intentions and didn't really care about the girls they tried this on. Strauss's rule was "Always leave a girl better off than when you found her". Those that didn't follow this rule just make it harder on every other guy and dating in general.
It's evolved ... So in that way this movement is still going strong
pua has matured into all kinds of ideological groups. one could argue that there is a straight pipeline between pua-mra-mgtow and even the alt right.
These methods still work, you geek.
Feminism is trying to kill it because it gives males an advantage.
It becomes fresh every decade as the next generation grows up. Alllll new.
conan is asking him some weird ass questions bro, seems like he just wants to poke fun at puas
@OmWIR uT7qu why?
@@chrisr3945 I haven't seen any of these PUA-types, especially the fans, figure out a normal talk-show yet. It is kind of fascinating since they think usually they are cracking social dynamics and cues to a higher level than normal people.
The David Letterman Show, Conan O'Brien, Jay Leno... These shows are all about the host - that is what people kept tuning back in for hence they name them to themselves. The whole point is to have repeat viewers. 90 % of the time they have some guest on that largely, the viewers haven't heard about. Especially types like this where just about nobody heard of the guy. They got less than 10 minutes. These shows then has to be entertaining to keep you watching - as the name of the show implies, that usually turns into the host holding a show, keeping it entertaining and making fun of the guest to some degree. They can't rely on random guests to do their job for them, very few guests are Norm MacDonald-types that understand how to keep it entertaining and attract viewers. So that is how it goes - the guest most often becomes the meat of the subtle ongoing joke the host tells every night as long as they are not aware of this (and sometimes even if they are).
lol, yeah, no shit
seermed more like conan wanted help and mystery was just not teaching him
Whats wrong??? Those tecnichs dosent work , he is freak , only crazy people use this.
For people who don't know this guy, I don't see how this interview accomplishes anything for him.
They are laughing but this dude is 100 percent correct. Attraction and seduction are primal
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@@sirrysare you saying it's not?
@@DragonZombie2000 It is, I’m just saying that this Mystery guy is an awkward goofball
Eb2en though Conan clowns him he definitely uses the game
a serious question, did we used to watch all things in 240p?
Serious answer, yes
Watching this in 2020, Conan should have imitated Trump's Hairstyle and that would have been a pretty good visual opener
conan is a good interviewer, when he was talking about mystery used to be rejected and mystery is thinking ok here are the normal mocking hes expected and conan sees he inadvertently insulted him, he goes and makes a self deprecating joke to change the tone and keep things moving. someone like letterman would have doubled down and start ripping into him.
I met a PUA guy a few years ago. He had zero personality and yet used these techniques to get far more sex than I could even dream of. Watching him talk to women was actually quite sickening though, because it was clear he only wanted sex. He'd be asking for their numbers within minutes of starting totally inappropriate conversations. In short, he got lots of action but still seemed the very definition of a loser.
That's the problem with pua guys. Their entire persona revolves around them getting action. The skill is great but you can't make it your entire identity.
@@nikolairose2739 Yes, that plus one cannot 'game' a chick for marriage. PUA is good only for sport fucking.
These guys are so fucking needy for pussy approval. These fucktrumpets only get women that are of low quality. High quality women don't fall for this bullshit.
I was PUA for 5 years
That’s your perception though, the females obviously see something else in him that make them want to have sex. Stop hating man, life is a game in general. Why do guys even go through the stress of becoming high value? To have the options of women that they want. What good is a Lamborghini if you’re not pulling 9’s and 10’s with it.
in the end of the day you are a loser because he fcks and you dont
They should've made a remote with Mystery and Conan trying to pick up girls in a club or bar...
Helps that he is a tall good looking dude to begin w tbh
yes, but PUAs dont wanna talk about importance of being tall and handsome
@ yeh its weird.
he is a genius
Conan Is Hil-ar-i-ous. Love it!
Hes not tho
He was maybe the wittiest and funniest of talk show hosts..
Reminder that late night show hosts used to be funny before 2016...
Simon Pegg just chilling in the corner
"How not to creep them out. That's important!" Everyone in the room knows who Mystery was talking about there! ;-)
Where is the oldest video when mystery met with conan?
Why have i never seen this one
Conan took the hair advice.
6:44 unconscious signal to defensive therefore his leg 🦵 goes like that
All that PUA stuff is worthless now with dating apps it only takes a swipe.
tbh. this is kinda true
It was always worthless.
@@jumpthegun3910Very few men on dating apps are banging top quality women like mystery and his crew would've been doing. It's a totally different thing. Most men on dating apps are scraping the bottom of the barrel of female quality.
Anyone know what Mystery and Style are up to these days? Are they still playing the game and giving seminars?
Style is an award winning writer these days, his real name is Neil Strauss.
@@aayansherwani Neil has been an award winning writer for like 30 years at this point. He's married and a father and not at all into PUA anymore.
Mystery lost visitation rights of his children , and is in Canada and unable to get a visa to work in USA . Laying low .
@@Thor-Orion He said the game brought him problems, released a book and even thought about calling it Game Over.
@@Renata_NevesI could've taught him that 😂😅
Мистери всегда смотрит в глаза. Так же давно заметил, что он изучал поведение животных
sometimes conan annoys me, like in this clip he is just overpowering mystery. let the guy speak, i mean this is meant to be an interview and not a conan comedy sketch
mystery is a great man
😂
I like conan but very disappointed in the way he dealt with this topic. He knows how difficult it is to navigate through the world of dating for men and instead of extrapolating good advice or even just being neutral he made fun of Mystery. It's a shame because the men watching could have been helped but no doubt most laughed it off as ridiculous. Now fast forward 13 years and men have it even harder as women all think they are God's gift to mankind so they are lonelier when they hit their 30s and men are lobely too
Where are you from?
I remember when this was on. Conan was trying to get his goat but Mystery wasn't having it and he just let Conan's petty comments roll off his back.
at 1.50, what is the name of that on Mystery's hand? It seems like a practical way to start a conversation :)
Idk, try to google hand accessory
Are you sure it was 2007?
Conan is the GOAT 😂😅
In Granada in Spain there is a guy who became a nudist as peacocking. He streaks on football games and stuff. He picks up tourist girls just wearing a t-shirt and a little man-bag.
His name is Olmo, check him out, he is the king!
Conan so funny
where when it must have got caught in a drift i missed it
No he's condescending
when i was readin the book "the game", idky but i picture chris hemsworth Thor as myster lol
i think he's just doing his job bra. all mystery wanted was promo
Forget all the nonsense an just try an be yourself, always worked for me
One of greatest man to walk the earth
Agreed. And he's interviewing a guy that looks like he got dressed in the dark.
@SuperMoss15 if wasn't Mr Mystery, you would probably have never been born.
@@MrG100000008 Um, what?
Mystery is the real deal. Look him up. Shit works, because it makes you interesting.