Interracial Dating- Black Men React To Black Womens' Issues
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- Interracial dating is a hot-topic. Back women can have especially strong feelings about Black men dating women of other races. When high-profile men like Michael B. Jordan do it- there are feelings. We brought in a group of Black men to discuss and respond to the advice, commentary and wisdom offered from one of our episode of MadameNoire's conversation starting digital series Listen To Black Women. Lets see what the men had to say.
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I wish black women would stop caring all together. I don’t even care when bm date out even if they say it’s “because (input stereotype).” It’s not my concerns and they’ve done me a great service even voicing that to me, because it’s even more apparent that they’re not for me. Black women have this ego about us as if someone owes themself to “the black community,” just because we choose to carry said “community” on our backs. Free yourself from them burdens, it’s obvious black men have. Date who you want to date, life is too short.
I Agree
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I don't care, never have. People can & should date who they want. I never felt I owed anyone anything or that they owed me. In fact, it was always certain types of Black guys who felt like I owed them my body just because we share ethnicity...and still do.
Speaking as a Black woman whose non-Black husband is used to invalidate anything I say about my own personal Blackness, that mindset is not completely or even mostly internal.
@@freethinkingMILF I'm not sure I'm understanding your question. He isn't invalidating my experiences. The fact that he is my husband is often used by other Black people (usually, Black men who do not and will not date Black women) to do so. His not being Black doesn't change the fact that I am.
@Telletell. Tell it sis. I’m so done with black women all in their feelings (hurt, betrayed, rejected, they owe us for our loyalty) over this. Move on! Expand those cultural horizons!
Black men do not care about racial loyalty or that we know his struggles and will have his back and hold him down. If they don’t care bout that stuff, why do black women??
I am a proud black woman who has learned to broaden my borders. It's simple, I love who loves me. My husband is a white latino who loves me for me. We must learn to take color out of the equation and just be open to love from wherever. I don't down black men for loving who they love, black or otherwise.
Yaaspassions
Exactly how I feel.
Amen
Yesss! I said this last year with the original video. I date those who want to date me. Period lol. Life is too short to fight men who dont want you. Their loss.
You're right take color out of the equation, but never ever take historical facts out ,this is where the negroe falls. Who thought us love is love why wasn't love is love for over 400yrs smh
Smh
That “love is love” crap is nonsense! It’s all about choices, I have a huge preference for black women, especially dark skin women if need be. But if I were to date out, it’s not because of that group of women are better, it’s because I chose to. Let’s be real, y’all bw/bm are so eager to date out that y’all will be willing to trash your own to seek validation. Those are the types I don’t like. Just shut up and date out.
Americans are interesting. I’m sorry, I didn’t know all the social problems in modern America, I don’t mean to be disrespectful. I guess you’re going through issues that other countries went through some time ago in history. Couple centuries prior men at some country of Eastern Europe would not marry a brunette though it was the majority of the population. The reason was the fear that they might have some Tartary, Turco-Mongol blood. They were history the enemy for centuries that carried out raids on these lands... I guess that it’s interesting that this mentality still exists today. Choosing a partner on the base of how much melanin they have... However, you do have a very young country and have a full right to form your national identity the way you want. It might, however, take you longer to start feeling yourself as one people if you keep dividing your nation on “us” and “them” based on pigments. Sorry for my English and if I said anything wrong.
Dabookwormgamer you're handsome and atteactive
Exactly 👏🏽🙌🏽
Amen!! 🙏🏽
I don't care about BM dating out honestly I've always had a BM in my life. Some things that come from the mouths are things you would expect to come from a hateful white person. I can't say I hate BM when I am black, I don't get it, somebody explain this to me please
Date who you like, but dont dog us while you do it. Or compare us to other women saying they are better than us for whatever reason. I think the pain is in that attitude then anything else
@Marcus The-Realius What? I am talking about those men who say women of other races are better than black women. There are black men that say this. And they also say they dont date black women at all. What does that have to do with comparing men I date? You are trying to equate dismissing a whole race of women to learning from past relationships and making different choices. It does not compare bruh. One has nothing to do with the other
@Marcus The-Realius Okay. I dont agree, but we can agree to disagree.
@Alexis Massey Facts.
@@kaiqee why can't women admit they are wrong
@Marcus The-Realius Please blame both parents, mother and father for the behavior of their kids initially. After you grow up then it's on you! You can change and grow if you choose to, adults make their own choices. Sounds like excuses to me. Stop trying to gaslight black women. Date who you want, no one cares. Racist comments are unacceptable though.
Whatever man. Date who you wanna date, just don’t bring anyone down when you do it. Your relationship won’t pay my bills at the end of the day🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
www.google.com/amp/s/infamoustribune.com/according-study-80-black-men-atlanta-homosexuals/amp/
Do you have a STRONGER relationship with Jesus Christ❤
@@keishasims3192 Do you have a STRONGER relationship with Jesus Christ❤
@@BIGYOUU I'm a Muslim.
I know you probably don’t have a man
Lol
Most black woman who sound like you don’t lol
Nobody was checking for Michael B Jordan when he was on The Wire.
Don't check for him now.
Demond Williams according to black women, they were the number 1 supporters of The Wire.
@@itsmob4life
Facts 😂😂😂
@kejohn6666
How about Friday Night Lights?
It wasn't a problem then.😂😂😂
What a pointlessly dumb comment.
@@mermaidtingzzz
Thank you, now continue being salty.
I have my BW and everything is great. The value of a BW is not fully understood until you find yourself one and get leveled up but that's just me.
Taryon Johnson what you should’ve said is the black women I have experience did not value me. The issue here is that people tend to generalise their singular experience.
@@shana-kayeosbourne9437 You are so right. The problem is that people don't take the time to self-reflect on the relationship, to see if there's a pattern in the people they end up with or who they find attractive. People expect their partners to be the ones to save them, rather than doing the work on themselves to become the person they want to attract. Love yourself and be everything you want in a partner.
I always ask the BM who say the don’t date BW to name one interracial couple people of all races see as a power couple and most can’t.
Taryon Johnson again you’re generalising. Those are the black women you have met, there are black women all over America and the world so you’ve basically taken your bad experiences and applied it to a whole group. That line of thinking is very close to racist ideologies.
Do you think that just because you met a number of good non black women that all non black women are good? No of course not.
Secondly what do you define as good a black man?
Lastly I think you need to reflect on the women you’ve been getting with as race isn’t the issue its the type of women you attract they’re plenty of good black women who are looking for a black man that treats them well, provides for them and is educated. You’re either not looking in the right places or there are deeper issues at hand that aren’t allowing you to see those women.
I would take time to self reflect before bashing and crossing out a whole group and limiting your options.
Facts! That's why I'm waiting on my black man, because I know there's a magic there that can't come through anyone else.
@@shana-kayeosbourne9437 interesting commentary
this shows just how lost we are as a people. we are so quick join another tribe before we are willing to build our own.
Yusaf Drake It a shame.
@FRANK CASTLE sad but true.
Why can't you have "your own" tribe with an asian or indian women? You sound like Hitler tbh...
I never hear this argument when a black women is with a white man..
Preach
How much longer will we discuss this topic?! It’s 2019. Everyone date who you want. Live and let others live!
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We'll sadly keep discussing until the end of time.
History don’t change unless we choose to change it.
@@SeriousBookWorm83 you can't change history.. Dafuq?
Allergic2 Niggas i guess that comment went over your heads. It’s cool.
I don't think I really ever cared. Because I'm going to date whoever I want. I don't have anything against white women they do them...
Tre this comment is so unintelligent.
Only time bw care is if Denzel,m.chestnut,Idris etc... were dating ww
@@luthercurry4303 slam dunk
@@buntun3670 Denzel, Morris Chestnut, and Idris all married their own women. They don't belong in this conversation.
If you have to say you don’t care that means you do care
Black women are limiting themselves by not dating out of their race, love is everywhere as long as you’re willing to see outside your bubble and step outside of your comfort zone, there’s so much to learn and embrace!
Not really, there are black men from the carribean , Africa and Hispanic countries. That's over a billion if you can't find one that's y'all fault .
Simple Pleasures
Exactly.
@Monica58 Buttercups Not True at all
If you always limit your thinking to the era of your high school days you need to expand your growth.
@@gmailnumbertwo6134 I agree. Black love never dies... But we have so much individual and collective wounds to heal.
The hatred for IR dating is all about ego to us (yes black men as well). I remember going to the bar and every black woman I tried to interact with rejected me, but the moment I successfully interacted with a white woman all hell broke loose. Nasty looks, assumed I suffered from self hatred, allat. I even experience this from work since I have different taste from everyone.
Black women (and Black men) from my impression want the first right to refusal and it’s always the ones who aren’t interested in anything long term that give us the most hell. Most of the time we are just guilty of finding the best we can get within our standards. It’s unfair especially to those you refuse to date.
Cameron Bell
The glamorisation of IR is so embarrassing. Black people really suffer from self hate and being proud of their own people. Why is it a lot of black people who are obsessed with IR. we as black people really need to remember who we are and take a look at themselves in the mirror and practice self love and come together as one. Sometimes I just feel embarrassed of being black because of how some black people treat other black people and out other race of people in a high pedestal
Matshidiso Sekgampu
Black women are mad about it because they are immediately denied resources
Black men are mad about it because it’s one less partner for their own sexual conquest.
Ahman Ahm oh believe me it’s the resources and black women do compete when they want to, it’s just men with resources they don’t want to compete for unless it’s 6 figures.
Ahman Ahm that’s 80% of what I said, thanks for listening just to respond.
Jassy jay for starters I pretty much approach all women the same, the fact that you accuse me of trying to find a relationship in a bar shows your lack of comprehension. I’m actually okay with black women not wanting me since I attract a lot of higher quality nonblack women. Trust me I’m not bitter for anything.
Black women, you don't belong to us. You've been by us throughout all our struggles. Date whoever treats you best and you're worthy of genuine love where you're not struggling nor are mistreated. You're desirable and men of all races love you.
Stop lying cuz. All races of men love black women? Lmfao! Oh the lies! Other races don't want their bonnet wearing, loud mouth, disrespectful asses. Look at the stats
Stop lying, and black men don't belong to black women either. It's them who are always crying when a black man dates out, yet they cheer when a black woman does the same thing
@@damndisplace07 bruh you out here being racist for no specific reason , you think everyone doesn’t want a black woman in their life then you are 1000% wrong , there’s a person for everyone you just have to go and find that one
I hope black women hear this clear, and Stop protesting and caring about black men who are mistreated, killed by police and stereotype. We black women should not care just like the white asian and hispanic women who don't care about black men being racially profiled.
Same goes for you guys
Why are we still having this conversation??? ITs 2019. We really don’t care anymore.
Shante Gumede because it’s one of the factors that continues to plague and corrupt black men and women minds, bodies and souls in all adapting/clinging to white ppl leaving your own roots behind and possibly creating self hatred and hatred towards your own ppl. So yeah.
@@Joe-cw4qk even though the kids in those marriages will be black?
@@Palpad100
White people can't produce black children. You do know how reproduction works right?
@@godbearxd they are biracial, but they will still be seen as black by society.
@@Palpad100
Society once saw black people all together as less than human. 3/5 of one to be exact. Did that make them correct then? Does it make them correct now? Don't let people tell you who you are.
I'm a 29yr old black man with no kids, pays all his bills and lives alone with 2 sources of income. I don't smoke, hardly ever drink and don't do clubs. I was "boring". Sistas overlooked me all the time. So I started dating outside my race. It wasn't until then that they started to notice me.
Gajeel Session They said you was boring. thats a shame. so a good man is boring.
Lol that’s how it be not saying all black women like that but the majority act funny until they ass is replaced or you get a white women 🤷🏿♂️💯
@Mia Rose why does it have to be a story and not the truth? Why is it hard for some sisters to believe that our first preference in women (BW) might not have wanted us so we just started dating who like us. And where is the crime in that? Especially as long as we aren't degrading black women in the process. What else do yall expect some of us to do?
But maybe you are boring though, just saying
Please brother, don’t give up on our sisters. We all have some work to do 🤲🏾
Theyre only doing it because its trending. Please lets stop giving this any oxygen. Let it die. Its 2019. Black women aint jealous no more.
@Jessica Catherine
Maybe not jealous but some still feel entitled to date black men and betrayed when he chooses Becky with the good hair
@FlawlessJ90 - damn dude I hope yo mama ain’t black cuz if she is what does that make YOU?
@@BeautifulGood713 his comment isnt even worth a rebuttal.
There sure are black female youtubers stay talking about what Cyn said tho
Right! I dgaf just don't disrespect your sisters.
I never knew that bw looked at bm with ww as a missed opportunity, that’s news to me maybe because I’ve never felt like that. I love black men but all together I love a good man in general! I don’t feel it’s my job to date only my race, it’s my job to remember where I come from no matter who I’m with!
One of the best comments I've read here,totally agree, That's Queen talk right there and I'm not saying ''Queen'' because I think you're black lol.
Lilo Rolland thaaaanx 💋
Best comment
I totally agree. Love comes from anywhere, my fiancé is a WM and I’ve never been happier. There should be no rules to only date within our race
And good luck to you. This comes from a black man.
Date who you want but don’t market to blk women.. market to the type of women you prefer.
JR H, don't limit yourself.
If you're referring to Michael 1. He doesn't market himself to bw 2. He has never said he prefers non black women
... huh?
I'M A PROUD BLACK MAN WITH A BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN ON MY SIDE AS MY WIFE WITH 2 BEAUTIFUL BLACK CHILDREN. I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT US AND OUR CULTURE AND HONESTLY A LOT OF THESE OTHER RACES LOVE TO APPROPRIATE OR CULTURE TO QUIET AS KEPT. IN THIS VIDEO THOUGH AND FROM COMMENTS I SEEN EVERYBODY KEEPS SPEAKING ON JUST THE WORD "PREFERENCE". I'VE HEARD PEOPLE WANT PARTNERS OUTSIDE THE BLACK RACE SO THEY CAN HAVE MIXED BABIES, I'VE SEEN MEN SAY BLACK WOMEN HAVE TO MANY ATTITUDES AND ACT TO INDEPENDENT, I'VE SEEN MEN CONSIDER WHITE WOMEN AND OTHERS AS PRIZES, AND I'VE SEEN WOMEN SAY THEY DATE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE CUZ BLACK MEN JUST PLAY TO MANY GAMES, KODAK BLACK THE RAPPER SAID HE DON'T DATE BLACK WOMEN AS BLACK AS HE IS CUZ HE DON'T WANNA BE WITH NOBODY THAT LOOKS LIKE HIM OR HAVE BABIES THAT LOOK LIKE HIM WHICH IS SELF HATE. ALL IN ALL I THINK ITS MORE THAN JUST PREFERENCE PEOPLE HAVE INTERNAL ISSUES THAT DRIVES THEIR DECISIONS AND ITS DEEPER THAN JUST "I LIKE WHO LIKES ME" WHICH WASN'T TOUCHED ON.
illWillOfficial I'm reading through some of these comments and it's just heartbreaking. Yours was the first one that gave me a glimmer of hope. Sadly so many of our people are broken. We're saying some of the same things about each other that racist whites and others say about us. The truth of the matter is many whites and others may like to copy us but that doesn't mean they truly care about and for Black people. Most of the time they don't.
Preach
ShogunBean 😂😂😂😂💀💀😂.
That’s what I thought. He’s yelling. 😂🤣
The problem with our culture is that it's rooted in negativity and suffering...we give gravity to the words of idiot rappers and entertainers rather than serious intellectuals....Kodak Black? Who cares what his preference is. Who is he? Is that an ideal mate for women lol? If so, you can't be helped. So what if he bashes you...he's not a serious man so how can he actually hurt you?
@@keishasims3192 I see what's happening here. Look, if it helps you sleep better at night then go with it.
I dont care who you date just dont degrade black women or look as if they are the lowest of the races. Alot of times black men will be with the black woman through the struggle, but when they become successful they get with a woman of a different race.
Both look down at each other! Both stay in struggle and leave in success. Women have left dudes when they lost over 40 pounds, got a degree, and etc..
@@whiteranger79 complete lies
Anita Commodore it not. 🤔 I could use blk china with rob but that celebrity. But this do happen to regular men.
@@ladyc8581 I know that's right tell him again when you said that I bust out laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i hollar.
@@ladyc8581 it's actually true
I feel all men of all races are the same. You have real men that are honest and have intergrity that loves and adore 1 woman,verses little boys that living in a candy store wanting to try everything that he sees. Logically speaking we know that to much candy can make your stomach hurt. In the world that we live in today we can fix a stomach ache but we can't fix aids.
Only men that like superficial things love the outward appearance and no interest into what's inside. When you make a statement they always want to cry you'll jealous. What's there to be jealous over the same way they treated you, they will do it to everybody else. Don't get it twisted.
Stupidity comes in all COLORS.
Lotus Devine I agree men are men regardless of race good or bad don’t have a color that’s why I don’t believe in racial preference cause we are all the same white men or black men = men / black women or white women = women we are all humans
Enjoyed your take on the subject. Stupidity comes in all colors
Be Blessed,
I replied to the wrong message I'm sorry. I have no comment.
Be Blessed,
Michael B Jordan is not there because of black women he's there because he's a great actor in a box office draw in Other Woman of other races find him attractive he used to be a lame in the eyes of our own women but nobody want to talk about that he finally got the ability to get any woman that he wants and he is expanding his options to the max and he's meeting beautiful men from all around the world as another young black man go ahead Michael enjoy your Fame
he's an average actor who managed to get into a role that works for him. he won't be doing Shakespeare anytime soon onstage.
@@theninjacat7200 who the hell wants to watch Shakespear ?
@@theninjacat7200 You basically described every actor that tries out for a role, moron.
@v. w. Lmao, you aren't that intelligent. More than just woman support him. He has fans of all genders & you blacks that live in Western societies are a minority anyways. He'll be just fine without support still making millions, lol.
Get over it. Ya'll have 0 influence in this man's life.
@@theninjacat7200 Lmao, your first comment was moronic itself so I doubt I'll value the opinion of an imbecile like yourself. Doubt my mother regrets giving birth to a successful software engineer that makes 7 figures per year, lol.
Your input just like you first response is worthless. Then again people like you would live in a delusional mind-set tend to worthless sheep in general, lol.
I’m a black man and my wife is Japanese and I hear what BW say all the time. I feel some BW take it personal and think it’s all about them or about them. I say marry and date who you want live your life
No bw generally dont give a shit who bm date. Any bw who has a problem with bm dating interracially has a problem within themselves and its not a bw’s thing. I see the same happening when bw also date wm vice versa
Sorry to hear that your wife isn’t black.
@Brown Kiss black women belittle and bash black men all the time but it guess that’s ok lol. I think bw should just let us date who we want and move on. Who cares what someone has to say
It is about the USA Black Men supposed to be protecting black women and the community, but black guys like you have failed the black community, you're not leaders, you don't have any ambition, you're not protecting the black family and the black race, black women are supposed to be protected while they are living inside of his white supremacist / white to Dynasty come and black men have turned their back on the female you are a coward and a traitor if you have to live with that.
Micheal b Jordan would of made it without black woman same goes to any other black actors so let’s stop that conversation
@panthero thank you. Clear as day. And if it comes down between Micheal and Denzel...need I say more?? (dropping the mike literally and figuratively)
Did they want Michael B Jordan to pick a regular black woman, like them? Because he owed his success to them?
True dat the dummest shit.i heard do far
As a proud black man, I feel what many of our beautiful black women are saying. It seems like there is an issue with this concept some black men have of preferring to date outside our race, especially as this seems like it's happening more in the black community than anywhere else.
I love who I am, I love my culture and as I embrace and love my blackness, having a black partner just comes naturally.
Just felt the need to share this.
Black is beautiful, black women out there, your are queens🤎🙏🏿
@Jordan Barclay or maybe I'm just educated and mature.
Very easy to cast insults online isn't it.
I guess emotional intelligence isn't a skill held by everyone.
Thank you
How come nobody iz saying why it's more so the black community as a whole dating outside race, it's sure not bcuz ,we all woke up 1 day n said we hate each other, do y'all know white men engineered this shit so we could be apart, 2gether we are the strongest race , why do think they took black men out the household n replaced us with government assistance DUH ,start reading up on history n stop listening 2 propaganda n social media, why do black women say they mad at white or other races of women yet they buy weave that looks like white , asian or Hispanic hair 🤔why can a white man get the best out of a black women , but black men get the shitty attitude n behavior, think mcfly think 😂💯💯
Dont be fooled you could get played an cheated by placing women on a pedastal she must show you that she is that kind, humble an trustworthy enough for that title "Queen" dont be played like me with just blind acceptance bro you will get hurt badly.
@@bahamasbroyt for me it's all about prospective. When I say "your a queen" that's the potential I see in all our women. Them living upto their potential is their choice, and not all women do.
I class myself as a king, so there is no pedal stooling here, just respect.
As a man I lead by example and have the respect of my black queen of 22 years to prove it.
Were living in confused times where too many men don't know what it means to be a man, and many women don't know how to conduct themselves.
I've got a pretty good idea and have the results to evidence it.
Real love and respect isn't weakness.
Not having respect for ourselves is weakness 🙏🏿😉
When a black man dates or marries a white women sister's label him a sellout.
When a black woman dates or marries a white man , sister's be like "get yo bag sis" !
Tell me I'm lying!
No lies detected.
The reason why bw are supporting that is because of all the videos you can know view on youtube bashing them, thank your "brothas" for that.
@@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842 Same can be applied to any race keep it moving.
@shimmer burnett Seriosuly, you dont realize how you black women act? If you really believe black men are rejecting black women due to looks you're delusional. Yarll attitudes are utterly disgusting.
Dramacydal EL that’s why you shouldn’t take advice or any words that come out of a black Women serious.
Notice that you never see the top shelf black women complaining. I've yet to see or hear a 9 or 10 who was black complaining about this issue.
Exactly
That’s not the majority of women though and define top shelf please 👀
Because they can get and keep a man they have something to loose
@@rutho.6282 lmao 80perectent of every population dont matter the race are average.
I truly hate this narrative that Micheal B. Jordan made his fan base off of Black Women. This is so far from the truth. Then the funny thing about this is that when Creed first dropped. MBJ and Ryan Coogler took a pic for Vibe Magazine and Black Twitter exploded with unfounded and apparently untrue accusations of homosexuality on these two brothers parts. Now all of a sudden Black Women are seeking there validation through his dating choices?? I feel that instead of making excuses that we should love who loves you. I shouldn't have to be with a woman because we share the same color. I should be with a women because we share the same love, commitment and honor for one another.
Thank you!
What are they talking about? His career was built on backs of black women? So only black women bought tickets to his movies? I agree be with the person you love, no matter the color
Do you have a STRONGER relationship with Jesus Christ❤
@@cd1788 Do you have a STRONGER relationship with Jesus Christ❤
@@charley4426 Do you have a STRONGER relationship with Jesus Christ❤
I don't see where Michael B. Jordan, owes black women anything.
I'm starting to think bm are obsessed with talking about bw. It's like they make a video everyday. No other group of men or women do it. No group.of women is making videos professing their love or saying how great bm are...but yet they continue to uplift non blk women and put down the the bw
No it's self accountability is the problem but we black men still love black womem so it doesn't really matter self accountability in both parties i am a black man i have notice it alot but we still love our women we justhave to working how we love.
It’s plenty of Non Black Women that make “why I love Black Men” videos lol you’re delusional
Yeah, because we sick of you LOUD, GOLD DIGGING, MASCULINE, CREATURES... it's beyond ridiculous how the majority of be act in 2020. No feminity, no domestic capabilities. Nothing.. bm ain't checking for y'all!
Ur a liar
@@illmatic826 everyone know the thirst of bm. Sad u need their validation. They will dump u for the next bm probably your bestfriend
I'm a grown ass man I don't need to take ownership of my preference. Women need to mind their own damn business and stay out full grown men's business.
Sure, long as you keep your business to yourself and don't believe you have the right to denigrate a group of women in the process. In which case you'd be rightfully put in your place.
@@YooTooLoB I don't take orders from women, nor am I put in my place by one.
@shimmer burnett Not anger it's called full grown man.
I just agree with daphne v on the denigrate part. There's no explanation owed by any man for his preference but, some men choose to resort to insults and criticize women to validate their decision. Men don't have to do that. Mess with who you want to mess with in peace and to yourself.
@@YooTooLoB Dont date White women never have.
Being with a person of another race isn't about skin color.
It's about attitude and compatibility.
A person doesn't have to tell you why they are dating a certain race.
It's their business.
Who doesn't love black women? I love black women. I mean I love all women but black is my preference.
"Micheal b Jordan career has been made off the backs of black women"?????....how do you take credit for some shit like that...i swear you women stay patting yourselves on the back.
I love black women simple as that if she anit black she anit for me 👌🏾
@Dallas Person that's comedy 😂😂
@ Trill Kevin ...love u black man🖤✊🏿🤗
the Artist y’all use the term simp so loosely you probably don’t even know what it means anymore 🙄 he’s a simp because he likes black women
Holla! #100
Simp
I prefer to only date black women so, I'm not tripping about any of this lol ya'll funny in the comment section tho 😂
Clowns
Joyce Smith I swear
I bet you’re a simp
The crap lord Sell I’m a simp bc I only like black women lol damn that’s tough
Guard Up yep sure is. I’m sorry, but you guys just have a very bad reputation when it comes to liking black woman.
What about us in the Caribbean most of us don’t date outside our race my cousin is married to a black Canadian woman who came to our carnival and that was a few years ago and they are still together I wouldn’t mind dating an non Caribbean black woman I love black women it doesn’t matter where there are from to me black women are the most beautiful women on earth
Agree. Date intercultural not interracial
Lol. That's something I need to snap out of. I want a West Indian husband, wouldn't mind another race but I sort of have n't mind set
Yes! I date interculturally and not interacially. I love me a black man.
Craig Snyder hello brotha
My hero thanos 😂😂😂 you dudes date out even more. As soon as you get to the UK, y’all lose your damn minds... Same thing in certain parts of Canada like Toronto.
Date whoever makes you happy. Date inside your race or outside of your race. It does NOT matter. You simply need to be happy in life. Finding a truly good person for you to be with is way more important than any other factor. This is the only life you have, you deserve happiness. I hope you find it.
Niacin black Americans can't afford to just date outside of their race and everything is going to be good it's all kinds of complexities with that, one of the things about my precious fraternal negro race, they don't know any better.
Black Americans have all kinds of conflict social issues they don't care about they do anything and everything apart from making sure that the community that they were born out of it secure their families secure that black Americans are successful in general. No!!
African-Americans only care about themselves, and the mindset that you have is the reason why black Americans is a failing Race.
When looking at interracial relationships and saying they could’ve been for me you should definitely consider that that man or woman likely is not right for you. Because what is for you can only and will only be for you. And they don’t even have to be the same race as you as long as it works it just works. That’s the way love goes.
“Trend”?
My first white grandmother married my black grandfather
in the late 1800s
My grandmother is white
my grandfather black
I’m also part Samoan and Afghani
My family came to America
in the 1600s
We’ve been mixed since then
So,
what the fuck are you talking about?
Also, Michael B Jordan's career wasn't "built on the backs of black women" black women find him attractive, which is okay, but what was he posed to do for you not to like him, get a gut? I hate wide ranging, grandiose statements like that.
love who you love, unless you're making reasons for NOT dating black women, then you dun f#$ked up.
Y'all don't choose the average successful, healthy, and happy black men. So what are we to do, wait around? We just fit in where we get in.
@Abi Rociò Valdivia you need to go to the eye doctor then you are losing your vision.
Instead of BW getting angry out of BM preferences, they should learn how to broaden their dating range. It is so hard to find a black woman or native woman who doesnt think white men are only after sex. There are men genuinely interested in interracial relationships but women in general are somehow bound to race.
It’s just the way many were raised. I was taught that BOYS (no matter the race) are only after sex. I’m from a small town in Michigan called Muskegon. There wasn’t much diversity there when I was growing up; Some blacks, song whites and if you’re lucky you might see some Latinos. Keeping that in mind mind, when this Indian guy transferred to my high school I became curious. At that time I wasn’t used to seeing people who looked like him. Although he was brown, even darker than myself, I knew he wasn’t black. He had a different undertone to his color; It was almost as though he was hiding a sunset under his skin. I told my mom about my crush and she felt it her duty to advise me that those guys will sleep with “Western women”, but will only marry women of THEIR race/culture. Although we were speaking about this guy in particular, I knew when she said it, she meant that for ALL non black men. I believe she said it so that I won’t get my expectations too high and possibly embarrass myself. I’m thankful for the heads up, but I also realize that there ARE guys out there who want us. I’ve experienced it myself. I honestly believe that those black women that complain about BM dating out are the ones who are ONLY attracted to black males. Don’t waste your time with those BW. There are many of us out there who are open to dating the rainbow!!! We’re definitely out here. Don’t get discouraged 😊😊😊
Other men of other races have their own beautiful women too 😂😂, they don’t have interest in black women to begin with. It’s only a few of them.
@@michikomalandro7665 lol I don't go around chasing women I have a STEM bachelor's degree to complete soon and more studying to do and more success to chase. Some black women are very ignorant they want a man that makes six-figure even though they work at Walmart. I have dated Blacks, Whites, and Spanish girls before. Now that I am more mentally mature, I just focus on my goals now, this is not high school anymore. I am not mad because I can't find a black girl I am just saying the facts. I am African and African we do not have any problem with getting our women because the Traditions are still the same. It's some African American men that are lonely and Angry because the modern Black woman in America is not marriage type. I
I am sorry that has been your experience. If a white man tells her he is serious and shows her I’m sure she will believe you
"Michael B Jordan's fanbase have been built of the backs of Black Women" 0:47
wtf? since when?? Most of the time BW called him lame before he blew up.
I beg to differ.
Black Americans are the only group of black people who sit around and talk about this, we out here don't care, date who you want
I've dated a black man and I'm currently dating a white man. My preference is the white man because we just click more.
LMAO!
Good for you.
How many times have you heard black women justify their pursuit of or participation in an interracial relationship with the premise that "niggas ain't shit," only to be met with the praise of other black women-"Good for you, girl. You found yourself a real man." I feel like there's a lot of hypocrisy from black women on the matter of interracial dating, and while I can understand their position as it pertains to black men and white women, I think they need to keep that same energy when the scenario is reversed, or let their grievances go all together.
I didn't know MBJ's relationships, or anyone else's, need "community approval." We unfairly judge "our" entertainers based on factors outside of their art! We blackballed Chrisette Michelle (she's still that soulful artist, regardless of who she played in front of!), and we now are criticizing MBJ for dating white women. He's still a great actor! Both persons are still great at their craft! The year is 2020. Aren't we as a people much better than this now dated thought?
I thought there was sound advice given in this video, however it was slanted in a way that only viewed black women as an unheard victim. So I'll give a slant toward black men. In this video we never once hear about the black men that are turned down because they dress a certain way or make a certain salary, also it's asumed that black men that only date other ethnicities aren't worth pursuing a relationship with. This is a problem because many black men have been rejected by black women repeatedly only to find that other ethnicities are ready to embrace them. Neither black men or black should feel like they have to prioritize their ethnicity and there should be an eagerness to want to know why black are intrested in other ethnicities.
Saying black women weren't checking for them is an excuse. If they prefer white women that's fine. Most likely they were overly aggressive in their approach. Be honest here. Js.
And vice versa! I have only wanted to date black men, but to some, I look stuck up, like I only date white guys, I don’t have enough booty and even the professional black males are programmed to think white women are better and they made it to the top, so from professional to bottom of the barrel, I have yet to meet a black man of substance that would like to date another black woman with substance...
@@keishasims3192 no he's not lying. My younger brother is going through this now. I've never had problems getting bw but he tries they don't show him no love,but non-bw do. He came to me for advice (6yrs older) I didnt want to tell him get him a non-bw , if bw don't want him. But I don't want him getting played either. Sad thing is if a bw gave him a chance I'm sure she will be happy. He really a good person and hes already financially set (doesn't show it), yet no love. So yeah hes not lying, how I got to this page.
@@antoniodennis5081 same here man, I can't for the love of God get a bw to want me.
@@keishasims3192 Nahh most bw wants thugs hood guys rather than good guys its a FACT it will for always be this way sadly.
Let these men date who they want. Only black women who don't date out have an issue with black men who do. If you feel an actor who you support don't represent your individual ideology don't support him/her.
Black women broaden your options. I don't advocate for my 18 year old daughter to date exclusively black men only. My husband who is also black feels the same way. She will be much happier. Black people should breed themselves out. Lol since we can't come together like an intelligent community of people.
@ Monica Craft,
I would slap the Fck outta my daughter if she had a low level, subservient mentality and agreed to be the sex FETTISH of some WM.
@@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348 but you wouldn't slap your son.... lol.
I advocate for my daughter to be with someone who will love her, treat her the way she wants to be treated and be a provider and protector. If he just so happens to be white I don't care.
@T Knight when have black men protected black women? Lol
I'm not talking about as a whole at this point. I just want my daughter to be with a true man who understands his role as a man, as a husband and as a father. I don't care about color anymore. Black men do not care about being "loyal" to black women so why would I teach this to my daughter? I would be setting her up for failure.
@Anon Black Man & Light Skin Motivation thank you! 👏👏👏👏
Dick H Where is the lie tho
I date out myself as a black woman. My boyfriend is non black but I don't try to make it seem that dating non black is a prize, thats the only time i find a problem when black men date out. Its when they make a trophy out of thier nonblack partner, fetishize them and then bash black women.
Let's stop caring what others are doing period! We don't owe each other explanations for our choices.
Whenever I see black women with white men, they rarely, if ever bash black men. In reverse, the bashing is done with impunity. Many Asian women with white men and black men with white women hate their counterparts with a passion. Not all, but it's does happen. Smh.
Whether its black men group or black women group none of these discussions go anywhere talking about the group that isn't present. If you have black men & black women in the same room discussing this topic and others like the skin complexion drama we could actually put an end to quite a few issues that have kept us in combat.
That's because most ppl are not being honest when they have the discussion
Skin ain't got nothing to do with it. Black women tend to compete for the masculine energy in a relationship. That's why they are dead last when it comes to marriage and dating
Black women are so use to leading because historically black men don’t offer stability, protection or marriage. So yes, go where those things are the norm.
@@damndisplace07 you really think masculine and feminine energy is real 🤣? Hope you know it’s a social construct. what you’re tryna say is black women are chosen last because we just acting like y’all ?
Why the attacks on Mike B Jordan anyway? He never said nothing to diss black women. I’m a black man and just today I was at a bar with a white coworker in a predominantly white scenery and 3 white women walks pass us with heavy flirting and caught them many times looking across the room, I just think white women and nonblack women go after who they want, they wasting no time waiting on a guy to step to them versus black women always want us to approach them and they taking that advantage
Monica58 Buttercups So you just gonna ignore the fact that MBJ didn’t disrespect Black women but was cancelled and disrespected by Black women for his preference?
Monica58 Buttercups I don’t think it’s confidence black women have because for 1 I think black women should love how god made them minus the weave, fake eyelashes, and even fake asses. I feel that black women get up and arms because they can’t have it their way and get in their feelings when the beta male date outside his race, while black women out their chasing alpha males getting pregnant by them and then left behind with a child so she want the world to feel sorry for her? That’s your decision not ours and black men moving on can’t knock that
David Sauce black women want to date/marry outside their race more than black men do. That’s why they complain about it so much.
Brother Voodoo strongly agree and been wanting to date outside their race for ages
why the attacks on mikey b Jordan? mikey has a reputation for being 'into' white women. the minute he got in black panther (and saw how profitable it was), he suddenly discovered his blackness. he even went so far as to try to get flirtatious with Naomi Osaka (the tennis player) who had a little crush. she's young - doesn't realize he's into white women really - and it's good, FREE press for him.
one thing is true is black men date women who will talk with them. Sometimes black women don't like a nerdy black man.
The same can be said for any race. I don't care who black men date or marry. As long as they don't bash black women, I could care less.
@@keishasims3192 : It is true that the nerdy geek guy gets a "don't talk to him!" that goes beyond ethic bounderies, however, once women are older & wiser some tend to think differently.
@@tamikaqueen1203 Well, you can't generalize. We're individuals, not all one person.
@@keishasims3192 But of course we are different as this is what makes up an individual, however, the nerdy guy is sterotyped to be the guy that gets the less dates. How it is plays out in everyday life is up for grabs.
@@tamikaqueen1203 Whatever. I don't know many, if any black women that like thugs. I don't. I prefer white men, and NOT the wigger types.
Black women are no longer trying to stop interracial dating. We realize we don't want those men anyway. We just want black men to stop comparing us to WW. Your preference should not be based on your dislike of BW. Just go do you. You will start to hear more women speak like this. the pickme is a dying breed
I understand black people can date whomever they choose. However, has any black people considered that being unattracted to physical features of your own race and instead being attracted to the physical features of another race, this could possibly be due to low self esteem? Even if it’s on a sub conscious level. If one looks in the mirror and sees melanin skin, a prominent nose, woolly hair, and full lips. And that person thinks to themselves I don’t like those features so I want my kids to look different than me. I want them to have what I like, stringy horse hair, pale skin, pointy nose, and thin lips. I mean seriously, wouldn’t that be the very definition of self hate? And I’m not comin for you brothas that only date intrracially because guys like you mean more fine beautiful BW for me!!
If that really was the only reason...but its certainly not.
No one should have to explain who or why they love someone... EVER!!!! It's about your happiness, not everyone else's...
What if it’s just a cultural preference?
Most black girls think I’m too proper and not thug enough or a gang banger. so I got me a Latina.
That's not considered interracial.... they are considered a minority,, same class.as blacks
Blacks womens views on "dating out" is not solely based on accessibility it's also based on history. I think that is a key factor missing in this conversation.
Black women are beautiful and smart. Keep your heads up and don't worry about all the negativity. Stop giving life to these videos. Date and be with those who love and appreciate you. If bm want to make these videos let them. It just shows more about their character as men and it's not good.
Date who ever you want without degrading and comparing them to a black women. That's all we ask.
Unfortunately when black men degrade they talk about the black women they've been with in their past (which may be true or not) and somehow people translate that to mean ALL black women.
I totally agree and I feel like it could be a two way street where some black women(not all black women) can do the same thing without bashing black men because not all black men are bad and we're all not dogs
ITS 2019!!!!! LET IT GO!! LET PEOPLE LIVE! PEOPLE HAVE PREFERENCES
This ain’t the 60s anymore!
doesn't matter what year it is racism is still alive black people are still being killed for their skin all that" it's 2019 " it's not the 60s anymore" talk is straight nonsense
@@blackgod9193 Agreed. I've seen people get arrested or killed for no reason. Racism still exists in America, they just try to deny it!
@Arinze Ihezue I don't know. I like white men, though. I'm attracted to guys like Austin Butler or Zac Efron.
@Arinze Ihezue Well, I had both mom and dad growing up. I'm closer to my mom, because she was my rock. Dad did pretty good, too, but my mom truly held my brother and I together.
@Arinze Ihezue Well, my dad was around. But, in many cases, I've seen men in our community who work, then lose thier jobs because they're lazy, don't wanna pay bills, or take care of their kids. You can't be involved until they're like 10 and 11, then be lazy and stay home all day. I like white men just because. Doesn't mean I hate my dad.
This comments section is hilarious. Funny how when a bw sees another bw with a wm it's : yassss sis, you go girl, Winning and all that but when a bw sees a bm with a non bw he gets the nasty facial expressions and the looks of disappointment, even tho this man has been rejected multiple times by bw, gtfoh with that shit, you reap what you sow end of.
Bottom line? Whom I date is no one's concern. Whom you date is no one's concern. Mind your business.....live your life.
'Nuff said.
I see all the "I never cared" comments, and they don't want to acknowledge the FACT that this "successful black men marry outside" issue which has been there for ages....Kanye and Lupe did a skit on it in their "Testify" video. You may be just one black woman who wants to convince us she doesn't care, the truth is a LOT of your sisters and aunts care
No swearing, no cussing, straight talk....luv it...good job guys
I actually prefer black women, but I'm currently dating outside my race. Race had nothing to do with it, we connected so we started dating. Those that have an opinion about what others do could use that energy to pursue their own relationships.
I need to start a channel with some real brothers discussing this.
Robert Brown Right. Because these dudes act like they’re afraid to discuss the actual actual truths. The scared to mention to purple elephants because they don’t wanna lose followers. Lack of femininity, hair and makeup over exercise and health misappropriation, and the fact that MOST of them can’t help but make everything into a competition vs a man. That’s what it’s about. Not to mention strong and independent BS and the horrible ways they see submission. I wonder how that’s gonna play out now that 70 percent of the industries that’s gonna be affected by the current circumstances are occupied mostly by women. I’m for sisters but they need to quit letting reality TV and sitcoms define womanhood and companionship for them.
@@marquezj286 You make valid points, but Black men must also be held accountable for their actions as well. Its not all the Black Woman's fault....A woman is a reflection of the environments men create
When a black woman gets a white man she's "leveling up"
This is much more than "I have a preference". Black women on average are not deemed beautiful by world standards.Men from all races rank black women on the low end of the totem pole. To see your own black especially those who are rich and successful not wanting to date you, hurts quite a bit. It's makes black women extremely insecure of their own beauty.
If black women could date out they would... facts
Just Stop It!
We can date who the hell we want.
Only 7 % of the population is black females even less if you account for minors,elderly and overweight and undesired women in the country.
That leaves a large group of beautiful women from other backgrounds.
As far as Mike B is concerned.
Even if he were dating black women it would not be any of these women on the panel.
In this country we have the right to Life Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness and sometimes that does not include black women.
Get over yourself and make yourself more desirable.
THANK YOU. You took the words right out of my mouth! Never understood how black women sit there and complain about there not being enough black men. Then when they find out why, want to call black men shallow or sellouts for just being men. You have to meet the basic look requirments in order to be a suitable partner, and that also comes with leaving that "I dont need a man attitude" out the door!
@@jadejohnson4150 yeah I just read a few words of that mess. He's telling the truth and you just don't wanna hear it.
@@jadejohnson4150 hes clearly not into black women who don't care for themselves. Who would be? If you want me to read all of your comment condense them by half
Let's say I love Tom Hanks. I go to see all his movies because I love his performance. What he does in his personal life is his business. I don't get to tell him how to live his life just because I bought a ticket to his movies. This is ridiculous that a guy like MBJ gets attacked for not liking BW exclusively.
This is what makes me angry
1. When black men date white women he's celebrated
2. When black women date white men she's considered a trader, betrayer, gold digger.
What? Leave whatever space is saying that. I've never heard that said in my entire life but that's unfortunate.
I don't owe black women anything I'm going to get what I want don't care about what anyone thinks.
My wife's Hispanic and I'm white. We've heard the same nonsense about not dating or marrying outside our race from family, friends, and complete strangers for years. It comes down to love and compatibility. If you find love and can make a shared life work than I wish you well, regardless of your race, ethnicity, religion, culture, upbringing, or what have you.
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If you're religious, remember: God made all of us, and God doesn't make mistakes.
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If you're not, remember: Genetics traces all of us to common ancestors and we're not that different on a biological level.
Hispanic isn’t a race
Michael B Jordan: I really think that he is just trying to make his money . Dont want to anger anyone.
My suggestion to black Men and Women, is stop all that dating around and find a husband or wife. Keep the family structure together.
Black women only care if it’s the swag dudes or the good looking select brothas they could see themselves with. Black woman could careless if its the average Blackman.
BLACK WOMEN GO WHERE YOURE APPRECIATED PERIOD..
There wasn't enough of this conversation. I'll just say growing up in the military on base as a black man or black boy at the time you're surrounded by people who come from all walks of life. The Chang family were our neighbors with thick Louisiana accents. The Gregory's were our black neighbors who are from Toronto with thick Canadian accents. The point is my surroundings weren't made up of one ethnicity or culture..... but a variety of them. And for me with a variety of culture exposure came a variety of attraction. Because in your development years that's where it starts. On the schoolyard.
so as a non black woman, if a black man tells me he PREFERS white or Asian or Latina women, I'm done. especially white cause the pathology is deep with this one. I prefer black man loving black women cause its what hes known his entire life and it would be hard to cope that you're never gonna be enough but Becky its wayyyy harder cause you gotta deal with the same thing with "issues" on top. it's hard however u turn it especially if u fall in love for everyone involved.
Dick H rub your relationship in a black woman's face? What's the purpose? Sounds kinda bitter to me.
@BIG BANG where in the hell did you read that... I said black men who go for exclusively white women, the whiter the better -its clear somethings off
@shimmer burnett ok first of all I'm not Becky. I'm not white. I am not after black men, I'm.not gonna take em away. especially knowing that where I'm at apart from brown, and recently as people started travelling- black kids (African moms and dads) ...I am sorry ur made to feel black men don't appreciate black women. out of all black men I've known only one(with black panther logo tattooed) went for barbie dolls.
@Dick H that's only fair and reasonable. I dont know how I came off so wrong-maybe English not my 1st language? I adore black women. my grandad who was born 1924 used to tell me hes marrying Tina Turner. " u like her shes gonna be ur grandma" - maybe he instilled that love.
@Dick H That's how I feel about white men. He needs to rub his success in the face of black men when we go out.
I think these brothers articulated themselves very well on this issue.
Much better than the women as well.
This is ridiculous, at no point did these people address what might be making black women unattractive in the FIRST place. Foh
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I don't think sisters care as much as some are making it out to be these days. Everybody has to go through their process and figure things out. Those with solid moral roots will come back closer to the village with maturity and experience. Those who don't, should still be entitled to make their own choices. Honestly, the black community does not need those brothers that happen to be extreme with bashing or supporting the disrespect of black women. They are a liability to the cause for liberation and independence from this racists society in which we come from
It is really weird that no other race is seen or heard talking about how they just “Love” dating outside of their race to date us. Do you think that this is by coincidence that all you see on television when it comes to Black couples are interracial couples or Same Sex couples and sometimes it is still a interracial Same Sex couple (No I am not homophobic at all). It is very rare that you see a positive Black male and female couple. It has been embedded in the Black race since slavery that we are better apart than together. It has been taught and embedded in us as a people that we should love and embrace our tormentor and oppressor. As you can see by this video and all the comments it has worked very well. They tore up the structure of the Black family during slavery, it continued with the removal of the black father in the home during Jim Crow and that seed has continued to grow, flower and spread. The thing they fear most is the rising and unity of the Black race. The way to immobilize and stunt that growth and unity is to destabilize the family structure. No Black Love between Black men and women means no Black family. No Black family means no Black Unity. This thing about we need to move on and embrace others outside our race and “love is love,” is all great, but maybe we should start with trying to love and embrace each other first, because WE are the only ones talking that right now. We have been the only ones talking that.
Paulie Mobley couldn’t agree more 👏🏾
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Chocolate women over everything everyday
@lol xD are you stating that white women are better than your mother? You are lacking intelligence and you sound pathetic.
I can guarntee you if the world only had ''chocolate women'' you would become very bored very quickly
LILO Roland not true bruh Every chocolate woman is not the same
Lol dx your choice ! Not mines ! There’s nothing more beautiful than a brown skin Women of the Americas I’m talking from Alaska on down East to west North to South .
🔥🔥As an African American male (A stolen African in America)
❤I LOVE Black women!! ❤
I never left!!
✊🏾❤✊🏾 United we stand!!
🥊🥊 Divided we fall!!
🔥🏚🔥 A house divided against itself cannot stand and neither can a community or a people!!
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#StrongerTogether
Shut the fuck up you ignorant. Your black ancestors sold your ancestors to slavery. You ain’t never experienced what its like to be slave so don’t talk about it like you know something. You Black supremacist fool.
"Michael B Jordans fan base has been built on the back of blacm womens" bra what does that even mean? His fan base did not begin with black women. They didn't care about dude until he was in Creed. This is how entitled black women are
True! Plus why does it even matter? Just because it was "built on their backs" he's obligated to date only black women? Let him date whoever the fuck he wants. Man I didn't know black men are slaves to black women now
It's not an issue when black women date out of their race, but when a black man....all hell breaks loose!!!
Rasin Huoy it’s an issue for both sexes. Stop trying to deflect 🙄
@@pinkbutterflies994 all in all. This shouldn't even be a topic, but I do hear more of black women speaking about this topic more than black men do.
Rasin Huoy yeah i honestly wish the conversation would die. Black women talk about it more for a number of reasons imo there seems to be a one sided “race loyalty” with black women. BM date whoever they want while a majority of BW don’t. When we do though, it’s all “you’re a traitor to your race” “bedwench” “slave complex” etc. That’s not to say that BM dont also get bashed for it but from what i’ve seen BW have come to terms with it and only have a problem with it when the said BM feels the inherent need to talk down on black women and blame their preferences on how terrible and manly BW are.
Rasin Huoy while at the same time BW are scared to date out. They question whether other races of men find them attractive and the “other men” wonder the same thing
I literally read a comment by a BM a couple minutes ago saying BW are unattractive and manly so no other race of men will “put up” with them except “us”. That sounds very much like an abuser, no? “Nobody else will love you so stay here and take the abuse i give you”
@@pinkbutterflies994 I refuse to believe that all black women are the same and this may only apply to the ghetto black women, because these black women do act like men and are roudy (not sure I spelled that right).
Who cares, I feel that they like it when we ask them why they date outside of their race. They feel more confident. I don't even pay them any attention, lbvs!
It’s actually extremely annoying
Isn't MadameNoire a platform for black women? Why is Madame Noire giving these men a platform??
fabssin it’s confirmation bias. If they were really serious about dialogue they would bring black men who date interracially but you know, polarity brings ratings...
I'm just Happy Black Men are Divesting and Leveling up with White Women and Other Races of Women 👸🏼 🤴🏾 ❤
Black women are just a bad choice when it comes to marriage… Any-other race of women would be better..
As a hispanic man i don't care if i see a hispanic woman with another race or hispanic man with another race, who fkn cares, love is love, color doesn't mean a god dam thing !
As a latino man as well I agree, this is mostly an issue in the west or in the USA most specifically pretty much, in Puerto Rico nobody cares, everyone just date who they want. And it's the same in others latino places from what I've heard
Just because you thirst after a man doesn't mean you deserve him. Ya'll are the first to call men entitled.
We are clearly determined to help keep racism alive and well.
Its pretty sad huh? God wanted everyone to come together as one race....HUMAN RACE.
@@bahamasbroyt god isn’t real also human is a species, not a race.
I don't care who Black men date. The only thing I hate was when I work customer service and majority of the time when it's a white woman with a Black man, the woman always had this tension against me, as if I was her enemy. It's like lady I don't even know you... I have nothing against you... I am not your enemy. I don't want your man. Just doing my job calm down. If it wasn't work related I wouldn't even be in your presence. I use to think it's just in my head... till it was happening constantly and it was different couples too. But it would always be a Black man with a white woman that I would always get that from. Till one of my Black female coworker made a comment saying she experience the same thing... I'm like oh okay then it's not me then. And I never understand why they act that way. I use to think it's because maybe the Black man say bad things about Black women, so when she see them she have a superiority complex toward us. And the way the Black men be acting the same way too.. it's weird how they all act similarly... they either have to act mean or act like he don't see us...or don't be too nice, so she don't get mad. Or if The Black man is nice to us... she will get mad. That was my experience working in customer service. It was always Black men and white woman I got that from no-one else. Not Black men and Asian women, not Black men with Hispanic. It was always Black man and white women. Have any of you ladies experience that?
I hate to break this to you. But whenever I hear a black woman spout out the words "I don't care who a black man dates." I honestly think that's a complete lie. In fact BW care the most.
@@sid2daknee Nope I don't. Why would I? I don't even date them.
This is true . I dont care who black men date either. When they are with white women though , most of them act like that - both of them act weird and crazy and their biracial sons come at us crazy to. It's just an observation and it's obvious and so Annoying. They're not as crazy when they date Asian and Hispanic women.
This shit is so played out 🙄🙄 I DON'T CARE WHO YOU DATE! just don't justify your dating preferences on what YOU FEEL are the shortcomings of black women. Love comes in all colors
Black men don't owe black women nothing and black women don't owe black men nothing either. We all as black people know what we need to do to make the black community improve, but, with most blacks it will always go on deaf ears. Black men and women shouldn't limit their dating pool. If you find happiness with someone of another race, then I am happy for you. No one has got time to deal with the dysfunction and stupidity of the black community. Interracial relationships have problems as well but if you find love in another race, then be happy. Your happiness is all that matters.
Black women's (all women actually) problem is they worship men based on status instead of character. MBJ could be a complete asshole or have questionable character. But most women would still rate him higher than other men because he's rich and famous. That's a difference between men and women. We don't really worship celebrity women the way women worship celebrity men. We don't think they're automatically better than a girl right in our neighborhood.