The boyfriend faking his medical condition was just to punish the girlfriend for quitting the game against his wish. He felt like she somehow also rejecting him. It was very manipulative and a big red flag. I have a narcissist sister, so it was like reading my own journal at this point😅
Story 3: islam as a religion doesn't say to wear headscarf if you're non Muslim and you're marrying a muslim. If you're okay with it, wear it,no one can force you it's your choice untill you convert into Muslim. Plus it depends on place whether you want big engagement or small. You can just marry with your relatives and his relatives (4 people are must not less than that 😅). Andddd how boyfriend is saying to wear a scarf when he is having a girlfriend.. relationships are not allowed in islam, it's either you love and marry, or don't fall under these things 😂
Also, don't forget Muslim is not a religion based off of your color of your skin. Muslim is based off of being for every man no matter your skin tone. 😊 It's a religion about unity, not diversity. Mind you there's so many people out there who are extremist so that gets lost.
"If you love him, you should abide by his rules, and wear a headscarf." Counterpoint to the idiot of a commentor: If he loves her, he should abide by her feelings, and not force her to wear a headscarf.
the last one felt like the comments were so much quicker than usual to psychoanalyze this guy and try to make him out to be the bad guy and it rubs me the wrong way. yes, he should have been a bit more open. but he was upfront about being bi. no, maybe he wasn't ready for another relationship. people make this mistake a lot though. no, he was no being hostile or going into the discussion in "bad faith" for being a bit wary about her not taking bisexuality seriously. whether she's a bigot or not is a moot point -- someone who doesn't take bisexuality seriously or reacts like their partner has been "lying" about it when they were upfront at the start is just not going to be compatible with him. both made mistakes, sure, but those replies felt more harsh and invasive than usual to me. maybe i'm reading into it too much though.
I felt the exact same way like they were actively searching for reasons for him to be the villain here whe he had already owned up to his part in the problem. But the girlfriend was clearly biphobic by taking his bisexuality as trivial and not serious in the first place
22:19 - What the heck, that’s the craziest point I have ever heard and I find it funny that you don’t see such a statement around other religions or non-religious sensibilities: “if you love your boyfriend, you should stop believing in god” or “if you love your boyfriend, you should convert to Judaism”. Why would anyone tell someone “if you love them, you should do x”. That’s backwards thinking. And I highly doubt the commenter would have even taken their own advice if they were in OP’s shoes. I have paused the video so I don’t know the outcome as of yet, but I have seen this sort of behavior before in others, no matter the situation including religion. They act fine that their significant other doesn’t share the same opinions or beliefs that they do, but when the time comes for marriage discussions, they will pull out some wacked out opinion or belief and try to force their significant other to do as they wish. The family sometimes are in on the deception as well. I don’t understand the psychology behind such behavior but it happens and it always strikes me as weird. As an example, someone who pretends to be fine with their significant other’s stance on children and either when they are discussing the possibility of marriage or sometimes even after they have been married, they will suddenly not be fine with it. It’s strange. If you don’t believe the same thing as the person you are dating, *don’t lie and act like you do!* Simply find someone who shares your values. Stop wasting everyone’s time and energy with your nonsense.
As a Queer man, no he is not the asshole. A lot of people don't take bisexuality seriously and that is her fault for not truly validating his orientation. I agree that it feels like she is trying to make him rationalize his sexuality to her. It shouldn't be a big deal at all that he's bisexual.
I see this a lot, but I don't get how married people blow their top when their partner checks their phone. Like, sure, privacy and all, but aren't you supposed to be honest towards you r partner? I've never checked my partners' phones, mostly because I didn't want to, but the free access was there for both parties. I don't see why one would get that angry if they aren't hiding something in the first place, if you are being honest and upfront, why are you so mad your partner accessed your phone? (access they should have at all times, as I see it)
Because for example, if my bestie tells me a secret that only I'm supposed to know, and my partner reads it without my permission, that's violating not only my privacy, but hers too.
Story 1: Sounds like a healthy open relationship so I’ll call that a win for the open relationship crowd, actually open relationships that is. Story 3: I agree with the commenter that said the bf wanted a double whammy. He likes the look of western girls but wants Muslim values and he knows that’s not likely to work so he lies. Story 6: OP shouldn’t blame himself. Grace was able minded enough to LEAVE the cult once, and for whatever reason she went back with open arms. Put her in the trash, as much as it hurts OP needs to focus on himself and Maya’s well being. Story 13: I swear people just pick a side and refuse to budge in the comments even before the story is “finished” it’s not hard to find a post and its updates if you follow it and actually get the context.
1st Story: It's okay if you don't agree with non-monogamous relationship dinamics, but you shouldn't be an AH about it. Those of us who have happy and functional relationships outside the norm get enough judgement. Your comments about them make me angry and sad. It's fine if you don't understand, but please just leave it at that.
I agree. I was in non monogamous relationships for a few years and it's really frustrating to read people criticising it, or saying that kind of relationship are doomed from the beginning. It's not for everyone, that's all
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The man in the thumbnail scares me, feels like he's scraping the innerds of my soul 🌒👄🌘
BAHAHAHAHAH
Story 10: I always love hearing this story. Short, full of love and super wholesome.
Absolutely
The boyfriend faking his medical condition was just to punish the girlfriend for quitting the game against his wish. He felt like she somehow also rejecting him. It was very manipulative and a big red flag. I have a narcissist sister, so it was like reading my own journal at this point😅
I would like to know what the OP's medical conditions are. Sound pretty similar to mine
What the blue man is in the thumbnail?
my dad
@@ReallySparked well then your dad is a very lovely shade of blue 👍🏾
@@ReallySparked Why is your dad so intensely staring into my eyes? 🌒👄🌘
😭😭giving that blueberry girl from willy wonka vibes@@SavageReaperRed
@@Kavyawoo1511That woke up a fetish in people!
Story 3: islam as a religion doesn't say to wear headscarf if you're non Muslim and you're marrying a muslim.
If you're okay with it, wear it,no one can force you it's your choice untill you convert into Muslim.
Plus it depends on place whether you want big engagement or small. You can just marry with your relatives and his relatives (4 people are must not less than that 😅).
Andddd how boyfriend is saying to wear a scarf when he is having a girlfriend.. relationships are not allowed in islam, it's either you love and marry, or don't fall under these things 😂
IKR? This guy wants a vaguely Islam-flavoured incel dream, not a wife and relationship. No wonder he keeps dating westerners.
Also, don't forget Muslim is not a religion based off of your color of your skin. Muslim is based off of being for every man no matter your skin tone. 😊 It's a religion about unity, not diversity. Mind you there's so many people out there who are extremist so that gets lost.
"If you love him, you should abide by his rules, and wear a headscarf."
Counterpoint to the idiot of a commentor: If he loves her, he should abide by her feelings, and not force her to wear a headscarf.
It’s Ben 2 days bro better not be dead he was my second favorite channel
the last one felt like the comments were so much quicker than usual to psychoanalyze this guy and try to make him out to be the bad guy and it rubs me the wrong way.
yes, he should have been a bit more open. but he was upfront about being bi. no, maybe he wasn't ready for another relationship. people make this mistake a lot though. no, he was no being hostile or going into the discussion in "bad faith" for being a bit wary about her not taking bisexuality seriously.
whether she's a bigot or not is a moot point -- someone who doesn't take bisexuality seriously or reacts like their partner has been "lying" about it when they were upfront at the start is just not going to be compatible with him.
both made mistakes, sure, but those replies felt more harsh and invasive than usual to me. maybe i'm reading into it too much though.
I felt the exact same way like they were actively searching for reasons for him to be the villain here whe he had already owned up to his part in the problem. But the girlfriend was clearly biphobic by taking his bisexuality as trivial and not serious in the first place
Bro story 11 is wild
22:19 - What the heck, that’s the craziest point I have ever heard and I find it funny that you don’t see such a statement around other religions or non-religious sensibilities: “if you love your boyfriend, you should stop believing in god” or “if you love your boyfriend, you should convert to Judaism”. Why would anyone tell someone “if you love them, you should do x”. That’s backwards thinking. And I highly doubt the commenter would have even taken their own advice if they were in OP’s shoes.
I have paused the video so I don’t know the outcome as of yet, but I have seen this sort of behavior before in others, no matter the situation including religion. They act fine that their significant other doesn’t share the same opinions or beliefs that they do, but when the time comes for marriage discussions, they will pull out some wacked out opinion or belief and try to force their significant other to do as they wish. The family sometimes are in on the deception as well. I don’t understand the psychology behind such behavior but it happens and it always strikes me as weird. As an example, someone who pretends to be fine with their significant other’s stance on children and either when they are discussing the possibility of marriage or sometimes even after they have been married, they will suddenly not be fine with it. It’s strange.
If you don’t believe the same thing as the person you are dating, *don’t lie and act like you do!* Simply find someone who shares your values. Stop wasting everyone’s time and energy with your nonsense.
Many Jews want you to convert to get married, at least in my country and region (Alsace).
story 6 cheating so secret that the cheater didnt even know about it
Story 5. That guy has an open warrant.
As a Queer man, no he is not the asshole. A lot of people don't take bisexuality seriously and that is her fault for not truly validating his orientation. I agree that it feels like she is trying to make him rationalize his sexuality to her. It shouldn't be a big deal at all that he's bisexual.
Story 2: Wow, OP sounds just like me. My autism is like that as well, she's describing it so well 💔
There should be an outro
1:14:07 the way you said restaurant has made me very angry for some reason
This guy's on hacker news? i wonder if he knows my dad
I see this a lot, but I don't get how married people blow their top when their partner checks their phone. Like, sure, privacy and all, but aren't you supposed to be honest towards you r partner? I've never checked my partners' phones, mostly because I didn't want to, but the free access was there for both parties. I don't see why one would get that angry if they aren't hiding something in the first place, if you are being honest and upfront, why are you so mad your partner accessed your phone? (access they should have at all times, as I see it)
Because for example, if my bestie tells me a secret that only I'm supposed to know, and my partner reads it without my permission, that's violating not only my privacy, but hers too.
Why does the green angular guy have no outro in his videos, while the other narrators do?
Real life Shadowheart? Oh my 😛😛
Story 1: Sounds like a healthy open relationship so I’ll call that a win for the open relationship crowd, actually open relationships that is.
Story 3: I agree with the commenter that said the bf wanted a double whammy. He likes the look of western girls but wants Muslim values and he knows that’s not likely to work so he lies.
Story 6: OP shouldn’t blame himself. Grace was able minded enough to LEAVE the cult once, and for whatever reason she went back with open arms. Put her in the trash, as much as it hurts OP needs to focus on himself and Maya’s well being.
Story 13: I swear people just pick a side and refuse to budge in the comments even before the story is “finished” it’s not hard to find a post and its updates if you follow it and actually get the context.
fuck me, that was 2 hours, didnt even notice til it ended lol
Great video!
Are you the voice of the wizardshot tutorial video?
why is he vlue
1st Story: It's okay if you don't agree with non-monogamous relationship dinamics, but you shouldn't be an AH about it. Those of us who have happy and functional relationships outside the norm get enough judgement. Your comments about them make me angry and sad. It's fine if you don't understand, but please just leave it at that.
I agree. I was in non monogamous relationships for a few years and it's really frustrating to read people criticising it, or saying that kind of relationship are doomed from the beginning. It's not for everyone, that's all
love the vid
HELP IM SO EARLY