10:42 where Tana said “I expect everyone to hurt me and I feel like I was finally at a place where I believed he wouldn’t” ... that hit me hard. This is what made me cry. You are loved and this is not your fault.
Don't have your happiness depend upon another person at all! Be your ones closest person, the love of your life.. a relationship can give you a lot of positive experiences, but it should be a nice extra - never a mean to complete you - fill emotional voids ect. That is what creates toxicity..
Tana, and anyone whose been cheated on/mistreated by a relationship partner: Don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Their behavior isn’t a reflection of you...it’s a reflection of their character. Period. PERIOD!
Chloe Grace yeah definitely! Saying it’s not a choice kinda makes it seem like an excuse. It is both I would say. A choice people make and it a mistake. So sad.
I get what you mean but it’s sort of like... a mistake within a choice, if that even makes sense... cuz when people make those sort of choices, most don’t even know what they’re doing because they’re in a really dark place. So in a way yes it’s a choice cuz one could cope a different way but like... in a way you’re not fully thinking clear...
you lived without brad for over 20 years. and you will continue life. because you were okay before knowing him, and you will be okay after knowing him.
yeah that hit me hard too... My ex also cheated on me and I felt the same. You wanted it to work, you still wanted it to work but you couldn't imagine it working after something like that happening to you.
my thoughts during this video: 1) hair and skincare goals 2) this is actually a really mature reaction to the shitty situation 3) this sucks so much and you deserve better
sugarydelight right?!? I was amazed. I had to leave her a long comment with some advice because i was so impressed. She finally sees the huge impact she has on young girls and wants to set a good example for them.
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
I was actually surprised by this because he seemed so obsessed with you.... but now looking back it seems more like he was excited to be with someone semi-famous and get clout from being with you. This sucks and you didn't deserve this.
I knew from the beginning that he will make some shit and feel it I didn't like him and I was right to think that, that's sad to think that every person that Tana dated weren't worth it (apart Bella they were so perfect together i was so sad for their break up they were the perfect couple 😭😭)
Daniel ASMR actually his career was already starting out before he met her cause of the Justin beiber look alike, and the whole prank of eating a burrito backwards but ya it kinda made him a little more popular
Marcus Pimentel true but either way that in my opinion means he got his fame from someone else it started as a justin beiber lookalike or whatever so that came from him being “someone else” he never really done anything that made “him” famous like him not tana or justin beiber so someone else gave him fame either way
Marcus Pimentel people knew him because he looks like someone else. He was just the ”Justin Bieber Look Alike” before Tana, Tana made people acknowledge him as Brad and not some random look alike
Oh my God I did not know she put them on Apple Music I literally have been trying forever to get her music without having to buy the album you are amazing for posting this
@@anaihuitron1202 Mistake : an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong. "OR wrong". Is the main focus here. It is, by definition, a mistake. It being a choice has no bearing on that. Try not to think with a one track mind.
my boyfriend of three years just fessed up to cheating on me throughout the whole relationship. to say i needed this video and the comfort it brought me would be the understatement of the millennium. you’ll get through this, tana. i’ll get through this. i am right there with you and going through the same emotions as you. i love you, sis. now, lets rise. sending you positivity and prayers and love.
i find it so heart warming that even after tana was cheated on, her main concern of this video was to be a good example to her fans. tana is so so so so strong and the last person this sort of thing should happen to.
When she said “i still love him...” “i still want it to work” and he voice cracked... oh honey i felt that.... everyone understands to some degree and im so sorry you’re going through that. We love you tana ❤️
Tana has shown over and over how thoughtful and introspective she is. Her intrapersonal smarts are off the charts. This hurts, do your best to keep your head up Tana.
guys who start saying they’re going to marry u two weeks in are not to be trusted 🤦🏼♀️ edit: wow this actually blew up and the queen herself liked it 😭 thx yall
Marisa Kristina it’s not your relationship, this is very surface level understanding of cheating. Sometimes it’s not that easy and people deserve a second chance.
Tana I just got cheated on for the first time and instantly came here I need to bounce back and boss up like you did I’m so hurt it’s so painful but I know I will get better and do better
It DOES get better, it’s been about a month or two and I feel completely different from how I did when I posted this comment. It still hurts but it gets easier and you start thinking about it a lot less. It’s one of the worst feelings ever but it will only make you stronger.
All girls get cheated on. Not all get caught. Value yourself and never place stock on what any boy or man thinks of you. Women are the most beautiful and greatest resource in this world. We need you to be strong. To stay strong. Be more selective and play hard to get. Everything hard in life is worth doing, worth having.
Cheating is a choice. If he didn’t want to cheat he wouldn’t have. We must have more self control and respect not only for ourselves but for our relationship, our partner.
"He pretty much wanted all or nothing". That's how narcissists trick you into thinking their intentions are real. It's sad cause I went through the same thing.
when she cried my heart literally broke, been watching her for years back when she was in her room with the photos on the wall. never seen her like this, not even with tanacon. this is something completely new and raw. i really respect her for showing this side.
paintaeing same, she’s grown so much over the years and to try and go 100% back into a monogamous relationship again only to have it end like this breaks my heart for her
I loved brad but I was worried he’d do something like this. She’s been through so much recently, this is the last thing she needs, a twat like him crushing her down completely
the amount of comments of girls going through similar situations right now is so heartbreaking. nobody deserves to get taken advantage of and i hope ALL OF YOU remember that. never let anyone make you forget your worth/beauty because it happens to the best of us unfortunately, i can assure you it’s not about being “good enough” and it does not mean you’re any less. it just means you deserve MORE. ❤️
Susan Mason it’s okay to feel the way you do, but just remember it’s not gonna last forever. heartbreak is temporary pain and the best revenge is to be great on your own. you have so much beauty and strength that whoever did this to you didn’t deserve. everything happens for a reason, this will only make you stronger. sending u so much love ❤️❤️
@Susan Mason I am so deeply sorry and cannot even imagine how you feel. 10 years is a long time but i hope you find strength to heal. May God bless you and provide you with all you need to survive! If your ex cannot even treat a woman as brilliant as yourself properly he certainly does not deserve your dog. I hope and pray you will get your dog back love! You are so strong for opening up about your feelings! Please, please stay strong and i truly am deeply sorry that someone could hurt you like that but trust me they will get what they deserve. God and i know things WILL get better so i know you will find courage to keep moving. I pray your health gets better and your fiancial situation is resolved. You CAN do this! This relationship will NOT ruin you but strengthen you! SO much love beautiful i hope you stay strong and once again May God Truly Bless You beautiful!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Susan Mason You are INCREDIBLY COURAGEOUS for coming this far despite your past. I also suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and understand how it can be a living hell to go through but can't even begin to imagine exactly how you feel❤ God definitely has a plan for you in this world and i know you will stay long enough to see it ❤ I am so terribly sorry for your loss and may your brother's soul rest in peace❤ I hope you keep your strength and continue to heal and live a very peaceful life because i know your journey isn't over yet but perhaps just beginning ❤❤ I am so sorry that people ignore you but you definitely mean something to someone now or in the near future and i certainly know you have positively impacted my life!❤❤ I understand it must hurt and wish i could take your pain away😭❤ If by lost your bestfriend you mean you both are not friends anymore then you should remember the good times you had together and know that this has happened for a reason and i am sure something truly amazing is coming your way❤❤ Don't listen to trolls because at the end of the day that is all they are -trolls. The fact you are getting therapy shows how much of a brilliantly strong person you are and i know you will recover and heal in your own time and peacefully❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you and keep you strong because i certainly know your here on this earth for a reason❤❤❤ Just know you are never alone and are always being cared for even though it might not seem like it❤❤❤ STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This a Bible passage that could possibly help you understand why life is so hard even though this passage may be hard to understand❤❤: John 12:25 - "Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life." GOD AND I LOVE YOU PLEASE STAY STRONG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
tana might not be everyone’s most favorite influencer, but come one, why would anyone do this to her? she genuinely sees like a real sweetheart. i feel so bad for her :(
As much as Tana swears, is loud, outgoing and what not, she still has a very good heart for people who are around her. Unfortunately, nobody is like that with her.
Talisha Bonny that exact phrase from her hit me the hardest because I’ve felt that exact way every time I finally feel like I’m gaining trust in someone to not hurt me they do 💔💔💔💔
Felt the same way . I have such a hard time opening up and when I finally do and try to work on my trust issues it seems like I always get proved right. You can’t trust anyone 😢... that shit hit so close to home .
i was in a relationship for over 2 years n i was madly in love with this guy.. n then one day i find myself going to the ER to get stitches bc he hit me. it’s so crazy how people can switch up on u but u jus gotta keep ur head up and surround yourself with good people.
Tana, the fact that he cheated on you is NOT okay, cheating is a choice, and he made that choice.. you however, WILL be okay, if anyone can get through this, it’s you. I know how hard it is, and it’s okay to be sad.. but you also need to be strong, we love you Tana x
Jake didn’t pick her up, he’s a “charismatic” person who knew what words to say to someone when they are down, she fell for him even tho it was all for clout at first and now she’s hurt again. Why is that kind of behaviour being praised
when you are heartbroken and dont fully give yourself to get over that pain, especially being cheated on, and you just jump into someone else to help you fill that void and distract you, you end up looking past a lot of the shitty things that they do. i think she was still heartbroken and jake was who was there when ahe was at her lowest, so she just refused to see every thing that was really going on :(
Sometimes it’s hard to remember that Tana is 20. She is still a young adult who has already gone through so much. The reaction she is having is so appropriate for her age. Love you always Tana 💗💗
Okay Tana, I won't bash Brad; but I will watch his subscriber count plummet on Social Blade while drinking a piña colada and a raspberry mojito in your honor.
I know this video is old, but one quote I learned from my mom about getting through a breakup or a heartbreak. You didn’t fall in love overnight, and you won’t fall out overnight. Keep your head held high.
I know you want to forgive him, but cheating is NOT a mistake. He went into that knowing wholeheartedly what he was doing. Love you Tana, I hope everything gets better
Tana, the fact that you made this video, and sat on the floor and explained your purely raw emotions and feelings to thousands of people around the world, and turned your breakup into an inspiration is absolutely amazing. You’re so incredibly strong, and you deserve the same love from someone just as amazing as you. We love you. So, fucking much. 💕 So be a fucking bad bitch tana like you have always been and fucking fuck it up sis
I hate that this happened to her, honestly. It breaks my heart to see her like this. She needs all the love she can get and we'll always be here to support her and love her. Even if we're not there physically we're there!
listen boo this ain’t your fault at all. prince william cheated on kate, jay-z cheated on beyoncé. if guys wanna cheat they’re gonna cheat even if the one they’re dating is a diamond like you.
This is such a lesson. She wanted to be open with brad but stayed monogamous bc he wanted it and got hurt. She wanted to be monogamous with jake but accepted the fact that he didnt want to and got hurt again. Communicate with the people around you and dont settle for anyone PERIOD
those tears are real. tana, you've grown so much these past couple of years, and your mistakes have gifted you compassion. you will come out of this stronger and wiser. sending love!
liz Uhm I think Brad was a 10. That’s the problem. Guys like that are rarely relationship material. 5s 6s 7’s are loyal. They don’t want to lose what they have, but 10s know they can find someone equal or better. Fuck a 10, Marry a 6.
If you choose to get back with him every single time you look at him you’ll just think about the text... and the lies.... and everything will start adding up when he talks... just be strong. you’re amazing.
you miss someone who never existed, you created him in your head and tried not to see the real him. we fall in love with ideas not people. stay strong babes x
@@BeccaBaddest i literally wrote it out because I've done the exact same thing and just listened to the song since everyone is saying the same, i will says it sounds very similar. great minds think alike i guess
The fact he hurt you so badly, and you dont want people to hate on him, says alot about your heart. You are a good person Tana, you only deserve the best. ❤❤❤
Same here because once you've been in that situation and you start to feel stupid for judging girls that give their exes one too many chances...but then it happens to you and before you know it you're contemplating his mistakes, making them ok in your head, and on the verge of taking him back. So this should be a lesson ladies, heal yourselves mentally and emotionally before jumping into relationships. Also, anything can happen to anyone so try no to judge someone's situation. But all love to Tana ❤❤
We shouldn’t be sending hate to brad, we should be sending love to tana. Honestly watching tana be so vulnerable is actually in a way inspiring, showing us that it’s okay to express our thoughts and emotions. Tana, we hope you feel better soon, you deserve it. But honestly if you can bounce back from tanacon you can bounce back from anything❤️
I’m so frustrated that he was so dead set on a monogamous relationship and then cheated. Like it could’ve been so easy to define it as an open relationship and avoided all of this. Men, dude. They’re str8 wild. It’ll be okay, bb
Brad literally has the word loyalty tattooed on his arm 🙄 LIKE imagine being a cheater with loyalty tattooed on your body. I love you Tana you deserve so much better than someone who would do that to you. ❤️
Tana, Tana, Tana... When will you ever realise that you deserve the entire universe? You’re so beautiful inside and out, and I wish I could reach through this camera and give you a hug. You’re a strong human being... and it’s okay for strong people to feel weak sometimes. It’s only human and it’s all apart of the process. Just remember, you’re only human. And I hope you find someone who sees every ounce of your beauty, inside and out. You got this, girl. No matter what happens, you’re gonna come out 1000x stronger than before. Much love. ❤️
Dear Tana, I am not particularly a fan of yours, but I'm not a 'hater' either. I've only seen things to make myself aware of your past and your reputation. After watching this video, I just have a few things to say. 1. You are quite obviously a very, very caring person, Tana. Even if your actions don't seem to play out the way you expected, it's evident that you have heartfelt intentions on making those you love happy. I think that an important thing for you do to right now is to put this talent to use on yourself. I know it seems obvious, but I think it's worth considering: what can you do for yourself that no one else can? 2. Breaking up is not a smooth path, especially in cases of disloyalty. This is not an easy journey, Tana. It is almost guaranteed that this will very negatively affect you, but you don't have to make it any harder on yourself. This was not your fault, and at the end of your life, this will not be something that they will put in your obituary: don't make its significance as close to that. 3. Most of all, you are loved, Tana. You have people in your life that care about you, even if they can't express it well. And if you can't find those people around you, don't hesitate to take a dip into your comment section filled to the brim with support. So there you have it, I hope you've enjoyed my comment. Have a wonderful day, night, afternoon, evening, and life.
i come back to this video every single time i go through a breakup since this video was uploaded. this video is the only piece of media i’ve seen that completely and utterly represents the way i feel after every breakup
Girl, you’re not even 21 yet, you’re beautiful, and you’re making bank. You got this.
I Love Nooder facts 💯 Chase the fucking bag tana !
FACTS!
Yes those are facts
Yes 💯
She looks older than me shit I’m 24 this year whattt
10:42 where Tana said “I expect everyone to hurt me and I feel like I was finally at a place where I believed he wouldn’t” ... that hit me hard. This is what made me cry. You are loved and this is not your fault.
me fucking too
Desiree Barrios i literally felt that so hard..
Same
🖤😔
Awwwwwwwww For Both Of You. ☹️😢😥
cheating is a choice, not a mistake. get yourself a king or queen, not a confused boy
R Smith yessssss truuuu
You can make wrong choices and those are considered mistakes but i get what you mean
^^this!!
Yesssssss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Don't have your happiness depend upon another person at all! Be your ones closest person, the love of your life.. a relationship can give you a lot of positive experiences, but it should be a nice extra - never a mean to complete you - fill emotional voids ect. That is what creates toxicity..
Tana, and anyone whose been cheated on/mistreated by a relationship partner:
Don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Their behavior isn’t a reflection of you...it’s a reflection of their character. Period. PERIOD!
WORD!
thank you 💚
PeriodTTT
PREACH👏👏
Lorien Cox Agreed 100%. Understanding that is a huge step in the road to recovery
in my opinion, cheating isn’t a mistake. it’s a choice.
Chloe Grace yeah definitely! Saying it’s not a choice kinda makes it seem like an excuse. It is both I would say. A choice people make and it a mistake. So sad.
oh most definitely a choice. nobody just accidentally or mistakenly flirts with other girls/ hooks up with them or whatever happened.
I get what you mean but it’s sort of like... a mistake within a choice, if that even makes sense... cuz when people make those sort of choices, most don’t even know what they’re doing because they’re in a really dark place. So in a way yes it’s a choice cuz one could cope a different way but like... in a way you’re not fully thinking clear...
Choices can be mistakes
PERIODT
I feel like this should be called “I got cheated on but IM ok” because it’s not ok that you got cheated on. YOU deserve better
YES
PERIOD
Shelly Gates PERIOD! PERIOD!
Hope Morrow PERIOOODDDDDD
Yes.
"I just wanted it to work." Literally broke my heart.... sending you love.
Same I loved themmm😭😭😭😭💕💕💕
Me too. :*(
you don't miss brad. You miss the idea of him. you got this sis. Nothing lasts forever and this feeling definitely won't.
Genesis Guzman this is 👌🏻
♥️
Aaliyah J yes I do !!!💗
U are so right
that’s not true at all, if she spends every minute with someone she’s gonna miss them not just “the idea of them”
you lived without brad for over 20 years. and you will continue life. because you were okay before knowing him, and you will be okay after knowing him.
Five Nine im gonna need you to comfort me through my life dang that was so inspirational
hi i kno this is for tana but imma say a thank u as well cuz this is Good Advice 💘
this helped me a lot . thank you
be my therapist please
But she has knowledge of him now, you can’t just ignore someone you think about most of the time
When Tana started crying and said "I just wanted it to work" that fucking hurt my heart so much
same ugh
ikr i tbh i really loved them together 😭
“i just wanted it to work.” my heart man... I’m crying ..
yeah that hit me hard too... My ex also cheated on me and I felt the same. You wanted it to work, you still wanted it to work but you couldn't imagine it working after something like that happening to you.
sami xx 😭😭
bitch fuck me up, lowkey feel for her. I think I'm legit going to die of heart break because I love her so much I can't bare to see her in pain
“I just wanted it to work”
Awww, Tana. Honey. You deserve so much better.
Tahlia Sandor when did she say that
Juliya Davis 6:29
@@mistayah7537 thanks i couldn't find it again lol
no, she doesn't
@@iphgfqweio shes married now to someone who treats her well so obviously she does 💋
my thoughts during this video:
1) hair and skincare goals
2) this is actually a really mature reaction to the shitty situation
3) this sucks so much and you deserve better
sugarydelight right?!? I was amazed. I had to leave her a long comment with some advice because i was so impressed. She finally sees the huge impact she has on young girls and wants to set a good example for them.
sugarydelight YES!!!
Yes, yes, and yes. 💛
YES!!!
you can’t lie and act like this wasn’t needed, tho. she needed something to humble herself.
“I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where I believed he wouldn’t”
ouch my heart
i read this literally as she said it
Its so triggering that he didnt want an open relationship but cheated
RIGHT?! like wtfff
Sarbear he wanted to be able to cheat, but didnt want to be cheated on - typical hypocrite
BITCH TEAAAAAAA this is hot tea im gettin burned 😭
Sarbear that's the true teaaaa
He didn’t want her with different guys 🙄🙄🙄🙄
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
Who cheated on her
no shit dickhead.
Camila Aguila her ex .
Was I the only one that didn’t know that they hooked up
Genesis H thanks
I was actually surprised by this because he seemed so obsessed with you.... but now looking back it seems more like he was excited to be with someone semi-famous and get clout from being with you. This sucks and you didn't deserve this.
sadie winters exactly. I knew it was gonna spiral down on his end. He was just a little too obsessed too quick.
I knew from the beginning that he will make some shit and feel it I didn't like him and I was right to think that, that's sad to think that every person that Tana dated weren't worth it (apart Bella they were so perfect together i was so sad for their break up they were the perfect couple 😭😭)
“semi-famous” 💀😂
Can someone pls tell me what clout is ? I've been seeing it everywhere no idea what it is :( yesh I am behind
Eighteen Globe like get popularity
Imagine handing someone a career and they do you like that
Daniel ASMR actually his career was already starting out before he met her cause of the Justin beiber look alike, and the whole prank of eating a burrito backwards but ya it kinda made him a little more popular
Marcus Pimentel true but either way that in my opinion means he got his fame from someone else it started as a justin beiber lookalike or whatever so that came from him being “someone else” he never really done anything that made “him” famous like him not tana or justin beiber so someone else gave him fame either way
Marcus Pimentel people knew him because he looks like someone else. He was just the ”Justin Bieber Look Alike” before Tana, Tana made people acknowledge him as Brad and not some random look alike
Daniel ASMR faxxxxxxxxxxxx
Lol hey I love your channel!
Moral of the story : never trust someone who oddly looks like Justin Bieber
I strongly agree mate
He’s also from Canada so ya. Pos. Poor tana
But he kinda looks like Leonardo DiCaprio
Erica Begley what are you on 💀
Allyson Bower hey us canadians are generally nice people lol
Before you go hate on Jana just realize that Jake picked her up when she was down and made her feel worthy
Hell yeah
YES THANK YOU. AMEN
Ikr, Jake fixed her, helped her! Jana is such a good match!
like the trash she is
Yessssssssss
Beyoncé put Lemonade on all streaming platforms because she wasn’t sure if Tana used Apple Music and Spotify and knew she needed it
Oh my God I did not know she put them on Apple Music I literally have been trying forever to get her music without having to buy the album you are amazing for posting this
Phoebe Dowling THANKYOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THIS
Point? She got him back anyway
how would beyonce know???
Gus Elliott dont be stupid
He didn't make a "mistake" he made a CHOICE. multiple times...
That doesnt mean it's not a mistake. If you decide to speed and then crash your car. Yeah it's a choice, but it's also still a mistake.
If he cheated it’s not a choice it’s a MISTAKE… my opinion
@@avineh3864 it can be both. But its never not a choice. So your opinion is wrong. Just my opinion, based in facts. 🤔😊
Vi Jack uhh he did it MULTIPLE times.....?
@@anaihuitron1202 Mistake : an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong.
"OR wrong". Is the main focus here. It is, by definition, a mistake. It being a choice has no bearing
on that. Try not to think with a one track mind.
"I'm not the person who sits on the floor crying about exes,I'm gonna leave that to Trisha" LMAOO
intr0verg *sits and cries on the floor*
I died when she said that 😂😂
Leave it
Haahahahahhaah oh shit
my boyfriend of three years just fessed up to cheating on me throughout the whole relationship. to say i needed this video and the comfort it brought me would be the understatement of the millennium.
you’ll get through this, tana. i’ll get through this. i am right there with you and going through the same emotions as you.
i love you, sis. now, lets rise.
sending you positivity and prayers and love.
I rarely comment on these things but I just wanted to say even though idk you, I love you and you deserve better than that❤
Going through something similar. Looking for someone to talk to. Lmk please
I just got cheated on. Came to this video for help. I am with you girl. Hope things are so much better now for you
Lauren T999 you as well, and its honestly fine. if he cant see me for the great person I am and wont accept me as is then just fuck him tbh
Nikki would love to talk! do you have a snapchat?
i find it so heart warming that even after tana was cheated on, her main concern of this video was to be a good example to her fans. tana is so so so so strong and the last person this sort of thing should happen to.
abby drake i feel like you should take her with a grain of salt. tana fucked another guy quick asl.
@@PvPUnRated I think you should fuck off
this is how many people want you to NOT get back together with Brad
👇🏼
edit: wow thank u so much for 5.1 k
Lol
Wow I was the 1.7K.
I’m 2k
i was the 2k and its only been 10 minutes
john paul she should make her own decisions
When she said “i still love him...” “i still want it to work” and he voice cracked... oh honey i felt that.... everyone understands to some degree and im so sorry you’re going through that. We love you tana ❤️
RebelZany Gaming it actually made me tear up
Full disclosure I totally cried with her. Whether you got out of a relationship two days ago or two years ago you feel that. Everyone feels that
What’s the time stamp I wanna cry
Arya Jade 6:30 😭
Tana has shown over and over how thoughtful and introspective she is. Her intrapersonal smarts are off the charts. This hurts, do your best to keep your head up Tana.
guys who start saying they’re going to marry u two weeks in are not to be trusted 🤦🏼♀️
edit: wow this actually blew up and the queen herself liked it 😭 thx yall
My friend dated a guy like this and he cheated on her lol. He bought her a promise ring two weeks after dating
I legit dated two guys like that (i learned my lesson at the end smh) 0/10 wouldn’t recommend
one time i was with a guy like this and we went to colorado with his friends and they fuxking left me there🤷🏼♀️my husband is nice tho❤️
Cause it’s the guilt talking
can vouch for this 🙋🏻♀️
this has to be straight up the most real representation of what it feels like to be cheated on... stay strong sis
i knew you couldn’t trust a man named BRAD.
Skitz HAHAHA
honestly same sis.
Literally! My sisters ex was called Brad and he cheated on her with 11 people in total and racked up thousands of pounds of debt in her name!! 😤
You LOVED brad ... but then liberty mutual calls
My ex Brad was a cheating narcissistic piece of shit...
Tana wearing Jake Paul merch in this video is EVERYTHING
Lol
Suzy Avalos icon
AND NOW THEY'RE MARRIED TFFFF
Suzy Avalos LMAO
where
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. It takes so much more calculation than that.
Kacie 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Exactly. They have a conversation, they flirt, and they plan out when and where it’s going to happen. Nothing about cheating is a “mistake”
i think she was trying to not bash him
It’s a choice AND a mistake ;-;
Kacie you are correct because they would have planned so you “wouldn’t
Find out”
Never take him back, once he starts disrespecting you he'll never the respect for you.
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DanxGames He means if she'll come back after this he knows he can do whatever tf he wants with no respect or regard to her feelings
Marisa Kristina it’s not your relationship, this is very surface level understanding of cheating. Sometimes it’s not that easy and people deserve a second chance.
@@Jacob_JRW nobody deserves a second chance that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
Cheaters dont deserve a second chance if they couldn't be loyal the first time what makes you think they'll be loyal the second chance. They wont be
“I expect everyone to hurt me and i feel like i was finally at a place where i believed he wouldn’t” I’m crying
Literally the most relatable line ever & exactly how I feel presently
💔💔
Wow it’s a mood tbh
Yesica Orozco sameee
What minute?
Tana I just got cheated on for the first time and instantly came here I need to bounce back and boss up like you did I’m so hurt it’s so painful but I know I will get better and do better
Taylor Dauwer same 💔 it really sucks but what can you do.... hope you are doing better girl❤️
It DOES get better, it’s been about a month or two and I feel completely different from how I did when I posted this comment. It still hurts but it gets easier and you start thinking about it a lot less. It’s one of the worst feelings ever but it will only make you stronger.
U will baby 😘😘😘😘😎
All girls get cheated on. Not all get caught. Value yourself and never place stock on what any boy or man thinks of you. Women are the most beautiful and greatest resource in this world. We need you to be strong. To stay strong. Be more selective and play hard to get. Everything hard in life is worth doing, worth having.
Girl I just got cheated on I’m broken I feel this man I feel it
I won’t bash or attack him. BUT I will unfollow him on every single platform he’s on. He does not deserve the career you gave him.
Sydney W and thats PERIOD
YES.
Stan THIS
Cheating is a choice. If he didn’t want to cheat he wouldn’t have. We must have more self control and respect not only for ourselves but for our relationship, our partner.
Gloria M couldn’t have said it better 🙌🏼🙌🏼
LoveIsaLosingGame PREACH 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
11257
NO ONE ASKED!!!!
he really took the “ruin my life” seriously
Right!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️😤🙄
I-
Chelsea Lynn I’m so dead 💀
ouch :(
Yikes
"He pretty much wanted all or nothing". That's how narcissists trick you into thinking their intentions are real. It's sad cause I went through the same thing.
Divya B yeah your so right
when she cried my heart literally broke, been watching her for years back when she was in her room with the photos on the wall. never seen her like this, not even with tanacon. this is something completely new and raw. i really respect her for showing this side.
paintaeing me tooo
😪
paintaeing same, she’s grown so much over the years and to try and go 100% back into a monogamous relationship again only to have it end like this breaks my heart for her
I loved brad but I was worried he’d do something like this. She’s been through so much recently, this is the last thing she needs, a twat like him crushing her down completely
paintaeing me to
This isthe Real Tana
Shes only human
“i just wanted it to work”
i felt that....... on sO many levels it’s not even funny . i love tana
Rip
The girl with the unexpectedly long name that has nothing to do with her profile pic hit too close to home
kindofkenzie • I felt that on so many levels too oh my god.
yeahhhhh I just lost it
me tooo
the amount of comments of girls going through similar situations right now is so heartbreaking. nobody deserves to get taken advantage of and i hope ALL OF YOU remember that. never let anyone make you forget your worth/beauty because it happens to the best of us unfortunately, i can assure you it’s not about being “good enough” and it does not mean you’re any less. it just means you deserve MORE. ❤️
@Susan Mason No you are worth SO MUCH and whoever broke your heart wasnt worth it in the first place hun xxxxxx stay strong gorgeous xxxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤
Skylar Brittany i needed this 😭❤️
Susan Mason it’s okay to feel the way you do, but just remember it’s not gonna last forever. heartbreak is temporary pain and the best revenge is to be great on your own. you have so much beauty and strength that whoever did this to you didn’t deserve. everything happens for a reason, this will only make you stronger. sending u so much love ❤️❤️
@Susan Mason I am so deeply sorry and cannot even imagine how you feel. 10 years is a long time but i hope you find strength to heal. May God bless you and provide you with all you need to survive! If your ex cannot even treat a woman as brilliant as yourself properly he certainly does not deserve your dog. I hope and pray you will get your dog back love! You are so strong for opening up about your feelings! Please, please stay strong and i truly am deeply sorry that someone could hurt you like that but trust me they will get what they deserve. God and i know things WILL get better so i know you will find courage to keep moving. I pray your health gets better and your fiancial situation is resolved. You CAN do this! This relationship will NOT ruin you but strengthen you! SO much love beautiful i hope you stay strong and once again May God Truly Bless You beautiful!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Susan Mason You are INCREDIBLY COURAGEOUS for coming this far despite your past. I also suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and understand how it can be a living hell to go through but can't even begin to imagine exactly how you feel❤ God definitely has a plan for you in this world and i know you will stay long enough to see it ❤ I am so terribly sorry for your loss and may your brother's soul rest in peace❤ I hope you keep your strength and continue to heal and live a very peaceful life because i know your journey isn't over yet but perhaps just beginning ❤❤ I am so sorry that people ignore you but you definitely mean something to someone now or in the near future and i certainly know you have positively impacted my life!❤❤ I understand it must hurt and wish i could take your pain away😭❤ If by lost your bestfriend you mean you both are not friends anymore then you should remember the good times you had together and know that this has happened for a reason and i am sure something truly amazing is coming your way❤❤ Don't listen to trolls because at the end of the day that is all they are -trolls. The fact you are getting therapy shows how much of a brilliantly strong person you are and i know you will recover and heal in your own time and peacefully❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you and keep you strong because i certainly know your here on this earth for a reason❤❤❤ Just know you are never alone and are always being cared for even though it might not seem like it❤❤❤ STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This a Bible passage that could possibly help you understand why life is so hard even though this passage may be hard to understand❤❤: John 12:25 - "Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life." GOD AND I LOVE YOU PLEASE STAY STRONG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I honestly think this tana is such a good version of her... savage tana is cool but love honest tana always
Mom. Tana Paul. Love. 🚬🚬🍻😥😜😍😘🇺🇸me. KJ TJ
tana might not be everyone’s most favorite influencer, but come one, why would anyone do this to her? she genuinely sees like a real sweetheart. i feel so bad for her :(
wth as. So true...:(
This happens to everyone
As much as Tana swears, is loud, outgoing and what not, she still has a very good heart for people who are around her. Unfortunately, nobody is like that with her.
true I feel like she is such a sweetheart
*"I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where i thought he wouldn't"* 💔💔
Talisha Bonny that exact phrase from her hit me the hardest because I’ve felt that exact way every time I finally feel like I’m gaining trust in someone to not hurt me they do 💔💔💔💔
Felt the same way . I have such a hard time opening up and when I finally do and try to work on my trust issues it seems like I always get proved right. You can’t trust anyone 😢... that shit hit so close to home .
i was in a relationship for over 2 years n i was madly in love with this guy.. n then one day i find myself going to the ER to get stitches bc he hit me. it’s so crazy how people can switch up on u but u jus gotta keep ur head up and surround yourself with good people.
The way you're crying here, makes me realize you were really crying in Shane's tanacon vids.
Her face doesn't move as much now.
EXACTLY. a lot of people think her crying is fake but that’s just how she cries 😂
@@camicat111 Its just cause of botox 😂
Been knew
Lauren Grace i was just watching those fr
YALL look at his IG stories.. while tana is hurting this guy is literally partying. BRAD IS REALLY CANCELLED PERIODTT
Whats his instgram
daniela diaz bradsousaa
Khadijaa Omar he is a whole ass clout chaser
@@khadijaaomar5381 thx
little princess I’m a good person :( but Canadian men are cheaters well the ones I’ve dated
Tana, the fact that he cheated on you is NOT okay, cheating is a choice, and he made that choice.. you however, WILL be okay, if anyone can get through this, it’s you. I know how hard it is, and it’s okay to be sad.. but you also need to be strong, we love you Tana x
Jake didn’t pick her up, he’s a “charismatic” person who knew what words to say to someone when they are down, she fell for him even tho it was all for clout at first and now she’s hurt again. Why is that kind of behaviour being praised
Carmen Shen exactly
Carmen Shen right !
when you are heartbroken and dont fully give yourself to get over that pain, especially being cheated on, and you just jump into someone else to help you fill that void and distract you, you end up looking past a lot of the shitty things that they do. i think she was still heartbroken and jake was who was there when ahe was at her lowest, so she just refused to see every thing that was really going on :(
Ikr
vote here to cut Brad out of future content. you gave him enough clout he doesn't need anymore promo !!!
ElleOhElle YES 💀 also how does this have 1.6k likes but no replies?
Yes but that would be extra work on her .
Shars I still don’t get how this only has like two comments wit thousand likes like wouldn’t someone say sum?
Shars she has people
Dorothy Gale oh,,I thought she did all the editing herself.
Sometimes it’s hard to remember that Tana is 20. She is still a young adult who has already gone through so much. The reaction she is having is so appropriate for her age. Love you always Tana 💗💗
My stomach sunk and my heart broke. Whoever has been cheated on felt this.
I have been cheated on before
Where she says "I just lay in bed..alone, and I just wanna go back" 😪
"I'm gonna go be really sad now and thats ok! That's what life is! Feeling emotion." Greatest thing ever said
“Im not a photo and a bunch of words I’m a person”
That hurts and reminded me of what being famous really is
Okay Tana, I won't bash Brad; but I will watch his subscriber count plummet on Social Blade while drinking a piña colada and a raspberry mojito in your honor.
The shade of it all
Fucking same😂
Alexandra Levinsky MOOD
Thissss
Hahaha 😎🥰
It’s not okay that you got cheated on. You got cheated on and YOU will be okay, but cheating is NOT and never will be okay.
Period
I know this video is old, but one quote I learned from my mom about getting through a breakup or a heartbreak.
You didn’t fall in love overnight, and you won’t fall out overnight. Keep your head held high.
Its alright Tana. Aside from being "tana's boyfriend" and a walmart jb, he's nothing.
shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
He ain’t shittttt
he’s walmart jb bc that’s where his trashy ass is gonna be working after this
Who was she dating?? Last people I knew was Bella Thorne and I think mid sun??
@@streetyouth3689 " brad soussa" Justin bieber' s look alike
I know you want to forgive him, but cheating is NOT a mistake. He went into that knowing wholeheartedly what he was doing.
Love you Tana, I hope everything gets better
It’s just tana and her ringworm now. Couple goals
Kaylie 24 ...bro 😂💀
If only we could all have ringworm in our life 💀
Didnt have to do her like that 😂💀💀
Kaylie 24 I genuinely hope she sees this and laughs
Oh my god😂
Ik this videos is supposed to be sad
But she looks so gorgeous talking in the beginning
ewwww
Her hair looked gr9
drop the name of the lash glue bc it’s more
loyal to you in this vid than walmart justin bieber ever was
This comment is the best thing I’ve ever read lol 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
😂fuuuk😂💀😂💀😂
Kayla Jones I’m dead 😂😂
Walmart 👏 Justin 👏 Bieber 👏
Tana, the fact that you made this video, and sat on the floor and explained your purely raw emotions and feelings to thousands of people around the world, and turned your breakup into an inspiration is absolutely amazing. You’re so incredibly strong, and you deserve the same love from someone just as amazing as you. We love you. So, fucking much. 💕 So be a fucking bad bitch tana like you have always been and fucking fuck it up sis
Tae stans agree
couldnt have explained it better
I hate that this happened to her, honestly. It breaks my heart to see her like this. She needs all the love she can get and we'll always be here to support her and love her. Even if we're not there physically we're there!
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@alana1929 hahaha
listen boo this ain’t your fault at all. prince william cheated on kate, jay-z cheated on beyoncé. if guys wanna cheat they’re gonna cheat even if the one they’re dating is a diamond like you.
chocolate waffles prince William cheated on Kate when
Tiffany Zezatti exactly, there’s legit no proof of it happening, just a pointless rumour 🙄
Preach!!
Prince William never cheated on Kate
amen
This is such a lesson. She wanted to be open with brad but stayed monogamous bc he wanted it and got hurt. She wanted to be monogamous with jake but accepted the fact that he didnt want to and got hurt again. Communicate with the people around you and dont settle for anyone PERIOD
someone needs to balance these cheating men, they're all 2's dating 10's.
Genesis Calleja SAY THIS LOUDER FOR THE HOES IN THE BACKKKK
@@alexiamenjivar4785 THIS
Genesis Calleja buddy is literally known for looking identical to Justin bieber I’m sure he’s higher then a 2
@@cadd9199 its a joke.
Cadd his mental capacity is a 2.
those tears are real. tana, you've grown so much these past couple of years, and your mistakes have gifted you compassion. you will come out of this stronger and wiser.
sending love!
tragic when 3s think they can cheat on 10s
liz Uhm I think Brad was a 10. That’s the problem. Guys like that are rarely relationship material. 5s 6s 7’s are loyal. They don’t want to lose what they have, but 10s know they can find someone equal or better. Fuck a 10, Marry a 6.
liz he was pretty hot just saying ☕️
Nah he was mad ugly.
@@BB-ty6iy I got cheated on by a 4.
i do lyric videos. then there’s the other type! who thinks he’s a 11 but in reality they’re a 0
If you choose to get back with him every single time you look at him you’ll just think about the text... and the lies.... and everything will start adding up when he talks... just be strong. you’re amazing.
“I feel like Trisha Paytas”
HAHAHAHA ME WHEN I HAVE A BREAKDOWN
Sammeeee
Meeew
you miss someone who never existed, you created him in your head and tried not to see the real him. we fall in love with ideas not people. stay strong babes x
Shebz OMG so true. We r blinded by our own imaginations most of the times, SO TRUE.
This comment made think about Ariana Grande’s song ‘in my head’
Amber van der Garde me too!!
Shebz for a second I thought you were quoting the intro to In My Head by Ariana Grande lol
@@BeccaBaddest i literally wrote it out because I've done the exact same thing and just listened to the song since everyone is saying the same, i will says it sounds very similar. great minds think alike i guess
“Crying on floors im gonna leave that to Trisha”
Ellis has
My boyfriend dumped me yesterday and this video honestly helped me so much. Thank you tana!
I'm sorry there is somebody out there for you. You deserve the best 💖
The fact he hurt you so badly, and you dont want people to hate on him, says alot about your heart. You are a good person Tana, you only deserve the best. ❤❤❤
tana, don’t worry about the “bounce back”. the tana we “know and love” includes this side, too.
Zach and Abby Vlogs love this comment so much.
This is so sweet and so accurate
i love this ur exactly right
Zach and Abby Vlogs respect this comment for real
agreed
It hit me and hurted when she said "I just wanted it to work" and she started crying🤧
Same here because once you've been in that situation and you start to feel stupid for judging girls that give their exes one too many chances...but then it happens to you and before you know it you're contemplating his mistakes, making them ok in your head, and on the verge of taking him back. So this should be a lesson ladies, heal yourselves mentally and emotionally before jumping into relationships. Also, anything can happen to anyone so try no to judge someone's situation. But all love to Tana ❤❤
Right, just looking at her while she said it broke my heart 😔
ANDD NOW SHE IS ENGAGED WITH JAKE. Girl I love you
ANDD NOW SHE IS MARRIED TO JAKE
@@srikruthigannavarapu4977 she's not really married but ok...
AND NOW THEYRE DIVORCED AND JAKE BASICALLY CHEATED ON HER W HIS EX
We shouldn’t be sending hate to brad, we should be sending love to tana. Honestly watching tana be so vulnerable is actually in a way inspiring, showing us that it’s okay to express our thoughts and emotions. Tana, we hope you feel better soon, you deserve it. But honestly if you can bounce back from tanacon you can bounce back from anything❤️
James Patrick I’m sorry I was like 70th like but I love that you’re sending love to Tana
We should send hate to brad AND send love to tana
usagiprincess Hate doesn’t help anyone it just brings damage to yourself and the person you’re hating on. Spread love
Bounce back you skinny legend.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 a FUCKIng men
Girl you’re allowed to be sad after a break up. Don’t feel pressure to bounce back a minute later. We love you.
"it just feels so empty " ... damn i felt that
I’m so frustrated that he was so dead set on a monogamous relationship and then cheated. Like it could’ve been so easy to define it as an open relationship and avoided all of this. Men, dude. They’re str8 wild. It’ll be okay, bb
Haley Popish boys* Men don’t do this bs
Haley Popish 100% agree
That's hard Facts
Haley Popish if I’m honest, the guys that push monogamy soo hard like he did generally cheat or have already cheated
trinflynn true
Brad literally has the word loyalty tattooed on his arm 🙄 LIKE imagine being a cheater with loyalty tattooed on your body. I love you Tana you deserve so much better than someone who would do that to you. ❤️
I bet that's just him projecting
Brad honestly ain’t shit
Tana should start dating the nurse from the 24 hour hospital 💀
Gabe🤩😍😈💖💦🤪❤🍃🤷🏽♀️
lazy bih YES OMG HE IS WAY BETTER LOOKING ANYWAY LMAO
nurse gabe can heal her
lazy bih agreed
lazy bih nah gabe is mine
I cried watching how genuinely hurt you are. Your words are spot on and you have the biggest heart. Hang in there honey
When some one convinces you that they want a monogamous relationship and then they cheat on you. 🧐
Throw the whole person away
the only ring he deserves is your ring worm gf
I-
Camryn Soucy PERIOD
Camryn Soucy lmaoo yes
I cantttt 🤣🤣 💀
I-
okay but can we just appreciate how beautiful she looks in the beginning
a was about to type this!
fr
Yea she is cute
*in the whole video
YESSSSS
Sooo who's watching this again after watching her wedding video and Jake's *possible* cheating aligations....
i just watched her wedding video lol
Me😂
Charlotte Holliday do you see the jake Paul March?
he didn't cheat jesus christ
Aren’t him and Tana in an open relationship?
"she lost him, but she found herself and somehow that was everything"
stay strong bb, we love you
Malwina that saying is so painfully sad but freeing at the same time. 😭
tana, as a canadian i just wanna let u know that canada doesn't claim him
lick my ligma amen 🙏. Im Canadian too btw
Well the us don’t claim him neither and the uk don’t want his ass were he gonna go lost so much respect for that ass hole tana is lovely 💕
i disown him
LMFAOOOO
amen
can we talk about how absolutely gorgeous tana looks in the first clip
she legit looks soo good
Caroline Moeller omg frrr
Agree 100%
was deadass going to comment this
Caroline Moeller and all of them
You should edit the title: I got cheated on, but I’m okay
Because cheating is a choice, it’s never okay
👏i👏agree👏100👏percent👏
I know this is old but the title the title isn't saying that cheating is ok. She was saying that SHE is ok
don’t be embarrassed baby... trust me, you’re not the one who should be embarrassed ✨💕
Jada Jones !!! I understand where she is coming from, but honestly she literally shouldn’t be embarrassed, feel so much pain for her ❤️
AMENNNNN!
Tana, Tana, Tana...
When will you ever realise that you deserve the entire universe? You’re so beautiful inside and out, and I wish I could reach through this camera and give you a hug. You’re a strong human being... and it’s okay for strong people to feel weak sometimes. It’s only human and it’s all apart of the process. Just remember, you’re only human. And I hope you find someone who sees every ounce of your beauty, inside and out. You got this, girl. No matter what happens, you’re gonna come out 1000x stronger than before. Much love. ❤️
agree
Dear Tana,
I am not particularly a fan of yours, but I'm not a 'hater' either. I've only seen things to make myself aware of your past and your reputation. After watching this video, I just have a few things to say.
1. You are quite obviously a very, very caring person, Tana. Even if your actions don't seem to play out the way you expected, it's evident that you have heartfelt intentions on making those you love happy. I think that an important thing for you do to right now is to put this talent to use on yourself. I know it seems obvious, but I think it's worth considering: what can you do for yourself that no one else can?
2. Breaking up is not a smooth path, especially in cases of disloyalty. This is not an easy journey, Tana. It is almost guaranteed that this will very negatively affect you, but you don't have to make it any harder on yourself. This was not your fault, and at the end of your life, this will not be something that they will put in your obituary: don't make its significance as close to that.
3. Most of all, you are loved, Tana. You have people in your life that care about you, even if they can't express it well. And if you can't find those people around you, don't hesitate to take a dip into your comment section filled to the brim with support.
So there you have it, I hope you've enjoyed my comment. Have a wonderful day, night, afternoon, evening, and life.
Very well said.
Malia Florey I hope she sees this, this is beautiful
Malia Florey Very well said.
someone had a lot of time on their hands
@@xo0Hannah0ox yep.
i come back to this video every single time i go through a breakup since this video was uploaded. this video is the only piece of media i’ve seen that completely and utterly represents the way i feel after every breakup