As you should though as relationships in general should be and feel open. If you don’t feel like you can freely share anything with your SO girlie it ain’t right.
As a woman who wants to be a mom one day, thank you for sharing your journey and information with us. It’s very important that women have the information they need BEFORE they get pregnant so they can be educated about what happens AFTER the baby is born
A maioria não consegue e não quer entender como ela se posiciona perante essas situações,e pode ser pelo jeito dela que não sabia que estava sendo gravada, é só notar sua naturalidade, só penso que a pessoa que gravou devia respeitar a privacidade dela.
@@leiladominguez5910??? first of all relationships in general should be and feel open. If you don’t feel like you can freely share anything with your SO girlie it ain’t right. second of all you KNOW he wouldn’t be recording if she ain’t tell him to. he was most likely forced 😂 sooo yeah privacy isn’t an issue, if anything all “inappropriate” things are censored anyway, thought don’t see why it should be considered such as it’s a normal thing that woman every day go through and relate with. We should normalize this not find disgust in HUMAN, bodily functions ❤
everyone is being SO RUDE. I think this video is important for anyone to learn about all possibilities with pregnancy. This helps people who have been though the same thing to feel seen, and it’s educating the rest of us. Calm down
When you asked your husband if that was normal I thought girl, how is he going to know. And husband comes out with the knowledge! I forgot how much of gem he was for a second
😂 My husband did more research than I did when we had our first. And I did so much research. He's always been a walking encyclopedia, though. Dude has all the answers. The amount of useful information stored in his brain is rivaled only by the absurd amount of not-useful information. For example: I once randomly asked him how long the gestational period was for orca, AND HE ACTUALLY KNEW THE ANSWER. I wasn't even expecting him to respond, I was just thinking out loud.
ALL YOU HUSBANDS OR BOYFRIENDS OUT THERE, TREAT YOUR LADY WITH SO MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT AFTER BIRTH. WE GO THROUGH UNIMAGINABLE PAIN. EPIDURAL OR NOT...ITS AMAZING WHAT WE COULD DO WITH OUR BODIES..
I bleed for 8 weeks heavily. I went back again after my check up cleared me. Saw a different doctor and discovered a piece of the placenta was still attached and had to go in for immediate surgery. If it's heavy call until they do something because it could kill you. I didn't know that at the time. Stay safe.
Ohhh my god.. After delivery, my placenta was stuck up in my belly. It takes 4 people to take it out. They were trying their best to remove it from my belly. And it hurtssssss a lot. I was shouting at them to stop coz it hurts so badly. I believe that a few are still in my belly
Im so sorry, that is SO dangerous and can kill you very quickly. Im surprised your midwife/doctor didnt do a placenta check after it was delivered to ensure it was a complete placenta.
Ignore the ignorant haters on here. We moms thank you for educating others on our NORMAL after-pregnancy sufferings 😁💞🏆🎉 If men gave birth, they would boast to everyone about their bleedings! 🤣
I so admire you for being so open about motherhood and the changes to your body. I’m hoping to have a baby soon and actually seeing your content has given me a lot of real life information. I just really appreciate your openness, it’s super helpful for me and others ❤
@@yoquieroamai9900 I know there are books but sometimes seeing is more impactful. And I’ve watched a lot of her videos, not just this one. That’s why I’m appreciative of her openness and willingness to share her experience. It’s a lot different hearing from someone currently that hearing from a book which could be written by people without childbirth experience.
@@gracievictor9958my exact same story!! I was sooo irritated, especially, when I knew ppl who stopped in like 2wks🙄. The things a woman's body goes thru🤦🏽♀️
Not even planning on having my own kids but wonderful that you are normalizing this ❤️❤️ I’m sure it’s so scary and people can be so rude that they are scared to ask. So thank you
I’m not even a parent, just a proud aunt, and can’t even have biological children. Yet I’m watching this and feel a warmth in my heart for the way you normalise the normal things that comes with pregnancy and giving birth. There is so much that is never talked about in the changes and effects childbirth has on a womans body. And that is the reason why women don’t seek help after having injuries due to childbirth or afraid to ask about normal stuff. It is never shameful and it should be normalised. Like openly talk about diapers. I just love you guys for it. Im certain your videos will end up being a help for many women
I so appreciate the honesty and transparency that you've chosen to share with all of us. I hope I'm as strong and honest as you are once I have children
i bled for 9 weeks the second time around and i remember feeling so insecure and not telling anybody cuz i was embarrassed abt it thank you so much for normalization these things
I bled for 8 weeks after my first and 3-4 after my second. You’re okay momma. If it’s heavy bleeding with golf ball sized clots falling then you’re NOT okay but you are okay right now. This is normal. No one told me either and it caused a lot of mental and emotional trauma for me. My periods were 1-2 weeks long with my first until I got on birth control that would change that and my periods were so short after my second I thought I wasn’t really getting them. Your body changes so much every time. I’m sorry no one talked you through this moment, we should do that more as women for each other. Not to scare each other, just to inform and let you know your body IS beautiful in all stages, this means you are alive and healing.
I took it upon myself to learn all the ins and outs while I was pregnant. No way I was going in there not having a clue what was supposed to happen. I read what to expect when your expecting and what to expect when your a mother or something like that and I believe there was another what to expect when..... book.
@@user-rn3nr4ib2h how tf was I stuck up? Ur litteraly saying how much u admire her but u can't seem to get her first name right lol, it's no big deal but yk " 😘😘 "
As I just said, it was autocorrect. You’re being stuck up for not noticing how it might’ve been a mistake in spelling, and instead of saying it like a nice, decent human being, you add an eye roll emoji. But of course, “it’s no big deal” 😘😘
@@user-rn3nr4ib2h I was telling u why I made the comment bc its ironic lol and it wasn't supposed to be a serious comment it was supposed to be " jokey " if that makes sense. 🤣
Thanks for sharing.Very informative video to new mothers for what to expect after childbirth. Its such a relief that you are not alone, women go through this. God bless you.
For those in the comments section, if you’re bleeding at a rate in which you need to change pads after just half an hour or so, are having large clots, or continue to bleed after 6 wks postpartum, it is recommended you see your practitioner (whether that be obstetrician or midwife). These can be signs of something serious, like retained placenta, or it can be something as simple as your body’s way of telling you that you’re doing too much and need to rest more so you can heal properly. You can actually see a decrease in bleeding and then make it start up again if you increase activity too soon. So take care of yourself and REST postpartum. Chores can wait, and never be afraid to ask for help. ❤ - A birth worker.
Yeah and somehow I am magically educated completely without having ever seen their personal life... They are doing this for money please leave fantasy land.
I pray whoever I have a kid with is as knowledgeable and comforting as Emeka. Even if they don’t know off the top of their head like he does. I have faith that if he didn’t know the facts about how long postpartum bleeding lasts, he would’ve searched asap for Nika and as an anxious person, I need someone to present me facts when I’m panicked about something I’m not sure is normal.
her questioning and going right to her baby just makes me happy idk why. she’s gonna be a fantastic mom always gonna be looking out for her baby’s. i hope postpartum goes well for you guys💗💗
I wanna have a kid when I'm older but the more I learn the more I'm scared 😭 But thank you for sharing this moment, as it gives women more confidence/strenght!
Thank you fo sharing.Gatekeeping the postpartum experience is not cutting it anymore.We need to know,we need to see it and if it makes others ucomfortable,then they should move along to watching things they are comfortable watching.Keep doing what youre doing.This isnt for everybody,but uts definitely for somebody and they are watching.
If you have a husband that’s standing there having a conversation with you about periods and postpartum bleeding , he’s a keeper- this is wonderful and the women who get it get it - , ❤ this really beautiful to witness
I’m Not really a fan of how much these people post their lives online. I know that’s everyone these days but like why is her husband filming this intimate moment unless it’s faked?
Why you watching then😭 simply swipe your judgmental finger up or down to go to a different video. That's how Shorts work, just in case you didn't know❤
I feel like it has nothing to do with being judgemental. The question is, is it really okay to share such intimate moments with the whole world? It is about protecting their privacy and their family at the end of the day. There are some weird and evil people out there. You never know.
@@alexandrabolovan9887 exactly. Thank you. My comment was never meant to be judgemental. I simply don’t understand why someone would want such private intimate moments blasted on public platforms unless it’s for the money. But even then why share content like that.
@@SamAndFam311 you were real quick to judge me there. I like some of their content that’s why I watch them. But I don’t need to see her struggling in the bathroom.
I appriciate being open, but really, i didnt need to see you out of your toilet with underwear in hand. I just think people are oversharing. Im so sorry but it feels trashy. You can simply talk about it no need to have one see all this. I might be wrong but I'm not even able to watch the videos because of how off putting they've been. Might be just me. The husband recording towards the toilet as she asks, scripted? But like sure you want to bring awareness. But you can do it in a better way for sure. I'm sorry I hate it. Edit: spelling
I'm learning about pregnancy and the real side of how it goes for the first time through your channel. You and the comments are educating young girls about important things. Crazy how little people discuss this.
SOOO WEIRD. I love them but I don’t think they understand how off putting and just disgusting it is to film this for the public. Not everything has to be on youtube smh
i want a lot of y’all to know that this GROWN WOMAN can do whatever she wants to do. i simply see things i don’t like & don’t interact with it…i don’t get what’s so hard. you guys are only causing yourself headaches with trying to tell people things they’re not going to listen to. she’s an open, unfiltered, REAL mother and im sorry if that looks like us seeing her bathroom…it just is what it is so click away. if you don’t appreciate it that is your opinion, but we don’t have to know that either…just like how you say we don’t need to see her bathroom…ridiculous. this is hypocrisy.
Good retort. People just pop off without thinking. We need to educate them and the realism is that making new humans creates a lot of changes in the body of Mom. Period like is ok but if it is true bleeding, you may need a follow up visit with OB-GYN. Or midwife. Etc.
I know it’s getting beyond ridiculous what’s being posted for the world to see. All for clicks and revenue. Very sad. This comes on my feed randomly too.. why God why?! 🙄
Because this type of information is helpful to other people going through it. This is natural and normal, so I don’t get why you’re trying to shame someone about it? You made the choice to be on the internet, if you’re afraid of mature content then perhaps TH-camKids would work better for you, help shield you from things your immature mind is not wanting to see. And what the person before me said, it recommends content similar to what you already watch, so it’s on you if you’re seeing this type of content.
@@LoveRemainsuntil recent past mothers did go through all these as well. It's not something that stated to happen very recently. Those mothers didn't make videos and posted them on social media. If you want to get information about motherhood definitely you can talk with your mother, grandmother, mother in law, sisters who hv undergone the same and hell there are expertise people who can help you including midwives, doctors, nurses.. Im sure it's not necessary for you to watch a stranger changing a diaper on TH-cam to tell you how being a mother is like. There's a thing called privacy. If someone really want to educate others they can really do it by talking about that experience so that others will get to know. There is no need to video everything and post it. Specially intimate things. By your logic even if ppl start to post sexual stuff others hv to be okay with it. That doesn't work like that
@@dewhives9741if you tried to talk about these things with generations past you wanna know what they'd say? I don't know, that's private, don't talk about it. My own mother didn't know how to talk about periods properly because it wasn't something you discussed in detail and her mom didn't discuss it either. She gave me a religiously slanted book that talked about male and female puberty/reproduction stuff and pretty much said this will explain stuff.
You seem like a nice couple, but why do you film this? I don't understand why privacy is seemingly of no value these days. It's just awkward to watch a really private moment of a couple on your phone. What are you trying to achieve with this?
For clouts and attention seeking. Truthfully, it's never ok and embarrassing videos to do online particularly if she's originally from SEA regions because we are culturally reserved women and respect our body. Whenever SEA women having postpartum bleeding we will only show to the medical professionals and OBGYNs because thats the only right thing to do as a sign of respect to public audience. She is not a normal SEA women , I can assure you the most developed part in SEA cities will never approved her videos
I bled fairly steadily for about 9 weeks. Then I got the nexplanon arm implant (while still bleeding) and continued to bleed (spot for a week, then bleed for a week) for the next 7 months. Stopped immediately when I got it removed. Postpartum was the worst time of my life. I couldn’t bring myself to do it twice. Moms of multiple babies are 💪 af
I can’t for the life of me figure out why someone would want to share such a personal thing on TH-cam. Life has just gotten so bizarre. Having dialogue about it is one thing, but pulling down yr diaper for everyone to see??? On TH-cam? Do you keep anything personal?
Finally someone with some sense. Everyone in the comments session saying “nobody talks about this”. Talk about for what purpose? If people need advice on that matter they have some many ways to get it. Plus she could have easily talked about it without showing it. It’s bizarre. Of course their fans will say we are jealous or the infamous “don’t watch if you don’t like it” 😂
Hiiiii i love yalls videos im going through a break up possibly and if anyone sees this could pray for me id apreat it but its good to see love still exsists
I do feel it needs a content warning but also this is so educational. Lots of people don’t know what to expect postpartum and each postpartum journey is different
2 years and I'm not joking. I bleed for two years after I had my son. It took multiple doctors appointments, different birth control until finally my doctor told me my uterus was a mess, I had endometriosis and multiple cysts. So he agreed to do a partial hysterectomy and a rectocele prolapse repair. It was a long recovery compared to what it was Supposed to be but im grateful I had it done.
Yeah, I agreed. So disgusting, man. There are some things that need to be private. No one wants to see used pads. I am a woman, and I am disgusted 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤮
No it's been private long enough and that's why we have clueless women about what's normal about their own bodies. She chose to be real and spread awareness and knowledge so people don't feel alone
I cant believe no one told you. It should be protocol in every country that when you are pregnant you get all this information. I do not know different then with your 1st ultrasound you are invited to an educational evening where nurses tell you all this. Also you see a video and get a book to read.
@@mad.2.cool.4.u7 Sorry, i am Dutch. English is not my language. I tried to fix the spelling mistakes, found 2. If there are still mistakes please let me know. But its about what i write, not how i write it. Its social media, not a schooltest. And people from different countries and languages come here. Not everyone in the world is perfect in English. But thanks for pointing out.
My friend kept bleeding longer than expected and it took her 3 appointments and a few different doctors, but she had a chunk of placenta left and her body would randomly start pouring blood and then like contract again to stop it. But yeah, she needed emergency surgery so that she didn't bleed to death, even though it was stopping from time to time, so definitely go get checked out! Glad my friend finally found a doctor who listened! Hope you have healed up well! 💖
But why is it normal for such moments to be put on TH-cam. Some things should be private. Even if you want to discuss the postpartum situation as a mother, why not talk about it without showing yourself in a way that should kept private. I believe you a Christian and even non christians don't do somethings that people say they are christians do.
This video if anything is for educational purpose and dialog to open up that everyone experiences although may be odd could be normal. The fact you are trying to make this a religion thing and it's absolutely natural and in no way sexual is insane. Get help boo.
this is the most supportive I've seen him yet in any of these videos. truly supportive would've been saying, "no babe, I've got her. you take all the time you need to change & get comfortable"
Thank you for sharing about this ,many doesn't know there could be bleeding after the delivery, hope u heal fast and keep updating us as well ,lots of love
@@dannyphantommmnah always. As long as someones getting checked up on which you’re supposed to do anyways, youre fine. My mother bled on and off for a year after all three children. And no not a period. Like one day she will bleed the next only a tiny bit. The next could be a murder scene then nothing. Its just how fast the body disposes the blood and fluid from the uterus especially after a c section
It varied with each kid for me. It's normal Mama. Relax, you've got this. I would keep track of the clots and the sizes though. I think if the clots are bigger than a quarter than you should be concerned.
self respect is self defined, no one is identical. To her, education, awareness & support are important enough that she shares her journey openly, she is respecting herself and her values, her drive, through this. For another person, whose values are different, whose culture is different, whatever, it may be they don't want to educate through showing, not through sharing personal experiences, or dont even want to educate at all. This other person would be respecting their preferences, their own values. None is better or worse than another, and we for sure cannot dictate what -another- person does, only what WE do with our own selves. This page is an educational one and many of us are thankful for its existence, including (especially!) the raw stuff like this. Not liking it is ok, it means you skip the video, not leave negative comments on their pages.
Your so sweet and I love your content and I hope you figure this out. I wish nothing more than blessings for you and your family. I hope one day I can have a relationship like yours
Yes. you can bleed for up to 12 weeks. You can also start your period exactly 6 weeks after giving birth (had to get a blood transfusion) and you absolutely can get pregnant while breastfeeding. Things people never talk about
I want to thank you as a young women who hasnt had a child yet. Im so scared but honestly you and your husband made me feel better about it a little bit
It's highly informative, this kind of thing should be talked about If someone is planning on getting pregnant and has no one to turn to. pregnancy and the aftermath is nature, stop commenting on things you dont agree with it only keeps it on your page, so ridiculous.
@swastikadas8357 wat u have to know is that these videos are so helpful to the new first time mother's . When they see this it helps them to overcome fear and expect wat will happen to their bodies so chill and keep urself private.
"babeee im bleeding get the camera get the camera. okay now stand there, start recording and pretend like u heard it for the first time and im gonna ask u if its normal, say its completely normal"
So true! I mean they search for the camera for every small thing even if it’s disgusting right on the face. I mean cool it’s natural what your going thru but not everything needs to be posted online!!
@@itsemily6610they are the ones who clearly don’t have a life ! This person here was just informing the rest of yous, on what actually happened in the process of making this dumb reel.
I swear with every passing week I just find more and more reasons to adopt. Thank you for sharing this and I hope everything you're dealing with becomes lighter soon ♥️
Guys I don’t think you realize how much I value y’all’s transparency like it’s amazing! This is mother hood and this is what it’s like to try and handle a new born and recover your body and they aren’t shy to share that and i think it’s absolutely amazing
The way you normalize the most intimate and maybe embarrassing things is so amazing. You have the most beautiful relationship
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As you should though as relationships in general should be and feel open. If you don’t feel like you can freely share anything with your SO girlie it ain’t right.
She’s such a sweet mom. Even though she’s bleeding and sort of in a panic she goes to hold her crying baby right away. That’s true love 🫶🩷🩷
None of that was scripted, huh?? Most ppl have their camera rolling on their wife going to the bathroom, right?
@@tracymiller8093missing the whole point of the story
Scripted, but got it wrong. Wash ur hands then show ur love.
@@tracymiller8093🤦♀️
@@tracymiller8093shut up bro
As a woman who wants to be a mom one day, thank you for sharing your journey and information with us. It’s very important that women have the information they need BEFORE they get pregnant so they can be educated about what happens AFTER the baby is born
A maioria não consegue e não quer entender como ela se posiciona perante essas situações,e pode ser pelo jeito dela que não sabia que estava sendo gravada, é só notar sua naturalidade, só penso que a pessoa que gravou devia respeitar a privacidade dela.
Exactly.
@@leiladominguez5910??? first of all
relationships in general should be and feel open. If you don’t feel like you can freely share anything with your SO girlie it ain’t right.
second of all you KNOW he wouldn’t be recording if she ain’t tell him to. he was most likely forced 😂
sooo yeah privacy isn’t an issue, if anything all “inappropriate” things are censored anyway, thought don’t see why it should be considered such as it’s a normal thing that woman every day go through and relate with. We should normalize this not find disgust in HUMAN, bodily functions ❤
@@leiladominguez5910it was her husband who recorded her and she is very open about natural stuff and I bet he asked to record her first
everyone is being SO RUDE.
I think this video is important for anyone to learn about all possibilities with pregnancy. This helps people who have been though the same thing to feel seen, and it’s educating the rest of us. Calm down
But one is to tell and other thing os to show you blood online ... Privacy.... 😰
@@masosaur??? It’s blurred lol
@@masosaurit was blurred you slow minded as..
@@masosaurshe didnt show anything
Not even
When you asked your husband if that was normal I thought girl, how is he going to know. And husband comes out with the knowledge! I forgot how much of gem he was for a second
😂 My husband did more research than I did when we had our first. And I did so much research. He's always been a walking encyclopedia, though. Dude has all the answers. The amount of useful information stored in his brain is rivaled only by the absurd amount of not-useful information. For example: I once randomly asked him how long the gestational period was for orca, AND HE ACTUALLY KNEW THE ANSWER. I wasn't even expecting him to respond, I was just thinking out loud.
@mono4754, Best comment ever
@@maddiekain7728 your hubby sounds so sweet .. and if I can add another tidbit of orca info, they go through menopause, too!
well its scripted lol
Views and attention and validation
"For all what you been through"
Said by the most understanding and kind-loving husband ever!
He speaks nothing but truth ❤
Si une psssb cops’ cbblw’. Cwbkososllqqon. S’esquisse oksnj
Love how she blurred it js in case anyone had like a fear or was uncomfy with seeing blood or bleeding ❤
ALL YOU HUSBANDS OR BOYFRIENDS OUT THERE, TREAT YOUR LADY WITH SO MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT AFTER BIRTH. WE GO THROUGH UNIMAGINABLE PAIN. EPIDURAL OR NOT...ITS AMAZING WHAT WE COULD DO WITH OUR BODIES..
I bleed for 8 weeks heavily. I went back again after my check up cleared me. Saw a different doctor and discovered a piece of the placenta was still attached and had to go in for immediate surgery. If it's heavy call until they do something because it could kill you. I didn't know that at the time. Stay safe.
Dangerous. You had to be anemic.
Ohhh my god.. After delivery, my placenta was stuck up in my belly. It takes 4 people to take it out. They were trying their best to remove it from my belly. And it hurtssssss a lot. I was shouting at them to stop coz it hurts so badly. I believe that a few are still in my belly
Im so sorry, that is SO dangerous and can kill you very quickly. Im surprised your midwife/doctor didnt do a placenta check after it was delivered to ensure it was a complete placenta.
THATS IT!! IM ADOPTING
She right I almost blacked out my first kid
😂😂😂I love how he's answering the questions like he has had a few kids himself.😂
He has, he’s got a grownish son. So one extra kid than she has.
They mean him birthing a baby lol@@RingyDingDing
“Oh I have to change my diaper first”
Sooo cute love yall
Ignore the ignorant haters on here.
We moms thank you for educating others on our NORMAL after-pregnancy sufferings 😁💞🏆🎉
If men gave birth, they would boast to everyone about their bleedings! 🤣
fr. im seeing women here talk bout how its crazy she wears diapers..
The bad acting is the only thing that annoys me
I so admire you for being so open about motherhood and the changes to your body. I’m hoping to have a baby soon and actually seeing your content has given me a lot of real life information. I just really appreciate your openness, it’s super helpful for me and others ❤
Para la maternidad hay libros, no creo que ver a una mujer saliendo del baño con el pañal manchado te sea de gran ayuda, aunque quien sabe🤔
I honestly wish more women were open about it I know many make it seem like daisys and sunshine’s when there is so much more too it
And yes you will hurt and bleed for a long time postpartum
@@yoquieroamai9900 I know there are books but sometimes seeing is more impactful. And I’ve watched a lot of her videos, not just this one. That’s why I’m appreciative of her openness and willingness to share her experience. It’s a lot different hearing from someone currently that hearing from a book which could be written by people without childbirth experience.
I bled for about a month and a half postpartum, and then two weeks later my period returned 😅
Omg I went through exact same situation
@@sowjanyabasetty5694 I was so upset 😂
@@gracievictor9958my exact same story!! I was sooo irritated, especially, when I knew ppl who stopped in like 2wks🙄. The things a woman's body goes thru🤦🏽♀️
Same here
Dang that sux, I don't start my period again till around 18mo after each baby
Some woman aren't told or are afraid to ask! This is a life lesson and has probably helped so many. If you don't like it, don't watch.
Not even planning on having my own kids but wonderful that you are normalizing this ❤️❤️ I’m sure it’s so scary and people can be so rude that they are scared to ask. So thank you
I had delayed healing and bled for months. Praying for your healing.
Same.
Months?! 😮
Yes me too..😢 had white discharge even after the bleeding stopped
months? i hope your okay auntie.
@@annahxox0 I am okay now. It probably took 6 months to "heal" physical and 3 more months to restore function. A wild ride.
I’m not even a parent, just a proud aunt, and can’t even have biological children. Yet I’m watching this and feel a warmth in my heart for the way you normalise the normal things that comes with pregnancy and giving birth. There is so much that is never talked about in the changes and effects childbirth has on a womans body. And that is the reason why women don’t seek help after having injuries due to childbirth or afraid to ask about normal stuff. It is never shameful and it should be normalised. Like openly talk about diapers. I just love you guys for it. Im certain your videos will end up being a help for many women
I love how her husband says “after what you’ve been through yep it’s still normal” we love a man who appreciates and knows his woman’s worth!
this is why pregnancy scares me. women who decide to carry and give birth are incredibly brave
I love how this is spreading more awareness about women’s post pregnancy ❤❤❤
I so appreciate the honesty and transparency that you've chosen to share with all of us. I hope I'm as strong and honest as you are once I have children
i bled for 9 weeks the second time around and i remember feeling so insecure and not telling anybody cuz i was embarrassed abt it thank you so much for normalization these things
“ wait I gotta change my own diaper” 😂
I bled for 8 weeks after my first and 3-4 after my second. You’re okay momma. If it’s heavy bleeding with golf ball sized clots falling then you’re NOT okay but you are okay right now. This is normal. No one told me either and it caused a lot of mental and emotional trauma for me. My periods were 1-2 weeks long with my first until I got on birth control that would change that and my periods were so short after my second I thought I wasn’t really getting them. Your body changes so much every time. I’m sorry no one talked you through this moment, we should do that more as women for each other. Not to scare each other, just to inform and let you know your body IS beautiful in all stages, this means you are alive and healing.
I thank you for adding in your experience! The more I watch her posts the more I realize I barely know $h!t about my own body and pregnancy! 🤯🫶
I took it upon myself to learn all the ins and outs while I was pregnant. No way I was going in there not having a clue what was supposed to happen. I read what to expect when your expecting and what to expect when your a mother or something like that and I believe there was another what to expect when..... book.
Those books were helpful for me also
Love you Nika, you’re such an amazing mom! Your videos are the right amount of funny, serious, and mommy - baby ratio!❤
It's Nika gurl 🙄
My autocorrect did that and I didn’t notice, no need to be so stuck up 😘😘
@@user-rn3nr4ib2h how tf was I stuck up? Ur litteraly saying how much u admire her but u can't seem to get her first name right lol, it's no big deal but yk " 😘😘 "
As I just said, it was autocorrect. You’re being stuck up for not noticing how it might’ve been a mistake in spelling, and instead of saying it like a nice, decent human being, you add an eye roll emoji. But of course, “it’s no big deal” 😘😘
@@user-rn3nr4ib2h I was telling u why I made the comment bc its ironic lol and it wasn't supposed to be a serious comment it was supposed to be " jokey " if that makes sense. 🤣
This a great example for new mothers is nice of u to share 😊❤❤❤❤❤bless
Thanks for sharing.Very informative video to new mothers for what to expect after childbirth. Its such a relief that you are not alone, women go through this. God bless you.
For those in the comments section, if you’re bleeding at a rate in which you need to change pads after just half an hour or so, are having large clots, or continue to bleed after 6 wks postpartum, it is recommended you see your practitioner (whether that be obstetrician or midwife). These can be signs of something serious, like retained placenta, or it can be something as simple as your body’s way of telling you that you’re doing too much and need to rest more so you can heal properly. You can actually see a decrease in bleeding and then make it start up again if you increase activity too soon. So take care of yourself and REST postpartum. Chores can wait, and never be afraid to ask for help. ❤
- A birth worker.
I love how hubby confidently has that postpartum knowledge!! What a MAN!!😍
Can everyone stop being rude like “ we need privacy” like I know you need privacy but she is just posting this video and she is educating us!
Yeah and somehow I am magically educated completely without having ever seen their personal life... They are doing this for money please leave fantasy land.
I love when someone that is different than me takes care of me. Oh how good it feel when you are past any barriers! God is so Good!
I pray whoever I have a kid with is as knowledgeable and comforting as Emeka. Even if they don’t know off the top of their head like he does. I have faith that if he didn’t know the facts about how long postpartum bleeding lasts, he would’ve searched asap for Nika and as an anxious person, I need someone to present me facts when I’m panicked about something I’m not sure is normal.
her questioning and going right to her baby just makes me happy idk why. she’s gonna be a fantastic mom always gonna be looking out for her baby’s. i hope postpartum goes well for you guys💗💗
I wanna have a kid when I'm older but the more I learn the more I'm scared 😭 But thank you for sharing this moment, as it gives women more confidence/strenght!
Thank you fo sharing.Gatekeeping the postpartum experience is not cutting it anymore.We need to know,we need to see it and if it makes others ucomfortable,then they should move along to watching things they are comfortable watching.Keep doing what youre doing.This isnt for everybody,but uts definitely for somebody and they are watching.
I have so much respect for her husband he's absolutely supportive just brilliant
Thank you for being so real! No one talks about this!!!
That was unnecessary
You guys are getting WAY too comfortable on the internet…
Yes to personal 😮
@@belle3055 It is educational, you are ignorant for being uncomfortable
People who think she is just on her period
She is so sweet
If you have a husband that’s standing there having a conversation with you about periods and postpartum bleeding , he’s a keeper- this is wonderful and the women who get it get it - , ❤ this really beautiful to witness
I love how real you are ❤️ and how transparent. Thank you for sharing your amazing journey with the world 💕🌎
I’m Not really a fan of how much these people post their lives online. I know that’s everyone these days but like why is her husband filming this intimate moment unless it’s faked?
Why you watching then😭 simply swipe your judgmental finger up or down to go to a different video. That's how Shorts work, just in case you didn't know❤
I agree. I block ir. But still returns
I feel like it has nothing to do with being judgemental. The question is, is it really okay to share such intimate moments with the whole world? It is about protecting their privacy and their family at the end of the day. There are some weird and evil people out there. You never know.
@@alexandrabolovan9887 exactly. Thank you. My comment was never meant to be judgemental. I simply don’t understand why someone would want such private intimate moments blasted on public platforms unless it’s for the money. But even then why share content like that.
@@SamAndFam311 you were real quick to judge me there. I like some of their content that’s why I watch them. But I don’t need to see her struggling in the bathroom.
I always appreciate your fashion sense. Each and every cloths you wear are soo beautiful ❤
Well stop asking your husband and get the doctors on the phone. Jesus Christ lady why are you asking him?
Cause she can?
I appriciate being open, but really, i didnt need to see you out of your toilet with underwear in hand. I just think people are oversharing. Im so sorry but it feels trashy. You can simply talk about it no need to have one see all this. I might be wrong but I'm not even able to watch the videos because of how off putting they've been. Might be just me.
The husband recording towards the toilet as she asks, scripted? But like sure you want to bring awareness. But you can do it in a better way for sure. I'm sorry I hate it.
Edit: spelling
They will do anything for viewers…. Insane
Completely agree!! Nowadays people film anything as long as it gets them money.
Completely agree
I agree
@@nmnteamdknn8405agreed 100,%
I'm learning about pregnancy and the real side of how it goes for the first time through your channel. You and the comments are educating young girls about important things. Crazy how little people discuss this.
The way you normalize the most intimate and maybe embarrassing things is so.
Ama
Zing
You have the most beautiful relation ship
"Oh i have to change my diaper first" make me dying in floor 😭
Awww I was bleeding up right until 6weeks just after 😅 hahahaha “change my diaper first” killed me
Imagine your husband ready to film this. 😮
For views .
They both planned it. Sick.
SOOO WEIRD. I love them but I don’t think they understand how off putting and just disgusting it is to film this for the public. Not everything has to be on youtube smh
Hearing the baby crying why they are focusing on filming this disgusting video. Things people do for attention. No one wants to see your used pads.
i want a lot of y’all to know that this GROWN WOMAN can do whatever she wants to do.
i simply see things i don’t like & don’t interact with it…i don’t get what’s so hard. you guys are only causing yourself headaches with trying to tell people things they’re not going to listen to. she’s an open, unfiltered, REAL mother and im sorry if that looks like us seeing her bathroom…it just is what it is so click away.
if you don’t appreciate it that is your opinion, but we don’t have to know that either…just like how you say we don’t need to see her bathroom…ridiculous. this is hypocrisy.
Ehd🫢🫢🫢🫢🫢🥵🤤🥵🤤🔥🔥🔥🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑
Good retort. People just pop off without thinking. We need to educate them and the realism is that making new humans creates a lot of changes in the body of Mom. Period like is ok but if it is true bleeding, you may need a follow up visit with OB-GYN. Or midwife. Etc.
@@JessicaLopez-me3kp your gay
I bleed for 4 months after I had my daughter. 😂
Thanks for the warning
I wonder what makes people post such intimate things 🤔
I know it’s getting beyond ridiculous what’s being posted for the world to see. All for clicks and revenue. Very sad. This comes on my feed randomly too.. why God why?! 🙄
@@Bella.45.2.47, whatever type of videos you watch is the type of video you will get on your fyp.😂 😂
Because this type of information is helpful to other people going through it. This is natural and normal, so I don’t get why you’re trying to shame someone about it? You made the choice to be on the internet, if you’re afraid of mature content then perhaps TH-camKids would work better for you, help shield you from things your immature mind is not wanting to see. And what the person before me said, it recommends content similar to what you already watch, so it’s on you if you’re seeing this type of content.
@@LoveRemainsuntil recent past mothers did go through all these as well. It's not something that stated to happen very recently. Those mothers didn't make videos and posted them on social media.
If you want to get information about motherhood definitely you can talk with your mother, grandmother, mother in law, sisters who hv undergone the same and hell there are expertise people who can help you including midwives, doctors, nurses.. Im sure it's not necessary for you to watch a stranger changing a diaper on TH-cam to tell you how being a mother is like. There's a thing called privacy. If someone really want to educate others they can really do it by talking about that experience so that others will get to know. There is no need to video everything and post it. Specially intimate things.
By your logic even if ppl start to post sexual stuff others hv to be okay with it. That doesn't work like that
@@dewhives9741if you tried to talk about these things with generations past you wanna know what they'd say? I don't know, that's private, don't talk about it.
My own mother didn't know how to talk about periods properly because it wasn't something you discussed in detail and her mom didn't discuss it either. She gave me a religiously slanted book that talked about male and female puberty/reproduction stuff and pretty much said this will explain stuff.
I bled for 10 weeks after having my son he was my first child xx
all girls will go through this every month, it's called menstruation and it's normal to happen, that's why there's a pad ❤
You seem like a nice couple, but why do you film this? I don't understand why privacy is seemingly of no value these days. It's just awkward to watch a really private moment of a couple on your phone. What are you trying to achieve with this?
For clouts and attention seeking.
Truthfully, it's never ok and embarrassing videos to do online particularly if she's originally from SEA regions because we are culturally reserved women and respect our body.
Whenever SEA women having postpartum bleeding we will only show to the medical professionals and OBGYNs because thats the only right thing to do as a sign of respect to public audience.
She is not a normal SEA women , I can assure you the most developed part in SEA cities will never approved her videos
The things they DON'T tell you about womanhood. I need to know where these house dresses are coming from cause I love em.
I have to change my diaper first
Killed me😂😂😂😂😂
I bled fairly steadily for about 9 weeks. Then I got the nexplanon arm implant (while still bleeding) and continued to bleed (spot for a week, then bleed for a week) for the next 7 months. Stopped immediately when I got it removed. Postpartum was the worst time of my life. I couldn’t bring myself to do it twice. Moms of multiple babies are 💪 af
Your husband is amazing and your babies are beautiful. God Bless you and yours!!❤
I can’t for the life of me figure out why someone would want to share such a personal thing on TH-cam. Life has just gotten so bizarre. Having dialogue about it is one thing, but pulling down yr diaper for everyone to see??? On TH-cam? Do you keep anything personal?
It's all about the views for them. Imagine their kids being bullied about this tomorrow in school. It's just sad
Finally someone with some sense. Everyone in the comments session saying “nobody talks about this”. Talk about for what purpose? If people need advice on that matter they have some many ways to get it. Plus she could have easily talked about it without showing it. It’s bizarre. Of course their fans will say we are jealous or the infamous “don’t watch if you don’t like it” 😂
"i have to change my diaper first 😂"
I love you for being real
And not being Afraid to show some certain things on camera
THAT IS IT!! IM ADOPTING😂
adopting very painful Sis...
baby's r important at least one for this generation..... many people r still they is no baby an suffering
Hiiiii i love yalls videos im going through a break up possibly and if anyone sees this could pray for me id apreat it but its good to see love still exsists
Praying for you!!
Keep your smile high, everything will be okay, honey ❤
I pray the Love of Christ Jesus engulfs you, amen.
I pray for healing for you in Jesus name🙏🏾
Just leave and forget. If he is the one being a jerk, just move on and never return. Do yourself a favor.
Does it really necessary showing it on social media... This is insane😂
I do feel it needs a content warning but also this is so educational. Lots of people don’t know what to expect postpartum and each postpartum journey is different
Yes it is necessary showing it on social media
It is insane and educational and mothers bodies are literally miracles
It was blurred out so what did you see because I saw nothing
Yes, it's necessary for awareness purpose😊
imagine this:
a new mother is at the stage of postpartum and is bleeding for up to 8 weeks, she comes along this video and realises it’s normal!
2 years and I'm not joking. I bleed for two years after I had my son. It took multiple doctors appointments, different birth control until finally my doctor told me my uterus was a mess, I had endometriosis and multiple cysts. So he agreed to do a partial hysterectomy and a rectocele prolapse repair. It was a long recovery compared to what it was Supposed to be but im grateful I had it done.
Whyyyyy do people feel the need to film this stuff???
Money
informative reasons, i appreciate women who film stuff like this for other women, it helps a lot of us out
Yeah, I agreed. So disgusting, man. There are some things that need to be private. No one wants to see used pads.
I am a woman, and I am disgusted 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤮
Why not? Clearly she's not doing it for attention. It's just for knowledge.
Comment I was looking for
Please respect your privacy ………..she might have agreed to it being posted but still you all should keep such things private ……..
No it's been private long enough and that's why we have clueless women about what's normal about their own bodies.
She chose to be real and spread awareness and knowledge so people don't feel alone
I cant believe no one told you. It should be protocol in every country that when you are pregnant you get all this information. I do not know different then with your 1st ultrasound you are invited to an educational evening where nurses tell you all this. Also you see a video and get a book to read.
you can’t spell
@@mad.2.cool.4.u7 Sorry, i am Dutch. English is not my language. I tried to fix the spelling mistakes, found 2. If there are still mistakes please let me know. But its about what i write, not how i write it. Its social media, not a schooltest. And people from different countries and languages come here. Not everyone in the world is perfect in English. But thanks for pointing out.
@@mad.2.cool.4.u7 you (You) can't spell (.)
@@MrsM. i can spell
@@mad.2.cool.4.u7 I* not i, when you start a sentence ( and end with a .).
My friend kept bleeding longer than expected and it took her 3 appointments and a few different doctors, but she had a chunk of placenta left and her body would randomly start pouring blood and then like contract again to stop it. But yeah, she needed emergency surgery so that she didn't bleed to death, even though it was stopping from time to time, so definitely go get checked out! Glad my friend finally found a doctor who listened! Hope you have healed up well! 💖
You don’t have to post and document every second of your personal life, especially the private moments, especially not your childrens
But why is it normal for such moments to be put on TH-cam. Some things should be private. Even if you want to discuss the postpartum situation as a mother, why not talk about it without showing yourself in a way that should kept private. I believe you a Christian and even non christians don't do somethings that people say they are christians do.
This video if anything is for educational purpose and dialog to open up that everyone experiences although may be odd could be normal. The fact you are trying to make this a religion thing and it's absolutely natural and in no way sexual is insane. Get help boo.
this is the most supportive I've seen him yet in any of these videos. truly supportive would've been saying, "no babe, I've got her. you take all the time you need to change & get comfortable"
Thank you for sharing about this ,many doesn't know there could be bleeding after the delivery, hope u heal fast and keep updating us as well ,lots of love
I bled for 10 months after my first! Good luck, Momma, healing is a long road and really long for others 😂❤
Oh my word that sounds way too long 😢
Bleeding is not supposed to last for more than 14 weeks. 10 months is a sign there is definitely something wrong!
@@dannyphantommmnah always. As long as someones getting checked up on which you’re supposed to do anyways, youre fine. My mother bled on and off for a year after all three children. And no not a period. Like one day she will bleed the next only a tiny bit. The next could be a murder scene then nothing. Its just how fast the body disposes the blood and fluid from the uterus especially after a c section
@@99Em07 as long as people are getting consistently checked then I understand
Mine was 9 months, I feel your pain momma
It varied with each kid for me. It's normal Mama. Relax, you've got this. I would keep track of the clots and the sizes though. I think if the clots are bigger than a quarter than you should be concerned.
I like how raw this content is tbh
You are lightening us❤
Please respect yourself and don’t put too much online. some things are best kept within the four walls of your home.
You're right 🙂
self respect is self defined, no one is identical. To her, education, awareness & support are important enough that she shares her journey openly, she is respecting herself and her values, her drive, through this. For another person, whose values are different, whose culture is different, whatever, it may be they don't want to educate through showing, not through sharing personal experiences, or dont even want to educate at all. This other person would be respecting their preferences, their own values.
None is better or worse than another, and we for sure cannot dictate what -another- person does, only what WE do with our own selves. This page is an educational one and many of us are thankful for its existence, including (especially!) the raw stuff like this. Not liking it is ok, it means you skip the video, not leave negative comments on their pages.
@@Nishkam-James , this lady is married to an African...hence this is not acceptable in this setup... her in-laws should not see her underwear period.
Every women nature i think so
That's why most people lack knowledge, cause we find fault when reality situations are being addressed.
Your so sweet and I love your content and I hope you figure this out. I wish nothing more than blessings for you and your family. I hope one day I can have a relationship like yours
Now this what a amazing mom is praying for you and your family love your family bless you hope you are healing well ❤
Take as much iron as you need!!!!❤❤❤❤❤ i was bleeding for 8 weeks postpartum and turns out my iron was low!
Yes. you can bleed for up to 12 weeks. You can also start your period exactly 6 weeks after giving birth (had to get a blood transfusion) and you absolutely can get pregnant while breastfeeding. Things people never talk about
Asking her husband if HE knows if it's normal........my freaking heart y'all 😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
This is seriously the sweetest couple EVER!!!!!
I want to thank you as a young women who hasnt had a child yet. Im so scared but honestly you and your husband made me feel better about it a little bit
Some people will show anything, and nothing is sacred anymore. We don't need to know nor see everything about you.T M I period.
It's highly informative, this kind of thing should be talked about If someone is planning on getting pregnant and has no one to turn to. pregnancy and the aftermath is nature, stop commenting on things you dont agree with it only keeps it on your page, so ridiculous.
You know how to scroll up and down, well thats all you have to do if you don't want to watch a certain video😂😂😂.
There's a thing called privacy. Not every single detail needs to be shared on social media.
Absolutely.....YUCK,
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@swastikadas8357 wat u have to know is that these videos are so helpful to the new first time mother's . When they see this it helps them to overcome fear and expect wat will happen to their bodies so chill and keep urself private.
True
How can I report this video?
“oh I have to change my diaper first”😂😂
Poor Mommy! Yes 5 whole weeks with both my kids!
God bless you
"babeee im bleeding get the camera get the camera. okay now stand there, start recording and pretend like u heard it for the first time and im gonna ask u if its normal, say its completely normal"
Do you just have nothing better to do in life baha
Right
So true! I mean they search for the camera for every small thing even if it’s disgusting right on the face. I mean cool it’s natural what your going thru but not everything needs to be posted online!!
@@Xinera29 i know. these youtube couples are a different breed. so fake and so cringe.
@@itsemily6610they are the ones who clearly don’t have a life ! This person here was just informing the rest of yous, on what actually happened in the process of making this dumb reel.
I swear with every passing week I just find more and more reasons to adopt. Thank you for sharing this and I hope everything you're dealing with becomes lighter soon ♥️
The era we are living in. Next time it'll be how to hv successful and pleasurable sex with your partner. Today privacy is non existing. It's sad.
I also got postpartum and I bleeded for just 2 to 3 days. I am just gonna suggest you to go to the hospital...
Guys I don’t think you realize how much I value y’all’s transparency like it’s amazing! This is mother hood and this is what it’s like to try and handle a new born and recover your body and they aren’t shy to share that and i think it’s absolutely amazing
Learning so much from you.
"Ohh i got to change her diper" ok i did not need to know that😂😂😂
"From what you've been through? Yes" 😂
Changes in blood flow esp bright red is a reminder to slow down and rest more