The last one is just horrible, hearing that when you’re depressed or anxious can be the last straw and then the person who said it could be the reason of someone taking their life.
You sadly see it alot online. People with no care about the mental health of others. I mean, I get people lie about conditions, but the ones who don't deserve better than some asshat saying shit like that or being like "Oh! yOu NoT sUfFeRiNg! YoU'rE lYiNg!"
The sad thing is that I’ve had hundreds of people tell me similar things. I’ve had people even encourage me to end my life after I said I was too depressed to live. The amount of people who are like that in this world Is absolutely sickening
The point of comforting them is to lift them from their lowest,not lift them back up and then push them back to where they just were! If someone took their life because of what he's doing,i do hope he felt really,really bad about it. Depression or anxiety,basically any mental health issues aren't something to toy around or make a hobby of. Depression is an emotion,so by insulting them after lifting them up, you're causing them even more depression because you're adding even more suicidal thoughts onto their already existing ones, technically encouraging someone to take their own life. to make it short,Mental Health should be treated seriously and not be something someone can toy around with,nor should it be made someone's hobby.Do NOT toy around with someone's emotions,for if they take their life because of you,then you'll have [stained ketchup] in your hands forever...
I feel like that one was probably a joke? I mean why would you say that to people online and ask if it's bad? Not sure, but lots of red flags to me. I know people irl are like this, but I feel like they would have written something more like yall need to get over it because depression just you being lazy or something like that.
That first story: The parents probably need to get some family counseling for that kid and set some boundaries with BOTH kids. The story with the parents not disciplining their kid: I work in the legal system. You know what happens to kids who are spoiled? They end up criminals. The one star review: This is part of a movement of kids on the Apple store to get their education apps taken down. They leave one star reviews in hopes the Apple store will automatically remove it so they don't have to go to school. Edit: Looked up the first story: OP is 15 and sister is 14. OP is a butthole but the parents are worse. They're teenagers, not five and four. Parents should definitely deal with that better, but sounds like they can't be bothered and just expect the kids to magically get along.
I think in the first story the OP is only a buttwhole for how he/she responded to their sister, other than that its completely understandable that the op would react in a negative way, especially if they were an only child for 15 years. Image growing up and always having your parents attention, having your own space, having your own friends. To one day have to share it all with someone you don't even know. That can be hard. Although the way he/she spoke to their sister was completely uncalled for, it makes a lot of since that being at age 15, they would lash out like that.
As a depressed person I would say that the last one made me feel sick to my stomach. Imagine being like that. That is such a horrible thing to do and I wish that nobody did something bad to themselves after hearing that from such a stupid person.
I developed depression in high school, and reading that disturbed me on such a deep emotional level that I actually became kind of numb. I feel like I short circuited.
For the snot that posted about how he interacts with someone when they talk about depression and anxiety let me tell you there's a reason for the depression and anxiety and I have lost friends because of little snots like you who thought it was funny to do that. There are things that people have been through that you can not even imagine, I hate to be so harsh but you may have blood on your hands and it just shows what an insecure jerkoff you are that you have to go so low as to kick an already down individual and can't even keep the post up because you know you're wrong and you can't handle people telling you, so here's your wake up call don't be a jerk
In my head I'm watching a scene of the last kid getting hit in the face and start to cry, only for the attacker, after a good chuckle, to respond with: "Why are you crying? I don't really see the issue, this is just a fun hobby that is slightly morally questionable."
"Oh, Why are you crying? I Only hit you with a bat ten times on the head with you on the floor bleeding, Its just a little hobby for me to laugh at Pain, YOURS specifically" I wish i could say that to a brat
"Slightly morally questionable"? Ex-fucking-scuse me!? That's a bloody understatement, I've said it before and I'll say it again, I don't wish it often on people, but that kid really needs to step on a lego, thumbtack, hit his knee and step on a landmine at the same time
The first one is a psychological thing: kids think that they adopted a kid to replace them or because they aren’t good enough. So it not unreasonable for op to feel like this from a psychological POV but also fucked up
Ok it’s more than expected if you have any siblings you’ll know the love for them a love only family can give them having this stranger be treated as one of your own, strip your privacy and get involved in EVERYTHING from the get go? I prolly woulda punched her
Ok, the first story, I HAVE to point something out here; It's really unhealthy for parents to force their kids to do EVERYTHING together. Biological, adopted, age gap, none of that matters. Both of these kids should be taught that they can and should do things on their own AS WELL as bond with each other. It's not healthy for either kid to be taught that they must get along and do everything together, it'll have a negative effect on their independency and on their relationship. So, yes, the OP is definitely being a brat, but I do think the parents may have done some bad things as well. OP literally thinks they adopted their sister because OP wasn't good enough. Clearly, something is off here.
I have a feeling that the OP made some things up. I doubt the parents force them to do every single thing together, they just want OP's sister to feel included, but OP pushes them away and takes their anger out on her. She probably already doesn't feel like she fits in, but just to basically be told that and that your asshole sibling hates you for something you have no control over must be really sad.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 And if what OP said is true (heavily doubt it), this kid just popped up suddenly as adopted. I'll bet the kid is the daughter of a distant relative or family friends who died. More likely is that the parents really did tell OP that they were adopting this girl and OP is just such a selfish, disgusting mean girl that she is really just making sh-t up to try to gain sympathy from the readers.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 She is forced to share her friends and property with her "sister". Nobody here wants to blame the actual siter i guess, but the parents are doing something heavily wrong, OP doesn't really. See, i don't have any friends, and i would need at least one to be happy. She has friends, and she is supposed to share them with somebody Who she doesn't even know that good? She is forced to share things that she earned herself or maybe got as a treat or something, with some random girl that her parents picked up somewhere. I know how shit like this feels, ive been through such shit too. Op is not really entitled, because If her parents want a second kid, they should look that she gets her own fucking stuff, and not just be taught to be entitled to everything that others in her surrounding possess. The sister should make her own friends, who may even be more age appropriate. Now think about it, if someday your parents took home a random stranger and told you to give them all your stuff, would you find that fair?
I agree. And in my opinion, if OP knows how to write on reddit, he is definetly over 10 years old and at that age maybe the parents should have asked if he wanted a sibling. When you have a sibling a little older or yunger than you, you can be happy or just accept it but nothing will stop you from thinking that maybe your life would have been bettere without one; When you are an only child, you're probably happy or you hate it and sometimes you wonder if having a sibling is a good experience; BUT if a yunger sibling pops out of nowhere after years of you being an only child (8 or more years of difference), I can see that most people (me included) woldn't like it. That doesn't change that Op is a spoiled kid in this story: you shouldn't complaine with your sister and insult her, but you sould defenetly tell your parente that you don't like having a sibling and they made a mistake.
Damn! That EK who stole from the funeral got off EASY!!! My dad once grounded me, for SIX MONTHS, for lying about not having homework 1 night when I DID have homework. That punishment was made even harder because he took my TV, my vhs player (yes I'm that old) and my stereo (this was before mobile phones too) I wasn't allowed to call anyone on the house phone unless it was only for school, like paired up assignments etc etc. But that was it. Get up and dressed, walk to the bus, don't talk to anyone, yeah like that happened, mum said that was too far and told me to ignore him, go to school, get the bus home, pick up my little brother and walk home not talking to anyone (again, mum said talk its fine). The only things he left in my room were my bed, my desk, my clothes and my school stuff. He took EVERYTHING else, games, books, my keyboard (musical 1 lol). It SUCKED!!! When him and mum split up and it turned out he'd been cheating for FOUR YEARS, I was LIVID!!! Cos what do you do a lot when you cheat? You LIE!!!! So if I'd have stolen something from a dead person, I think my dad might have either turned me over to the police or maybe buried me under the patio or something. 11 months grounded for stealing from a coffin seems like kind of a light punishment, or maybe my perspective is skewed because of how harsh my dads punishments were. Is that a harsh punishment? Mine and/or the EKs? I'd love to hear your thoughts people....
yeah, your dad gave you a severely harsh punishment. I get taking away some stuff (lying about homework can turn into a bad habit) but even most stuff in your room like books and keyboard, as well as not talking is disproportionate. About EK, I think the punishment is just, the parents probably took away stuff and will never buy him an ipod now, but there is not much else to do for a kid that age
The first story, I’m not sure how old the kid is but it seems he needs some therapy. I think he feels like his parents don’t think he’s good enough and he’s taking that out on his sister. He’s not entitled, just confused and angry and doesn’t know how to cope.
I mean he/she could still be entitled while also being confused ect. I agree that they need therapy and to start being honest with their parents. It sounds like they don't have alot of compassion for their sister and what they did was a buthile move.
In regards to that last post: as someone who has been dealing with depression, yes, that is absolutely wrong. The last thing I need to hear when my depression gets the best of me is validation for the types of things the self loathing part of me is already mentally screaming at myself.
I agree. I already feel like I’m not worth living as I always have been nothing but a problem for my loved ones. If I were to see that post during my most vulnerable time, I might go through with it.
Absolutely. I’m suffering from issues with self-hatred and if I heard this I might actually end it. I personally hope they get the shit beat out of them
1st one: op needs a serious talk with their parents, and get their feelings out in the open. Yes, they're being an arse... but the resentment they feel needs to be addressed and dealt with, and not just by her simply "being nicer".
The op is a 15 year old male and he is being forced to share a room with a 14 year old female (making kids of opposite sexes over the age of 13 share a room is illegal in many places) and I imagine he is really frustrated due to the lack of privacy he has
And the way he continuously said he's "forced to involve her in everything" and "share friends" makes me think the parents don't want the adopted daughter left alone for some reason. If he's a teenager, then his attitude about how the parents never asked for his perspective on getting a sibling is pretty reasonable. He's more mature, and would feel like his voice matters more than when he was a little kid
i literally had a panic attack hearing about the cat one. my cousin is also really rough with animals, (we have 6 cats, 2 hamsters, 1 gecko, and 1 snake) and so i always get really scared when he is getting near any of them. that broke my heart but i’m glad the poor kitten is okay...
When he was about 4 or 5 my cousin almost drowned my guinea pig by pressing her underwater because he wanted to find out if she could swim and dive because in my language guinea pigs are called sea pigs. Since then i do not trust young kids around pets unsuperviced.
I know right! Who the living hel* does that. I had suicidal friends, and even a wrong or uneven tone in your voice can set them off in ways you can’t (or can) imagine.
@@joeyw.8177 Aww I’m so sorry. It’s been a year & I now have seen your comment. I hope you’re feeling better. I was suicidal twice so I can understand where you are coming from.
When you said that EK dragged poor little charcoal by the tail. I literally had a physical reaction, like my chest got properly tight. That poor kitten didn't deserve anything but caring love and affection
That last one. Yikes. That's actually sick. If someone did something like that to me during one of my depressive episodes, idk what it would do to me...
As someone who was going through depression when I was only 12/13, the last bit makes me REALLY angry, because, coming from a depression victim, that actually thought about SUICIDE on more than one occasion, I can first hand say that words like this have a HUGE impact
That first story, I kinda get them. I don't know if you ever had a little sibling or something. But if you had, it would be easier to understand. My parents never spoke to me about having a little sibling, so I was surprised why I suddenly had this small loud human next to me. Yes, the OP was rude, but everyone deals with their problems differently. Just because they are siblings, doesn't mean they have to share literally EVERYTHING. Especially friends, making friends isn't that easy nor is it difficult. It's depending on YOU, you can't just wait there and expect someone to come up to you and be your friend. Thats not how it works. Now the OP snapped from what I can tell, tbh, I would do that too, its just getting annoying ya know? When you have this clingy kid following you and basically interfering with everything you do, and expecting you don't do the same back. No hate on the video, just how I see things.
You shouldn't have to share everything with a sibling. especially a room. Yes, the OP was the a**hole. That doesn't mean the parents should force the kids to spend all their time together. Let them have their own friend groups.
I have a feeling being a dramatic teen myself that OP was over exaggerating I highly doubt they were actually made to do everything together and it was more like ' OP can you let you sister come with you every now and then so you can bond" and the room who knows maybe they don't have another room , you can't just assume they have free rooms available . Lots of siblings have to share when in smaller homes
@@soobinsleftdimple5019 If OP's parents had been "can your sister come with you every now", the adopted sister wouldn't have threatened OP saying that if she didn't let her join, she'd tell the parents.
I’m the oldest of five. I absolutely had to share everything, as my parents had a three bedroom home. I shared a room with my sisters. My sisters got my hand me downs. You know what? It didn’t kill us. OP is spoiled af.
@@mindyschocolate That is a foolish comparison. You know full well that you had years upon years to slowly get used to your siblings, and can bond over shared memories. These two teens were abruptly thrown together. People don't instantly bond, but the parents expect them to magically get along just like that. The parents' pushy ways only serve to sabotage what would otherwise be a gradual adjustment, to the point of unwittingly setting up the adopted girl as some kind of villain.
When he dragged the kitten by it's tail I wanted to slap that kid so bad I almost started crying. IT'S A KITTEN! Edit: well I would've done more than just slap tbh
@@shaharzad8492 i would have killed him lol like really i have a small cat very hella cute my cousin pulled his tail he was so rough with it i kinda almost beat him till he started bleeding his nose bleeding thank god my parents understanded he now doesnt come he is an EK
The story of OP’s cousin makes me so sad because my dad died not too long ago. We didn’t put anything in his casket, but if we did and someone stole something, I would’ve killed everyone in the funeral home just to get that certain thing back. I hope the family’s doing ok 💚❤
"Wholesome" update for the first story, OP wrote with the same account (it was a throwaway account and RSLash gave the name of the person which crossposted not OP), well OP wrote in r/relationship how to mend ways with her sister, showing she saw she was bad in that situation. And also the parents suck in the story who thinks it's okay to not get a 15 years old kid involved in an adoption procedure
I feel bad for OP and her sister in the first story. That girl didn't deserve to be placed in a family where the other sibling would be forced into resentment due to having no escape or privacy. Like I don't remember how old I was but when I was little and in kindercare still, i remember my dad had a girlfriend with a daughter who would always follow me whenever she was at the house and would never leave me alone. I just wanted to be able to cry without being seen as I missed my mom and wanted to go home at that point but I couldn't even do that without her following me. So even at that age I wanted privacy without even knowing the word yet let alone how much I would've wanted it at 15. That poor girl wants to be included so bad that she threatened to tell on OP if she wasn't allowed to do so. She shouldn't even be in that situation. She should've been adopted by a family where everybody wants her and she had her own stuff and space. OP is just going to resent her more and more as long as they aren't given any escape, not even with friends. OP's only hope at this rate would be to get a boyfriend and hang with him all the time so the little sister cant tag along and can start making friends with people who don't even want her there and will probably never give her a chance as long as they are forced. That or get on a sports team that she isnt on and is hopefully good enough to travel so OP can finally have time with her friends without her little sister.
The way I view the first story, let's imagine this family owns a cat since it was a kitten, and then the family decides to adopt a new little kitten, and they don't even make any preparations for the two cats to make sure their first time meeting face to face would go smoothly like so many adoption shelters would always give out, the family just assumed the two cats will be happy to meet on the first day, pretty much like the 'love at first sight' myth, except when the two cats finally meet, the older cat is upset that this new kitten has suddenly arrived and is expected to get along with it and share all its' toys and properties, while the little kitten is still playful and curious and wants to play with their new cat friend. So, the older cat is just hissing and growling at the poor little kitten whenever it sees the kitten and especially whenever the kitten tries to play with the older cat and share the older cat's food. The older cat even starts to think that the family doesn't love it anymore and prefers the kitten over the cat and that they've replaced the older cat with the little kitten. This is basically OP's situation here, OP is the older cat, her new sister is the little kitten and the parents are the family who owns the cats. Sure, OP is acting like an AH, but can you blame her for dealing with a new sister who suddenly shows up with no warning and her parents just expecting her to now having to share everything with her new sister right away? Pretty much ESH, except for the little sister, which I really do feel sorry for.
4:16 I don't know what bothers me more. The fact that this is an entitled kid, or the fact that this whole paragraph has only 4 periods. Its basically a run on sentence!
Bro, the parents made that kid a literal monster because he had lip surgery! I was born with tricuspid heart and had to go through three longer that 10 hours heart surgeries as a kid and my parents raised me so that I never had a tantrum. What is wrong with parents who do this? I mean, if your kid has a special condition, you should help him cope with it, not make him a brat. Those parents failed at parenting!
I'm glad EK's mom didn't try to make excuses for the little monster. If anyone had done that to any of MY animals, I'd have slapped them so hard they would have seen every star in the entire universe dancing around their head. 😠👎🏻
If I was OP in that Charcoal story, I'd literally have shouted "You may have been born with a cleft lip, but if you don't stop terrorising my cat, you're gonna wish you had the cleft instead of what I'll give you.". Granted this may result in severe punishment but if it gets that shithead away from a scared kitten, then so be it
I have lizards and a 15-year-old fat Chihuahua nobody fucks with either of those but they get the punching when I had snakes some little shit tried to kill one of them and because there was only a three year age difference me being ten them being seven I threw them because I didn’t want my snake getting killed
The kid that had a problem with home learning had one point that was mildly right. What was right, was that most of what we learn in school we actually don't use. About 80% of what we children learn in schools we don't actually use.
SISTERS: Sounds like Entitled PARENTS to me, not making their child part of the process yet expecting her to adapt at the drop of a hat - sorry, that's not how these things work.
Yeah but still not cool to say what she said the adoptive sister wasnt mean she just wanted to get along what she said could really pull on somebodies heartstring but yeah shouldve been introduced slowly
@@himdavila8722 No, it's not. A first child at least has 9 months to get used to the idea that they will have a sibling. Either you're a family member and talk together - especially about such large matters - or you are a possession and there is no need to consider your thoughts or feelings.
I get that that person would be annoyed by having a new sister out of no where and having to share everything is dumb but OP was very harsh on that girl
The whole time you're telling the story about the iPod I was holding my breath the entire time praying to the powers that be that this was NOT going to leak into an entitled parents story... Glad it didnt.
The first kid with the adopted sister is clearly entitled, yet I can sort of see the point of view. I myself am an only child, and if my parents had suddenly adopted another child without telling me and expected me to completely change the life I had gotten used because of their parenting, I would be bitter too. However, this is from the perspective of OP, so there may be information we’re not privy to, and what OP said was genuinely horrible. Lying to the parents didn’t help neither. I think there’s a huge lack communication in that family from the sounds of it, and they all need to talk. If OP is this bratty and the parents are seemingly unwilling to tell OP when changes to the family are happening, there are deeper problems in this family than OP’s attitude.
As rSlash said, don't blame the sister for the parents' being shitty. That's really the bad part, the kid is the victim here, first abandoned/orphaned, then stuck with a sibling who hates them and parents who don't try to mediate, and now being yelled at for being adopted. I'm sure she wouldn't have picked you as a sibling either, OP
@@Avistew trueeeeee, if i was OP, i would be friends with her cuz shes just one year young than me. we might have our own privacy but i will make her feel home and comfy enough for her to share her sorrows or secrets with me. i have a bro 7 years older than me, so i feel lonely haha
I was an only child until I was about 7, my mom had another kid and I honestly resented my sister for the longest time because it felt like my mom was always coddling her. 20 years later it honestly hasn't changed. My family used to care little for my sister because of who the father was (he was a criminal and a scumbag) and they loved me to bits, but now it's reversed and I honestly feel like my family cares little for me because I didn't pop out kids first chance I got. I'm bitter about it but I do care about my sister, it's not her fault for why my family treats me so poorly these days.
Although the insults by OP were directed at the wrong person, I think I would react basically the same, if not more violently, since OP had this anger bottled up inside of her for some time. It was just a matter of time before the outburst happened. As for the parents, yeah they've really got braincells lacking. I'd give OP 1/5 on this because it isn't her fault she is feeling this way, its mostly her parents'.
To be fair the kid shouldn’t be forced to constantly play with his adoptive sister. He should get privacy and at least have been told that it was happening. It’s a huge change for him too and he obviously feels like his parents thought he was a failure and therefore found a new kid.
yea kids can overthink things like that and the parents honestly shouldve consulted her/told her first instead of just bringing home a kid. OP didnt know the other kid and still had to share friends, plans and rooms. if anyone disagrees feel free to reply i also want to put you in a situation, your hanging out with your friends getting ready for a ladies night out and then your sister (whom you live with and share a room with) tags along and also tag along with every other plans you make, itll get annoying because you cant even spend time with your friends
That person complaning about classes at home seriously when I was in school. I would have much preferred home classes. How could they think that's more stressful
For the adopted sister one, the thing is the parents should have respected their wishes of not wanting a sibling, and talked with them why and what they could do to make sure op was comfortable with the adoption before going through with it. Instead, they completely ignored op not wanting a sibling right away, and thus put a child into the family that was guaranteed to make at least one family member unhappy.
That first story, op their parents didn’t ask them if they wanted a sibling and that they just had to deal with it now, but that’s how all, not just adopted sibling are.
True, but I can understand the perspective. Kids can be brats about a newborn, but they know they are part of the family. It’s like adopting a pet. A good shelter will make you bring the household in for a “play date” to see if the pet is compatible with everyone. Adopting a child without involving all the family is short-sighted and selfish. It sounds to me that the parents acted without preparing the kid for the change and how it would affect him/her.
Kod in firat story still is a bh. But prob cause parents did something "wrong" in their parenting. Hope kid sees how they are unfair to the adopted sister when they grow up and dont end up an entitled humanbeeing.
I dont know where you come from. But in my Country Woman are about 9 Months pregnant and in those 9 Months older siblings, (who arent toddlers themselve) bond in those 9 months the same way Fathers and Grandparents bond with the unborn. touching the belly. Having talks about the coming sibling. Talks about sharing rooms etc. So ... interesting to hear that where you are from Pregnant woman go into hiding to come back with an Baby.
As a single child I understand why the first guy feels how he feels. Your whole life parents give you their full love, treat you like their child (duh) and suddenly you are forced without a warning to turn everything upside down, you lose your privacy/foothold and your parents, in your child mindset, turned against you forcing you do things against your will. That would make angry even grown ups. I would say the biggest arseholes are the parent in this case (especially if it's true they didn't even tell OP before the HUGE family change) and didn't prepared him for complete life(style) change. And the comment about getting back to biological family? Ugly, unnecessary, uncalled for but understandable reaction from a child - he definitely feels like he is losing his family.
Agreed! It seems like OP wasn't ever considered when the parents were thinking about adopting. As OP said, they never mentioned it and all of a sudden a new sibling comes. The parents also seem to be forcing a relationship out of them, immediately forcing them into one room without knowing each other and obligating OP to take their new sibling in as a part of the already established friend group. Sure, OP is an ass but considering the possible young age and the circumstances, seems like they have a right to be upset, not at the sibling, rather at the parents.
As someone who had loads of surgeries early in life, I can definitely understand/sympathise with entitled kid and his parents. I understand why they spoil him, he’s been through hell, multiple surgeries at a young age is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone, it’s extremely traumatic, however, no matter what your child has gone through, you can’t just treat them like a perfect Angel who can do no wrong, and never discipline them. You need to set boundaries, otherwise they’ll just grow up to be crappy people, which I fear that the entitled kid will become if his parents aren’t careful.
First story: ESH Why didn’t the parents involve her when they planned to adopt? And why do they leave it to the children to solve their problems? If you don’t want to parent your children and have some part in their life, at least don’t adopt extra kids!
In the last one, I thought he’ll say something like “I do it so they get encouraged to prove me wrong and then they’ll actually get themselves better, like a reverse psychology!” as my dad used to do it with me (but obviously not with the things like depression). Still completely fucked up but thought that he meant well. But then when he flat-out said he ENJOYS IT?! Bro that’s some sadistic sociopath material
To the adopted girl. I hope she gets a lot of love and to feel like she is part of the family. The best thing is that if they act as one. If you cheer on someone then you get to rise up with them, it's your victory too. If they act as a team then they both win. I hope the older one does this. I hope she comes around. She still gets it all but as a team. I was some what adopted, my parents are divorced. I just wanted to feel safe and loved.
First story: ESH except the adopted child, OP is literally being FORCED to do things with the adopted sister instead of letting the adopted kid integrate naturally, but the adopted kid doesn't have much to do but do what she's told in hopes it works out (I've not been in the adoption system so I'm giving the adopted kid a tentative pass on trying to force interaction because she might not have any other idea how to get closer to OP since the parents are so intent on it). OP gets 3/5 from me because they're a kid, they don't really know how to deal with it, and now the parents are trying to shove this random kid OP has no connection with into every facet of OP's life without giving time to adjust, but that doesn't excuse the outburst imo.
-Except they aren't a kid. They're literally 15 years old, and the adoptive sister is 14. He should at least understand that certain people need to go to a new family for home life reasons, and can't just yell at them to "F off." Also the parents are at fault, but it's not like OP tried to have a normal relationship with her, even if he was against it. He's been spoiled heavily, and because he's not in the spotlight he hates the other child. But yeah, you're pretty right here, but OP might not be as innocent as you think.
@@lemonarty 15 and 14 are still children, if you disagre you are too. I'm 17 and still consoder myself a kid, id be just as pissed if my parents pulled that.
15 is still well old enough to comprehend the fact that that's not something you say to another person. You could consider the possibility that they're too young to understand their words if they're 12, MAYBE 13 and below. But a 15 year old shouldn't be saying that to their sibling, regardless of how rocky their relationship with them is. You can side with some of the 15 year old's arguments if you wish, but if you truly don't see anything wrong with that behavior then you should probably take some time to evaluate why you agree with it.
@@seeker4924 dude 15 is the worst possible time for her parents to do stupid stuff like this She is old enough to know what is wrong to say but imagine the stress of having absolutely no privacy after 15 years of being a only child I can't even imagine how much stress the girl went through And to add to that the adopted sister doesn't seem all that innocent, she is also old enough to understand her new sibling dislikes having her around all the time but she still tries to get involved all the time
@@rubenweber6742 Not really - in another post they said she is 15. Just bringing another 14yo girl into your family - into your room - without asking or at least explaining is not fair. Then to force her to include her into everything is cruel. "Hey daughter - we love you very much - so we thought to show you how much we love you, we are getting you a new sister and forcing you to be with her 24/7 until you can move out. Btw - you have to share everything with her - no personal space anymore - no secrets because you have to let her use your electronics to." The good part for the parent - if the 15yo has a bf - she can't do anything because her sister is always with her. If her friends don't like the "new" sister, she will maybe lose all her friends. Yes, yes - you are correct - her parents did everything right /s
My family actually had a slightly similar experience at my grandpa's funeral. My grandpa died of cancer and was deeply loved by everyone. He was one of those 'never meet a stranger' types and helped everyone. When he died my mom put in his breast pocket his comb and pocket knife, two things he always carried. When she went back up to the casket his favorite knife was missing she was devastated! And the culprit who was an aunt of mine was berated and kicked out. I don't know if the knife was returned but it really made all of us disgusted and outraged and still does.
For the kid being spoiled because he had surgeries early in his life: well, I had my first surgery at 7 days old. And 2 more, the last at about 3 years. I also am the lastborn of 3 children, with 14/17 years to my siblings. I may have gotten almost everything I wanted, but my parents still teached me manners and TO NOT TO FUCKING HURT ANIMALS.
They stole from me. I was the corpse I can confirm that everyone at the funeral was very scared. Idk why it’s not like I came back from the dead to stop some kid from stealing from me or anything.. heh heh nope. Not mee...
I don't see what's so bad about the first one. I wouldn't want some random person to suddenly plop into my life, live in my house, sleep in my bedroom, become my parents favourite, have to do everything i do and be forced to love them even though I do t even know them either. I would hate that, that would only make me resent my parents and never want to speak to them again because that was basically them telling their only child they werent good enough, how would you feel having a constant reminder that your own parents font love you? I'd probably go over *that* edge.
Dude, for the story with the kitten Charcoal, I got really pissed. I currently have 23 cats, and if anyone does anything that could harm any one of my precious baby’s, then they are NOT welcome in my home. I don’t care if it’s a family member. Now, I get that EK was very young so it’s fair that he didn’t know how to handle animals, and it isn’t his fault that his parents didn’t raise him right, but to me, harming or worse to an animal is no different than doing the same to a human
The cat one: I- I can't express how pissed I am. Pulling cats by their tail is basically lifting and dragging around an infant by their ears. It's goddamn painful and it's going to traumatize the poor thing. Mistreating cats, mistreating beings is a sin I can definitely say is from the depths of hell.
The EK story really got me, i respect op for not kicking the little turd's stuffing out, if an EK tried to steal my phone, the EK would already be dead
In 2015, my best friend passed away he was in his early 20's. When we went to his viewing, a lot of his family put important jewelry and stuff like that, someone stole one of the pieces and the whole viewing got shut down.. Some kid we went to school with who was a drug addict stole it.. Thankfully they got it back.
I really wouldn't put it that way. I agree that kids are very impressionable and they become what they are raised as (at least most of the time), but I would definitely not pin it on the parents. Although some parents are really bad, there are a myriad of factors that go into developing a child's mind, so don't be surprised if even the best of parents raise an r/entitledkids-worthy child.
It's the battle of nurture vs nature. But the nurture part falls to the parents. They made, birthed and imposed thier own thoughts and opinions on the kids for better or worse. Yes "great" parents can raise brats, does that really make them Great parents? They clearly messed something up if they raised a brat. There are better, great parents out there who raise kids to be healthy members of society. (Parent can be substituted for any guardian in place)
@@rishabbnarayan4288 Agreed. While OP is right in saying kids aren't born entitled, that parents are to blame, some kids just grow up to be assholes. I know plenty of stories where someone came from a good background and good parents but grew up to be rapists, murderers, or just overall massive cunts. Hell, I went to school with one! (he was older than me. Normal family, if a little poor, he was a bully throughout school and, age 17, he killed a guy by smashing his head open with a cement slab)
4:13 I agree! I get we need to learn, but home is the only place we feel calm, but giving us work at the place we feel calm is such an asshole thing to do, because now, home is just as stressful as school!
The cat one mad me mad, but that last one made me livid! I've struggled on and off with depression, one of sisters had it, my younger brother had it, my step-dad had it, and I lost my bio-dad to suicide. Me, my sister, our step-dad, and brother were all hospitalized for it as one point or another. It is something I take very seriously.
In my opinion everyone’s bad here. The parents didn’t tell their ONLY child who grew up ALONE that they suddenly had to share every aspect of their life with a stranger. The parents are trying to hard to force a relationship between them and OP blew up. The sister because she’s using OPs parents to get her way. Don’t try and say she isn’t. After OP said that she couldn’t do that with her she said she was gonna tell OPs parents. She knew that if she told OP would be forced to include her. She must’ve been doing this a lot, asking/demanding to be included/given something OP has and then saying she’ll tell OPs parents that she’s not including her in everything. OP shouldn’t have said what she said, that was a major low blow. Honestly I know how OP feels, she was yearning for the privacy she used to have before this stranger was dumped on her. OP probably tried to tell her parents that she wanted privacy but they’re probably forcing her to be as close as possible with her adopted sister. OP thought she was finally going to do something alone but her adopted sister butted in and she blew up. OP is an asshole, saying that to an adopted kid is super harsh but it was bound to happen. No boundaries were set and if OP tried to set them, the adopted sibling could’ve played victim and OPs parents sided with the sister. Honestly the whole family needs counseling, the parents aren’t communicating properly with their child and are allowing the adopted one to do as she pleases, the adopted sister needs to realize she can’t force her way into OPs life and expect her to be okay, OP should apologize for the things she said but should ask for space/privacy since that would most likely make it a bit more bearable and form a small dot of love in her hear for her new sister. Honestly I feel bad for OP, everyone is making them out to be the bad person but honestly it’s everyone: from the parents to the adopted daughter everyone’s horrible. Both kids are entitled and the parents allow it. *But hey! That’s just my two cents*
i do agree but its reasonable to tell you’re parents when you are hurt and of you dont want your parents to know what youve done the problem is mostlywith you
If a EK took my phone, he’d be so screwed. I’m a varsity cross country and track runner, so maybe it’s best not to steal from someone unless you are 100% certain you could get away, Bc if you don’t, you’re gonna pay like he did
If I was in his position, if I felt compelled to steal a phone, I would have made sure to factory reset it when I got home then spend an entire day customizing it to my style with preferences and claim that a friend gave it to me as a present. I guess years later when I'd have the ability to live on my own and independently, I would confess the story.
The ONLY thing I can say that is a decent argument on the first story is that she was never even asked how she'd feel about having a sibling, adopted or not. With that said, there is NO excuse for that level of behavior.
I agree. I recently got 3 new siblings (my mom finally married) and the youngest is 8 (I'm 23) I've had my moments where I'm like "ugh, really? I have to spend time with her?" But I have grown to like her. However, this girl went from "I'm the center of the universe" (which sounds like the parents were already screwing up) to "wait...what happened to my ME time?" When I was younger (I'm the oldest of like 17 cousins, youngest is 2) and everyone would say "oh let them do it. Let them join you" yadda yadda. I was a teenager and I never even got to fly a kite because the adults were always telling me to be a role model and let the littles have a turn first. I STILL haven't flown a kite. The parents should have asked her. She probably feels insecure as hell which isn't delivered properly because of the condescending tone rSlash took from the start of reading that post. That really irritated me....
As shitty as her behaviour was, you don't have nearly as much time to prepare for that as you do with a normal birth. I'm the eldest child of 3 siblings (Including me), and yes it was great being the centre of the universe, but I still had 9 months to get used to the idea of 'hey I'm gonna be a big sister'. With adoption, it doesn't feel real till the kids THERE. It must've felt really sudden, and all of a sudden you have to share, and get no private time, everything is accompanied by 'can I join?'. I understand her frustration, but her behaviour is still super shitty. (Like, just gently say 'hey I wanted to just do this with friend, i'm sorry' would've been a lot easier and hurt a lot less feelings.)
@@flb-fatlazyboy5942 I think that we can can all agree that she was just being a brat who was exposed to language beyond her years. All kids are brats at least once.
@@JadeAnnabelArt how would you know that she didn't tried the polite way already before many times? I also already tried to tell my younger sister thousands of time politely to bite dust and she still don't do it - and she's my biological sister and we're off just 2 years. At some point you're just desperate as older sibling to have some time for yourself and if they still keep pushing the boundaries and the parents don't do anything about it then there has to be your turn at some point. It's like cornering a little dog. At first everyone's laughing but if you corner him too much everyone's screaming that the dog defended himself. If you're touching a hot heater and burn yourself you also don't blame the heater for being that hot don't you? Instead you also accept it was your fault for touching the heater and learn for future not to touch it, don't you? This all hasn't to do anything with being entitled at all
My best friends have a daughter who is a leukemia survivor. She's very young, was diagnosed at age 7 (she's 9 now). The amount of times people were surprised that they still continued to reprimanded her and not spoil her rotten was sad. "But she has cancer!" Okay and? Doesn't excuse her bratty attitude. Kids need structure, no matter what
If I had heard this one or two years ago, if someone really said that to me, I would not be here. That's more than a slightly morally questionable hobby, it's downright horrid. If this person lost their jaw, their tongue, or lost their ability to speak in general, I'd be thankful. Doing that to someone could seriously damage them and push them over the edge to take their own life. 15:48
That girl from the second story has the best self restraint I’ve ever heard of. My cat is also shy and terrified of loud noises so he’ll hide under my bed too. My cat is not only my pet, he’s my child and if anyone, and I mean ANYONE, treated him like that, my foot would be so far up their ass, they’d have toes for teeth.
My cousin was born with a cleft lip, had surgeries, and was treated just like her siblings. Now she’s in her last year of nursing school and wants to be a pediatric ICU nurse to help kids like her.
I honestly sympathize with the kid struggling to do school work at home. It can take a mental toll keeping up with school work, especially when there's no one to help you, the teachers don't give a crap, put a lot on the line for you adding to the stress, and you're in the one environment that's supposed to be a safe haven for a kid. I see the anxiety it produces in my younger brother, and I wish the teachers would at least do more to help him. He has no idea what the work is even about, that's how little they care to properly teach him. (And it's mostly useless crap he'll never need to know) He also has learning disabilities to top it off. I remember being a student and it was hell for me too honestly
Plus, we all have a pretty solid idea of what we do at home and for some people it’s the one place they feel safe and comfortable. Making School a part of that was probably really hard for those kids.
For real. I only had to do two months of schoolwork before my college year ended (UK) and it was absolutely horrible. I couldn't focus since I needed the separation of school and home to get work done. I literally had to do essays in the library because I couldn't focus at home, and now my teachers needed daily check-ins where I had to produce work at home independently? I genuinely just couldn't produce anything, I would sit at my desk for hours and my brain just wouldn't do it. I think the pandemic screwed over a lot of kids who now suddenly had to adjust to working from home and couldn't keep school and home separate. You couldn't get any one on one time with teachers for help with studies, you had to teach yourself most of what you were working on, and it was a challenge to focus when you're working from a place that's a challenge to just do homework in, not ALL your schoolwork. imo Rslash was pretty heartless in that response. "Getting a real job" at least now means being out of the house and in a place designed for work, not having to adapt your whole schedule while stuck inside all the time and going through crazy hormone changes at the same time. And the kid was right, students have more to learn now than ever and anxiety levels are sky-high due to the increased pressure. (I'm like 3 years late with this but I had to add to this because I felt the exact same)
In the second story I have actually realized this and I have known for a while that staying at school is actually more healthy for the kid, at home you have too many distractions and it actually made me forget to do my work and I struggled a lot more that when I’m at school in which I don’t struggle, online school is an unhealthy learning environment
“My parents didn’t ask me if I wanted a sibling” Excuse me, what??? Since when do parents need permission from their kids to have more kids? Pretty sure my parents never got my approval! Lmao
It isn't easy having a child who's ill or requires surgery.... There's a lot of guilt as a parent, you know, "I'm supposed to protect him" "he must be hurting" etc etc. However, by treating them like glass and failing to prepare them for the next stages of life, you're just hurting them. The BEST thing you can do is love them completely WHILE teaching them to be responsible, well balanced members of society.
1rst story: Being that mean was not nessecary as the sister is not to blame for the situation. But my god do I understand op. The parents are the buttholes here imo. This kid had everything. And now it owns nothing anymore and has to share everything it owns and privacy was thrown out of the window. Hell the kid doesn't even get to enjoy time with it's friends anymore. They forced the kid to basically live with a stranger and to give up all belongings. Of course the kid is pissed. You can't just do that. You need to introduce the new sibling slowlywhile still giving the other kid some freedom. Otherwise the sister will feel like an invader.
Yeah, especially one who isn't a baby that can grow up with the child and instead is already a kid. I wouldn't know due to some tragic personal events, but from what I heard and have seen, people get annoyed with their siblings all the time but still love them and have a bond with them. If you make the older sibling immediately share everything though, and involve the new child with everything, then it's just finding the sibling annoying without a bond, which can cause an awful relationship.
She is to blame for - she knows that her older sister must share everything with her, and then she see her sister want to do one thing on her own and she want in or telling the parents. If i want to become friends with her i have to understand she needs freedom and privacy - and being 14yo she should understand this.
My oldest daughter was always majorly sick. Nearly dying at 4 years old. And again with her heart issues at 17. But she was disciplined when she got in trouble, which was not often. She was not treated any differently than the oldest or youngest. And as an adult is much better than her siblings
I’m not saying she’s right but I’m a middle child of four and having to share everything with my younger brother who doesn’t understand how much people need their own space you and you tend to say things but she still doesn’t deserve a 5/5 maybe 3/5
@@JustTryinaDuck Young children don't understand boundaries, they need to be taught. OPs parents and yours seem to be the issue. There's no excuse for making a child "share" their friends with a sibling, and parents should absolutely do their best to give their children their space when appropriate. So it's like rSlash said, OP was blaming the adopted sister for their parents' actions, and yeah being a butthole in the process
@@JustTryinaDuck I agree. Plus, it was very sudden. Having to make room in your routine for someone new is very stressful. Btw. I've noticed rSlash has a bad habit of reading things condescendingly which gives away his opinion before we even get to the end. Maybe it's just me, but that's kind of upsetting.
I love the kids that when I went to school would say the same thing, "we'll never use what we learn" now those same people as adults cry and curl up in a corner around tax Time 😂😂😂
Yeah my child would have been grounded for the rest of her life for that kinda stuff. That's next level bs. You never take anything from a dead person's coffin or period
Yeah, I’m a only child too and I understand how cool it is but if my parents ever showed up with a little brother or sister I would be really happy to have someone to always keep me company, that I can play with and see them grow up. Granted I might be biased cause I actually ALWAYS wanted a baby sibling since I was little but my parents say they don’t have enough money to sustain two kids
To be fair, being an only child is awesome buuuut.... I mean, when you openly wish a parentless kid to be homeless, familyless and probably die on the streets due to the previous two reasons, it gets pretty fucked up.
@@WolfyFancyLads it might be wrong in both sides actually, the parent didn't get the kid prepared, it's like suddenly taking away half his stuff and rip his personal time off (I looked at the story, the (other) kid intruded the personal time if op, and threatened op to let her in). Any kid would be angry at that，mostly the parents fault though
@@WolfyFancyLads Woah, they never said they wanted the kid to die! The older sibling was angry and has probably told the kid to butt out of their time with their friends. If its true the parents just brought home a child, made the older kid share their bedroom (other people say the older is 15 and the younger is 14 and even if they are the same age that will be illegal soon (kids 15+ cant share rooms, dont know the exact law and it may just be UK bound but still). They went from being on top of the world to the bottom of the dirt pile. Its the parents fault for not properly including their child into the discussion of adopting another child. Yes how the child responded was wrong and they are being a butt hole but i cant understand why
Just be civil like "hey mum this is making me uncomfortable please let me and my sister bond at our own pace," what OP did was completely uncalled for.
@@soobinsleftdimple5019 I think OP has said before that she wanted to be with her friends on her own and the mother tried to guilt-trip her, the comments she made on being expected to love her new sister immediately sound pretty bitter.
@@russianman6677 I extrapolated from 1:04. That's why I say I think, Because she says that "I can't just start feeling close to her" (makes me think of guilt-trip) and she's "forced to involve her in all her plans." Plus, her adopted sister thought that if she tattled to their parents, OP would have to let her do the challenge with her. That doesn't sound like they accept a "I want to do this on my own".
The stealing from the dead girl one, I honestly expected some 4 year old who didn’t understand, or for the thief to at least come forward when the aunt and uncle asked and apologize.
As an adopted child the first story physically made me tense. Thats what every adopted child doesn’t want to hear but always feels is true. Op is an ass and really doesn’t get that the sibling was probably scared to be alone and feel like they have no one to feel comfortable with. I might be projecting but my therapists say that’s how most adopted kids feel
There's normal entitled kids, then there's advanced entitled kids: stealing from the corpse of a teenage girl
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The last one is just horrible, hearing that when you’re depressed or anxious can be the last straw and then the person who said it could be the reason of someone taking their life.
You sadly see it alot online. People with no care about the mental health of others. I mean, I get people lie about conditions, but the ones who don't deserve better than some asshat saying shit like that or being like "Oh! yOu NoT sUfFeRiNg! YoU'rE lYiNg!"
The sad thing is that I’ve had hundreds of people tell me similar things. I’ve had people even encourage me to end my life after I said I was too depressed to live. The amount of people who are like that in this world Is absolutely sickening
The point of comforting them is to lift them from their lowest,not lift them back up and then push them back to where they just were! If someone took their life because of what he's doing,i do hope he felt really,really bad about it. Depression or anxiety,basically any mental health issues aren't something to toy around or make a hobby of. Depression is an emotion,so by insulting them after lifting them up, you're causing them even more depression because you're adding even more suicidal thoughts onto their already existing ones, technically encouraging someone to take their own life.
to make it short,Mental Health should be treated seriously and not be something someone can toy around with,nor should it be made someone's hobby.Do NOT toy around with someone's emotions,for if they take their life because of you,then you'll have [stained ketchup] in your hands forever...
It literally sounds like something someone with borderline personality disorder would do.
I feel like that one was probably a joke? I mean why would you say that to people online and ask if it's bad? Not sure, but lots of red flags to me. I know people irl are like this, but I feel like they would have written something more like yall need to get over it because depression just you being lazy or something like that.
That first story: The parents probably need to get some family counseling for that kid and set some boundaries with BOTH kids.
The story with the parents not disciplining their kid: I work in the legal system. You know what happens to kids who are spoiled? They end up criminals.
The one star review: This is part of a movement of kids on the Apple store to get their education apps taken down. They leave one star reviews in hopes the Apple store will automatically remove it so they don't have to go to school.
Edit: Looked up the first story: OP is 15 and sister is 14. OP is a butthole but the parents are worse. They're teenagers, not five and four. Parents should definitely deal with that better, but sounds like they can't be bothered and just expect the kids to magically get along.
(It's probably a troll)
I bet spoiled kids surgeries got botched
Honestly, I think that kids should be given their own space to spend their time in.
I think in the first story the OP is only a buttwhole for how he/she responded to their sister, other than that its completely understandable that the op would react in a negative way, especially if they were an only child for 15 years. Image growing up and always having your parents attention, having your own space, having your own friends. To one day have to share it all with someone you don't even know. That can be hard. Although the way he/she spoke to their sister was completely uncalled for, it makes a lot of since that being at age 15, they would lash out like that.
That is what I was thinking
Kudos to the parents of the kid who stole the ipod. Bringing the kid back to face the family took a lot of courage. They lived up to their values.
As a depressed person I would say that the last one made me feel sick to my stomach. Imagine being like that. That is such a horrible thing to do and I wish that nobody did something bad to themselves after hearing that from such a stupid person.
Cheers I'll drink to that
I developed depression in high school, and reading that disturbed me on such a deep emotional level that I actually became kind of numb. I feel like I short circuited.
That would feel HORRIBLE if someone ever did that to me, I would totally break down
I wish you the best
For the snot that posted about how he interacts with someone when they talk about depression and anxiety let me tell you there's a reason for the depression and anxiety and I have lost friends because of little snots like you who thought it was funny to do that. There are things that people have been through that you can not even imagine, I hate to be so harsh but you may have blood on your hands and it just shows what an insecure jerkoff you are that you have to go so low as to kick an already down individual and can't even keep the post up because you know you're wrong and you can't handle people telling you, so here's your wake up call don't be a jerk
"Am i a jerk for luring someone into a false sense of security, irreperably damaging their self esteem, and then laughing about how hurt they look?"
No, of course not!
Nope
Dream Roth, why is this even a question?
Every r/amitheasshole post in a nutshell
No, why would you be?
“please don’t hurt me”
That kid should be happy they didn’t murder him right then and there.
Thou shall pay for his sins
I would have killed him if he do that to me
*American Gun song intensifies*
When I read they kicked him in the gut as hard as she could I imagined a ssbu KO
@Rudra Patel I love your pfp
In my head I'm watching a scene of the last kid getting hit in the face and start to cry, only for the attacker, after a good chuckle, to respond with:
"Why are you crying? I don't really see the issue, this is just a fun hobby that is slightly morally questionable."
"Oh, Why are you crying? I Only hit you with a bat ten times on the head with you on the floor bleeding, Its just a little hobby for me to laugh at Pain, YOURS specifically"
I wish i could say that to a brat
Cheers I'll drink to that bro
""""Slightly morally questionable""""
I was gonna make a snarky comment but no I'm just. I have a headache from hearing that.
Then they deleted their acc? Fucking pathethic. They can't even handle if thrmselves
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@@phantom_wolf5274 Nice.
"Slightly morally questionable"? Ex-fucking-scuse me!? That's a bloody understatement, I've said it before and I'll say it again, I don't wish it often on people, but that kid really needs to step on a lego, thumbtack, hit his knee and step on a landmine at the same time
@@wherethespitfiredare9794 Step on a lego? That's child's play. Have him step on a metal d4 die (those look like 3-sided pyramids)
The first one is a psychological thing: kids think that they adopted a kid to replace them or because they aren’t good enough. So it not unreasonable for op to feel like this from a psychological POV but also fucked up
Ok it’s more than expected if you have any siblings you’ll know the love for them a love only family can give them having this stranger be treated as one of your own, strip your privacy and get involved in EVERYTHING from the get go? I prolly woulda punched her
@@thescottishgiant855 fume off at the parents, then.
@@thescottishgiant855 agreed
@@thescottishgiant855 me too since basically he has to include her if she wants to be included
Op wrote that so he's got a chance to atleast be heard and NOT get backlash, but we still know anyways..
Ok, the first story, I HAVE to point something out here; It's really unhealthy for parents to force their kids to do EVERYTHING together. Biological, adopted, age gap, none of that matters. Both of these kids should be taught that they can and should do things on their own AS WELL as bond with each other. It's not healthy for either kid to be taught that they must get along and do everything together, it'll have a negative effect on their independency and on their relationship. So, yes, the OP is definitely being a brat, but I do think the parents may have done some bad things as well. OP literally thinks they adopted their sister because OP wasn't good enough. Clearly, something is off here.
I have a feeling that the OP made some things up. I doubt the parents force them to do every single thing together, they just want OP's sister to feel included, but OP pushes them away and takes their anger out on her.
She probably already doesn't feel like she fits in, but just to basically be told that and that your asshole sibling hates you for something you have no control over must be really sad.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 And if what OP said is true (heavily doubt it), this kid just popped up suddenly as adopted. I'll bet the kid is the daughter of a distant relative or family friends who died. More likely is that the parents really did tell OP that they were adopting this girl and OP is just such a selfish, disgusting mean girl that she is really just making sh-t up to try to gain sympathy from the readers.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 She is forced to share her friends and property with her "sister". Nobody here wants to blame the actual siter i guess, but the parents are doing something heavily wrong, OP doesn't really. See, i don't have any friends, and i would need at least one to be happy. She has friends, and she is supposed to share them with somebody Who she doesn't even know that good? She is forced to share things that she earned herself or maybe got as a treat or something, with some random girl that her parents picked up somewhere. I know how shit like this feels, ive been through such shit too. Op is not really entitled, because If her parents want a second kid, they should look that she gets her own fucking stuff, and not just be taught to be entitled to everything that others in her surrounding possess. The sister should make her own friends, who may even be more age appropriate. Now think about it, if someday your parents took home a random stranger and told you to give them all your stuff, would you find that fair?
I agree. And in my opinion, if OP knows how to write on reddit, he is definetly over 10 years old and at that age maybe the parents should have asked if he wanted a sibling. When you have a sibling a little older or yunger than you, you can be happy or just accept it but nothing will stop you from thinking that maybe your life would have been bettere without one; When you are an only child, you're probably happy or you hate it and sometimes you wonder if having a sibling is a good experience; BUT if a yunger sibling pops out of nowhere after years of you being an only child (8 or more years of difference), I can see that most people (me included) woldn't like it. That doesn't change that Op is a spoiled kid in this story: you shouldn't complaine with your sister and insult her, but you sould defenetly tell your parente that you don't like having a sibling and they made a mistake.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 ok you sold me fuck the person saying the first story
Stealing from the dead is a huge sin that earns you a ticket for hell
@Johnathan Eckerman yeah im with them il get the shotgun
@@coin9254 nah thats nothin, lets get the army
@@coin9254 lets go!
Id have to buy my own coffin if I did that
Maybe breaking some fingers accidentally (of course) 😀😃😄
Damn! That EK who stole from the funeral got off EASY!!! My dad once grounded me, for SIX MONTHS, for lying about not having homework 1 night when I DID have homework. That punishment was made even harder because he took my TV, my vhs player (yes I'm that old) and my stereo (this was before mobile phones too) I wasn't allowed to call anyone on the house phone unless it was only for school, like paired up assignments etc etc. But that was it. Get up and dressed, walk to the bus, don't talk to anyone, yeah like that happened, mum said that was too far and told me to ignore him, go to school, get the bus home, pick up my little brother and walk home not talking to anyone (again, mum said talk its fine). The only things he left in my room were my bed, my desk, my clothes and my school stuff. He took EVERYTHING else, games, books, my keyboard (musical 1 lol). It SUCKED!!! When him and mum split up and it turned out he'd been cheating for FOUR YEARS, I was LIVID!!! Cos what do you do a lot when you cheat? You LIE!!!!
So if I'd have stolen something from a dead person, I think my dad might have either turned me over to the police or maybe buried me under the patio or something. 11 months grounded for stealing from a coffin seems like kind of a light punishment, or maybe my perspective is skewed because of how harsh my dads punishments were. Is that a harsh punishment? Mine and/or the EKs? I'd love to hear your thoughts people....
yeah, your dad gave you a severely harsh punishment. I get taking away some stuff (lying about homework can turn into a bad habit) but even most stuff in your room like books and keyboard, as well as not talking is disproportionate. About EK, I think the punishment is just, the parents probably took away stuff and will never buy him an ipod now, but there is not much else to do for a kid that age
The first story, I’m not sure how old the kid is but it seems he needs some therapy. I think he feels like his parents don’t think he’s good enough and he’s taking that out on his sister. He’s not entitled, just confused and angry and doesn’t know how to cope.
THIS
Or she
She* her*
Finally someone with a brain
I mean he/she could still be entitled while also being confused ect. I agree that they need therapy and to start being honest with their parents. It sounds like they don't have alot of compassion for their sister and what they did was a buthile move.
In regards to that last post: as someone who has been dealing with depression, yes, that is absolutely wrong. The last thing I need to hear when my depression gets the best of me is validation for the types of things the self loathing part of me is already mentally screaming at myself.
I agree. I already feel like I’m not worth living as I always have been nothing but a problem for my loved ones. If I were to see that post during my most vulnerable time, I might go through with it.
Absolutely. I’m suffering from issues with self-hatred and if I heard this I might actually end it. I personally hope they get the shit beat out of them
I hope that jerk didn’t get someone killed
1st one: op needs a serious talk with their parents, and get their feelings out in the open.
Yes, they're being an arse... but the resentment they feel needs to be addressed and dealt with, and not just by her simply "being nicer".
The op is a 15 year old male and he is being forced to share a room with a 14 year old female (making kids of opposite sexes over the age of 13 share a room is illegal in many places) and I imagine he is really frustrated due to the lack of privacy he has
She is also an ass by demanding to be included, else she'd tell on him.
And the way he continuously said he's "forced to involve her in everything" and "share friends" makes me think the parents don't want the adopted daughter left alone for some reason. If he's a teenager, then his attitude about how the parents never asked for his perspective on getting a sibling is pretty reasonable. He's more mature, and would feel like his voice matters more than when he was a little kid
i literally had a panic attack hearing about the cat one. my cousin is also really rough with animals, (we have 6 cats, 2 hamsters, 1 gecko, and 1 snake) and so i always get really scared when he is getting near any of them. that broke my heart but i’m glad the poor kitten is okay...
When he was about 4 or 5 my cousin almost drowned my guinea pig by pressing her underwater because he wanted to find out if she could swim and dive because in my language guinea pigs are called sea pigs. Since then i do not trust young kids around pets unsuperviced.
I was so relieved to see that EK and CG’s mom wasn’t entitled
The first one gives me happiness even more
Same
Begone gachatard
Did CG mean Creepy Girl or something? Idk I just need a answer.
@@gamingcreeper4874 creepy guy
The last story: Oh, now we know possibly a quarter of the leading causes of suicides per year.
I know right! Who the living hel* does that. I had suicidal friends, and even a wrong or uneven tone in your voice can set them off in ways you can’t (or can) imagine.
@@poofy3202 ok i know this is serious situation and all.....but why did you censored hell
@@poofy3202 dont piss off somebody who feels like they have nothing to lose.
i am suicidal and someone did this to me.
@@joeyw.8177 Aww I’m so sorry. It’s been a year & I now have seen your comment. I hope you’re feeling better. I was suicidal twice so I can understand where you are coming from.
Lmao "I stole someone's phone to pay for cancer that you don't have, and they kicked me" Is the quote that EK definitely said to his mother.
When you said that EK dragged poor little charcoal by the tail. I literally had a physical reaction, like my chest got properly tight. That poor kitten didn't deserve anything but caring love and affection
That last one. Yikes. That's actually sick. If someone did something like that to me during one of my depressive episodes, idk what it would do to me...
I fear that if somebody tried that on me I may respond violently towards their face
I would either ignore it (really good at that due to stuff) or just try to distract myself if I can't handle it.. that's how I got over my depression.
The first one straight up sounds like a 9 year old wrote this
Ikr lmao
Lol true
I'd suggest that OP is actually mid to late teens, but acts like a nine year old.
Yea they are a bratty spoiled bitchy teenager.
Ian Macfarlane exactly.
As someone who was going through depression when I was only 12/13, the last bit makes me REALLY angry, because, coming from a depression victim, that actually thought about SUICIDE on more than one occasion, I can first hand say that words like this have a HUGE impact
That first story, I kinda get them.
I don't know if you ever had a little sibling or something. But if you had, it would be easier to understand.
My parents never spoke to me about having a little sibling, so I was surprised why I suddenly had this small loud human next to me. Yes, the OP was rude, but everyone deals with their problems differently. Just because they are siblings, doesn't mean they have to share literally EVERYTHING. Especially friends, making friends isn't that easy nor is it difficult. It's depending on YOU, you can't just wait there and expect someone to come up to you and be your friend. Thats not how it works.
Now the OP snapped from what I can tell, tbh, I would do that too, its just getting annoying ya know? When you have this clingy kid following you and basically interfering with everything you do, and expecting you don't do the same back. No hate on the video, just how I see things.
You shouldn't have to share everything with a sibling. especially a room. Yes, the OP was the a**hole. That doesn't mean the parents should force the kids to spend all their time together. Let them have their own friend groups.
I have a feeling being a dramatic teen myself that OP was over exaggerating I highly doubt they were actually made to do everything together and it was more like ' OP can you let you sister come with you every now and then so you can bond" and the room who knows maybe they don't have another room , you can't just assume they have free rooms available . Lots of siblings have to share when in smaller homes
@@soobinsleftdimple5019 If OP's parents had been "can your sister come with you every now", the adopted sister wouldn't have threatened OP saying that if she didn't let her join, she'd tell the parents.
@@blanca6434 even so I still have feeling things were over told
I’m the oldest of five. I absolutely had to share everything, as my parents had a three bedroom home. I shared a room with my sisters. My sisters got my hand me downs. You know what? It didn’t kill us. OP is spoiled af.
@@mindyschocolate That is a foolish comparison. You know full well that you had years upon years to slowly get used to your siblings, and can bond over shared memories. These two teens were abruptly thrown together. People don't instantly bond, but the parents expect them to magically get along just like that. The parents' pushy ways only serve to sabotage what would otherwise be a gradual adjustment, to the point of unwittingly setting up the adopted girl as some kind of villain.
When he dragged the kitten by it's tail I wanted to slap that kid so bad I almost started crying. IT'S A KITTEN!
Edit: well I would've done more than just slap tbh
I would have knocked himout lol
Mama cat has arrived
Your pfp fits perfectly with this comment 😂
@@shaharzad8492 i would have killed him lol like really i have a small cat very hella cute my cousin pulled his tail he was so rough with it i kinda almost beat him till he started bleeding his nose bleeding thank god my parents understanded he now doesnt come he is an EK
AND BY THE TAIL, FOR GODS SAKE THE TAIL IS LIKE AN EXTENSION OF THE SPINE THAT COULD HAVE GONE SO BAD
I would have pulled by the hair. Hard. And asked how he felt.
if i saw that little prat dragging my cat out by the tail i'd stamp on him in a heartbeat consequence be damned
The story of OP’s cousin makes me so sad because my dad died not too long ago. We didn’t put anything in his casket, but if we did and someone stole something, I would’ve killed everyone in the funeral home just to get that certain thing back. I hope the family’s doing ok 💚❤
"Wholesome" update for the first story, OP wrote with the same account (it was a throwaway account and RSLash gave the name of the person which crossposted not OP), well OP wrote in r/relationship how to mend ways with her sister, showing she saw she was bad in that situation. And also the parents suck in the story who thinks it's okay to not get a 15 years old kid involved in an adoption procedure
I feel bad for OP and her sister in the first story. That girl didn't deserve to be placed in a family where the other sibling would be forced into resentment due to having no escape or privacy. Like I don't remember how old I was but when I was little and in kindercare still, i remember my dad had a girlfriend with a daughter who would always follow me whenever she was at the house and would never leave me alone. I just wanted to be able to cry without being seen as I missed my mom and wanted to go home at that point but I couldn't even do that without her following me. So even at that age I wanted privacy without even knowing the word yet let alone how much I would've wanted it at 15. That poor girl wants to be included so bad that she threatened to tell on OP if she wasn't allowed to do so. She shouldn't even be in that situation. She should've been adopted by a family where everybody wants her and she had her own stuff and space. OP is just going to resent her more and more as long as they aren't given any escape, not even with friends. OP's only hope at this rate would be to get a boyfriend and hang with him all the time so the little sister cant tag along and can start making friends with people who don't even want her there and will probably never give her a chance as long as they are forced. That or get on a sports team that she isnt on and is hopefully good enough to travel so OP can finally have time with her friends without her little sister.
The way I view the first story, let's imagine this family owns a cat since it was a kitten, and then the family decides to adopt a new little kitten, and they don't even make any preparations for the two cats to make sure their first time meeting face to face would go smoothly like so many adoption shelters would always give out, the family just assumed the two cats will be happy to meet on the first day, pretty much like the 'love at first sight' myth, except when the two cats finally meet, the older cat is upset that this new kitten has suddenly arrived and is expected to get along with it and share all its' toys and properties, while the little kitten is still playful and curious and wants to play with their new cat friend. So, the older cat is just hissing and growling at the poor little kitten whenever it sees the kitten and especially whenever the kitten tries to play with the older cat and share the older cat's food. The older cat even starts to think that the family doesn't love it anymore and prefers the kitten over the cat and that they've replaced the older cat with the little kitten. This is basically OP's situation here, OP is the older cat, her new sister is the little kitten and the parents are the family who owns the cats. Sure, OP is acting like an AH, but can you blame her for dealing with a new sister who suddenly shows up with no warning and her parents just expecting her to now having to share everything with her new sister right away? Pretty much ESH, except for the little sister, which I really do feel sorry for.
4:16 I don't know what bothers me more. The fact that this is an entitled kid, or the fact that this whole paragraph has only 4 periods. Its basically a run on sentence!
That entitled kid who pulled the cat by its tail would've gotten a riding crop over the head in our house.
Bro, the parents made that kid a literal monster because he had lip surgery! I was born with tricuspid heart and had to go through three longer that 10 hours heart surgeries as a kid and my parents raised me so that I never had a tantrum. What is wrong with parents who do this? I mean, if your kid has a special condition, you should help him cope with it, not make him a brat. Those parents failed at parenting!
I'm glad EK's mom didn't try to make excuses for the little monster. If anyone had done that to any of MY animals, I'd have slapped them so hard they would have seen every star in the entire universe dancing around their head. 😠👎🏻
Yeah, I would have punched the kid the second I saw that. WTF
if I ever saw her do that and I was her parent,
*I didn't bring her into this world, but ima take you out real quick*
If they did that to my gerbils they'd get a heart transplant except they aint getting a new heart
If I was OP in that Charcoal story, I'd literally have shouted "You may have been born with a cleft lip, but if you don't stop terrorising my cat, you're gonna wish you had the cleft instead of what I'll give you.". Granted this may result in severe punishment but if it gets that shithead away from a scared kitten, then so be it
I would've just reclefted his lip.....
I'll leave it up to others to figure out how.
@@WolfyFancyLads agreed I would of just punched the cleft right back in him.... kids like that if the parents won't teach em someone has to.
I have lizards and a 15-year-old fat Chihuahua nobody fucks with either of those but they get the punching when I had snakes some little shit tried to kill one of them and because there was only a three year age difference me being ten them being seven I threw them because I didn’t want my snake getting killed
d,you mean murder him
@@fivesARC--5555 you want to murder a kid over a cat?
Ek"home is the only place kids relieve stress"
Me"ever heard of the school bathroom?"
The bathroom of my school don't have toilet paper most of the time don't have soup what do you expect? I live on Israel and is still shit
But they ain’t clean ever unless you go to a private school
The kid that had a problem with home learning had one point that was mildly right. What was right, was that most of what we learn in school we actually don't use.
About 80% of what we children learn in schools we don't actually use.
SISTERS: Sounds like Entitled PARENTS to me, not making their child part of the process yet expecting her to adapt at the drop of a hat - sorry, that's not how these things work.
Yeah but still not cool to say what she said the adoptive sister wasnt mean she just wanted to get along what she said could really pull on somebodies heartstring but yeah shouldve been introduced slowly
Not only adapt, but share all their stuff and friends.
That's grounds for a daily sibling ass whoopin in my opinion.
Umm thats how siblings work
@@himdavila8722 No, it's not. A first child at least has 9 months to get used to the idea that they will have a sibling. Either you're a family member and talk together - especially about such large matters - or you are a possession and there is no need to consider your thoughts or feelings.
yes! For me it'ß the same thing but with a cousin.
I get that that person would be annoyed by having a new sister out of no where and having to share everything is dumb but OP was very harsh on that girl
The whole time you're telling the story about the iPod I was holding my breath the entire time praying to the powers that be that this was NOT going to leak into an entitled parents story... Glad it didnt.
The first kid with the adopted sister is clearly entitled, yet I can sort of see the point of view.
I myself am an only child, and if my parents had suddenly adopted another child without telling me and expected me to completely change the life I had gotten used because of their parenting, I would be bitter too.
However, this is from the perspective of OP, so there may be information we’re not privy to, and what OP said was genuinely horrible. Lying to the parents didn’t help neither. I think there’s a huge lack communication in that family from the sounds of it, and they all need to talk. If OP is this bratty and the parents are seemingly unwilling to tell OP when changes to the family are happening, there are deeper problems in this family than OP’s attitude.
As rSlash said, don't blame the sister for the parents' being shitty. That's really the bad part, the kid is the victim here, first abandoned/orphaned, then stuck with a sibling who hates them and parents who don't try to mediate, and now being yelled at for being adopted. I'm sure she wouldn't have picked you as a sibling either, OP
@@Avistew trueeeeee, if i was OP, i would be friends with her cuz shes just one year young than me. we might have our own privacy but i will make her feel home and comfy enough for her to share her sorrows or secrets with me. i have a bro 7 years older than me, so i feel lonely haha
I was an only child until I was about 7, my mom had another kid and I honestly resented my sister for the longest time because it felt like my mom was always coddling her. 20 years later it honestly hasn't changed. My family used to care little for my sister because of who the father was (he was a criminal and a scumbag) and they loved me to bits, but now it's reversed and I honestly feel like my family cares little for me because I didn't pop out kids first chance I got.
I'm bitter about it but I do care about my sister, it's not her fault for why my family treats me so poorly these days.
Although the insults by OP were directed at the wrong person, I think I would react basically the same, if not more violently, since OP had this anger bottled up inside of her for some time. It was just a matter of time before the outburst happened. As for the parents, yeah they've really got braincells lacking. I'd give OP 1/5 on this because it isn't her fault she is feeling this way, its mostly her parents'.
To be fair the kid shouldn’t be forced to constantly play with his adoptive sister. He should get privacy and at least have been told that it was happening. It’s a huge change for him too and he obviously feels like his parents thought he was a failure and therefore found a new kid.
The first story is from a 15 year old girl not a dude
Starixe okay and
@@starixe9893 doesn't effect it. those would be that kids feelings still.
yea kids can overthink things like that and the parents honestly shouldve consulted her/told her first instead of just bringing home a kid. OP didnt know the other kid and still had to share friends, plans and rooms. if anyone disagrees feel free to reply i also want to put you in a situation, your hanging out with your friends getting ready for a ladies night out and then your sister (whom you live with and share a room with) tags along and also tag along with every other plans you make, itll get annoying because you cant even spend time with your friends
THIS
That person complaning about classes at home seriously when I was in school. I would have much preferred home classes. How could they think that's more stressful
For the adopted sister one, the thing is the parents should have respected their wishes of not wanting a sibling, and talked with them why and what they could do to make sure op was comfortable with the adoption before going through with it. Instead, they completely ignored op not wanting a sibling right away, and thus put a child into the family that was guaranteed to make at least one family member unhappy.
That first story, op their parents didn’t ask them if they wanted a sibling and that they just had to deal with it now, but that’s how all, not just adopted sibling are.
True, but I can understand the perspective. Kids can be brats about a newborn, but they know they are part of the family. It’s like adopting a pet. A good shelter will make you bring the household in for a “play date” to see if the pet is compatible with everyone. Adopting a child without involving all the family is short-sighted and selfish. It sounds to me that the parents acted without preparing the kid for the change and how it would affect him/her.
@@qdllc i agree i honestly blame the parents for not preparing the kid. Sounds like they could use some family therapy
Kod in firat story still is a bh. But prob cause parents did something "wrong" in their parenting. Hope kid sees how they are unfair to the adopted sister when they grow up and dont end up an entitled humanbeeing.
I sure hope they get a good reality check instead of making their adopted siblings life hell.
I dont know where you come from.
But in my Country Woman are about 9 Months pregnant and in those 9 Months older siblings, (who arent toddlers themselve) bond in those 9 months the same way Fathers and Grandparents bond with the unborn.
touching the belly. Having talks about the coming sibling. Talks about sharing rooms etc.
So ... interesting to hear that where you are from Pregnant woman go into hiding to come back with an Baby.
As a single child I understand why the first guy feels how he feels. Your whole life parents give you their full love, treat you like their child (duh) and suddenly you are forced without a warning to turn everything upside down, you lose your privacy/foothold and your parents, in your child mindset, turned against you forcing you do things against your will. That would make angry even grown ups.
I would say the biggest arseholes are the parent in this case (especially if it's true they didn't even tell OP before the HUGE family change) and didn't prepared him for complete life(style) change. And the comment about getting back to biological family? Ugly, unnecessary, uncalled for but understandable reaction from a child - he definitely feels like he is losing his family.
yeah, i’d say everyone sucks except the adopted sister. the parents more so than OP, though.
I don't blame OP I would have felt the same way
yes. and even more so if OP isn't allowed to have anything of their own anymore.
Agreed! It seems like OP wasn't ever considered when the parents were thinking about adopting. As OP said, they never mentioned it and all of a sudden a new sibling comes. The parents also seem to be forcing a relationship out of them, immediately forcing them into one room without knowing each other and obligating OP to take their new sibling in as a part of the already established friend group.
Sure, OP is an ass but considering the possible young age and the circumstances, seems like they have a right to be upset, not at the sibling, rather at the parents.
I doubt it was a true story
As someone who had loads of surgeries early in life, I can definitely understand/sympathise with entitled kid and his parents. I understand why they spoil him, he’s been through hell, multiple surgeries at a young age is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone, it’s extremely traumatic, however, no matter what your child has gone through, you can’t just treat them like a perfect Angel who can do no wrong, and never discipline them. You need to set boundaries, otherwise they’ll just grow up to be crappy people, which I fear that the entitled kid will become if his parents aren’t careful.
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Ya boy made it!
First story: ESH Why didn’t the parents involve her when they planned to adopt? And why do they leave it to the children to solve their problems? If you don’t want to parent your children and have some part in their life, at least don’t adopt extra kids!
idk if i'd say esh bc that's implying the adopted sister is being an ah.
@@julesmikell4198 E(except adopted sister)SH, maybe? 🤔
@@lexalina132 I can accept E(EAS)SH
But we don't know, maybe the adoption sister is also entitled?
VeranaXS doesn’t sound like it
In the last one, I thought he’ll say something like “I do it so they get encouraged to prove me wrong and then they’ll actually get themselves better, like a reverse psychology!” as my dad used to do it with me (but obviously not with the things like depression). Still completely fucked up but thought that he meant well. But then when he flat-out said he ENJOYS IT?! Bro that’s some sadistic sociopath material
To the adopted girl. I hope she gets a lot of love and to feel like she is part of the family.
The best thing is that if they act as one. If you cheer on someone then you get to rise up with them, it's your victory too. If they act as a team then they both win.
I hope the older one does this. I hope she comes around. She still gets it all but as a team.
I was some what adopted, my parents are divorced. I just wanted to feel safe and loved.
Yeah
Taking "You'll have to it from my cold, head hands!" to a new level.
First story: ESH except the adopted child, OP is literally being FORCED to do things with the adopted sister instead of letting the adopted kid integrate naturally, but the adopted kid doesn't have much to do but do what she's told in hopes it works out (I've not been in the adoption system so I'm giving the adopted kid a tentative pass on trying to force interaction because she might not have any other idea how to get closer to OP since the parents are so intent on it). OP gets 3/5 from me because they're a kid, they don't really know how to deal with it, and now the parents are trying to shove this random kid OP has no connection with into every facet of OP's life without giving time to adjust, but that doesn't excuse the outburst imo.
10 to 1 that she raised issues through the process and her parents just said it's teething issues. She's def a butthole for saying it
-Except they aren't a kid. They're literally 15 years old, and the adoptive sister is 14. He should at least understand that certain people need to go to a new family for home life reasons, and can't just yell at them to "F off."
Also the parents are at fault, but it's not like OP tried to have a normal relationship with her, even if he was against it. He's been spoiled heavily, and because he's not in the spotlight he hates the other child.
But yeah, you're pretty right here, but OP might not be as innocent as you think.
@@lemonarty 15 and 14 are still children, if you disagre you are too. I'm 17 and still consoder myself a kid, id be just as pissed if my parents pulled that.
15 is still well old enough to comprehend the fact that that's not something you say to another person. You could consider the possibility that they're too young to understand their words if they're 12, MAYBE 13 and below. But a 15 year old shouldn't be saying that to their sibling, regardless of how rocky their relationship with them is. You can side with some of the 15 year old's arguments if you wish, but if you truly don't see anything wrong with that behavior then you should probably take some time to evaluate why you agree with it.
@@seeker4924 dude 15 is the worst possible time for her parents to do stupid stuff like this
She is old enough to know what is wrong to say but imagine the stress of having absolutely no privacy after 15 years of being a only child
I can't even imagine how much stress the girl went through
And to add to that the adopted sister doesn't seem all that innocent, she is also old enough to understand her new sibling dislikes having her around all the time but she still tries to get involved all the time
“Don’t judge based on the title” then proceeds to tell a story worse than the title. Yikes
so the EK was right. You should judge the kid even more
They were just so used to being an only child that they feel like they're being robbed when they have to share with someone else.
Well He was right, kinda.
It's probably a troll
@@rubenweber6742 Not really - in another post they said she is 15. Just bringing another 14yo girl into your family - into your room - without asking or at least explaining is not fair. Then to force her to include her into everything is cruel. "Hey daughter - we love you very much - so we thought to show you how much we love you, we are getting you a new sister and forcing you to be with her 24/7 until you can move out. Btw - you have to share everything with her - no personal space anymore - no secrets because you have to let her use your electronics to."
The good part for the parent - if the 15yo has a bf - she can't do anything because her sister is always with her.
If her friends don't like the "new" sister, she will maybe lose all her friends. Yes, yes - you are correct - her parents did everything right /s
My family actually had a slightly similar experience at my grandpa's funeral. My grandpa died of cancer and was deeply loved by everyone. He was one of those 'never meet a stranger' types and helped everyone. When he died my mom put in his breast pocket his comb and pocket knife, two things he always carried. When she went back up to the casket his favorite knife was missing she was devastated! And the culprit who was an aunt of mine was berated and kicked out. I don't know if the knife was returned but it really made all of us disgusted and outraged and still does.
12:20
*Rotary Organ sound*
"She looks so peaceful"
"Yeah, but wasn't she wearing a hat?"
For the kid being spoiled because he had surgeries early in his life: well, I had my first surgery at 7 days old. And 2 more, the last at about 3 years. I also am the lastborn of 3 children, with 14/17 years to my siblings. I may have gotten almost everything I wanted, but my parents still teached me manners and TO NOT TO FUCKING HURT ANIMALS.
I had an extra stomach lining so I have a big scar on my stomach.
I was about 1month old and had to have surgery.
I had pneumonia as a baby. My parents still taught me to be gentle on animals and respect the animals choice
Especially NOT a 3 MONTH old KITTEN
Me looking at the title: a kid stole from *who* , now ?
Definitely a fortnite player
Hey, better than me. I glanced over the title, thought it said "Spoiled Brat steals CORPSE from a funeral".
TheBritishWolf 😂
They stole from me. I was the corpse I can confirm that everyone at the funeral was very scared. Idk why it’s not like I came back from the dead to stop some kid from stealing from me or anything.. heh heh nope. Not mee...
What is the going rate that OP is throwing a massive bitch fit because they couldn't play some FORTNITE
I don't see what's so bad about the first one. I wouldn't want some random person to suddenly plop into my life, live in my house, sleep in my bedroom, become my parents favourite, have to do everything i do and be forced to love them even though I do t even know them either. I would hate that, that would only make me resent my parents and never want to speak to them again because that was basically them telling their only child they werent good enough, how would you feel having a constant reminder that your own parents font love you? I'd probably go over *that* edge.
Dude, for the story with the kitten Charcoal, I got really pissed. I currently have 23 cats, and if anyone does anything that could harm any one of my precious baby’s, then they are NOT welcome in my home. I don’t care if it’s a family member. Now, I get that EK was very young so it’s fair that he didn’t know how to handle animals, and it isn’t his fault that his parents didn’t raise him right, but to me, harming or worse to an animal is no different than doing the same to a human
Me (I have depression and autism) at 15:02 : I'd like to meet this person (:
Me at 15:18 : I'd REALLY like to meet this person ):
I hope this person gets depression and realises what a ahole he/she was
Depression and autism gang
Autistic over here and with a sister with depression. We can tag team her.
I have autism but not depression can i still join the club
Dont worry guys,I'll bring the knives
The spoiled trees are cut down, why do you think we're all nice?
😂
@@0jacoj They trip you up with their roots and take up space.
A Tree understood
Can I have apple lol
@@thewriteinpresident um... I think you're on the wrong video and it's spelled "Exodus" not "Exodice".
The cat one: I- I can't express how pissed I am. Pulling cats by their tail is basically lifting and dragging around an infant by their ears. It's goddamn painful and it's going to traumatize the poor thing. Mistreating cats, mistreating beings is a sin I can definitely say is from the depths of hell.
The EK story really got me, i respect op for not kicking the little turd's stuffing out, if an EK tried to steal my phone, the EK would already be dead
In 2015, my best friend passed away he was in his early 20's. When we went to his viewing, a lot of his family put important jewelry and stuff like that, someone stole one of the pieces and the whole viewing got shut down.. Some kid we went to school with who was a drug addict stole it.. Thankfully they got it back.
Erin S what happened thit he get grounded for 5 years or something?
@@noahgruithuijzen3223 at 25 and being addicted to meth, his parents were no longer around. 😉
"They gave birth to The most bratty kids"
Sorry, Kids aren't born brats they're being raised as brats and that's the parents fault 😁
I really wouldn't put it that way. I agree that kids are very impressionable and they become what they are raised as (at least most of the time), but I would definitely not pin it on the parents. Although some parents are really bad, there are a myriad of factors that go into developing a child's mind, so don't be surprised if even the best of parents raise an r/entitledkids-worthy child.
I actually remember some parents being the greatest people in the world. Then their kids are just entitled. Sometimes it’s just bad luck.
It's the battle of nurture vs nature.
But the nurture part falls to the parents. They made, birthed and imposed thier own thoughts and opinions on the kids for better or worse. Yes "great" parents can raise brats, does that really make them Great parents? They clearly messed something up if they raised a brat. There are better, great parents out there who raise kids to be healthy members of society.
(Parent can be substituted for any guardian in place)
@@rishabbnarayan4288 Agreed. While OP is right in saying kids aren't born entitled, that parents are to blame, some kids just grow up to be assholes. I know plenty of stories where someone came from a good background and good parents but grew up to be rapists, murderers, or just overall massive cunts. Hell, I went to school with one! (he was older than me. Normal family, if a little poor, he was a bully throughout school and, age 17, he killed a guy by smashing his head open with a cement slab)
@@rishabbnarayan4288 But sometime the parent encourage the act by not disciplining them, or buying whatever their want etc
4:13 I agree! I get we need to learn, but home is the only place we feel calm, but giving us work at the place we feel calm is such an asshole thing to do, because now, home is just as stressful as school!
The cat one mad me mad, but that last one made me livid! I've struggled on and off with depression, one of sisters had it, my younger brother had it, my step-dad had it, and I lost my bio-dad to suicide. Me, my sister, our step-dad, and brother were all hospitalized for it as one point or another. It is something I take very seriously.
In my opinion everyone’s bad here.
The parents didn’t tell their ONLY child who grew up ALONE that they suddenly had to share every aspect of their life with a stranger. The parents are trying to hard to force a relationship between them and OP blew up.
The sister because she’s using OPs parents to get her way. Don’t try and say she isn’t. After OP said that she couldn’t do that with her she said she was gonna tell OPs parents. She knew that if she told OP would be forced to include her. She must’ve been doing this a lot, asking/demanding to be included/given something OP has and then saying she’ll tell OPs parents that she’s not including her in everything.
OP shouldn’t have said what she said, that was a major low blow. Honestly I know how OP feels, she was yearning for the privacy she used to have before this stranger was dumped on her. OP probably tried to tell her parents that she wanted privacy but they’re probably forcing her to be as close as possible with her adopted sister. OP thought she was finally going to do something alone but her adopted sister butted in and she blew up. OP is an asshole, saying that to an adopted kid is super harsh but it was bound to happen. No boundaries were set and if OP tried to set them, the adopted sibling could’ve played victim and OPs parents sided with the sister.
Honestly the whole family needs counseling, the parents aren’t communicating properly with their child and are allowing the adopted one to do as she pleases, the adopted sister needs to realize she can’t force her way into OPs life and expect her to be okay, OP should apologize for the things she said but should ask for space/privacy since that would most likely make it a bit more bearable and form a small dot of love in her hear for her new sister. Honestly I feel bad for OP, everyone is making them out to be the bad person but honestly it’s everyone: from the parents to the adopted daughter everyone’s horrible. Both kids are entitled and the parents allow it.
*But hey! That’s just my two cents*
Amen, my dude. Props to you for explaining it so well. I couldn't agree more.
this needs so many more likes
Oh thanks guys, it took some rereading and looking at other opinions before I got to my conclusion. Thanks for reading it!🤗
same thinking here
i do agree but its reasonable to tell you’re parents when you are hurt and of you dont want your parents to know what youve done the problem is mostlywith you
If a EK took my phone, he’d be so screwed. I’m a varsity cross country and track runner, so maybe it’s best not to steal from someone unless you are 100% certain you could get away, Bc if you don’t, you’re gonna pay like he did
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Nice. How many miles do you run for Cross Country each day for practice? Along with races?
I definitely agree with your statement. However, considering you would be in the wrong; you shouldn't steal at all.
Some Random Turtle We run at least 5 miles a practice, it really depends, the most we run is a half marathon, and for races we run a 5k (3.1 miles)
If I was in his position, if I felt compelled to steal a phone, I would have made sure to factory reset it when I got home then spend an entire day customizing it to my style with preferences and claim that a friend gave it to me as a present.
I guess years later when I'd have the ability to live on my own and independently, I would confess the story.
5:37 im 13 and this is disgusting!!! I cringed so hard that some ppl are like this! 😬
I’m 13 too
The last one actually makes my blood boil. I would never wish a mental illness on anyone, but if I did it would be them.
The kid thought it was cool to loot a dead body just like in Fortnite
Except the body is there and it's at a fucking funeral
At least the parents were not entitled and figured out what was going on quickly.
He thought he was playing fortnite in real life.
fallout series joined the bandwagon
I was your 69th like lol
The ONLY thing I can say that is a decent argument on the first story is that she was never even asked how she'd feel about having a sibling, adopted or not. With that said, there is NO excuse for that level of behavior.
I agree. I recently got 3 new siblings (my mom finally married) and the youngest is 8 (I'm 23) I've had my moments where I'm like "ugh, really? I have to spend time with her?" But I have grown to like her.
However, this girl went from "I'm the center of the universe" (which sounds like the parents were already screwing up) to "wait...what happened to my ME time?"
When I was younger (I'm the oldest of like 17 cousins, youngest is 2) and everyone would say "oh let them do it. Let them join you" yadda yadda.
I was a teenager and I never even got to fly a kite because the adults were always telling me to be a role model and let the littles have a turn first. I STILL haven't flown a kite.
The parents should have asked her. She probably feels insecure as hell which isn't delivered properly because of the condescending tone rSlash took from the start of reading that post. That really irritated me....
As shitty as her behaviour was, you don't have nearly as much time to prepare for that as you do with a normal birth. I'm the eldest child of 3 siblings (Including me), and yes it was great being the centre of the universe, but I still had 9 months to get used to the idea of 'hey I'm gonna be a big sister'. With adoption, it doesn't feel real till the kids THERE. It must've felt really sudden, and all of a sudden you have to share, and get no private time, everything is accompanied by 'can I join?'. I understand her frustration, but her behaviour is still super shitty. (Like, just gently say 'hey I wanted to just do this with friend, i'm sorry' would've been a lot easier and hurt a lot less feelings.)
Neko Yuki nah to be honest she wasn’t beingshitty
@@flb-fatlazyboy5942 I think that we can can all agree that she was just being a brat who was exposed to language beyond her years. All kids are brats at least once.
@@JadeAnnabelArt how would you know that she didn't tried the polite way already before many times? I also already tried to tell my younger sister thousands of time politely to bite dust and she still don't do it - and she's my biological sister and we're off just 2 years. At some point you're just desperate as older sibling to have some time for yourself and if they still keep pushing the boundaries and the parents don't do anything about it then there has to be your turn at some point. It's like cornering a little dog. At first everyone's laughing but if you corner him too much everyone's screaming that the dog defended himself. If you're touching a hot heater and burn yourself you also don't blame the heater for being that hot don't you? Instead you also accept it was your fault for touching the heater and learn for future not to touch it, don't you? This all hasn't to do anything with being entitled at all
My best friends have a daughter who is a leukemia survivor. She's very young, was diagnosed at age 7 (she's 9 now). The amount of times people were surprised that they still continued to reprimanded her and not spoil her rotten was sad. "But she has cancer!" Okay and? Doesn't excuse her bratty attitude. Kids need structure, no matter what
If I had heard this one or two years ago, if someone really said that to me, I would not be here. That's more than a slightly morally questionable hobby, it's downright horrid. If this person lost their jaw, their tongue, or lost their ability to speak in general, I'd be thankful. Doing that to someone could seriously damage them and push them over the edge to take their own life. 15:48
The first one is a fifteen year old girl, FYI.
Ok
Which makes her more in the right!
adam szczupak how?
@@looneyblue7783 she is just confused and angry
@@yourlocaltheatrekid900 I'm pretty sure it was sarcasm
That girl from the second story has the best self restraint I’ve ever heard of. My cat is also shy and terrified of loud noises so he’ll hide under my bed too. My cat is not only my pet, he’s my child and if anyone, and I mean ANYONE, treated him like that, my foot would be so far up their ass, they’d have toes for teeth.
My cousin was born with a cleft lip, had surgeries, and was treated just like her siblings. Now she’s in her last year of nursing school and wants to be a pediatric ICU nurse to help kids like her.
3:28 ... 150 years ago public school was only free through elementary school. Also, child labor was legal.
And for the kid that said nothing has changed in 150 years
You are right pal, now get back to work in those mines
I always wanted to be a miner when I was little, then in 6th grade, I learned people died from cave-ins, tnt explosions, exhaling dust.
You mean move to canada,
You forgot to whip the kid.
Up the chimney with you! Have fun!
I honestly sympathize with the kid struggling to do school work at home. It can take a mental toll keeping up with school work, especially when there's no one to help you, the teachers don't give a crap, put a lot on the line for you adding to the stress, and you're in the one environment that's supposed to be a safe haven for a kid. I see the anxiety it produces in my younger brother, and I wish the teachers would at least do more to help him. He has no idea what the work is even about, that's how little they care to properly teach him. (And it's mostly useless crap he'll never need to know) He also has learning disabilities to top it off. I remember being a student and it was hell for me too honestly
Plus, we all have a pretty solid idea of what we do at home and for some people it’s the one place they feel safe and comfortable. Making School a part of that was probably really hard for those kids.
For real. I only had to do two months of schoolwork before my college year ended (UK) and it was absolutely horrible. I couldn't focus since I needed the separation of school and home to get work done. I literally had to do essays in the library because I couldn't focus at home, and now my teachers needed daily check-ins where I had to produce work at home independently? I genuinely just couldn't produce anything, I would sit at my desk for hours and my brain just wouldn't do it. I think the pandemic screwed over a lot of kids who now suddenly had to adjust to working from home and couldn't keep school and home separate. You couldn't get any one on one time with teachers for help with studies, you had to teach yourself most of what you were working on, and it was a challenge to focus when you're working from a place that's a challenge to just do homework in, not ALL your schoolwork.
imo Rslash was pretty heartless in that response. "Getting a real job" at least now means being out of the house and in a place designed for work, not having to adapt your whole schedule while stuck inside all the time and going through crazy hormone changes at the same time. And the kid was right, students have more to learn now than ever and anxiety levels are sky-high due to the increased pressure.
(I'm like 3 years late with this but I had to add to this because I felt the exact same)
3:04
I love how he ranges from his entitled dad voice, to his regular voice (thinking he's being reasonable), and straight back to his dad voice.
In the second story I have actually realized this and I have known for a while that staying at school is actually more healthy for the kid, at home you have too many distractions and it actually made me forget to do my work and I struggled a lot more that when I’m at school in which I don’t struggle, online school is an unhealthy learning environment
"Kid steals from a corpse" - hey kid, got any rares from that loot?
The corpse gets up and starts running towards her
m249 i guess
@@Crabbob365 oh zombie infection mode i see
the kid really be making bank tho
*Rolling D20 with other hand. "Come on Legendary!!"
150 years ago? Well, women couldn’t vote, they didn’t have cars, and in America slavery had only been abolished 5 years ago.
They meant the American school system hasn’t changed.
@Colin Soukup A century ago? You're way off base, boy.
@Colin Soukup Read the comment again. This time pay just a little more attention...
@Colin Soukup Holy shit, they started off by saying "150 years ago." Meaning, 150 years ago, slavery had been abolished 5 years earlier.
Colin Soukup you couldn’t read the whole comment could you it says 150 years ago slavery was abolished 5 years ago meaning 155 years ago
“My parents didn’t ask me if I wanted a sibling”
Excuse me, what??? Since when do parents need permission from their kids to have more kids? Pretty sure my parents never got my approval! Lmao
It isn't easy having a child who's ill or requires surgery.... There's a lot of guilt as a parent, you know, "I'm supposed to protect him" "he must be hurting" etc etc. However, by treating them like glass and failing to prepare them for the next stages of life, you're just hurting them. The BEST thing you can do is love them completely WHILE teaching them to be responsible, well balanced members of society.
1rst story: Being that mean was not nessecary as the sister is not to blame for the situation. But my god do I understand op. The parents are the buttholes here imo. This kid had everything. And now it owns nothing anymore and has to share everything it owns and privacy was thrown out of the window. Hell the kid doesn't even get to enjoy time with it's friends anymore. They forced the kid to basically live with a stranger and to give up all belongings. Of course the kid is pissed. You can't just do that.
You need to introduce the new sibling slowlywhile still giving the other kid some freedom. Otherwise the sister will feel like an invader.
I agree. They should have at least said something along the lines of, "Hey honey, are you comfortable with having a sibling?"
Agreed
Yeah, especially one who isn't a baby that can grow up with the child and instead is already a kid. I wouldn't know due to some tragic personal events, but from what I heard and have seen, people get annoyed with their siblings all the time but still love them and have a bond with them. If you make the older sibling immediately share everything though, and involve the new child with everything, then it's just finding the sibling annoying without a bond, which can cause an awful relationship.
She is to blame for - she knows that her older sister must share everything with her, and then she see her sister want to do one thing on her own and she want in or telling the parents. If i want to become friends with her i have to understand she needs freedom and privacy - and being 14yo she should understand this.
@@fujiyaangeles8235 At least explaining.
The last kid. And anyone that pulls that crap really piss me off.
Maybe one day they’ll get a taste of their own medicine.
My oldest daughter was always majorly sick. Nearly dying at 4 years old. And again with her heart issues at 17. But she was disciplined when she got in trouble, which was not often. She was not treated any differently than the oldest or youngest. And as an adult is much better than her siblings
Pov: EK steeling my phone from my funeral
Me: *phisicly rises from the dead* so you have chosen death
Horrible Person: **tells adopted sister to stfu** Excuse my language.
At least she knows she's being verbally abusive.
I’m not saying she’s right but I’m a middle child of four and having to share everything with my younger brother who doesn’t understand how much people need their own space you and you tend to say things but she still doesn’t deserve a 5/5 maybe 3/5
@@JustTryinaDuck Young children don't understand boundaries, they need to be taught. OPs parents and yours seem to be the issue. There's no excuse for making a child "share" their friends with a sibling, and parents should absolutely do their best to give their children their space when appropriate. So it's like rSlash said, OP was blaming the adopted sister for their parents' actions, and yeah being a butthole in the process
@@JustTryinaDuck I agree. Plus, it was very sudden. Having to make room in your routine for someone new is very stressful.
Btw. I've noticed rSlash has a bad habit of reading things condescendingly which gives away his opinion before we even get to the end. Maybe it's just me, but that's kind of upsetting.
@@CrescentMoonDancer15 i agree you do hear that what he feels but it doesn't really bother me, i get why it could be bothering tho.
Can someone type the link for the post?
may the girl rest in peace and may the kid learns his lesson
She was dead she didn't need the iPod
@@Karen-kl7yc ah yea I respect that *typing this while in fear of hoping for the Karen not to ask for my manager*
@@Karen-kl7yc jesus I'm seeing you everywhere no offense but it's getting old
"prepares cross gentlely"
KAREN GETS ONE TO
@@realcookiemon I want to speak to your manager
I love the kids that when I went to school would say the same thing, "we'll never use what we learn" now those same people as adults cry and curl up in a corner around tax Time 😂😂😂
Yeah my child would have been grounded for the rest of her life for that kinda stuff. That's next level bs. You never take anything from a dead person's coffin or period
Knew the first story was bad as soon as they said "being an only child is awesome" and said their reasons as to why.
Yeah, I’m a only child too and I understand how cool it is but if my parents ever showed up with a little brother or sister I would be really happy to have someone to always keep me company, that I can play with and see them grow up. Granted I might be biased cause I actually ALWAYS wanted a baby sibling since I was little but my parents say they don’t have enough money to sustain two kids
To be fair, being an only child is awesome buuuut.... I mean, when you openly wish a parentless kid to be homeless, familyless and probably die on the streets due to the previous two reasons, it gets pretty fucked up.
@@WolfyFancyLads it might be wrong in both sides actually, the parent didn't get the kid prepared, it's like suddenly taking away half his stuff and rip his personal time off (I looked at the story, the (other) kid intruded the personal time if op, and threatened op to let her in).
Any kid would be angry at that，mostly the parents fault though
@@fattytan1377 Good points.
@@WolfyFancyLads Woah, they never said they wanted the kid to die! The older sibling was angry and has probably told the kid to butt out of their time with their friends. If its true the parents just brought home a child, made the older kid share their bedroom (other people say the older is 15 and the younger is 14 and even if they are the same age that will be illegal soon (kids 15+ cant share rooms, dont know the exact law and it may just be UK bound but still). They went from being on top of the world to the bottom of the dirt pile. Its the parents fault for not properly including their child into the discussion of adopting another child. Yes how the child responded was wrong and they are being a butt hole but i cant understand why
The kid literally Is a child and his parents brought a stranger in his house and is forcing him to do everything together I’d get kinda upset too
Just be civil like "hey mum this is making me uncomfortable please let me and my sister bond at our own pace," what OP did was completely uncalled for.
@@soobinsleftdimple5019 I think OP has said before that she wanted to be with her friends on her own and the mother tried to guilt-trip her, the comments she made on being expected to love her new sister immediately sound pretty bitter.
@@blanca6434 any links
@@russianman6677 I extrapolated from 1:04. That's why I say I think, Because she says that "I can't just start feeling close to her" (makes me think of guilt-trip) and she's "forced to involve her in all her plans."
Plus, her adopted sister thought that if she tattled to their parents, OP would have to let her do the challenge with her. That doesn't sound like they accept a "I want to do this on my own".
ESH but mostly the parents
The stealing from the dead girl one, I honestly expected some 4 year old who didn’t understand, or for the thief to at least come forward when the aunt and uncle asked and apologize.
As an adopted child the first story physically made me tense. Thats what every adopted child doesn’t want to hear but always feels is true. Op is an ass and really doesn’t get that the sibling was probably scared to be alone and feel like they have no one to feel comfortable with. I might be projecting but my therapists say that’s how most adopted kids feel