My husband and I celebrated Valentines Day 54 years together. Since his death four years ago I host a Galentine’s Day Luncheon for my female friends who are widows. I make it special for them, and they appreciate it.
I don't have a significant other, but I bought my home (on-my-own), on Valentines Day. That's one big reason why I love Valentines Day. The other reason is that there are lots of people (Grandchildren) that I love. I celebrate LOVE on Valentines Day. Valentine's Day isn't just for lovers. It's for LOVE.
I was 18 and my husband was 22 when we got married. It lasted 46 years until his death. I never got tired of seeing him when I woke up in the morning and when we came home at night. He made me feel cherished. I have looked for the last 15 years for someone to feel this void in my life, but no one else has come close.
I think this is my first ever comment on any video of yours that wasn't glowing. I thought about not posting it, but then I thought, why not? It's honest. I didn't care for his reasoning of why his wife wouldn't buy him a gift with his own money. My belief is that it's their money, as they share all things in the life they share together.
this was a wonderful podcast, and I hope you bring Evan back again. The only thing that could make it better is to find a different way to monetize rather than the multiple sales pitches. So many of us are unable to fast forward and are forced to bear through 3 to 4 product pitches back to back .
100% agree with this! I could support the channel by listening to one commercial, but once another one (and then another one) comes on, I am fast forwarding .. none of the many other channels I watch have these many ads..
So many things that Evan said are 100% right. I have been marry for 50 yrs and the changes of love, change as the years go by. I always use the car example too, after a few years, you still love the car, but it doesn’t smell new, it is not as shiny, it got some scratches, and a few dings, but it is still a good car, that has performed well. It is normal when the lust, the passion, the sexual desire comes down after several years. And it is at this time when the love is more about the understanding, the relationship, the friendship between your partner. We live in a disposable society, and I see so many people do that with marriages, they get tiered, they want the excitement of the first months, but do not think that after a few years they will be at the same place that they were with the last relationship. Very good blog Dominique, Evan is so on point with his explanations and analysis of love and relationships. ❤
55 years married here. There are many marriages in ONE! My favorite quote: "People change & forget to tell each other." We love each other & will until the final farewell.
Haha so you've not dated since you were a young woman! Things have changed, my friend!!!! And you have no experience trying to find a person as a 50+ year old. Your perspective on your marriage is interesting, but doesn't apply at all.
Married 21 years this fall. We do not celebrate ANY days. Bdays, anniversary, holidays. Nope. But we make time every day, we date, flirt, give full body massages, tuck each other in, snuggle, tell secrets, eat meals together, raise kids together. We are best friends and I love my sweet husband who is my provider, and I am the happy housewife❤. It is a dream to have a hard working loyal loving husband😊👰🏻♀️🤵🏻
I'd like to point out that there are other options than the 2 this guest mentioned of "seeking a relationship" vs. "being alone for the rest of your life" LOL! I have been free for years and am much happier this way. I would not at all describe myself as "alone"!
I no longer expect anything on any holiday, the marketing has ruined most of them..all the hype to buy things. I tell my hubby there is no pressure and I don't want anything..lets go for a walk, do anything together is better than flowers, candy, or gifts of any kind.
Evan is the best!! I can't tell you how much I laughed today. Love his advice, even though I've been married 31 years today. One of my favorite pieces of advice that he gave was, "Don't pursue a man, let him pursue you." I have to say, that I've seen that this is very accurate advice. My mother always said, "Don't chase a man." Evan is really on point!! Bravo!!
Last year was a low key Valentines Day, this year we're having a fun trip to Vegas. It's not about the day, it's about the person you're with in the adventure of life.
Really enjoyed this one and Evan!. I met my boyfriend in Bumble after years of online dating. 90% of the men are the wrong ones is true! Keep looking for that 10%!
Another big plus to going online is that you can meet someone who lives far enough away that you would probably never meet in a social situation. We both lived in Southern California, but about 50 miles apart. So, it was not exactly a long-distance relationship because we could easily drive, but even though we both lived in very populated counties, we just had a difficult time meeting someone who lived closer.
loved him this second round too. I love the honestly male perspective on dating. "Let men pursue you.." "look for chemistry and compatibility" "You are the CEO of your life👍" Zuckerberg is not busy chasing interns but it is them chasing him🤛" "You chose to allow the jerks into your life" . Much needed advice for the modern woman.
I really enjoyed this back-and-forth discussion and openness and questions. Thought-provoking, empowering and justification to me that I didn’t do everything wrong! Thank you.♥️
I've been married 20 years but really enjoyed this interview, he is so funny, insightful and appreciative of women....his comments about his own marriage he very clearly says that's what works for them, it's not disrespecting of anyone else's choices in their relationship. Also Valentines has never been a big deal in our house, honestly...we give cards and maybe flowers but my husband works away alot so we are often apart and it doesn't really bother us, we have found other ways to have quality time together. Also did you know that St Valentine was a celibate priest?!?
What an educational, smart, wise & all around wonderful guest! Absolutely loved Evan, Extremely insightful & would love to see him again. 👏🏻🌟👏🏻 Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️❤️❤️ Love Joy, from Staten Island NY. 😊
Husband and I met 61 years ago on Valentine's Day. Love changes over the years and it isn't really romantic. It's acknowledgement of the years of our commitment and making the marriage work.
Thank you for the fun and informative video Dominique. Enjoyed the insights. You look radiant, stunning, really gorgeous. I just want to mention one small thing I noticed; your fingers look very white compared to the golden colour of your hands, arms and the rest of your skin. Not at all intending to come from a negative place but wanted to gently point that one tiny detail out. Everything else is so perfect. Keep spreading the love 💚
Really enjoyed this one! Evan is awesome. I have been divorced since 2013, 62 years old; I work full time and spend lots of my time with my grandkids and my girls friends from work. Very nervous about going on a dating app. Maybe one day I will work up the courage!
yes. For those of the Christian faith, God tells us in His word to not be unevenly yoked. As a Christian, it was essential that my future spouse has the same faith and values.
Fabulous podcast. Such an interesting discussion. Having a varied life is so important which can include, rather than centre around, a loving relationship and no need to accept anything less than we are hoping to find. I’d rather be in no relationship than a bad one as so many other areas in life to enjoy too. Uk fan!
Would love to listen to him on future episodes. His insights were on point and challenge us to evaluate how we are perceiving situations. Definitely food for thought and definitely made me laugh out loud with his remarks😊
Thank you for the thoughtful and certainly entertaining podcast - we can consider Evan's responses controversial at times but I enjoyed listening to his point of view and learned a few things for myself :) P.S. I'm married for 30 years (this year); our marriage is not ideal, we have serious disagreements at times but... we are keeping on :) I think the most important quality in marriage is a sense of humor - it helps a lot.
This is my second comment. Did anyone else hear and notice he said we live the 1950’s life? And my wife has no money because she doesn’t have a job. WHAT!! She doesn’t even have access to money to buy him a card!? Sounds to me as though he is controlling! Maybe she should start charging him for babysitting and caring for his children and cleaning their home! Then she WOULD have some money of her own! Or they should have a joint banking account! What does anyone else think of my comment? Be respectful, but I’d like someone else’s take on this.
Great interview. I’m not in need of dating advice, but so many things Evan spoke about could do a world of good to a couple of my friends. Hope you invite him back.
This was so cool. I’m 53 and sort of gave up on all the ❤ love thingy but many good points to take in here. Especially the very last part about Evan’s personal story about meeting his wife and how they are to each other. ❤😊Time to smile again😊 thank you both!
Best guest ever. He was great the first time, and now, too. I would totally like to see him a third time. I'm married 28 years and we have so many likes but wow are we different? We make it work for sure. However, there is some bad stuff between us. That's the best way I'll say it without going on and on. I pray 🙏 for you, Dominique, to meet someone just right for you and you for him ❤
Dominique the air over there is really suiting you! You look more beautiful than ever. I really like your hair colour and style and also your makeup- perhaps another makeup hair tutorial? However, I do realise you very busy now. Best wishes, Lisa, Galway, Ireland xx
Evan...you redeemed yourself with me on this video!! Haha! I really could not relate at all to the first video, (said with honesty, kindness, and humor) ❤😊😂) This conversation was easy going, approachable, humble, friendly, and compassionate. Thank you Evan for the great insights. Thank you dear Dominique and welcome to our community Evan! 😊😊😊
None of this applies to me,I am 79, married 55 years and recovering from a broken wrist. This was such an excellent discussion that I listened to every word if this is not a big boost for good old common sense, nothing would be. An amazing guest and a wonderful interviewer. I learned a few things myself! Just terrific!❤
I signed up for Evan's emails a few months ago and they're very informative. I would love to be able to join LoveU but the cost is way too much for me right now. Even so, he has a lot of free content which I appreciate.❤
Interesting. Lots of this is spot on. His description of the woman who lured her husband to the other side of the kitchen with potato chips gave the eye rolls. I think we should be able to communicate directly, with kindness. I won't thank someone for doing the dishes that they, too, contributed to. I won't let them pile up and patiently hope that he notices. He's a grown human living with another grown human both equally responsible for keeping their environment sanitary. Ugh.
Phenomenal guest: he is absolutely gifted, sharp, intelligent and I could learn from him all week. He doesn’t need to be summed up or given the last word by the host. He’s amazingly good at his profession, you can tell it from the first five minutes. ❤
First, He has cute eyebrows. Second, some good advice, perhaps I'll try those websites, but I worry about privacy from the APPS themselves. I like the 5 Cs and the K, plus the 3 As.
My husband and I celebrated Valentines Day 54 years together. Since his death four years ago I host a Galentine’s Day Luncheon for my female friends who are widows. I make it special for them, and they appreciate it.
Stay happy Stay blessed 🙌
How nice!
Beautiful ❤
I don't have a significant other, but I bought my home (on-my-own), on Valentines Day. That's one big reason why I love Valentines Day. The other reason is that there are lots of people (Grandchildren) that I love. I celebrate LOVE on Valentines Day. Valentine's Day isn't just for lovers. It's for LOVE.
Hands down your best guest. I've been married almost 36 years but some of the information still applies. Evan is hilarious, smart and engaging.
Omg, his reference to him being the breadwinner and thus money made being his money! What an absolute dinosaur.
I was 18 and my husband was 22 when we got married. It lasted 46 years until his death. I never got tired of seeing him when I woke up in the morning and when we came home at night. He made me feel cherished. I have looked for the last 15 years for someone to feel this void in my life, but no one else has come close.
I think this is my first ever comment on any video of yours that wasn't glowing. I thought about not posting it, but then I thought, why not? It's honest. I didn't care for his reasoning of why his wife wouldn't buy him a gift with his own money. My belief is that it's their money, as they share all things in the life they share together.
amen
Understood. Thank you for sharing
@@dominiquesachsetv I still think he's a great guest and would like to see him again.
I couldn't agree with you more. That was not a nice thing to say. She is a stay at home Mom which is the hardest job in the world.
this was a wonderful podcast, and I hope you bring Evan back again. The only thing that could make it better is to find a different way to monetize rather than the multiple sales pitches. So many of us are unable to fast forward and are forced to bear through 3 to 4 product pitches back to back .
Why can't you fast forward? You just double tap the right of the screen, and it skips along.
100% agree with this! I could support the channel by listening to one commercial, but once another one (and then another one) comes on, I am fast forwarding .. none of the many other channels I watch have these many ads..
@@samc5877
I watch utube premium on my TV so don’t have that option. But thanks anyway 🙏
@@samc5877if I do that it goes to an entirely different video.
@@samc5877 ya, skips along to another video lol!
So many things that Evan said are 100% right. I have been marry for 50 yrs and the changes of love, change as the years go by. I always use the car example too, after a few years, you still love the car, but it doesn’t smell new, it is not as shiny, it got some scratches, and a few dings, but it is still a good car, that has performed well. It is normal when the lust, the passion, the sexual desire comes down after several years. And it is at this time when the love is more about the understanding, the relationship, the friendship between your partner. We live in a disposable society, and I see so many people do that with marriages, they get tiered, they want the excitement of the first months, but do not think that after a few years they will be at the same place that they were with the last relationship. Very good blog Dominique, Evan is so on point with his explanations and analysis of love and relationships. ❤
So perfectly put!
55 years married here. There are many marriages in ONE! My favorite quote: "People change & forget to tell each other." We love each other & will until the final farewell.
Haha so you've not dated since you were a young woman! Things have changed, my friend!!!! And you have no experience trying to find a person as a 50+ year old. Your perspective on your marriage is interesting, but doesn't apply at all.
Thank you SO much for sharing this! And congrats on 50 years of love 💗
Married 21 years this fall. We do not celebrate ANY days. Bdays, anniversary, holidays. Nope. But we make time every day, we date, flirt, give full body massages, tuck each other in, snuggle, tell secrets, eat meals together, raise kids together. We are best friends and I love my sweet husband who is my provider, and I am the happy housewife❤. It is a dream to have a hard working loyal loving husband😊👰🏻♀️🤵🏻
I'd like to point out that there are other options than the 2 this guest mentioned of "seeking a relationship" vs. "being alone for the rest of your life" LOL! I have been free for years and am much happier this way. I would not at all describe myself as "alone"!
I no longer expect anything on any holiday, the marketing has ruined most of them..all the hype to buy things. I tell my hubby there is no pressure and I don't want anything..lets go for a walk, do anything together is better than flowers, candy, or gifts of any kind.
So true. I have been the same for years. Stuff means nothing anymore.
The song "flowers" by Miley Cyrus says it all!!!!
Yes. DEFINITELY!
Absolutely
Love, love, love Evan. He is spot on and he is hilarious!
Evan is the best!! I can't tell you how much I laughed today. Love his advice, even though I've been married 31 years today. One of my favorite pieces of advice that he gave was, "Don't pursue a man, let him pursue you." I have to say, that I've seen that this is very accurate advice. My mother always said, "Don't chase a man." Evan is really on point!! Bravo!!
You should bring evan back regularly you too were so fun to watch❤
My favorite guest, by far. Learn so much from this guy . . . He’s entertaining, and gives such great advice.
Last year was a low key Valentines Day, this year we're having a fun trip to Vegas. It's not about the day, it's about the person you're with in the adventure of life.
Really enjoyed this one and Evan!. I met my boyfriend in Bumble after years of online dating. 90% of the men are the wrong ones is true! Keep looking for that 10%!
This episode is incredibly mind-blowing, richly informative, and really funny! Thank you both!
Loved this interview. Best guest so far. Very refreshing. Super answers, bright & funny. Jenny.❤
Another big plus to going online is that you can meet someone who lives far enough away that you would probably never meet in a social situation. We both lived in Southern California, but about 50 miles apart. So, it was not exactly a long-distance relationship because we could easily drive, but even though we both lived in very populated counties, we just had a difficult time meeting someone who lived closer.
The question I ask a man, who were you closest to, your mom or dad. They have said, “Oh, my dad, I hated my mother.” NEXT!!!
I was single at age 60 and met my 3rd husband online 13 years ago. When I asked him that question, he said his mother was a saint! 🥰
Best interview. He's right on so many levels.
Thank you Dominique…this podcast has raised my “want” to get out there again!
loved him this second round too. I love the honestly male perspective on dating. "Let men pursue you.." "look for chemistry and compatibility" "You are the CEO of your life👍" Zuckerberg is not busy chasing interns but it is them chasing him🤛" "You chose to allow the jerks into your life" . Much needed advice for the modern woman.
I really enjoyed this back-and-forth discussion and openness and questions. Thought-provoking, empowering and justification to me that I didn’t do everything wrong! Thank you.♥️
He’s right on. We need him regularly here at this channel.
Great show Dominique.
It's so nice to hear from this man, the points he has made are very reasonable, applicable, wise...thank you
Best interview ! It is amazing how he makes us feel as if we are in charge ! I forget that sometimes as I try to navigate through dating!!
Evan is hilarious and mostly correct. More episodes with unexpected guests who can challenge and inform and entertain us please
So happy you brought him back thank you
I've been married 20 years but really enjoyed this interview, he is so funny, insightful and appreciative of women....his comments about his own marriage he very clearly says that's what works for them, it's not disrespecting of anyone else's choices in their relationship. Also Valentines has never been a big deal in our house, honestly...we give cards and maybe flowers but my husband works away alot so we are often apart and it doesn't really bother us, we have found other ways to have quality time together. Also did you know that St Valentine was a celibate priest?!?
I love his honesty! ❤
What an educational, smart, wise & all around wonderful guest! Absolutely loved Evan, Extremely insightful & would love to see him again. 👏🏻🌟👏🏻 Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤️❤️❤️ Love Joy, from Staten Island NY. 😊
Loved this podcast. Such great information and advice. Thank you Dominique loved Evan.
Husband and I met 61 years ago on Valentine's Day. Love changes over the years and it isn't really romantic. It's acknowledgement of the years of our commitment and making the marriage work.
Thank you for thinking of us! :)
Thank you Dominique and Evan. Enjoyed this much and need to get back out there.
Best show Ive seen in a long time, Love this guy!
Thank you for the fun and informative video Dominique. Enjoyed the insights. You look radiant, stunning, really gorgeous. I just want to mention one small thing I noticed; your fingers look very white compared to the golden colour of your hands, arms and the rest of your skin. Not at all intending to come from a negative place but wanted to gently point that one tiny detail out. Everything else is so perfect. Keep spreading the love 💚
I used those self love suggestions and felt great! It really made a difference in how I look and feel ❤
Loved this session. Would love to see him on your show again.
I love this guy! Thanks so much for having him on again. He’s full of ideas and most of all, hope!
Really enjoyed this one! Evan is awesome. I have been divorced since 2013, 62 years old; I work full time and spend lots of my time with my grandkids and my girls friends from work. Very nervous about going on a dating app. Maybe one day I will work up the courage!
Making God the center of your relationship can bring immense blessings and strength to your relationship.
yes. For those of the Christian faith, God tells us in His word to not be unevenly yoked. As a Christian, it was essential that my future spouse has the same faith and values.
Also so many people connec via alcohol. They would never even have considered each other had they not been drinking when they met.
Fabulous podcast. Such an interesting discussion. Having a varied life is so important which can include, rather than centre around, a loving relationship and no need to accept anything less than we are hoping to find. I’d rather be in no relationship than a bad one as so many other areas in life to enjoy too. Uk fan!
Would love to listen to him on future episodes. His insights were on point and challenge us to evaluate how we are perceiving situations. Definitely food for thought and definitely made me laugh out loud with his remarks😊
Your shirt is pretty can you link it
I truly love this interview👍
Always wonderful inputs - following across the ocean from Switzerland 🇨🇭 thank you so much!
Thanks for being here! 💗
Best interview ever! I'm married and even learned a few things.
What a delightful person, looking forward to the next "interview".
Thank you for the thoughtful and certainly entertaining podcast - we can consider Evan's responses controversial at times but I enjoyed listening to his point of view and learned a few things for myself :) P.S. I'm married for 30 years (this year); our marriage is not ideal, we have serious disagreements at times but... we are keeping on :) I think the most important quality in marriage is a sense of humor - it helps a lot.
This is my second comment. Did anyone else hear and notice he said we live the 1950’s life? And my wife has no money because she doesn’t have a job. WHAT!! She doesn’t even have access to money to buy him a card!? Sounds to me as though he is controlling! Maybe she should start charging him for babysitting and caring for his children and cleaning their home! Then she WOULD have some money of her own! Or they should have a joint banking account! What does anyone else think of my comment? Be respectful, but I’d like someone else’s take on this.
I agree that this comment didn't come across well. Maybe he didn't mean it the way it came out but it definitely caught my ears.
@@JKele Thank you!
Big red flag for me. He said his client base are strong independent women. That won't go down well. His money!!
Great guest. Totally agree that the good guys are the hunter (pursuer) and we are the prey!!! love it
Great interview. I’m not in need of dating advice, but so many things Evan spoke about could do a world of good to a couple of my friends. Hope you invite him back.
Really good guest! I enjoyed his wisdom
Great interview. Only question, what the heck was Evan randomly looking at on his left, 😂
He is amazing!!! Yeeeessss ma'am, got to have him back again 🧡 Enjoyed this so much.
This was so cool. I’m 53 and sort of gave up on all the ❤ love thingy but many good points to take in here. Especially the very last part about Evan’s personal story about meeting his wife and how they are to each other. ❤😊Time to smile again😊 thank you both!
Best guest ever. He was great the first time, and now, too. I would totally like to see him a third time. I'm married 28 years and we have so many likes but wow are we different? We make it work for sure. However, there is some bad stuff between us. That's the best way I'll say it without going on and on. I pray 🙏 for you, Dominique, to meet someone just right for you and you for him ❤
Dominique the air over there is really suiting you! You look more beautiful than ever. I really like your hair colour and style and also your makeup- perhaps another makeup hair tutorial? However, I do realise you very busy now. Best wishes, Lisa, Galway, Ireland xx
Hi Dominique, where did you purchase your lovely white blouse? Thanks!
Thank you! I bought it on Revolve’s website
Where did the time go! I could listen for hours to this guy.
Evan is a lot of fun and has so much wisdom for us single women, thanks Dominique for bringing him on your podcast ❤❤❤
Loved the interview❤
Loved this! Thank you!
Hi, Dominique. Thank you for your video. 🎉. ❤. Happy Valentine's day.
Evan...you redeemed yourself with me on this video!! Haha! I really could not relate at all to the first video, (said with honesty, kindness, and humor) ❤😊😂) This conversation was easy going, approachable, humble, friendly, and compassionate. Thank you Evan for the great insights. Thank you dear Dominique and welcome to our community Evan! 😊😊😊
Great episode!
Very cool podcast Dominique. Evan thank you for your appearance ❤
None of this applies to me,I am 79, married 55 years and recovering from a broken wrist. This was such an excellent discussion that I listened to every word if this is not a big boost for good old common sense, nothing would be. An amazing guest and a wonderful interviewer. I learned a few things myself! Just terrific!❤
Happy Valentine's Dom xo
I was curious about what happened to the man you were dating in Houston? Did that not work out? Why?
Women need to realize that getting in a relationship will most likely turn out worse than being single.
word.
Would love love love to see him back! ❤
I signed up for Evan's emails a few months ago and they're very informative. I would love to be able to join LoveU but the cost is way too much for me right now. Even so, he has a lot of free content which I appreciate.❤
I just loved this! Thank you for all the advice about dating after 50! You made me laugh so much! 🥳😂💕
I loved this!!!!!
Loved this podcast!!!!
This was so awesome! He was very interesting to listen to! Thank you Evan! I’m going to send for the free gift 🎁
Great podcast!
Interesting. Lots of this is spot on. His description of the woman who lured her husband to the other side of the kitchen with potato chips gave the eye rolls. I think we should be able to communicate directly, with kindness. I won't thank someone for doing the dishes that they, too, contributed to. I won't let them pile up and patiently hope that he notices. He's a grown human living with another grown human both equally responsible for keeping their environment sanitary. Ugh.
This was a great episode 🙏🏻 very interesting ❤
So glad you enjoyed it!
He didn't spend hardly any time talking about dating over 50+. I find it to be totally different than dating in mt 20s.
Loved this!!!!!
Super insightful!
Amazing conversation ❤ thank you so much ❤❤❤
More Evan please!
Brilliant ♥️thanks Dom for the quests u interview 💞very good, accurate information
Great advice
LOVED this!❤❤❤
Such great quality advice.. wish I had known this 30 years ago..
I also love it that he doesn’t hesitate with insight and answers -so well spoken.
I’ve read his advice for years. What I learned is, I just need to remain single.
Phenomenal guest: he is absolutely gifted, sharp, intelligent and I could learn from him all week. He doesn’t need to be summed up or given the last word by the host. He’s amazingly good at his profession, you can tell it from the first five minutes. ❤
So glad you enjoyed him!
@@L-ash777 yet you spend your time scrolling comment sections…. 😂
Evan doesn't hold back, a hamburger and a (you know what he said). LOL. Great guest.
That was so juvenile and disrespectful. She sat there and took it.
I’d like to also input: The “cloud of chemistry” is pretty sustainable IF you avoid marriage.
First, He has cute eyebrows. Second, some good advice, perhaps I'll try those websites, but I worry about privacy from the APPS themselves. I like the 5 Cs and the K, plus the 3 As.