Kids or No Kids? | Career vs. Motherhood
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- The BIG question. To have kids or to not have kids?
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Freezing your eggs is not so easy for the average person. It’s expensive and then maintaining the eggs until u use them.
Exactly! Cause if it was up to me I would have had a surrogate carry a child for me a long time ago! But I'd need some Kim k money for that! 😑
The average person has kids in their 20s and 30s though. Having such a demanding career that you lose focus of kids and family means you likely would have the means to freeze your eggs. Y’all acting like normal everyday women don’t be having kids randomly.
@@yveje9720 you are assuming everyone is "average"
plus only 18% of egg freezes lead to a successful birth
People talk about freezing eggs like it’s a guarantee to even have a child. It’s not. Let’s be real, we women have a window to have kids, and it doesn’t last a lifetime. At the end of the day, priorities should be in line. I’d tell women in mid 20s to early/mid 30s who know they want a family to put more focus on finding a good man and settling down instead of career. Don’t spend long hours in the office. Get out and meet men. Life is short. You can always build a career but you can’t always have kids.🤷🏾♀️
I Agree completely with you.
If you freeze your eggs in your 30s it shouldn’t be a problem. Most women have kids before that anyways but for the few who desire to wait its fine. But be smart about it if you are in your 30s and have the means freezing your eggs is a smart move.
@@yveje9720 But still. Freezing them, even at a young age doesn’t guarantee they will be properly fertilized and take in the womb of the woman. It’s not the easy solution that people make it out to be.
Also most ppl dont have frozen money lol...great advice but remember life doesnt always give us what we ask 4
I do know a girl who had kids at a younger age, now she is stuck with no house, no money, no job and an abusive husband. I stay focus on making your own money so you do not have to depend on a man or anybody to take care of you. Job, school and career first before having kids
you'll be 50 when kids are 10. that's the only thing about having kids late. you'll be alot older during those phases that require alot of energy
I thought I was the only one who thought of that. What's the point of having kids at this point for her.
@@slimjym130 ppl think about this all the time actually. i find that wealthier ppl particularly famous ppl are less concerned about it though.
My mom had me at 39. Yes she was an older mom but shoot I never lacked for anything. Private school, college paid and that’s because she and my dad had amazing careers. Im just happy to be me and alive we don’t choose our parents or our situations and I can think of much worse situations then being born to older successful parents.
Exact same thing with me @Yve Je !
@@yveje9720 yes that the difference
There's a reality many women just aren't willing to face: fair or not, men want younger women to marry. They want families. Women who fall out of the childbearing window aren't good candidates for marriage if you want to have kids.
It's also really draining to have kids. It's the type of work that is best done when younger.
So if a woman wishes to put career over family she can. She just needs to face the very harsh reality that men who want families will likely not be interested in them.
Throw in the fact that women generally don't "date down" and the pool of men is very small. And more likely than not, the men she's going to want if she's a high earning woman, will likely not want her.
It's simply biological reality. No amount of social engineering will change that.
Facts!!
I’m sorry but biological age is more than a mindset. Having children past 35 is not only more difficult but more dangerous. Freeze your eggs if you can afford it. The sooner you do it, the better chances you have.
Freezing eggs guarantees NOTHING!!!!!
Speak for urself, i am 37 and pregnant. I got pregnant easily as soon as i went off birth control. However there is a risk obviously, this shouldn't stop women if they want to have a child.
You are absolutely right. My husband is an OBGYN. All types of risks increase after 35 for both mom and baby.
@@LadyK007 Did I say it was guaranteed? I said getting past 35 is more difficult and dangerous (which it is.) it’s a backup in case getting pregnant the natural way doesn’t work out for you.
@@aqueenaija 🙄 I’m not speaking for myself (I’m not over 35) I’m speaking basic scientific facts. LOL you feel special because your had an easy time, but statistically, women have a harder time getting pregnant past 35. Especially at or after 40 like these ladies.
Also, no one said they shouldn’t have kids, I simply said they should have frozen their eggs earlier because biological age matters.
The ignorance and misogyny in the comments is loud . Let's not put societal limits to when people can create a family. It's 2021, there so many options to build a family . Women get judged for having big dreams & get penalised for having grand aspirations. Career can be such an integral part of someone's life & they don't have to compromise. Based on studies, women are more economically impacted due to the time implications of having a kid. People can find love at any age. Settling just for marriage & kids doesn't guarantee happiness, a healthy relationship with your partner and kids should be deemed more important. We can't keep feeding these limiting beliefs. You can have it all just maybe not all at the same time. There is no one right way to live life, there are too many nuances to just create blanket statements about women focusing on career. Men simply cannot be the spokesperson for women issues. Having a healthy partnership should be the goal so we can create more stable homes for kids. Women shouldn't rush kids or building a family because of societal pressures. Statements like focusing on career instead of building a family is not fulfilling is only based on your perspective. Inner purpose can be fulfilling . Women have only started exercising the power of choice and full autonomy over their lives & bodies recently . Also realise you don't know these women fully, deeply and wholly to judge whether they had a missed opportunity. So many experiences in life like trauma, the past, health etc can impact ones decision to create a family. As a society, we need to hold more grace and compassion for people to change their mind. If you don't want a family at 30 then change your mind at 40, it is still ok. Every decision has an impact. I hope women who choose to wait to have kids beyond the biological clock research on other options and remain flexible in creating a family in a non-traditional way. Due to the biological clock, if it is a factor I hope more research goes into the alternatives & embracing creation of a family in ways you didn't think of before. Regardless, women get judged for everything. If you didn't want a career, there would be backlash. I hope women continuously choose themselves and prioritise their joy. Judgement will always come & I hope women embrace alternative methods but don't limit yourself on when to create a family and find love. This response isn't in no way to debunk the whole biological clock reality, it is to show that we cannot make life altering decisions based on fear. Adopting a kid or surrogacy isn't less valuable over carrying your own child. All life is precious. Life is not linear enough to assume that all women can easily find a good man in their early life . So many people have the partner, kids and thriving career hence proof you can have it all. Just not always at the same time or the way you want it. Sending love to these women, I hope they receive all the things they desire and the continuously show up for themselves in a society that is so ready to chew them up. I pray more men broaden their minds & heal from patriarchal mindsets. I pray that science continuous to make breakthroughs so many more options are available and affordable. You can pursue a career for yourself & to push boundaries in various fields. Also understand that for ambitious, career driven and focused women, the dating pool shrinks because most men like the idea of a strong and independent woman but can't handle the reality of such a woman. To my sister's, YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL. I hope you take charge and define what "having it all" means to you. We are all different. I hope you surround yourself with men who support that vision you have for yourself. Don't take others people's truth to be your own. You get to define everything for yourself. ❤️ If at any point, having kids is more valuable to you than a career, that too is beautiful. Pursue this fully. You are not less valuable for choosing that path . Always do what makes you happy ☺️ Motherhood is truly a divine experience. I hope all people who desire to experience this, get to live out their dreams. This world is nothing without mothers. If you got kids early, your journey is equally valuable. All paths have their pros and cons. I hope women struggling with fertility and relationships find more safe spaces online to be vulnerable without judgement. Women don't only exist to birth and marry. These same men deemed you worthy in your 20s when you are young, had so called crushes but at 40 deem you as "waste" or "expired goods". So I hope women find men who celebrate them at any age :) Aging is a normal human reality but for women it is another parameter to be judged on. Lowering your standards for men will never be a solution to attaining happy and healthy long term relationships.
Very well said!! I couldnt have said it better myself! I’m reading through the comments of these men & wondering why they are so fixated on the decisions of women?! It’s appalling. Ladies, do what is best for you!
These two beautiful women were the absolute crushes of men my age and younger. However this was a missed opportunity for these ladies. I think prioritizing career over children especially if you want children will always come back to haunt you. I believe choosing the right man early in life and working hard you can still have a great fulfilling life with children. You chosing a career over family doesn't give anyone fulfillment. I wish people would just be honest and tell the young sisters you cannot have it all. Men are being honest with themselves with saying building yourself takes time and more than likely you won't be young with money. You sisters have a platform to educate young women and tell them hey career is good but family... not being a BM but a family is better. Men prioritize their careers to take care of their family, what are you prioritizing your career for if there is no family or might night ever be one.
You both are beautiful and probably have plenty of men coming after you but not one man measured up enough to say hey let me build a life with this man? You think it will get any easier with even more time?
This is too much truth!!
Lol I noticed Julissa likes and replies to the comments that praise her, but does nothing with comments such as this one.
Great points @TruthSeeker
This is so much truth and such an underrated comment. YOU CAN’T HAVE IT ALL!!
💯% FACTS. As a professional woman, I am TIRED of the stupid societal line of thinking that career and money are the most important things for women. I was lied to. I wish there was more emphasis on the beauty of family and what an accomplishment it is to raise children. That to me is so much more important. Keep your millions and prestige. I’d rather have and raise babies and take care of a husband.
I appreciate these open minded honest conversations 🙌🏽
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I don't understand why women are in this freezing of eggs all this is is a money making business thing. (Think ladies)
All of that money to do something like that and don"t know if they will be a baby.
If your time for getting children the way God wants it to happens pass just accept that you won't have children.
In life there are trade-offs and compromises, Julissa and Rocsi chose career over starting a family. You have to live with the decisions you made. The chances of you finding long-term relationship at your age is very slim
Successful or even worst famous women become drill sargent type picky, if the dude ain't super good-looking & super rich or rich & famous then they just can't get wet, smh. Passing up on tons of good-looking dudes doing well, that would hold them down.
Both still looking good, it seems like Rosci looks better now. Not necessary 106 itself but that era, damn it was some good music then, now its just in pockets. I here ppl bumping they ish & it be new & hot gar boge.
They want that 20 yr old genius billionaire bodybuilding pirate that does not want their old ass.
What are you going to do with a 40 yr old ex partygirl/industry thot?
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I loved this episode. I love them! They’re such great hosts. Such an interesting subject!
I love how honest this conversation is! I’m 25 & married, and finally this year I feel ready to have a baby. And I think it’s okay for women to have a baby whenever they want or if they don’t want kids that’s okay too. My aunts tell me I’m too young & I don’t care. No one has the right to tell you when you should have a baby, do it when you want to & feel ready💕
You are not too young! God bless you!
You’re not too young. Us men know that women will intentionally lie to each other so they don’t feel alone in their bad decisions. Your aunts seem to be doing the same. You’re making the right decision. Continue in God’s design and may His peace be with you.
Biology tells you when to have kids, not Men 🤷🏾♂️
@@MrWood-qd6kr not every woman is ready to have kids at 25. I was emotionally and financially immature at that age. No way I would have been a good parent. To each their own, including people who wait.
Yes you are too young .....unless you are rich ....
You think that white house is fill with food stamps baby mamas....NO !
IVF cost like $10K+ per attempt (not covered by insurance) regardless of success or failure and it fails most of the time. I think on average when it succeeds it takes at least four tries. Should also add that cost to use a surrogate ranges from $100,000 to $150,000.
Man, this is sad. Women actually think this way. I stopped at freezing eggs, smh.
I say do what makes you happy, there is no right or wrong. Loved this video
It’s so nice to see you guys are friends.
This was such a great episode I loved it. Then again you 2 are so candid I love you both❤️
You have to prioritize wanting to get married like you do for your careers.. The hard part for y'all is that both of y'all are 1# high earning women so naturally you want a man making either the same or more and that's where the hard part comes..
You ladies will be wonderful and powerful mother's! God can make the impossible possible.
I panicked over turning 40. I had already had given birth to 6 babies plus fostered 2 more so not that issue, but 40 hit hard. Everyone said your 40s were the best years ever. My husband died suddenly when I was 41, which nearly destroyed me and I'll still never be ok again. My mom died when I was 42. My best friend died when I was 43 and I needed a full hysterectomy when I was 44. 40s are wonderful??? They lied. The 40s are hell on earth. With career vs children...you can have both. I wanted a career in law and a large family. You learn how to juggle, like people have done since the beginning of time.
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Sorry about all that. Life can be very hard sometimes.
Freezing eggs and blaming men mindset is why y’all are single and childless with all your beauty. Beyoncé is more successful yet she has a husband and a family.Why is that??
Your so beautiful julissa. Wow both of you were amazing on 106 and park. Will watch this video now
Why are some men bother by this though? How does this affect any men in any way if woman waits to have kids or can't conceive children. Even if that same woman is interested in you ; you guys have options right and don't have to deal with her. So what is the problem men? I really will like to understand from a males perspective without a rude or crude response .
I dont think it bothers men at all, its choice really, my grandmas birthday was last month and the whole family kids grandkids were there. Ive never seen her so happy other than when she was married. But being old and by yourself no kids no grandkids wouldnt be as nice in my opinion. But to each their own
Yes Mija WAIT! Because kids are not an accessory and be careful who you have them with!!! They’re worth the wait the husband and the baby and it’s a team effort so never forget that!
I think you can have it all if you want. don't waste your time being in a long committed relationship with the wrong person..... when you are with the right person, you can also have the career you want. I really NEEDED this episode ladies. #Wishing you both many blessings and prosperity.
When I tell you my girl crush dreams came true during this interview!! 😍😍 obsessed & admire these 2 sooooo much!!!! ❤️❤️
Rocsi spittin facts!! Love this interview! Lemme go follow her YT! 🖤💫
For real!
You can't be serious. 😭😂 Everything about this interview was wrong. If y'all can't see that then your a part of the problem.
Yall TWO are literally my FAVORITE!
Such a great video! Loved the topic and the transparency from both of you.
I’m glad I found your channel Julissa! As a 38 year old professional Latina working abroad, I can relate with your conversation. I am like you though, I’m traditional and I’m not settling! Ain’t nothing to be embarrassed about and no shame. I believe it will happen when it happens primero Dios.
Dont Believe the lies Chica !
My all time 2 favs please do more videos together do a series anything por favor
Really enjoyed this conversation ❤️
I didn't know you two knew each other. Great video 🎥
If you did not lock that man down during your teens, twenties or even thirties, why would you succeed when you’re nearing 50?
You choose that career and forfeited motherhood. You can’t have both, you have been lied to. 40 to 80 is a long way to go. Enjoy your career, girlfriends, wine, and the occasional hookup with that man that does not want you as a wife.
Thank you!, they really think that they can have both!, talking nonsense with the freezing eggs thing when that itself it’s no garantee they have been lied to and they’re doing the same with this new generation!
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I would want to see the idiot tryna have kids with a old 40 year old lady. When if he's balling he could get a 25 year old.
@UCZ4kHZG83NktIQR1vnnjtng sadly simps are the worlds most abundant resource. You will always have this one eediat that will try it.
I just turned 40 and I don’t even look at anything past 28. And this is why.
If she does not want you in her prime don’t save her during her decline.
You’re just saying shit you seen online to try to make a point. In the REAL WORLD people get married and date at all ages. And not all older men look for women in their 20s WTF😂 I don’t know any man in his 40s or 50s dating a woman in their 20s. Even Jeff Bezos (one of the richest men in the world) is dating a woman in her 50s. Get offline and start living.
The teenager in me is excited right now!!!! Love you girls….grew up watching both of you.
Aw!! ❤️
Dont follow their footsteps though
Feminism has told women to submit to a career instead of a man... This is where it leads. Best of luck, ladies. I truly hope the career gives you all the fulfillment you were looking for because at this point, biological children are not very likely to happen.
Great conversation ladies. There's noting wrong with growing up in a traditional way.
That was really good convo 👍🏽💕 and it’ll make him want you more after a child if you’re married to him 💕and he’s a good guy.
I love seeing you and Rocsi together!! I definitely would love to see these real convos more on your channel…keep them coming!
I love Julissa's voice !!!
Thank you ladies for giving horrible advice to the next generation of ladies. Just like you, they can also have fun, “legs wide open” in their 20s and 30s just as long as they freeze their eggs in their 40s. Love it. As long as they stay on the streets, everyone’s happy.
Exactly. This generation of women are done!
I was thinking the same thing.. everyone has a platform && some people use it to spread disinformation!
My generation is screwed!
@@TytiBoss Nope. I love it. I only go for girls that party with their "legs wide open." If you need 2 dates, you're getting blocked. Plus now, they're strong and independent, so they can get their own uber in the morning. GO FEMINISM!!!!!
Teach younger women a career is great but marriage & motherhood is even greater nature doesn't care about your feelings and most of these woman can't afford to freeze their eggs balance is key to life
They will never give younger women this advice because, women are the enemies of women.
What career i haven’t seen you guys in any movies, tv shows or anything major recently so what career???
the career that brought you here curious about what they have to say. she just bought a house (presumably a nice one) in LA, so she has to be doing smthng that gets the mortgage approved
@@k.h.a.l.i.l. Who gives an ish about her house? I hope the house is big enough to remind her how lonely life is going to get for her. How does that help her to get a Man or family? Men dont give an ish about what women ´own´. It NEVER benefits us.. Why do Modern women do/say things that make ABSOLUTELY no sense or give them the outcome they want when addressing getting married/having kids?
@@don-jc3rd the thread asks about a career and that's why i mentioned a house: no career, no house. most of what you're talking about has nothing to do with the question asked in THIS thread. you're projecting your emotions, sir.
@@k.h.a.l.i.l. these chicks ain’t know imma be 100% honest
Hello Gorgeous? Why can't you have BOTH?? Have you ever heard a Man say "Kids or career" #MerylStreep did it. Career. Happy Married for over 40 years and have 4 KIDS!
I really liked this dialogue. I love the traditional women mindset. I haven’t researched if there is a correlation for this, but I believe individuals who were raised in a two parent household look to have that same family dynamic in this day and time. This society thinks being a baby momma or baby daddy is more of an achievement than being married.
This is no shade to what I’m about to say. Please read this in a positive light. Looking objectively at these beautiful ladies situation. Kevin Samuels talks about this all the time. How successful career driven women have chosen to postpone marriage and pregnancy for careers, I.e securing the bag. How the modern day women thinks. These are two gorgeous women. Time isn’t on anyone’s side. We all get older. We men are visual, sexual creatures. Men choose a women for looks. Women chose men for security, and money. I tend to want to know how a women thinks after I get pass the “looks” as well. Some men don’t.
The real question to ask themselves what are the trade offs? It was said that successful women look to have a man that is financially well off more than them. And let’s be serious most women have this imaginary man their looking for. With their long list of requirements. Their needs to be a trade off somewhere. Only 10% of men make over 100k. And only the top 1% make over 400k. I still see some of my favorite model and actresses from when I was a teenager either single, or divorced. And age is catching up with them.
I'm 38... and with the way the world is right now, I'm glad I don't have children at this moment. It's a dark dark infectious life to live.
Julissa, as a Puerto Rican woman who grew up there and then moved to the United States, I have some constructive feedback if you're interested, since we have a similar cultural background, similar look, and similar mannerisms. Us Latinas were targeted back when birth control was invented because we were believed to be genetically undesirable and stupid, and part of the propaganda was getting us to believe that our aspirations outside of family were worth the cost of not having your own family. We were used as guinea pigs and many women were duped into not reproducing under the guise of "empowerment". Honor the hard work your ancestors left to create us, these beautiful magnificent creatures, and leave a legacy. Don't be fooled--They are slowly trying to knock us out of the reproductive pool. Having kids IS the counter-culture thing to do nowadays and it's one of the bravest things you can do to stand against forces that don't want you having kids. Don't settle. You're beautiful and fun. You could be married within a year realistically if you really wanted to. Just don't let the propaganda of "it's okay to not have children and focus on your career" get in the way of the success of your genes. Honor of your ancestors who went through hell to create you.
Allyson Felix didn’t let nobody stop her from having her baby either
Nor did #jeanniemai at 41
Rocsi! So nice to see her again ❤️ This is a real conversation, i love that women are prioritizing their wants and dreams before starting a family for the sake of meeting societal expectations. As a woman you are all you need to complete you. Everything else is just the cherry on top of the cherry 😉
Couldn't agree more ❤️
Definitely something that's been on my mind the older I get! But yeah, it's a lot of work and I wouldn't want to do it alone. Also this world is so crazy and scary?? SO much to think about. Loved the conversation!
It's a really tough question!
It’s really not that tough at all. You either die alone or not… period.
Should've chose wisely at a young age. 🤷🏾♂️
@@alphagenisis1 um what? lol
@@EstablishedHeritage lol nah. hell no.
Love this topic very important ❤️
I must be the minority in this comment section. I disagree with a lot of what people are saying. I can care less about having kids!!! Everyone in my circle (which is a lot of people) tell me if I don’t hurry up and get married, then I won’t find an attractive woman my age. Well, here’s proof; both these women are extremely attractive, career minded and without kids. No one should pressure you on this subject. A lot of people enter unsuccessful marriages and have kids because of pressure from peers and family because of age or because that’s how they did it. Don’t be a conformist, live your life and be happy. Being single is not a disease. You can actually prioritize a lot of goals being single than you could if you were married or with kids. Many peoples lives I look at or those who demand I get married or have kids lifestyle is not convincing me enough to have it. Many of their lives suck. There lives are stressed, financial burdens, and it seems non peaceful; And I mean this sincerely!!! Very few people I see have the lifestyle I would desire. And most of them waited until they were established to have the lifestyle they desired. I’m cool with having my own money and life. Maybe one day when it makes sense for my life.
You straying from the point. They basically in some amount of regrets of focusing too much on career instead of motherhood. You have to live with the consequences and swallow what ever pain you going thru. They still can try find a good dude and have a child but too much risk.
But a 40 year old woman can still have a lot of energy to raise a baby, I was 37 when my babies were born (twins) and I’m raising them, it’s exhausting at night because I work during the day but I have a man and nanny so it’s a team effort. You can’t and shouldn’t do it alone. Whether it’s one or more kids… us women, we can be very strong! It’s the love we have for those little ones that give us that strength and courage. Plus when you’re 40 or so you should be more mature and a lot more stable in all aspects which will help you be a better mom than what you would have been at 23.
Image if you would have settle down 10 years ago and gotten married. All those mamories and milestones from your husband and children. Ten years of memories. That is what I told my wife she is now a nurse practitioner and I just got out of the military and pursuing an engineering mayor with our son. 13 years of amazing memories growth and milestone. Dont waste your time and settle down
Nuttin but CAP on this right here…..The choice to have either a kid/Family was never a man”s .it was always yours…(The MAN holds the choice to replace you on that DREAM JOB!) The victim mentality because of sacrifices is strong. Even with the cool ones.
True
Good conversation
Great conversation!!! Thank you so much for sharing Julissa! ❤️
Love this topic ❤️
The problem of freezing eggs its the statistical speaking the odds are very slim, also if you dont freeze your eggs when you are young, it very difficult that works when you are 38 or older.
I really enjoyed this conversation! Love you both!!
Rocsi looks hella good for 40🌸❣
Love this!!!
Very real convo
Great Conversation!!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Rocsi's prime was 18-24. She had ample time to lock down a quality man. The fact that she wasted 16-22 years and now resorts to freezing her 40 year old eggs means its over
She is an Alpha widow, she had serious options in men and squandered them. Now they are both trying to find men that match the big shots they were with in their youth but could not secure.
You are not God and cannot say that it’s over for her. You just cannot.
@@LadyK007 so when her gynecologist says it’s over, is that medical professional playing God as well??
@@paulbartell She very well still could have kids naturally, she can adopt, or she could become an amazing step mom to someone else’s kids. To say she can’t find love and have a family because of her age is just wrong.
Facts
Great info sisters💓💓💯💯
Nice episode.
It really sucks for those who can’t afford $10-15K right now but want to do it.
Jullissa jewelry is always so pretty
Happy thanksgiving gobble gobble gobble Charlie
Beautiful inspiring woman 💜🙏
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 great talk.
My 106th and park queens 👑💝🤗
Ouch, this is sad.... A bunch of bad advice, sucking down wine, and stroking each other's delusions. Plus, yeah you do look fourty. Game over.
Great topic ladies.
Rocsi, what happened with Bruno though?👀
Right
You both are still absolutely gorgeous. I believe your time for motherhood and marriage will be coming soon. You both have lived full lives. I think when you realize your life is full. Meaning even after your child grows up and your an empty nester. Can you handle reclaiming your life and still enjoying yourself too. While they enjoy theirs too. Then you know you're ready to take that step. That goes for women and men. Your kids are your contribution to society. Are you going to raise someone who can help and thrive? Or are you going to half step as a parent. I am glad i didn't consider it in my early 20s. I was partying and enjoying myself. In my 30s i feel more prepared. I know myself and my family history much better. So i say fuck the pressure you know when you're ready and serious for kids.
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IDK they were friends, love that. I've always favored Rocsi XOXO
Rocsi & julissa looks good for there age. But I believe that they’re still looking for a high value man with high income. & most men don’t make that & the ones that do I dating women half their age
Just walk with GOD or pray for your partner so share with the poor, pray pray pray , share share share
It is very important for women to tell me what is your past with guys. Anytime a woman slept with more than on man is a woman not to be with. Men and woman are not the same level like is men we could hit multiple women from A-Z but it doesn't mean some of us genuine mature men would do it. You can say past is the past because it does comes back later or on at some point in our lives.
I love how open and honest you are. I'm so glad I found this channel.
Loved this
The wall is undefeated for a reason 2 perfect examples right here 🤣🤣🤣
I love you both.
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SERIOUS talks!!!!!!!
So fun fact , just cause you’re chronologically older doesn’t mean your ovaries are older. I learned that. Ummm she said those women ( ie Cardi, Christina Milian) have successful relationships 😘😘🤦🏾♂️one was repeatedly cheated on and the other got with a man with multiple babies.
I really enjoyed this… SUBSCRIBED
Definitely moms don’t sleep, I’m watching this with two babies sleeping and my husband snoring lol. But I did it in my own time.
God bless 🙏🏽♥️♥️
Lovely ladies
Julissa your a doll love ya vioce
You two will never have kids. Just accept it. Take your own advice and stop stressing over societal pressures. You two don’t want to have kids. You want the fun part of being parents. Just enjoy being uncles and aunts. [+]
Alpha widows who have hit the wall making perfect reaction content for the red pill manosphere….
This video is honestly sad. And then rocsi named celebrities to make a point... Celebrities are not good examples and you named women who are horrible examples for a vast majority of women. I hope no woman takes advice from successful women who are still unhappy with their lives. These women also defaulted to the usual trope of blaming men.
Men knocking women up to lock them down is very common. Yet people act surprised. I'm was 28 with my first baby. Found out he was married after having his baby. He thought he was gonna have the flexibility to come and go as he pleased. I politely sent him away and told his wife
Does Rocsi have a TH-cam also?
106 & Park fam❤️
Julissa putting Rocsi on blast at "With them legs and them toes out!"
Rocsi DOES have great toes/feet! Julissa never showed her feet on 106th and Park.
they sill wanting for the top 10% of men in their 50s, they won't settle if even they reach 60's
If you don’t do something about it now, y’all will be having a sad conversation 19 years from now with no kids! Get you a damn man and get married or regret no having kids at 50!
the data doesn't support this. women with no fertility issues and who don't have kids rank super high on the happiness scale. it's actually middle aged men who are the most unhappy (regardless of marital or child status).
@@k.h.a.l.i.l. i disagree
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