Fridays with Tab &Chance/ Episode: In Sickness and in Health
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Trigger warning: We are talking about grieving in this weeks episode and it gets a little emotional! I hope this sparks some beautiful conversations! We love y’all!
As a person who has had no positive examples of healthy relationships & marriages, you all teach me so much. It is such a joy and honor to witness you all's honest and authentic relationship (with both the good times and the challenges). I can't thank you all enough for sharing!
I love y'all. Thank you for sharing, as always you gave some wise advice. ❤️
Yes they are excellent couple to lean on when you want to see positive vibes in the couples but please don’t forget to seek God
That's the thing... Tab and Chance discuss the good and bad. They let their emotion show which is authentic!! I am so thankful for them. I wish that they had a reality TV show based on their lives.
Like he shared the last name and gone take it back 😂😂
Same
Chance and Tab Brown..... y'all make my soul laugh and has my heart open up to receive love at 51. Y'all are so fun to watch. Congrats Chance.
Yes, they are so fun to watch!! Great way to put it
I'm so glad Chance is opening up. He has slot to say and I'm here for it. Keep talking, because we're listening. 👂🏾
“TOOK”= tabitha’s power!
“GAVE” = chance’s power!
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This is going to help a lot of people… it’s already helping people right now. You’re so real and so right. God continue to bless you both to be a blessing.❤️🙏🏾
My favorite part of these videos is that they are willing to reevaluate the past together, learn from past mistakes and grow. That’s bomb! Love y’all
Well said! 💯
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Two beautiful souls! The realness.✊🏾💕🥰
This is what I needed. Lost my mom 6/3/22 and my dad 7/20/22 . I watched my mom go thru her sickness for months and cared for her on her death bed. While taking care of her I didn't really have time to grieve because I was in do mode to make sure she was comfortable. My Dad got sick and passed 10 days later. It's been a hard journey processing my grief and emotions after they both passed. This is my first holiday season without my parents and it hurts so bad.
I’m sorry for your loss😢😢❤
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Praying for you.
Lord I thank you for comforting and strengthening you and letting you know that He is there, even when you think He isn't. He said He will never leave you or forsake you. ❤🙏
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It certainly is not easy. I lost my mom, dad, husband and mother in law all in a two year span back to back. I felt so all alone at times, but the Lord saw me through.
Thankful God helped you through this, as I get older, it feels like death is happening all around us. And when they are back-2-back, the followup deaths, you kind of feel numb to, kinda of just going through the motions, but God, is able to do exceedly abundantly above what we ask. Regardless of how overwhelming any situation is, He is still good and still is there and loves us!
@@KitaJovan yes I agree. Thanks for the reply. 💖
God is faithful, sorry for all your loss. I pray God continues to strengthen you through life, and fill your emptiness with unconditional love.
I am so sorry. That must have been extremely hard.
@@crystalynedwards4975 Yes, praise God for his love
I love how his arm immediately went out when he noticed you were crying. Your marriage is just awesome
Really? I can’t believe it
God send me to this Channel today I am going through that right now with my mom but I'm so blessed to hear this conversation thank you so so much cuz I'm feeling like I'm not doing nothing but you said just my presence is doing something
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Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and wisdom with us Tab and Chance! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
That moment - Chance realized that Tab was crying… pure love.. BEAUTIFUL
I'm not crying that's just my allergies 🤣 We love You Guys..Happy Holidays to the both of you!
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@@John_summit1...Thanks
This is good food for the soul. Keep on GOD'S journey y'all touching lives. # Humble.
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I lost my mom a little over a year ago to the same illness your mom passed away from. I relate entirely to everything you said Tabitha. From the moment my mom was diagnosed, that is when the grieving began for me. I'm still haunted and traumatized by the loss of my mom but I learned a great deal from that experience. My mom showed me what strength, determination and positivity could do when faced with such a devastating diagnosis. I am so fortunate to have been loved by such a lovely spirit, my mother. Thank you guys for sharing.
I feel this post wholeheartedly. My mom transitioned in 2017 from metastatic breast cancer. The strength I have gained still amazes me. Even when I want to give up I think about her and how that would be dishonering her cuz she fought till the VERY end‼️ When you have a wonderful mom and she leaves this Earth, it changes you forever. Totally transforms your life and thought process. Stay strong💛
Hi @@ohgiftedone6473, I can definitely relate to U & Tab.
My dear mother transitioned April 2020. 1 mos after povid, pandemic, shut dwns, deaths. 😷Mandates officially started after I got to my mom's state. Hwever, I drove scared & solo to see, spend what ended up being her last 2 weeks in Hospice @ her 🏠 while she transitioned. 🤦🏾♀️😭😭😭
So it was a very hard, scary situation to deal with.
I felt so Lost, Numb, Tramatized, devistated & in 😳that my Mama was dying.😥😢😭😭😭 So my Whole 🌍 Crashed. Mann, I Really miss her soo much.😐🥺😥😢😭😭
@@Jesus.SaVeS77 Stay strong. I won't lie and say the pain gets any better. You just learn how to deal with it. Sometimes for me it feels just like yesterday. And the holidays, birthdays etc. each year pour salt on the wound. This is our reality until WE transition. I remember the good times. The love. The laughs. I thank God for giving her to me. She was one in a million. My consolation is that she is no longer suffering in this crazy world and is back with my grandparents. She was an only child. We will see them again someday. They are with us daily😇💛
My Son Passed February 16 and I have been in so much pain. It’s like a Part of my heart Has been ripped out! My husband won’t talk about it.Grief is a part of an emotion that no one else can speak on because we all grieve differently! Yes men do grieve differently! Men handles it totally different than females. Thank you so much, Tab and Chance!
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Sending love & prayers for you
I'm so sorry for your loss, I'll be praying for you and your husband.
Released my maiden name!Oh I felt that in my spirit!
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I've been there. What ever don't kill you makes you stronger. Thank you for being so transparent.
Gdeve. @Yolanda Robinson,
My dear mother use 2 say that to me when I was going thru hard times. Mama RIP! May God rest yur soul.
Real love at 11:11. When uncle chance sees aunt tab emotional and he put his hand around her!!!! I can see he just wanted to comfort her!!❤
Absolutely
Exactly! Awww! He Really 😍❤️😍💞 & Cares for his Sweet Wife for Sure.
Yes
At 11:11 that’s the Twin Flame Angel Number 😇
My favorite power couple 🥰🌹👏🏾💖
This episode was very timely for me. I just lost my mother on Nov. 9th. We are laying her to rest on tomorrow Nov. 20th. My wife and I are navigating these waters as we speak! To her credit, she’s doing a good job handling me right now. I’m not an overly emotional person. I handle death relatively well. I’m up (emotionally) most of the time but I’ll have my little moments here and there. My wife, who has lost her mom as well, has been very sensitive and gives me my space or whatever I need when the time comes. She understands the assignment. “In good times and bad…” Thanks for sharing!
This was a tender episode. Thanks Tabitha & Chance for sharing your hearts in such an intimate way.
I do the intro song with y’all including the robot move! 😂💃🏻⭐️🥰
🙋🏽♀️ me too! Lol😂
Chance is so intelligent ! Thank God y’all got through to be a visible couple for us!
I can relate to this conversation because my husband and I went through both parents passing away early in our marriage.! I think it brought us closer together ❤now celebrating 36 years 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏿🙌🏿😊
Sorry for your loss 😢! Congrats on your stronger marriage. May your marriage continue to strengthen & be blessed 🙏🏾.
Praise God, thanks for sharing!
My mom- in- love died back in 2019, and this definitely made us closer.
We have been married for 32 years now!
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To God be the Glory and Honor on this and everyday of your marriage! I love how you two have authentically grown together and allowed the Grace of The Most High to reward you publicly for your perseverance, tenacity & patience with each other. Tab, my Aquarius sister, you are an anomaly and I see me in you and it fills my soul to see you inheriting your rewards! 🦋🤞🏾🌻👑🧡
Aw, I can tell Chance was holding back his tears throughout this episode. 💔🤧Thank God they made it through, and THANK YOU BOTH for sharing your testimonies. ❤❤❤❤❤
Omg yasssss Tab im a Daddy’s girl too TELL’EM!!! 😂😂😂🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Oh lawd tab and chance!!! I had no idea i’d get so emotional 😭😭 thank you so much for sharing and loving each other. May God continue to bless your family and all that you do💕
Tab your mom was the first ‘Team Chance’! I love it.
This is what Real Loves looks like!! I wish more men would express their love on these internet streets!! And Thank y’all for having tough conversations !! Makes us all want to be better!!❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽for your Son…
My Mother died of Cancer at 39yrs. & I was 15. Then I found out that when was 4yrs. my Father died of Cancer at 54yrs., only a nine month illness. Now I’m 56yrs. & I have finally stop living under the thought I was gonna die young of cancer.
TGBTG🙏🏾 Thank y’all! 😘😘
The wording in the vows have always resonated with me, which is why when I got divorced after 9 years, I realized my husband and I viewed them totally differently. I recommend couples have a deep conversation about them and other conversations such as finances, children, conflict etc..Tab and Chance keep sharing so others can learn and heal.❤️ My husband lost his mother at the age of 29, and he just shut down, did not talk about her anymore and would not seek counseling. I think it was then that our marriage started to die. However, we remarried 11 years after divorce and have a beautiful marriage and been back together 11 years. Not for everyone but it's our story.
Bless the Lord. Awesome testimony. The covenant of marriage is more serious than people realize
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My momma was also given a terminal diagnosis. My focus was just to take care of her. After she died ( I guess I was in denial) I didn’t really grieve until a year later and boy it hit me hard. You both have many blessings gifted to you by God!
Important message. Grace for your partner as you learn how to navigate new experiences. I ❣️ yall. Thank you. 💯🙏🏽
A definite tear-jerker! Thank you Tab and Chance for sharing!
You guys were blessed to have found your person in this big world
Hi guys you are adorable 🥰 thank God for what you bring to the black community ❤👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾keep doing what you do👍🏾
Tough conversations. Y’all got me crying 😭
This was a much needed conversation Tab & Chance. Thank y'all for being open and honest. With God grace and mercy y'all got through.
This REALLLLLLLLLY hit home for me. I recently lost my mother-in-law and my husband is the ONLY child!!!!! I am use to death but this is a different hurt 😔. I hide my grief to be available for him.
I did the same thing when my MIL passed. I was really distraught about it because her and I got along so well and she was a confidant to me and super grandma to our kids…she was just a sweet Godly woman I felt like it was unfair because she died fairly young. But I felt like I had to be strong for my husband and didn’t want to really fall apart about it….
This was a good topic because I experience losing my mother and other family members. 😢😢 I didn't understand the grieving process. It became me asking God WHY did he take everyone that I ❤❤ or was close to? It happened so much throughout my life that emotionally I was immune to it. I started getting angry with God. As I got older that's when I learned that someday we all going to leave here. Thank you Tab for helping me with this topic. 💞💞
Another fantastic and needed conversation. Tab and Chance keep up the great work and healing.👏👏👏👏😊
This was a great conversation. Beautiful!
Man…..I love you both in how you show up as yourselves, which is a gift in itself….and I’m so grateful for you sharing this particular topic, for we (my husband and I) are going thru a season of loss as we speak….I saw this when u posted it, and pinned it, b/c i had just lost a sibling…little did i know, i was also gonna lose a cousin i helped raise right after…so THIS Thanksgiving, I will be EVEN more grateful for the ppl HE adds to our lives, but it will definitely be a hard one…the IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH part has been showing up all in our marriage…but THANK YOU for sharing things that i never considered….it gives me a wonderful perspective and keeps me from feeling neglect or even anger with my spouse or anyone else for that matter❤….b/c we all grieve differently….and that includes family as well. So, i definitely LOVE the talks with you both, b/c I’m learning, you can find your mentors/help/wisdom “in the streets” per Proverbs. ❤️🙏🏽 God Bless you and your Covenant, especially as you continue to be a blessing to ours. ******sorry for the long post…definitely from the heart******
"and God's grace! Say that Chance! Tab, Keep doing what you do! We watch you on rerun daily (Tab Time) Blessings and more Blessings!
I just love y’all ❤❤❤❤
Powerful message powerful strong couple thank you always for sharing such beautiful beneficial knowledge true King and Queen 🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️❤️💪🏾
Didn't know I was gonna cry. This was right on time for so many reasons. Thank you guys 🙏🌟💖
I always enjoy watching you guys, the energy is positive, but tab, I love tha fro!!! It's giving Pam Grier vibe all over. Thank you for sharing....God Bless and Happy Thanksgiving to your family
Lord I pray for this type of covering in a marriage from my future husband. I love this representation of a marriage. Thank you Tab & Chance.
You two are truly Heaven Sent and I'm so Thankful and Grateful you shared this. No one likes having these conversations and I know that wasn't easy my husband and I dealt with losses on both sides and dropped everything and were there for each other. We also have a young son with a chronic illness that can be very challenging but we get through it. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH IN LIFE ON YOUR JOURNEYS AHEAD AND CONTINUING TO LOVE EACH OTHER UNCONDITIONALLY ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Although, it’s not easy, I’m blessed to be caretaker for my aged parents. I call them my 90 YEAR OLD TODDLERS! 😂🥰🥹
I love it 😂
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I totally understand my mom 89.
Senior babies....🙂
Such a beautiful and important conversation. I grieved my grandfather during his sickness and it’s an important conversation that doesn’t happen enough. When we watch our loved ones die, we grieve who they were while they shift through transition. It’s so hard to put into words. I did write an article called “Pre-Death Grief” as a healing part of the process.
Im so happy and grateful that the both of you stayed together and have grown from the process. You are truly blessing others by sharing your stories. Thank you 🙏🏽 I haven’t met y’all, but I love you both and pray continued success in your life and marriage. God Bless 🙏🏽
*Thank you* Auntie Tab and Chance!! Our family is dealing with this same situation. I am “Chance” and had not experienced death in my family compared to my husband who has had numerous family members pass. His mother just passed a couple of weeks ago and today is also her bday. I am trying to navigate my own pain while still being strong for him. It’s very difficult.. I am doing the things that Chance noted just being present, making sure he eats, being near him etc and praying.
Tab/Chance, after the loss of my son, he was murdered, a innocent by stander. After hearing you guys talk about grief, has enabled me to release some of the hurt and pain associated with his death. I didn't know how to grieve for my son. Then I was diagnosed with cancer. Thought I was going to die. Seeing you guys and hearing your story has given me hope. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.
I remember when my godmother told me when she was about 28 years old before I met her that she had a massive stroke and her husband left her and their four children and moved on with another woman..I couldn't believe someone could do something like that to another person..I mean I was baffled, shocked, hurt for her🤦🏽♀️I was in total disbelief..He divorced her and everything, but here's the kicker, years and years later, now remember he left her and divorced her right..After her terrible stroke, she went through a long recovery period..But years down the line he went blind and he had noone to be there for him, she took him in and helped him..I was like wow how was she able to find it in her self to help him, because how he did her truly hurt her to her soul, but she is one of the most forgiving people I know, I've watched her forgive some very harsh and hurtful offenses from people she loves to the bone..Lord that thang is deep to me!! Because if someone did to me what her husband did to her, I would never, ever wanna see them again in life 💔
Thank you for sharing and be transparent at all times!!!
The tears that are rolling down my face. This was beautiful ❤ keep them coming
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Lost my mom two weeks ago after a two year battle with cancer. My grief did start with her diagnosis. Thank you for showing me I'm not the only who felt that too.
Tab & Chance, these episodes would be AMAZING as podcasts too 🤩
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Tab and Chance……….my mom died of ALS and I can definitely relate to the feelings you talked about Tab of dealing with health issues and feeling like it was my mom’s illness all over again, except it was me. Turns out it was something else, but there’s so many emotions we go through losing the ones we care so much about. We thought we were comforting my mom but it was her who was comforting us. I thank y’all for having the tough conversations. It really helps not only me, but I’m sure many others too.❤️
Chance and Tab, I love watching you both. Y’all are an inspiration to me for sure with truth and laughter is just amazing. When I feel down, Tab inspirational quotes and your words that God, gives you for us. I appreciate it and you. ❤️🌹❤️🌹💙💙
💜💜💜 Thankful for yall's journey and ability to reach so many people. Love 💜
This is what intimacy looks like! This is what a marriage should be about! Have those hard conversations!
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours! Thanks a lot for this moment. Love y’all
That’s that black aunty uncle love ❤ ❤❤ nothing like black love
This made me cry much needed. Powerful couple 🙏🏾❤️
I can relate. My Mom was diagnosed with a disease and I had the time with her knowing she was going to die.
But God!! Thanks for your transparency.
Donna is the bomb 💣 ❤
Thank you for sharing this! So many people need to hear this. ❤
Friday's Friday's Fridays with TAB AND CHANCE!!!! (Bump Bump Bump) 😂 You guys are such a beautiful couple! This is a very important topic to discuss with your partner! Thank you for sharing!
You both should have an hour long pod cast just talking about life experiences. I always get excited to see a new “Fridays with Tab and Chance.” I click on immediately but it goes by so fast and I’m left wanting more. 😊
I really admire the transparency
"This was an easy assignment because I love you." 😭 mmmmmm
Very good conversation. Thank you.
Oh I’m grateful for this conversation- I lost 4 close family members in 1 year my dad, uncle and both grandmothers.. my grief is still a process, and understanding how people reacted to it,is part of the process too. I feel my family around me and that brings me much comfort
Thank you Tab and Chance for your example of Godly love. I truly appreciate your family, and using the favor God has on your life to help others
Beautiful, authentic commentary. ❤
I thanks y'all for telling that story it's 🎯 home
Tab I love your hoodie where can I purchase one?
😫This was definitely a tough discussion... 😇I appreciate you both for sharing your experiences...
Can I ask where chance got his hair done at I need the same person to do mine please yall
Wow I love it I soaked every ever words you both said.
I Love The Both Of You My Suga’s
Thank you for sharing this with us! I’ve been through some tuff Deaths myself. One was my Daddy just after Christmas of 1991, the hardest thing I’ve ever had to face.. I was married in my mid twenty’s and still it was hard. Then next one was my GrandMaw she was very precious to me! We were very close and just like chance my husband was very close with my Daddy and my GrandMaw. All he knew to do was be their and also we had our children to take care of and he done just that as well. He was taking all this in and not only be their for me but our children had just lost their Pop and their Great GrandMaw we all are a close family.
Years go by and my husband Dad gets sick bedridden for few months and he looked at me and said please take care of me. I said Bill I’ll take care of you until God says know more,and I done just that took care of him at his worst for 13 days straight and I wouldn’t have changed one thing because that’s the way He wanted it too be and that’s how It was until God came and took him home and Heaven is exactly where he wanted to be .. Then years later the second wave came and his Mom got sick and I was their for my husband and she’s with her husband now and Jesus.. It was ruff but it taught us that know matter what be there and help where you can and see your spouse when they are facing hard things and let them know that your there to face it with them...
Tabitha and Chance thank the this with us...
My God this was amazing. I’m sending this video to my husband. Thank you for being open and comfortable enough to share your story. ❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂 “My daddy worked hard for 48 years…”
Sincerely needed this video.. SMH. I've dealt with so much literal death and figuratively speaking death of relationships and etc. Even death of my old self/way of living.
Thank you ❤️
I heard it said...grief is the cost of love 💘 so true!
I always ad lib
Fridays
You know that I'ma kick it with ya...
Fridays...
You know that I'ma kick it with ya... Fridaaayyysss with Tab & Chance ☺
Such a beautiful conversation of empathy, personal growth and partnership
Thanks for sharing ❤
Donna is blossoming, as always and bouncing & behaving..and it looks like she's got a boyfriend (Chance's hair) LOL
Chance and Tab! Tonight, I see so many similarities between you two dealing with death and family health issues and me and my husband. I had dealt with death and ailing family members a lot, beginning at a young age but he hadn't lost an immediate family member until he was in his late 40s. (I should add that he was in his early 30's when we married.) At my weekly church bible study, we focused on grief for the last 3 weeks and it's been really helpful (My adult son passed in June of this year). This one really threw me for a loop! So many mixed emotions. He had been ill for years but I didn't think it was terminal and don't know if he did but I know he said many times that he was tired of being sick and ready to join my mom and other family members. I'm thankful to God for allowing me to have my son for 44 years, for delivering him from his pain and sickness, for my husband and his love and his allowing me to grieve in my own way. Thanks for sharing and teaching! God BLESS!!
This came on time. I lost my mother on the 8th...thank you.
My condolences ❤
@@OnyinyeNwokorie thank you.
I love you both so much! Thank you!! Happy Holidays everyone
Checking in from the DMV.
Such a beautiful couple inside and out, real relationships goals Blacklove is magical and run
As someone who lost a parent, I can attest to how hard it is to move through that grief while being married and raising children! Very good conversation about an incredibly sensitive topic! Love y’all! ❤
It is truly a blessing to see this type of love!
Simply beautiful ❤️