i wasted my past 28 years, doing nothing interesting to me. now im so wasted and i can't even tell what is my passion is or what are the things that I am good at (even i don't know if i am good at my job since i get fired/ refused so many times) ! i spent two weeks sat to the PC taking personality and passion tests, watching tutorials on how to get a life or even how to be liked by the people around me! i feel like i really need guidance from an expert, because i am so afraid to spend my entire life doing such mistakes (actually doing nothing), I am like i lost my direction in life specially after i lost my job and my girlfriend in the same day and i went into this dark tunnel. So if you're reading this comment and still young , PLEASE don't waste your golden years being shy, introverted, perfectionist , or without having hobbies.
Ehab Awni My condolences for what's happened to you. I really hope you find who you are and things get better for you soon. But what's the problem with being an introvert? It's a part of who I am. I enjoy being alone and seldomly speaking.
It doesn't matter how old you are to find a new passion. Don't beat yourself up. I hope you found a job. Also people are weird, and usually you will not know for sure if they like you or not. Work on liking yourself. Some will like you and some will not, and that is normal. Do yoga💖It will bring you happiness and inner peace. Then you can go from there. I just realized I recommend yoga to everyone. That must be my passion😍😍😍Well good luck.
I understand you, because I am also lost. I graduated in civil engineering and I have difficulty on that. Finding once passion is not easy, my passion is all about arts, adventure, martial arts and free lancing which is I own my time. Keep it up, you will find your place too.
1. What makes you lose track of time? Ans: Thinking and working for money 2. What do you spend money to do? Ans: I don't have money to spend for anything special :( 3. Where do you fear judgment? Ans: Lol, judgment nobody to judge 4. What makes your heart race? Ans: the bills that I get at the end of the month
It sounds like you are a burning museum and everyone is running in to take a free masterpiece. Take charge and start delegating who takes what (of your paycheck) and where it goes. Bar the doorway of your finances and refuse entrance to those you are not ready to pay at that time. Pay a little to keep them happy, but do not let their loud demands empty your coffers. Set up a budget for yourself, leaving enough money for you, that will allow you to enjoy life (just not as extravagant as before) while paying off your most pressing obligations. Start searching for other activities to enjoy that require a little less funding. Do not limit your pleasures, but explore those that cost a bit less. Kind of talking to myself here. I am sure you've already considered all of what I suggested, but I needed to hear it again myself. My money has always had a desire to go exploring other peoples lives way too often. I have had to convince it that I have a better plan. We get along much better now.
Passion is an overused term that usually freezes people instead of helping them find what they want to do. Truth is only a very small percentage of people follow passion as a career. I love writing music, it's my passion. But I also love my job, which is a paramedic. I didn't become one by figuring out my passion. I was curious in medicine, which led me to curiosity in emergency medicine, which led to some clear job choices. If you follow your curiosities it will lead you to some practical career choices that you can still enjoy. Don't think life has to be some Hollywood movie where you quit everything, move, follow your "passion", and become rich and famous.
Very well said :) I completely agree. This channel is just like all the other self-help books/ seminars etc. Ironically, I'm goin to quote the father self-help, Dale Carnegie:"arise is someone a deep want and then charge them for it". This channel doesn't exactly charge its viewers, although still gets paid (like any other youtube channel). Getting paid to fill our heads with white mice. lol
+DMT I don't get how that's bad... He isn't even creating a need out of nowhere... He is actually finds a pre-existing need and makes a profit out of it. Viewers get some help and he is paid by an external source... Why is self-help more "shameful" than having a shrink? Everyone has their own insecurities you can't pretend like they don't exist because they don't want to label themselves with something that's not even as embarrassing as we make it out to be.
Well...for me this video was quite helpful. And the video is about passion in the life general not finding your dream career. Analysing your likes vs dislikes which helps to improve our quality of life.
I agree. I have been beating myself up trying to figure out what my "passion" for a career is and have not been able to figure it out. I have a passion for film and music but I don't want to pursue either as a career. I have always been very curious about medicine/science, though. It doesn't give me the exciting feeling I get when watching films or listening to my favorite songs but I do find it interesting.
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I was so shy my teachers would constantly want to talk to my parents about it. I avoided presentations all through university. Now I have a TH-cam channel =))))) you can change anything you want about yourself if you put in the work
If you want to love what you do, abandon the passion mindset ("what can the world offer me?") and instead adopt the craftsman mindset ("what can I offer the world?") - Cal Newport, So Good They Can't Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You Love
+Pickpocket I feel it is worth pointing out that when Cal says this, it is not because he means you should not follow your passion, but that "follow your passion" does not help. passion is an adverb. You can do something passionately. There are careers and workplaces that are wrong for you, but not only 1 that is right. There are several possible places that fit. "passion" comes not from specific vocations necessarily, but form conditions within these vocations, such as a feeling of impact and autonomy. Also, worth looking up "career capital" to get a closer look at what he's talking about in the book.
1. What makes you lose track of time? -Anything i'm good at doing 2. What do you spend money to do? -Anything i'm good at doing 3. Where do you fear judgment? -Anything i'm good at doing 4. What makes your heart race? -Anything i'm good at doing. Which as you might imagine presents a problem. If you hinge your ego on doing something well the odds are you'll fail. A room full of musicans were asked how well they preformed at a time when it was really important for them to do well and the answer was almost universally "poorly". I'm pretty good at writing, at some videogames, i enjoy social interaction but that's mostly because i like to find out how other people work, what drives and motivates them and how they operate... Like i said though, i'm really only invested for as long as i'm doing something well, the rest of the time it's just rage and frustration and angst because i'm not living up to my potential.
1. What makes you lose track of time? Reading stuff that promise me to make money, but failed to do so. Music, and ideals get stuck in my head. 2. What do you spend money to do? product that promise to help me make money, or learn a skill. But in up being a scam. 3. Where do you fear judgment? My progress in life 4. What makes you heart race? PORN After rethinking about 30 mins later 1.Fire Emblem, and other video games 2.Fire Emblem DLC and other video games 3. Showing people what I did all my life 4.Having a good match Found my answer thanks man.
+Redbull357 This is the one that put me onto writing. It was staring me in the face the whole time, but I was too afraid to admit it because I was so nervous people wouldn't like it
#3 was the hardest question for me to answer. I genuinely wouldn't give a 2nd thought to what others think of the things that matter to me. What am I supposed to do here, skip question 3?
+Charisma on Command I've noticed that whenever you make these motivational videos you always have the same format of showing yourself on camera and looking straight at your audience. I wonder if you do this with intention and if you have you gone in depth of something related to this topic.
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3 was a really interesting question and one that i wasnt expecting. It definitely opened up a lot of thoughts for me. I have hobbies and interests and am really passionate about a number of things but i never really share or tell anyone else, it's much more a case that i will ask what the other person is into and talk about that. I think (especially when it comes to relationships) this chameleon-like behaviour is holding me back and perhaps opening that up and allowing myself to be judged will enhance my character and who i am as a person rather than always remaining a bit of an unknown. Nice vid!
+Loftus There can be a lot of times where we feel compelled to blend in for fear of sticking out. The irony is that if we did decide to stop blending in, we'd attract more of the people that are truly interested in who we are
My problem is that I am passionate about too many things. I can spend my day with a ton of different things... Well, this isn't really the problem. The problem is that I don't like doing things I have to do. Even if I find them interesting. For example if I have an exam or presentation or something I will literally study anything but the topic I need to study.
1.Music 2.Social interaction/Traveling (meeting new people) 3.Fashion 4.Making videos It really helpful for me. I've suffered by huge amount of boredom lately. I didn't even think about my own passion. Now, i've something to write down and remind me when that boredom comes. So yeah, it'll lead to confidence videos to make my passions to the next level. I'm really grateful i watched this video. Thank you for sharing man! you're a good dude honestly.
My Answers: - Using Phone All Day - Foods - I Don't Know - I Don't Know (Do I need to go to a doctor now?) I dont know what I love I dont know what is my passion I dont know what work should I do in future I dont know why I dont feel my heart.
Wow, another great video! I did the exercise and here's what I got for common themes in my answers: 1. Learning new ideas 2. My relationships 3. Music and dancing 4. Being creative and expressive 5. Performance 6. Beauty and style These answers are surprising and obvious to me at the same time. I'm really happy I did this. Thanks!
1.Playing Flute/Reading/Writing 2.Books...something that benefits me in life. 3.My flute Playing 4.When I am in the middle of a performance that is very epic,emotionally packed and helping others achieve musical goals
I agree. Often when I am on a vernissage and I am talking to some people there, they say 'I am an artist' and they don't sound convincing by saying it. When I ask them what kind of art they are doing, they start to stutter and they don't seem to have any passion for what they are doing. I loose interest right away. I don't want to say I expect everybody to be a successful artist, but I expect some passion about what people do.
Thanks, Charlie. I'm forwarding these to my 20 year old daughter. This is the kind of info. I wish someone would have presented to me at that age. YT is so awesome!
Charlie-God Bless you!-I have been trying to find an answer to this question for a lot of time and everyone I ask tells me they do something just because they did not have a choice-again God Bless You!I finally found my passion!
1. infantry tactics/ reading 2. gun range 3. physical ability/ intelligence 4. firefights think i know where i should focus my career on. funny i was all about it but got lost somewhere down the road. appreciate your videos.
1. Creating music,playing video games 2. Plugins for creating music 3. I fear to be judged at my songs 4. Still creating music,listening to cool songs,talking with a cute girl. So yeah,I just love making music
1st question-listening to music 2nd question- i dont have much money ,but if i had i would spend it on travelling to other countries . 3rd question-telling them i like to sing because they might laugh at me,and when someone laughs at me i loose all my confidence. 4th question-when i have to sing in public or infront of anyone. THANK YOU for this video!💗😊
1) what makes U lose track of time? A) hmmm No idea 2) what U spend money to do? A) Nothing, really 3) where do U fear judgment? A) Everyyywhere 4) what makes Ur heart race? A) RUNNING 🏃 AND TALKING TO MY CRUSH
Hey Charlie - I think your questions are great for finding one's passions but unfortunately I still can't find the answer to what I'll do professionally. I've always been really good at foreign languages, I dance ballet and play the violin for hobbies and just recently I found myself interested in pursueing a career in medicine. I also secretly dream of becoming a writer. I generally love acquiring knowledge about cultures/religion/science (in particular neuroscience). While medicine would be the 'safe' path, the long studies to become a doctor and the shifts in hospitals don't excite me. Then again, being a writer isn't safe at all and I haven't even written much yet (I did win a creative writing contest in Italian for students this year though). I feel like my interests are vast and I could theoretically succeed in anything but that's just the problem, I'm not sure what I want. I'd appreciate any tips and thanks for the great video!
I feel so identified by this comment. I have multiple hobbies and have no idea in which one to focus or how to choose a career. What did you do or how did you figured things out? :(
What are you up to now?. I really identified with this comment and was thinking that in 6 years you might have figured something out. Please respond if you can. Thanks
Doesn't seem to work with awkward/weird kids. Here are my Answers: 1. Writing, Philosophy (the walking around in circles talking to ones self, while breaking down what a philosoph said or Theme/Idea), Dreaming (about all the idealistic shit you dream of as a kid, etc..), Playing, Friends. 2. meeting friends (bus ticket, beer), video games 3. my ability to communicate/holding a conversation, Anime & Manga (though I talk about it anyway), Writing (though I do read out loud anyway as I was part of a writing club) 4. meeting a crush. One should think I know what my passion is, yet there is none. I am driftwood.
Do those things more often! I feel that will help you make connections and open more doors. Also, try new things! You won't know what you love unless you give it a chance. My biggest passion in life is Hockey. When I was younger I had a predetermined idea of what hockey was and 'I knew' it wasn't for me, even though I didn't want to give it a chance. Today I contribute to forums, research stats, watch multiple games every day, and play twice a week. But I would have never gotten into it if my Dad didn't force me to watch a game on TV with him. It's crazy how opening a door can lead to the discovery of a piece of who you are. I'm no expert but I hope this helped :)
Great video! I took a half hour to think about this. I'll share what I have so far, then I gotta get ready to go to work. 1. What makes you lose track of time? - Working on a song in my studio - Pacing my house deep in thought about a variety of subjects - Decorating my house - Copy and paste helmet and sports logo graphics on word documents - Creating teams, especially uniforms, on Madden or NCAA Football - Looking at Google maps and street view - Watching a variety of different You Tube videos 2. What do you spend money to do? - Cable/Internet, to stay up to date with favorite sports teams and celebrities - Go to concerts and sporting events - Add to my sports and music memorabilia collection - Decorate my house - Learn new skills, such as singing lessons, recording music, and dating 3. Where do you fear judgment? - Lack of social life, especially dating - My music, I don't work with other musicians - I don't know enough about dating, music, sports, maps, graphic design, etc. 4. What makes your heart race? - Talking to or being around women I find attractive - Talking in front of a group - Simple 30 challenges - Performing my music - Watching a favorite sports team succeed
i like how logical and methodical you are with every topic you talk about. that is what makes you stand out. people want to be told what to do, not just what they are doing wrong. keep it up man.
Well, you don't have to "find your passion". Not a single person on this planet is limited to be passionate only about some particular things. We are passionate about something particular, but if that thing didn't exist, we would simply be passionate about something else. Passion doesn't come from it's subject, it comes from the person. Also, success brings far more passion, than passion brings succes. Even if you are not looking for practicall success in that thing, but you are after that excitement, just look at something that people around you are not ussually that good at, but something you could potentionally excell at.
1. Creating games (coding, designing maps, creating interesting characters and intriguing stories, creating your own world etc.), Watching videos on TH-cam, Parties, Seeing magnificent landscapes, A deep conversation with a friend. 2. Concerts, Parties, Pubs/clubs, Festivals, Clothes/furniture/things that look nice aesthetically. 3. Singing/playing the piano, The music I listen to, My clothes, Writing, Movies/Shows I watch. 4. Creative problem-solving, Performing/presenting/public speaking, Creative inspiration from a book/movie/show to make my own stuff, Improving myself, Setting Goals, Accomplishments, Groups of people cooperating on a creative team project, The excitement before a vacation/travel, Seeing new things, Listening to music, Improvising/solving problems in the moment, Goofing around with a big group of friends. The commonalities I found were: 1. Inspiring others/presenting/feeling important/doing something meaningful 2. Cooperation/companionship. 3. Creative and practical problem-solving. 4. New/change/creating. 5. Psychology/Self-improvement. Now there's only finding something that somehow combines all of this ...
I have searched and searched videos and articles, trying to find out how to find my purpose and passion. This is the first which truly resonated and made sense to me. Thanks so much!
I've never donated to any channel, nor loved the idea. But here I lie, awake at 5 AM not only loving what's said- but how you phrase and effectively communicate your thoughts. I've forwarded your trump v brand and other analyses to several people- and your 4 ideas on what motivates someone etc. I can personally learn a lot from your channel, which means many others can... The world and TH-cam is better for having your videos on it. That vocabulary video with trump and brand... Fascinating and so very true. Looking forward to trying and sending to all my 'stuck up' friends haha.
Can somebody help me? I don't know what my passion is but I have a list. 1. What makes you lose track of time? -Reading stories -Learning a language -Proving something -Thinking 2. What do you spend money to do? -Little advancements to help me in video games. 3. Where do you feel judgment? -Myself -My knowledge -Art 4. What makes your heart race? -Speeches
Doing what you love is like playing poker. It’s a journey of incomplete information, but that’s what makes it so intriguing. You never know what’s coming next. In the process, you learn to trust yourself. To follow your inner wisdom. Thanks for share
1. Writing, Reading, Listening to music, Games 2. Anything that could benefit my future or to make me happy 3. Everything relating to me 4. Social Interactions especially my crush
I m 39 and things went in a way that i will now have to start from scratch, no money, house, relationship The thing for me is i really don t know what specific path to choose and fully dedicate myself, you know? What i love the most is researching and gathering information on every topic , i have learned do much in so many different areas, but i don t see a way , or a niche, where i can monetize such a thing, Another thing is music, epic orchestral music which literally saved my life over the years, taking a course is a possibility, but i am afraid that i am too old Any tips or insights, my friend?
Gathering information,? Interesting! Write a book literally write it down in papers and search for publisher, start a yt channel may take like 2 years to reach good amount, and stock market trading gather information of what companies to invest on , or make a band just get up and gather some people whom u trust and upload good music videos on TH-cam man don't get this silly, watch breaking Bad and money heist the protagonists are middle aged men who literally amazing in their philosophy and work remember colonel sanders started in his 60s u have a LOT of time get the fck up and start man, world never gives a sht always stay motivated and never procrastinate. Greetings - (a virtual stranger)
Make informational youtube videos and explain difficult concepts, that can only be understood through your research, in more simple terms that can reach a broad audience.
Resultingly, my passion seems to be gainig knowledge - all sorts of it, from every nook and corner inclusive of how much dust there is on the table. +Charisma on Command
1) how you lose track of time. - Writing poetry - Drawing - Watching youtube videos - Listening to music 2) what you spend money on - baking ingredients - My tiny house project - Fuel for van-living 3) In what do you fear judgment? - ideas I present, usually about people/human nature - my writing - my dancing 4) What makes your heart race? - Cycling - my boyfriend
What if through all these questions you have absolutely nothing come to mind? Does that mean you already practice your passion or you haven't found one yet? Does it mean your life is thus far meaningless?
sounds like that to me but I have been watching myself for some time and I am beginning to understand myself, maybe you should keep a dairy and note how you feel about the day and what you did that day in general, do let me know if that worked.
1. What makes me lose track of time? Music, TH-cam, editing stuff(videos), reading, writing, looking at/taking pics of animals or pretty sceneries 2. What do I spend money on? like nothing 3. what am I afraid of other people seeing? Dancing, my utube videos, uh that's it 4. what makes my heart race? taking pictures / observing animals, interacting with pets/animals, dancing(alone)
Your statement at 4:35 is a perfect representation of my life currently. Being a very shy and awkward person, I just don't know how to improve when it comes to social interactions, which is one of the more prominent subjects where I fear judgement. I force myself to talk sometimes, and I just kinda stutter through whatever I'm trying to convey. It just seems as if I can never get that tense feeling in my gut to go away whenever I talk to strangers.
+theHASSLEinHOFF Stick around the channel. That's exactly the kind of stuff we cover. You can also check out our blog www.charismaoncommand.com if you don't want to wait for more videos
I'm Parastoo 19 years old and I was so worry and confused about who I am or what I was borned to do. But now I got much closer to find my self after almost 1 year struggling with myself. So thank you so much for your big help🤘🤘🤘
Play basketball like your life depends on it. Wake up early, play basket ball, watch videos on how to play basketball better, find a role model. Do it everyday, find ways to recover better. get into it & get really good at it. You can become a star! & then you get to talk to a lot of women ;P
1. What makes you lose track of time? -surfing the net -sometimes studying about a topic I'm interested in -maybe programming -working on my job, analysing financial numbers -tarot videos -animes & dramas -browsing the net for things to buy -video games browsing -wasting time browsing things to improve my life and do none of them -listening to music 2. What do you spend money to do? -buying things that improve my life but leave it on the table -food -bubbletea -books -video games collection -extended readings of tarot readings 3. Where do you fear judgment? -being judged about not knowing what i want/what i need -introvert/shy -not having a goal/dream 4. What makes your heart race? -video games -music -talking abt traveling -getting chased by a killer in game -maybe wanting to do skydiving -watching horror movies So, anyone wanna tell me my passion?
Wow. You just named my passion. I’ve known what it was for awhile now, but I’ve been too afraid of judgment to share or pursue this as anything more than a hobby. Thank you so much!
Hello charisma tell my passion , my answers to all your four questions are 1. Spend lot of time in watching movies when I am alone 2.spend money on clothes,footwear and accessories ,and rest on needed things with time 3. Fear of being judged at singing a song 4.little heart beat increases in talking to a more smarter girl than me in a group,and also at times to unknown women
1. What makes you lose track of time 2. What activities in your life that u spend money to participate in 3. What area of your life do you fear judgement 4. What makes your heart race (2020)
1. What makes you lose track of time? I never lose track of time actually , its quite impressive 2. What do you spend money to do? only thing i can think of , is other people , and technology maybe 3. Where do you fear judgment? rly tough question, dont know an answer 4. What makes your heart race? social interaction , because i get nervous help?
If you don't know what to work on, just get really bad job a job you hate. If get a job you hate you will be thinking all the time what would you like to be doing instead of being working at a Mcdonalds, or as a dishwasher. Casey Neistat said it. Check out his channel btw
Good stuff, however, what could you suggest to a person that hasn't done ANYTHING productive other than videogames for the past few years? I haven't found a thing I am passionate about nor do I have a direction.
+Ernest Wolf Explore as much as possible. Say yes to random opportunities, including traveling,meetups (meetup.com), and random invitations. Though I personally am not a huge fan because my relationships with videogames is 100% addictive, I might also explore the videogame front. If you have something to offer other than simply playing (commentary, reviews, story analysis) throw up a video on TH-cam or Twitch. Odds are it won't become a profession, but it will get you in the habit of creating rather than simply consuming.
Any ideas as to what I can focus on? I'm 15 in the UK 1. Playing guitar, drawing, gaming and movies 2. Movies, gaming, drawing 3. My knowledge in general, drawings and physique 4. A new marvel movie, working out and a good game
I am very very very much happy today that I have seen this video ,cause from past 1 month I have been roaming around finding my passion.Thank you sir for guiding me and in future u will be great as you are in a perfect path
I turn on my music and dance for hours 11 pm to 2-3 am xD I also like to sing/write songs and take pictures. I have dance videos if anyone wants to check them out 😊 and does being critical of your talents mean you found your passions...? it means I care, right?
I really loved how you defined passion in simple, straight forward terms to help me identify mine. I used to think it was about how knowledgeable you were on something & how much time you devote to it daily.
The answers to all 4 are "nothing" which is my actual struggle. I don't ever "lose track of time" over activities. I don't spend money.... On anything I don't have to. I don't give a crap about what people think... about me or my life (might be my age). My heart doesn't race over anything, unless I am doing cardio.....
Another great video, this is the most difficult and perhaps most important question you ask yourself when you yourself even don't know what you want to do in your life
I would like to send a big Thank to you bc you make some intangible terms and tasks seem so simple and practical than any career/life coach I’ve ever talked to.
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Ngl that is literally me, it sad
Same
on the same boat lol
i wasted my past 28 years, doing nothing interesting to me. now im so wasted and i can't even tell what is my passion is or what are the things that I am good at (even i don't know if i am good at my job since i get fired/ refused so many times) ! i spent two weeks sat to the PC taking personality and passion tests, watching tutorials on how to get a life or even how to be liked by the people around me! i feel like i really need guidance from an expert, because i am so afraid to spend my entire life doing such mistakes (actually doing nothing), I am like i lost my direction in life specially after i lost my job and my girlfriend in the same day and i went into this dark tunnel. So if you're reading this comment and still young , PLEASE don't waste your golden years being shy, introverted, perfectionist , or without having hobbies.
Thanks a lot, I appreciate it, and remember it’s never too late to start again! Its never over till ya kicked the bucket.
Ehab Awni My condolences for what's happened to you. I really hope you find who you are and things get better for you soon. But what's the problem with being an introvert? It's a part of who I am. I enjoy being alone and seldomly speaking.
It doesn't matter how old you are to find a new passion. Don't beat yourself up. I hope you found a job. Also people are weird, and usually you will not know for sure if they like you or not. Work on liking yourself. Some will like you and some will not, and that is normal. Do yoga💖It will bring you happiness and inner peace. Then you can go from there. I just realized I recommend yoga to everyone. That must be my passion😍😍😍Well good luck.
I understand you, because I am also lost. I graduated in civil engineering and I have difficulty on that. Finding once passion is not easy, my passion is all about arts, adventure, martial arts and free lancing which is I own my time. Keep it up, you will find your place too.
Thats sad...
I open my eyes and suddenly, 8 hours had passed by, I look at the clock, and realized I was sleeping, and its time for school.
I have a passion for sleep as well😍😍😍😍
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Welcome to the 'Grind'....
1. What makes you lose track of time?
Ans: Thinking and working for money
2. What do you spend money to do?
Ans: I don't have money to spend for anything special :(
3. Where do you fear judgment?
Ans: Lol, judgment nobody to judge
4. What makes your heart race?
Ans: the bills that I get at the end of the month
It sounds like you are a burning museum and everyone is running in to take a free masterpiece.
Take charge and start delegating who takes what (of your paycheck) and where it goes.
Bar the doorway of your finances and refuse entrance to those you are not ready to pay at that time. Pay a little to keep them happy, but do not let their loud demands empty your coffers.
Set up a budget for yourself, leaving enough money for you, that will allow you to enjoy life (just not as extravagant as before) while paying off your most pressing obligations.
Start searching for other activities to enjoy that require a little less funding.
Do not limit your pleasures, but explore those that cost a bit less.
Kind of talking to myself here. I am sure you've already considered all of what I suggested, but I needed to hear it again myself.
My money has always had a desire to go exploring other peoples lives way too often. I have had to convince it that I have a better plan. We get along much better now.
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Passion is an overused term that usually freezes people instead of helping them find what they want to do. Truth is only a very small percentage of people follow passion as a career. I love writing music, it's my passion. But I also love my job, which is a paramedic. I didn't become one by figuring out my passion. I was curious in medicine, which led me to curiosity in emergency medicine, which led to some clear job choices. If you follow your curiosities it will lead you to some practical career choices that you can still enjoy. Don't think life has to be some Hollywood movie where you quit everything, move, follow your "passion", and become rich and famous.
Very well said :) I completely agree. This channel is just like all the other self-help books/ seminars etc. Ironically, I'm goin to quote the father self-help, Dale Carnegie:"arise is someone a deep want and then charge them for it". This channel doesn't exactly charge its viewers, although still gets paid (like any other youtube channel). Getting paid to fill our heads with white mice. lol
+DMT I don't get how that's bad... He isn't even creating a need out of nowhere... He is actually finds a pre-existing need and makes a profit out of it. Viewers get some help and he is paid by an external source...
Why is self-help more "shameful" than having a shrink? Everyone has their own insecurities you can't pretend like they don't exist because they don't want to label themselves with something that's not even as embarrassing as we make it out to be.
Well...for me this video was quite helpful. And the video is about passion in the life general not finding your dream career. Analysing your likes vs dislikes which helps to improve our quality of life.
Yes
I agree. I have been beating myself up trying to figure out what my "passion" for a career is and have not been able to figure it out. I have a passion for film and music but I don't want to pursue either as a career. I have always been very curious about medicine/science, though. It doesn't give me the exciting feeling I get when watching films or listening to my favorite songs but I do find it interesting.
1: art, video games, reading
2: dance
3: dance
4: dance performances, presentations at school, getting my marks back
Someone out there has their heart racing over stamp collecting
+JustJoe Haha, we can only hope
Ok
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My grandpa loved collecting stamps, had several books filled
i am starting a youtube channel this helps Thxs!
I can't believe you were a shy kid? :) and now you're like this! That gives me hope for the future
Remember that his shy is very different from your shy
explain?
Same here 😣
@@TovenDo.O.Video- get it
I was so shy my teachers would constantly want to talk to my parents about it. I avoided presentations all through university. Now I have a TH-cam channel =))))) you can change anything you want about yourself if you put in the work
1. eating
2. eating
3. my eating habits
4. an empty fridge
hahah I love that too
poofiepoofie food taster!
food blogger!
possibly even a chef! (eat yourself as well as feed others)
Start an you tube channel about food!..
It'll really b great for foodies!!!
If you want to love what you do, abandon the passion mindset ("what can the world offer me?") and instead adopt the craftsman mindset ("what can I offer the world?")
- Cal Newport, So Good They Can't Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You Love
using "Trump" in a positive sense automatically dismisses any point you make.
+Pickpocket I feel it is worth pointing out that when Cal says this, it is not because he means you should not follow your passion, but that "follow your passion" does not help. passion is an adverb. You can do something passionately. There are careers and workplaces that are wrong for you, but not only 1 that is right. There are several possible places that fit. "passion" comes not from specific vocations necessarily, but form conditions within these vocations, such as a feeling of impact and autonomy. Also, worth looking up "career capital" to get a closer look at what he's talking about in the book.
+Rup Tratin where did I use trump in a positive you fucking zombie
Pickpocket "So Good They Can't Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You Love"
I like that!
My passion is to be happy, I want to travel America, adventure, learn new things, meet new people, and be enlightened.
1. What makes you lose track of time?
-Anything i'm good at doing
2. What do you spend money to do?
-Anything i'm good at doing
3. Where do you fear judgment?
-Anything i'm good at doing
4. What makes your heart race?
-Anything i'm good at doing.
Which as you might imagine presents a problem. If you hinge your ego on doing something well the odds are you'll fail. A room full of musicans were asked how well they preformed at a time when it was really important for them to do well and the answer was almost universally "poorly".
I'm pretty good at writing, at some videogames, i enjoy social interaction but that's mostly because i like to find out how other people work, what drives and motivates them and how they operate... Like i said though, i'm really only invested for as long as i'm doing something well, the rest of the time it's just rage and frustration and angst because i'm not living up to my potential.
same :(
1. What makes you lose track of time? Reading stuff that promise me to make money, but failed to do so. Music, and ideals get stuck in my head.
2. What do you spend money to do? product that promise to help me make money, or learn a skill. But in up being a scam.
3. Where do you fear judgment? My progress in life
4. What makes you heart race? PORN
After rethinking about 30 mins later
1.Fire Emblem, and other video games
2.Fire Emblem DLC and other video games
3. Showing people what I did all my life
4.Having a good match
Found my answer thanks man.
hahahaha..... like reading my own mind, fuck.
what a change u did on 4 xD
You made me cry...Cry and laugh xD
ProblemSolverEF jiren....is that u??
The money part is all about you. The idea of being rich that those books give you is not a thing that must happen
I couldn't answer a single one of these..
Wow, for me, the answer was practically the same in all.
u r not alone!!😂
@@Uranium-238-Eater wtf that's not true
Lumbago makes my heart race
Right there with you 🥺
Question #3 is the real game changer. No other TH-camr has asked that before and it's the most important one. :)
+Redbull357 This is the one that put me onto writing. It was staring me in the face the whole time, but I was too afraid to admit it because I was so nervous people wouldn't like it
#3 was the hardest question for me to answer. I genuinely wouldn't give a 2nd thought to what others think of the things that matter to me. What am I supposed to do here, skip question 3?
+Charisma on Command I've noticed that whenever you make these motivational videos you always have the same format of showing yourself on camera and looking straight at your audience. I wonder if you do this with intention and if you have you gone in depth of something related to this topic.
when u asked that the first thing that came to my mind was my spoken word
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So much truth in this video. Fantastic job man keep it up.
+MadMatt Thanks!
3 was a really interesting question and one that i wasnt expecting. It definitely opened up a lot of thoughts for me. I have hobbies and interests and am really passionate about a number of things but i never really share or tell anyone else, it's much more a case that i will ask what the other person is into and talk about that. I think (especially when it comes to relationships) this chameleon-like behaviour is holding me back and perhaps opening that up and allowing myself to be judged will enhance my character and who i am as a person rather than always remaining a bit of an unknown. Nice vid!
+Loftus There can be a lot of times where we feel compelled to blend in for fear of sticking out. The irony is that if we did decide to stop blending in, we'd attract more of the people that are truly interested in who we are
I can't wait to fulfill my dream of becoming a hippopotamus.
A furry?
Looool
Hahha whaat
Hahahahahahahaha
"A furry"? Hippos don't have fur
My problem is that I am passionate about too many things. I can spend my day with a ton of different things...
Well, this isn't really the problem.
The problem is that I don't like doing things I have to do. Even if I find them interesting.
For example if I have an exam or presentation or something I will literally study anything but the topic I need to study.
I did not know someone is exactly like me
1.Music
2.Social interaction/Traveling (meeting new people)
3.Fashion
4.Making videos
It really helpful for me. I've suffered by huge amount of boredom lately. I didn't even think about my own passion. Now, i've something to write down and remind me when that boredom comes. So yeah, it'll lead to confidence videos to make my passions to the next level. I'm really grateful i watched this video. Thank you for sharing man! you're a good dude honestly.
The problem is I have many interests.
Sometimes makes confused which the best to pursue in life.
Ya bro same problem
Same
Same I'm good at a lot of things too which makes it harder
Does it give you butterflies?
My Answers:
- Using Phone All Day
- Foods
- I Don't Know
- I Don't Know
(Do I need to go to a doctor now?)
I dont know what I love
I dont know what is my passion
I dont know what work should I do in future
I dont know why I dont feel my heart.
Same here
@@priti8213 not now anymore this is a year ago
My tip for you is to practice Meditation and spirituality
Wow, another great video! I did the exercise and here's what I got for common themes in my answers:
1. Learning new ideas
2. My relationships
3. Music and dancing
4. Being creative and expressive
5. Performance
6. Beauty and style
These answers are surprising and obvious to me at the same time. I'm really happy I did this. Thanks!
1.Playing Flute/Reading/Writing
2.Books...something that benefits me in life.
3.My flute Playing
4.When I am in the middle of a performance that is very epic,emotionally packed and helping others achieve musical goals
I agree. Often when I am on a vernissage and I am talking to some people there, they say 'I am an artist' and they don't sound convincing by saying it. When I ask them what kind of art they are doing, they start to stutter and they don't seem to have any passion for what they are doing. I loose interest right away. I don't want to say I expect everybody to be a successful artist, but I expect some passion about what people do.
Thanks, Charlie. I'm forwarding these to my 20 year old daughter. This is the kind of info. I wish someone would have presented to me at that age. YT is so awesome!
Charlie-God Bless you!-I have been trying to find an answer to this question for a lot of time and everyone I ask tells me they do something just because they did not have a choice-again God Bless You!I finally found my passion!
Happy to hear that!
which is ?
1. infantry tactics/ reading
2. gun range
3. physical ability/ intelligence
4. firefights
think i know where i should focus my career on. funny i was all about it but got lost somewhere down the road. appreciate your videos.
1. Creating music,playing video games
2. Plugins for creating music
3. I fear to be judged at my songs
4. Still creating music,listening to cool songs,talking with a cute girl.
So yeah,I just love making music
Gilleto so how do you create music?
I agree, except I don't really create music. I'm in choir and what not.
Edit: Do you play Fortnite on a ps4?
matches found!
I thought I liked making music too but as soon as I started it didn't feel good and I quit
1st question-listening to music
2nd question- i dont have much money ,but if i had i would spend it on travelling to other countries .
3rd question-telling them i like to sing because they might laugh at me,and when someone laughs at me i loose all my confidence.
4th question-when i have to sing in public or infront of anyone.
THANK YOU for this video!💗😊
I just found out that I don't really know myself. I couldn't answer your questions. I really need to take more time to think about this.
1) what makes U lose track of time?
A) hmmm No idea
2) what U spend money to do?
A) Nothing, really
3) where do U fear judgment?
A) Everyyywhere
4) what makes Ur heart race?
A) RUNNING 🏃 AND
TALKING TO MY CRUSH
I'm really really gratefull for those advices you give. It was all I needed. Honestly, thank you.
Happy to share :-)
1. sketching
2. long sleeve shirts
3. my competence
4. making someone smile along ... only sometimes 😊😏
Hey Charlie - I think your questions are great for finding one's passions but unfortunately I still can't find the answer to what I'll do professionally. I've always been really good at foreign languages, I dance ballet and play the violin for hobbies and just recently I found myself interested in pursueing a career in medicine. I also secretly dream of becoming a writer. I generally love acquiring knowledge about cultures/religion/science (in particular neuroscience). While medicine would be the 'safe' path, the long studies to become a doctor and the shifts in hospitals don't excite me. Then again, being a writer isn't safe at all and I haven't even written much yet (I did win a creative writing contest in Italian for students this year though). I feel like my interests are vast and I could theoretically succeed in anything but that's just the problem, I'm not sure what I want. I'd appreciate any tips and thanks for the great video!
Svenja Re same man i just have so much things that i love to do... But dont know which one to choose.... However what u did now ?
I feel so identified by this comment. I have multiple hobbies and have no idea in which one to focus or how to choose a career. What did you do or how did you figured things out? :(
Oh yeah, same here
What are you up to now?. I really identified with this comment and was thinking that in 6 years you might have figured something out. Please respond if you can. Thanks
1)Painting & Crafts
2)Painting & Crafts
3)Painting & Crafts
4)Art & Colours
I really liked this video. Thanks for helping me to find my passion.
~ Glad you're finding it helpful. :-)
I can´t find something that make my heart race, how can I do to find my passion?
You were a shy kid? But look at you now! You're such an inspiration.
Doesn't seem to work with awkward/weird kids.
Here are my Answers:
1. Writing, Philosophy (the walking around in circles talking to ones self, while breaking down what a philosoph said or Theme/Idea), Dreaming (about all the idealistic shit you dream of as a kid, etc..), Playing, Friends.
2. meeting friends (bus ticket, beer), video games
3. my ability to communicate/holding a conversation, Anime & Manga (though I talk about it anyway), Writing (though I do read out loud anyway as I was part of a writing club)
4. meeting a crush.
One should think I know what my passion is, yet there is none. I am driftwood.
Do those things more often! I feel that will help you make connections and open more doors. Also, try new things! You won't know what you love unless you give it a chance. My biggest passion in life is Hockey. When I was younger I had a predetermined idea of what hockey was and 'I knew' it wasn't for me, even though I didn't want to give it a chance. Today I contribute to forums, research stats, watch multiple games every day, and play twice a week. But I would have never gotten into it if my Dad didn't force me to watch a game on TV with him. It's crazy how opening a door can lead to the discovery of a piece of who you are. I'm no expert but I hope this helped :)
u r not alone
Great video! I took a half hour to think about this. I'll share what I have so far, then I gotta get ready to go to work.
1. What makes you lose track of time?
- Working on a song in my studio
- Pacing my house deep in thought about a variety of subjects
- Decorating my house
- Copy and paste helmet and sports logo graphics on word documents
- Creating teams, especially uniforms, on Madden or NCAA Football
- Looking at Google maps and street view
- Watching a variety of different You Tube videos
2. What do you spend money to do?
- Cable/Internet, to stay up to date with favorite sports teams and celebrities
- Go to concerts and sporting events
- Add to my sports and music memorabilia collection
- Decorate my house
- Learn new skills, such as singing lessons, recording music, and dating
3. Where do you fear judgment?
- Lack of social life, especially dating
- My music, I don't work with other musicians
- I don't know enough about dating, music, sports, maps, graphic design, etc.
4. What makes your heart race?
- Talking to or being around women I find attractive
- Talking in front of a group
- Simple 30 challenges
- Performing my music
- Watching a favorite sports team succeed
Lol I have a passion for watching my favorite tv shows on loops for days at a time
i like how logical and methodical you are with every topic you talk about. that is what makes you stand out. people want to be told what to do, not just what they are doing wrong. keep it up man.
+lgu789 Appreciate that. Working hard to keep it actionable :-)
Well, you don't have to "find your passion". Not a single person on this planet is limited to be passionate only about some particular things. We are passionate about something particular, but if that thing didn't exist, we would simply be passionate about something else. Passion doesn't come from it's subject, it comes from the person. Also, success brings far more passion, than passion brings succes. Even if you are not looking for practicall success in that thing, but you are after that excitement, just look at something that people around you are not ussually that good at, but something you could potentionally excell at.
You know, these questions are straightforward enough to identify where our passion is. Thank you so much!
For me I enjoy:
1. writing
2. languages
3. sports
Hmm, I guess I don't have any passions then :')
Same here 😂
Same
Same
So try more things
And don't waste time watching videos
Build skill
@@tushartiwari5228 but what skill
1. Creating games (coding, designing maps, creating interesting characters and intriguing stories, creating your own world etc.), Watching videos on TH-cam, Parties, Seeing magnificent landscapes, A deep conversation with a friend.
2. Concerts, Parties, Pubs/clubs, Festivals, Clothes/furniture/things that look nice aesthetically.
3. Singing/playing the piano, The music I listen to, My clothes, Writing, Movies/Shows I watch.
4. Creative problem-solving, Performing/presenting/public speaking, Creative inspiration from a book/movie/show to make my own stuff, Improving myself, Setting Goals, Accomplishments, Groups of people cooperating on a creative team project, The excitement before a vacation/travel, Seeing new things, Listening to music, Improvising/solving problems in the moment, Goofing around with a big group of friends.
The commonalities I found were:
1. Inspiring others/presenting/feeling important/doing something meaningful
2. Cooperation/companionship.
3. Creative and practical problem-solving.
4. New/change/creating.
5. Psychology/Self-improvement.
Now there's only finding something that somehow combines all of this ...
1. Gaming, watching stuff online
2. /
3. /
4. /
great start
I have searched and searched videos and articles, trying to find out how to find my purpose and passion. This is the first which truly resonated and made sense to me. Thanks so much!
Fear of judgement doesn't mean you care about it, it means you have anxiety.
I've never donated to any channel, nor loved the idea. But here I lie, awake at 5 AM not only loving what's said- but how you phrase and effectively communicate your thoughts. I've forwarded your trump v brand and other analyses to several people- and your 4 ideas on what motivates someone etc. I can personally learn a lot from your channel, which means many others can... The world and TH-cam is better for having your videos on it. That vocabulary video with trump and brand... Fascinating and so very true. Looking forward to trying and sending to all my 'stuck up' friends haha.
1. Internet
2. Junk good
3. all areas
4. excercise
cant get anything out of that
I have the exact same answers :((
Can somebody help me? I don't know what my passion is but I have a list.
1. What makes you lose track of time?
-Reading stories
-Learning a language
-Proving something
-Thinking
2. What do you spend money to do?
-Little advancements to help me in video games.
3. Where do you feel judgment?
-Myself
-My knowledge
-Art
4. What makes your heart race?
-Speeches
Extremely Helpful!!
Thank you so much~~!
Now, i'm just Sure that Singing and Playing music is my True Passion!! :))
Happy to hear that!
Doing what you love is like playing poker. It’s a journey of incomplete information, but that’s what makes it so intriguing.
You never know what’s coming next.
In the process, you learn to trust yourself.
To follow your inner wisdom. Thanks for share
1. Video games
2. Video games
3. Video games
4. Video games
Please help me
Go pro
TH-cam bruh
Jeremy Hervois thats not the case here dude it was a joke obviously hes doing other stuff but he meant it as a joke..no need for a long response
Hey you could make TH-cam videos or like make your own with programming
Yepp thats me All the time Fighting games Starcraft 2 MK-9, Injustice Gods Among Us, MK-X etc.., etc..,
1. Writing, Reading, Listening to music, Games
2. Anything that could benefit my future or to make me happy
3. Everything relating to me
4. Social Interactions especially my crush
I m 39 and things went in a way that i will now have to start from scratch, no money, house, relationship
The thing for me is i really don t know what specific path to choose and fully dedicate myself, you know?
What i love the most is researching and gathering information on every topic , i have learned do much in so many different areas, but i don t see a way , or a niche, where i can monetize such a thing,
Another thing is music, epic orchestral music which literally saved my life over the years, taking a course is a possibility, but i am afraid that i am too old
Any tips or insights, my friend?
Gathering information,? Interesting! Write a book literally write it down in papers and search for publisher, start a yt channel may take like 2 years to reach good amount, and stock market trading gather information of what companies to invest on , or make a band just get up and gather some people whom u trust and upload good music videos on TH-cam man don't get this silly, watch breaking Bad and money heist the protagonists are middle aged men who literally amazing in their philosophy and work remember colonel sanders started in his 60s u have a LOT of time get the fck up and start man, world never gives a sht always stay motivated and never procrastinate.
Greetings - (a virtual stranger)
Make informational youtube videos and explain difficult concepts, that can only be understood through your research, in more simple terms that can reach a broad audience.
This Channel just levelled off with TED on my #1 favourite youtube channels. Great work, Charlie - and me being a school student, really mean it.
Not to mention Thoughty2 is awesome too.
Resultingly, my passion seems to be gainig knowledge - all sorts of it, from every nook and corner inclusive of how much dust there is on the table. +Charisma on Command
+Rajnarayan Choudhury I think we share the same passion bro
Him:what do you spend money on?
Me:🍲 food
1) how you lose track of time.
- Writing poetry
- Drawing
- Watching youtube videos
- Listening to music
2) what you spend money on
- baking ingredients
- My tiny house project
- Fuel for van-living
3) In what do you fear judgment?
- ideas I present, usually about people/human nature
- my writing
- my dancing
4) What makes your heart race?
- Cycling
- my boyfriend
What if through all these questions you have absolutely nothing come to mind? Does that mean you already practice your passion or you haven't found one yet? Does it mean your life is thus far meaningless?
sounds like that to me but I have been watching myself for some time and I am beginning to understand myself, maybe you should keep a dairy and note how you feel about the day and what you did that day in general, do let me know if that worked.
1. What makes me lose track of time?
Music, TH-cam, editing stuff(videos), reading, writing, looking at/taking pics of animals or pretty sceneries
2. What do I spend money on?
like nothing
3. what am I afraid of other people seeing?
Dancing, my utube videos, uh that's it
4. what makes my heart race?
taking pictures / observing animals, interacting with pets/animals, dancing(alone)
1. Weed
2. Weed
3. Weed
4. Weed
LOL
Your statement at 4:35 is a perfect representation of my life currently. Being a very shy and awkward person, I just don't know how to improve when it comes to social interactions, which is one of the more prominent subjects where I fear judgement. I force myself to talk sometimes, and I just kinda stutter through whatever I'm trying to convey. It just seems as if I can never get that tense feeling in my gut to go away whenever I talk to strangers.
+theHASSLEinHOFF Stick around the channel. That's exactly the kind of stuff we cover. You can also check out our blog www.charismaoncommand.com if you don't want to wait for more videos
this isn't helping me to find out my pAssion😢😢😢
I'm Parastoo 19 years old and I was so worry and confused about who I am or what I was borned to do. But now I got much closer to find my self after almost 1 year struggling with myself. So thank you so much for your big help🤘🤘🤘
Wow I found talking to women and playing basketball. I'll stay up all night learning new stuff about these two...Any suggestions for my career 😂
Johnathan Jordan nba or a self help motivator. Public speaking career? What is it about both do you enjoy?
Pro-athlete or trainer/speed dating person. hahaha
Coaching women's basketball
Nick Mozzicato Genius GAHAHAHA
Play basketball like your life depends on it. Wake up early, play basket ball, watch videos on how to play basketball better, find a role model. Do it everyday, find ways to recover better. get into it & get really good at it. You can become a star! & then you get to talk to a lot of women ;P
1. What makes you lose track of time?
-surfing the net
-sometimes studying about a topic I'm interested in
-maybe programming
-working on my job, analysing financial numbers
-tarot videos
-animes & dramas
-browsing the net for things to buy
-video games browsing
-wasting time browsing things to improve my life and do none of them
-listening to music
2. What do you spend money to do?
-buying things that improve my life but leave it on the table
-food
-bubbletea
-books
-video games collection
-extended readings of tarot readings
3. Where do you fear judgment?
-being judged about not knowing what i want/what i need
-introvert/shy
-not having a goal/dream
4. What makes your heart race?
-video games
-music
-talking abt traveling
-getting chased by a killer in game
-maybe wanting to do skydiving
-watching horror movies
So, anyone wanna tell me my passion?
A Michael Jackson charisma breakdown video would be a good idea!!
Wow. You just named my passion. I’ve known what it was for awhile now, but I’ve been too afraid of judgment to share or pursue this as anything more than a hobby. Thank you so much!
1. watching youtube and netflix
2. video games and food
3. my singing and acting
4. my mom or dad bringing home fast food for dinner
Hello charisma tell my passion , my answers to all your four questions are
1. Spend lot of time in watching movies when I am alone
2.spend money on clothes,footwear and accessories ,and rest on needed things with time
3. Fear of being judged at singing a song
4.little heart beat increases in talking to a more smarter girl than me in a group,and also at times to unknown women
Don't you love how you didn't have to watch 10mins to an hour to figure this out.
1. What makes you lose track of time
2. What activities in your life that u spend money to participate in
3. What area of your life do you fear judgement
4. What makes your heart race
(2020)
I finally find out .... i care about my skin, exercises and all .... afarid of not being judged for my obesity 😱
Loving your channel man. Figuring out your purpose is one of the most important things we need to do. Sadly, most of us don’t do it.
dude youre a legend :)
+Paulius Laurinaitis Haha, I appreciate that :-)
1. What makes you lose track of time?
I never lose track of time actually , its quite impressive
2. What do you spend money to do?
only thing i can think of , is other people , and technology maybe
3. Where do you fear judgment?
rly tough question, dont know an answer
4. What makes your heart race?
social interaction , because i get nervous
help?
If you don't know what to work on, just get really bad job a job you hate. If get a job you hate you will be thinking all the time what would you like to be doing instead of being working at a Mcdonalds, or as a dishwasher.
Casey Neistat said it.
Check out his channel btw
1.Thinking/ games
2. Makeup/music equipment
3. Music/ thoughts
4. Music/ being on stage/games
Good stuff, however, what could you suggest to a person that hasn't done ANYTHING productive other than videogames for the past few years? I haven't found a thing I am passionate about nor do I have a direction.
+Ernest Wolf Explore as much as possible. Say yes to random opportunities, including traveling,meetups (meetup.com), and random invitations. Though I personally am not a huge fan because my relationships with videogames is 100% addictive, I might also explore the videogame front. If you have something to offer other than simply playing (commentary, reviews, story analysis) throw up a video on TH-cam or Twitch. Odds are it won't become a profession, but it will get you in the habit of creating rather than simply consuming.
+Charisma on Command Thank you for taking the time to answer. I will apply this to my life. :)
1. Doing research on a variety of topics
2. Buying books
3. My writing and public speaking
4. Talking to people; sharing ideas and analysing stuff
1. Memes
2. Memes
3. Memes
4. Memes
PewDiePie
@Futen_Odeku a man of culture over here.
Hey, this actually works! It's awesome!
Points 1 and 3 are essential for me. These questions showed me one thing and that's probably my passion.
1.EATING
2.SLEEPING
Any ideas as to what I can focus on? I'm 15 in the UK
1. Playing guitar, drawing, gaming and movies
2. Movies, gaming, drawing
3. My knowledge in general, drawings and physique
4. A new marvel movie, working out and a good game
1.watching anime
2.I use my money on technology
3.nothing
4.talking with new people
I am very very very much happy today that I have seen this video ,cause from past 1 month I have been roaming around finding my passion.Thank you sir for guiding me and in future u will be great as you are in a perfect path
I turn on my music and dance for hours 11 pm to 2-3 am xD I also like to sing/write songs and take pictures. I have dance videos if anyone wants to check them out 😊 and does being critical of your talents mean you found your passions...? it means I care, right?
Maryam Rodgers awesome I do the same
I want to check them out
I really loved how you defined passion in simple, straight forward terms to help me identify mine. I used to think it was about how knowledgeable you were on something & how much time you devote to it daily.
These are great questions!!!! Never thought about them. Thank you sooo much Charlie!!!!
+lalapo1997xo Sure. I think that it is a great indicator of what you should spend your time learning, be it in class or outside of class
The answers to all 4 are "nothing" which is my actual struggle.
I don't ever "lose track of time" over activities.
I don't spend money.... On anything I don't have to.
I don't give a crap about what people think... about me or my life (might be my age).
My heart doesn't race over anything, unless I am doing cardio.....
1.shrooms
2.shrooms
3.tripping in public
4.shrooms
jk :$
Make a TH-cam channel and talk about it!
Another great video, this is the most difficult and perhaps most important question you ask yourself when you yourself even don't know what you want to do in your life
1. Watching Netflix
2.netflix
3. Netflix
4. Netflix
I would like to send a big Thank to you bc you make some intangible terms and tasks seem so simple and practical than any career/life coach I’ve ever talked to.
“Maybe meet a girl that I liked”
Lmao
1. Organising my room
2. Clothes, makeup etc
3. Writing stories. I have loved writing from a young age.
4. Talking to new people.
You look like superman