Zuko is sooo wise. Truth is... ASK! Ask when there is still time. Ask when you don't know. Keep what is needed. @Talitha sorry babes! This past week was HECTIC.! Grateful that we can gather here sihleke 😂
I’ve been watching your videos on TikTok and I’m glad I made it here. Your conversations are really interesting and helpful. I’m in love this guy’s humour 😂😂😂. Is it possible for you guys to make subtitles available for those of us that really don’t understand much Xhosa? Pretty please.
My mom took me everywhere growing up, be it a wedding, umgidi, amabhaso or funerals. I know to an extent what to do and who to call. But most importantly I know my mom's heart and how she wants things in her house so in that sense I would be prepared because she's always trusted me with her affairs. It's so important for parents to do this because I wouldn't want to be confused to the point of being taken advantage of on top of grieving.
Iyhoo the issue about not know how to do imicimbi inzima. I always wondered inoba ndingaqala ngaphi xa kunoswelekwa.But when you lose a parent or someone close to you, you will know what to do. No man is an island, there's always older and wiser people to advise. People you trust and are close with in the family will be part of the process.
The conversation is so real we really do need to know these things i was surprised 2022 when my sister was holding everything down for dad’s funeral while i was busy crying…
Talitha, I feel you on the bad days. I do the same thing, I will sit to feel and weep then try again. If all else fails I WILL nap.😂 Naps fix everything except for hunger.
There are different packages for funeral parlours and sometimes it really can just be a storage package. In September we had to bury someone close, I’m 32 and the eldest grandchild in the lineage and I learnt a lot regarding funerals and shortfalls in preps of the funeral and family secrets. It was a real shocker but a great learning curve
Love this episode, and I relate so much because uzigqibela uyi girlfriend then one day uyi wife and kukho things that you must do and you've never thought of them.
Hello 😁I have been loving you guys in secret 😅I have always watched your episodes, I post you on WhatsApp everyday, my cup of coffee😁 there is never a dull moment with you guys endlini ndihleka umama ade akhathazeke....(love each other) Amazing
I’ve come all the way from TikTok cause your snippets filled my fyp😹❤️you guys really are amazing and just so wholesome! I binge watched all the seasons from Wednesday until today and I’m so sad that I have to wait until the next episode😭✋🏽you guys helped me get through my design exam and learn more Xhosa at the same time😹😹😹I’m gonna ask my mom about all the words you guys asked cause I’m on a mission to learn Xhosa😌keep doing what you’re doing, love you guys sm!🥰✨🎉
My dad has a black briefcase with all the documents needed. We even know which relatives to watch out for when the day eventually comes. There isnt pressure to maintain certain Traditions because the times are different, the scones are the new traditional meal😅
That ‘oe’ comment sent me 😂😂😂😂 On the real unyanisile uZuko “ufunda ngobona ”. I was 26 when my uncle passed and had to prepare for his funeral. I didn’t know where to start but ubuza kuyanceda, luckily It was all the administrative stuff and not the traditional part. When you are in that situation you will be forced to learn but I think we need to teach ourselves to go emicimbini
Jonga!!! 😂😂😂 you guys are hilarious. I just discovered this podcast , like bendiphi all along ❤ I always find myself conversating (if there’s such a word )😂😂 with you guys whether I’m agreeing with you or help Thalita to answer Zuko’s questions. Arrghh man this podcast is the one for me FACTS😅. Watching from USA @16:35PM kum ❤
Yoh this episode hit home sana!!!! I had to arrange my mom’s funeral during the 21-days of Covid hard lockdown. Also, we had to move her from PTA to the Eastern Cape 😭😭😭Absolutely NOTHING could have prepared me for that experience.
The policy conversation most parents are not willing to have, then they pass you find yourself calling every insurance giving out the ID to find if they had a policy. My dad opened up but my mom is not having it
My mom just drafted her will, I’m so grateful that at least sizophola when anything happens to her. Abazali abafuni tuu uthetha about their passing but we’ve witnessed izinto ezimbi kakhulu when it comes to amafa so kuye kwanyanzeleka
Naba AbaZalana nam…Naba AbaZalana nam🥳😂Ooooh ndithele nqa ndini thanda kangaka booDlamini bakuthi. Finally found a podcast that I can relate to, I’m HOME ❤️
Burying your parents when you're young will shake you...the beat thing to do first is to find the nearest elder. Of sonke asinabo abantu abadala but a neighbor or church person or nearby family. It helps ngesdima especially if an elder passed away. So bring them to the hospital. It helps to have a peer of the deceased. This person is likely to know what to do administratively so they can guide you as well. I had to go with my uncle who knew a guy who rented mobile toilets for my mom's funeral. Then a guy walked in eyadini because they say intente and asked if we needed wood because they sell. Then my eldest sister asked her friends (40+ ladies) to cook. Ezinye izinto like pots and intente were part of the package.
When my mom got admitted at hospital she asked if were ready to run her funeral and both my older brothers said that would be my responsibility.. unfortunately a month later my older brother’s son passed on and guess who ran the entire funeral? Me.. an entire 24 year old telling people what to do cause i learned from being around my parents during such things 🙆🏻♂️
Am I the only one who is watching this episode for the 5th time ❤ and I die all the time when the gentle brother of the nation says “ sonqeni ukhupha iR80 000 for iRoboto”😂😂😂
😂😂not me watching this after I took off my braids and I tied my hair exactly like Talitha. Zuko is right mna sometimes I just don't want to put effort 😅
I think a chat I've been contemplating on is the fact that and I stand to be correcting but ingcinga yam is that cultural practises or izinto that are deemed important or practises to observe certain protocols zidinga uku re defin(nwa) to suit how we have evolved as families, communities and cultures. Maybe the adults can help with the principle's/what was the intention behind a certain practise then how its been practised can be altered to suit the times?
For umngcwabo, its best to have a funeral cover with umkhenkce. Enye nenye izawuzenzekela. Once the person dies, you call the parlor and they assist ngento yonke.
You guys have turned Fridays into my favorite day of the week❤
So glad to hear it!🫶🏾
Sana and next Friday is so far😢
just came back from TikTok where do I put my bags fam it looks likes i am going to overstay this side😂❤
pull up a chair! letssss gooooo... welcome welcome
You and me ke sana, i just arrived now ❤❤❤
sendixhome ibhatyi mna kqala le kuthethwa ngayo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm here for zukos accent, laughter and thalithas blonde moments lol, this one is now my fav podcast
welcome welcome! thank yo for the love
This is the only podcast i can watch for 1+ hours 😭, le 45 minutes feels like 10 minutes
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Time absolutely flies!
🤣🤣🤣laugh is always guaranteed kwa Sibling Thrivalry ohh ha.a ndiyanithanda down sana 😍
😂😂😂 sihleka sekukubi . Yidraw ke le ye love yona 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
"I don't think ama ou into yam" is hella funny 🤣🤣
yiwishi wishi sana
Zuko is sooo wise. Truth is... ASK! Ask when there is still time. Ask when you don't know. Keep what is needed. @Talitha sorry babes! This past week was HECTIC.! Grateful that we can gather here sihleke 😂
grateful for the safe space you guys have created here as well, not only for us but all the other blings!
I’ve been watching your videos on TikTok and I’m glad I made it here.
Your conversations are really interesting and helpful. I’m in love this guy’s humour 😂😂😂. Is it possible for you guys to make subtitles available for those of us that really don’t understand much Xhosa? Pretty please.
HI Rebecca, thank you for the love. We are still trying to work on a solution for the subtitles - but definitely something on the cards !
🤣🤣🤣🤣Not Surprise Moriri! Absolutely NOT!!
I’m here for Zuko’s accents and Thalitha’s laughter
💐💐💐
When he said “CHEE TEE BUNGA” I LOST it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂 jonga mtshana!!! Funda islungu
No ways, you guys are so funny🤣🤣😂😂😂 I’ve been laughing so much
Crazy I like before watching 😂😂😂 y’all are EVERYTHING
My mom took me everywhere growing up, be it a wedding, umgidi, amabhaso or funerals. I know to an extent what to do and who to call. But most importantly I know my mom's heart and how she wants things in her house so in that sense I would be prepared because she's always trusted me with her affairs. It's so important for parents to do this because I wouldn't want to be confused to the point of being taken advantage of on top of grieving.
very true! shout out to mom for putting you on and involving you also a massive shoutout to you for leaning in !
Thanks Fam, another great one, as for 'Surprise Moriri'..killed me dead 😂🤣😂
hahahaah, the funniest coincidence... thank you for joining us
Another friday another episode🤩🤩🤩🤩I've been a quiet subscriber but its time to break the silence, I LOVE YOU GUYS😌
Zuko’s laugh is contagious 🤭🤣🤣love this ship👌🏽has me missing my late lil brother 🥹
Iyhoo the issue about not know how to do imicimbi inzima. I always wondered inoba ndingaqala ngaphi xa kunoswelekwa.But when you lose a parent or someone close to you, you will know what to do. No man is an island, there's always older and wiser people to advise. People you trust and are close with in the family will be part of the process.
The conversation is so real we really do need to know these things i was surprised 2022 when my sister was holding everything down for dad’s funeral while i was busy crying…
Talitha, I feel you on the bad days. I do the same thing, I will sit to feel and weep then try again. If all else fails I WILL nap.😂 Naps fix everything except for hunger.
we feel you!
You guys are effortlessly hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also, I discovered that a ginger drink recipe is on the ginger spice box 37:50
It's how whenever Zuko is about to respond with isgezo ,does this thing with his lips, lowers his voice then responds with ndifun ba nguBawo😂😂😂😂
You guys are Authentic and feels like I am sitting on the couch with yall✨🎈♥. LOVE your conversations
There are different packages for funeral parlours and sometimes it really can just be a storage package. In September we had to bury someone close, I’m 32 and the eldest grandchild in the lineage and I learnt a lot regarding funerals and shortfalls in preps of the funeral and family secrets. It was a real shocker but a great learning curve
This was actually great to watch. Will definitely be tuned in na next time
Absolutely enjoyed this episode. Thanks guys🤣
lol 😂 😂😂
Your laughter is so contagious
😂🫶🏾😂
Zuko is on a roll in this episode sana😅
🤣🤣🤣 what a clown
Love this episode, and I relate so much because uzigqibela uyi girlfriend then one day uyi wife and kukho things that you must do and you've never thought of them.
Hello 😁I have been loving you guys in secret 😅I have always watched your episodes, I post you on WhatsApp everyday, my cup of coffee😁 there is never a dull moment with you guys endlini ndihleka umama ade akhathazeke....(love each other) Amazing
“I don’t think man are my thing” same sana same🤣🤣😭
So real 😭😭😭
@@tshoanelo_MDude! Ezinye izinto zifuna ukwamnkelwa😂
@@masixoleburu2799right😂😂😂
I’ve come all the way from TikTok cause your snippets filled my fyp😹❤️you guys really are amazing and just so wholesome! I binge watched all the seasons from Wednesday until today and I’m so sad that I have to wait until the next episode😭✋🏽you guys helped me get through my design exam and learn more Xhosa at the same time😹😹😹I’m gonna ask my mom about all the words you guys asked cause I’m on a mission to learn Xhosa😌keep doing what you’re doing, love you guys sm!🥰✨🎉
Friday is my favourite day of the week 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Same!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Im from tik tok and i can say ive found a new home❤
My dad has a black briefcase with all the documents needed. We even know which relatives to watch out for when the day eventually comes. There isnt pressure to maintain certain Traditions because the times are different, the scones are the new traditional meal😅
That ‘oe’ comment sent me 😂😂😂😂
On the real unyanisile uZuko “ufunda ngobona ”. I was 26 when my uncle passed and had to prepare for his funeral. I didn’t know where to start but ubuza kuyanceda, luckily It was all the administrative stuff and not the traditional part. When you are in that situation you will be forced to learn but I think we need to teach ourselves to go emicimbini
"what is lebom?" knocked me out? 😂😂 Because heyyi
Jonga!!! 😂😂😂 you guys are hilarious. I just discovered this podcast , like bendiphi all along ❤ I always find myself conversating (if there’s such a word )😂😂 with you guys whether I’m agreeing with you or help Thalita to answer Zuko’s questions. Arrghh man this podcast is the one for me FACTS😅. Watching from USA @16:35PM kum ❤
Big fax 📠! Ahhh this is amazing to read, thank you for sharing and welcome welcome we sure are glad to have you 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Kunini ndiyibhuqa le video from that short “ I dont think am O yinto yam” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yoh this episode hit home sana!!!! I had to arrange my mom’s funeral during the 21-days of Covid hard lockdown. Also, we had to move her from PTA to the Eastern Cape 😭😭😭Absolutely NOTHING could have prepared me for that experience.
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44:34 Bomikazi’s words are classified as izihlonipho. Used a lot by married women especially ezilalini
aaahhh yes!
Surprise Moriri? I laughed too hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love you guys. Thank you ❤
Much appreciated! Much love 🫶🏾
The policy conversation most parents are not willing to have, then they pass you find yourself calling every insurance giving out the ID to find if they had a policy. My dad opened up but my mom is not having it
🎉🎉happy birthday Zuko. Enjoy it. New subbie here💃🏽
Not umalume wam that just divorced 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“ ai kaloku mfundini “ had me in stitches 😂😂
Mamela. And I-AFRO will SHOW you your mother. And the whole day just falls apart. Nam ndipha kwa”Lilly😢” shem.
My mom just drafted her will, I’m so grateful that at least sizophola when anything happens to her. Abazali abafuni tuu uthetha about their passing but we’ve witnessed izinto ezimbi kakhulu when it comes to amafa so kuye kwanyanzeleka
Lmfaooooo yho I am so glad I found this channel, what a start to my Monday 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 And ndiyamva mna uThalitha abafana ayonto yethu bethuna 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That "sanalam andizokwazo" 😂😂😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I laughed the entire episode😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 one can sure say ukuthi this is how you guys are offline😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 love it man ❤
Thalitha said she was crying in the morning 😢askies sana, then taa Loy is healing you with laughs 😃 ,2day the Ndimas are hilarious 😂 😂😂😂
Yall kill me😂😂
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Yoh, ukuhleka kangaka ebsuku. Hay, eff maarn!!!🤣🤣🤣...Lemme continue watching🤭
🤣🤣🤣 glad you are enjoying with us
Naba AbaZalana nam…Naba AbaZalana nam🥳😂Ooooh ndithele nqa ndini thanda kangaka booDlamini bakuthi. Finally found a podcast that I can relate to, I’m HOME ❤️
Burying your parents when you're young will shake you...the beat thing to do first is to find the nearest elder. Of sonke asinabo abantu abadala but a neighbor or church person or nearby family. It helps ngesdima especially if an elder passed away. So bring them to the hospital. It helps to have a peer of the deceased.
This person is likely to know what to do administratively so they can guide you as well.
I had to go with my uncle who knew a guy who rented mobile toilets for my mom's funeral. Then a guy walked in eyadini because they say intente and asked if we needed wood because they sell. Then my eldest sister asked her friends (40+ ladies) to cook. Ezinye izinto like pots and intente were part of the package.
Already laughing Love it here ❤
🤣🤣🤣🙏
Wow ibende leveki waiting for siblings thrivary
A friend of mine had a funeral kowabo, we were the ones who were cooking isithi "oomama" base kitchen that's when i realised uba we are the new adults
absolutely! condolences to you and your friend
When my mom got admitted at hospital she asked if were ready to run her funeral and both my older brothers said that would be my responsibility.. unfortunately a month later my older brother’s son passed on and guess who ran the entire funeral? Me.. an entire 24 year old telling people what to do cause i learned from being around my parents during such things 🙆🏻♂️
Zuko is younger, but he is so wise.
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I agree with Talitha abafana ayonto yam sana 😭😭
Izakuthiwani na lento… 😶🌫️
Ndiphethwe yimincili and I haven't even watched yet!
Thank you for the laughs in advance!😂😂❤
UZuko unomakhelo shame 😂😂😂 that’s how an Afro is supposed to be.. Moriri 😅
hehehe, uthi inoMakhi! hehehe little brother antics
"Moriri"😂😂😂 easy Ta Mzu
"KHASENZELE UBUSITHINI PHA" 😂😂😂😂😂 uZuko unjani😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Sazithand'inwele zakho azise neat'
Zuks is lowkey insightful sogqiba ahleke. You guys kill me 🤣🤣❤
Love it for the low key… heheh 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
I think the hair looks so cute.❤️
“Zi neat” 😭😭😭
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Ta-Mzubhela why unje?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That surprise moriri comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Am I the only one who is watching this episode for the 5th time ❤ and I die all the time when the gentle brother of the nation says “ sonqeni ukhupha iR80 000 for iRoboto”😂😂😂
Sbwl to get a new episode every second day ke sana coz there are too many days between Fridays 😔
My Saturday morning cleaning podcast ❤❤
"What is Libom'?" 😂😂😂Haibo Sis'Thalitha😂😂😂
Love you guys,andiyeki uhleka ndedwa...
Guys this chaaaaat 😭😭😭 it’s so important I’m literally jotting down points to ask my rents coz why should I be caught with my pants down ndimdala 😭😭😭😭
😂😂not me watching this after I took off my braids and I tied my hair exactly like Talitha. Zuko is right mna sometimes I just don't want to put effort 😅
"andisazithanda inwele zakho ziNeat" ngeloxesha uyahleka😂😂😂.. Ta Mzubhela akazolingena izulu🤣🤣🤣
Mamela ndinithanda ndinithanda, into engakaze yabonwa❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. Came here from Tiktok 😅😊
Hey Lusanda! aah man thank you for the love! yidraw ke sana!
@siblingthrivalry 🫶🏾
And mna ndinithanda izantyala ntyala,izandyondyo zento ❤❤❤
I think a chat I've been contemplating on is the fact that and I stand to be correcting but ingcinga yam is that cultural practises or izinto that are deemed important or practises to observe certain protocols zidinga uku re defin(nwa) to suit how we have evolved as families, communities and cultures. Maybe the adults can help with the principle's/what was the intention behind a certain practise then how its been practised can be altered to suit the times?
"This is the first I'm laughing today." The beauty of having siblings 🥹🥹
Talita's hair "moriri"😂😂😂😂
Surprise 😂😂😂
Not Surprise Moriri😭🤣
🙈🙈🙈😂😂😂
For umngcwabo, its best to have a funeral cover with umkhenkce. Enye nenye izawuzenzekela. Once the person dies, you call the parlor and they assist ngento yonke.
"Suprise moriri"😂😂😂oh wow Zuko
my mom's friend had her sister's funeral and she had a whole catering team there...makoti ententeni sane catering has everything under control😀
#prepared 🤍
Shweme and Bleki? 🤣🤣🤣 oh you’re from PE bro😭😭😭
Ubhuti athi khona into e off while usisi athi izinwele zakhe zi neat😂
Akakho mde ema-owini 🤭🤣🤣 fana nam sana uThalitha.
1:36 Road to 20k subbies✨
Leeets goooo! 🚀
Thalitha siyafana sana 🤣🤣ama ou ayonto yam sana
😂😂😂 this can’t be life … kumoshakala phi?
Lol hair drama is real shame... lapho you have to leave the house in 5mins while you already late because of the damn hair😅
I get you Thalitha...
33:43... T mzubela you will seat in xa kuzolotyolwa u sis T qha mwc ama oe ayizonto zakhe 🤣😂🤣
Zezinto zindenza ndoyika nokutshata ezi andazi kwaaaaa!😭
Ngubani uFuneral Director TaMzubela😅😂 Qal'uyiva😅
Beautiful ❤