As a married woman I can confirm that this video is 100% true. Main reason I still listen to Tony is because I’ve been taking his advice since before I was married and still get nuggets of wisdom that I can apply to my marriage and life in general.
I'm Married. I take the Trash out More than my Husband. My husband does 90% of all the Cooking. Im a great cook & he has no problem with taking out the trash and he does. Do whatever is best for YOUR marriage.
I love how easily and willingly distracted you are when Mrs. Gaskins steps in the room 😂. I love how you give her your full attention and interest no matter what you’re fussing at us about! Go Mr. & Mrs. G!
Great video...the one thing I strongly believe at my core is that you can't do marriage without God. The world gives us the fantasy but God gives us the reality.
6:36 Too many relationships are built on sex and they fail as a result. Trust AND believe it takes MORE than sex to sustain and maintain a loving relationship.
@@zero1188 from what I'm seeing the men are still going for a certain look of a woman. And women are accepting and moving too fast with the wrong character of a guy. We're out here in relationships with strangers. My cousin told me the boyfriend stage ain't nothing when yal move in that's when it's serious and I don't believe that. He cheats all the time. At this point in my life I have to take several seat lbvs it's piss in the pool and nobody wants to get out smh
@@RITTAAREE well when it comes to moving in, thing people don’t consider is, when going on dates your mainly meeting the exciting high energy version of the person. But when moving in, your seeing the person on their down time. When they moody or just not in the mood. Its not that people change, its that you never seen the person when they are just living without trying to impress you.
Man! Anybody else notice the "puppy dog" TG turns into when his wife enters the room? I just love their love! Lol! 🤣 But, good stuff, Tony. I love the sober reality check of marriage. It's not just about sex. For real! So many other caveats and nuances involved. Stay woke, folks! Keep pushing us forward, TG! 😊💯💪🏽
You are one of the few people I listen to about relationships. I have completely tuned out of all these social media relationship and dating hot takes. They are way too toxic and a bunch of petty and irreverent conversations
Parents have been married 31 years and my mom takes the thrash out and dad cleans the house. These traditional roles are totally obsolete when it comes down to it. Keep teaching the real Tony
I love how when your wife comes into the room you just stop what you doing and give her all your attention and that smile that's on your face is priceless. That's how it's suppose to be
Keep teaching us, Tony! Thank you. Naturally, everyone won’t listen but some are taking notes and will be the next generation of marriages that push the Kingdom forward!
I just LOVE how you talked to your wife when she came into the room. You can SEE the love and adoration you have for her! Just beautiful! And everything you said is ON POINT! Also, PLEASE keep your Southern accent. It’s beautiful, down-to-earth, sometimes comical (when intended) and refreshing. God Bless You Tony Gaskins!
🏆 Best marriage advice award goes to Mr Tony Gaskins Jr ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 👏🏽👏🏽HALLELUJAH ❤❤ how much is their character worth ? Y'all worried about the wrong things...
So bad when he does nothing just like take your trash is just a quick clean it does nothing and the lady has anxiety over work so the trash is important when I go to someone’s on the seat outside the punk goes down the step leave their mother to come at it and rather
I love taking out the trash. At least it is an accomplishment I can see done and makes a HUGE difference in my space.Done. take the task off the list...many times before my son gets up or gets to it (Hubbyof 40yrs deceasedRIP❤)
Tell them again Tony!! Sex does not define a relationship! Some days you or your partner may be going through a stressful week. Yes and your partner could come down with a life threatening disease. Trust me sex will not be on your mind! And the relationship not based solely off sex can still be happy. Because the day your partner gets sick or pregnant and that relationship is based mainly ofd sex. Trust and believe they'll be looking for their fix elsewhere!
Too many people believe the idea that marriage should be “a sleepover with your best friend everyday.” It’s a childish mindset that people have not grown out of
Mr Gaskins, not sure if you’re aware but Balenciaga released an ad campaign featuring children holding teddy bears in bondage harnesses, alcoholic drinks, and other disturbing imagery. It was like a dog whistle to pedos. Most ppl have completely boycotted the brand (no longer buy or wear any of their clothing). Hopefully you’ll see this.
Your content is so practical and real. Most of us single ppl have absolutely no reliable or meaningful content to watch or healthy marriages to even look up to. Most of the content I see from married ppl only show the good fairytale side of marriage. Single ppl are sharing what they think works, and most of us don’t even have access to a healthy married couple in our day to day lives to seek counsel from. Keep doing the lord’s work 😊
49:25 i had a man stop talking to me because he could “sense” i wasn’t into fitness aka he thought i was fat. I am a dress size 6. This was a BLACK MAN & we’ve only been on two dates…he’s 35 single no kids and never been married. He came off really superficial and unrealistic
True. Ive noticed over the past few years when I was dating around and in friends of mine why most single people are still single. They look for the wrong things and don't know what values are important in a person that will equate to a successful relationship
I'm single and all my close associates tell me that you will always be learning things that you will be dealing with and not try to define it one way and couples grow older and change
Hello from the UK Mr Gaskins . I think people confuse sex with intimacy. that's what I think people confuse. thank you for your raw straight forward lessons it saved my life. God bless you , your beautiful wife and you amazing boys💛
🙋🏽♀️I learned a life lesson. Now single and hate taking out 🗑 the trash. I bought scented trash bags to help me take out 🗑 trash.😂 The next time I am married I will kiss my husband every time he takes out the trash. I will continue to take out the trash if needed. I hope he will appreciate my scented trash bags. 😂
I feel if sex is like food in a marriage then your marriage is based off lust or self gratification. I believe people need to pray for Wisdom like Solomon. I prayed for it myself and trust me my mother call me for advice and I am not married. Nor is she, however, praryer is powerful! When I listen to TG it is either confirmation and or I am learning to see things from a different perspective. God Bless All🙏🏽 -May I add, I have chosen not to be married, I am believing in God for A "Real Man of God," nothing less🙏🏼
I take out the trash a lot because I cook more than my husband. He takes it out in the morning before he goes to work. It depends on the two individuals and their situation
The pee convo💀😅 Lol "I don't care if you do drink water all day it still stank, Absolutey not finna pee on me or my floor" 😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY quit being nasty
Sex is overrated what's not overrated is a Love built on God's Standards Communication Understanding Empathy a Great Marriage sex is 10% and Mr Gaskins all the said above getting married for sex in for rude awakening
Yup, I truly didn't understand certain elements of marriage until I got married. Im truly not interested in anyone's advice unless they're married. Then, cut that rate in half lol
One of the realest videos you ever done… Not “ lock jaw”😂😂😂. But your right.😐 Most of the married men that try to holler always say” we only together for the kids” or “ we never have sex anymore”…. Dirty dogs
I am woman who have been preparing for marriage for the past two years. I do not know personally one couple or marriage that is healthy in my entire 40 years of living. However, due to my own personal growth of healing and growing my relationship with God, myself, and my kids I know that having a healthy marriage is in my future. I appreciate you Tony and thank you for this video because along with two other podcasts, sermons, therapy, and a multitude of books and audio books I am learning so much. I have been blessed to learn a great deal of information, knowledge, and with intimate conversations with God and prayers, God has blessed me with His wisdom ❣️this video is ☝🏾 for the books 🙏🏾
Uncle Tony you are refreshingly counter culture! I will not stray from this wisdom you take the time to give us! You are saving lives because you are saving our minds! Thank you! Sending you gratitude!
I have Hidrinitis and it’s incurable and causes scars lumps,bumps and is very painful. Mostly on inner thighs. Under and any closed body parts. It’s problematic an embarrassing. Love me from the inside out please 😢
@TG! As a married woman of 17 years I agree and appreciate this message! It is the 100% truth! We have to become sober and practical at how we relate to one another! Single people giving relationship advice is like someone outside the house trying to tell you what it looks like on the inside! Married life is not a Cosby Show episode! Its time to wake up and stay awake!!❤❤😊😊
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony always says what needs to be said. We are getting terrible advice out here. It sounds wrong too so very grateful to have good married folks that share❤
Yes Tony! All Annie Mae’s can cook 🤣. Keep on schooling these fools. Your messages are informative funny and truth. You are my godly comedy dosage with lessons. Keep on keeping on brother Tony
Listening 20 minutes in and this is the best coaching session I’ve listened to in a while. Thank you Tony. Not everyone has your gift. Many are called but only a few have been chosen
25:49- 26:25 is truth marriage is beautiful to Imperfect people coming together under God's union I believe God is pruning us to love our spouse like Jesus loves us for his glory, then In between that life happens I could explain more
Amen Mr. Gaskins! I appreciate your transparency and willingness to speak the truth about marriage and what solid marriages and relationships are built on.
I am reminded of Eddie Murphy's character in Boomerang. He was so superficial that when he thought he'd found perfection based on his silly standards, he got played by a selfish, over-sexed, weave-wearing harlot.
Thank you Tony for teaching marriage/relationship ❤❤is not a fairytale. Stay focused on who and what God has called you to. He is covering you & your family every step of the way and beyond. Blessings in Jesus Name! Amen!❤
Thank you Tony A man I dated for while told me he only wanted head no sex, sex doesn't satisfy him but he would do it one time to get a child. Sounded suspect to me I am Glad I LEFT quick
it’s funny how you was talkin about how you don’t respect a man until he’s been in a faithful marriage and then the way you just lit up when your wife walked in the room 🤣🤣 i love it 🙌
As a married woman I can confirm that this video is 100% true. Main reason I still listen to Tony is because I’ve been taking his advice since before I was married and still get nuggets of wisdom that I can apply to my marriage and life in general.
I'm Married. I take the Trash out More than my Husband. My husband does 90% of all the Cooking. Im a great cook & he has no problem with taking out the trash and he does. Do whatever is best for YOUR marriage.
This. People think marriage is masculine and feminine BS. In reality people do what works
That's the way it should be.
I love how easily and willingly distracted you are when Mrs. Gaskins steps in the room 😂. I love how you give her your full attention and interest no matter what you’re fussing at us about! Go Mr. & Mrs. G!
Yeah his face and tone changes and everything 🤣😆🙌
Great video...the one thing I strongly believe at my core is that you can't do marriage without God. The world gives us the fantasy but God gives us the reality.
As a child of God, especially & absolutely! 🙏🏾
Amen, When it's In you it's In you 🙏🏽
6:36
Too many relationships are built on sex and they fail as a result. Trust AND believe it takes MORE than sex to sustain and maintain a loving relationship.
True
Facts.
Men aren't excepting flaws now days. You piss them off or confronting them about something you're uncomfortable with they ready to let you go...
Funny because men say the same about women wanting them to be perfect. Both sides dont want to appreciate each other
So let them go. Planet got too many humans anyways. Bad company is not better than no company.
@@zero1188 from what I'm seeing the men are still going for a certain look of a woman. And women are accepting and moving too fast with the wrong character of a guy. We're out here in relationships with strangers. My cousin told me the boyfriend stage ain't nothing when yal move in that's when it's serious and I don't believe that. He cheats all the time. At this point in my life I have to take several seat lbvs it's piss in the pool and nobody wants to get out smh
@@RITTAAREE well when it comes to moving in, thing people don’t consider is, when going on dates your mainly meeting the exciting high energy version of the person. But when moving in, your seeing the person on their down time. When they moody or just not in the mood. Its not that people change, its that you never seen the person when they are just living without trying to impress you.
Unfortunately, this is why I feel like marriages will become less and less. Social media has gotten our heads messed up frfr
Always was interested in knowing how your parents divorcing impacted you.
What’s meant for people will find them, when they’re ready. Folks who are supposed to be married still will be.
Facts!
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Take your mind back
Man! Anybody else notice the "puppy dog" TG turns into when his wife enters the room? I just love their love! Lol! 🤣 But, good stuff, Tony. I love the sober reality check of marriage. It's not just about sex. For real! So many other caveats and nuances involved. Stay woke, folks! Keep pushing us forward, TG! 😊💯💪🏽
I was just going to say this as well! It’s so sweet, he gets so giddy when his wife enters the room, bless them!
His face lights up when he sees his wife. I love it!!!
Tony too kind 🤣🤣🤣 "she pretty to somebody" 😆😆😆
I don't even know any healthy happy couples that are married. smh
I was thinking the same thing…like Yeesh…am I up the creek without a paddle?
Yess! The conversation is so important because people put sex on a pedestal when that us the icing on the cake not the main point if marriage.
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You are one of the few people I listen to about relationships. I have completely tuned out of all these social media relationship and dating hot takes. They are way too toxic and a bunch of petty and irreverent conversations
same here..
It's the facial expression change for me when Mrs. Gaskins walks in lol
Yes debunk the lies about marriage
That smack and eye roll 😂😭
Marriage is not for the weak!
Parents have been married 31 years and my mom takes the thrash out and dad cleans the house. These traditional roles are totally obsolete when it comes down to it. Keep teaching the real Tony
Man when I say Tony keep it REAL!!!!!😂😮💨 please don’t change we need this !
The entrepreneurial gem at 18:00 stood out to me as well. Thank You!
I love how when your wife comes into the room you just stop what you doing and give her all your attention and that smile that's on your face is priceless. That's how it's suppose to be
I’m laughing so hard trying to stay focused on the message! 😂😂😂😂
Keep teaching us, Tony! Thank you. Naturally, everyone won’t listen but some are taking notes and will be the next generation of marriages that push the Kingdom forward!
I just LOVE how you talked to your wife when she came into the room. You can SEE the love and adoration you have for her! Just beautiful! And everything you said is ON POINT! Also, PLEASE keep your Southern accent. It’s beautiful, down-to-earth, sometimes comical (when intended) and refreshing. God Bless You Tony Gaskins!
This video is getting saved to my rewatch playlist! Thank you for this! 🙏🏽
🏆 Best marriage advice award goes to Mr Tony Gaskins Jr ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 👏🏽👏🏽HALLELUJAH ❤❤ how much is their character worth ? Y'all worried about the wrong things...
So bad when he does nothing just like take your trash is just a quick clean it does nothing and the lady has anxiety over work so the trash is important when I go to someone’s on the seat outside the punk goes down the step leave their mother to come at it and rather
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25:50
C’mon now. Amen
Talk about it!
Married 15 years and still going…….by the grace of God🙏🏾
I love taking out the trash. At least it is an accomplishment I can see done and makes a HUGE difference in my space.Done. take the task off the list...many times before my son gets up or gets to it
(Hubbyof 40yrs deceasedRIP❤)
Tell them again Tony!! Sex does not define a relationship! Some days you or your partner may be going through a stressful week. Yes and your partner could come down with a life threatening disease. Trust me sex will not be on your mind! And the relationship not based solely off sex can still be happy. Because the day your partner gets sick or pregnant and that relationship is based mainly ofd sex. Trust and believe they'll be looking for their fix elsewhere!
Your mannerisms and tone of voice, the smile n your eyes when you talk to your wife is beautiful
Too many people believe the idea that marriage should be “a sleepover with your best friend everyday.” It’s a childish mindset that people have not grown out of
so real 🎯
A lot of my family members are in happy, healthy marriages. Beautiful for them
I love how you look at your wife. You can tell that’s your “dream girl”❤
Mr Gaskins, not sure if you’re aware but Balenciaga released an ad campaign featuring children holding teddy bears in bondage harnesses, alcoholic drinks, and other disturbing imagery. It was like a dog whistle to pedos. Most ppl have completely boycotted the brand (no longer buy or wear any of their clothing). Hopefully you’ll see this.
I was just about to comment about this. Thanks for giving him a heads up.
@@dmariethomas 👍
Your content is so practical and real. Most of us single ppl have absolutely no reliable or meaningful content to watch or healthy marriages to even look up to. Most of the content I see from married ppl only show the good fairytale side of marriage. Single ppl are sharing what they think works, and most of us don’t even have access to a healthy married couple in our day to day lives to seek counsel from. Keep doing the lord’s work 😊
Thanks for your clarification...as a single, celibate person, I see people faking...
I just love how Tony lights up and get gitty when the queen walks in while he is teaching. Continue to glow and show the love she deserves.
49:25 i had a man stop talking to me because he could “sense” i wasn’t into fitness aka he thought i was fat. I am a dress size 6. This was a BLACK MAN & we’ve only been on two dates…he’s 35 single no kids and never been married. He came off really superficial and unrealistic
This is an awesome eye opener. Keep preaching the truth. 👏👏👏
True. Ive noticed over the past few years when I was dating around and in friends of mine why most single people are still single. They look for the wrong things and don't know what values are important in a person that will equate to a successful relationship
😂😂😂 I felt so immature when the diarrhea caught me off guard..😂😂
We need more relationship speakers that are dating and having positive experiences as well as married couples for us singles.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 the side bar disclaimer
I'm single and all my close associates tell me that you will always be learning things that you will be dealing with and not try to define it one way and couples grow older and change
Hello from the UK Mr Gaskins . I think people confuse sex with intimacy. that's what I think people confuse. thank you for your raw straight forward lessons it saved my life. God bless you , your beautiful wife and you amazing boys💛
I am very grateful for this video because he is telling the truth about marriage.
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Tony, Tony, say it, Louder 📢 love your messages. 💙🙏🏼
So glad this conversation was provided. Thank you😊
Tony you are preaching as always. These people better stop sleeping on you & come get this wisdom.
This was so soothing. Thank you
🙋🏽♀️I learned a life lesson.
Now single and hate taking out 🗑 the trash. I bought scented trash
bags to help me take out 🗑 trash.😂
The next time I am married I will kiss my husband every time he takes out the trash. I will continue to take out the trash if needed. I hope he will appreciate my scented trash bags. 😂
I feel if sex is like food in a marriage then your marriage is based off lust or self gratification.
I believe people need to pray for Wisdom like Solomon. I prayed for it myself and trust me my mother call me for advice and I am not married. Nor is she, however, praryer is powerful! When I listen to TG it is either confirmation and or I am learning to see things from a different perspective. God Bless All🙏🏽
-May I add, I have chosen not to be married, I am believing in God for A "Real Man of God," nothing less🙏🏼
This video deserves way more likes
This is one of the most realest videos Tony has ever posted!! And I’m here for it
I take out the trash a lot because I cook more than my husband. He takes it out in the morning before he goes to work. It depends on the two individuals and their situation
The pee convo💀😅 Lol "I don't care if you do drink water all day it still stank, Absolutey not finna pee on me or my floor" 😂😂😂😂 EXACTLY quit being nasty
right and all I drink is water, so I know that is disgusting
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sex is overrated what's not overrated is a Love built on God's Standards Communication Understanding Empathy a Great Marriage sex is 10% and Mr Gaskins all the said above getting married for sex in for rude awakening
Yup, I truly didn't understand certain elements of marriage until I got married. Im truly not interested in anyone's advice unless they're married. Then, cut that rate in half lol
What’s happening here😂🤣😂🤣🤣my jaws are hurting.
One of the realest videos you ever done… Not “ lock jaw”😂😂😂. But your right.😐 Most of the married men that try to holler always say” we only together for the kids” or “ we never have sex anymore”…. Dirty dogs
Wow. I’m 24 and this is helping me. I never knew this was wrong lol
I am woman who have been preparing for marriage for the past two years. I do not know personally one couple or marriage that is healthy in my entire 40 years of living. However, due to my own personal growth of healing and growing my relationship with God, myself, and my kids I know that having a healthy marriage is in my future. I appreciate you Tony and thank you for this video because along with two other podcasts, sermons, therapy, and a multitude of books and audio books I am learning so much. I have been blessed to learn a great deal of information, knowledge, and with intimate conversations with God and prayers, God has blessed me with His wisdom ❣️this video is ☝🏾 for the books 🙏🏾
Can you share what books podcasts channels have been helpful to you?
Marriage is not a walk in the park.
Well i should have been dead years and years ago if sex was like life. smh
Your pretty 😍
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Tony please don’t give up on us single individuals, we need to hear the truth, your opinion greatly appreciated ❤
👍Yes speak Tony 🤺 fight against 👏 the nonsense and delusions 💯
Listen to him y'all 💯💯💯💯✝️💙💪🏽
Uncle Tony you are refreshingly counter culture! I will not stray from this wisdom you take the time to give us! You are saving lives because you are saving our minds! Thank you! Sending you gratitude!
10:32
Lol 😂but true. Time moves on and so does life and IF we live long enough our bodies WILL change.
I have Hidrinitis and it’s incurable and causes scars lumps,bumps and is very painful. Mostly on inner thighs. Under and any closed body parts. It’s problematic an embarrassing. Love me from the inside out please 😢
@TG! As a married woman of 17 years I agree and appreciate this message! It is the 100% truth! We have to become sober and practical at how we relate to one another! Single people giving relationship advice is like someone outside the house trying to tell you what it looks like on the inside! Married life is not a Cosby Show episode! Its time to wake up and stay awake!!❤❤😊😊
I needed this one. Thank you Tony.
You be breaking it down in BITS not pieces ok😂😂😂😂too real
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tony always says what needs to be said. We are getting terrible advice out here. It sounds wrong too so very grateful to have good married folks that share❤
Facts on Facts on Facts 🎯🎯🎯
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “Lord Forgive Me” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I Fully understand 😩😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jesus be sick of me sometimes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes Tony! All Annie Mae’s can cook 🤣. Keep on schooling these fools. Your messages are informative funny and truth. You are my godly comedy dosage with lessons. Keep on keeping on brother Tony
Thank you for allowing God to use you always. We need these kind of messages no one else is discussing marriage from the correct perspective.
you are giving us a lots of biscuits😂
4:09 Yessssss get with, talk to, observe the married men and women in your life. Listen and Learn from those in the trenches and doing the work!
Listening 20 minutes in and this is the best coaching session I’ve listened to in a while. Thank you Tony. Not everyone has your gift. Many are called but only a few have been chosen
25:49- 26:25 is truth marriage is beautiful to Imperfect people coming together under God's union I believe God is pruning us to love our spouse like Jesus loves us for his glory, then In between that life happens
I could explain more
I agree with you. That's my mindset on marriage
The realest hour 🙌🏾
Amen Mr. Gaskins! I appreciate your transparency and willingness to speak the truth about marriage and what solid marriages and relationships are built on.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣There’s days has taken me out🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
I am reminded of Eddie Murphy's character in Boomerang. He was so superficial that when he thought he'd found perfection based on his silly standards, he got played by a selfish, over-sexed, weave-wearing harlot.
Great 👍 job Tony.. very honest truthful video.. young singles need to hear these .. heck old ones too😅
Thank you for all the knowledge. Blessings 🙏 🙌
PREACH, Tony! 🙌
That’s degrading.
Thank you Tony for teaching marriage/relationship ❤❤is not a fairytale. Stay focused on who and what God has called you to. He is covering you & your family every step of the way and beyond. Blessings in Jesus Name! Amen!❤
Yes, Thank you Tony
Thank you Tony
A man I dated for while told me he only wanted head no sex, sex doesn't satisfy him but he would do it one time to get a child.
Sounded suspect to me
I am Glad I LEFT quick
DL fo sho 😂🎉
it’s funny how you was talkin about how you don’t respect a man until he’s been in a faithful marriage and then the way you just lit up when your wife walked in the room 🤣🤣 i love it 🙌
I’m married and I don’t take out the trash …I’m a truck driver and we see each other every two weeks that space actually works.
Yes I agree with everything he’s saying every marriage is different sorry that was my point
All I can say is that God is looking down on his creation, shaking his head in disbelief.😮😮😮
This content is fantastic. Thank you so much for this anointed message. Much needed. 🙏🏼
Omg, you're so real. I love it!
I love these videos ! So informative and unintentionally funny 😂. Wonderful combination