Maintaining Modesty in The Modern World | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
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- We live in a world where everyone makes their own rules to fit their own lifestyles and assume that it is correct. Sometimes we are right but also wrong at other times. How do we maintain our modesty in such a modern world where there are so many opinions?
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Complete haya =
1. Modesty in speech
2. Modesty in behaviour
3. Modesty in clothing (i.e. hijab)
4. Modesty in worship
Another "wake-up call". May we all wake up. Ameen
Alhamdulillah for this video. I’m sixteen and I’ve been looking for videos on TH-cam speaking of Haya and I couldn’t find very many. I was disappointed but then I came across this video and it’s simply amazing, Alhamdulillah. It’s getting more and more difficult in this day and age to find such sources I’m very thankful to have a social platform that is actually beneficial. Thank you Allah for bringing me this knowledge. These days TH-cam is my biggest source for Islamic knowledge . Jazak’Allah for this video. My new favorite sheikh 💖💖
Mashallah that you are so young and searching for this! Rabana yikrimak
Ameera Hammouda 🥰🥰
May Allah (swt) bless you for your good nature and thrive you have
Regarding modesty and Haya, I have really benefited from this book: "A return to modesty by wendy shalit". I recommend it.
Ashiqul Islam barakallahu fi umrak
Don’t know what to say. Living in such a nasty society that sometimes i feel grateful to the Almighty for the pandemic. At least some people are now staying at home instead of going to clubs, taking alcohol with girlfriends , though they are married and trying to establish their dirty habits as socialization.
May Allah increase our haya to ihsan
This topic is the most needed at this time
May Allah SWT bless us with highest level of Haya.
Ameen.
May Allah bless u wth his Rahma amen.jazaakhallahum khaer Yaa Sheikh
you are amazing!!!!!❤️❤️❤️love all your speeches!! not a single one is bored!amazing lectures!👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
This is a reality for real, we live in a world where we are taught, pushed and encouraged since we arr children to not be shy at school, in society, everywhere...May Allah have mercy on us😭😭😭.
I remember when i was at school i was sooo shy i couldn't even ask the teacher a question. But the teacher kept pushing me again and again to take away my shyness and it worked.
But now I'm working really hard to have back my haya 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.
May Allah forgive us and guide us to the right path ameen.
I don't think that encouraging a child to become confident and less shy is equal to removal of hayaa.
There is a difference between lack of confidence and haya as there is a difference between confidence and shamelessness.
there is nothing so shameless in asking ur teacher a question, she is there to help, I think u have mistaken confidence for shamelessness
Jazak Allah khair Respected Sir
May Allah protect us, and our sisters, and our children… and may Allah purify our hearts.
Haya and iman are linked, Haya is the barrier to damaging our iman.
Well said brother Yasir qadhi.
Masha Allah
I love Shaykh Yasir for the sake of Allah. He is truly gifted with the most beautiful knowledge in this universe.
Jazakumullahu hayran ya Shaykh . . .
Masha Allah
Great lecture
Wear what make others say "Masha Allah " and not say " Astaghfirullah "
ma shaa Allah beautiful topic
Hayath - life of body
Haya - life of soul
subhanallah ❣
And He has made me blessed wherever I am | Surah Maryam 19:31]
Insha Allah Good Words will upload remaining chapters soon. Alhamdulillah
جزاك الله خيراً
وحفظك الله من كل سوء
When it comes to explaining a matter of important fiqh,shaikh Yssir can be trusted with his beneficial knowledge
Great speech. MashaAllah.
Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله
Such a good and important khutbah!
Barakallahu Fik ya Aakhil galli
Please deliver a practical modesty mixing with friends and dinners,work etc
Jazak Allah khair
JazakAllahu khairan sheikh. Thank you for this. I have learnt alot, how to guide my family as a parent and how to conduct myself in private as a muslim. May Allh guide us and forgive us for the sins we have committed in private. ...ameen.
Jazaka Allah khairan
MashaAllah. May Allah reward you and all of us with with a home right under his Throne along with our Prophet peace be upon him.
Remember Muslim Ummah in your duaa for iman ilm noor rizq barakah a blessed death place in Jannah Allahs Smile love for Prophet Muhammad SAWS & against Sihr problems issues we Are facing now & in the future incl Akhiraah. Ameen
Alhamdulillah. Salam, Sir.
Thank you for this good lecture.
Dr. Yasir qadhi 💞❣️💞❣️💞❣️
Alhamdulillah , my mother called me hayat 🌼
ماشاءالله برك الله ! جزاك الله !
Jajakallah khairan
this video made me compare my pre-pandemic lifestyle with my current lifestyle. and all i can say is that I'm grateful to Allah for giving me the sense and direction. pre-pandemic me is unrecognisable and embarrassing.
mashaAllah
Powerful reminder
Mashallah ❤❤❤
Yasir Qadhi ❤️
Thank You shaykh..
Indeed! another timely reminder !
Eye opener
Mashallah, a great talk 👍🏼
Masha Allah beautifully explained
Alhamdullilah
Alhamdulillah. May Allah increase your knowledge.
May Allah bless you. I really needed to watch this. =)
May Allah give you more knowledge to empower us with.Ameen
Very balanced, full of information and complete Ma shaa Allah la quwwata illa billah. May Allah protect you Ameen
Oh Allah forgives and grant us pious spirit that does what is right.
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.Masha Allah.This is a good topic to be share to all Muslims.May Allah SWT continue to Reward you with the Best in this World and the Hearafter.Allahumma amin.
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💝Alx
Or the East or even the harshest of Africa and Siberia for that matter.
Selam
I agree here but as a parent I am aware that I also have to teach my children the definition of hayaa. I always was told that having hayaa is to listen and obey the elder without listening to my own mind and standing for my own rights as a child and a women. When men speak I had to listen. When women judged I had to change. If I wanted to do something no neighbor was allowed to receive the news of it. I had to change this way of living by letting go this kind of hayaa to stand up for myself. There has to be a balans of having hayaa for people and standing up for yourself. This is what I teach to my children. I find it very complicated because people don't always appreciate it.
Lol, people don't want you to fight for yourself because they want to abuse you. Simple. However fight for yourself doesn't mean being unfair with people, it simply means you do your best so that people respect those right God almighty gave you, and speaking your opinion is one of those rights, there so many story about that. Don't let people to walk on your feet simply because you're a woman, don't you know how the women of the time of the Prophet (pbuh) where behaving? They were modest, but they wouldn't hesitate to fight for their rights, for justice, for people, this is Islam.
Islam is here so you can emancipate, and emancipation is not conform with the western value (like for a woman going almost naked in the street, shouting to get attention...), no, it's about you living a full life, like being respected as an individual, speaking to say what you have to in a respectful and a dignified way, the right to choose what you want for yourself as long as you're on the right path of Islam, saying no or asking question when things doesn't seem right (bc God gave you a brain, and it's not to use other's). Study Islam it's the best way not to get manipulated. And last thing if you fight your right do it intelligently, sincerely, with respect, and ask Allah to guide, and I'm saying that to you and me.
Assalam u Alaikum...please also record the salah..:)
If i have a baby and its a girl. Im naming her Haya
Great name for a baby girl Masha Allah
ma shaa alaah may Allah make her among righteous
Aslam WA Alaikum WA Rahmatullahi WA Barkatahu you right my brother about TV show had shifted since the 80s and 90s how much stuff I have to personally, meaning when I met with an American I’m a little bit easy when I am with an Arab or Muslim community I am the shyest person you could ever be around or Middle Eastern in stores I feel like I could crawl under the table or in restaurant my husband often comments he tells me we paid for it I think like Chameleon
where can i read of manly haya??
Someone give full nasheed link of starting not end
Fourth comment 😁😁😁😁😁😁
0.19 what is the name of the nasheed?
Brother As Salam alikum may Allah swt bless you for your efforts. pls tell me how can I let a person knw I'm interested in marrying him while being in hayya .I'm a striving person in the path of Allah .pls reply me
Ask Allah if he is good for me facilitate for me ..pray 2 rakah and then after tasbeeh and darud say dua of istikhara also read it's meaning ,it's beautiful and complete dua.....you are asking Allah inshallah He will guide your Heart in the right direction.
Make Istikharah sister. Insha’Allah the Lord will answer your prayers.
Tell them you’re not ready and they will get it
Assalaamu'alaikum, sister Sophia. You may ask a person whom you know and really trust to be the middle person or a mediator for you and the brother you are interested to marry. The middle person can help to pass the message properly. May Allah subhana wa ta'ala make it easy for you to marry a good man, ameen..
@@kongshannice4488 jazaak Allah khair but I dnt knw anyone in between who can convey my msg so pls pray fr me tht Allah swt put in his heart to marry me 😢😞.
Muslim that are telling other Muslims that haram clothes is low Iman, telling the truth are called narrow minded by the Munafiqs.
Please, sh Yasir try to speak softly , its bit harsh on ears.
I've a question... may You'll answer it.... please I'm really frustrated about this...
"" does Islam allow to had sex with slave without her permission?? if it is permissible to had sex with slave without her will/permission will not it be a rape?? "" (i already know the detonation of slave in islam by your video and mashallah you’ve cleared so many things but I haven’t found my answer in your video... hope that you will answer it) because this question and some thought is making distance between me and islam... I'm sorry, may Allah forgive me...i need to know the answer..
help me please
Brother you should listen to Professor Jonathan AC Brown leacture about slavery and Islam
Rape is a form of harm and abuse. You are forbidden from abusing your wife or slave
There's no word to accurately describe the Islamic slave, the mental picture and connotations of the word slave is not the same as what we generally know in English.
Asalam-o-alaikum,
Here is the verse from Surah Nur that forbids forcing your slave into sex without their consent.
" But let them who find not [the means for] marriage abstain [from sexual relations] until Allah enriches them from His bounty. And those who seek a contract [for eventual emancipation] from among whom your right hands possess - then make a contract with them if you know there is within them goodness and give them from the wealth of Allah which He has given you. And do not compel your slave girls to prostitution, if they desire chastity, to seek [thereby] the temporary interests of worldly life. And if someone should compel them, then indeed, Allah is [to them], after their compulsion, Forgiving and Merciful."
- Quran, Surah Nur, Verse 33
Here are also some useful links about these matters:
- islamqa.info/en/answers/13737/what-is-the-ruling-on-intimacy-with-slave-women
Brother Yasir Qadhi, Please do lecture on tabarruj and dayouth, we need it really ,if our scholars doesn't teach us about gheerah then who will?? I have seen there's alot of man and woman who don't even know what is protective jealousy is , we have family/friends gatherings and ppl talk to each other ,looking at each other ....
Parents are totally slack about monitering their kids tv and internet viewing and why would you give a cell phone for a small kid-its ridiculous. Majority of parents are doing a terrible job. Why would a kid even watch tv- typical negligence just sit kid in front of tv so you dont have to spent quality time with them. And most parents dont have islamic house holds anyway.
Clear truth a Muslim is someone who submits his will to Allah, for those women and men that want their own type of Islam, Your not Allah, We Muslims will not let you mislead people into Your type of Islam, haram clothes is low Iman thats the truth.
you didnt go in depth in everyday life where you are forced to gender mix etc and how to reconsile
If you hv haya when alone you'll naturally be bashful and careful with the opposite gender no?
@@Life-bt9yo akhi you are forced to gender mix these days
@@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Even if you're in a situation where you have to interract.. brother what i mean is if you have haya when alone as per the hadith because you're shy that Allah sees you crossing a line even when alone so u remain dignified then what's to say of a situation where people can see you and you're caught up interracting with the opposite gender. One should Control all that IS in one's control as best we can. Things that are not in our control we leave them to our Rabb.
@@zubayergillarkyckling7832 Of course more in depth discussion on the topic would be beneficial I agree.
@@Life-bt9yo True but another issue I hoped he touched upon was considering how important haya is in Islam, to what exent should my Geerah be when my wife is forced to interact with males or even casually since its so normalised. Can one be a good muslimah but in the same time mix and what should our attitiued be towards such? Problems like this
Yes but the full hijab or burqa is not necessarily part of haya. You can cover your aura without them. Alhamdulilah
But it is, the quran clearly talks about khimar which means head covering and says to extend it over the chest area.
The aura is obligatory, so full hijab is necessary.
The Qur'an clearly states you have to wear/have hijab
Niqab is a choice
Complete haya =
1. Modesty in speech
2. Modesty in behaviour
3. Modesty in clothing (i.e. hijab)
4. Modesty in our worship
@@danoneall4013 you don't have to wear hijab wearing the headscarf is open declaration of your Islam in public its not fard to announce your Islam to the world so hijab modest clothing is fard but not clothing that gives your religion away
Masha Allah