The Truth About Dating Multiple People!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
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Is dating becoming a financial burden? Join us as we discuss whether men should be expected to spend money when dating women. We dive into the honest conversation about dating multiple people and the financial implications it can have. Watch till the end and hit that subscribe button!
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Dating for women is pretty easy but very burdensome for men. The men are expected to do all of the asking, all of the pursuing, all of the planning, and all of the paying. There has to be some pot of gold waiting at the end of this to endure this drudgery. And that pot of gold needs to be a loving, loyal relationship worthy girlfriend that you are seriously vetting for marriage. So if a man has decided he has no interest in marriage, there is no point in dating at all. If a man is open to marriage, then he needs to ruthlessly vet women before the date. And the only way to do that is face to face. So no dating someone you "met" on an app or website.
Interesting!
Yeah I feel for men but still not an excuse. Women also need to know when they aren’t ready to date and not waste men’s resources haha
I pick the women I go on dates with wisely. The ones who go on dates looking for a new experience, they're fun girls to me. The ones who go on dates to actually get to know me and take their time to vet me I have way more respect for.
Thats smart- pick wisely!
If the end goal of dating is to have a relationship, why is there so much emphasis on the activity/money involved instead of getting to know if your values are aligned, if you are attracted to each other and if you enjoy each others company?
Also, it would even the playing field if women were invested during the dating process because that will deter a lot of women who waste men’s resources. The current practise of dating incentivises bad behaviour. You can always expect when bad behaviour is incentivised that as humans we will take advantage of that.
Same with men. The nuclear family is deteriorating and it’s only family that will save us in the long run but it’s a lot of laugh now cry later atm
I think thats a fair argument. But I believe women invest in different ways.
@@EJIMANnenaNgozi I agree that women invest in other ways, however it’s mainly women focused on where the dates are etc. hence why I say if they were as equally invested some of their expectations may be better adjusted. It’s an interesting topic that seems to have been going on but like I said, if the end goal of dating is to establish a relationship why is there so much focus on the outing when that’s not what sustains a relationship. What happened to the fundamentals? They are not discussed as much
A lot was said, but even more was left out. What is it that average women want?
Peace, respect, loyalty.... and the list goes on
I think your narrative of saying if you were a man and meet a lady who has certain preferences or proclivities different from yours, you will move on is a bit naive. There are never perfect matches. As a person ages, one learns that relationships require tolerance and one adjusts accordingly. Also as a person ages, meeting people become more difficult.
Tolerance is def needed in relationships but you have to be realistic about what you can tolerate. Yes it does become "harder" to meet people as you get older. Not only physically but people can be a bit more closed due to past experiences. Thanks for watching!
I have 5 different women i sleep with.
I don't believe in having one woman only.
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