STAND UP HOMEMAKER! Traditional Christian Housewife + God Talk
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- Clean with me while I get some homemaking done in my house and talk to you about diligence and how we can work to overcome laziness and procrastination in our daily life as homemakers.
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00:00 Homemaking Inspiration
00:40 Clean with me
01:16 Proverbs 31 Woman
02:57 Proverbs 31:17 meaning
04:22 Diligence
05:18 Ask yourself...
06:03 God's purpose for women
07:01 Learn how to be better
08:02 Your body is a temple
09:24 how to apply Proverbs 31 to your life
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I just discovered you and I’m so grateful God put your channel in my path! I was in a dark place but after watching your videos I decided to start actually reading and listening to the Bible, now everything is changing for the better! After over 15 years, I was laid off from my corporate career a year ago and at the same time, moved away from town out to acres in the Country. My husband drives so far to work and our kids are older. I’m seeing that although I’m physically alone a lot, I’m never actually alone with Jesus. Thank you for inspiration and motivation!
God bless you 🙏 I left my job of over15 years at a church/school, we moved to another state and our kids are all out of the house. I am physically alone 10 hours a day while my husband works. And these videos bless me tremendously too ❤️
I’m so glad you found me too! I’m so happy to hear that you are immersing yourself in the Bible
I'm in the same boat (not with the moving part, tho). I live very rural & my husband has always worked many, many hours & weird shifts, and driven far in order for me to stay home. My kids are 20 & 17 & even tho I am still homeschooling the younger one, I am alone alot too. She works, has friends, & after being together all morning for school often retreats to her room for the evening. I was a teenager once, so i 'get it'. I have felt unneeded in the recent past & wondering if anything I do makes a difference. Usually my husband is so tired that he is not a ton of company when he is home, either. things have been changing for the better, tho. i gained a new young wife/mother as a neighbor who has asked me to teach her all sorts of things. I also have gotten better about studying Scripture & I don't feel so alone either. It is weird because I am so busy all the time that I don't get 'bored', just missing companionship.
I would strongly encourage you to start gardening. Pour yourself in the land and your home. It’s seriously therapeutic. Also, find some ladies and start a weekly Bible study and brunch. You don’t have to be a scholar to do so. Living out in the country can seem isolating at times but I can tell you, just me personally, I’ve lived in town of a small town, large city, and now out in the country in a small town. I hands down love the country and the life it gives. It’s a break from the business of life. Hope this encourages you somewhat!
Beautifully said.@@AnotherBeautifulMind
Many Christian homemaker videos emphasize work, sacrifice, diligence, etc. But never forget that it is always for love, the work should be motivated by love for god, your family, neighbors, and even enemies. Constantly take time to let that love fill your soul and it should bring joy.
You are correct. It is time for us to be diligent for Christ!
Amen!
Talking about health really hit home. My health is pretty bad. I know what I should be doing, but because of massive amounts of stress right now, I’m not doing what I know I should. I need to start praying for guidance and courage to do what is right. I’ll get there. I just need to make a few changes and stand up for myself. If I’m not well, I can’t help those around me. Thank you so much for all you do.
Prayers!
I am in a similar situation it sounds like. You're not alone.
My Mom has been in the hospital for the 4th time in the last 2 months, and 3 days in a intensive care room, I feel weak and no strength to do my homemaking in this stressful time! Please pray that Mom can get healthy and regains strength again! Love your channel so much!
I will pray for your mother🙏 God bless love from Sweden.
Praying for her healing!! 🙏🏼
@@rebecca3242 it means a lot to me, thank you very much 💓
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@@ThisMamasFaith Thank you very much 🙏🏽
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So needed this today Tabitha. As a 68yo grandmother to 10, with custody of four of them, I often wake up tired and exhausted. Waking up with a plan in place for the day, and building in time for rest and to work on my health, is going to take priority while the children are on school so that I feel better and ready to start each day and finish the afternoons and evenings strong. Thank you for your words of encouragement
What a blessing you are to those children!! You can do it!
I am a 63 year old woman! Who agree with all the encouraging words specially from the word of God . I always encourage my children to be part of the cleaning of our home including putting toys away it was par of teaching them to be responsible and helpful . They new we’re the best team and they knew it please God!
Wow Lynne, that is too much pressure for one person! I am so sorry you have to walk through this in your retirement 😢
@@randomvintagefilm273 thank you. They truly are the light of my life. I won’t lie, it is very difficult at times, it oh the joy they bring me. And I am so blessed to have a wonderful village/support system
Some women are amazing 😮….I will try not to fall prey to that seductive beckoning hammock and book on my porch 😊…well less often anyways xx …have a blessed and wonderful life full of love and family and good people always.
I love how your home has views of nature in every window! My husband and I are moving out of the city for this exact reason and for our children to be able to explore and play outside
I needed thiss so bad. After spending 3 months in hospital with my baby (2hrs away from for 4 other children) I feel totally exhausted, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. I feel like I am failing to keep up in every area of my life. I get so overwhelmed by everything I need to do and catch up on. This was soul searching.
Give yourself grace, not guilt. Ask for help. Let it go, let it go. Time heals all wounds.
Praying for you and your family. Remember that it’s okay to ask for help. God is with you and things will get better. Just take one day at a time. Blessings
Sometimes you just need to cry with your Saviour, ask for His help. Lord give this precious wife and mother the strength she needs to lean on you and know that you will give her the grace to keep going, in Jesus Name Amen.
Give yourself permission to go spend 10 minutes to cry out to Him , even if it’s snatching* that time in the bathroom as I have done many times.
He will meet you there 😘🙏❤️
Praise god.I was feeling so low today. Through you god is speaking to me. Thankyou so much...god bless,love from SG
Wow this was a punch in the gut today 🫣 im a mom of 2 under 2 with no family in a new state. My husband lost his job of 6 years and its been 2 months on the search for one. We made this move so i could be a sahm. Please pray for us during this time 😭
Praying for you most definitely
LORD walk with this mom and her husband. Help them to know You are with them and in this season with them. Help them to find the work they need to live the life fir them. Help them as individuals an as a couple to read Your word and study as individuals and as a couple. Most importantly that they develop a prayer life as individuals and as couple. As they grow also do at least weekly family devotions. Love on them greatly as they walk with You in this season. Thank You LORD. In Jesus, Amen. 💚💚💚
Prayer said. Have grace for yourself and family during this time, it will pass and get better ❤.
You're not alone, I will pray for you!
I will be praying for you, In similar boat here. Mom of 6 and my husband lost his job unexpectedly after 15 years. He still diligently looking for work.
Thank you! God bless to all mamas in the world!
Amen!
Thank you for this message today!
Thank you for challenging us to be better women of God 🙏 I enjoy your videos a lot. God Bless You and Your Family.
This was life changing! ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you so much!!!
I’m so grateful you did a video on this part of Proverbs 31; thank you!
This was powerful. This is what I needed. Thank you
Ty for sharing a refreshing word of God ❤
Love this series. So good & inspiring! ❤
Thank you, Tabitha! You are always such a blessing! 🩷
Thank you for all this encouragement and thoughs on this topic.
Inspiring as always beautiful mama🙏🏼💖
This is so good! Such a great reminder in so many ways. Thank you for putting this out there.
I needed this. Thank you. praise the Lord ❤️
I feel so convicted ...thank you❤
Such a powerful video today. This has truly blessed me and made me aware of things I need to work on. Ty Tabitha. God is using you in a mighty way.
I love Your videos, they motivate me greatly ❤
This was such a good reminder for me as a wife and mother ❤ thank you & God bless ❤
You are my inspiration and my motivation. Thank you so much for your videos.
Thank you for your great motivation!!!
I found this at the right moment ❤😢thanks so much for videos like these
Thank you for being obedient with your channel. I swear your the reason I make my bed now. Lol. Praising God for you, sister in christ. ❤
That’s so funny and awesome!! 👏🏼 😍
You have a beautiful home and care for it so well. Thank you for another encouraging video 🙏
Just came across this today. Would have liked to go through from the start. Be blessed. I need this
I never realized how owning your niche helps to bless others… It’s so specific, but I love your content … I feel seen! ❤️
Thank you for sharing such wisdom. The message is Holy Spirit inspired❤.
Timely words for me! Thank you, sister for speaking truth, the very truth I needed to hear. May God continue to bless you abundantly, lady of beauty and wisdom!
Thank you so much for this inspiring and motivating message ❤ May God bless you always and your family ❤️🙏
Thanks so very much for this video I love proverbs 31 I’ve been enjoying this! You’re a great inspiration.
So glad!
I needed to listen to it. Thanks a lot! God bless you and your family!
Same to you!
Thank You Lord for Tabitha.
God bless you mama. You have helped me reframe my mindset. Those words were truly needed today.
Thank you for sharing the Word of God!
In one of your videos you mentioned a book called holiness for housewives; I received mine today and it’s really good . I love to read these kind of books that just help lift you just like your videos thank you so much have a blessed day 🙏
Thank you for blessing me through this video ❤
Thanks be to God!
A beautiful and much needed reminder. Thank you. I will go back to the beginning of this series to watch all the videos. ❤
Wonderful!
Very encouraging chat even for an empty-nester 😊
Thank you
So glad! Thank YOU for watching
Inspirational words ❤
The best thing to listen to while doing my cleaning! Thank you :)
Thank you! I needed to hear this today. You've really blessed me! Big hugs and love. 💖🌹🙏🥹
Wonderful I’m so glad
This is so good. I needed to hear this. Thank you, qnd please know I'm praying for you. 💛
Thank you very much 🤎
Thank you for sharing. God bless ❤
So grateful to have you as part of my Sunday routine after church. Have a great Sunday! 🩷
I’m very grateful you are here to watch 🥰
I had just prayed before watching your video and God answered me through it. Thank you for doing His will❤🙏🏾
Amazing!!! All glory to God!
I love it. She certainly is vigorous at the right things.
Wow! Thank God for you mama! I needed this today 🩷 Jesus always puts me right where I need to be!!
Amen!
Love the saying Glorify God in your simple. My job allows me to be a house wife for three months a year as I work at a school in Australia. Glad to find someone that loves God and encouraging others to be a proverbs 31 wife
Hi, I’m in Australia too.. pls help me to find a job and guide me to build a carieer.. ❤
The Lord recently led me to your channel. It has already been a blessing to me in many ways. I appreciate your biblically inspired content. I am particularly enjoying your Proverbs 31 woman videos. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you are being faithful to his calling in your life as a wife, a mother, and in sharing this content with us. ❤ from a fellow sister in Christ, wife, and mother.
Wow, thank you
This is such a great video! 😁
Tabitha, I have so missed your videos. Your journey has been so beautiful since I first started watching you all those years ago. Many blessings to your beloved family. We are always praying for you.
Thank you so much! I’m glad you are watching them again :)
Thank you for this video. I'm encouraged and going to start from the beginning of your Proverbs 31 study for more blessings.
I am a mom of 3 wonderful grown children and now a new grandma. I am going to take care of him 3 days a week so he won't go to daycare. I know this study will be help me keep a Godly perspective. ❤
What a blessing that you will be able to spend so much time with your grandson!
Very uplifting words of wisdom!! ❤
Glad you think so Johanna! Have a wonderful week friend 🥰
@@ThisMamasFaith 🥰 Thank you, you too, sweet friend!! ❤️
Thank you for your beautiful videos! May God bless you and your family today and always! My husband and I will be confirmed Catholic at Pentecost all glory to God! Your witness was part of my reversion!! You are doing Gods work ❤❤
Amazing! Welcome home
Thank you for sharing God bless you and all viewers as we grow in Him ❤✝️
This videos helps me to be a better me.
Thanks for this
Thank you! ❤❤
Thank you Tabitha 🫶 really needed to hear this!
Do you have any christian/tradwife podcasts to motivate you throughout the week that you would recommend?
Looking forward to next sunday ❤
Wow thank God for this Channel
Yes! All Glory to God!!!
Hi Tabitha, thank you for your inspirational videos! God has blessed me incredibly through them since I recently came across your channel. Praying for you and your family! I kindly pray for videos/content about our Holy Mother, the Virgin Mary, and her perfect example of our call/vocation to Motherhood, Homemaking, ultimate feminine beauty, etc. Growing closer to Mother Mary has truly helped me to see the beauty of fully surrendering it ALL to God. I’m sure it would bless many others as well. Praying so much for you and all your followers! God bless you! 🙏🏼❤️
Pray to God the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit ONLY. Praying to Mary is wrong and a sin! God our Heavenly Father knows what love is... He sacrificed His own son for US ! He's kind and compassionate, merciful and generous! The Bible says, GOD IS LOVE! So He can surely guide you how to love and care for others! ❤ Jesus is the Way and the Truth and the Life, no one comes to the Father except through Jesus! ✝️
Ma'am with all due respect, I pray to the Holy Trinity only. As a Catholic, we have a Heavenly Mother (The Virgin Mary) to whom we ask for INTERCESSION of our prayers to Our Father in heaven. She LEADS us to Him. In the wedding feast at Cana, she said "Do whatever HE tells you." She is the perfect embodiment of what it means to follow the Lord, our God perfectly. Asking for Tabitha to provide content on our Holy Mother, is for the sole purpose that others may learn more about her and her virtues via our womanhood/motherhood. She has led many souls to Jesus, that is her purpose: To love and glorify God (NOT to be glorified herself). She is the perfect sinless woman and there is much we can learn about and from her. I am not a misled Catholic Christian who doesn't know what our Catholic faith teaches. We do NOT worship Mary; she is to be loved and respected, as our Lord did. I hope that provides clarity for you. @@dianemoore8289
@r_rodriguez3
The BIBLE gives me clarity.
For ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
All means All, including Mary. Do you have a scripture that says Mary is sinless? Yes, she was blessed and favored by God especially with her obedience, but she needed a Savior just like us. And the Bible never says to ask Mary for intercession. The Bible says there is ONE mediator between God and man and that is Jesus Christ. When our Lord died on the cross, that heavy veil, that curtain separating us and the Holy priests in the Temple where God's presence was, TORE! WE can go to our Heavenly Father! How amazing!! I don't mean to argue with you, or debate, because I grew up Catholic as well. When I read the bible, I learned where that religion twisted God's word and added to it. I'm glad you don't worship Mary. I did... I prayed the rosary and had her statue in my yard. That's idolatry! God is a jealous God!
There's a lot of deception out there and the Bible is the only Truth to go by. ✝️😇 Peace to you🙏
Thank you❤
In a nice way I wear slippers or feet warmer as it can cause slow circulation of blood and hard skin .or could get stab by anything on floor which happened to me when cleaned bare footed. Lovely video
I just found your channel today. I've subscribed. May I ask where you find your beautiful dresses? I'm finding it difficult to find conservative dresses for Easter. Thank you!
Hi, I am a Christian wife and I stumbled upon your videos today. I liked what you have done through your channel and watched two other videos of yours today and checked couple others. Subscribed immediately.
However there is one thing that I couldn't take in a good way. Watching this video, I felt that you are not teaching your kids basic responsibility.
Of course kids can be messy, its understood.. But being a good parent, I feel like you should be inputting discipline at a young age and teaching them how to be responsible for what they have- be it things or parents.
It would be good if you could slowly encourage them to clean up after their play time, and even make them engage with the household works too..
It seems like you want to be a do it all person, when its not necessary. And this thought in you is making your family dependent on you.
I feel like you should understand and help them when they are tired, but othertimes your kids and partner can also take part in household chores so that tomorrow if needed they can live by themselves. Moreover doing chores together can give some joyful moments.
And if they learn as kids, when they grow up, they don't have to depend on or expect other woman( wife/mom) to do everything for them..
Please correct me if I understood you wrong. I just hope I am wrong.. If not, I would like to know your thoughts on this.
Hope you don't get offended. I dont mean to hurt you- but just want to have the full picture, so that I can understand your perspective. I have seen parents over loving, or doing everything for kids in the name of "being a good mother".. But in the end these kids get spoiled.
My mother was 'a do it all wife' with my father. She was proud of not making her husband do any household chores. And now, 30 years after, my father doesn't like to do household works even when she is sick. For name sake he does out of necessity. Because my mother never gave him an opportunity to take part in household chores, which indirectly gave him the mindset that these are not his responsibility.. And now, when she needs help he finds it not enjoyable and a burden.
With us she was strict and 'not a do it all mom'. She made us do household duties at a very young age, which turned out to be good..
Hope you understood from where I have this concern.
Sorry for the long comment..
Can you direct me to the video that you talk about where you buy your dresses? I want to start wearing more humble yet nice clothes. Thanks :)
I have not yet made a video about that but will most likely share it in a blog post :)
Beautiful ❤
Love your videos
Thank you!
@@ThisMamasFaith yep
Only God gives me strength to do anything, I cannot do anything by myself
Could you share the song at the end with us? I love it 🥰
The one I always play? It’s called As A Gift and I found it on epidemic sound
@@ThisMamasFaith thank you 🙏🏽
Tabitha, I love your videos and watch most of them, and appreciate you so much! You are so beautiful and kind as well. I just have one question... your hair is long and so beautiful... how on earth do you stand it hanging down on your neck and in your face, especially when you're doing housework? I am genuinely curious. Perhaps you have just always worn your hair down so you are used to it? I admittedly may have a sensory issue, but I cannot stand my hair hanging down, so it always amazes me when I watch you, how it doesn't seem to bother you at all. Anyway, carry on... be blessed! Thankyou for wonderful content! ❤❤
I’m so glad you like my videos. Funny thing is, I have sensory issues too. Putting my hair up bothers me. 😅
I'm a Momma of 1/2 doz. blessing. I definitely would have the children help with picking up the floors(their closer). You need the help, make it a game...
Oh my children help immensely. While I was cleaning this main floor, they were downstairs cleaning. It was MUCH messier down there 😆
As homemaker we deserve social security even if the marriage ends
Facts!
You do get social security spousal benefit if you were married for at least 10 years. This still applies if the marriage ends and you have not remarried. Unfortunately, it is only 50% of your husbands benefit.
If you see this message can you please say a prayer for me and my husband as I am striving to be this Proverbs 31 and a good wife to my husband daily..
I find this to throw a lot of guilt on those who are burdened. If you have a crappy husband and or bad health it's not that simple. Some have no bootstraps left.
My recent video about suffering may be helpful! :)
Where are your kids when you do all of this? Genuinely asking. Trying to figure out how to get all housework done with littles. we don’t do screen time so alternatives??
They are usually cleaning as well, playing outside or downstairs with their toys. Lots of times they are just out of frame
Today only I connected with ur video.I am fm INDIA
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I'm struggling to be a good homemaker, but I want to be better. I think I have chronic fatigue and on top of that I'm 8 weeks pregnant. I want to sleep all the time. I feel like I'm wasting my life. Sos 🥺😓
Praying for you!!
If a mom of 6 and a home school mom can do this everyone can be more diligent.
I’m not perfect by any means but I most definitely am always trying to improve!
No mess at all but how
With all respect, when you say it is not God strengthening the Proverbs 31 women that she does it herself needs to be re thought. When you look at the women in the bible, their stories clearing show Gods strength in what he set out for them to accomplish. I fully believe it is exactly God's strength in which we accomplishes all our duties. Yes we choose to do our task but we do it unto the Lord & with his strength in us. If our desire is to shows God in all we do...that is God in us, his strength giving us the desire & motivation to do what we do. I hope I'm explaining my thought ok here.
God gives us what we need for our daily bread, but he asks us to do the baking!
@@ThisMamasFaith thank you for clarifying your thought!
May I know if what’s your religion?
Traditional Roman Catholic 😍
I used to read multiple versions because I thought that it would be helpful, but it created more confusion. The KJV is much more direct and to the point when you compare.
Proverbs 31:17 KJV - She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
I'm not sure why you say that it's not God strengthening the Proverbs woman, since God should be getting all the glory for everything we do. She is praised primarily because she fears God. Very notably David said that it was God that girded him with strength. (Psalm 18:32)
John 15:5 KJV - I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
Proverbs 31:30 KJV - Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
Psalm 18:29-34 KJV
29 For by thee I have run through a troop; and by my God have I leaped over a wall.
30 As for God, his way is perfect: the word of the Lord is tried: he is a buckler to all those that trust in him.
31 For who is God save the Lord? or who is a rock save our God?
32 It is God that girdeth me with strength, and maketh my way perfect.
33 He maketh my feet like hinds' feet, and setteth me upon my high places.
34 He teacheth my hands to war, so that a bow of steel is broken by mine arms.
The king James version has removed 7 books from the Bible.
The meaning behind me saying the proverbs 31 woman is strengthening herself is that she’s using her free will to improve herself and following the guidance of James 4:17
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I encourage you to look into the difference between the Textus Receptus and the Alexandrian manuscripts (that were sourced from the Vatican and originated in Alexandria, Egypt). The Textus Receptus was used for the Geneva Bible and the King James Bible. The Alexandrian manuscripts were used for all modern versions.
I don't think that the KJV is lacking anything. The Apocrypha were never considered to be on the same level as the Old and New Testaments. The modern versions on the other hand, have to have enough changes in them in order to claim a copyright.
Personally, I don't think I can really take credit for the things I do. I am definitely trying hard, but only God gets me through the day.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10 KJV
9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.
10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.
Did you just say “it is not God strengthening the woman, but herself”?????? Not biblical. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Not in my own strength. Sis, great video, but that part was NOT biblical and can be taken wrong by sisters that aren’t super strong in their faith or bible reading. 😔💔
When I’m saying this, the meaning is that you can’t just sit around and pray. You have to take action and use your free will that God gave you to make changes. You have to do the right thing. It is biblical, read James 4:17 for example. If you eat fast food everyday you cannot just pray to start cooking at home. You have to do that yourself. If you are overweight you can’t just pray to be slim, you have to put in the work yourself by exercising and changing your lifestyle. My entire channel is about glorifying God so of course I do not mean that we can be strong on our own without God…We have to take ACTION ourselves! Hope this helps clear that up 😁
@@ThisMamasFaith gotcha ❤️
Thanks for your inspiring video 🙏!
I have a question, I am struggling with going to the gym and will not do yoga. Workout videos bore me! Would it be enough to vigorously do house chores and take the dog and kids for a walk daily? Is that a good workout or fulfilling God's instructions for women in Proverbs?
I send all of you healing prayers. God loves each and every one of you. He hasn’t forgotten you. Please give Him all of your problems and anxieties. And please remember, you are NOT alone. Ever. 🙏🏻✝️❤️🪽
@@Marlene-db4ob Of course He does. 😉🤗😊