@@carmelaseverino681her channel is still up but she appears to have moved on. Sucks because i was trying to recall her name/one of her old videos and finally rediscovered her only to find she has now left the web.
Same here. I dated a narcissist ex who was a fake evangelical Christian. I found out about 2 ex's of hers before me tried to kill themselves. And I still was blind to everything. Riding the dopamine high I was blindsided by her inner demonic self and ended up almost losing my mind. Thankfully I'm 4 years free of her and much happier. I thought I'd never find peace again. Stay strong you guys
Everything you’re saying is 100% correct my brother…Theyre are parasitic monsters. I lost my job, my wealth, my home, my family trying to appease that monster. She was sexually abused as a child. The Abused become the abuser. She has now ruined our daughter too. I should trademark this next line: when you view people through ROSE colored glasses, RED FLAGS are just flags….thanks for educating the poor sob’s that will come behind us.
NPD, BPD, ASPD, histrionics... They (cluster B's) all come from the same basket, but their psychodynamics are to some extent different. Extreme long story short - they are toddlers stuck between the ages of 4 and 9. Their behavior reflects the behavior of a child who begs for attention, validation and wants everything to go/be their way.
Dude, yes. My ex was a narcissist. 1st year she was all sweet and caring but after a while she started to reveal herself. Wort time of my life, literally had to start my life all over again because she manipulated me into planning my life around her. I'm still recovering from that, so not worth it at all. No matter how hot she is, no matter how well the bitch rides, no matter how much she lifts your ego, it is NOT worth it.
Same. Sadly she had me shamed, gaslit, and questioning at a weak time, and I spent 6 years with her. Thankfully I woke up and left her. Even though it's awful, those of us who have had the displeasure of dating malignant narcissists have learned to be mentally tough as nails and uncompromising in our boundaries and self care.
One of the things that kept me attached to my ex at 18 was how well the bitch could ride 😂 damn I never had sex like that again but still NOT WORTH IT. They literally suck your soul out of you
Thanks George. You are the life saver. My ex narcissist girl wanted to come again into my life and a was just planning to take her back but Lord saved me by popping up this video.
I had a narcissistic gf for 9 months when I was 18. She was my 2nd gf and at that time, I was bit overweight and insecure (perfect bait for her). She was actually pretty hot and the beginning of the relationship was like a dream. I thought I found an angel…oh boy was I wrong 😅 She slowly began to accuse me of being a player and cheating on her bc I had some female friends. She manipulated me into thinking im a total asshole and she cant trust me. Ofcourse I did everything she wanted to make the relationship as amazing as in the beginning and thats when they have you, thats their game. She managed to isolate me from everyone, family, friends, classmates so she can manipulate me. I did everything she asked for, humilated myself just to please her but it only got worse and worse. Even physical abuse was on the menu. People who saw me at the time decribed me as a pale, emotionless zombie. Luckily my best friend locked me inside of his room one day and talked me out of this and opened my eyes. I then rebuked the devil like in a exorcist movie. She later tried to be sweet again and have me back but ofcourse I deleted her from my life. I still have difficulties to open myself to women and trust them bc of her, but Im also happy to learn this lesson from an early age. Im convinced narcissists are demons and I totally despite them.
MY friend, YES. Just yes. Every single word you said - yes. When I tell people I dated a truly crazy woman, they say “they’re all crazy”. I say “no, brother. You clearly don’t know what I’m talking about”. They really are demons. Mine was diagnosed with a bunch of mental issues too, on top of being a narcissist. Lasted 5 years though. Felt like 15.
I don’t think she was a narcissist. Every girl is jealous. And if you do this to every girl (trying to please her and do what she’s asking for) she will left you. I don’t see any narcissistic traits here you just have to man the fuck up
Used to look into her blue eyes and wondered why they were so empty, vacant, like she had no soul. By the time I haven't even heard the term narcissist before, and 2 years after i was almost destroyed on the verge of insanity. Luckily I knew my guts warned me from the beginning therefore I was able to learn the lesson and recover. Kind of thank her cuz she made me stronger after surviving her vampire embrace. Crazy people.
I agree very much with this. i met this amazing girl who was heavy pushing for a relationship with me.. One day we are talking in the couch, the best day we've had yet. And out of nowhere, she says "haha, but you are ugly!". I was like "okay, and how the fuck did i even ask about this?".. And thats where the narcissist went from complete love bombing in a very loving relationship into ignoring and abusing.. I've always been one to look up things that confuse me, so i googled this, started reading up on narcissism and tried myself to fix it. Dont do this.. Trying to fix this instead of leaving, broke my confidence in so many ways that i wish i had just dropped it.
Can you explain other situations when you realised she was a narcissist? Because I might be in a similar position but I am a "Mr will try to fix everything" so I wonder if it will be worth it
@@bogdanmihailov2504 Why don't you list some examples of things she's done so we can determine if she's disordered. Tell her "No" when she wants something you don't want, if she becomes enraged and pushes at your boundaries... that is a good sign she's a narcissist. I was married to a diagnosed vulnerable narcissist, also studied psychology. You can not fix someone's personality... especially a narcissist's, they truly believe they're perfect and don't want to change.
I tried to call my narc out for cheating on me. She blamed me for it then proceeded to put a bag over head so she wouldn't have to own up to her bad behavior.
You forgot to mention Donald Trump, Steve Jobs exc. Narcissists make the best leaders and they are usually the most successful. One of the reasons is because they are willing to step on other peroples backs to get where they are, they are ruthless. It is not always a bad trait for a leader and they might have less empathy but they are not always completely void of empathy either.
i was in realtionship with a narcissist when i look to her eyes i can't even remember her eyes it was empty she was amazingly beautiful she started to cut me of from my friends i work with 99% of the time with women so she start talking oh have fun with them and blah blah i was like wtf? ... she sucked the energy out of me i felt captive i always told her you are so manipulative btw! and put her on the spot she retracts and start mimcing me again to gain my love and become nice again guys i would advise you find a narc.. RUN! i took me 2 month to recover as i work in healing and coaching but i got trashed badly and recovered being much more wiser i dont know if it is experince we all should go through but if you do ! dont waste your time my brothers
My friend & roomie of 5 years dropped into a narcissistic relationship and i told him he is going to be alone at the end of all this. The end of this being his life long friends blocking him bc he refuses to believe reality if it doesnt appear from his partner Same problem i had with his narcissistic partner. She would come into my space for weeks and get attention from me just to verbally throw away the sentiment whenever other people are around. Some people CAN NOT be reasoned with, despite the time you invest in them ⚰
Finally someone calls Andrew Tate out as a narcissist! He's a product of a narcissistic, absent father. Tate talks about self-confidence and self-worth, but was NEVER able to critique his father - he was and is still scared of his abusive narc dad.
You sound like you have dependence on Andrew. What do you need him to say to free you? Do you need Andrew to say , "i am sorry, hallucinator"? The guy is a narcissist of some sort, but look at his actions and how he treats people around him. So far I've seen only great things And please dont reply with andrew said this or that to so & so...the guy isnt divine. He isnt a Saint. He's a sinful human begin, imperfect & corrupt like you & like me. Be objective.
@@daviedood2503 army don't dismiss due to NPD 🤣 otherwise the whole generality would be fired, it's not even a real illness, just a disturbance symptom.
@@gameon2000 buddy, try again. It's NPD do you know what it means ? Narcissist personality DISORDER as in a mental DISORDER you can't have a person in the military with a MENTAL DISORDER pal. 🤣😆
If you think about it, Andrew's personality and mind is what got him there, I would not be bothered to have such a personality if at the end it will make me work more hard to achieve my goals. Like you said, a normal person would not be bothered by the fact that someone else is more successful then them, and that's the point of why the magority of people don't make it, they are not bothered enough, we live in a competition world, if you don't move your ass the others will overtake you. I agree anyway with the other arguments that you brought in this video, keep it up!
Whatever you do…don’t EVER tell them they are a narcissist or argue with them at all. They will take everything you say or accuse them of and use it against you. Once you know what they are keep your response to grey rock/yellow rock..no contact. Period. Stay safe everyone! ❤
Grey rock is when they are screaming at you or insulting you just act as though they are talking about the weather. Show 0 emotions 0 maybe hard but arguing is a you no win situation.
There is a huge inflation of the term narcissist being used, often wrongly. The root of being a narcissist is a false self image, which sets up for traits like inflated ego, entitlement, little empathy for others, being "the taker" in social situations, but also a fragile and vulnerable self esteem and being childish. Calling people like Andrew Tate for a narcissist is directly wrong, and shows no real understanding of the term. Being arrogant is not synonymous with being a narcissist, especially when this is a person who creates value for others, has good self awareness and has a strong self esteem.
nah he's probably very high on the narcissistic spectrum. The way he admitted to being a part of mafia and admitted to using the lover boy method to trick and manipulate women, all these things admitted on camera. It's like having so much arrogance that you're completely oblivious to the fact that anything can happen to you. I know he very much regrets it now but that's just because he's being punished for it now.
I had this friend, all the time there is this negative aura in the room george speaks of, as said when i had something i was happy or proud about he would put me down without fail. I remember playing video games with him, minecraft and whenever i didnt do exactly what he wanted or did something on my own he would go fully crazy, shut down the server and whatever. I remember arguing with him, i wasnt emotional at all and he was getting all worked up. In the end he put me in a neck crank, i got him off of me and slapped him so hard next thing i was was him on the floor. The argument was partly about his single mom 😅
For narcissist, to become more secure, look at people as if they are NPC in a video game. Suddenly you become able to be yourself and stop trying to mimic the person likes and tastes ect. (Why would you mimic NPC) . Its hot fix for your mentality if you cant afford getting help. Its also makes you chill and opened person.
And they will cheat with other women as often as with other men. My narcissistic girlfriend of three years had at least a half dozen female flying monkeys that I later understood were her female lovers
Hey bro can I come on the channel and do an interview about my BPD experience ? I think it’ll provide some good insight on how dangerous these dynamics are , and most importantly how real the damage that can be done whilst being trapped in them.
That is true. Everyone has egos, and narcissism is merely a dark side of the human nature. Narcissists discussed in this video are the people who are unable to control their inner narcissistic monster. But I think narcissistic monster can be easily tamed and put to good use, just like any part of human's psyche. For example: I can be labeled a narcissist, too, because I like making fun of people and play with their emotions, but I always know when to stop so that in the end it is fun for both of us. You have to be very compassionate at the same time to be able to pull this trick though. Filters out boring ass insecure/lame people btw Thus my conclusion is: being compassionate and being narcissistic are not opposites at all. And most importantly: being narcissistic doesn't necessarily mean your behaviour is anti-social or evil. It also has its use! Just don't make it dominate your character.
Narcissism let's u step out into the world and function. Without it, you'd be and do nothing. No motivation, nothing. Having NPD and narcissistic traits are two different things
Having self-respect and boundaries is one thing, lying to everyone and to yourself just to make the world fits into your narrative is another completely different thing
You mentioned a woman's playlist about narcissists: Batel Skater. One in that list is How Narcissists Are Weaker Than Empathetic Codependents. She's essentially saying that a relationship that has a 50/50 split control dynamic of codependence is superior to a relationship where a man has the majority of control. She's implying the same thing you have - that having control is being narcissistic. I think it depends on how empathetic you are though. If you tell your gf not to go out to the club, Batel Skater would probably call that narcissistic and controlling. But, if you know that she has the mind of a ten year old and could end up giving someone head in a booth at that club, then you would be wise to tell her not to go. Using ultimatums is using emotional leverage. Batel would likely consider giving a woman an ultimatum to be narcissistic, but that's something you've promoted other men doing and said you've given women ultimatums. I agree that being willing to walk is necessary, but if we start calling everything narcissistic then it loses it's meaning. Maybe I've misunderstood the spirit or the meaning of what you said. It's just that women like to split-test to get their way by saying one thing, and if it doesn't work then they say something else, until they say the thing that helps them get their way. Usually this includes shaming language, by calling men names like narcissist. It's not obvious to me that most people know the true definition of the word, much less understand the psychological neuroses associated with the disorder.
@@robertromero8094 Yes, and it's not purely using emotional leverage for the sake of the enjoyment of controlling her, because that would be true narcissism. I'd go as far as to say, if she's avoiding doing single-woman things to appease you, then you should break up with her. Some women genuinely don't want to do those things, even when they are single, and they are the type of woman to take seriously.
@@robertromero8094 Yeah, usually that's the best advice. A few really smart ones might understand and internalize some good advice you give her, but most will just do whatever they feel like regardless.
me calling narcisistic women a sister. best thing ever. everytime i want something give her call and tell her she instantly gives in in hopes that it will be a levearage for future but then when she tries to use it agains me boom idc i aint doing anything stupid ;) yet she stays.
Being competitive doesn't make you a narcissist, it just makes you strive for excellence. Michael Jordon has the spirit of a lion and lions are empaths by nature and their spirit is in their heart which is the center of love. Adversity is a blessing in disguise that helps people achieve greatness. Bruce Lee was bullied because he was part Jewish and white; He was picked on from both Chinese and Whites which made him the greatest fighter of all time. Jordon was picked on by his father and brother which made him the greatest sports legend of all time. etc...
Great video. Especially what you said about Tate. I saw him speaking about his cam girl business and the s*mps who paid the girls. The guy from the channel the saint and the sinner is almost the same way and a lot of politicians especially in the west have traits like that.
the problem is that too many woman are like that, but some use that to meet new people. dificult to distinguish narci to girl looking for love or friends
Yea I just dealt with a chick who would give me all types of compliments then a few hours later called me everything but a child of God. I don't know if she was a Narcissist or just plain Crazy but I didn't stick around to find out
I had to interact with a narcissist on multiple occasions. I am kind of a meek/nice guy. Like vultures, these ppl think me an easy prey, as they think they could wrap me around their finger because in their view I'm stupid. If I don't play along and let them dominate me, which I don't, they start hating on me and try to turn other ppl against me. Funny enough, I have come to this gray potato / freezing out technique by trial an error. What they then do is, they come up to me, put of a hat of a psychologist and say "hey man, do you have trouble communicating with other ppl? Do you want to talk about it?". Unfortunately, while it may not work on me, it works in terms of badmouthing me to other ppl, that I am a bad dude for ignoring him. Of course, his efforts to dominate they don't mention
23:30 my brother are so almost all days, and its a nigthmare to live with him for that. sometimes i need to destroy her ego. and even said him that i wll figth with him no matter what if him dont react at your attitudes
@@bettercallgeorge924 oh ok, I noticed at the end. started watching her about a month now so I was like what did she do!! You made some massive points. Another sport personality you could look at is cristiano Ronaldo! His personality is of the charts that pushed him to be great. Thanks though 🙏🏾❤️
Also i noticed if my gf raging on me and i just change the subject and show my excitement about it with positive emotion she automatically stops raging. Like dogs about to fight getting distracted by the ball.
24:41 come on, that was not raging at all... and if he'd started raging every time something didn't go according to his plan as you say, he wouldn't have a house or achieved anything, it's obvious he was joking and making silly content, again showing off about money in a fun way... There's an old Russian school experiment where they showed to the class a picture of a man and prefaced it by saying something like "this is a psycho... can you tell?" and the students came up with idea of why his eyes are eyes of a crazy man etc... Then they showed it again i think to another class but this time they were told "this man was a precious poet and good man... can you tell?" and they all said about the same old man. "we can see in his eyes he was a good man"... People are manipulated on how the element of discussion is being prefaced and introduced.. you have many valid points, but your audience are blindly listening without critically thinking for themselves, just like the students in that experiment from Soviet Union
Too late for me. Maybe I needed to learn the hard way. My question is, if you know someone’s a narcissist and how they operate, couldn’t you always keep the control over the dynamic and your emotions? Couldn’t you use them instead?
damn i came to this video to understand my girlfriend and the surprise is it turns out i am a narcissist, can you make a video on how to get rid of this stupid behaviour
The lack of empathy could be applied to most womeb then 😂 most of them only want a man that doesn't show or share his personal problems and worries, they will leave us the moment we feel bad and try to talk to them about it. We can't count on most of them. I can count by my fingers the girls that actually listened to me and supported me when I shared a personal problem or worry
I don't genuinely believe the tates are narcissistic however I would like to hear in depth video on why you saying that Like I hear your point but I saw many of their old vids and I absolutely don't see any narcissistic behavior I see what you have said but I think you have unaccuratly read that footage about the printer wrong Like to me it looks as if they were just messing around with each other and broke the printer for shit and giggles simply because why not they rich Nonetheless I love your vids because you def provide a unique and in depth conversation about women Love yiur vids man
Oh boy, you tell exactly my life story, only that Ineither ONLY attract such women OR ALL women are like that (and I had quite a bit of them, until I stopped trying to play and win in this whole dating charade altogether years ago - never been happier!)
I have another video on Andrew Tate coming out today. 😅 if u disagree - please tell us why, because there is no way u can prove us that he is not a narcissist.
dude my gf is narc and ik that but idk why seeing her cry and imagining her without me just makes me sad its like a father to a child rel a father will feel bad is her daughter is crying
Narcissists and other people with personality disorders aren't devils. they are children. They are developmentally stunted. Men who get hurt by them aren't victims, they too are children. They were inexperienced and emotionally undisciplined. When a man has more experience and has grown up a bit, these type of people don't phase him. The pain is part of your education. Speaking from experience.
Thank you mirzabaig for your explanation. I just broke up with a chick who had narcissistic disorder, and it wasn't pretty. I would like to learn from you, how to deal with them and how to be emotionally disciplined. Thank you.
I get a strong suspicion that many narcissist try to reenact the way famous people behave 🧐 I used to do it, that's why I feel I might be right about it
I get what you are saying, I don't even doubt that Andrew Tate is a narcissist..I don't even think he will deny it but I think what 1st Man is saying about Tate copying him is bullsh*t..18:28
Narcissists don't even know that they are narcissists. Only the rare truly self aware narcissist will admit that they are narcissists, and again, that is rare..
There's a thin line between NPD and CPTSD both are very similar but imo CPTSD is easier to heal from than NPD. NPD is truly a dead end disorder but from what I understand, you say that NPD is a product of CPTSD? If so then I may need to do some more research into it all.
The thumbnail pic. The woman in that pic is Batel Skater. She has her own channel on YT. She is not a narcissist at all. She can't stand them either. She goes into what these creatures are on a spiritual level. She is targeted by them as well. Just wanted to set this straight.
A narcissist is an empty vessel filled with demons.
Batel Skater is a gift to the world. I'm delighted to know that her content has reached you.
Yeah, the way she explained it, it made all the sense to me about narcissists.
I think she has gone off TH-cam! I could be wrong!
@@carmelaseverino681her channel is still up but she appears to have moved on. Sucks because i was trying to recall her name/one of her old videos and finally rediscovered her only to find she has now left the web.
@@carmelaseverino681 I know! What happened to Batel?????? :***(
A hole is a hole 🤣
Yep
Facts
Lol hole
Too bad you didn't play her to encourage her to give you better sex than any other gal.
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I know a Narcissistic woman who has had ex partners suffer deaths after dating her, they are very dangerous women to date, stay safe 🙏🏽💪🏽
Usually due to witchcraft
Same here. I dated a narcissist ex who was a fake evangelical Christian. I found out about 2 ex's of hers before me tried to kill themselves. And I still was blind to everything. Riding the dopamine high I was blindsided by her inner demonic self and ended up almost losing my mind. Thankfully I'm 4 years free of her and much happier. I thought I'd never find peace again. Stay strong you guys
Everything you’re saying is 100% correct my brother…Theyre are parasitic monsters. I lost my job, my wealth, my home, my family trying to appease that monster. She was sexually abused as a child. The Abused become the abuser. She has now ruined our daughter too. I should trademark this next line: when you view people through ROSE colored glasses, RED FLAGS are just flags….thanks for educating the poor sob’s that will come behind us.
this is very eye opening…i just realized our generation is looking up to narcissists
All Narcissist are Demons in human form.
NPD, BPD, ASPD, histrionics... They (cluster B's) all come from the same basket, but their psychodynamics are to some extent different. Extreme long story short - they are toddlers stuck between the ages of 4 and 9. Their behavior reflects the behavior of a child who begs for attention, validation and wants everything to go/be their way.
How could a girl not have BPD when she gets unlimited attention for free at will and she has men at her fingertips
So true man.
They are devils in human body
Dude, yes. My ex was a narcissist. 1st year she was all sweet and caring but after a while she started to reveal herself. Wort time of my life, literally had to start my life all over again because she manipulated me into planning my life around her. I'm still recovering from that, so not worth it at all. No matter how hot she is, no matter how well the bitch rides, no matter how much she lifts your ego, it is NOT worth it.
Same. Sadly she had me shamed, gaslit, and questioning at a weak time, and I spent 6 years with her. Thankfully I woke up and left her. Even though it's awful, those of us who have had the displeasure of dating malignant narcissists have learned to be mentally tough as nails and uncompromising in our boundaries and self care.
One of the things that kept me attached to my ex at 18 was how well the bitch could ride 😂 damn I never had sex like that again but still NOT WORTH IT. They literally suck your soul out of you
What do you mean you were planning your life around her? In what way
Well said brother
@@Jibbzz i feel you bro, I hope you are doing ok
Thanks George. You are the life saver. My ex narcissist girl wanted to come again into my life and a was just planning to take her back but Lord saved me by popping up this video.
I had a narcissistic gf for 9 months when I was 18. She was my 2nd gf and at that time, I was bit overweight and insecure (perfect bait for her). She was actually pretty hot and the beginning of the relationship was like a dream. I thought I found an angel…oh boy was I wrong 😅
She slowly began to accuse me of being a player and cheating on her bc I had some female friends. She manipulated me into thinking im a total asshole and she cant trust me. Ofcourse I did everything she wanted to make the relationship as amazing as in the beginning and thats when they have you, thats their game.
She managed to isolate me from everyone, family, friends, classmates so she can manipulate me. I did everything she asked for, humilated myself just to please her but it only got worse and worse. Even physical abuse was on the menu. People who saw me at the time decribed me as a pale, emotionless zombie.
Luckily my best friend locked me inside of his room one day and talked me out of this and opened my eyes. I then rebuked the devil like in a exorcist movie.
She later tried to be sweet again and have me back but ofcourse I deleted her from my life.
I still have difficulties to open myself to women and trust them bc of her, but Im also happy to learn this lesson from an early age.
Im convinced narcissists are demons and I totally despite them.
Go for a sweet and kind Filipina. I did and I’m truly happy.
Men and women can’t be friends. She was jealous of your friends
MY friend, YES. Just yes. Every single word you said - yes. When I tell people I dated a truly crazy woman, they say “they’re all crazy”. I say “no, brother. You clearly don’t know what I’m talking about”. They really are demons. Mine was diagnosed with a bunch of mental issues too, on top of being a narcissist. Lasted 5 years though. Felt like 15.
Over all point of view from spiritual to behavioral traits your’ll right.
I don’t think she was a narcissist.
Every girl is jealous.
And if you do this to every girl (trying to please her and do what she’s asking for) she will left you.
I don’t see any narcissistic traits here you just have to man the fuck up
I was with a vulnerable narcissist for years... I wish I'd left her sooner. Always trust your gut feeling.
Used to look into her blue eyes and wondered why they were so empty, vacant, like she had no soul. By the time I haven't even heard the term narcissist before, and 2 years after i was almost destroyed on the verge of insanity. Luckily I knew my guts warned me from the beginning therefore I was able to learn the lesson and recover. Kind of thank her cuz she made me stronger after surviving her vampire embrace. Crazy people.
That COLD stare. *Sighs* I know all about it. Glad to hear you made it out brother
@@wefvince uffff that Scary Cold stare my brother. Thanks, i made it alive.
This man is russian and still gives us really understandable and good advice, Respect.
what the fuck does it have to do with him being russian
lol
What does it have to do with ethnicity?
what does being russian have to do with anything?
Haven’t you heard of Dostoyevsky for example? Lol you’re so ignorant
I agree very much with this. i met this amazing girl who was heavy pushing for a relationship with me.. One day we are talking in the couch, the best day we've had yet. And out of nowhere, she says "haha, but you are ugly!". I was like "okay, and how the fuck did i even ask about this?".. And thats where the narcissist went from complete love bombing in a very loving relationship into ignoring and abusing..
I've always been one to look up things that confuse me, so i googled this, started reading up on narcissism and tried myself to fix it. Dont do this.. Trying to fix this instead of leaving, broke my confidence in so many ways that i wish i had just dropped it.
Can you explain other situations when you realised she was a narcissist? Because I might be in a similar position but I am a "Mr will try to fix everything" so I wonder if it will be worth it
@@bogdanmihailov2504 Why don't you list some examples of things she's done so we can determine if she's disordered. Tell her "No" when she wants something you don't want, if she becomes enraged and pushes at your boundaries... that is a good sign she's a narcissist. I was married to a diagnosed vulnerable narcissist, also studied psychology. You can not fix someone's personality... especially a narcissist's, they truly believe they're perfect and don't want to change.
I tried to call my narc out for cheating on me. She blamed me for it then proceeded to put a bag over head so she wouldn't have to own up to her bad behavior.
exact same thing here Broads are El Polo Loco
You forgot to mention Donald Trump, Steve Jobs exc. Narcissists make the best leaders and they are usually the most successful. One of the reasons is because they are willing to step on other peroples backs to get where they are, they are ruthless. It is not always a bad trait for a leader and they might have less empathy but they are not always completely void of empathy either.
The narcissist eye and Dark energy are true, gave me the sick gut feeling
i was in realtionship with a narcissist
when i look to her eyes
i can't even remember her eyes
it was empty
she was amazingly beautiful
she started to cut me of from my friends
i work with 99% of the time with women so she start talking oh have fun with them and blah blah
i was like wtf? ...
she sucked the energy out of me
i felt captive
i always told her you are so manipulative btw! and put her on the spot
she retracts and start mimcing me again to gain my love and become nice again
guys i would advise you find a narc.. RUN!
i took me 2 month to recover as i work in healing and coaching but i got trashed badly and recovered being much more wiser
i dont know if it is experince we all should go through but if you do ! dont waste your time my brothers
My friend & roomie of 5 years dropped into a narcissistic relationship and i told him he is going to be alone at the end of all this. The end of this being his life long friends blocking him bc he refuses to believe reality if it doesnt appear from his partner
Same problem i had with his narcissistic partner. She would come into my space for weeks and get attention from me just to verbally throw away the sentiment whenever other people are around. Some people CAN NOT be reasoned with, despite the time you invest in them ⚰
ur so right brother, am young so learning this is really going to help me out
Truth George, I find myself watching this over and over
I dated one for 6 years, I foolishly chose her instead of going after my goals. Still trying to put my life back together.
14:50 onwards the best definition of narcissistic traits. I've experienced exactly what you described.
Finally someone calls Andrew Tate out as a narcissist! He's a product of a narcissistic, absent father. Tate talks about self-confidence and self-worth, but was NEVER able to critique his father - he was and is still scared of his abusive narc dad.
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His dad passed away and was taken out of military in disability for having NPD he said his dad has it but "he doesn't". 🤟🤣🔥
You sound like you have dependence on Andrew. What do you need him to say to free you?
Do you need Andrew to say , "i am sorry, hallucinator"?
The guy is a narcissist of some sort, but look at his actions and how he treats people around him. So far I've seen only great things
And please dont reply with andrew said this or that to so & so...the guy isnt divine. He isnt a Saint. He's a sinful human begin, imperfect & corrupt like you & like me.
Be objective.
@@daviedood2503 army don't dismiss due to NPD 🤣 otherwise the whole generality would be fired, it's not even a real illness, just a disturbance symptom.
@@gameon2000 buddy, try again. It's NPD do you know what it means ? Narcissist personality DISORDER as in a mental DISORDER you can't have a person in the military with a MENTAL DISORDER pal. 🤣😆
This is so true. I got mentally abused.
My ex had BPD, which is similar and very common in women. Nightmare stuff.
What is BPD
@@ilirmalaj9734 borderline personality disorder, it’s related to but different from narcissism. Do some research on it so you can avoid these women.
@@professorlayabout4878 what's the difference between BPD and NPD?
@@ilirmalaj9734 google it, you will get answers. It would take me hours to describe it and I’m at work. 😉
@@ilirmalaj9734 Look for Sam Vaknin, you'll get all answers you need.👌
If you think about it, Andrew's personality and mind is what got him there, I would not be bothered to have such a personality if at the end it will make me work more hard to achieve my goals. Like you said, a normal person would not be bothered by the fact that someone else is more successful then them, and that's the point of why the magority of people don't make it, they are not bothered enough, we live in a competition world, if you don't move your ass the others will overtake you. I agree anyway with the other arguments that you brought in this video, keep it up!
Great videos man !! Learning alot !! Appreciate the knowledge
I simply said “I’m a grown man. I’ll make my own decisions.” She was livid and set out to destroy me
Thanks
Damm
You are a legend man. I learn a lot.
Whatever you do…don’t EVER tell them they are a narcissist or argue with them at all. They will take everything you say or accuse them of and use it against you. Once you know what they are keep your response to grey rock/yellow rock..no contact. Period. Stay safe everyone! ❤
Thank you very much for sharing. I am mor centered now hearing these examples and this information you bring. God bless you
Damn I have an ex who has bpd it's very similar to narcissistic people she was also stalking me after I broke up
My ex was diagnosed with bpd. The devil incarnate.
Grey rock is when they are screaming at you or insulting you just act as though they are talking about the weather. Show 0 emotions 0 maybe hard but arguing is a you no win situation.
@12:08 I knew this story was going to end with, "My ex!" 😂
Every single word you said happened with me. Very true
1stman is legit. One of the few guys in the men's industry who's genuine and worth listening to.
There is a huge inflation of the term narcissist being used, often wrongly. The root of being a narcissist is a false self image, which sets up for traits like inflated ego, entitlement, little empathy for others, being "the taker" in social situations, but also a fragile and vulnerable self esteem and being childish. Calling people like Andrew Tate for a narcissist is directly wrong, and shows no real understanding of the term. Being arrogant is not synonymous with being a narcissist, especially when this is a person who creates value for others, has good self awareness and has a strong self esteem.
nah he's probably very high on the narcissistic spectrum. The way he admitted to being a part of mafia and admitted to using the lover boy method to trick and manipulate women, all these things admitted on camera. It's like having so much arrogance that you're completely oblivious to the fact that anything can happen to you. I know he very much regrets it now but that's just because he's being punished for it now.
@@techystt Andrew literally said the opposite of your statements.
Just be honest. This video makes us more to think about becoming narcissistic rather than running from narcissistic women
I had this friend, all the time there is this negative aura in the room george speaks of, as said when i had something i was happy or proud about he would put me down without fail. I remember playing video games with him, minecraft and whenever i didnt do exactly what he wanted or did something on my own he would go fully crazy, shut down the server and whatever. I remember arguing with him, i wasnt emotional at all and he was getting all worked up. In the end he put me in a neck crank, i got him off of me and slapped him so hard next thing i was was him on the floor.
The argument was partly about his single mom 😅
Yeah. Welcome to the world of female Narcissists George 😂 Time to level up!
For narcissist, to become more secure, look at people as if they are NPC in a video game. Suddenly you become able to be yourself and stop trying to mimic the person likes and tastes ect. (Why would you mimic NPC) . Its hot fix for your mentality if you cant afford getting help. Its also makes you chill and opened person.
And they will cheat with other women as often as with other men. My narcissistic girlfriend of three years had at least a half dozen female flying monkeys that I later understood were her female lovers
Yup. Same here. They’ll take anyone
Hey bro can I come on the channel and do an interview about my BPD experience ? I think it’ll provide some good insight on how dangerous these dynamics are , and most importantly how real the damage that can be done whilst being trapped in them.
True, make a video on this plz
@@waazaaawoop997 trust me he should have me on , I can provide HUGE insight and help.
Whats crazy is that everyone has narcissistic traits to some degree
That is true. Everyone has egos, and narcissism is merely a dark side of the human nature. Narcissists discussed in this video are the people who are unable to control their inner narcissistic monster. But I think narcissistic monster can be easily tamed and put to good use, just like any part of human's psyche.
For example: I can be labeled a narcissist, too, because I like making fun of people and play with their emotions, but I always know when to stop so that in the end it is fun for both of us. You have to be very compassionate at the same time to be able to pull this trick though. Filters out boring ass insecure/lame people btw
Thus my conclusion is: being compassionate and being narcissistic are not opposites at all. And most importantly: being narcissistic doesn't necessarily mean your behaviour is anti-social or evil. It also has its use! Just don't make it dominate your character.
Yes. There is a fine line when having fun with others emotions.
It is not a decision, it's a personility disorder. Narcs are like color blind people, something is missing
Narcissism let's u step out into the world and function. Without it, you'd be and do nothing. No motivation, nothing. Having NPD and narcissistic traits are two different things
Having self-respect and boundaries is one thing, lying to everyone and to yourself just to make the world fits into your narrative is another completely different thing
You mentioned a woman's playlist about narcissists: Batel Skater. One in that list is How Narcissists Are Weaker Than Empathetic Codependents. She's essentially saying that a relationship that has a 50/50 split control dynamic of codependence is superior to a relationship where a man has the majority of control. She's implying the same thing you have - that having control is being narcissistic. I think it depends on how empathetic you are though. If you tell your gf not to go out to the club, Batel Skater would probably call that narcissistic and controlling. But, if you know that she has the mind of a ten year old and could end up giving someone head in a booth at that club, then you would be wise to tell her not to go. Using ultimatums is using emotional leverage. Batel would likely consider giving a woman an ultimatum to be narcissistic, but that's something you've promoted other men doing and said you've given women ultimatums. I agree that being willing to walk is necessary, but if we start calling everything narcissistic then it loses it's meaning. Maybe I've misunderstood the spirit or the meaning of what you said. It's just that women like to split-test to get their way by saying one thing, and if it doesn't work then they say something else, until they say the thing that helps them get their way. Usually this includes shaming language, by calling men names like narcissist. It's not obvious to me that most people know the true definition of the word, much less understand the psychological neuroses associated with the disorder.
Not letting her go to the club is a boundary. I told my ex narc, you can go but I won't be with you after. That's not controlling thats self respect.
@@robertromero8094 Yes, and it's not purely using emotional leverage for the sake of the enjoyment of controlling her, because that would be true narcissism. I'd go as far as to say, if she's avoiding doing single-woman things to appease you, then you should break up with her. Some women genuinely don't want to do those things, even when they are single, and they are the type of woman to take seriously.
@davidt1621 I agree eventually she will go if she wants too. Tear off the bandaid.
@@robertromero8094 Yeah, usually that's the best advice. A few really smart ones might understand and internalize some good advice you give her, but most will just do whatever they feel like regardless.
me calling narcisistic women a sister. best thing ever. everytime i want something give her call and tell her she instantly gives in in hopes that it will be a levearage for future but then when she tries to use it agains me boom idc i aint doing anything stupid ;) yet she stays.
Thank you for your information
Being competitive doesn't make you a narcissist, it just makes you strive for excellence. Michael Jordon has the spirit of a lion and lions are empaths by nature and their spirit is in their heart which is the center of love. Adversity is a blessing in disguise that helps people achieve greatness. Bruce Lee was bullied because he was part Jewish and white; He was picked on from both Chinese and Whites which made him the greatest fighter of all time. Jordon was picked on by his father and brother which made him the greatest sports legend of all time. etc...
A narc ruined my life. I’m
Still picking up the pieces
Tate and Jordan might be Narcissistic but he doesn't necessarily have NPD.
Great video. Especially what you said about Tate. I saw him speaking about his cam girl business and the s*mps who paid the girls. The guy from the channel the saint and the sinner is almost the same way and a lot of politicians especially in the west have traits like that.
Andrew tate was very calm with morgan and had emotional control that wasnt a a strong argument
Tate is maybe just very disciplined. Narcs calls this behaviour "masking".
Morgan, Tate and Biden are narcs. Trump is as well. Megan markel and Jada picket smith are too.
That's because he has the attention he wants, narcissist always put their best foot forward in front of the cameras
They are def pathogical cheaters at end of relationship she told me she cheated with my cousin smh
the problem is that too many woman are like that, but some use that to meet new people.
dificult to distinguish narci to girl looking for love or friends
Watch out for the ‘Devil Stare’ gents .. oh! And too many selfies and an open account.
Thank God I divorced mine 6 years ago. With 0 kids
OMG, that was a close call 😥
I’m glad you are calling out Tate brothers
This is exactly what happend to me
Yea I just dealt with a chick who would give me all types of compliments then a few hours later called me everything but a child of God.
I don't know if she was a Narcissist or just plain Crazy but I didn't stick around to find out
I had to interact with a narcissist on multiple occasions. I am kind of a meek/nice guy. Like vultures, these ppl think me an easy prey, as they think they could wrap me around their finger because in their view I'm stupid. If I don't play along and let them dominate me, which I don't, they start hating on me and try to turn other ppl against me. Funny enough, I have come to this gray potato / freezing out technique by trial an error. What they then do is, they come up to me, put of a hat of a psychologist and say "hey man, do you have trouble communicating with other ppl? Do you want to talk about it?". Unfortunately, while it may not work on me, it works in terms of badmouthing me to other ppl, that I am a bad dude for ignoring him. Of course, his efforts to dominate they don't mention
23:30 my brother are so almost all days, and its a nigthmare to live with him for that. sometimes i need to destroy her ego. and even said him that i wll figth with him no matter what if him dont react at your attitudes
Why batel skater picture is on the thumbnail though?
Because I recommend her channel through out the video, since she is the best at explaining what narcissism is.
@@bettercallgeorge924 oh ok, I noticed at the end. started watching her about a month now so I was like what did she do!! You made some massive points. Another sport personality you could look at is cristiano Ronaldo! His personality is of the charts that pushed him to be great. Thanks though 🙏🏾❤️
@@highvaluemale4866 Yeah, Im all for Batel Skater. She is great.
@@bettercallgeorge924 Yes, she is super super talented in this...
@@bettercallgeorge924 Denzo moze also very good
Also i noticed if my gf raging on me and i just change the subject and show my excitement about it with positive emotion she automatically stops raging. Like dogs about to fight getting distracted by the ball.
Andrew has that narcissist rage
24:41 come on, that was not raging at all... and if he'd started raging every time something didn't go according to his plan as you say, he wouldn't have a house or achieved anything, it's obvious he was joking and making silly content, again showing off about money in a fun way...
There's an old Russian school experiment where they showed to the class a picture of a man and prefaced it by saying something like "this is a psycho... can you tell?" and the students came up with idea of why his eyes are eyes of a crazy man etc...
Then they showed it again i think to another class but this time they were told "this man was a precious poet and good man... can you tell?"
and they all said about the same old man. "we can see in his eyes he was a good man"...
People are manipulated on how the element of discussion is being prefaced and introduced.. you have many valid points, but your audience are blindly listening without critically thinking for themselves, just like the students in that experiment from Soviet Union
Very good example
It’s weird. In my experience the narcissist stare is most intense during sex and when they’re angry
very true about what you said the negative energy
And whats happens when 2 narcissists come together? How does this relationship look like?
Too late for me. Maybe I needed to learn the hard way. My question is, if you know someone’s a narcissist and how they operate, couldn’t you always keep the control over the dynamic and your emotions? Couldn’t you use them instead?
yes you can, but stay 3 moves ahead of them
damn i came to this video to understand my girlfriend and the surprise is it turns out i am a narcissist, can you make a video on how to get rid of this stupid behaviour
Dark shadow negative energy these individuals needs ancient treatment ASAP ( 🐖
The lack of empathy could be applied to most womeb then 😂 most of them only want a man that doesn't show or share his personal problems and worries, they will leave us the moment we feel bad and try to talk to them about it. We can't count on most of them. I can count by my fingers the girls that actually listened to me and supported me when I shared a personal problem or worry
What is the name of the guy who says Tate is copying him? I’d like to look at his channel.
1st man he is a friend of hamza
people who've been incarcerated or detained are like that
I don't genuinely believe the tates are narcissistic however I would like to hear in depth video on why you saying that
Like I hear your point but I saw many of their old vids and I absolutely don't see any narcissistic behavior
I see what you have said but I think you have unaccuratly read that footage about the printer wrong
Like to me it looks as if they were just messing around with each other and broke the printer for shit and giggles simply because why not they rich
Nonetheless I love your vids because you def provide a unique and in depth conversation about women
Love yiur vids man
Oh boy, you tell exactly my life story, only that Ineither ONLY attract such women OR ALL women are like that (and I had quite a bit of them, until I stopped trying to play and win in this whole dating charade altogether years ago - never been happier!)
I'm the 552nd person to like this video.
4:02 this is where I disagree but I must admit this guys TH-cam channel will grow fast
I have another video on Andrew Tate coming out today. 😅 if u disagree - please tell us why, because there is no way u can prove us that he is not a narcissist.
dude my gf is narc and ik that but idk why seeing her cry and imagining her without me just makes me sad its like a father to a child rel
a father will feel bad is her daughter is crying
Narcissists and other people with personality disorders aren't devils. they are children. They are developmentally stunted.
Men who get hurt by them aren't victims, they too are children. They were inexperienced and emotionally undisciplined.
When a man has more experience and has grown up a bit, these type of people don't phase him.
The pain is part of your education. Speaking from experience.
Thank you mirzabaig for your explanation. I just broke up with a chick who had narcissistic disorder, and it wasn't pretty. I would like to learn from you, how to deal with them and how to be emotionally disciplined. Thank you.
this alsohelps woman george it was right on great video
I might be a narcissistic man in that i want to have total control, how to fix this? But then i am happy for you
My town is filled with them.
So is it OK to say women who have pictures of themselves as wallpapers on their phone are narcissistic?
The problem with these women is that they are extremley beautiful
"Disgusted"? Or Afraid.
I get a strong suspicion that many narcissist try to reenact the way famous people behave 🧐 I used to do it, that's why I feel I might be right about it
I just learnt that I am also narcicist
to know a narcissist is t he extent you have been abused by one
Excellent video
George man
You're the guy .
I get what you are saying, I don't even doubt that Andrew Tate is a narcissist..I don't even think he will deny it but I think what 1st Man is saying about Tate copying him is bullsh*t..18:28
Narcissists don't even know that they are narcissists. Only the rare truly self aware narcissist will admit that they are narcissists, and again, that is rare..
Fr, Tate was doing videos many many years ago.
There's a thin line between NPD and CPTSD both are very similar but imo CPTSD is easier to heal from than NPD. NPD is truly a dead end disorder but from what I understand, you say that NPD is a product of CPTSD? If so then I may need to do some more research into it all.
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The thumbnail pic. The woman in that pic is Batel Skater. She has her own channel on YT.
She is not a narcissist at all. She can't stand them either. She goes into what these creatures are on a spiritual level. She is targeted by them as well. Just wanted to set this straight.