GIRL CHAT VAULT: Is There Anything You Wish You Learned Sooner?

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  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +851

    Jeannie will never know just how many people she helps each time she opens up about her experiences. I commend her.

    • @jayyysworld9242
      @jayyysworld9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yessss!

    • @Jj_86
      @Jj_86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! Love her

    • @gabrielaferraz7401
      @gabrielaferraz7401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just wish there was a segment only with her talking. I really love her way with words and experiences.

    • @zarahshabs7936
      @zarahshabs7936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She has a youtube channel! :)

    • @kaylenereyes7613
      @kaylenereyes7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s so strong! 🤍

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    I’m going to miss seeing these four women together so much.

    • @melaninpoppin8175
      @melaninpoppin8175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @shxxylophone8969
      @shxxylophone8969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me 2 this show helped me a lot i’v been watching it for maybe 3 years they helped to find myself

    • @hannashimelis9023
      @hannashimelis9023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shx xqz honestly same ive been watching since I was 12 and now I’m 17. I’ve grown up with them and I love them so much

    • @tropicalmk3519
      @tropicalmk3519 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's happening? Is the show gonna finish or...?

    • @andreac.5596
      @andreac.5596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tropicalmk3519 Tamera left the show, she won't be coming back in future seasons...I'm sad...

  • @sitatheyoutuber
    @sitatheyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    I wish I knew not to waste my time on certain people and to defend myself instead of letting them walk all over me

    • @jemimajanvier4706
      @jemimajanvier4706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I recently parted ways with my childhood best friends because of this. Extremely difficult but necessary❣️

    • @sitatheyoutuber
      @sitatheyoutuber 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jemimajanvier4706 sorry to hear about that 😞 I did too with my ex best friend.

  • @Sorekneecap
    @Sorekneecap 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    Wish the Tamera the best. I will miss her so much on the show.

    • @touyatodoroki583
      @touyatodoroki583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do you mean?

    • @Sorekneecap
      @Sorekneecap 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aisha Ahmad she’s leaving the real. Won’t be back next season

    • @tumelogadinabokao3655
      @tumelogadinabokao3655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sorekneecap really? When did she say that? And why is she leaving?

    • @annabel9010
      @annabel9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tumelo Gadinabokao she said it on Instagram

  • @debbiedewberry4718
    @debbiedewberry4718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I feel for Jeannie! All those years of marriage and divorce but she is Married again in 2020 to a good man that l pray will stay together with her through good days and bad days.

    • @gettintipsy101
      @gettintipsy101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She’s not married. She’s engaged

    • @ryanamari2233
      @ryanamari2233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sarah Bear true but then again Jeannie and Jeezy could have had or even have a civil ceremony that a press release hasn’t been granted yet and then have something bigger later .. who knows

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ryanamari2233 People are quick. Someone would've already found out.

    • @Daphneeoh
      @Daphneeoh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They're divorced, and she tried to take him for a ride. So she became who she said her first ex-husband was.

  • @magdalenakrauze9473
    @magdalenakrauze9473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    It was my first contact with The Real. It was few days after I broke up with my fiance and canceled my wedding. Then I watched every movie on TH-cam of The Real. You all helped me go though it. Suddenly I wasn't alone. Jeannie you gave me hope and you showed me it's ok to to feel what I felt.
    When someone shows you who they really are, believe them❤️❤️❤️

    • @lk5393
      @lk5393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We're all going through something. It's how many times you dust yourself off, get up and keep on going that counts. Sending love and much blessings your way from snowy Moscow💕.

  • @andreac.5596
    @andreac.5596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love Tamera. What she said in this clip really touched me and I relate to it completely. I've always struggled with accepting myself for being different. I'm in my 30's now and I accept myself more than I used to but still have some stuff to work on. Tamera has especially had a great influence on me and I appreciate your thoughts and opinions on the show. I think you served your purpose on the show, you have inspired others like myself to love yourself and accept who you are. We'll miss you on the show Tam Tam...

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    “Sometimes you find yourself when you get lost” 🤍🕊

  • @kanwarghuman7720
    @kanwarghuman7720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    You can tell Adrienne wanted to cry while talking about how strong Jeannie is. I’m gonna miss Tam and Jeannies friendship and I hope they find another cohost that fits with the woman as well as Tam did.

  • @katabrams5566
    @katabrams5566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Aw, this really spoke to my heart. This is a sweet moment between the girls. And I felt just like Jeannie did right here, so to know that now she’s engaged and happy, that really inspires me. Many women been through this, but we strong!

  • @deewani5847
    @deewani5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I went through the same thing as Adrienne! I ended a 6 year relationship 2 weeks before the wedding and I didnt regret it all! One year later i met my now husband and it felt soooo right, right in the beginning and I am so happy ❣️Girls out there, listen to your inner voice not what society wants from you!!!

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I love that Tamera held Jeans hand as long as she did 🥺🥺🥺 Jeans is my new nickname for Jeannie lol, this sisterhood bond was wonderful I’m so glad we had it as long as we did all things considered

  • @88Musicgirl
    @88Musicgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Oh I’m gonna miss seeing those 4 together. The chemistry they have won’t be happening with anyone else.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Jeannie has been through so much.

  • @llehsir
    @llehsir 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Lmaoo, Loni said "Can we just fast forward" I'm crying

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She always plays timekeeper.

    • @Scoutbq1l
      @Scoutbq1l ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i can't with loni sometimes lol

  • @aprilbennett1209
    @aprilbennett1209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I am going to miss Tamera on the show! But I think her leaving the show is probably best for her. She is and was a very accomplished actress before the real and she is a very well put together woman and I feel that this show put her in some unnecessary drama. ESPECIALLY AFTER Tamar was fired people tried to make everything on the show into drama weather it be someone’s facial expression or if they have a disagreement then an explosion would happen and people would say so and so are feuding (when it’s just a disagreement). I wish Tamera the very best in the future.

    • @FriendshipIsMagic1998
      @FriendshipIsMagic1998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wouldn't call a Disney and Lifetime movie actress "accomplished" lol

    • @janejustin1788
      @janejustin1788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i hope she will go back to acting esp TV shows

    • @mykeiladumas6397
      @mykeiladumas6397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'll miss her too

    • @sunnyside1419
      @sunnyside1419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Accomplished actress? 😂

    • @graceomole7863
      @graceomole7863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FriendshipIsMagic1998 maybe a sister sister reboot

  • @cwytchsparks
    @cwytchsparks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What I wished I learned sooner in life is to validate & accept myself instead waiting for it to come from other people

  • @cjohnson7490
    @cjohnson7490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    To Tamara, thank you for putting my biggest question in life into words. I've always been bullied and talked about my entire life. The word of God has helped me to block the bullies' words of judgement and kept me fighting forward but the question always resonated in the back of my head. Thank you to the real for sharing this question. To Jeannie Mai, stay strong and remember that God never gives us more than we can handle. Keep on fishing girl! Much love to all of your beautiful spirits.

  • @angescobedo
    @angescobedo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I like how Adrienne called them out on how they used to pressure her to marry Lenny.

  • @amykimnguyen1728
    @amykimnguyen1728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now that I think of it, whenever I come across this clip, EVERY TIME-
    I never ever ever skip it. I always end up clicking it. It hits me everytime, and I literally can't imagine myself scrolling past this one. Thank you ladies.

  • @francesmask78
    @francesmask78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was a Tamera girl growing up... tooo.. old soul.. kind person I would get picked on being different. I'll come home n ask God why he made me this way... maybe I'll try to being like the other kids to fit in.. but my mommy always said to embrace me. . N that she was proud of the person I've before. I'm made to help n that's y I have a big heart.n I still get she think she all that to this day..in the hood as I walk pass the fellows on the corner.. oh she think shes better but I never judged anyone either... I was always shy n was in my own bubble minding my own business .. playin safe... to myself.. I love Tamera n I'm sad shes leaving. Shes who I've always vibe with the most of the ladies. Thanku ladies for having this talk

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I wish I had learned sooner than you can only count on yourself.

  • @lolarhodes3235
    @lolarhodes3235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m surprised Tamera is leaving tbh, I thought the show was good for her as it gave her something outside of her husband and kids. I hope whatever she’s doing gives her that same level of independence or just something she can enjoy for herself.

  • @oluwatomikecomfort6510
    @oluwatomikecomfort6510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Me seeing Jeanie cry ..I'm so touched

  • @daphnebailey6223
    @daphnebailey6223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    wow Tamer’s like me. im 15 and gave my life to Christ when i was 8 yrs old n have always felt like i think so much older n feel like ppl my age never get me. it has made me feel like i couldn’t fit in 🥺 I
    she’s so incredible 😭

    • @courtney5800
      @courtney5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm going to encourage you to keep doing God's work you never too young to be an example or set example for God's work in your life and do not let nobody encourage you or mislead you to give up I started serving God at a young age too and at the same age and me and my family we never miss a Sunday in church unless something was wrong with either one of our family members but keep doing God's work I am 23 years old and still doing my walk with Christ

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      stand your ground and follow Christ with all, your heart!

    • @sumayachannel6966
      @sumayachannel6966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      N
      Your acting like our world is small. I mean there are many things we can’t see, and hear.

    • @victoryjessey
      @victoryjessey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @N Do not put somebody down for what she believes in. If you don't believe in it go on with your life. If you think she's foolish for that let her be foolish. I don't see how it affects you.

    • @victoryjessey
      @victoryjessey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sweetheart, do not let your spirit waver, God bless you ❤

  • @ssrb9406
    @ssrb9406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Seeking professional help for sexual & mental abuse from my childhood so that I didn’t gravitate towards substance abuse.

    • @karowzeytafash
      @karowzeytafash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray that you find healing!--

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Another great quote I heard was to pay attention to your intuition and trust it, if you keep ignoring it it’ll stop speaking to you

  • @angieohmerroche6952
    @angieohmerroche6952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jeannie, thank you so VERY much for sharing your realness with us. I am in the same boat as you, so I get it. I've always felt bad that I made the wrong decision. But, thank you sooo much Loni, for pointing it that it's not my fault that here was different or that hee changed. I/we trusted and the he's (in this case) are the ones who bailed, gave up, didn't work as they promised that they would to stay a team through it ALL. Thank you ladies for being real. You make me feel not so alone.

  • @lisaosbourne-eden4576
    @lisaosbourne-eden4576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Adrienne I am so glad you were so open and transparent💓

  • @alexxachloe
    @alexxachloe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m going to miss Tamera so much! This show will not be the same without her💕I wish her the very best❤️

  • @CelleSleuths
    @CelleSleuths 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This absolutely helps ... im 27. Thank you jeannie. There is someone new in my life I've been making excuses for , bc I just got out of an abusive relationship in june.... i kept saying each thing wasn't that bad.... kept pushing some red flags under the rug bc like you said I kept saying "they're just going through something"... 🤦‍♀️ but seeing this I feel like I was supposed to rewatch this as a sign bc i literally have been going thru some stuff in my head and JUST posted that Maya Angelou quote on my snapchat story and then this video came in my queue .... i def am a firm.believer that nothing is coincidence and everything happens for a reason & you sharing this helped so much more than just me..but I feel like you may have saved me several years of wasting my time.

  • @jesseking2475
    @jesseking2475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your differences are going to stand out and one day those are the things that's going to be inspirational to people> Tamera

  • @yodi7778
    @yodi7778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    i literally only watched the show mainly cause of tamera

    • @Chronically.sarahdayton
      @Chronically.sarahdayton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rebecca Hope she just announced she’s leaving, guys. Check her IG

    • @sen-cher
      @sen-cher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Rebecca Hope people said the same when Tamar left. All the girls have loyal fans and all the girls have haters. Considering how many fans dislike Tamera, there's a chance they'll be fine too. And this is coming from a fan of Tam

  • @thailanddegraffenreid775
    @thailanddegraffenreid775 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love all u ladies and how vulnerable y’all are! I miss y’all being on this show. ❤

  • @andrezavalaTV
    @andrezavalaTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i love tamera, but as long as those other three are there im here for them. (keke would be good doe)

  • @__M7_
    @__M7_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tamera is sharing my testimony...oh, wait that's hers, but it sounds like mine...except, I was 15. A blessing to hear her share-does feel better when realize not the only one. Wish her story wasn't interrupted early on, would like to hear the rest. Glad it all worked out for you Tamera! Look at you and look at your lovely family! :)

  • @jessicaadan6561
    @jessicaadan6561 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love this one! Going through a lot in my life.

  • @Shanibrook
    @Shanibrook 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love ain't enough, you deserve some much inviting someone in to your life, if your gut is telling you something follow it 💕

  • @andreina9469
    @andreina9469 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this by far might be my favorite 'girl chat vault,' ...hands down.

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I wish I'd known to follow my dream of being an actor instead of wasting 4 years of my life in the military smh

    • @andrewangelucci8857
      @andrewangelucci8857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yea when I was growing up I wanted to be an actor too

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you act now?

    • @longlivekingjames806
      @longlivekingjames806 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gaila.9852no i don't

    • @taracorcoran8192
      @taracorcoran8192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Long Live King James That’s one of my biggest fears,that I will never be able to pursue my dream career which is acting and singing.

    • @girkingrightnow
      @girkingrightnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taracorcoran8192 well then sing and act

  • @fliskography9378
    @fliskography9378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I WISH FOR KNOWING MENTAL HEALTH AND MONEY MANAGEMENT! I could have prevented so much hurt, pain, abuse and i could have changed that. I could have invested my money better to thrive into the career i wanted. I did donate a lot of money but i do regret not cycling that back to me because now i can't work. I am awaiting S.S. and trying to figure out what the hell i'm suppose to do. I guess keep educating about autoimmune diseases and keep selling my art.

  • @millymissc2685
    @millymissc2685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen 🙏 we should not give excuses to the red signs shouting at us in our heads! Coz those signs are always right. Amen to these strong women, hope we can all be as strong as you are! No excuses time to raise them and sort them or just keep on moving 💃💃💃 xx

  • @cee060
    @cee060 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If Tamera ever sees this, I would like to encourage her to continue being herself. Her kindness and love for God and her family is so beautiful and inspiring. It’s the positivity we need to see. Such a beautiful character to have and we need more virtuous women like her who can be a good example of godly women 🙌🏾❤️ I’m sure that God is so proud of you

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I relocated to another state I feel you Adrienne,….all of you!

  • @TL-yc1nl
    @TL-yc1nl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Never know a person until theyre faced with what they want and who they have to betray or lie on to get it. Red flags...warnings from him and his own family. If you believe it...you believe it because you want to. Take responsibility for yourself. This is an old clip. If you believe it then believe it and move forward.

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm like Tamera and people will pick on me that I think I am better than then when really I am just doing this for me and I am proud to have turned out to be who I am today! Thanks Tam

  • @Janeg4929
    @Janeg4929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The lady in red in the audience from 13:38 is me at the moment. I feel your pain

  • @beth1188
    @beth1188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    and look at her now , she is the happest she ever been with the love of her life and prego with a child she never thought she was gonna have. real true love changes things so happy for her

  • @dscjmc6513
    @dscjmc6513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I believed in myself sooner. It’d have saved me so much heartache

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just like Tam…I made different choices and I’m just me and I grew up in the most horrid conditions but people always picked on me, and everything and said mean things just because I had the strength to be myself.

  • @Abi-rk5ce
    @Abi-rk5ce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tamera and I are kindred spirits. I watched TWITCHES the other day to see her. Same genuine person she is today as she was then. I will miss her very much. God bless you on your new path Tamera.❤

  • @mimimiox
    @mimimiox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jeannie ist absolutely fantastic and inspiring!

  • @theom1442
    @theom1442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel Tam Tam I can relate to her♥️🙏. Devoted Christians we get judged alot
    ..as if it's a crime to do what feels right to you😭🙏

  • @qicle
    @qicle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    No more Tamera omg... I wonder if they're gonna go for Keke Palmer since her ensemble show was cancelled.

    • @ashtonv1730
      @ashtonv1730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Keke would be amazing!

    • @TheSunshinefee
      @TheSunshinefee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i hope not, she is too young for this audience

    • @glostzom
      @glostzom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You Tried It! I agree with you, I’m only 25. And have been watching the show since season 1 (not the test season) but I do agree that getting a younger mind will be fun. They could learn from each other maybe keke would be able to share with the others what a younger person is feeling with everything going on.

    • @Samirahsworld1
      @Samirahsworld1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel like Keke jokes too much , we already have Loni who’s the comedian at the table we don’t need another one

    • @shantell4847
      @shantell4847 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keke already have a show

  • @azhiaaquiel6444
    @azhiaaquiel6444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm really going to miss Tamera, please make a youtube channel just with you speaking to us. We love you

  • @francesmask78
    @francesmask78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes jeanie... sometimes u found urself when u get lost..... 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ranitagadling4312
    @ranitagadling4312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a 41 yr old physically challenged woman the one thing that I know now that I wish I knew back then is that no man will ever consider you as girlfriend/ fiancee or wife material solely because of how God created you if I'd known that back then then I wouldn't have wasted so much of my & my friends time back in high school asking them to set me up on potential dates.

  • @krissentiacharlery8154
    @krissentiacharlery8154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow… watching this now after just watching the episode where Tamar told Ade to “say yes now and think about it later”… when I saw this live, I didn’t know which girlfriend told her that and now I do.

  • @ashleyreece8564
    @ashleyreece8564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jeannie was reaaally sad bcz tears came out her eyes..... usually its an honest dry cry even tho shes sad she wud hold back tears. But she cudnt this time.

  • @Zahraegeh
    @Zahraegeh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is what I love about The Real. I’m really going miss Tamera on the show.

  • @officialogantaylor
    @officialogantaylor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adrienne looks absolutely stunning right here

  • @amykendall211
    @amykendall211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adriennss eyes are beautiful they are so sparkly and pretty I can't stop staring at them.xxxx

  • @muhammadanwar1698
    @muhammadanwar1698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I leanrt sooner that there are some people with hidden intentions but I was too naive to see that

  • @cecej88
    @cecej88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhh now with Jeannie second marriage gone after two years and a baby,😭 worser now for her to be left with a baby.😭 oh jeannie😢

  • @Lcastillo1800
    @Lcastillo1800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video helped a lot One thing I learned takes a situation to reveal someone’s character and true personality

  • @svideos5754
    @svideos5754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Financial literacy for me

  • @Kadericka
    @Kadericka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been avoiding this video for the longest because i knew that it would make me emotional... I’ve finally brought myself to watch it and I’m so happy because i actually didn’t get emotional😩🤍! #growth

    • @Kimmbxly
      @Kimmbxly 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here i watched it around 5 times and cried with them every time

  • @lisaosbourne-eden4576
    @lisaosbourne-eden4576 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tamara you are a beautiful person and so well spoken And transparent

  • @kamalabouchaaban
    @kamalabouchaaban 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just realized the person who gave Adrienne that advice was Tamar. She said it on the show.

    • @Saffire1990
      @Saffire1990 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have a link to the video?

    • @kamalabouchaaban
      @kamalabouchaaban 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Saffire1990 th-cam.com/video/9s6WMFgSpKk/w-d-xo.html

    • @ItsKendraBitches
      @ItsKendraBitches 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the minute she said it, i was like wow, that was so natural. "i had a girlfriend at the time" she didn't even think about how to not say her name

  • @adrianarnold1239
    @adrianarnold1239 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jenny crying over a man that show her who he was. She divorced him. Now she's married and got a baby Monaco Monaco Monaco..... Adrienne crying over a ring that she gave back because she called off her engagement. Smart girl and now Adrienne is married and has a beautiful baby and all is well in the land of the Real🎉🎉🎉

  • @maryjohnson9285
    @maryjohnson9285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jeannie you are a wonderful person. If I knew now what I knew then I was smart enough to walk away

  • @nthandambewe-mbao8939
    @nthandambewe-mbao8939 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Real really felt like a sisterhood I miss the girl chat segments

  • @sophiawishes3208
    @sophiawishes3208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If Tamera leaves, I’m not watching. I’m sorry I love the ladies but Tamera MADE THE SHOW WHAT IT IS TODAY!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean "if" Tamera leaves? She already left.

  • @mealenka
    @mealenka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been married to man for 10 years, we have 2 boys, we are from different countries and we met in a country that wasn't his or mine, we got married there, then we had our first son, i moved to my country to give birth(in Europe), so i have support of my parents with the baby, then he said he'd move to us, he'd find a job there, and we'd be together but since then we basically been living apart, we moved back together briefly for 9 months in his country, but then there was civil unrest, riots, lots of crime in the middle of the day(thats in Africa ) and i got pregnant with the second child and felt it was unsafe anymore for my children and i didn't want them to grow up with fear for their life and didnt want them to think it was a normal life. So now, I'm back in my country, he is now working in another country in Africa ,we haven't seen each other for over a year, we barely communicate because of his working hours and mine. I have a 6 year old and a 2 year old, and i work, and he is there. We have drifted apart and the only thing that is keeping me married to him is that i say its just unfortunate circumstances, its not that we weren't food together, but he cant find a job here and doesn't want to learn the language and doesn't want to change his sphere of work, and cant make us a good and safe life there where he is, and also i stay in this because of kids, they need him, the father. But if we put together all the time he's actually been here for them its like 2 years out of 6... I am scared to break things of because of kids. But also he keeps saying “i will find a job in a better country and we will be together ...” but how many more year should i spend waiting? Im 34 and miserable And unhappy here and all he can say to it is “sorry but it is what it is”
    And then hit me with a quote from bible... Love is patient love bares all things dotgives all things ... Right ...

  • @Maria_M2010
    @Maria_M2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    and look how happy she is now, this aged well

    • @cecej88
      @cecej88 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it aged badly... for Jeanie now....Jeezy divorced her and left her single mama 😭 gosh only two years marriage he quit😳

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love you guys you guys are so great

  • @axxib5985
    @axxib5985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Tamera left, a queen. The show is going down y’all-

  • @jessicas177
    @jessicas177 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adri: I’m upset so I’m going to Paris 😂😂😂 my wallet said I can go to my local Walmart at most lmao

  • @drtwitch6409
    @drtwitch6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also wish I knew if I made more of an effort. I could’ve accomplished certain things.

  • @Michelle-xi9ju
    @Michelle-xi9ju 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now she’s married and had a baby. Love you Jeannie you have a pure beautiful heart

    • @cecej88
      @cecej88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭now divorced and a baby😢...very sad. But she'll bounce back!

  • @eeb9177
    @eeb9177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I'd known to save my money sooner and to never lend anyone my money that led to myself failing my own dreams and only letting myself down.

  • @OneLoveRSR
    @OneLoveRSR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The "It's been 10 years" part made me have to stop. That pain was too raw for me to handle. Like this felt like a private Girl Chat that I shouldn't have been listening to as entertainment. I'm just glad she's in a better place in life.

  • @lilyli891
    @lilyli891 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Form me its that the world will not treat you better just because you are a good person! Its a sad and harsh truth 😢

  • @devonferguson3065
    @devonferguson3065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's going to be okay jeannie

  • @drtwitch6409
    @drtwitch6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a mole on the center right of my forehead. I wish I would’ve owned my face back then instead of doing home remedies to get rid of it. I feel so strongly about it now. That whenever I decide to have a relationship with someone I’ll show them a pic of it to see if they would still like me with it. And if they don’t want to be with me because of that then I’m fine with that.

  • @lyndakhisa9184
    @lyndakhisa9184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jeannie just wedded Jeezy!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mariad4183
    @mariad4183 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    'The unexamined life is not worth living'
    ...examine your life (and fruit) people

  • @courtney5800
    @courtney5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let no person waste your time in relationships

    • @courtney5800
      @courtney5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I been there too but thank God for giving me the strength to get through that tough time in my past

    • @Sorekneecap
      @Sorekneecap 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can’t express how important this is. I spent almost a decade not realizing this.

  • @Toreyjae14
    @Toreyjae14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tam is me and I am she … Accepting Christ at a young age and being picked on for that !!! Still today being persecuted for having Christ the head of my life and living according to his Holy Word .I’m so glad she did not change herself and I’m glad that I didn’t either. The devil is a liar and he will never have me doubt what Christ created because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.

  • @maryware3915
    @maryware3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Adrienne and agree with her alot but i I gotta say rude or not sometimes when your hurt because the person you love doesn't want to be with you anymore, you will most definitely say & do things that are out character for you & hurtful things out of pain because the person they love has decided to dump them and tell them they no longer want to be with them sometimes all you can do feel hurt & helpless & that can cause people to lash out...not saying it justifies how some act just saying how I feel .

  • @kimberlina7234
    @kimberlina7234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Jeannie so much 🥺

  • @peresampson
    @peresampson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this topic...thanks guys

  • @lydiamesfin2139
    @lydiamesfin2139 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i wish I knew back then people can go away from me and I would find a way to tell my love of my life that he was the love of my life. And I am still the love of my life. God I love him so much.

  • @Lifeofpurpose_Ketura
    @Lifeofpurpose_Ketura 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I knew how to handle my money better and I wish I knew how to take care of my peace of mind more instead of spending quality time in relationships that weren't right for me...trust my intuition more.

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get her, I met my ex at 17 but we started dating in my 20s and he did a number on me and I didn’t see it. Had a family behind my back. Stole from me. I’m like I never really knew him. He covered it up.

  • @sagala30
    @sagala30 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish i made better choices and be a stronger person. Like if i could go back in time and give myself advice at February 13 1997. Id warn myself of the guy im about to meet and advise myself to leave after day 4 and dont look back.

  • @mysilverscreendiary
    @mysilverscreendiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I relate to Tamera so much!🥲

  • @LiahB
    @LiahB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now she’s happy with Jeezy ❤️❤️❤️

  • @calistyle95
    @calistyle95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I learned to walk away sooner from people relationships friendships and employers

  • @vperkin69
    @vperkin69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Now that Tamara is leaving also this show is going to hell in a hand basket