She is blessed to have daughters that care because he’s really trying to isolate her so she can be under his complete control. He is insecure and wants her to feel as little as he does.
Is any of this the wife doing why would anybody aloud another human being to treat them that way he is wrong but the wife is allowing it am sorry but the wife is delusional
Bravo 👏👏I told my daughter that. Beware people that try to isolate you from your friends and family. If you get rid of them them you'll be stuck with him, alone and depending on them..
I just said the same thing she was looking back and got up the moment he started leaving she was ready to follow behind him smh I was that same woman many moons ago with my husband and sadly it took him passing away for me to be free and understand who I am again
Agreed. I just don’t get it. She was single for 15 years only to enter into a relationship like this. I wish I understood why a grown woman would allow herself to be treated this way. Not to mention they live with her daughter, this man can’t even provide a home for you and you’re exposing his drunk ass to your grandkids… what about this is ok with you??
He’s the classic narcissist man. Cheating on her, being abusive and thinking it’s a joke..He’s a JOKE and he reminds me of a guy on fatal attraction..she should be very careful. Sadly, I don’t think she took this serious.
@@lakeimaloon.1847I agree, she was ready to walk off with him when he did. He’s got a hold on her, her girls need to get her to therapy and a proper plan to get away from him for good
Lie detection is a pseudoscience used by the law enforcement to manipulate people. Of course, this guy is a liar but nobody should ever agree to take this test and we shouldn't take it seriously. There's a reason why it isn't admissible during a court case. The guy is a clown and of course, his sentence is funny and pathetic because he's a liar 😂
Not to defend him, but lie detectors are not accurate at all. They can't even be used as solid proof in court. They look for nervous patterns in the body, but you can be nervous while telling the truth simply because of the situation you're in (taking a lie detector test)
And it's okay to want someone. That's a natural biological function that's never going to change. The trick is once that person shows who the really are in a negative way that even sniffs of abuse, don't poo poo it away, end things immediately and move on!
@19GENESE1 13:24 3 Right. He has a serious drinking problem. He probably doesn't remember some of the things that he does or realize the way that he comes across.
this kind of man ends up killing their partners. He is abusive but finds an excuse for his bad behaviour. He should say nothing about God because it is written in the bible that a man must treat his spouse good otherwise his prayers will not be answered.
Pulling her wig off period but out in public is a clear sign that he is dangerous. He's beyond mean. What else will he do to her that he hasn't done already. She needs an escape plan fr.
Me: Daddy, can you think of a reason why you would snatch your wife's wig off... in public. Dad: (Gave me a WTF !ook) I wouldn't do something like that in private. The only reason to do something like that is to start a fight. Who did that?! Not a MAN! He was mad! I knew he would say no, but didn't know he would get so upset. He's 74, disabled, and ready to take his cane to somebody.
I am VERY scared for this woman and I saw the concern on Karamo‘s face!I hope they stay in touch with her and had additional conversations and telling her that she is PUTTING HER LIFE IN DANGER! That man was dead ass drunk on this stage couldn’t even speak a straight sentence! PLEASE stay away from him and get a restraining order asap!He is DANGEROUS!Everybody could see and sense it! This was very hard to watch!
I’m so scared for her .. Karamo this so not over . Please stay in touch with her. She shows classic signs of the abused woman who will go back . And you can tell that man might really hurt her
Yep. That’s why daughter should legally evict this man. Her mom is crazy for being with him, staying in her home and exposing her drunk boyfriend to her grandkids. Madness
Black women NEED to get comfortable with being alone, rather than being with a man who shows an inkling of interest. It's imperative to our lives & safety. WORK ON YOURSELVES & Self-esteem, this man knows that she not only WANTS him but NEEDS him, so he's using that to his advantage. I genuinely hope she's safe & sound with loved ones (not him) and stays away.
@@sanaimalerybut is it more often than not. A lot of women in the black community have this issue. I hate to sound like a cliche it’s the lack of fathers, lack of boundaries and confidence instilled in black women. It has a lot to do with upbringing
He literally said he TRYS to drink everyday. Please, run… the way she jumped up at the end made me worry she was just gonna run after him. To the mother PLEASE WATCH THIS BACK SO YOU CAN SEE WHO YOU MARRIED!
You can tell by the Way he laughs he is a evil and mean person I pray she gets away from this man quickly it will only get worse he thinks he can control her with money
He’s a narcissist! He will not change! Only will continue to manipulate! No matter how much you try to live them, they don’t change. Run ma’am and don’t look back! You will be ok! ❤
I believe when she stood up was because Karamo had asked her if she was going to stay with him or leave? She did say leave, however he left off the stage first
Be careful who you allow into your life. Some people will show you one side in the beginning, and that side could be a lie. There are wolves in sheep's clothing, preying on lonely, vulnerable, innocent, unsuspecting people. Especially when somebody is already toxic, minus the alcohol!! These Daughters really love their Mom and want her safe and happy. I pray, they are all kept from hurt, harm and danger. I'm speechless about this man.
What an awful little drunk Eddie is. By pulling off her wig in public, his goal was to humiliate and “humble” her. He was an abuser long before he met this woman, and I’d be willing to bet that he also puts his hands on her. Ma’am, please leave this toxic relationship for good. Think of how you’d feel if one of your daughters brought home a man like Eddie.
And thats why women should look good under their wigs.👀 Men know alot of women don't look good without a wig bc they are bald or have no edges from not taking care of themselves, and that's why males do that. It's out of humiliation.
Please Karamo do a follow up show on this family. This wife needs professional help in leaving her domestic abuse situation by going to a shelter. Then starting a new life in a different state. Even her daughters may be in harms way as well. Prayers for this family.
I don't believe she will end just yet, it seems like she doesn't believe she will able to find someone else to marry, maybe because she's older or has lowered self esteem due to this toxic relationship. Often times in cases like this, if the person in the relationship doesn't initiate the thought of ending the relationship or acting on it they likely won't truly leave
I know 🤦🏾♀️ it's a shame bc she is so cute and seems like a lot of fun. This narc is sucking the LIFE out of this woman. She gave birth to TWO beautiful daughters 🌹 That dude has to go now and make room for the REAL man who will LOVE her and them 🙏🏾🕊️💕
Karamo, thank you so much for showing up for us even tho you're under the weather! These families need you! It's crazy that any mother would have to deal with being accused of sleeping with her own son much less her spouse thinking that his wife is sleeping with her own child! Kick rocks Eddie!
I feel the same way. She has been frightened into that position. The only way she gets out is this way: she must leave that house without him knowing the day. They must plan it well. She needs to Relocate to another STATE. She is NOT safe. This is the type of man who will ELIMINATE her and her family. SHE IS NOT SAFE!! She need SW and protective services in place! So sad!
My friend left her laptops, fridge, stove, couches, clothes. Her whole house!! She left with just a handbag. She left when he said he was gonna get a machete to kill her. She knew she had to leave at that time. She left her house at 3 am. And never looked back
She definitely needs a safety action plan. The daughters need to be careful too. He could fly onto a drunken rage and try to break her daughters door again or set her daughter's grass on fire again.
Karamo, you are to be commended. You are the only TV host addressing domestic violence head on like this. This is an incredibly powerful story and I will keep these women in my heart for a good long while. Thank you for shining a light on this sick dynamic and providing such compassionate wisdom. I think you’re going to inspire many victims & their families to stop taking this shit and put these abusers on blast!
I LOVE the fact that the mom didn't hesitate with answering Karamo's question. I pray that she gets the healing and the love that she truly needs and deserves cause with that monster is not it
They are to calm for me. This man is INSANE!!! she maybe want to leave but that man his really scared and manipulated her to thinking he's all she need.
I was once in a similar situation and when I ended it...he came back 5 days later and shot me..I had to fight this man with two bullet holes in my arm but god had other plans for me and he got life in prison... praying she doesn't go through this 🙏🙏
and if she does go back, i hope her daughters sticks beside her. because i tried to help my mother out and got so fed up it resulted into me letting her do her and tough love
You don't have to feel like you "own" her to love her! Just focus on loving her. If you treat her right, she'll be devoted to you. She'll respect your leadership. You won't NEED to own her, because she'll be ALL ABOUT YOU anyways. ❤️❤️
Look at how close the mother is sitting to her abuser and how far away, she's sitting from her daughter. As a mother my natural instinct, is to be near my child.
It really saddens me to see what women will go through just have a male around, especially black women when it comes to black men & the things they would tolerate just to have a male around ..I’ve been seeing it my whole life is strange and sad 😢…
Look at how she stood up as soon as he was walking off. That’s their dynamic; she runs after him whenever he’s upset. I’m glad Karamo told her to sit down.
This is why I don't want my mom to get remarried to someone who has cheating issues and is a control freak. I pray she doesn't end up like that and my relationship with her doesn't get tarnished just because of a man.
She have daughters that truly love her.....but she is going back to that man.....look at the end and see how she is looking to see where he is at, at the end she was the first to get up she is back with that narcissist
My husband did the same thing to me married hm in 2021 i have ask him to leave twice he is still here but I bet I’ll be divorced by the end of this year 2024 i called a lawyer
why are you on here bitching about it, instead of calling the police, or relatives, to insure your safety? are you that much of a glutton for punishment that you're going to wait until the end of the year? damn lady grow a pair🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've seen this muliple times on this show I don't understand how any woman will stay with a woman that restricts her using a phone. It's like at that point your choosing to be blind and death.
For someone her age they believe that they can never find another man to marry so they'd rather settle, knowing that they at least have a ring on their finger
thank god for her beautiful daughters she’s going to need them even though she said it’s over i feel like she’s not sure so they need to stay close keep her busy anne keep reminding her how stressing and beautiful and worthy she really is
There is no better reflection of what one thinks and feels about themselves than their choice of mate. She was able to fall in love with this man. She has a lot of work to do on herself but I don't believe she's done. Her daughters hearts will be broken.😔
If she says she’s gonna leave, she is but she has a lot of things to undo emotionally. Y’all don’t understand how much it takes to get away. It’s hard because not only do she have to get out and rebuild her life, she has to rebuild her self esteem and become mentally stronger. I’m a DV survivor and I know she can do it. Praying for her!
From someone who was in an abusive relationship he is 💯💯 abusive . My ex was an alcoholic and mentally , emotionally, verbally abusive as well as being controlling and a narcissist. She is super blessed to have her two daughters that care
Setting lawns on fire, busting down doors, being dropped off by police, pulling wigs off- what the hell? This man is a ticking freaking time bomb and not only do you have to get yourself out of this and safe, you are placing your daughters and those you love in harms way with this man.
That mom is so blessed to have beautiful loving daughters that truly opened their hearts to her new husband but they were even more honest to let their mom know that the husband is controlling and toxic
@FreeWarranty that's what it's supposed to be yes. That's not what she said and meant. I'm guessing she doesn't know the saying or been saying it wrong all this time.
I hate to say it but after reading so many stories on DV! She need to get away from him! He’s abusive on top of being an insecure alcoholic ! He may cause her real harm or worst I alive her ! I pray she puts herself first, leave, and give herself time to heal and grow to avoid men like him !
I would like to meet Karamo one day; I really like this dude. I'm not that much into talk shows like back then in the 90s but I'll watch Karamo more likely.
Part 2 of 2: I also have to say that Mom felt pressure from her daughters and the audience to give them the answer that she knew they wanted to hear: “I want to get out”. That's the exact same thing that happens with her husband. It's gotten to the point where he only has to apply a little pressure for her to respond the way he wants her to. In other words, she's been conditioned…& I doubt that it started with him. I am also concerned for her physical safety. The degree of his control over her and the overt verbal, emotional, and mental abuse is obvious to any & everyone. It wouldn't take anything at all for him to become physically abusive. It is well-known that abusers become the most violent when the person being abused leaves or tries to leave. I hope Karamo follows up with her &/or her daughters.
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She is blessed to have daughters that care because he’s really trying to isolate her so she can be under his complete control. He is insecure and wants her to feel as little as he does.
Top-tier comment 👏
I bet he’s a Capricorn ♑️
Is any of this the wife doing why would anybody aloud another human being to treat them that way he is wrong but the wife is allowing it am sorry but the wife is delusional
@@FRANKIBABI_or a Leo
Bravo 👏👏I told my daughter that. Beware people that try to isolate you from your friends and family. If you get rid of them them you'll be stuck with him, alone and depending on them..
I personally dont think shes going to leave immediately, but I pray that God guides her in the right direction before those girls lose their mother 🙏🏾
Sadly, I don't think so either. At the end it looked like she was eager to leave to catch up with him. I hope she comes to her right mind soon.
I just said the same thing she was looking back and got up the moment he started leaving she was ready to follow behind him smh I was that same woman many moons ago with my husband and sadly it took him passing away for me to be free and understand who I am again
Agreed. I just don’t get it. She was single for 15 years only to enter into a relationship like this. I wish I understood why a grown woman would allow herself to be treated this way. Not to mention they live with her daughter, this man can’t even provide a home for you and you’re exposing his drunk ass to your grandkids… what about this is ok with you??
I was nervous and saying the same thing. I don’t know if I’m convinced but I pray to God for strength so that she can walk away.
Me neither,I believe she.s scared of him...but thats not lovr...
She needs to relocate! He is dangerous , none of this is funny .
Exactly the laughing is really stressing me out
My tough exactly.
She needs to just date a Woman
True he already kicked the door in when the daughter made him leave. I pray the hole family don't in up on the show.(Someone they knew)
He's a loser
He’s the classic narcissist man. Cheating on her, being abusive and thinking it’s a joke..He’s a JOKE and he reminds me of a guy on fatal attraction..she should be very careful. Sadly, I don’t think she took this serious.
This! And he lacks so much shame in it too because he thinks he got her on lock
@@helpkelp3595 I sorta feel like he does. I’m not sure if she just doesn’t like showing emotion but she was smiling half of the time
@@torry24He has her right where he wants her. I hope she can get out of this. But I don’t see her smiling, her mouth is shaped like that.
I agree. Someone needs to do a welfare check on her. She seems to be easily manipulated file a restraining order
@@lakeimaloon.1847I agree, she was ready to walk off with him when he did. He’s got a hold on her, her girls need to get her to therapy and a proper plan to get away from him for good
“That lie detector lied.” 😂😂 First time I’ve ever heard that excuse. He really does think he’s so slick.
😂😂ikr best line ever
But honestly it lies sometimes,the detector is not 100%...but on this man it didn't 😂😂
Lie detection is a pseudoscience used by the law enforcement to manipulate people. Of course, this guy is a liar but nobody should ever agree to take this test and we shouldn't take it seriously. There's a reason why it isn't admissible during a court case. The guy is a clown and of course, his sentence is funny and pathetic because he's a liar 😂
Not to defend him, but lie detectors are not accurate at all. They can't even be used as solid proof in court.
They look for nervous patterns in the body, but you can be nervous while telling the truth simply because of the situation you're in (taking a lie detector test)
Dude’s eyes are bloodshot. He’s drunk and not worth any effort. I hope she leaves him.
People need to learn that it's ok to be alone. Love yourself first. 😊
And it's okay to want someone.
That's a natural biological function that's never going to change.
The trick is once that person shows who the really are in a negative way that even sniffs of abuse, don't poo poo it away, end things immediately and move on!
@@SonjaElizabethTeal
I concur 👏🏾
15 years alone was a long time, though.
Exactly 💯 💯
Yup learned that not long ago 😊😊😊 being alone is better than being disrespected
I’m so scared for this woman 😟…her husband is a nut!…hope she gets out safely-her and her family 🙏
💯 the same
He's a drunk & he probably doesn't remember when he is the most destructive
Yeah. And he’s not gonna leave quietly and without further destruction
I’m with you on this. He ain’t leaving as quietly as he left off that stage.
@19GENESE1 13:24 3 Right. He has a serious drinking problem. He probably doesn't remember some of the things that he does or realize the way that he comes across.
this kind of man ends up killing their partners. He is abusive but finds an excuse for his bad behaviour. He should say nothing about God because it is written in the bible that a man must treat his spouse good otherwise his prayers will not be answered.
Facts
I was just going to say that
Doesn’t the bible say you can beat you wife?
@@urbanzsNo it does not!
@@jenjen4091 Yes it does.
Daughters are so beautiful and compassionate
Facts!!!👑❤️💯🎯👏🏾👏🏾
Pulling her wig off period but out in public is a clear sign that he is dangerous. He's beyond mean. What else will he do to her that he hasn't done already. She needs an escape plan fr.
💯
Right
I’m sure she has lots of other things to share with her daughters that they don’t know about…I truly hope she left him for good
Right the snatching the wig to me is a clear sign of abuse
Me: Daddy, can you think of a reason why you would snatch your wife's wig off... in public.
Dad: (Gave me a WTF !ook) I wouldn't do something like that in private. The only reason to do something like that is to start a fight. Who did that?! Not a MAN!
He was mad! I knew he would say no, but didn't know he would get so upset. He's 74, disabled, and ready to take his cane to somebody.
Karamo has a bubbly personality but when he’s irritated, you’ll know it 🔥🔥
I am VERY scared for this woman and I saw the concern on Karamo‘s face!I hope they stay in touch with her and had additional conversations and telling her that she is PUTTING HER LIFE IN DANGER!
That man was dead ass drunk on this stage couldn’t even speak a straight sentence!
PLEASE stay away from him and get a restraining order asap!He is DANGEROUS!Everybody could see and sense it!
This was very hard to watch!
I’m so scared for her .. Karamo this so not over . Please stay in touch with her. She shows classic signs of the abused woman who will go back . And you can tell that man might really hurt her
What are the signs?
@@nirria1Did you even watch the video?🤦🏾♀️
100% agree. He's definitely the type of man who doesn't like to lose
@@typicaltip0327🎯
She's not going anywhere, unfortunately
Desperate that’s why
Yep. That’s why daughter should legally evict this man. Her mom is crazy for being with him, staying in her home and exposing her drunk boyfriend to her grandkids. Madness
Nope Self-esteem has been in the gutter most of her life … it’s obvious
If it wasn't for Karamo, she would have followed him backstage.
😂😂😂true@@TeamofMe
So glad her daughters stood up for their mother. THAT is love. What she got from her husband is NOT love.
He a 🤡🤡 and a drunk one at that
Indeed
Facts
And Mom should send that clown 🤡 back to the circus where she found him
I'm Praying for Mom & her beautiful family 🙏🏾
He's bold enough to go on National TV drunk, you know he clowns behind closed doors.
He said... I TRY 2 DRINK EVERYDAY 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
He wanted to humiliate her. She should’ve left him from that time. Just leave him.
I need an update
lol if the door was unlocked why would the neighbors need to break in? 😂😂😂not even a good lie
😂😂😂😂
Stupid A**!! He so rude an disrespectful.Hopefully the mom stick to her word!
He's too stupid to be a good liar, thankfully
To KIDNAP his wife no less?! 😂
That's a DRUNK LIE😂 Makes no SENSE 😂😂
Black women NEED to get comfortable with being alone, rather than being with a man who shows an inkling of interest. It's imperative to our lives & safety. WORK ON YOURSELVES & Self-esteem, this man knows that she not only WANTS him but NEEDS him, so he's using that to his advantage. I genuinely hope she's safe & sound with loved ones (not him) and stays away.
It’s not just black woman but I totally understand you
@@sanaimalerybut is it more often than not. A lot of women in the black community have this issue. I hate to sound like a cliche it’s the lack of fathers, lack of boundaries and confidence instilled in black women. It has a lot to do with upbringing
How to say you are racist without saying you are racist
All Women not just black
Well said! Agree
Love Karamo’s response, “Nooo, I’m a little more evolved” ❤ 5:30
He really ate with that answer !
@@brooklynkulture2804I'm saying
As soon as he spoke I was saying Hell Naw
😂😂😂
💀💀 I choked on my food!
Never be afraid to be single....❤
He literally said he TRYS to drink everyday. Please, run… the way she jumped up at the end made me worry she was just gonna run after him. To the mother PLEASE WATCH THIS BACK SO YOU CAN SEE WHO YOU MARRIED!
You can tell by the Way he laughs he is a evil and mean person I pray she gets away from this man quickly it will only get worse he thinks he can control her with money
He’s a narcissist! He will not change! Only will continue to manipulate! No matter how much you try to live them, they don’t change. Run ma’am and don’t look back! You will be ok! ❤
Yes🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
AND an alcoholic to boot- HORRIBLE concoction 😢
He is a danger to all women
God, please protect this woman, her beautiful daughters and their families.
U can tell she going back to him she stood up so fast at the end. I hope she chooses better for herself
Yeah I noticed that too, seems she wanted to get back stage awfully quick, hope she walks away.
Being single for 15 years bought her self esteem down to the basement smh
I believe when she stood up was because Karamo had asked her if she was going to stay with him or leave? She did say leave, however he left off the stage first
Be careful who you allow into your life. Some people will show you one side in the beginning, and that side could be a lie. There are wolves in sheep's clothing, preying on lonely, vulnerable, innocent, unsuspecting people. Especially when somebody is already toxic, minus the alcohol!! These Daughters really love their Mom and want her safe and happy. I pray, they are all kept from hurt, harm and danger. I'm speechless about this man.
What an awful little drunk Eddie is. By pulling off her wig in public, his goal was to humiliate and “humble” her. He was an abuser long before he met this woman, and I’d be willing to bet that he also puts his hands on her. Ma’am, please leave this toxic relationship for good. Think of how you’d feel if one of your daughters brought home a man like Eddie.
And thats why women should look good under their wigs.👀 Men know alot of women don't look good without a wig bc they are bald or have no edges from not taking care of themselves, and that's why males do that. It's out of humiliation.
she'd probably love it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@d820mtypical black boy
@@LucidKay9114WHO are you and WHY should I give a rat's ass?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We need an update. He probably beat her when they left. He’ll say she was flirting with the Karamo. He walked out to keep from hitting her.
Her saying “leave” put all of their lives at risk.. they stood up to him and he hated it. I pray she left and they are all okay.
Please Karamo do a follow up show on this family. This wife needs professional help in leaving her domestic abuse situation by going to a shelter. Then starting a new life in a different state. Even her daughters may be in harms way as well. Prayers for this family.
He an Old Narcissist 😮😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
You know when he's lying he can't spit out a full sentence and studders uncontrollably...
I don't believe she will end just yet, it seems like she doesn't believe she will able to find someone else to marry, maybe because she's older or has lowered self esteem due to this toxic relationship. Often times in cases like this, if the person in the relationship doesn't initiate the thought of ending the relationship or acting on it they likely won't truly leave
Just my thoughts.
I know 🤦🏾♀️ it's a shame bc she is so cute and seems like a lot of fun. This narc is sucking the LIFE out of this woman. She gave birth to TWO beautiful daughters 🌹 That dude has to go now and make room for the REAL man who will LOVE her and them 🙏🏾🕊️💕
Karamo, thank you so much for showing up for us even tho you're under the weather! These families need you! It's crazy that any mother would have to deal with being accused of sleeping with her own son much less her spouse thinking that his wife is sleeping with her own child! Kick rocks Eddie!
She's hoping he change??? Only a fool can fool a fool !!!😂😅😂
I feel the same way. She has been frightened into that position. The only way she gets out is this way: she must leave that house without him knowing the day. They must plan it well. She needs to Relocate to another STATE. She is NOT safe. This is the type of man who will ELIMINATE her and her family. SHE IS NOT SAFE!! She need SW and protective services in place! So sad!
My friend left her laptops, fridge, stove, couches, clothes. Her whole house!! She left with just a handbag. She left when he said he was gonna get a machete to kill her. She knew she had to leave at that time. She left her house at 3 am. And never looked back
Mama raised some strong girls, and I'm happy they were able to remind her of her own strength.
“That doesn’t help your case , Eddie” 😂😂😂😂
Great daughters. Keep loving your mum and remain close. She will be fine. Thx for saving her. Karamo you are the best. Love from Uganda
She needs the police. Not a tv show, relocate overnight. Lea e everything.
She definitely needs a safety action plan. The daughters need to be careful too. He could fly onto a drunken rage and try to break her daughters door again or set her daughter's grass on fire again.
She reminds me of my mother. My mom just left a toxic relationship. It can get better
Congratulations to her!❤❤❤❤
🙏🏾🕊️💕 prayers for your mother 🌹
she better not let him "sweet talk" his way back. They will try ...
@@Tiffany_3xhe’s tried but she has gained her strength and haven’t went back. She left last year
@@SonjaElizabethTealthank you
My mom didn’t leave till he died so I hope you’re very proud of your mother. The damaged done is irreversible.
I think she just said,she wants to leave,to please the daughters and Karamo.I wish Karamo would give updates on all these cases.
The daughters are beautiful both physically and mentally. But the one in the black is extra gorgeous.
Karamo, you are to be commended. You are the only TV host addressing domestic violence head on like this. This is an incredibly powerful story and I will keep these women in my heart for a good long while. Thank you for shining a light on this sick dynamic and providing such compassionate wisdom. I think you’re going to inspire many victims & their families to stop taking this shit and put these abusers on blast!
I LOVE the fact that the mom didn't hesitate with answering Karamo's question. I pray that she gets the healing and the love that she truly needs and deserves cause with that monster is not it
They are to calm for me. This man is INSANE!!! she maybe want to leave but that man his really scared and manipulated her to thinking he's all she need.
On the bright side the guy in red just ruined his entire life now millions of people know he is a monster.
I was once in a similar situation and when I ended it...he came back 5 days later and shot me..I had to fight this man with two bullet holes in my arm but god had other plans for me and he got life in prison... praying she doesn't go through this 🙏🙏
Sorry dear. TG for your life
I'm glad u got out. My abuser was killed....
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 thank you.....I'm glad you survived as well.❣️
@@tinahilbert6014 Thank you! ❤️❤️
Thank God u made it out of that dangerous situation
I have never felt so uneasy and so much danger with a Karamo guest like him in a long time.
That man even came dressed as the red flag he is.
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i feel like this mother will keep defending him, she'll stay with him then demand her daughters listen to her ramble on about how bad he is
Yes I agree with you 100%, she has a lot of insecurities in her life.
and if she does go back, i hope her daughters sticks beside her. because i tried to help my mother out and got so fed up it resulted into me letting her do her and tough love
You don't have to feel like you "own" her to love her! Just focus on loving her.
If you treat her right, she'll be devoted to you.
She'll respect your leadership. You won't NEED to own her, because she'll be ALL ABOUT YOU anyways. ❤️❤️
Talk to em!!!
@@TeaKyle Thank you! ❤️
Well said 💯
Thank you so much!@@YooLaDeshiamisphit
Look at how close the mother is sitting to her abuser and how far away, she's sitting from her daughter. As a mother my natural instinct, is to be near my child.
It really saddens me to see what women will go through just have a male around, especially black women when it comes to black men & the things they would tolerate just to have a male around ..I’ve been seeing it my whole life is strange and sad 😢…
They're made to believe they won't be able to do better...
Same and that’s why I stopped fucking with 🥷
Look at how she stood up as soon as he was walking off. That’s their dynamic; she runs after him whenever he’s upset. I’m glad Karamo told her to sit down.
She’s not leaving- she got up quickly before the end of the video to run behind him
This is why I don't want my mom to get remarried to someone who has cheating issues and is a control freak. I pray she doesn't end up like that and my relationship with her doesn't get tarnished just because of a man.
She have daughters that truly love her.....but she is going back to that man.....look at the end and see how she is looking to see where he is at, at the end she was the first to get up she is back with that narcissist
My husband did the same thing to me married hm in 2021 i have ask him to leave twice he is still here but I bet I’ll be divorced by the end of this year 2024 i called a lawyer
My prayers and thoughts with you as you navigate this that
Please be safe
why are you on here bitching about it, instead of calling the police, or relatives, to insure your safety? are you that much of a glutton for punishment that you're going to wait until the end of the year? damn lady grow a pair🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bruh. This man is a terror. Don't walk away. Run!
I clocked he was an alcoholic just before Karamo said it. He probably drank before the show.
Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 we love you Karamo ❤❤❤
he is not done with her. that could get a lot uglier really fast. you can see it.
He is really crazy. She and her daughters sound very intelligent. She needs to leave him.
I've seen this muliple times on this show I don't understand how any woman will stay with a woman that restricts her using a phone. It's like at that point your choosing to be blind and death.
For someone her age they believe that they can never find another man to marry so they'd rather settle, knowing that they at least have a ring on their finger
thank god for her beautiful daughters she’s going to need them even though she said it’s over i feel like she’s not sure so they need to stay close keep her busy anne keep reminding her how stressing and beautiful and worthy she really is
There is no better reflection of what one thinks and feels about themselves than their choice of mate. She was able to fall in love with this man. She has a lot of work to do on herself but I don't believe she's done. Her daughters hearts will be broken.😔
If she says she’s gonna leave, she is but she has a lot of things to undo emotionally. Y’all don’t understand how much it takes to get away. It’s hard because not only do she have to get out and rebuild her life, she has to rebuild her self esteem and become mentally stronger. I’m a DV survivor and I know she can do it. Praying for her!
From someone who was in an abusive relationship he is 💯💯 abusive . My ex was an alcoholic and mentally , emotionally, verbally abusive as well as being controlling and a narcissist. She is super blessed to have her two daughters that care
I’d love an update on this situation
Karamo is an Incredibly Sincere, Authentic, Responsible Host.
Violent/verbal narcissist and highly toxic with SUDS. I pray he gets some help. I manifest they all can.
He sounds like my exhusband. Notice I said EXhusband! Run lady!
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Their mother is such a sweet lady 🥺💔 I hope they press charges on him at least for the door, he seems dangerous 💔
I hope there are no repercussions for The wife, Daughter's good job looking out for mom
He even look like he throws temper tantrums. He’s disgusting. And I know moms could’ve done better than this.
Setting lawns on fire, busting down doors, being dropped off by police, pulling wigs off- what the hell? This man is a ticking freaking time bomb and not only do you have to get yourself out of this and safe, you are placing your daughters and those you love in harms way with this man.
That mom is so blessed to have beautiful loving daughters that truly opened their hearts to her new husband but they were even more honest to let their mom know that the husband is controlling and toxic
The mother is not going anywhere!!!!!!! She likes everything he is doing.
On God
What does God mean? That is not a phrase in which I hear people in my class say?
She said a wolf in cheap clothing 😂....well...😂
Oh I missed that 😂
Sheep
😂😂😂
@FreeWarranty that's what it's supposed to be yes. That's not what she said and meant. I'm guessing she doesn't know the saying or been saying it wrong all this time.
😂😂😂😅🤣
If and when the mother leaves she needs to be careful. A man that controlling will try to cause her and those daughters harm.
She's sitting so close to the husband.. I was praying that this man don't snatch her wig off onstage.
She raised some good girls! I pray that keep looking out for her.
I hate to say it but after reading so many stories on DV! She need to get away from him! He’s abusive on top of being an insecure alcoholic ! He may cause her real harm or worst I alive her ! I pray she puts herself first, leave, and give herself time to heal and grow to avoid men like him !
It's okay to be alone 😮....am afraid she ain't going nowhere
We need an update in a few months because I don’t believe she left..
This is sad. He is so abusive. I hope she finds the strength to leave for her safety!!!
I would like to meet Karamo one day; I really like this dude. I'm not that much into talk shows like back then in the 90s but I'll watch Karamo more likely.
My mom is in this exact same situation! All we can do is watch! Jesus, help me and my sister!
She not gone leave she couldn’t answer karamo without hesitation like she was thinking about it
Her body language said it ALL!!!
The fact she stayed after he pulled off her wig in public. That lady isn’t going anywhere. Sad.
beautiful daughters mom you did. a great job with these girls so you need to take your own advise
Mama hopped up finna go right after him! Poor thing. She seems so sweet & deserving of better.
He a whole drunk he need help😢
Part 2 of 2: I also have to say that Mom felt pressure from her daughters and the audience to give them the answer that she knew they wanted to hear: “I want to get out”. That's the exact same thing that happens with her husband. It's gotten to the point where he only has to apply a little pressure for her to respond the way he wants her to. In other words, she's been conditioned…& I doubt that it started with him.
I am also concerned for her physical safety. The degree of his control over her and the overt verbal, emotional, and mental abuse is obvious to any & everyone. It wouldn't take anything at all for him to become physically abusive. It is well-known that abusers become the most violent when the person being abused leaves or tries to leave. I hope Karamo follows up with her &/or her daughters.
Domestic violence is SERIOUS ASF n everytim3 u feed more into it gets worse n it wont stop less you SAY SOME and FIGHT to get out of it
Those girls are there, Mother keeper. God bless 😘