Danica McKellar: Listen to Your Truth Bell
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 พ.ย. 2021
- Danica McKellar (The Wonder Years actress, author, producer, speaker, and mathematician) joins us to discuss what it was like to play the character of “Winnie Cooper” in The Wonder Years, and her struggle to find her identity separate from the iconic dreamgirl role. She discusses how she managed to stay grounded while growing up in the public eye, overcoming her insecurities, and the spiritual lessons she has learned from studying the patterns in her life. Danica explains why she took a break from acting to study math, the empowerment it offered her, and her passion for making math accessible to everyone. Mayim breaks down the clinical definition of hoarding and the science behind giving birth and motherhood. She considers the causes of child development delays in another installment of Ask Mayim Anything. Danica McKellar Photo Credit: Cathryn Farnsworth
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The two girls I loved and looked up to the most growing up, turn out to be super smart, talented, and amazing role models for the next generation, just makes my heart so freaking happy!!🥰🥰🥰
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It’s very odd that Mayim encourages people to rethink what they’ve been taught about childbirth for the past 100 years, but she’s willing to NOT do that about the Germ Theory. In order for a theory to be valid, it must be reproducible in each and every patient. It’s call a Theory for a reason.
Tabatha Bales, that is a good point
Math was a HUGE shadow over my childhood until my mom bought Math Doesn’t Suck. I can’t tell you how much that book saved me just by existing. I finally felt like learning how to do math was worthy and doable for me, and I needed Danica’s feminine infusion to get inspired. I hope Danica sees this and knows how much I thank and appreciate her!
Winnie Cooper made the Wonder Years for me. It’s funny that Danica mentioned how she wasn’t on all episodes because I would always be so disappointed when she wasn’t in an episode. I loved her more when I found out years back in the day that she was a math major. She’s great. Loved this interview.
Since Danica opened the door, can we talk about how many women are not diagnosed specifically with autism but also ADHD?
Yep. I wasn't diagnosed until after my 3rd child.
Thank you Danika for helping to get me prepped to get back into college level math when I waited to return to college for a decade. I am dyslexic and your book was one of the very few that I understood the basis of concepts the first time through. I know it says “for kids” but na na! It is for anyone who needs more extended clarification and mathematical definitions. ❤️ 🤗
I love the discussion about women in math and science. As a woman in a math related field who loved STEM in school it’s nice to hear the discussion that was never had when I was young.
Sign language is highly regarded in Early Childhood circles. We encourage this for toddlers who are frustrated with delayed speech but also for all children. It is working the same part of the brain that deals with language development. Development is not as linear as some think. Parents connect with their children, engage children in rhyming, songs and finger plays will see their child progress in their own time. Children’s brains are so busy during the first 5 years. There is so much they are learning. They may not be big talkers but they may excel somewhere else. There are these old notions that hang around and cause parental stress…trust your parenting instincts. I leaned this of course when my kiddos were older but I have passed this on to my now fully grown children raising their own. I hope this helps those Moms and Dads who feel the stress. Wishing you all well!
👍 Absolutely wish this would go mainstream!
As a preschool teacher, not a doctor, I have seen the preschool classroom being very beneficial to children who are late talkers. Children tend to mimic other children, and children who may not talk at home will often begin to verbalize in the classroom as a means of interacting with the other children. As long as parents and siblings are talking to the child, and they are hearing language through conversation, book reading or watching educational TV at home, and they have been evaluated for any hearing deficits I wouldn't worry too much. Children living in traumatic situations often will become quiet, so I would make sure the environment is loving and welcoming and that the child doesn't feel threatened in any way.
Definitely!
This episode is gold. Gold. This is a pure meeting of the minds, kindred spirits, etc.
Mayim: *We appreciate you taking our men.*
Me: YES MAYIM!!! OMG so funny. And I hope viewers don't take your reaction too seriously. Personally, I think we need new DNA in the gene pool, so converts are a good thing. But yeah, I've had that reaction at times, too.
Mayim, I want to take this time to wish you a Happy Birthday! Yes, a few days early but I didn't want to miss the chance. As another 12/12 I know how easily our birthdays can seem to be gobbled by the holidays.
Happy birthday
I have great empathy for parents who are walking the road of having a child who doesn’t appear to be meeting milestones in a “typical” manner. It can be lonely and guilt-riddled. And MANY well-meaning people offer many TERRIBLE suggestions. As a board certified speech-language pathologist, parents should have no fear or trepidation in seeking out the opinion of a a certified SLP regarding their child’s speech and language skills. Certain aspects of language acquisition are strong predictors of other learning disorders/disabilities. Late talking at age 3 is, mostly likely, not just “late talking” or talking because they’re “afraid” or “stubborn”. Early intervention is encouraged to alleviate potential adverse impacts of late language acquisition and language disorders. Early intervention is highly evidenced-based in research and is crucial in lessening the impact of various communication disorders. It is well worth it to seek out an evaluation with a qualified professional. And yes…I am being a proponent of my profession, as it is highly skilled and a helpful resource to society!
Loved hearing Danica talk about girls and math. As a math teacher, I hated the comment that “my mom wasn’t good at math so I’m not going to get it.” Also, I talked about how math trains your brain to solve problems. I wish more people would talk about that aspect about math.
So watching Danica McKellar... thinking about the Wonder Years and how great she was "I'm 46" ... I will be pulling the cat from the ceiling after screaming "SHE IS THE SAME AGE AS ME!" It actually made my day to realize that I could relate to her the same way.
Danica is awesome. Jonathan helped by asking you to explain some things. Great team you guys make. ❤️ this podcast. So glad I found it months ago.
Almost two years ago my daughter gave birth to her second child. She had a condition called vesa previa. If she had done a traditional birth she and the baby would have bled out and died.
They took her placenta, to study it, as the condition is rare and knowing more can help future women who suffer from the same or similar conditions.
As much as I dislike hospitals.. these people took the best care of her and because of their facility, training and medical experience.. I have an almost two year old grandson..
Every story is important. Thank you for sharing your perspective
I love how passionate she is about math and women and girls in STEM! That's awesome!
I experienced post pardon depression with my second child. I specifically hired a Doula for emotional support. I had my placenta dried and encapsulated, the tincture, and my son's umbilical cord shaped into a heart and dried.
Thank you both for sharing your experience and knowledge on nursing and placenta encapsulation because many woman need this information.
As a woman in STEM the same age as Danica and Mayim, but definitely not in the public eye, I am still amazed at the similarities between myself and them. And holy crap Mayim, you just totally defined me as a hoarder, and I’m just starting to realize that - I just thought it was part of my GAD. For me, it’s bags, boxes, stationary and bathroom products - all the ones you mentioned! I still have pads of graph paper from University that I am keeping and reluctantly let my kids and husband use, but stress about running out. Nice to know I’m in good company though!
Absolutely loved this episode, I'd love more Danica, please!
I hit pause twice. I called my natural birth friend to see if she ate raw placenta. Then I called my mom to thank her for never saying she was bad at math! ❤️
Danica, greetings from Poland. We still remember you from Wonder Years :-) the series was superb!
My husband is amazing with math, he has the ability to add, subtract etc very large numbers quickly in his head. Our granddaughter who just turned 7 on December 1st lives with us LOVES math!! She actually learned to add and subtract before she learned to read. Math is her favorite subject, she has my husband teaching her fractions!! At 7 years old! We are so thrilled because you are right, most don’t consider girls and math. I’m definitely going to look for Danica’s Books. I know this is my second comment on this video but I can’t stress enough how much I absolutely loves this episode!! Thanks ladies. So refreshing to listen to 2 brilliant talented women and also be able to relate to so many topics!
I just watched this and it was so heartwarming! I love Danica and I have a lot to thank her and her books for. AS an adult I went back to college and her books got me through algebra that I needed to graduate. And 3 degrees later... I thank you so much for writing those books, I cannot promote them enough to everybody I know!
Besides your show being amazing, insightful and helpful you truly get the most amazing guests! Thank you for the variety Mayim and Johnathan it is appreciated. I went to school with Danica and always admired her intelligence from afar, so smart it was intimidating and admirable
Oh my gosh!!! You answered my question!!!! Thank you so much!! My son has since been diagnosed on the autism spectrum and is happy and healthy. I can’t believe I was on your show, I am a huge fan, The Big Bang Theory and Jeopardy are two of my all-time favorite shows and I love that you are a part of them!
So glad to see how wonderful you young women turned out! I'm just about 10 years older. I stuck the whole show, learned some, and found inspiration as a man, so there. Hey, we are all humans together. So happy for you both! And look, you grew up to bless is all again! Even much more! God bless!!!
JC, thanks for being the bridge! I love how you step in so often to just assist with how us out there might not quite be in the same place as Mayim and the guest.
Great episode! Love hearing other women speak against the tide regarding babies and parenting. For several reasons (but mainly work) I only nursed my three babies for three months. I loved it yet it never occurred to me to make it work longer term. And I don’t care what anyone says, you cannot spoil a baby! They only benefit from regular contact, when they learn they are safe and loved and cared for. Do what works for your family but never say a mother is spoiling her baby with too much closeness. It’s simply not possible.
I agree absolutely . If only there were more snd more mothers like that .
Yes! It drives me crazy, when people say that!
this twat also called IVF meds "poison".
My 3 children were all early walkers, (10 mo, 9 1/2 mo, and 9 mo). I held them all more than most people think you should. My middle one was kind of a late talker, but when he did start talking, it was in full sentences. He grew up to graduate from college, suma cum laude, in just 4 and a half years with his bachelor 's and master's degrees in Math, and computer science. I didn't sent any of my kids to preschool, either. They are all very smart, college graduates, with good careers.I believe that there are many ways to raise children. Different things work for different people. Mayim, I have been listening to your podcasts a lot since I found them. I'm going through an incredibly rough time right now, and I feel like I really ""get" you. My life is totally unlike yours, yet I really feel like the the things that you say, and the way you look at life resonates with me. Thanks for what you do.
Enjoyed this episode! The Wonder Years is my all time FAVORITE SHOW! I'M 46 and I literally still watch episodes on Hulu. It just takes me back to feeling young and free.❤
This episode was precious and uplifting and just wonderful. Breastfed my son till 2 and it was great to be able to do this for him. La Leche league is amazing! Resources are out there and being informed and taking low cost or free classes help with being calm and learning technique and meeting other women who are in the same boat.
someone needs to create a project for mayim and danica to appear together in
and it should be about women and stem
OMG. The best conversation ever! Specially the last part. Everything lines up with how I feel about birth, motherhood, bf, etx. I was so upset that I had not had my placenta turned into pills or even being able to get my placenta with me after the births of my children… and I’m 500% sure that I would have not had (or maybe not as strong) post natal….
Excellent episode! One of your best Dr Mayim!
About the beauty of Maths & how to demystify them from early age, does anyone here read the fab Hans Markus Enzenberger’s “The Devil Of Numbers” book? For kids from 5 to 90-something!!
And hey, Jonathan! Cheering🥂again with you: anoter “late bloomer”😉 and another great episode! And feeling as Danica’s here regarding Jewish people with love: Chag Chanukkah sameach to Mayim and Jonathan in the third lighting chanukkia night! 🕎🕯🕯🕯
Sweet. I remember her as a guest on TBBT and HIMYM. :)
Thank you Danika for my childhood memories ❤️ many blessings to you!
These Breakdown programs are always interesting and educational. However, I had always thought Kelly Clarkson interview was the best for a belly laugh but Danica’s stories had me rolling in the bed with laughter. Kelly, Danica and you could be best friends! Love you Breakdowns. Jonathan and you do it well. Thanks Mayim
First, loved this interview and feel like the three of us could go to lunch and have a fabulous time sharing quirks. Secondly, my now 27 year old was language delayed. It was very lonely and frightening without the advantage of the internet for answers and support. We had his hearing tested and then language and he went to speech through the school system along with beginning pre-k there. That said, he is also a ver mellow soul who mostly didn't notice someone teasing him about his speech. His delay ultimately included issues understanding phonics and sight words though his comprehension was through the roof. Today he is still nice and kind and a bit dorky but we like that in a person in our house. He loves to read and still has moments where the correct word is lagging. What you said about growth, development, guilt, etc was spot on. Likely you are not doing your job as a parent without that concern so....
Oh my word! I loved this so much! You ladies are so lovely and funny. Thanks for making my work day a little more enjoyable!
What a great episode/interview. I am the same age as these beautiful women, and grew up watching them. I loved that both of them prioritized their education, and were certainly role models.
I loved this podcast with Danika, I really enjoyed hearing about these ladies experiences in math and acting growing up. This was very informative and helpful for me and all the other women watching/listening who are also in STEM 🙂
I love that they're both child stars and geniuses.
This is so interesting, the talk about childbirth. I relate only because my Mom says childbirth was enjoyable! She did home birth for all her babies and always said "i wasn't sick" when people asked why not use the hospital?
Favorite episode, hands down.
Mayim just gave the interview we all wanted to give. 💕❤️
I adore you & learn so much from you every podcast. And I think you're adorable. Thank you for all the help you've given me to reframe my brain. Depression is no joke, but I fight hard every day. You help! 💜
The number discussion made me so happy! #3
I’m a multi crafter too and love jumping from craft to craft. That sweater is fabulous!
I love this Interview
Danica McKellar is a great actress. Awesome podcast as always. Happy Hanukkah Mayim!!!
Now we add gynecologist to your resume, I LOVE IT ❤️❤️⭐✨💫
Danica is terrific. Good discussion, ladies.
Danica is absolutely correct about math beyond middle school!!! In the 8th grade, I was placed in advanced math. However, was placed back in reg. math. The same teacher taught both classes. Bc I was a bit traumatized, I pretty much gave up & would have failed if I did not pass the math exam after summer school. I passed with flying colors! Did well in the 9th & 10th-grade math with a different math teacher. However, the horror of not being good @ math from the 8th grade math class haunted me for the rest of my life! I wish my 8th grade math teacher learned how to teach from someone like Danica!!!!
I love this episode!! Danica is amazing!! I also have a number (4) and I always liked math, it was always easy, until I got to statistics, it was actually challenging and had to try but I always figured it out and yes, I love how she said that math makes you a great problem solver in everyday life! I have always been like ok, this happened, so now what I am going to do about it and figure it out, especially when it comes to work, which billings/invoices is my favorite part of work, like going crazy because you are .01 off and figuring out why and where because it won't be approved until you figure it out and then thinking how proud you are of yourself for figuring it out, internally proud lol! Great episode!
I really enjoyed this. Learned a lot. The guest was so real and warm and fun. Also a note: I would like to hear more from Jonathan. And have an Ask Jonathan Something segment. He is on the podcast team after all.
A f'n Mazing episode. Danica's looks and Mayim's intellect drew me in, learned many things. Wish to give voice to an under-served community. Guys who went to Catholic schools over a half a century ago. We were taught by Nuns who had at least a masters and some had Phd's (all paid by their respective orders) teaching working class suburban kids in parish schools (no tuition charged). IN EVERY subject (math, science) the top 10% were girls. We were seated in rank order in the classroom by scores for a daily reminder how lowly boys intellects were and we were to be tolerated. NEVER experienced girls intellects being abridged. Yet when college came around; boys went to the engineering schools. Girls from my high school who went to Colleges founded by a religious order of Nuns became engineers and mathematicians and went on to high paying careers or grad school. Girls who for 12 years sat at the top of their classes (all subjects) who went to selective college with a secular founding; "floundered" and found low paying jobs after 4 yrs and a few never went to grad school. I take exception to the notion that it is ALL in Middle School Years. Women need to create educational structures that mentor women, not just girls in their wonder years.
Great interview!
YES! You finally have her on!
I always enjoy your podcast.
There is nothing wrong WITH COLLECTING Stationery. I even have inherited my mom's stationery. It is so normal, take it from an ex printer employee and a crazy bipolar woman. 🤗 Love your podcast.
I love Danica even more after this interview!! She is amazing. I really enjoyed her description of math. I loved the breast milk conversation! Great great episode!!
I learned so much about it, she is adorable
I also have to say I really appreciated your comments on breastfeeding and do wish I had learned more about the benefits and heard more from people on it. I understood it as being healthy and cheap and convenient and somewhat of a bonding experience, but I honestly didn’t love my nursing years. I think I would have pushed through and nursed longer for my kids if I understood better how important it is for a child’s development.
I vote for Danica to join the cast of Call Me Kat. The show is great would be even better
It’s great to know that you can be a celebrity yet normal and healthy! Keeping yourself grounded is a great idea!
I thoroughly enjoy every episode of Mayim Bialik's Breakdown, even the advertisements are educational and entertaining!
Question: When speaking about hoarding, would it not be better to say that someone may have obsessive and or compulsive tendencies, ways of thinking or personality traits then saying they have OCD? It has been my experience that a diagnosis of actual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is only given when the obsessions and compulsions cause a Disorder which prevents a person from functioning in regular daily life.
Thanks for all that you do! You both are fantastic!
This episode is like a great roller coaster ride
Amazing episode loved it this podcast is the best show ever I absolutely love it , we have the must fantastic host in Mayim Tuesday is the place to be , love you Mayim ❤️😘😁xxx
Happy early Birthday Mayim!!! My birthday is January 10th so a couple weeks after Christmas.
A great interview ... 2 talented + smart women. 💓👏😊
I do enjoy Danica's movies.
Many topics covered here ... Kudos 2 this episode! 🙌🙂
Danica, I think there is something special about you- a grace and something to who you are in your spirit as a person that is uncommon. I just feel moved by what a good person you are for some reason. Also, your son is just a little older than mine today. :)
You should have her back! Best interview!
I'm so lucky to have had a mathematician for a father. The idea that I wouldn't be good at math b/c I'm a girl just didn't exist in my universe. It was just a given that of course I'd be good at math. And I've always enjoyed it. I have never understood the 'math is hard' girls.
My daughter is in middle school. She was able skip a grade in math. But the Virtual learning set her back but she's still in the honors class.
I was a kid in the 70’s, and the wonder years nailed it. Great show.
How did you two get through that Manscape commercial?????? Hysterical and frankly, perfect with you two!
I'm thinking that this would be a great television show... You both are spectacular together as well as your brand of interveiwing.
Wonderful video thank you.❤️
WOW! Two very smart ladies. The math education comments are fantastic.
I wished I could have breast fed, but I have lupus and juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and doing it caused me to have an autoimmune reaction and all my ribs popped out of my sternum. It's called costochondritis. I couldn't even hold him, much less feed him, which did my postpartum depression no good at all.
I started talking late too, as did 2 or 3 of my siblings. But when I did begin to speak, it was with polysyllabic words and compound sentences, which startled everyone to the point that at 62 years old, I am still hearing about it.
Loven you talking to Danica. You need to talk to Candace cameron Bure Jodie Sweetin or Andea Barber for a future episode of Breakdown Mayim.
Mayim you are a trailblazer and I could not be more proud of you….. you are a Shero!!!
I still have a crush on both of you from back in the day from your shows
As a women, I love math and it was my best subject in school. I work in a technical field now too. There are a lot of females where I work, and I am aware that, that isn't the norm in general. The geek in me has thought about buying high school textbooks as an adult, just to do math 😝 I actually understand Danica so well and in more ways than that.
Damn this made me cry! ❤😢
Girl nerds are literally the greatest!!
Hoarders of great items who have favorite numbers.
I thought this was going to be an hour of celebrity teen gushing over another celebrity teen but it wasn’t! I was pleasantly surprised. This was fun to watch and I love how she is championing math for children! Thank you! 🙏🏻
The meeting of two intelligent, educated, smart Mom’s who happened to be child actors. They had and have a life outside of acting.
Mayim is such a great interviewer and is so good at identifying common ground.
And Jonathan adds a great flavor of assorted spices.
26:00 I love bags! Since I was young girl I've been fascinated with beautiful containers and bags. Collected pencils, pretty stationery. 30:50 I feel like they were discussing me. The packets of takeaway cutleries, the giant basket of freebies from conference sponsors I will never use (just in case)
So Mayim, any personal observations of the efficacy of “Manscaped” utilization? Purely for scientific purposes of course.
I’m looking forward to finding your math books. Retired - and would like to review, and learn a new relationship with math.
Love all of this but particularly the breastfeeding topic. I nursed my autistic son until he was 4 and a half and I'm still nursing my 3 year old daughter. It's crazy hard but super rewarding and I'm actually pretty proud of myself, especially being in Texas lol.
Also the discussion of late speech and other development. My son developed normally at first, then had a regression. He was eventually diagnosed with ASD. Besides my concerns for him in regards to the stress and overwhelm that he experiences, the hardest part is dealing with the rest of the world. I'm scared to send him to school. He's extremely smart, he just struggles to manage his emotions and all of the input he receives from the rest of the world. Thank you so much for addressing that all he needs is for people to be understanding and patient.
I'm sorry your son has ASD. My son has bipolar disorder 1, schizotypal personality disorder and OCD. He was able, however, to pull himself out of psychosis when he was 17. He's reclusive now and rarely leaves his room, but he understands what is real now and keeps his irrational thoughts at bay. It's a rare outcome, but it does happen.
Get yourself a copy of the IDEA, which stands for "individuals with disabilities educational act". It very clearly outlines what your and your son's rights are and what services your school must provide for him. When you register him, insist on an IEP (Individual Educational Plan). Come in with full documentation on your son's condition and an assessment of his needs. Check into your local services to see if you can find an advocate who can help you with this process and come to the meeting with you to back you up. Bring the IDEA with you, with the appropriate passages highlighted and bookmarked so that when they tell you that you can't have it and they don't have to provide it, you can show them the law. They are not going to want to give him anything because, while the federal government does give each school funding for all of this, it's never enough, and what goes unspent can be reallocated to more prestigious programs in the next year.
What I am telling you is that while it's hard, it's not impossible and with enough effort, you can get him everything he needs to be successful in school. My son at one time, had homebound education and his teachers had to come to him.
The older your son gets, the more services will open up for him and when he gets to high school, they'll give him whatever he needs. It's ludicrous and unfair, but many things are.
Good luck.
Thx Danica! You’re awesome! Btw I did everything late too! Adoption trauma does this too. 3 countries, two languages etc … no talking at all! Now I’m a talker!
Trilingual too!
its true i suppose we all devlope at a different pace, however its important to know the right things to do as well, like ask your child wuestions, engage with them, look at them, giving quality time, and having knowledge to some extent on child develpment
3 and 9! Mine are 2 and 4 for EXACTLY the same reason.
Awesome episode!!! I'd LOVE to see Myiam also interact maybe with Fred Savage or Ben Savage!? Both having had fame so young and as brothers
Wow brilliant women! Loved this episode
She's here to tell us about the pineapple incident So humble 🤣😅🤣
Out of jokes nice interview 👌👌
Awesome interview 👏 not let's play what mayim hears
I also had a hard time pumping. I learned how to express by hand and did so much better. On my right side I could just put pressure on a certain spot and it would just sort of spurt out like a house. . I could have my puppies empty that way in about fifteen minutes. ETA: plenty of moms think that unless they have a pump, they can't express and store milk. That's just not so.
You will never see this, Danika, but for others who think as she does that OCD requires tidiness, that's what I used to think! It doesn't. There is also a form of OCD coined pure O that is dominated by obsessions. The compulsions exist in the head. So, there are people whose OCD centers on cleaning, but over all that is only one presentation. Media has done people a great disservice by focusing on only the most sensational, extreme cases of OCD and other mental health disorders. In the case of OCD, I don't think I have seen presentations presented outside of cleaning OCD and hand washing.