Bretman Rock & His Sister Hit The Road To Recovery | Ep. 1 | MTV's Following: Bretman Rock Season 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2024
- After a year of professional growth and success, Bretman Rock’s personal life crashes down around him. In order to heal the strained relationship with his sister, Princess Mae, they turn to therapy for answers. But can they overcome their differences long enough for Bretman to help Princess move into her dream home?
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We need more episodes and seasons and this should also be aired on tv everyone wants to see shows about tropical paradise in Hawaii
I don't even get noti this after seeing her old show on MTV like it's the noti came after a years wtf😂😅 I feel happy n sad at the same time..urggg
Many might not agree with me, but Bretman’s sentiment is totally relatable. She got pregnant at 15 then instead of straightening out her life, she had another kid. This scenario has happened to many young women and they’re not as fortunate as Princess being that Bret has her back. No matter how much affirmation/validation from other people you can have, at the end of the day you’re the one in control of your life. Bretman’s success is also his family’s. As you can see, he wants to uplift Princess too.
Literally
Exactly
right
If I had this support and opportunity from one family member.... I would be rich 🤣🤣🤣.... princess needs to become a queen and stop playing around.
@@johniwilliams9653 I like this
The way Bretman supports his family and receiving all of their burden while being under-appreciated is very prevalent scene in the Philippines. Many Filipino breadwinners are often juiced by their relatives of support that they have no time for themselves. The worst part is that those aforesaid breadwinners faced judgement and guilt every time they put themselves first. I’m happy that this show put a spotlight on that issue.
Well said !
Luckily bret has money though and isn't getting juiced out by offering his money away...he's smart and takes lots of time for him selves check him out at the clubs in his stories enjoying his life he deserves it 🥰
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This is very common in Vietnam also. Even born and raised in Europe, me as the eldest have the exactly the same issue as you said. I feel guilty to even take time for myself or buying only for myself something. But hey after all, we are doing all this for the fam innit
So true, that’s exactly the way my cousins treated me
I know Princess does not mean it in an evil way but I actually cannot believe she said she wants Bret to support her. In every single video I've watched of them together he literally pushes her to start her own channel, to go after the singing career, to become a plus-size model etc etc. whatever her dream is. I think she is actually being unfair to him.
True. And I felt so bad when she said that Bret doesn’t support her emotionally because she needs it since their mother didn’t give it to her. But the thing is, Bret also experienced that, he didn’t get his mothers love, he didn’t get anything! And honestly he had to be the one who grew up the fastest since he had a role to fill, being the pillar of support in his family. He was the one who built his career. He was the one who stepped up and financially become stable for him and his family.
Princess now has a family of her own, SHE is now also a bread winner. Her kids is her responsibility. Her career is HER responsibility. Just because you have a brother who can financially support for probably your whole life, doesn’t mean you can free load.
He is somewhat involved in your life, but not to the point where he has to do EVERYTHING for you. She’s so lucky to even have such a life for a SINGLE MOM. I’ve seen single moms struggling to work hard to care for her kids and juggle her work and hope that they don’t get kicked out if their tiny apartment home.
Princess had a goddamn house that probably costs thousands of dollars just to rent let alone buy. She’s got a brother who gives her opportunities to pursue her dreams, heck, he does it multiple times for her!
What more support can you get? If I were her, I’d feel so much love and care that my own brother actually loves me enough to give me an opportunity for my dreams to come true.
@@branddransnothingbuthands599 agree with you 100%..
@@branddransnothingbuthands599 exactly she's so reckless, irresponsible, ungrateful and makes no sense she doesn't take her life seriously she wastes so much that she's been given and ur so right she has a family its time she wakes tf up and realises bret can't father her and take care of her forever she's so irresponsible
@@branddransnothingbuthands599 she's acting like he's her dad
@@branddransnothingbuthands599 well said!
Princess needs to be proud of HERSELF.
Stop trying to make everyone else proud when you just need to make yourself proud. Once you own accountability for yourself your leadership will show your success. Keep going princess, you got this sister. Period.
well its hard that's the problem.
Hard to make yourself proud when you know you don't have the discipline nor will power to do anything for yourself.
Proud of what? Accidentally Getting pregnant by losers and being proud of that ?
this comment gave me a reality check
Also when you’ve never had a parent say they’re proud of you and that’s their job as a parent it makes it nearly impossible because you have no understanding of what being proud of yourself is
I don’t think princess or Bret are wrong, Bret wants to see his sister fulfill her goals and succeed in her career because he supports her financially & Princess just wants his emotional support & love. But I could definitely see how hard it can be to not only support everyone financially but emotionally as well, especially when you’re dealing with your own emotions. I also think the trauma of being raised with a hard working single mom affected them differently, Bret wants to work hard to make sure his family doesn’t have to go through that again & wants Princess to secure her future so his niece and nephew don’t go through it. & I think Princess doesn’t want her kids to feel the pain of their mom being away at work so much like her and Bretman did. She is also only 21 & figuring out what she wants to do & where she wants to be in life. Just my thoughts 💭
Sooo well said!!
Very well said
💯 i agree
Wow on point fr
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Brennan talking about Princesses worth ethic was a reality check FOR ME. I don’t have kids and honestly I needed to hear that.
Same sis..
Same! I wish I had Bret’s energy to get things done 😭
What did he say or trying to say?
Same it's like he was talking to me 😅
When he said "the girl doesn't even drive, if I can do all these things she definitely can" I felt thattt
princess literally does not realize how fortunate she is to be a single mother of 2 and have someone to be finacially helping her.
And she keeps having more kids with no stable career
3 now🤦🏽♀️
@@tp6945 she has three now?
Miss K is. Glowing. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 the confidence and happiness she’s radiating! Makes my heart so happy.
Yea she's on fire! Im happy to see her that
Right? She's glowing this season
right??? she looks GOOD !!!
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Yessss like sibling issues aside miss k is looking so good and happy 🥰🥰🥰
I’m with Bret on this. You don’t get to not do the work and say “I failed because you didn’t support me”. But I also think it’s hard for princess to be sort of living in Bret’s shadow. She needs encouragement and my heart broke when she said she wanted to hear him say I love you. My whole heart ❤️
Yeah and while I totally see where princess is coming from, she needs to take a step back and reevaluate her life. Like I feel she needs to really grow up, as mean as it sounds. Love her, but like the things she always dreams on needs her to really put forth the commitment. Hope the best for her honestly.
@@channyt8818 agreed. I feel Bret has a solid point. If by support she means getting her out there, shooting videos with her and making her seen and creating a platform for her, Bret has definitely done that. All she needs to do is stop wasting her talent. And I get it, it’s hard with kids but that’s no excuse. Bret hustles for what he has.
Awe =( This !!
@@sevilaydee5717 i totally agree but i feel like the support she’s talking about is when things dont work out. it seems that commitment is really hard for her, but she does try; is little as it may seem to others. when she fails she probably wants him to be there and tell her its okay. he most likely does that, but not in the way that would encourage her to change that aspect? as we saw their love language is very different.
@@jayhee4126 yeah I get it and my heart goes out to her but I also think as a sibling it must be so frustrating to see her waste her potential and made repeated wrong choices. They’re just very different I think
They show a prime example of how two different people handle not being told “I love u” by a parent. I’m a lot like princess, never was told I was loved by my parents. I always seek validation not only by actions but also by words because it was something I always wanted as a child
The therapist is right.. Bretman can only give what princess is seeking by also acting and proving herself as that’s his love language.
this literally reminds me of my ex boyfriend and is dynamic. key word EX. i agree so much with this it requires alot of work and commitment not just “i love yous”
and is interesting how people that actually got the i love you words (like I did) but were shown with actions otherwise, also have the same traumas. So words and actions are equally important.
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Please repent, change your life around and live for Him🙏.
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Same
Girl… princess mea doesn’t even understand how well she has it WHILE being a single mother of two. Kids are great and amazing but don’t blame them for you not having a good work ethic.. if you don’t want to work or word had enough just be honest with urself. Some signal parents including me wish we had such support from someone like Bretman. And the fact that you don’t even have the need to go and work a 9 to 5 job to support ur kids with the support of ur brother also, Its freaking amazing and very fortunate. Appreciate it while it lasts.
I genuinely don’t think it’s she doesn’t want to but more so she’s still in the mindset nothing will come out of it. It’s like a mentality you just have to make small .
Whatever MTV is paying Bretman is not enough! They are being so vulnerable and we are here for the healing. 💕✨
This
Not this
@@lindashar7763 🙄
It actually feels genuine
Bretman really loves Princess and he wants her to grow up and secure herself a life and be stable. Bretman is the bread winner in his household and he is still young too. Even with all the craziness and fun side, Bretman is so mature for his age. Sending so much love to Bret and Mai ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree 💯💯 but he can learn to be softer on her !! I get where he comes from but she looks up to him and he needs to acknowledge that she loves him and she knows he loves her but she needs to hear it !! Maybe then she'll make better choices in men
Omg well said! I agree ❤️
this episode made me so emotional omg! I feel a lot of our generation are left with the task of breaking generational trauma and that is DIFFICULT to even acknowledge. so watching them do the work is inspirational
yes, by being an example of healing, I love to see it 🤍
This
I agree but it’s normal for her to seek validation as an adult when she didn’t receive that growing up which is why it’s so important for parents to share their emotions
Right?!!! I was not expecting this LOVED THSI
that's the sad truth!
Princess is still too young, and her immaturity shows in terms of her confidence and self-esteem. Being a mother delayed it much more, like she regressed. I feel like she did regret getting pregnant and she cannot move on from that. That stems to depression. I think she needs to be hugged from time to time and remind her of her strengths. I guess Bretman has a different way to show his love, more like tough love.
Princess: bretman helping me move never.. im so glad that he's thinking about me for once.
Bretman is literally the reason she has a house. And a beautiful one at that
I was thinking the same lmao its like she forgets he's the reason she has money
the “for once” threw me off like wdym
I didn’t expect this season to be so heartwarming and mental health focused. I’m loving it
This episode really shows generational trauma that happens in a lot of poc households. Like I relate HEAVY to Princess in this episode. And I’m Bretman’s defense having parents/ grandparents that don’t say “I love you” but have always showed they love u makes it extremely hard to feel comfortable to say that to those u love/ be as affectionate. It’s taken a while for me to feel comfortable hugging/ saying “I love u” to my best friends due to this. I’m really happy they went to therapy and are having these conversations
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It isn’t jus POC though, this happens in all households no matter the color of their skin. I know lots of whites people who grew up with parents who never hugged them, said I loved you or showed it by actions, ever. I had a friend who would sit on her moms lap when she was little, and try to kiss her but her moms would push her off and tell her she was claustrophobic. I’m not discrediting what your saying because it’s 100 percent what it is, however this is a issue in all ethnic groups and skin colors, it’s global
Same omg
Yes I agree with friends even I’ve had one really affectionate like with hugs and saying I love you when saying bye and to me it’s like awkward but I’ve gotten to love when she used to do it we don’t talk anymore but I would get away cuz to me spelling I love you was awkward so if she sent it I would change it to I luv u to and that would to me make it less awkward it really took time though
@@Iamyl4 nah this doesnt rlly relate to white culture at all. white culture the parents treat their kids as like friends instead of children, which is the main difference. in POC families theres a huge disconnect from parents and children, mainly to force them into good careers/jobs in the future so their lives wont be as hard as the earlier generations. the movie mulan sums it up perfectly. none of my white friends can relate to the trauma
I have so much respect for bretman. I feel like he’s the only “influencer” type that is actually down to earth & helping their families.. & honestly relatable af.. my mom was a single mom who worked 24/7 & as kids we had to grow up fast take on responsibilities as children ourselves along w/ other childhood traumas.. I just feel like his show is so real & honest & not hiding behind fake crap like other influencer type reality shows
I agree with Bret with regard to helping oneself - how can you blame others for not helping you when you don't even try to help yourself? Failure is failure; do not make excuses for why you failed. Acknowledge it, accept it, learn from it, do better. Be accountable to yourself for your own decisions even if they end up in failure.
I agree!! Princess has a hard time holding herself accountable and instead seems to direct the blame on others instead of herself.
yea
I know you weren't speaking to me but I needed to hear this 😭😭
Me failing a very important licensure exam last month, I needed this.
Easier said than done. I hear you though.
I can see where princess needs to hear those words of affirmations ,but she shouldn’t just depend on it. She doesn’t need anyones validation but her own. I hope they heal their relationship 💖. Ms kaYyy!!! She looks so good! I’m on a weight loss journey and she just motivated me so much!!
Yeah but I also feel like the fact that Bretman will reassure his cousin before reassuring his sister speaks volumes, I personally don’t think she’s dependent on him for validation. I think it’s perfectly normal to want to hear your family validate you in some way. And due to the fact that he hasn’t done that, if he has or hasn’t i can see where she’s coming from.
@@orquideaaxD 💯
Good luck on your weight loss journey!
@@orquideaaxD yes!! And when she wanted to talk about it, in a way he shut her down by not listening/ joked about it
@@orquideaaxD it's a different dynamic. You don't have the exact same relationship with each and every single person in your life. It's also in the way that other person treats you in return. Bretman is closer with Kay. Not so much with Princess. You can tell she projects alot of her failures upon Bretman so it may be causing distance in their relationship. We don't know all the dynamics
She’s been through a lot in her own life and came out on the other side, that’s something to be proud of.
Yes and through domestic violence !!!
I get them both. Princess has done a lot, she doesn’t have to prove herself - she’s enough as she is. And then it’s Bret is like you could do so much more… and I get it too.
@@ozi1578 ikr, but if he keeps giving and babying princess then, how will she do it on her own in the future?
Yeah I agree and Bret also does not know what it's like to have kids so he shouldn't say things like she's never been exhausted in her life because raising kids is a very hard thing to do and having kids alone puts a lot of stress on a person. Although that still doesn't mean she shouldn't work hard towards her goals but having kids does make it a lot harder to focus on yourself.
@@jasmynhamlett737 I mean it’s definitely something she could be proud of but he doesn’t have to proud of her. He didn’t say he wasn’t proud of her out of ill intent. He said it because it was his honest feelings. He wants her to do better instead of repeating mistakes and not following through with all of these new opportunities that he helps provide for her. He’s done a lot for her and his family as a whole, not to hold that against them, but I could imagine it gets exhausting. Financially helping his family and someone that isn’t actively trying to do better is draining. Boundaries needed to be placed but that doesn’t mean he hasn’t supported her either. I hope they healed their relationship at least a little bit after therapy
I completely understand both sides. Princess wants the love and emotional support she didn't get from her parents, but siblings can not replace that role. Bretman has been the breadwinner of the family and that's a lot of pressure on someone his age as well. Hopefully they can understand and work things out because they do love each other very much.
I relate so much to Bretman when he said it hurts when a family member said that they aren't supported enough, while all he does in life is support them. They wouldn't even be stable if it wasn't for Bretman.
He loves his family and will do everything for them, he is doing his part so Princess has to play her part. She doesn't have to be spoonfed all the time. Princess needs to have a reality check to stop looking for validation from others, stand up for herself and be accountable for her actions, don't blame others for your own failures. Learn from mistakes, let go and move on.
Princess will eventually get there, she reminds me of my younger brother. She's at the stage of finding out what she wants to do in life. Everyone can encourage her, but at the end of the day, her own success will depend on her own actions and no one else
Yes, but she meant emotionally. My sister is the same. She’s the one supporting us and fixing our problems. But she’s not emotionally supportive. Like she’s not sensitive and lovey dovey. She’s never told me she loves me neither
I've been following this guy since the Beyonce vine lol.
Same here!....Came A LONG WAYS.
Lmao saaameeee
That was iconic
I’ve been following him since the vine where he said “teacher can I use the washroom?” *goes home* “i never said which one”
@@puckjee5423 🎸🙋♂️ Hi From France 🇫🇷
saying princess has never been exhausted a day in her life like she isn’t a single mom with a toddler and a baby is so unfortunate that he has that perspective 🥺
Actually she had them bc she wanted to, like i really respect moms they're so underrated and they deserve the universe, but tbh it was her decission and ofc it's reeeeally hard
@@FavouriteGalaxia boo this response sucks. just because you want to have a baby doesn’t mean it’s not hard. just like bretman wanted to be famous, doesn’t mean the work for him isn’t hard. your comment sucks
Soo true
Exactly. He was so rude. He's not one bit humble.
Just bc he said one comment bout that doesn’t mean he’s not humble. He’s letting his sister know the real deal, & a lot of mfs in this world is way cruel than Bret is….!
I really want to be on Princess's side on this but it's become difficult rooting for her. When Bretman pointed out the fact that she's made bad decisions, he actually didn't emphasize that enough out of respect for her and what she went through. She needs to be more mature with the different struggles and hurdles she's faced with because she put those in her plate. Your choices, your judgments, your consequences.
I started crying when they were in the therapist but I love how Miss Kay is always there for everyone. She has such a beautiful soul! 😭💜
We stan miss K !!!
I don’t think Princess is ungrateful and unappreciative of the platform he’s given her. It’s not about the money or financial support. All she wants is Bretman’s love and affection she sees him give to Keiffer, his mom, and Cleo. Even back in season 1 she mentioned she was envious of Bretman and Cleo’s bond. She loves him deeply, and it hurts her that he may not feel the same way in return. It’s sad.
She’s old enough and needs to make better decisions. I know it’s stressful for Bretman because he’s the one looking out for the family and proving them a better life. All I see in princess is an irresponsible girl. Ever since I started following bretman I noticed she’s the sibling that only puts herself first. She had Cleo at a young age and didn’t seem to care to do better.
@@rocioag4448 Thiss
If Princess just be responsible, then Bretman will be happy. I feel Bretman, giving everything but that person is not exerting that much effort to level up themselves. We are not getting any younger, Princess should grow up. The world will not stop if she's not happy. Bretman needs to live his life too.
@@rocioag4448 but some people are fine in life not doing better. this society praises ambition and accomplishments so much, but ive noticed that it doesn’t seem to be princess’ goals. from my own interpretation, it seems she’s totally fine with the way things are, and that what she seeks is connection rather than ambition. she’s a simple girl who enjoys comfort, which bretman doesn’t understand as a highly driven and ambitious man. surely, princess has made a lot of mistakes but so has bret. she’s owned up to them, and i think that because bret has always supported her quietly, she may have taken it as granted instead and won’t learn unless she’s faced to her own issues by herself. he’s always saved her, but that’s not what she wants nor needs.
@@whynotyoutubewhynot actually, you're very right. Why we have to always do things? So stressfull, let people live the live slowly how they want
The therapist did a good job navigating and validating both of their feelings.
truly
And on her third pregnancy.. as a young mom myself, I was rooting so hard for her. But dang she does not learn 😔
3rd…????
@@christy1627 She has 2 kids and is about to have a third
@@pathetic2399 😮😮😮
Same dad?
@@chanj2109 nope
She has a fear of being alone and not being loved/rejected but she’s also young. I hope she overcomes her traumas and becomes strong. ❤
Princess just wants brent to say “ i love you” and brent just wants princess to reach her full potential. This was a great step forward for both of them!
There is no Brent here
It’s Bretman not Brent….
It’s called “tough love” but for someone who never hears it, the words “I love you” can work wonders 🦋
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Yes, sometimes hearing it is enough
“Having 2 kids is a job” those were literally the consequences of her poor decision making. It’s even more pitiful that she knows she has responsibility but she’s too busy being comfortable to actually have an independent earning from bretman. She wants people to be proud of her but for what? Bret literally gave her so many opportunities but she never once took them seriously.
And she's pregnant now with her third kid by her third baby daddy. She doesn't seem to learn from her mistakes and poor decisions. Just keeps making them and remains in the same stagnant position. No growth.
@@youruniquestyle wait what?! Bruh wtf
As an eldest watching Princess frustrate me, is having children gives you elation or smnth
Unfortunately men are always unreliable
This episode was much needed. It’s the same in the Hispanic community. We forget to remind each other how much we love them! We need to start a new cycle with our kids.
Bretman's love language is quality time, while Princess's love language is words of affirmation
bretman really out here eloquently expressing how (exhausted) breadwinners in a filipino family feel like 🥲
"It's honestly hard for me to feel proud of anybody who can't keep promises to themselves..." - Bret, self confidence explained in a nutshell
Can we give a moment to appreciate Miss Kay's beauty? She's literally alluring.
bretman saying period while princess is expressing her emotions has me dying 😭💀
Ms. Kay looks good with the new look. I can watch Breatmen all day without getting bored
I think Bretman and Princess have two definitions behind the statement I’m proud of you. Princess wants to hear it just for anything that she has done in her life like being a good mom and Bretman’s standard on saying that to her is from a business point of view. If she starts financially supporting herself and actually work hard, he’s gonna be proud of her and will say it.
It honestly sounds like his family is draining his money, and when he tries to say no, they tell him he’s not being supportive. This is why people say don’t mix business with family! So many unnecessary issues can come from it. I hope they continue to build their relationship and I hope Princess learns to love herself and flourish.
It’s refreshing to see a show focus on a sibling relationship instead of the usual who is hooking up with who. Princess and Bretman’s videos together were always popular.
24:09 He loves you. He has proved it time & time again. Bret bringing the cake & doing his homework, helping you move, opening opportunities for you. So much love is there.
she needs someone to tell her that they love her, that she is enough, that she can take opportunities, that she is able to finance herself. emotional support is worth more than any other type of support. she needs to be proud of herself before she does anything to make people proud of her.
I think we all forget princess is literally still so young, she’s just turned 21. She had a baby at 15 & clearly from her last relationship has been through a lot. She’s still figuring out who she is whilst raising 2 kids in front of millions of people whilst being ‘bretman rocks’ sister that’s a lot of pressure. She’s trying her best she can only do so much, whenever she’s ready to take bigger steps she will. She’s just so young still.
i know that im personally more like princess, but , Bretman is right. They will be the only two to actually know what happened from when they had nothing and now they have something. It was a decision to have kids and you can't use your children as excuses for your life goals/dreams because thats going to put a strain on your relationship w/ your child indefinitely.
That last part is such a good point. Having kids is hard but it’s a decision which is why it’s such an important decision, I understand how exhausting it is for her for sure, but like you said, placing the blame on your kids existing will turn into underlying resentment which would pout a strain on the relationship or they might take it the other way and project onto their kids and live vicariously through them by forcing them to do things you didn’t get to do
Wow, I just have to applaud Miss Kay... I follow her on social media and DAMN... The weightloss and transformation is🔥 Keep it up Babe!! You look great!!
Omg yas!!! I did noticed it too ✨
She looks great! So proud of her
Okaaayy! You go, Miss Kaayyyy
@@rosem1740 she always looked great.
@@sarithajagajith6568 yes but the confidence is BOOMIN
I think bretman needs to understand even though they were raised together and witness the same things as kids but everyone handles trauma differently. He needs to be more understanding and princess needs to know her worth.
In my opinion I believe he does understand the situation. However, it’s not up to him to continuously hold princesses hand throughout their whole life’s. Princess needs to take things into her own hands. Like you said she needs to know her worth!!!
@@danielhuynh7038 agree
Well, did they ever think that maybe Bretman’s handling his trauma on his own, too? But in spite of that he still knew he had to work hard for himself and his family? I think he has supported Princess through and through. And it’s up to her to do something for herself. She can’t keep asking people to love her the way she wants to be loved. That’s not how the world works. The fact that they’re not starving even if she’s not working is already a leverage tbh.
They didn't have the same upbringing. He's said multiple times that he lived in the Philippines with his dad and Mae went to Hawaii with the mum. Correct me if I'm wrong but he watched his dad cheat on his mum and was blamed for them breaking up.
@@danielhuynh7038 he understands her situation by saying she’s lazy when she has 2 whole kids to take care of by herself 🤔
This is as close to a real reality show as you can get. those emotions are real.
Miss K had a glow up! I'm so happy she's growing into herself! She just seems happier! Good for her! 🥰
I worked for the company that used to rep Bretman and he almost gave up early on due to online bullying. I’m so glad he didn’t 💙🦋
What does rep mean sorry
@@therecipe5606 represent
@@bugzkeeper2860 thank you
The more I watch Bretman the more I fall in love with him…everyone should have brother/sister like him❤️
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Honestly same😩
Yes
I'm with Bretman on this one when it comes to work ethics. Like he's speaking to me. It's like I have all these opportunities to succeed but don't take full advantage of it
Bretman is giving so much panganay energy. The discipline is just strong 🤍
Omg why am I sobbing??? That therapy session made me feel some type of way. Very relatable. That’s why I love watching them. 😭🫶🏽
Me too 😭😭😭😭
Legit cried my eyes out. Wishing you both the best and hopefully y’all can work out your sibling relationship
Bretman is a good brother for speaking the truth. Im the same age as Princess and i couldn't imagine to have 2 fatherless children at that age. Her children deserve better environment.
When bretman said princess doesn’t know what exhaustion is made me so sad for her bc being a mama is a dang job like she said; especially two babies! I love bretmab but she is a mom!
And she chose to be knowing she wasn’t ready.
Yeah u can tell there’s a lot of childless people in the comments lol
My mom doesn’t really say I love you either but Princess is right, we don’t have to be like that we can say I love you to those we love! My sisters and I say I love you to each other because we realized that it meant a lot to us.
Bret man is like my mom to her siblings. She gives them everything but it’s not enough for them.
I feel them 💯, growing up with a parent who is constantly in survival mode to provide there is definitely a lack of affection that gets passed down. Me & my sister are the same way & seeing them go to therapy together is an eye opener for sure. Love how transparent they are!
Same. It's so hard to say I love you to my parents and my siblings. We just contribute thing like cooking food, paying rent, doing financial things, but we don't do a lot of bonding. Honestly, if they werent my family I dont think i want to be in their lives. But my little brother and I got closer in the last couple years so there's that.
I love how Bretman Rock is being real and honest with his sisters ! I get she’s a mom but I feel like she should do it also more for her kids ❤️ there’s always a reason on why kids are on peoples life’s to push themselves ever harder in life
Tbh I can understand Bretman's frustration about "supporting" his sister. Mai doesn't see the amount of support he pours to her because he criticizes her most of the time and it's hard for Mai to understand that its a part of his support as well. I think Mai wants Bretman's "silent" support in a way that he supports her without the criticism.
The non-Filipino people judging Bretman right now obviously don't know how taxing it is to be a Filipino breadwinner. You're just pressured to work hard and earn for your family. You've absolutely no time to sit and cry about your problems because you've to worry about everyone else. And to have someone you've been helping throughout their life say, "you don't support me," to your face is just so freaking offensive.
Filipino or not this is a common theme amongst most families
@@Adoreshanti Well, yeah. I didn’t say that this is limited to Filipino families? I’m specifically talking about how non-Filipinos in the comments are quick to judge him and call him mean while the Pinoys point out that he has a diff love language from his sister and that it’s common in the country.
And y’all using being Asian or Filipino to mistreat your family members 💀
@@yaraitz63 Yeah, bec him hyping her up in everything she says she wants to try, him taking care of her kids as his own, him standing by her when her exes maltreated her, and him financially helping her is “mistreatment”. 💀 All because he’s not vocally saying I love you, right? Westerners have the weirdest problems.
@@yaraitz63 because that was how we grew.up? It's called tough love.
Brent is so under appreciated and like he sometimes needs support to
I had a child at 24 and I still struggle with some things that Princess does, so I can only imagine being 15 with a child, she was forced to grow up so fast to be a mother and it’s def hard when your own mother never told you they love you
he’s a good brother for being honest. he clearly wants more for her and she should learn to do things for herself as well.
For those that are saying that Bret is being too harsh he really isn’t. they grew up struggling and from that you just have to learn to be independent yourself. Bret grew up just like that and learned to do things himself while also helping others. it’s what our culture does anyway and I’m sure other cultures too. while we’re climbing up we somehow have to pull our family up with is too and it does get tiring. I’ve seen many of my cousins and other family do similar and you have to have a barrier with helping and just simply doing all the work for them. The truth isn’t always nice and sometimes that is what we really need to open our eyes.
The point of getting rich is to ease the burden off everyone else not make them go through the same experience that you did to be hyper-independent
@@owenh864 he’s not tryna put her through his struggles too he’s just saying that she could do better with the choices she makes. It’s nice to know you worked for everything you have and not leeching off someone else.
@@owenh864 It’s his money and he doesn’t have to help anyone. Also money and wealth can run out, you can’t live off of your rich relatives. Even the kids who grew up rich accomplish their own goals.
@@owenh864 Lmaoooo what?!?
Bretman is so AUTHENTIC. I 100% ❤️ his honesty; which is the best policy for me. Keeping it REAL is not easy to do; especially when you are being REAL with the core people of your family & friends.
Omg the way I heard Bretman Rock spoke about being the breadwinner of the family and all he did was support his family ever since says a lot on his personality!!! I relate so much !! Princess as the youngest I do understand her too. Love this episode. Always rooting for you both!!!!
I have a sister who does the same, it's incredibly frustrating trying to help someone who won't help themselves.
There is always a saying that 'actions speak louder than words'. You don't have to say i love you just to show your love and affection. And Bretman is still with her and her family despite her failures in life. That's love.
I can totally relate to this. Having Filipino Parents, we weren't raised hearing I love you's or talk about emotions. Our Parents showed their love by being present and making efforts to be together. Although we turned out good, it also doesn't hurt to break old generation habits and improved family relationships.
Same, now that I'm older I definitely try to be more affectionate with my mom. She still gives me weird stares when I hold her hand when we're walking or hugging her. At the same time, I can't dislike her because she gave me the best possible chance to have a good life. It's a work in progress for both sides and it's nice to see improvement. Being more affectionate is so nice and comforting!
Idk about that. Growing up with Filipino parents they've showed me love through food and hugs, but they've told me "mahal kita anak" many times(not all the time, but randomly from time to time they say it)... Ig they're the exception than.
@@Priv4cy well I wasn't generalizing it. That is why I started my comment by saying "I can relate" and by saying "Our Parents". I am only speaking based on my story.
@@marcellanacarri I guess I misread because you wrote "having Filipino parents, WE weren't raised-" I thought you were talking about all Filipino people. My bad than.
See as much crap that Bretman gives Princess, she is trying to learn from toxicity passed down from the older generation. She said “the generational curse stops with ME!” And for that I give her MAJOR props. It takes a lot of courage and hard work to think this way and to be that person to change family patterns. By acting hard and continuing those patterns of hurt, Bretman is staying stuck in the very pattern that hurt him as a child and now as an adult. Princess deserves major credit for the heart and character she has! Bretman may think he’s doing the most important thing by supporting his family FINANCIALLY, but that emotional love and support is PRICELESS from people you really love. Money doesn’t mean anything, and it’s precisely why so many rich people are so miserable and depressed.
Totally agree!
This comment wins.
I 100% agree with this!!
wait, every person has different love language and word of affirmation aint for bretman. some ppl cope with trauma different way "pattern of hurt"??! obviously bret healed his issue (his biggest trauma in parents separation is having to watch her mom struggle financially so he makes his way to help everyone in the family and tried to help princess to stable and to be independent + struggle to witness her mom not having time for him so he makes sure to give his time to them. QUALITY TIME IS HIS LOVE LANGUAGE), it is princess who still stuck in the past and needs validation.
@@jaidreamer8175 Clearly bretman has a lot of unresolved issues that he doesnt like talking about like he shows in this episode and Princess is willing to address that because she wants to heal. their version of healing from their traumas is different from each other. You cant say who's done healing just from this clip alone
Ms. Kay looks amazing! I’m so happy for her, I hope she’s happier than last season
He had to be her father figure so she mentioned growing up fast but she chose to have her daughter at 15 he didn’t chose to be her brother and father all in 1. It’s kinda unfair to expect so much from him.
she’s extremely irresponsible too. i kinda feel bad for her i mean she technically had no real guidance from a woman but even then, 2 kids ok but 3? like dude
Bretman's lines to Princess during therapy, are things I needed to hear. 💗 He's so successful. But we need to realize that success does not look the same from everyone's eyes. And we all have a different pace. That being said, I understand Bret's frustration and Princess' fears.
Bretman really needs to understand that princess is just a different person, we all have different emotions and different ways of expressing them. This was good for them I hope bret really see’s that money and supporting family financially doesn’t replace the love and the kind words said in someone’s life 🥺💕
This!!!! Support isn’t just financial, it’s the emotional support Princess needs 🤍
well, you also need to understand not everyone is comfortable to be affectionate and vulnerable. bret grow up in a household where he needs to toughened up and work his ass 24/7 to support his family, it's unfair that princess keep telling him that his not supportive.
@Jake from state farm she was a child when she had her first kid lol
@Jake from state farm we shouldn’t blame ppl bc of there trauma! You act like this is all her fault and stop shaming her past . Maybe focus on what help she can get in the future ISTG I’m done with people blaming princess 4 her own trauma it’s very sad
@Jake from state farm say ur wrong n go💀💀
Hope princess break that cycle and tell their kids "I love you and I am proud of you"
I can totally relate to her on that.
Growing up, my parents never said to us i love you or i am proud you. And also with my siblings...
Now with my child, I always tell my child that I love and proud of her everyday. Have to break that cycle
The fact that princess was young when their parents separated, it made their mother to do double, triple job to give them the life they deserve, so princess ended up like growing up with bretman beside her, but still a big part of her is missing so i think (in my opinion) she depends on the guys that came in her life but ended up breaking her, again, and imagine the trauma of your parents being separated but you ended up like that, not just once but twice, and there's postpartum depression that she must be experiencing, she just want for the people around her to be vocal about their love for her, and i think she want it because its easier for her to believe that people actually love her. Well, idk, its just my opinion.
I’m with Bretman on this. She wants him to say he’s proud of her but like he said, what exactly has she done that’s worthy of praise? He funds her whole lifestyle, set her up to become a content creator and she does nothing with it. 3 kids with 3 diff dudes and she’s barely 21?? I’d be disappointed too.
I grew up similarly to him, and that burden of supporting your whole family is A LOT. The least she can do is make something of herself but no, she squanders it all away.
Smh.
Bretman loves his sister and wants her to thrive on her own, but it does seem like princess is very dependent on bretman, but I also don’t think bretman understands how difficult it is to get things done when you have two kids , you really do be busy ! And theirs nothing wrong with wanting to be appreciated ❤️❤️
Princess has a village and two very active dad that help with their kids. BUT sadly she does drop the ball a lot. & princess main thing is she doesn't take accountability and lacks in confidence and self worth. It brakes my heart because she's so amazing but I think she really needs to find herself as more as Bratman sister or mama princess. I really hope we see more growth out of her
@@sinx-eq4er definitely!
Nobody is gonna say how good Keifer looks!! ?? She’s glowing and looks so happy!
I love the part when they’re all trying to go up the stairs together and Bretmans trying to be serious and direct them but they all fall and he joins in on laughing. They all look so genuinely happy.
This episode really hits home! I am an Indian and I think Asians in general just parent their children without showcasing emotions or wording out love and care openly, it can be taxing to live like that and on a lot of days that makes you want to seek validation outside from people that don't even matter and 9/10 times wouldn't treat you right but it's really family in the end that is truly there and it is enough to testify that the love was always present.
Work ethic speaks volumes! And I get where Brets coming from, it's hard when your very hardworking and you see some1 whose just going along for the ride, it's very hard. I also see where princess is coming from cause she's gone through alot at such a young age, for bret it was her own choices that led her to the things she went through but she's still a young girl at heart, trying to figure herself out
I think Princess has a lot to learn about herself and life and where she fits in this world and in her family. I think she clings to Bretman because he has chosen his place in all of it. Bretman seems very supportive and as patient as he can be. Princess just needs to give herself all that love she is missing. A lot of it comes from gaining confidence from being independent. I truly wish them both a healing bond that Cleo and Ezekiel can grow in to. They are literally the next generation of brother and sister.
I hope Bretman understands having 2 kids is real EXHAUSTING!! Also miss K really looks like more themself , confident in their skin and glowing, So happy for them!!
Yes but having two kids is a choice and job that was never an easy thing. As a single mother of 2 who works full time and pays all my bills, she isn’t the only one who has this type of job. She was handed a lot of opportunities but I agree she doesn’t want to work hard enough to make it her own.
@@QueenOfKings0402 right. and bretman even helps to raise those kids.. he helps her every way he can even making sure her kids get everything they never had.
Wow….when she said “I didn’t grow up with a mom that said she loved us” wheeewwww, I felt that
Hearing Bret say that princess doesn’t get exhausted really hurts my feeling because I have one kid and I’m always exhausted I couldn’t imagine having two.
Same!!
Same 🥲 it’s a never ending job. I see people commenting that parents chose to have their kids so we can’t complain but I don’t think that’s fair at all. Yes we chose to have our children but that doesn’t mean we can’t be tired/complain 😣
I think princess wants to hear that she’s doing a good job as a mom too, not just when she accomplishes something.
@@yeeh.5814 agreed
yeah i think he meant mentally like knowing we could all wake up and decide not to support him, how millions of people can change your fate after all you’ve been through and put in
I don’t even have kids and I was taking back for a second.
I like what Princess' therapist said about love languages!! Princess wants people to show her love through Words of Affirmation. On the other hand, Bretman prefers people show him love through Acts of Service. They're both speaking different love languages--it's like someone who only speaks Tagalog talking to someone who only speaks Italian. They'd never understand each other.
I think once they both learn how to give each other love in the way they each prefer, then they'll be able to improve their sibling relationship. (i.e., Bretman learning to tell Princess he loves her from time to time, and Princess stepping it up with her actions). Love them both and I'm excited to see how they grow this season! 💕
I glad that they have Miss K with them, she’s like the bridge that connect them, she also really kind and trustworthy❤
Anyone else notice How mrs. Kay is always good at everything she try’s? You got this girl❤️
Honestly I love Bretman he is really a hard worker and has always been there for his family
The brother-sister 'I love you' drama is common to Filipino culture, trust me! So glad for Season 2, btw.
The fact that the therapist has red bottoms 😂 she said i am going to be on tv let me get ready
Aint no way Princess thinks that Bretman doesn't support her. He's been carrying her throughout this whole thing. Honestly, with three different baby daddies, if she was in the Phiippines without her brother's support, she'll be struggling so hard.