Andrew Schulz’ comments on the Black Girlfriend Experience: Pivot says he’s wrong| The Pivot Podcast

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  • @InternetGirl1093
    @InternetGirl1093 หลายเดือนก่อน +1824

    I like that they spoke out, but I also want to add, Black women aren’t just STRONG, LEADERS, DIRECT, etc. We’re also sensitive, soft-spoken, shy, sweet, kind, caring, etc. all the other adjectives that all women can be. We have to start looking beyond these tropes of Black women being STRONG and DIRECT. We’re human.

    • @smarti1144
      @smarti1144 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      Right! Spectrum

    • @glendadavis850
      @glendadavis850 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Amen, Amen Amen! Could not say it better!

    • @DivineShine30
      @DivineShine30 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Thank You

    • @coachk37
      @coachk37 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Much respect to this comment. Giving support is great on their part but they also amplify of these narratives about black men and women. Critical thinking and analysis probably aren’t their strongest attributes but it’s they spoke up.

    • @blackfish4674
      @blackfish4674 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Also the LEAST desired

  • @lizturner267
    @lizturner267 หลายเดือนก่อน +913

    I’m an oldish Scottish born woman who is so pale, I’m powder blue. Hearing men talk this way in support of their women is an inspiration to all cultures. Hearing constant ridicule towards black women needs to stop being normalized. Hearing proud black sons, husbands, fathers, brothers RESPECT their mothers, wives, daughters and sisters is uplifting.

    • @Neets64
      @Neets64 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Thank you for this comment!❤

    • @valeriareed7234
      @valeriareed7234 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@lizturner267 Lady, you are not oldish…..🌟🙂✨⚡️💫

    • @Speak_Datruth13
      @Speak_Datruth13 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its ok for blk men to be ridiculed right?

    • @lizturner267
      @lizturner267 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@valeriareed7234 63 oldish but vain enough to screenshot your comment for whenever I need a smile! 😘

    • @tonywilliams1771
      @tonywilliams1771 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤️🙏🏾

  • @siberian-coco20
    @siberian-coco20 หลายเดือนก่อน +947

    I'm a White North-Asian dude and approve of what you do; not because my girlfriend is Black but simply because i'm sick and frustrated on how people are so obsessed with Black women and their relationships.

    • @92cgray
      @92cgray หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Issa Rae said somewhere that Black women and Asian men should date more often. Glad to be reading your comments after that I wish yall many blessings ❤❤

    • @rockieleftwing
      @rockieleftwing หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly!

    • @Maxito1275
      @Maxito1275 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@92cgrayew

    • @tawshisms
      @tawshisms หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙏🏾

    • @hild-demongoddess7498
      @hild-demongoddess7498 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Me too!!! What we are doing romantically and or sexually is always being discussed.

  • @fah232
    @fah232 หลายเดือนก่อน +554

    People have gotten comfortable disrespecting black women because black men allow it. But thank you guys for addressing it.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Black men DO IT!

    • @cliftonconnor9389
      @cliftonconnor9389 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those dudes were #NotLikeUs.

    • @inacook2285
      @inacook2285 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right or wrong, this is the TRUTH!

    • @mandu6665
      @mandu6665 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And a whoooooooole lot of deep rooted racism.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@teresam5199 Absolutely

  • @unexplainedintelligence4977
    @unexplainedintelligence4977 หลายเดือนก่อน +467

    You don’t ever let anyone disrespect your woman, Period!!!

    • @facesbybriana4708
      @facesbybriana4708 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      EVER!!!!

    • @Speak_Datruth13
      @Speak_Datruth13 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      But black women can disrespect men?

    • @evylouis3122
      @evylouis3122 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@Speak_Datruth13I’m a black woman whom is a proud wife to a black husband and I respect him because he is the king
      Of our castle. Stop generalizing black women.

    • @Speak_Datruth13
      @Speak_Datruth13 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@evylouis3122 I didnt say all, but too many do

    • @evylouis3122
      @evylouis3122 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Speak_Datruth13 then you should have said some. The problem is, all black women gets blame for what some black women do. It’s exhausting for the black women that does not fall into that category. Have a blessed day

  • @jroameverywhere
    @jroameverywhere หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    Well said, fellas. As a black man, I love and appreciate you black women!

    • @queenjee8570
      @queenjee8570 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Likewise❤

    • @absoluteharmony44
      @absoluteharmony44 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🖤✨👑

    • @Gigilovehugs
      @Gigilovehugs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for saying this

    • @michy3075
      @michy3075 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @ConfiseriesPapier
    @ConfiseriesPapier หลายเดือนก่อน +636

    Brother, you hit the nail in the head, "He got too comfortable".

    • @NicenewsTV
      @NicenewsTV หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He said was was TRUE

    • @majinkee4467
      @majinkee4467 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@NicenewsTVHow so ?

    • @slimjimmy5801
      @slimjimmy5801 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He made a joke cry

    • @potawatomimko6108
      @potawatomimko6108 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ryan dont got enough attention. Calling a comedian racist. Lmao

    • @sealedindictment
      @sealedindictment หลายเดือนก่อน

      let’s say he did get “too comfortable” why do you care?

  • @darrenbennett3653
    @darrenbennett3653 หลายเดือนก่อน +432

    As a black man married to a very strong and hard working black woman, I salute these brothers. More black men, in the public eye, need to be clear and forceful in defense of our women.

    • @truthserum3960
      @truthserum3960 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What makes your woman strong? No other race says that.

    • @diranshouse7061
      @diranshouse7061 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It was a joke based on a stereotype. A joke I've heard many black male and female comedians crack under different circumstances.
      This victim stuff is tiring. We frickin joke on white folks all day everyday. Asian jokes, etc. But God forbid someone make a joke about us.
      When did we become the thinnest skinned folks alive? When?

    • @MSMETALBABY
      @MSMETALBABY หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@diranshouse7061 It's not just jokes tho. They're not even cleverly crafted, its just repeating harmful stereotypes that effect black womens real lives. Black women have to constantly deal with disrespect and misogynoir. Not the same as "just jokes". We can make racial jokes all day but you have to know the community you are discussing and not just base your comedy off of tired ass stereotypes.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Strong and hardworking? Those are not compliments

    • @Kizz_97s
      @Kizz_97s หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Strong woman who’s gonna treat you like a peasant 😂

  • @BrandiQuin03
    @BrandiQuin03 หลายเดือนก่อน +670

    Ryan hit the nail on the head. They feel comfortable disrespecting BW because they see BM doing it. We were always on the front line for BM but the tide has changed because we've been too disrespected for far too long.

    • @dayaaron87
      @dayaaron87 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      No yall not that's true at all

    • @KH-qs1di
      @KH-qs1di หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      You all have bashed black men every chance you get. You've been on the frontline alright, but it's in the form of an enemy.

    • @zeezydoesit7416
      @zeezydoesit7416 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Are black women not argumentative? I understand hearing the truth is difficult but let’s be honest. That reputation is well earned

    • @MoonMoon-fx1op
      @MoonMoon-fx1op หลายเดือนก่อน +87

      ​​@@zeezydoesit7416 sometimes yall call it argumentative, when really she's just not with the bullshxt

    • @taunyb5429
      @taunyb5429 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Yes. I love hearing what he had to say and how he stood with blk women. ❤ BM need to correct other BM.

  • @allenharris2172
    @allenharris2172 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    As an elder, I have nothing but the ultimate respect for these young black positive lions who represent the black and African American communities.

  • @TheTouchdownWithDougSmith
    @TheTouchdownWithDougSmith หลายเดือนก่อน +359

    Per my photo, I’m white/Puerto Rican and my wife is black and we’ve been happily married for 15 years and counting, and I truly truly truly truly hate these stereotypes of black women. Number one, it puts black women in a monolithic viewpoint and is dangerous, especially when others who are listening DO NOT have the common sense and just believe whatever they say because it is funny and they are trying to make a joke. I bet Andrew did not make that joke about white women.

    • @ghostwalker89
      @ghostwalker89 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You can make monolthic jokes about white women, white men, black women, and black men because the vast majority do carry some of the same traits.

    • @monharris28
      @monharris28 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      thank you, im a quiet, shy, soft spoken black woman, people like me exist, black women are not all the same

    • @TheTouchdownWithDougSmith
      @TheTouchdownWithDougSmith หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@monharris28 God bless you

    • @kjm485
      @kjm485 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ​@@ghostwalker89ignorance 🙄

    • @rachelmurphy6473
      @rachelmurphy6473 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wait aren’t Puerto Ricans nevermind

  • @AtheneHolder
    @AtheneHolder หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    Caribbean woman of African descent here. Thank you.
    a lot of people don't realise that we have to be the strong loud direct person in the room because if we don't we wither away and are ignored and forgotten, just like Ryan said.

    • @Shift4g
      @Shift4g หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Which may be causing the problem. There are BW saying we aren't the way BM say we are, while there are also BW saying we have to be the way you say we are in order to exist.
      The conversation needs to change from doubling down on "we arent that way" to how do we as a people fix the need for the minority of BW who are that way to not need to be in order to survive?

    • @AtheneHolder
      @AtheneHolder หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Shift4g excellent perspective!! million percent agreed

    • @bryonstevenson1084
      @bryonstevenson1084 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Novem3ber11
      @Novem3ber11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why you can't just say black. If you want the credit of black American women, why separate yourself.

    • @Novem3ber11
      @Novem3ber11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just say you're black, if you want to share the credit for black American women why separate yourself.

  • @DeshondaDodd
    @DeshondaDodd หลายเดือนก่อน +884

    This made me cry. As a single mom raising a young son and pushing him through college and giving him everything I got every single day. I’m glad someone sees black women clearly and finally speaks the truth about us ❤❤

    • @dadon7248
      @dadon7248 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      That made you cry?

    • @maneets2413
      @maneets2413 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      WELL ME WITH NO DOG IN THE FIGHT ITS VERY CLEAR THAT HE WASNT TALKING ABOUT BEAUTIFUL STRONG BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU💯💯💯 YOU HAVE TO TAKE COMEDIANS WITH A GRAIN OF SALT AND ITS VERY OBVIOUS HE AINT TALKING ABOUT ALLLL BLACK WOMEN🙏🏾🫡

    • @taunyb5429
      @taunyb5429 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ❤ I'm sure you're doing an amazing job. Look at the fruit you bear and what you've cultivated in your son. Beautiful.

    • @Zakaryah.
      @Zakaryah. หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Why?

    • @Azziang
      @Azziang หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Me too. Finally you guys are starting to see what we are going throw everyday. I’m
      So sick that I have to prove that I’m good too.

  • @Ceemoore3000
    @Ceemoore3000 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Thank you Pivot! 😍😍😍😍So many Black men have been online degrading and berating Black women. Why wouldn't other men feel comfortable joining in? Black women stop supporting Black men who don't value, love and support you. Let their "preferences" support them and make them rich. I hope Black women unsubscribe to all S&G platforms and let who they love support them. Don't fight, don't argue just go where you are loved and appreciated truly.

    • @beetheking_7
      @beetheking_7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s so much of everything it ain’t just one side berating one over the other. I see it from both sides. Telling black woman to not support black men who don’t value them is good but I think It will fall on deaf ears bc of addiction. A lot of black woman are addicted to men that don’t value them. They want the toxic guy. Women can’t resist what they’re addicted to, it makes them more addicted. The problem is addiction for black men and woman, we need to battle the addictions first.

    • @valeriareed7234
      @valeriareed7234 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@beetheking_7start your own podcast and address this addiction…..you are being so specific as if you know All Black Women that you can speak in a specific manner regarding this addiction…..there is a large sector of Black Women that proves your statement invalid….but get out there with your charts and graphs….because speaking in the specific manner must be supported…..Best of luck beetheking…….

    • @PUFFTV1
      @PUFFTV1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beetheking_7 they need counseling it’s called trauma bonding. Many bw have been abused and generational trauma passed down. Before being involved with anyone work on yourself and stay away from men who treat you poorly because they hate themselves and you. Do not support these donkeys stay away from them.

    • @Ceemoore3000
      @Ceemoore3000 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@valeriareed7234 please don't encourage that. There are enough uneducated, unhealed, broken people doing podcasts. They need to make regulations and require an assessment prior allowing folks to purchase mics. It's embarrassing how we are publicly disrespecting, disregarding and talking about one another but are offended when a colonizer joins in.

    • @wedontagelikemilktho.7839
      @wedontagelikemilktho.7839 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@beetheking_7You have been 1 of the most rational and neutral blk man in this comment section but it still not enough I see...

  • @reembright4231
    @reembright4231 หลายเดือนก่อน +1297

    As a fellow black man , to all the black women I love and appreciate you 🫶🏾

    • @jasmoneeartis6895
      @jasmoneeartis6895 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      Nobody has said it to you yet so we Love you back!!!!🥰

    • @reembright4231
      @reembright4231 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@jasmoneeartis6895 appreciate it

    • @imrichbtch1995
      @imrichbtch1995 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reembright4231 they don't care bro

    • @IamTaylorRogue
      @IamTaylorRogue หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      We love you too

    • @takinganewapproachpodcast2994
      @takinganewapproachpodcast2994 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Stop simping 😂

  • @deidrahogue5755
    @deidrahogue5755 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    That last brother always elevates the conversation. I love hearing him speak especially on this topic. Thank you lifting us up. Teach hard Black men!

  • @judithnorris6300
    @judithnorris6300 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

    Thank you. You have made me cry because it is rare to hear black men praise us. So again, thank you. I appreciate you.

    • @tonywilliams1771
      @tonywilliams1771 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I Promise You. I take every opportunity. ❤ And it hurts my soul that you've been made to feel this way. But I know it's real. God Bless You Beautiful. 🙏🏾

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do you need praise from a STRANGER!!!!????🤡

    • @slimjimmy5801
      @slimjimmy5801 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s cap u just around asswholes

    • @KSP30
      @KSP30 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same! when he spoke of his mother ❤ I feel the same

  • @littledragon3891
    @littledragon3891 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    Thank you to these 3 Black Men for standing up for Black Women. It makes us feel so good when we know "Black Men Got Us". Salute to all of you.🫡🫡🫡

    • @H20X
      @H20X หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't stand up for people who said we are bullet Bags, the cops are not unaliving us fast enough, white men are better, use the billionaire for black women fake quote to talk down on black men once again, i need me a white man, black men are at the lowest amongst all me..

  • @Mbdozier
    @Mbdozier หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Talk that Talk! So well said. Thank you Ryan for standing up and supporting us black women. It is beyond appreciated.

    • @slimjimmy5801
      @slimjimmy5801 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U made a comedian made a joke tf

    • @Mbdozier
      @Mbdozier หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @slimjimmy5801Nope, that's not it. You completely missed the point and I don't have to explain anything to someone I don't know. Have a great day!

  • @dcat78
    @dcat78 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Im an older black woman. When I was in college two former black male friends told me why they'd never marry or date a black woman. My ex left me for a white girl. "Look Who's Coming to Dinner" with Sydney Poitier was not a film I could celebrate. It was merely a reminder of being told that I'm not good enough. This video is so refreshing and feels protective. Love it! Thank you, gentlemen! ❤

    • @valeriareed7234
      @valeriareed7234 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@dcat78 Those men were insensitive and weak…….Also, your ex…..This desiring “other” boarders fetishization…..finally able to get what in past time was not allowed……taking it to a level of crazed extreme…..

    • @tabkaliO
      @tabkaliO หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      This happened to me when I was freshman at a PWI in the 90s. At one of the meetings for the Black student group, a whole group of Black men just went in hard on the Black women. It was awful, shocking, and traumatic. I don’t know how we (Black women) became the topic of the conversation. I think it was my first meeting and was expecting it to be a place solidarity. And it so wasn’t. Thinking back the leaders/instigators were biracial men with white mothers. And the other brothers fell lock in step behind them. They made it clear, they thought Black women were nothing. Love❤ these brothers here though. They see us!!!!!

    • @qbrown8753
      @qbrown8753 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Did they say you wasn’t good enough? Or did they tell you to adjust your attitude? And to be nice?

    • @whipmyfro
      @whipmyfro หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@qbrown8753 Since we are stereotyping that black women have bad attitudes I guess BW should tell black men to get a good job and stay out of jail huh? See how that works 😏

    • @inacook2285
      @inacook2285 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@qbrown8753 There are so many non- stereotypical black PEOPLE in the world. In America! What you are experiencing is racism. When you no longer see people as individuals and judge ALL based on the actions of some. I know it's weird to think of yourself as racist because you share commonalities with other black people but, believe me, it happens. Racism and hate in general are insidious diseases; we all drink the same Kool-aid. Black people can be some of the worst white supremacists and don't even know it.

  • @thinkoutlowd2909
    @thinkoutlowd2909 หลายเดือนก่อน +1593

    You know what’s crazy. I’ve never come across a channel with black people obsessed with white, Asian, or Latino relationships. But everyone else has shows about black relationships 🤣🤣 the world is so obsessed with the black experience

    • @lynnayesmith-winters7922
      @lynnayesmith-winters7922 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

      There’s a saying, they want our rhythm but not our blues!

    • @latisaholm5700
      @latisaholm5700 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

      Effing never, my love. All we want is to be left in peace. I have never said. Oh, let me see what becky, ling ling, or Maria is up to today. They are NOT in my head because I don't care

    • @blindsight3690
      @blindsight3690 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Actually that's not true these black folks in here talk about white people all damn day about how oppressed they are what the hell are you talking about😅

    • @blindsight3690
      @blindsight3690 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@latisaholm5700actually you just did with those stereotypical names white people are in your head living rent free all day everyday😅

    • @millieconsultancy
      @millieconsultancy หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Because there in barriers in to entry. BM give wm and ww a pass code into the community.n

  • @noahamin4real
    @noahamin4real หลายเดือนก่อน +1913

    Salute to these Black Men for speaking up on this foolishness!!!

    • @PhonkEcho
      @PhonkEcho หลายเดือนก่อน

      Schulz didn't lie though. 2:05 And Crowder confirmed black women are strong. Man does not have to be a b**ch if he says he dont want that.

    • @karmao2024
      @karmao2024 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ❤ABSOLUTELY 💯

    • @lordfriezachrist6546
      @lordfriezachrist6546 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      They're just being emotional over a joke

    • @mrmillennium2697
      @mrmillennium2697 หลายเดือนก่อน

      European Black people are basically Africans 1st generation 2nd generation, Black Americans are a mixed breed and entirely different culturally than Black Europeans
      1

    • @justinwinningham4892
      @justinwinningham4892 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean let’s be honest the black women culture is toxic

  • @deas9410
    @deas9410 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    Love this. Ryan stay standing on business and Chan making it clear we appreciate that.❤

  • @SusanVivian-g3l
    @SusanVivian-g3l หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    This intriguing video serves as a poignant reminder of the heartache I've been enduring since my 7-year relationship came to an end 3 months ago. My cherished partner, the love of my life, made the difficult decision to part ways, leaving me consumed by thoughts of him. Despite my earnest attempts to win him back, I find myself facing frustration and an overwhelming sense of emptiness, unable to envision a life without his presence. Despite my efforts to move on, I'm compelled to confess my lingering feelings and longing for him here.

    • @melly-n1w
      @melly-n1w หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 6 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.

    • @SusanVivian-g3l
      @SusanVivian-g3l หลายเดือนก่อน

      Impressive! How did you manage to connect with a spiritual counselor.

    • @melly-n1w
      @melly-n1w หลายเดือนก่อน

      Suzanne Ann Walters is a highly recommended spiritual counselor, specializing in reuniting individuals with their former partners.

    • @SusanVivian-g3l
      @SusanVivian-g3l หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online. Very impressive indeed!

  • @CB-gl5xn
    @CB-gl5xn หลายเดือนก่อน +321

    The black woman experience is a struggle but we are resilient and victorious

    • @TamFam-o3n
      @TamFam-o3n หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Always have been and always will be 🙏🏾

    • @bird8661
      @bird8661 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Whats the struggle

    • @SnapBack206
      @SnapBack206 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Come on ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @charlenewalker126
      @charlenewalker126 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That’s why we’re so hated and admired so much we have broad shoulders strong. I love black woman because we are awesome

    • @lela658
      @lela658 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I appreciate your comment and with all due respect... it's an 'and' and not the "but". There are no exceptions in your statement's truths, they're highly-qualified and additional facts! 🖤🤎❤🥰

  • @impactv
    @impactv หลายเดือนก่อน +501

    As a black woman, this episode needs to be shared around the world. Black girls and women go through so much. Malcolm X said “The most disrespected person in America is the Black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the Black woman. The most neglected person in America is the Black woman.”

    • @TerpSpice
      @TerpSpice หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yall annoying. Yall think yall better and are superior. NEXT. I feel no pity for you ppl.

    • @truthbtold8697
      @truthbtold8697 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      It was gotdamn jokes, how many blk comedians joke on white ppl???🤦🏿

    • @whatstherealproblem7513
      @whatstherealproblem7513 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not like this it's a trend now people are actually making money to dump on black women all day and I think u should know that by now 😊​@@truthbtold8697

    • @lordfriezachrist6546
      @lordfriezachrist6546 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@impactv 🥱. As a (Fill in the blank) i can play victim on any and everything including jokes

    • @Peopleofthesun386
      @Peopleofthesun386 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@truthbtold8697 Exactly.

  • @williamwaters3944
    @williamwaters3944 หลายเดือนก่อน +784

    Please don’t go to his channel looking for this episode. Let’s not give him any financial attention.

    • @morrisahj
      @morrisahj หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Agreed!

    • @abena410
      @abena410 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Exactly. Sad thing is I hear that its already above 1million views already. 🤦🏾‍♀

    • @AmongGangstas
      @AmongGangstas หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Too late. 😂🤣

    • @takinganewapproachpodcast2994
      @takinganewapproachpodcast2994 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Definitely about to check it out lol

    • @stacysummers3347
      @stacysummers3347 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Good point.

  • @TinaTaylorMade
    @TinaTaylorMade หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    i wish i could give this a million likes! This was refreshing and heart-warming because I hadn't heard a Black man (since my dad who was raised in the 30's and 40's) openly voice their love and support for Black women.

  • @aliciajohnson8264
    @aliciajohnson8264 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    Thank you for speaking up and standing up for us!

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS หลายเดือนก่อน

      Diddy Denied Bail TWICE! Pleads Not Guilty - th-cam.com/video/byAuMAKX0S0/w-d-xo.html

  • @louisehancock324
    @louisehancock324 หลายเดือนก่อน +222

    Thank you young men for bringing to the forefront the struggles and strengths of Black women. I am 71 years old and men of my generation very seldom denigrated Black women as some men of this generation . We had the same issue with lack of males in the household but most males of my generation understood our challenges as Black people and tried to respect and support each other. God Bless you.🙏🏾

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd หลายเดือนก่อน

      Y'all are crazy AF! Who TF wants a combative female? Your female is supposed to be agreeable not a cantankerous Chihuahua. The angry BLK female 100% a fact. These one off stories don't replicate the overall representation of the modern day female.

    • @JohnShaft5.0
      @JohnShaft5.0 หลายเดือนก่อน

      These women make themselves look bad. Don’t blame men.!! What the wear how they act and the respect they show themselves ain’t at level that’s respectable so men shouldn’t force respect on the same women who used to SCREAM LET US DO WHAT WE WANT, equality.!! And this what y’all did with it…. #Ratchet

  • @vgb10dst
    @vgb10dst หลายเดือนก่อน +595

    As a black woman, all I can say is THANK YOU!

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd หลายเดือนก่อน

      Y'all are crazy AF! Who TF wants a combative female? Your female is supposed to be agreeable not a cantankerous Chihuahua. The angry BLK female 100% a fact. These one off stories don't replicate the overall representation of the modern day female.

    • @elshadayaredo
      @elshadayaredo หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      THISSS!!! Because we are tired , and how are we never in the room, but in all the conversations!😫

    • @getfit23
      @getfit23 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Amen! It felt so good to hear all of them on the same page with defending us. ❤

    • @stick2dascript99
      @stick2dascript99 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's hard, when we get serious about life improvements it's a problem, they want us poor and broke and popping out kids to help the next trump get elected, so many white politicians made millions from doing this very thing aka Newt Gingrich is one of them and yes I'm older so I know.

    • @JohnShaft5.0
      @JohnShaft5.0 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As black man, I say not all black women are the women they’re describing, and everyone needs to be held accountable…
      I don’t believe in imaginary pedestals

  • @carterb9541
    @carterb9541 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ughh, the last monolog did it for me. Made me cry. I feel so seen. Thank you 🥹

    • @Novem3ber11
      @Novem3ber11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being seen shouldn't be what you value, but heard and respected, if you're worthy of it.

    • @Novem3ber11
      @Novem3ber11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being seen shouldn't be what you value, but heard and respected if you are a woman of integrity and moraal.

  • @imanirenee4681
    @imanirenee4681 หลายเดือนก่อน +602

    Thank you black men for speaking up for us!! Means more than you know

    • @flash2k807
      @flash2k807 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      You have to also thank future, sexy red, and all the hip-hop rappers that depict black women in the manner other cultures see us as

    • @cocoblessings
      @cocoblessings หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep!🥰

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd หลายเดือนก่อน

      Y'all are crazy AF! Who TF wants a combative female? Your female is supposed to be agreeable not a cantankerous Chihuahua. The angry BLK female 100% a fact. These one off stories don't replicate the overall representation of the modern day female.

    • @BlackMist123
      @BlackMist123 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      now bw have to stick up for us when other bw bash bm with fake/false stats.

    • @cocoblessings
      @cocoblessings หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@BlackMist123 We got you, my Brotha!🤴🏾

  • @BRLambert4
    @BRLambert4 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    I am sorry, i dont know the names of any of these men, but the man who talked of his mother and wife and his experience with black woman ....The love he has for the woman who raised him and the woman he married is just so beautiful and powerful.

    • @lcarp545
      @lcarp545 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That's Ryan Clark

  • @carasimmons6229
    @carasimmons6229 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    The speech at the end made me cry😢. Thank you!

  • @malikawinzor3076
    @malikawinzor3076 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Speak on that!!! Nothing left to be said. Respect!!!

  • @hamptonsfnst2014
    @hamptonsfnst2014 หลายเดือนก่อน +588

    He's too comfortable saying what he said in front of black men. That demonstrated a lack of respect for the guests and their families. He knew those two wouldn't check him about the racist and disparaging comments.
    Thank you brothas for addressing this issue and not dismissing your wives, mothers, sisters and daughters' plight to exist and navigate in a patriarchal world as a Black woman.
    Melanin magic is real🤎🤎🤎

    • @IdunnoBroIjdk
      @IdunnoBroIjdk หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Just one question, what if yall are wrong?

    • @milkofthepuppy
      @milkofthepuppy หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@IdunnoBroIjdkthat’s the same question I have about American history what if it’s wrong or a well orchestrated lie!! The “daughters of the Confederacy” is just one way that could’ve been done this directly impacts your grandparents and great grandparents as well!! Manifest destiny look it up. I have plenty more but I know you’ll likely say CRT!! That’s why I say what if it is a lie?!?

    • @EphraimBlack-f5x
      @EphraimBlack-f5x หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Context, context, context! This is in NO WAY a defense of Andrew Shultz. I have disliked him way before this incident.
      Andrew’s podcast is called FLAGRANT.
      I thought flagrant meant bold. But to be sure I looked it up. Flagrant means obviously wrong, obviously offensive.
      These UK brothers went on a show they were unprepared for.
      Andrew’s show is obnoxious and offensive on PURPOSE.
      When you go on his show you better be prepared to talk sh*t and challenge him. You gotta be like Aries Spears and Godfrey. Aries and Godfrey will laugh but the will check someone like Andrew. Fuhad and James folded.
      Update: Fuhad and James were never gonna defend Black women because they don’t like them. I just saw one of their older videos.
      In the video Fuhad tells James a story about him watching a Black tv show with a particular yt girl. The yt girl notices a Black actress on screen and says “I want to be her.” Fuhad questioned, “What?” The yt girl replies , “I want to be Black.”
      As Fuhad tells this story James chimes in “Jesus Christ! To which Fuhad replies “It’s mad isn’t it?” James responds again with “Jesus Christ!!
      Then James says, “If she WERE Black she couldn’t GET a Black guy.” Both Fuhad and James laugh at this statement.
      Then James makes this comment about the yt girl. “She’s white!! She’s already WINNING!”
      Fuhad smiles.
      Okay then.

    • @tradishawatkins7333
      @tradishawatkins7333 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely not! We will not excuse what he said because his show is "bold" and meant to be offensive. Black people are so disrespected because we commonly excuse/dismiss deliberate racism/sexism/ignorance/hate towards our people. You dont see him making offensive jokes about jewish women and you know why? Because they are a protected group and the backlash would be swift and unified from the jewish community ​@@EphraimBlack-f5x

    • @legendofblockparty1858
      @legendofblockparty1858 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Melanin magic wtf....goofy...

  • @Yourfavbbw44
    @Yourfavbbw44 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I understand and respect all three point of views 💯
    but when the last guy spoke, my heart swelled up as I fought back tears from my eyes. I’ve never seen or heard a black man defend us so passionately! And for that,
    I thank you so much!

  • @shahondawson6286
    @shahondawson6286 หลายเดือนก่อน +359

    Thank you black men for recognizing, acknowledging, and speaking up for us. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

    • @MakeWay4CJ
      @MakeWay4CJ หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Oh stop! Why are you thanking him? Do they ever thank us when we defend them or so they just move like that's what we're SUPPOSED to do? So we don't need to pander. A simple head nod is fine.

    • @refinedquality3033
      @refinedquality3033 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@MakeWay4CJthank you this is embarrassing

    • @Onlytheprodigalson
      @Onlytheprodigalson หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No Do Better

    • @oaktree1626
      @oaktree1626 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@MakeWay4CJA lot of traumatized people in these comments lashing out 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @bibicayman1790
      @bibicayman1790 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl they don't defend you so stop being a weirdo thanking them for nothing like a battered dog.

  • @juanitaclark-e7x
    @juanitaclark-e7x หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    THANK YOU! You gentlemen brought me to tears as I welled up with pride at seeing and hearing you speak on this moment. You created a space for dialogue while expressing your outrage with eloquence. Again THANK YOU!!

  • @mjx1990
    @mjx1990 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    Thank you for this
    Sincerely,
    A Black woman

  • @michellee7469
    @michellee7469 หลายเดือนก่อน +414

    I’m white and my best friend of 28 years is black…I’m way more “argumentative” or “difficult” than she is, by far. I wish society would just let people be individuals instead of always trying to put them in a labeled box.

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      When you have a certain bias and view an entire group of women a certain way it doesn’t even matter to them

    • @songbird9444
      @songbird9444 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      But they do have bad attitudes and big mouths. Way more than any other women I've met.

    • @monharris28
      @monharris28 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      @@songbird9444 you need to meet more of us--there are kind, shy, quiet, pacifist, soft-spoken, positive, black women too--we are not a monolith

    • @JOHNKIRBY2077
      @JOHNKIRBY2077 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts!!!!💯

    • @goddesslov3338
      @goddesslov3338 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      @@monharris28 nah just by his or her ignorant comment, I can see what type of person they are 😂😂 Keep people like that away from us 😂😂😂 You attract what you are , that person ain’t attracting nothing like us 😂😂😂

  • @cassiiecassa
    @cassiiecassa หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Thank you! This made me emotional and I’m thinking to myself why am I getting emotional, it’s because this was sincere and unfortunately we don’t hear this enough. I’m a black woman, I’m first generation Haitian woman and with all the hate spewing it is exhausting. Thank yall for your kind genuine words. We need to hear it.

  • @diondion3053
    @diondion3053 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you ; I broke down yesterday, it’s so hard to navigate out here with ppl always projecting on you & the podcast are making it worse .

  • @Bigbaggzceo
    @Bigbaggzceo หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Glad you guys are using your platform to speak up for our women…..

  • @pamelamartin1181
    @pamelamartin1181 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    I want to thank you and especially your mothers and wives for showing you how to love them and other black women!!! RC, Channing & Fred ❤❤❤

    • @MR.CHARACTER23
      @MR.CHARACTER23 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@pamelamartin1181 please enlighten me how you are supposed to love black women? Because it seems that you guys need to be treated differently then other ethnicities. please elucidate

    • @andrewthomas364
      @andrewthomas364 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      By being respectful (as in not disrespectful), patient, kind, merciful, compassionate, sympathetic, generous, etc. Treat them as the neighbor in "love thy neighbor". Thank you & you're welcome.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd หลายเดือนก่อน

      Y'all are crazy AF! Who TF wants a combative female? Your female is supposed to be agreeable not a cantankerous Chihuahua. The angry BLK female 100% a fact. These one off stories don't replicate the overall representation of the modern day female.

    • @dy9300
      @dy9300 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@MR.CHARACTER23 don't fall for stereotypes. Be genuine. Be as kind and respectful as you'd want someone to be with you. Cherish her. You get out of it what you put into it. Andrew has clearly been rejected by a black woman before and he still has feelings about it. He's lashing out so his rejection doesn't feel so bad. I see men head over heels gushing about their black wives all the time. Andrew is just bitter.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MR.CHARACTER23treat them with extreme caution as the vast majority of them don’t have respect for men. They see men as a way to a better life for THEMSELVES! It will be like finding a needle in a haystack to find a BLK female who isn’t: boisterous, ghetto, a BM, curse, smoke or who wears weave/wigs, long eyelashes/nails, or a BBL.

  • @Crettyface1
    @Crettyface1 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    The ignorance is at an all time high all across the board… You see this a lot and it’s beyond sad..
    Thank you so much for sharing this Gratitude✨

  • @DeeWilliams
    @DeeWilliams หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I just wanna say, I have never been so emotional watching a TH-cam video. The words that this young brother expressed about black women is right on.. I could tell they came from his heart, and this video should go viral ASAP. I really appreciate the support. Keep up the good work.🥰🥰🥰

  • @whataretheaudz
    @whataretheaudz หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    thank you for this! to see a group of black men that are loud and proud about us is so refreshing! you men have no idea how much these kinds of videos mean to us! thank you for seeing us and protecting us

    • @hueyfreeman5509
      @hueyfreeman5509 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just wish yall would do the same for us

    • @keepitsimpleplease9039
      @keepitsimpleplease9039 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hueyfreeman5509 Did you not hear what Ryan said about what blk women have done for blk men publicly? The whole Black Lives Matter movement (started by blk women) was mostly about blk men and the criminal justice system. For the past 40 years blk men have taken the opportunity to publicly degrade blk women through movies and music, embraced being pimps, players, thugs and gangsters. If you are going to be leaders, start by being a good example in your family and community.

  • @shayl2493
    @shayl2493 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Excellent and well said Black Men!!! Thank you for appreciating and defending us, Black Women!

  • @melanatedgod7604
    @melanatedgod7604 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    As a black man who's ALWAYS speaking up for our women, thank you brothers for pushing back and speaking up for our sisters. We are all we got, and we need to check the disrespect at all times.

    • @erosnectar5481
      @erosnectar5481 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you 😊 ❤

    • @melanatedgod7604
      @melanatedgod7604 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@erosnectar5481 Thank you!

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not YOUR women. Black women don't belong to any male group, only to God our Creator.

    • @bryonstevenson1084
      @bryonstevenson1084 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂 Tell em King

    • @misjuiceefroot
      @misjuiceefroot หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And thank you too!

  • @MsMonte73
    @MsMonte73 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank You Ryan! You're words were eloquent, powerful and truthful. I stand with you. 💯

  • @Happiness11100
    @Happiness11100 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    I'm Jamaican British and we have the same issues here, the same stereotypes, the same expectations, the same discrimination and the same disrespect for example there is a campaign over here to get our natural hair recognised as acceptable/business appropriate.
    What Andrew, James and Fuhad did was deeply hurtful I don't understand the obsession with hurting us, disrespecting us it's just sad.

    • @JesusLovesEVERYTHING
      @JesusLovesEVERYTHING หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Projection

    • @chembiz
      @chembiz หลายเดือนก่อน

      They try to lift themselves up by putting BW down.

    • @milkofthepuppy
      @milkofthepuppy หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The campaign for natural hair to be business appropriate. That’s projecting lol!!! See how these YT’s move cut your hair and do it the way we like so we can hire you with confidence. Yeah that looks like projecting to me

    • @AmongGangstas
      @AmongGangstas หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nobody cares.

    • @Amara53
      @Amara53 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@AmongGangstasyou commented, so you must care.

  • @BiscuiT8858
    @BiscuiT8858 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    Beautiful explanation of being a Black Woman.

    • @PhonkEcho
      @PhonkEcho หลายเดือนก่อน

      Schulz didn't lie though. 2:05 And Crowder confirmed black women are strong. Man does not have to be a b**ch if he says he dont want that.

  • @jamilalove77
    @jamilalove77 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Let the church say AMEN! Thank you all for your comments! I love to hear Black Kings talk love and respect for their Black Queens! Be blessed.

  • @roea7846
    @roea7846 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you, gentlemen, for standing up for black women publicly. This is the support we need from men.

  • @billbixby366
    @billbixby366 หลายเดือนก่อน +379

    Andrew Schulz talk too much. He too comfortable talking about black people cause of Charlemagne.

    • @ItsMrstoyouboo
      @ItsMrstoyouboo หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      You're absolutely correct. I totally agree, Charlemagne really gave that man some Juice in his tank to be comfortable.

    • @PJ-cm8ix
      @PJ-cm8ix หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      He's made a few touchy remarks about Indians too, I really do feel like he thinks he's part of the 'culture' due to his proximity with people of color and Charlamagne or Aakaash need to check his ass before he encounters a real one

    • @Ogwiseman_
      @Ogwiseman_ หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      HE'S A COMEDIAN 😂. he speaks on every race offensively

    • @diamondscloudznizcream9839
      @diamondscloudznizcream9839 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Until he end up in the wrong place and get his shit smacked

    • @diamondscloudznizcream9839
      @diamondscloudznizcream9839 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @Ogwiseman_ sounds like you are trying to hold his hand on this one. We not talking about other races.

  • @asb9502
    @asb9502 หลายเดือนก่อน +494

    Thank you. I almost want to cry. Just know it means the world when You all See us and our journey.

    • @shahondawson6286
      @shahondawson6286 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yes ma'am!

    • @kristinjohnson8164
      @kristinjohnson8164 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re a 🤡

    • @soyveritas8262
      @soyveritas8262 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Same! This clip made me realize how rare it is to see Black men (outside my family members) speak up for Black women so beautifully.

    • @christopherthomas8211
      @christopherthomas8211 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Why do you need validation from random married ex football players

    • @christopherthomas8211
      @christopherthomas8211 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@soyveritas8262so you have a supportive family but also need validation from random media personalities you have no connection with?

  • @traceylankford12
    @traceylankford12 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    This is why I love these 3 black men. Thank you for loving us enough to speak up in our defense.

  • @bayge71
    @bayge71 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you.. thank you. For standing up for us and beside us..

  • @daniella8400
    @daniella8400 หลายเดือนก่อน +320

    As a black woman, we just want to be left alone! Do yall thing but leave us out of it. We are tired!! Just leave us alone

    • @catchwreck928
      @catchwreck928 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well it was BW who went out their way to put WM on a pedestal with this #blkwifeeffect crap and now that they know
      its open season. wtf did yall expect lol. now yall talking about yall tired and leave us alone but you aint
      tryna leave them alone..smh

    • @AmongGangstas
      @AmongGangstas หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Trust me. We don’t want to deal with y’all AT ALL. I respect your wishes 😂😂😂😂

    • @daniella8400
      @daniella8400 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      @@AmongGangstas and that’s totally okay but leave us alone in silence. Keep that to yourself and stop talking about someone you don’t want.

    • @jaquinrice7923
      @jaquinrice7923 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​​@@daniella8400 BW trash BM all day every day on social media, but no one is supposed to bat an eye? Talking about a specific group is not trying to bother that race. You just didn't like what they had to say, so just admit that. Andrew is a whole comedian who comes after every ethnic group across the board. No one is safe when it comes to him. 😂💯

    • @jaquinrice7923
      @jaquinrice7923 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​@@daniella8400BW trash BM all day everyday on social media, but no one is supposed to bat an eye or call that out? Talking about a specific group is not harrasing that group. You just didn't like what they had to say, so just admit that. Andrew is a whole flagrant comedian. He comes after every ethnic group. No one is safe when it comes to him. 😂💯

  • @tangelaholmes76
    @tangelaholmes76 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Salute My Black Men. Thank you for having our backs❤❤

  • @michaelbell8627
    @michaelbell8627 หลายเดือนก่อน +293

    I like how Ryan said, "I think he got too comfortable." The truth is the black community is a community that is constantly under the microscope. They watch and study us so much that they feel comfortable with us. When I say they I am referring to people worldwide. We have such a spotlight on us that they think they know us and you can't know us unless you're us.

    • @blackredwhiteandblue1440
      @blackredwhiteandblue1440 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That Part- ❤

    • @joshuakohn4408
      @joshuakohn4408 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol, the victim mentality yall have should be studied under a microscope lmfao

    • @oldmanemptyhouse7659
      @oldmanemptyhouse7659 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ain't nobody checking for yall like that 😂

    • @preciousgem84
      @preciousgem84 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's wild is, like you said they think they know us. They really don't pay attention to US really like they think they do. They let the media tell them who we are, yet the media's interpretation of the black experience is a far cry from who WE really are.

    • @tiffanymcdaniels5652
      @tiffanymcdaniels5652 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

  • @KendrickXLamar--
    @KendrickXLamar-- หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always stand up for your community, especially your women and children.

  • @christianwilliams7861
    @christianwilliams7861 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Well said gentlemen! Great breakdown Ryan

    • @noahamin4real
      @noahamin4real หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Ryan really said a powerful and positive perspective.

  • @williamwaters3944
    @williamwaters3944 หลายเดือนก่อน +351

    I bet you he won’t run his mouth in the presence of a real one. Respect to these brothers.

    • @morrisahj
      @morrisahj หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Thank you! I’m sure it won’t be happening again 🤐

    • @soyveritas8262
      @soyveritas8262 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Indeed! 🎯

    • @azraelfirstofhisname8695
      @azraelfirstofhisname8695 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Yeah like you gonna do something about it 😂

    • @AndreKing4
      @AndreKing4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      What’s a real one ? An overly emotional black man with nothing to lose ?? We got to many of those that’s why our neighbors look the way they do

    • @williamwaters3944
      @williamwaters3944 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      @@AndreKing4 you’re being too vanilla with your perspective. Andrew won’t say certain things in front of certain people. He knows better. There are more ways than violence to challenge someone’s point of view, like intellectual debate.

  • @MakeWay4CJ
    @MakeWay4CJ หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Also, I don't know if black men understand this, but when any other groups of men talk badly about another man's women, that's a sign of disrespect to that man. That's typically fighting words. So when Andrew felt THAT comfortable to disrespect black women in front of black men, he did it because he knew that he could probably get away with it and to see if they were smart enough to realize that he was lowkey disrespecting them as well...and they let him do both.

    • @bbills4186
      @bbills4186 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      💯💯. Andrew Schultz has a huge following and he telegraphed a bat-signal to other groups of men, that it's ok to denigrate BW in front of BM. He is telling them I got away with it and y'all can too. 😢🙄

    • @AleciaRenece
      @AleciaRenece หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @H20X
      @H20X หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just like we talk bad about other race of women...nice try on trying to redirect that the white man you worship disrespected you

    • @chitownzfinesthustla
      @chitownzfinesthustla หลายเดือนก่อน

      That doesn’t work when bw have said for years on here they’re not our women

    • @chitownzfinesthustla
      @chitownzfinesthustla หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bbills4186except they’re not black

  • @arigodut
    @arigodut หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ryan’s words brought me to tears. Thank you so much for saying what you said in the way you did because you truly understand how we feel. I’ve sat and wondered too many times why is it Black men who have these podcasts and go on these shows leading the charge on our disrespect. You don’t see it in the same magnitude as Black men. I had to delete Tik Tok because it was rampant on there. I’m talking 5 hour lives where the topic is Black women and 5 Black men just shitting on us. I’ll push back and say it’s not a cultural thing because I’m Canadian but these same tropes and BS I experience here. The Black woman in Europe experience the same problem too. James and Fuhad knew better but they choose not too because they thought it was funny and they have their own insecurities within about their Blackness/views towards Black woman. I hope that this experience they have truly learned to do better.
    I also find it’s the men who don’t date Black woman or who choose to date outside the race are the loudest because they need “reasons.” Why don’t you just say why you like your partner? Why do you need to attack us and make us feel like dirt? It makes no sense.
    I went on a rant but thank you for this. Black women are diverse and it’s exhausting, painful, and traumatizing to be constantly told that you are only one thing: loud, angry, aggressive, ugly, and undesirable. We are beautiful, passionate, loving, creative, caring, kind, loveable… we are and can be so much but it’s like the world wants us to see ourselves as monsters.

  • @dishon8911
    @dishon8911 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I felt that “sit him DOWN”. Amazing breakdown of the black women experience. Thank you!

  • @GodFirstInallthings
    @GodFirstInallthings หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Black men, when you speak up for Black women the way you just did it warms my heart as a Black woman. Our heavenly father sits high and looks low. So although the enemy may try to give you push with his demonic agenda toward the black woman, know that us real black women with no platform support you and King Jesus will. God Bless you all.

  • @marcusthompson7759
    @marcusthompson7759 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    This is why I watch you brothers because yall stand on your blackness and will not allow people to talk about our black women in a negative way and not be checked. ✊🏾✊🏾

    • @deepaulie8701
      @deepaulie8701 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And if you can’t do that just stop disrespecting us whilst we are minding our own business

  • @donventura2116
    @donventura2116 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Getting rid of these stigmas takes both improving the overall perception of black culture and for black men to defend black women. People feel comfortable insulting black women because they've seen enough black men allow these things to be said without consequence.

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Thank yall. Much love❤I’m sick of being hated but I guess that means we’re doing something right ladies🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Wanda-et4dh
    @Wanda-et4dh หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Good to see black men defending black women.

  • @MrKkilla24
    @MrKkilla24 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    CTG has to take catch some of these cause he's definitely the reason Amdrew feel so comfortable speaking on ANY BLACK EXPERIENCE 💯💯🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @sakibfuseini891
      @sakibfuseini891 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly I sgree

    • @jfongborden1
      @jfongborden1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Guys.....they are mocking the people who actually think that way. It's an act. Like sketch comedy without the props. They have broken character so many times and explained this. They don't actually believe what they're saying....its fake. Right wing nuts were supporting them until they realized, "wait a minute, he's mocking us!" 😂
      Them being clipped & taken out of context is a running joke on both podcasts.
      People being outraged by these clips is the definition of rage bait.

    • @natasha8928
      @natasha8928 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He always defends black women tho. One thing I can say is that he always speaks about how blk men should prefer to marry blk queens. I just wonder if he’ll say something about this situation w Schulz in his presence on air at any point.

    • @morrisahj
      @morrisahj หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Charlamagne is clown too tbh 🤷🏾‍♀️🤡

    • @closetfreakish
      @closetfreakish หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @vickiealexander2910
    @vickiealexander2910 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    These guys spoke truth to the souls of black women. We endure so much and sometimes all we want from him is to say thank you, be called beautiful or let us know how much we are appreciated. Thank you, gentlemen, for shining the spot light ✨️ on real truth.

  • @ObjectivelyBias
    @ObjectivelyBias หลายเดือนก่อน +290

    His association of black women with aggression and non-black women with compliance is noteworthy. This is the same lame that tried to call Russel Wilson lame. Smh

    • @JesusLovesEVERYTHING
      @JesusLovesEVERYTHING หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      That's what it's all about, who's easier to control and will take their bullshyt

    • @Jay.isaiah
      @Jay.isaiah หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree 100%

    • @joshuakohn4408
      @joshuakohn4408 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You have bias in your name lmfao. I think that says enough

    • @ScoutsHonor.
      @ScoutsHonor. หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is the black woman not combative? She even says you have to be strong to deal with her.. People like you and these guys are the reason most of yall have to tolerate bs from these broads. Lol

    • @ZEFFENWULF
      @ZEFFENWULF หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you ever interacted with an American black woman? It’s like pulling teeth. African women are vastly superior

  • @msbamabasketball4436
    @msbamabasketball4436 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Then keep in mind Schulz also made other racist remarks during the episode, including comments about slavery, disparaging opinions about Nigerian people, and insinuating that James and Fuhad’s claims of being attracted to women of all races were a cover for their unspoken preference for white women, which Schulz claimed they were too embarrassed to admit. Yet they continued to laugh. Pure scust 😢

    • @latisaholm5700
      @latisaholm5700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can happily say. I've never heard of this pos.

    • @jfongborden1
      @jfongborden1 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      (not defending or attacking, just providing context)
      Andrew's pod has a satirical theme. Like the Daily Show. They say the outrageous thing to mock people who actually believe it. Andrew has broken character and explained this several times. Their long-time viewers are aware it's satire. Andrew doesn't actually believe what he's saying. And like the Daily Show, the satire is turned on/off throughout their conversation.
      The rage-bait cycle:
      Someone takes a clip of the satire out of context to rage bait. People take the bait, form an opinion, make videos, news reports, articles, etc. For Andrew's supporters, it's hilarious because they know it's clearly satire. They know Andrew & the crew don't actually believe the outrageous thing. Afterwards, they laugh at people for taking the bait.
      This rage bait cycle has been happening to Andrew for years. Different communities & corners of the internet have fallen for the rage bait. There are tons of response videos. If I didn't know John Stewart and I saw a clip of him joking about the water in Flint, I would think he's a horrible person. I get it.

    • @nehemiahprince4644
      @nehemiahprince4644 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They have openly discussed their preferences for non-black women on their podcast. Schultz was calling them out to their faces. He is very race conscious and is familiar with their rhetoric. He couldn't joke about it with they weren't the jokes that they (James and Fuhad) are.

    • @morrisahj
      @morrisahj หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@jfongborden1 I think this is where delivery and content become very important. I believe the Daily Show keeps their references more broad and even though it’s satire, they’re still inadvertently condemning whatever wrongdoing that’s the topic of the conversation. It’s a round about way of calling attention to certain issue by highlighting the innate problems about it with the use of satire. I feel like Andrew is taking well-known and likely frowned upon tropes then hyping them up to go viral. Maybe I get the point, but there’s certainly two ways to go about things. One has more consequences and certainly leaves a bad taste in lots of mouths. If that’s what he’s decided he likes to do, then I’m sure he’s happy to stand by whatever backlash might come his way.

    • @lupe556
      @lupe556 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ya'll are so fragile it's ridiculous. The show is called flagrant of course there are offensive jokes.

  • @Laura-sg6ss
    @Laura-sg6ss หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    As a Black Brit, nah, it ain't the European thing. The similarities are STAGGERING, to be honest, globally it is quite interesting to watch the same phenomenon chilling in all types of environments that Black men are at.
    I do think that their upbringings makes them care less. One has a white mother and the other, you can tell, was probably always the only Black guy and not the "cool" one either. I feel like they've been cackling for a while to... in their words "just move on." But to be honest, you can see how they don't really connect with the Black women experience. But that's absolutely in Britain and Europe at large and America and Latin America and Asia and on the continent. Honestly, it is SO interesting to watch like you literally see the copy and paste. And Charlamagne is an example of this, that man isn't gonna sit anybody down and explain anything at all. He thinks the same, he won't even see what is wrong with what has happened - "just a joke" is all we can expect to be real and it's the same here, France, Venezuela and Burundi. Just won't be taking seriously.
    Also if you wanna know about the Black British experience, I say go for it, there's loads of documentaries from the 40s up until now in particular - maybe start at the Windrush Generation as a starting point although we have been around for longer e.g. post WW1 or even before that in the Victorian and Elizabeth periods and BEFORE lol but that's more digging - and I think it is important to note what happens to us all globally so we can relate one another better and understand each other's context so we come at each other with a level of respect, compassion based on knowledge etc. I didn't need to know the history to do that for African Americans but it certainly helps me to pull up with facts and am even GREATER amount of reverence you know?

    • @user-dv3kq3rm4h
      @user-dv3kq3rm4h หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Blk British here as well. Sometimes I feel like comments like yours just sit in a vid and no one is actually listening. People like Fuhad and James have a large voice and platform but I actually don't think they are representative of a lot of Blk British people and thse of us who love ourselves get no exposure. I would love to see more Blk Americans learning about the Windrush experience and our culture and learning how we aren't all like these two self-hating clowns.

    • @B.Sunshine
      @B.Sunshine หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      As an African American woman I will be sure to not allow this fall on blind eyes. Because I know the Black experience can be just as crazy in the UK as it is in America. Let me do some more research starting with Windrush. Blessings 🙏🏾

    • @andreajones2700
      @andreajones2700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-dv3kq3rm4h greetings sis, I was thinking the same thing but as a us born blk I hear you both loud and clear. I found out that that you brits have the same issues as we have, as well as the rest of the diaspora a while ago from another podcast no less..lol, go figure. Another thing, I think people are putting British Blks in a box in this conversation.

  • @TheMossProject
    @TheMossProject หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also…let’s hold Charlemagne accountable for platforming Andrew. Birds of a feather.

  • @micheleking3160
    @micheleking3160 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    They messed up their money kikiing with Andrew about black women. Now they money taking a hit because most of their audience were black women. How do you not know your audience?

    • @dmblake4
      @dmblake4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Pride cometh before the fall. But let's be honest, some black women don't know their worth, hence they won't go anyway. They will stay their fans.

    • @jerromimuckle139
      @jerromimuckle139 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Because the UK is very different from America.
      A UK black man or woman is very different from an American one

    • @soyveritas8262
      @soyveritas8262 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Selling out one's community comes at a high price. I can't imagine allowing someone to play in my face with racist rhetoric about communities I belong to on a large platform and just laughing like a clown.

    • @ochacal7794
      @ochacal7794 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They didn't... their audience is more diverse. Black women are only 10%

    • @twill5077
      @twill5077 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ochacal7794 good for them. Now they can support them. And it's strange how BW are so insignificant to their numbers while being unable to keep their names out of their lips. Now you can be gone too with your negative bs.

  • @angelatucker8778
    @angelatucker8778 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I am joyful to hear black men stand up ten toes down for me and black women. We love you more than words can say! We have supported you when any race has tried to downplay who you all are. This is what we need to feel safe and protected while living in this dangerous world. It's open season on hurting and killing our people without any accountability for their wrong. My heart is heavy just knowing no matter how hard we try it seems to be never enough for some people. As a mother of two capable black men and three intelligent grandsons I am thankful for you men speaking the truth of the matter. May all of you continue to be blessed. As women we are really giving our all to keep our culture together in love 💕.

    • @H20X
      @H20X หลายเดือนก่อน

      Imagine standing up for a race of women who said we are bullet Bags, the cops are not unaliving us fast enough, white men are better, use the billionaire for black women fake quote to talk down on black men once again, i need me a white man, black men are at the lowest amongst all me..

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not we, just you. Many other Black women think differently

  • @prettysmile777
    @prettysmile777 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Life. This clip of verbal support for black women feels life-giving. Thank you.

    • @rosehiggins6510
      @rosehiggins6510 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes 👏🏽 👍🏽 and also thanks to these gentlemen for their constant professionalism on this podcast.

  • @MizzJem
    @MizzJem หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for speaking up for Black women. We carry the Black family on our backs with little acknowledgement or appreciation.

  • @aydreeanrose
    @aydreeanrose หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    This is so like heart warming! I’m feel heard, yall get it!

  • @RODTWILLIAMS
    @RODTWILLIAMS หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Finally someone say some to Andrew Shultz . He always disrespect our race and our culture and no one never speaks on it . Thanks so much for speaking on this . And if you guys dig up his content you will for sure see his true colors .

    • @KNWBDY.important
      @KNWBDY.important หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      And he chucks on him "blaccent" every now & then too. Absolute clown tbh.

    • @mikegeee3319
      @mikegeee3319 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And black comedians don't? Yea right

    • @nicolelewis6312
      @nicolelewis6312 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, I've watched comedy shows with Black comedians that say much worse about BW and everyone in audience laughs. Why is it okay in certain circumstances and not in others? @@mikegeee3319

    • @jfongborden1
      @jfongborden1 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      It's satire. Andrew is mocking the people who actually believe those crazy things. He has broken character and explained this so many times. If John Stewart or Steven Cobert say something outrageous we dont take it literal, we recognize the satire & laugh. People have been falling for the rage bait for years. That's the running joke on both his podcasts.

    • @millieconsultancy
      @millieconsultancy หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you Sir, that man has been abusing our culture for many years. Pick me, Mr C. God will sit😮t next to him and protect him from doing it.

  • @ulyssesgrant1781
    @ulyssesgrant1781 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you Mr. Clark for the uplift of our women. Too many of us give the non Black people a pass when disrespecting us.

  • @kezlynmilliner1892
    @kezlynmilliner1892 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you guys for speaking up for us.

  • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
    @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    As a Black British woman I can tell you that James and Fuhad’s response to a white man disrespecting Black women, Nigerians and laughing it up with him was not something many Black British people agree with or would have tolerated. Most of us wouldn’t have given Shultz the time of day by being on his show. Most of us would have confronted him or left. I say most because all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk. Shultz has been allowed to get too comfortable by Charlemagne and those stooges Shultz has on his show.
    Fuhad and James were in over their heads and did not know how to respond which would have been difficult to navigate as clearly they share some of Shultz’s opinions. 🙄 Bottom line you never let cultural or racist so called ‘jokes’ or statements fly. Ever!
    I appreciate this conversation. I hope James and Fuhad hear this and learn from their experience. I also hope that their mental health is OK because the backlash and everyone coming down on them cannot be easy.

    • @matthewsills5559
      @matthewsills5559 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree with everything said here and commend the compassion

    • @JJ-mx3pd
      @JJ-mx3pd หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said. Heavy on the ‘in over their heads’ and holding the same sentiments. It was shameful to watch. 🇬🇧

    • @bloom4096
      @bloom4096 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      "Bottom line you never let cultural or racist so called ‘jokes’ or statements fly. Ever!" THIS!! 💯💯💯

  • @T_era_David
    @T_era_David หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    This was some good stuff. I absolutely love these guys ❤
    Ryan Clark, you are HIM.

    • @SIRUSSAYS
      @SIRUSSAYS หลายเดือนก่อน

      Diddy Denied Bail TWICE! Pleads Not Guilty - th-cam.com/video/byAuMAKX0S0/w-d-xo.html

    • @ebonyjackson5777
      @ebonyjackson5777 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is HIM

  • @miraclesmelodies
    @miraclesmelodies หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This touched my heart, truly. Thank you men of the Pivot 👏🏾 not a lie told.

  • @moncler5691
    @moncler5691 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shout out to you guys man. I can get how people might think it’s “not that serious” but as a black dude it really gets tiring and played out. I can only imagine what it’d feel like as a black woman. Kudos again for calling it out

  • @ms.evegene
    @ms.evegene หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    If a wyt boy can say things about BW to BM , i wonder how he feels about the BM..... (🐍)

    • @rygetit811
      @rygetit811 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Homo sapiens sapiens kandake

    • @copperme
      @copperme หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They do not feel any way.

    • @rygetit811
      @rygetit811 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@copperme the emotion in the english lettering american expression is not the purpose of a human body

    • @soyveritas8262
      @soyveritas8262 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They think of them as inferior anyway but when they can play in a BM face like AS, they get off on it. They laugh at them behind their backs with their white friends.

    • @morrisahj
      @morrisahj หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Good point! 💡

  • @ELynRus-h
    @ELynRus-h หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    The problem is allowing outside ppl minding blk ppl experience, we owe no one outside of our communities a explanation....

    • @cocoblessings
      @cocoblessings หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree!

    • @MR.CHARACTER23
      @MR.CHARACTER23 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ELynRus-h well stop displaying dysfunction and chaos on social media, movies, Tv shows, and in your community. Then the stereotype will cease. Otherwise, hold your community accountable for the stigma surrounding black culture.

    • @mrjay3047
      @mrjay3047 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was going to ask who is Andrew Schulz?, not familiar even after looking him up. Is he someone who tries to leech off of black culture in a way that is similar to Vlad

    • @marcustaylor6492
      @marcustaylor6492 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yet we’re allowed to speak on every other community if given the chance to give our input without repercussions, can’t have it both ways lol

  • @malmal3003
    @malmal3003 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This legitimately made me cry. Thank you.

  • @NikkiJayArtistry
    @NikkiJayArtistry หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i am seriously impressed how you fellas carry yourselves and dont "water down" your "blackness" but you actually elevate it by staying authentic in every aspect. I hope this makes sense. first time im seeing this podcast. Kudos

  • @frankieharrison356
    @frankieharrison356 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Ryan Clark is the Goat 💜 of this Show 🎯🎯🎯

  • @aintnoway6688
    @aintnoway6688 หลายเดือนก่อน +234

    The protect ALL women rubbed me the wrong way, this was specifically about black women, and here he goes with the ALL bs
    I’m a white man with a black wife, if I can see the bs she goes through, and go above and beyond to protect her I do gladly.
    NOTHING gets near her that’s negative, not physically, emotionally, verbally, mentally, spiritually, NOTHING AT ALL
    I prepared a place for her specifically, because since the day I met her, she has always prepared a place for me
    It’s a shame, and a disgrace to allow anyone to disrespect your group of women the way everyone does, NO it’s not ALL, other groups of women don’t go through what black women do, they can’t even pick up their phones without seeing slander 24/7 about them, and them alone
    This makes me sick
    How much weaker can you lot be?

    • @NRQ-zv5bp
      @NRQ-zv5bp หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      100%

    • @Jdcjr1991
      @Jdcjr1991 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      He said he wants to protect all women BUT he also said specifically black women. Don’t discount what he said

    • @kwoylee5617
      @kwoylee5617 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      That was a throwaway comment by Fred. RC and Channing spoke exclusively about Black women.

    • @Jdcjr1991
      @Jdcjr1991 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@kwoylee5617 he did say specifically black women in cases like this

    • @evapeace2385
      @evapeace2385 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Yeah, all women didn’t have to be brought up, like they don’t have communities of men waiting to protect them! This is about black women.❤

  • @millicenthamilton-kakowski8275
    @millicenthamilton-kakowski8275 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you, brothers, for uplifting us the way you did! I feel seen, heard & respected. Much ❤

  • @rayz5173
    @rayz5173 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK YOU GENTLEMEN FOR STANDING UP AND STANDING OUT! THANK YOU!