Colton Underwood Reveals Virginity To Becca | The Bachelorette US
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- Is Colton's virginity a deal breaker? After their whirlwind date in the Bahamas Colton Underwood makes an unexpected confession to Becca revealing that he's still a virgin! ➤ Subscribe ➤ bit.ly/BacheIorNation
The Bachelorette US
Season: 14 Episode: 07
Bachelorette: Becca Kufrin
Colton Underwood Reveals Virginity To Becca
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Who else is here watching this after Colton coming out 🙋🏻♀️
He basically came out already on The Bachelor. He made it very obvious when he mentioned the "locker room talk" about him and how he was different from the other male athletes. He just happened to disguise it under being a virgin, which was probably also true about him and of many closeted men. Truly happy for him that he can be who he is.
I’m here for it 😂🤣😂🤣🤣
I’m proud of him. ❤️ I saw it on GMA
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Bruhhhhh wait whattttttt
I just don't understand why she had to walk away from that. Like seriously, he a virgin. SO WHAT?
i am not that harsh towards her.
What's the big deal? I'm not understanding her reaction... He doesn't deserve her.
My guy was a virgin too so i thought he'd cum too fast or smth but he actually lasted an hour soo don't virgin shame, you might be pleasantly surprised
bathroom lol? ie. normal
Seems to me that she wants a guy who is already experienced in bed.
You don’t have to have sex to know that you have physical chemistry. I hate the mentality that some people have towards it. You can still be in love and have all that physical chemistry without having sex
Totally!
What’s the point to physical chemistry if you aren’t having sex?
I agree sadly its the american mentality and many people think like that
pinkandhugs how is it an “American mentality”? Abstinence is much more prevalent in the US then in most other areas...
Exactly!!
The worlds view on sex is so twisted. The fact that you haven't had it makes you un experienced to be in a relationship is ridiculous. Sex is meant to be enjoyed between two people who love each other.
Camila Pesantez true but physical chemistry is a huge part of being in a relationship and if they are at two different levels sex-wise it wouldn’t work out
Agreed
Camila Pesantez I agree exactly. It is very twisted it’s hard to find a good person much less someone who wants to wait for love
@@andrew1250 actually is she is so concerned about his sexual performance then she could teach him how to maneuver in bed.
Keep that same energy when you sleep with a dude that orgasms three seconds after penetration and passes out on top of you and says you’re amazing
You know why you are here on 14th April 2021, after the news.....😹😹😹
Team Colton! Don't ever be ashamed of your virginity Colton. True love waits.
Ngoni Griffith our boy is getting it
❤️ lose it when you’re ready
Or true like at least. True like was just fine with me and her at...age 40 for me. Yep.
Exactly the ones who wait are the real kings and queens, beautiful people
She belongs to the streets. God himself personally saved you bro. Any girl who walks away from you choosing to wait she for the streets.
Why get up a walk out of the room.. Bet that made him feel worse.
Michele Pinto She didnt walk out because of that idiot
Why are you calling Colton an idiot? Because he revealed the truth about himself? I think you're an idiot!
Michele Pinto yes
LJ 67 they weren’t calling colton an idiot, they were calling the person they replied to an idiot. they just didn’t put a comma
Just editing
The way she says "really?" when he first tells her says it all, it has a slightly disgusted undertone to it, with a stone cold face to match - no understanding or appreciation in her voice or face whatsoever. It doesn't matter how much she tries to hide it later, it's obvious she's not ok with it. She showed her honest reaction instinctively at the start, walked away (which was also rude) and then probably thought about it and realised she would look like a bad person to all her adoring fans if she didn't say she was ok with it, then tried to cover it up. Honestly if I was Colton I would just leave if I got that reaction after telling someone something I was proud of and meant a lot to me.
Tazny Vera I heard from the news Becca was going to the restroom
Tazny Vera I agree but the walking away was just and edit they made to make it more dramatic
She’s an adult and he basically just told her that he has zero experience with women.
Not many women would take that well.
It's kind of odd though to watch 9 minutes of everyone treating virginity like it's an actual physical deformity like wth haha
How is that a deal breaker? I think it's Hotttt. The fact that he's been walking around in the world with a face like that and still managed to maintain his virginity is Impressive. And why did she get up and leave the room only to come back and be totally ok with it? So dramatic this show. He's just a virgin, Becca. Calm down Lol.
Wow that's amazing. RESPECT
She did it most likely because the producers asked her to: they need those reflective close up shots for TV. It’s a moment that tends to carry some dramatic tension so they milk it for what it is worth.
He is quite handsome though, so it’s just as he said: he was focused on his career so he was not spending a lot of time on dating.
Well now we know why lol
@@cinematicgamingllc Lol I know Right! When I heard he came out I immediately remembered this episode! After watching his season I can't say I'm surprised.
Producers have a ton to do with everything that goes on. The drama must be there and if everything is all wonderful people wouldn't watch and that is the sad reality of reality television. I was told that they tell the girls to think about a time in life when you were really upset so that they CRY. Megan from Ben's season talked to me about the show ... the edit so much that they take words you said in earlier episode (like they might break up or not get the rose ) and then put it in the last episode to make it look like things won't work and they won't have a fairytale. Ya know it has to be the most dramatic season ever. Always 🙄
I don’t think she handled that very well,at all
I think that kinda hot personally
@Eryn Kados 100% agreed.
Yep, I'd want to be his first. I think most people have bad-average sex on the regular anyway, so it's not like he'll be that much worst on his first try. Most people care too much about losing their v card asap, that they end up regretting their first time. 🤷🏿♀️
It’s extremely sexy! I don’t understand some people..
@retron phil5 They may be virgins but they're not "just like this guy". He's good looking, successful, has a lot of money, he can maintain a conversation, has a sense of humor, dresses well, etc. Can you say the some about those video game playing guys? And also with the video gamers, they probably want to have sex but they're afraid of women and don't know how to make it happen. With him, he just chose to wait.
@@LuxsRainbow Good point
It's shocking how people who are virgins are treated. Literally anyone could have sex if they wanted to. Especially a man as good looking as him. Some people can just control themselves better and it's not a necessity for them. It's really not a big deal.
Kam More A lot of people lack moral and family values, especially Becca. She said that he was “supposed to experience that part of life” earlier. Meaning, you can tell she’s more into fun and dumb rather than pray and stay.
There'd be less std's, illegitimate children etc.....
Shows inexperience
I always wonder like what is wrong with being a virgin
Nothing in fact it's better
TheWaynelds
My opinion is, why wait?
It’s your birthright, so why deny yourself that experience?
There’s nothing wrong with being intimate with your significant other, or a good friend, so why not dive in and get wet, so to speak.
TheWaynelds because people have normalized it being a good thing, it’s not right, it’s a very intimate thing and you shouldn’t share that with just anybody, that’s not what God would want. And really God is the only thing that really matters.
Elena S. Exactly sex without marriage is a sin
I guess cause people who’ve already had it believe we’re missing out on so much.
I’m proud of you Colton....I wish I could find a guy like you .....
He's a catch!
A 26 year old virgin you probably won't
A guy hot like that and virgin is gold
Right?!
You go to a good church? Find some singles and hit them up gurl!
What's wrong with being a virgin???
keneingunuo terhase ikr!
keneingunuo terhase It's a tv show
Absolutely nothing. This world is crazy.
Absolutely nothing. It is the world that makes you feel you did something wrong.
Im a 20 year old virgin never had a girlfriend nothing i dont understand either
" I wouldnt put a ring on a finger unless I knew what i was gettin into" Garrett...well, u knew what u were "gettin into" in your first marriage. How did that work out with u?👀👀 🍵
Yeah😂he sounded so stupid
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Now we all understand why he was a virgin
😭😭😩
true, he wasn’t interested in girls
Why does she act like being a virgin is bad? If anything it’s a good thing! Some people want to wait til they are married! She was being very immature about it.
Ikr...he’s waiting for the right heart he said
That is right! But yeah she shouldn’t have acted that way tho
Because she is a woman
Even though I am not a virgin someone like him would be worth the wait. I would wait for as long as he needs to feel ready.
He said its about finding the right heart!
There is literally nothing wrong with u being a virgin if she can't see that then she's not worth it u deserve better don't feel bad about yourself!!
Exactly and imagine if it was the other way around with her being a virgin she wouldn't want to be treated like that
He’s literally talking about his sexuality not his virginity. It’s so clear now in retrospect
This concept might feel wrong to a major part of the world but just imagine the purity in the love when both partners are virgins and are able to give themselves completely to one another a love that has not yet been shared vth any1 else .. that is why I believe in marriage where u have found the girl of your dreams and then u give urself completely to her
STEVE BRITTO unfortunately a lot of the population today don’t have the same views
STEVE BRITTO I personally think that’s a beautiful thing. It sucks that there’s such a negative look toward waiting till marriage or at least that one special person.
I love how you put that, that is exactly what I want.
It's very rare to find virgin guys and women..being virgin is precious especially with a good reason!#RESPECT❤
... i honestly prefer a man with a low body count or none at all but that’s just me
TheBirthOfJackie i hope that means you have had low amount of sexual partners as well.
It means he is clean(no stds) and she can be assured he will not cheat. I would be proud.
Not with a woman anyway 🥴
Knowing what we know now, he is not talking about hiding his virginity.
Wow, she made HIS secret about her. He divulged something so personal and she walks away. Huh? I saw how tough it was for you, so I walked away. Lol! He's a sweetheart. Man, diamond in the rough to wait for the right woman. Then she said, "I wouldn't think any less of you for that". Lol! Our society HAS changed. Didn't it USED to be "I won't think any less of you for being NOT being a virgin"? 😂
Becca lowkey pissed... she wanted him to make it to the Fantasy suite whatever, smash and send him home. 😂😂😂😂😂
Privah Eliberz Haha I wouldn’t be pissed but I would be disappointed being the nympho I am and wanting some1 with experience
Seriously🤣🤣🤣
Lmaoooo
I think she realized in that moment how much her attraction to him was physically-based and when he says he’s a virgin, I think it says to her that “we’re not going to do that.” So then she has to evaluate if she still wants to be with him.
Lol now we know it DEFINITELY wouldn't have happened.
"there's only a handful of people that know"
me: so now you wanna tell the whole world?
😅😅😅
Oh, and BTW even his dad doesn’t know?! How weird, Becca - RUN! It’s not about the fact that he’s a virgin, it’s that he is so insecure!
Yep...even me few thousand miles and half way across the world from this guy knew that he’s a virgin now loll
I think he should have kept that to himself, until he knew for sure she would keep him til the end. When she walked off, once again, she made it about her. It’s not about you girl, u made him feel ashamed and probably even regretted telling you. Poor guy, he deserves a girl who will just date him. He’s special and rare. He deserves someone who saved herself like he’s waited.
and he himself framed it as " I am not good enough" for her.... it is like an offer... if she doesn´t want to buy your product, thats ok, nothing wrong with your product.
The only reason I think he told her before getting the rose so that she could factor that into her decision and not have that surprise be brought up later after things got more complicated
I think you should edit your comment and put that he deserves a guy who will date him lol
Virgin-shaming is still prevalent nowadays. How about we instead start shaming towards rapists, child molesters, false accusers, etc who deserve what's coming to them?
Just wanted to comment on here before this video starts blowin up again 😂
Ahahahah!🏳️🌈👍😂💬
Ok serious question...if Colton wasn’t as easy on the eyes, would people be as supportive of him being a virgin? 🤷🏽♀️
Katrina Belarmino Im gonna be honest if he wasn't easy on the eyes he probably wouldn't be on this show
Ok. Touché. So to rephrase, if David or John were virgins, would people be as supportive?
They probably would not. They would assume he’s a creep or lacks social skills to woo a woman to his bed.
Of course not.
No.
Colton for bachelor
Larry Smith he is the bachelor iam so excited to watch it
Here after he came out lol
Here after news of him coming out 👋🏻
WTF is wrong with people thinking being a virgin is a horrible thing!!!!! Omgggggg Becca don't deserve him lmaoooooo... "Excuse me for one second..." Hahahahaha
I can't believe the whole country was fooled by this virgin story lol
her reaction was so rude/strange. Its his life, it shouldn't be that crazy to think a man/woman hasn't gone all the way in a relationship until they felt ready.
..I'm sorry but it's extremely good that he's a vigin. He should be proud!! I was taught growing up that it was really bad and looked down upon to lose your virginity before marriage...now it's looked down upon still being a virgin!? What has this world come to..
The dishonesty of this man , how can you lie with such a straight face to so many women
Well said
Probably was just in denial and was running from himself. Really not that difficult to comprehend
Guess becca wouldve preferred that Colton admitted to sleeping with the whole of Seattle lol
😂😂😂
Lmaooo your profile pic goes perfectly with your comment
0:14 That strange kiss....that’s like me pretending to be straight years back in high school but I’m actually gay....oh wait
I love his non gender specific language with waiting for the right heart! I used that before coming out.
@@ChelseaGibsonTherapy I didn't even catch that!
“because of sports”
This is making me soooo aggressive!!! Why is she treading him like that??? I would cuddle him smile and tell him, that that was the cutest secret smb ever told me. I mean doesnt she even care about how he feels opening up to her and her just walking away? Wtf girl whaaaat thaaa fuuuu*kkk
DM me boy i would treat u better hahahahahaha
Why does media make virginity such a bad and dramatic thing?? 😮😮😮 it is good that Colton is one. This let's a girl know that he is a faithful man who doesn't take intimacy like a joke. He has integrity and is genuinely in it for love.
A girl who leaves for just that truly in their heart knows they don't measure up in their lifestyle.
I cant believe that the young people dont value the fact that Colton is a virgin Salute to Colton Its best when both can safe it for marriage bless you Dont let others but you on a guilt trip for being that
“There’s not a whole lot of people that know” he says on a tv show.
That is a beautiful thing. He should never feel ashamed. It shows he has patience and respect for others and himself.
I think he raises some good point about being in the locker room. Time to change !
It's so lovely to see him feeling so comfortable with Becca!
Colton for the win!!!!!!
He's looking like a serious contender!
Janneth Mazibuko Garrett won lol
She didn't deserve Carlton
2:22 I haven’t had many dates uhmmm........ because of sports lol 🏈
Becca dodged a bullet
I'm 24 and I've never been on a date with a girl or even kissed a girl before. It's nothing to be ashamed about!!!
Her reaction is pathetic!!! Why on earth is virginity a problem? To me it is the opposite.
He is the sweetest guy ever. If I was Becca in that position where he completely opened his heart and said how he wants it to be a gift to give somebody...I would’ve instantly fell in love. How serious he takes it and how he’s waiting for the right heart shows how committed he will be in a relationship. I love seeing him as the bachelor now and I can’t wait to see when he will find the one. He’s the most special guy ever, they are so lucky! I’m in love with him!
I am so so so proud of this man. Don't give up! God bless you.
"He would have to drop a crazy bomb on me." Here is your crazy bomb: "I'm gay." -Colton
Who's here after he came out as gay?
Him being a virgin shouldn't be a big deal... honestly... If you want to be with someone, and see a future, teach him...
How sad we live in a world where people can possibly spend one second being afraid of showing who they truly are. Im happy he has come out, and is happy in doing so. I wish you much happiness Colton
I honestly don't get what the big deal is. Can someone please explain to me???
Well, now we know who the next bachelor will be #virginbachelor
Billy Guarton I hope he's the next bachelor!
He is🤣
Good prediction
Colton, I waited until marriage and so did my wife and after 31 years of marriage I have no regrets making that decision.
I would be more concerned if my date had no self control when it came to sex.
I realize just how hard a subject like that is to talk about!! Especially in this day and age!!!🌺🌹🌹🌺
Little did she know..... he plays for the other team 😉😛
Ahahaha!😂😂👍🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
That was scary?? That’s nothing. Try telling a lady that you really care about and have feelings for that you don’t want kids and you already got a Vasectomy. It’s practically impossible to get a second date 🤷🏼♂️
Little did she know lol
I’m rewatching these clips and it’s hilarious 😂 Becca was disappointed because she wanted to go to pound town😂😂
I can’t believe Colton had so many people fooled with the virginity thing when in actuality he’s in to men😅
I don't believe him for a second that he's a virgin.
God is proud of you, Colton!!
do you still think that?
Not anymore
Its a messed up society that looks down on virginity and self control.
Me. I'm still watching it and it's really crazy looking back on time when everything were just normal with Colton.
If faking is normal to you...
Thought he was going to tell her he's gay.
Good for you Colton! People with less sexual partners have lower rates of divorce.
I disagree with the guy who says that sex is such a big thing in marriage. It's not. When you do meet Mr./Mr.s Right, you should be communicating with each other and let each other know what you like in bed. Sex should just be an expression of love for one another.
Good for Colton! He deserves true love :)
Why does it matter so much??? My first time, the guy was sweet and understanding. That’s what someone who cares about you should do. So if you can’t, then he definitely deserves better.
Wow all the lies he was telling himself and her. Yikes 😳
He didn’t necessarily say he’s waiting till marriage. If you’re the type of person who doesn’t want to wait then don’t and don’t tell someone you are willing to if you don’t mean it but at the same time still respect that person and their choices.
Im sure if she said "I have HIV" she'd react normally. People nowadays treat virginity like a terminal disease, it's absurd! Though, I don't really believe he's a virgin...people would do anything for audiences. Alas, this is a good lesson for people
You're brainwashed if you believe most sexually active people are okay with HIV.
This is so sad I feel bad for him, she made him feel so much worse by getting up and leaving him there.
He deserves SO much better
He’s too sweet and pure for this world
Everyone starts as a virgin so it really shouldn't be that huge of a deal. That he kept his
“Only like a few people know” Well NOW THE WHOLE WORLD KNOWS 🤣
Her hands on his pants 😂
I think this was edited heavily. Her initial reaction is still throwing me off.
1:22 she sounded like Krystal eww lol
Poor Colton 😭
The way she said "thank you for telling me" was so cold, no feeling. I totally get how life can get in the way - I'm in the same situation, due to troubling times when my parents divorced, therapy and then personal shit then got in the way, blah blah, then it just became a "thing" and even though I'm a girl - I can totally see where he's coming from.... it gets to a point where it's going to be awkward AF to tell someone.... I only hope the guy (or girl) I tell reacts NOTHING like Becca. At this point I'm expecting the first sexual relationship I have to bomb in flames. Hope I don't meet "the one" first.
He's lying. That's why she walked away.
Little did we know...💬🏳️🌈👁👍
🤔 makes sense now. I mean he kissed them like he was grossed out so it made sense back then also.
I literally adore Colton 😭💕
So do I 💖
Long story short he just never found someone who he loved enough and felt mutually ready to be intimate with. Not a huge deal. Sex is different for everyone. If you feel you need to be in love to have it, great. If not, that's great too. Becca made him feel immature and how she walked out like that made it worse.
These comments didn’t age well...
I wish I could date him❤❤❤
You judged him the moment u acted like a child and walked out.... That man shared something special and you shut him down. I hope he doesn't choose you.
It's sick it is like that nowdays... If you're saving yourself it's somehow weird and ugly. Well that is pure and lovely.
All hats off to Colton ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Here agfter he came out
I honestly think Becca felt like she was to mature for Colton.. And she's not wrong about that. But I don't really think it was only the fact that he was a virgin which was the deal breaker I think it was just because they're both on two different levels of maturity. And yes it does kind of hurt that Becca is more experienced.