Thank you , For the encouragement, need to be patient with him , your helping me understand him , I need to remember my experience when I was in the “closet “ myself you brought so much light and healing with I been in an emotional roller coaster , we are so connected during the week but weekends are very hard for me he disconnects from me , but your video has peace to me thank you
I have no problem being who I am. I am a masculine acting conservative (not into hookup culture) guy man. This serves me well in that I am seeking employment in a professional position which tends to be chosen by conservative men older than me who are less likely to be supportive. I am very careful what is posted under my name on the Internet, and also which pictures I use. Now that it is possible to search by photo, a dating profile is easily connected to a public profile.
To begin with it's nobody's business whether you are gay or not. It's more private than that, because all that being gay is about, is sexual preference. Some gay men are more conservative and prefer not to be associated with the gay movement because it has become so ridiculously political. Some people don't even take them seriously because of the way they behave in public especially during gay pride marches and similar events. Not all gay men are effeminate or wear costumes or dress like women and try to act like them. I don't understand why some gay men feel as if it's their job to drag others out of the closet just because they are no longer in it.
Yianni, I know a man who "stays in the closet," because, were he to come out, many of his straight man friends would forsake, and he loves being around attractive young men. Plus, he's still not convinced that it would be safe. Also, he has sex with women when he cannot find his type of man, and he doesn't wish to scare these off.
It is difficult being bi and many people deny they are bi simply because they are not strong enough to be honest to themselves and others. Many gay men deny they have any attraction to women. Its easier to have 2 categories of people - friends and potential mates. For gay or straight people these categories are easily defined so no issues exist with people but with bi people others are wary (its always the when harry met sally scenario). So bi people will hide their true sexuality and they pretend to be totally straight OR totally gay.
Too many generalities and " in my experiences " that could boil down to maybe 2 or 3 people ? and then to make statements that put everyone under that umbrella is not a good thing , at least in my opinion , it lumps groups of people who can be extremely different and defines them with blanket statements !?.
Hi Yiannis, whilst what you're saying is somewhat logical, you're only speaking generally. Peoples sexuality should not define who they are. Who cares if your straight, gay, bi, flexible, lesbian, men who have sex with men, whatever, whatever. Why does Australia & America need to pigeon hole people. Men have been having sex with men for centuries, well, well before America and Australia were ever discovered & its not a big deal !!!!!!!!!!! Why put social pressure onto people Yiannis, peoples sexuality isn't what makes them proud, it shouldn't its just sex. I'm sorry Yiannis but no one needs to do anything but please themselves, in which ever way they choose. People don't need approval from society or Gender groups or other people.
i'm a proud gay single man without kids.
Thank you , For the encouragement, need to be patient with him , your helping me understand him , I need to remember my experience when I was in the “closet “ myself you brought so much light and healing with I been in an emotional roller coaster , we are so connected during the week but weekends are very hard for me he disconnects from me , but your video has peace to me thank you
I have no problem being who I am. I am a masculine acting conservative (not into hookup culture) guy man. This serves me well in that I am seeking employment in a professional position which tends to be chosen by conservative men older than me who are less likely to be supportive. I am very careful what is posted under my name on the Internet, and also which pictures I use. Now that it is possible to search by photo, a dating profile is easily connected to a public profile.
To begin with it's nobody's business whether you are gay or not. It's more private than that, because all that being gay is about, is sexual preference.
Some gay men are more conservative and prefer not to be associated with the gay movement because it has become so ridiculously political. Some people don't even take them seriously because of the way they behave in public especially during gay pride marches and similar events. Not all gay men are effeminate or wear costumes or dress like women and try to act like them. I don't understand why some gay men feel as if it's their job to drag others out of the closet just because they are no longer in it.
I am a gay man and drive a Hemi dodge ram and a 1970 z28 RS people are so wrong thinking we are all feminine acting. Just stereotypes.
Yianni, I know a man who "stays in the closet," because, were he to come out, many of his straight man friends would forsake, and he loves being around attractive young men. Plus, he's still not convinced that it would be safe.
Also, he has sex with women when he cannot find his type of man, and he doesn't wish to scare these off.
It is difficult being bi and many people deny they are bi simply because they are not strong enough to be honest to themselves and others. Many gay men deny they have any attraction to women. Its easier to have 2 categories of people - friends and potential mates. For gay or straight people these categories are easily defined so no issues exist with people but with bi people others are wary (its always the when harry met sally scenario). So bi people will hide their true sexuality and they pretend to be totally straight OR totally gay.
Too many generalities and " in my experiences " that could boil down to maybe 2 or 3 people ? and then to make statements that put everyone under that umbrella is not a good thing , at least in my opinion , it lumps groups of people who can be extremely different and defines them with blanket statements !?.
Hi Yiannis, whilst what you're saying is somewhat logical, you're only speaking generally. Peoples sexuality should not define who they are. Who cares if your straight, gay, bi, flexible, lesbian, men who have sex with men, whatever, whatever. Why does Australia & America need to pigeon hole people. Men have been having sex with men for centuries, well, well before America and Australia were ever discovered & its not a big deal !!!!!!!!!!! Why put social pressure onto people Yiannis, peoples sexuality isn't what makes them proud, it shouldn't its just sex. I'm sorry Yiannis but no one needs to do anything but please themselves, in which ever way they choose. People don't need approval from society or Gender groups or other people.