Marriage can't be 50/50 | ON THE COUCH WITH THE NUBONS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2025
- EP 6: MARRIAGE CAN'T BE 50/50
Finances are a big part of doing life together in a marriage, in fact one of the leading factors to a lot of divorces is the relationship we have with money in our marriages. So it is such an important conversation to have before and during (constantly) your marriage. This week on the couch we discuss our relationship with money, how our upbringings shaped and informed our handling of money, we explore whether going 50/50 is a wise thing to do or if there are alternatives that would produce better results for our marriage.
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I really enjoy your content and I ain't even married 😅😅😅and I have the worst concertration skills but I always finish your episodes
Loooove this!! means we doing something right. Thank you :)
😂 Nice one 👏
Awesome content as always🙃. I really loved this discussion guys, it gave a holistic view of money. I resonated with Lilly because I grew up in the same way (border line penny pinching) and now that I am in a relationship with the hope of one day marrying, I see how money perspectives can differ. I'm reminded by mum a lot of times that we do not work hard just to crosss T's and dot I's and not treat ourselves or the people in our lives. Balance is always important, money is not the end but a means to an end, a tool that God can use through us.
Balance is so important, hard but achievable! Being able to treat yourself (within your means of course) every now and then is just as important as all the savings… it’s only money
Wooooow think not only married peeps could pick a lot from this episode but even the singles to introspect
Love the way she laughs and I love the way he is patient and gentle with her. Lovely couple and I look forward to more honest conversations with them 👍. I’ve been married for 16 years but these guys are teaching me stuff 😊
Thank u for this video. Really great discussion. For me, my husband & I both make incomes but we don’t split things 50/50. We don’t have a joint account, normally he transfers to me if we r saving for something, then I pay, but we do use spreadsheets for big things like wedding costs, renovations, family commitments, building etc. But not for month to month expenses. He did surprise me with a car & strangely I didn’t ask him where he got the money from or if we can afford it. I just trusted that he looked at the numbers & picked what was best within budget 🤷🏽♀️. I still have my old car, it’s paid up & will be my fall back if anything goes south or if the petrol price goes up too much 😂. We both know who pays for what on a monthly basis but we don’t record how much per se. For example, I know he pays medical aid for all of us, but I don’t know how much it is. We only mention prices if the amount is unexpected or high. For example, I mentioned the cost of electricity recently bcoz I saw a huge jump in the bill, but ordinarily I don’t discuss or record that amount.
Gems 👌🏽
That "Sies Nas" 😂😂😂 I felt it 2:10
We were hurt man 😭
@@ThatHusbandPodcast 😂😂😂 PS: @Lilly how was Qatar
I just arrived and I love love loved this conversation. Learned so much and even got the book by Sam. Thanks guys and keep doing what you doing!!!
As for tweaking while saying "thank you, the pressure of feeling..." 😂😂😂
Enjoy the pressure babes!! 😂
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This is what I'm struggling with with my partner and we are not even married yet 😅 soooo hearing from those with experience kinda opens the mind to forward thinking
Spreadsheet for long term saving plan is not a bad idea
I've been given a new life goal of getting my own accountant 😂
Love it!!! 😂😂😂