Who Has Impacted Your Life and Have You Told Them Yet? | Bonnie Habyan | TEDxGainesville

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  • One of people's greatest regrets are the things left unsaid to those who matter most - simple, but power things like, "Thank you. I love you. You made a difference." In this talk, successful marketer, author, and inspirational speaker, Bonnie Habyan, urges everyone to identify and acknowledge those special people now. She tells them not to wait until it is too late. She shares some of the funny and touching lessons her special person taught her and explains how she made sure to let her know the impact she made on her life before she passed. She says letting people know what they mean to you right now is the single most beautiful gift one human can give to another, emphatically adding, "Do it today. You will be so happy you did." Bonnie Lorber Habyan is an author, speaker, and Chief Marketing Officer. During her 30-year career, Bonnie has been a corporate spokesperson, news reporter, and radio Love Songs DJ. Her passions are marketing, branding, writing, and family. After publishing her first book in 2022, a funny memoir about her mom, she embraced a journey that has led her on a path of connecting and sharing her life’s experiences. In addition to working full time for a rapidly growing commercial real estate finance company, she hosts a podcast series called Brand the Change and is working on her second book, one that will focus on branding and thought leadership. Bonnie lives with her husband of 32 years, former major league pitcher John Habyan, and has a 26-year-old daughter Holly, who she says is her life’s greatest achievement. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @IdeaHammock
    @IdeaHammock 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh my the story about the stolen car!! So good and I love that instead of her being embarrassed she told you to lighten up! What a woman.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was so embarrassed. Thank you so much!

  • @MarcoPolo-uh4pn
    @MarcoPolo-uh4pn 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh my her mother sounds so amazing, no wonder she loved her so much

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks! I appreciate it! She was funny.

  • @DanielleL1000
    @DanielleL1000 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So wonderful. Such awesome messages. I knew Bess and she always greeted me warmly. She is proud of you Bonnie.

  • @DIANAPARISI-wb4lk
    @DIANAPARISI-wb4lk 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love how she took those stories from her book "The World According to Bess", and shared an important message to others. Today, everyone is always running and not paying attention. Thank you, Bonnie, for beautifully helping people to understand what really matters. Job well done. 👏

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for taking time to watch the talk and for spreading the message! Grateful!

  • @skipmassengill3884
    @skipmassengill3884 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bonnie , I recently lost a very close friend of many years. Luckily, we spoke almost daily, and in our last conversation, he told me he loved me, and I told him the same. Watching your TEDx talk deeply moved me, and your heartfelt message and the life lessons you shared from your mother, Bessie, resonated profoundly. Your emphasis on gratitude and expressing love to those who have shaped us reminded me of the importance of cherishing and acknowledging our loved ones while we can. Thank you for sharing such a personal and impactful story.
    Warmest regards, Skip

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Grateful for you feedback and for sharing your personal experiences here. Means a lot.

  • @BarbaraMacLeodUS
    @BarbaraMacLeodUS 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So many words of wisdom, Bonnie, and very inspiring! And you're so well spoken - well done!

  • @MrJoe6strings
    @MrJoe6strings 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing Ted talk Bonnie! Thanks for sharing such an important and heartfelt message about letting the people in our lives who have loved us and supported us know that they matter. That we love them too. And that there's no time like the present to show our gratitude!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much! It is a universal message and I am glad you liked it.

  • @kellyhabyan5973
    @kellyhabyan5973 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was fortunate enough to see this talk Live, but it was just as good and heartwarming watching it here on TH-cam! Bonnie gets you laughing and crying a little as she shares the impact her mom had on her life. She also helps us all remember the importance of telling others how much we love them and appreciate them while they're with us! This is a great talk to share with friends & family of all ages!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Love you for your continued support and was so happy you all were there.

  • @snrism
    @snrism 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    one of my favorite tedx talks in the recent times. Great job Bonnie

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That means so much! I truly appreciate your comment and sentiments. This has been a dream come true and if it makes someone do something positive for another, it is totally worth it! Be well!

  • @carolpoliti
    @carolpoliti 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this Such a blessing to be able to support your mom in that time, and anyone else special, and to thank them.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much. It is a universal message that everyone across the world can relate to and do easily. Thank you for your support. I love my JC family.

  • @kathymaxa9397
    @kathymaxa9397 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What an amazing and inspiring talk. Bonnie makes us laugh and makes us cry by sharing insightful and sometimes irreverent advice from her mom but most importantly shares how she took the opportunity to tell her mom how that advice had shaped her life. I imagine this Ted Talk could have a ripple effect. Maybe the stirring of emotions will propel each of us to tell at least one or two important people in our lives how much they have impacted us. This isn’t just a warm, humorous collection of stories; it’s a crucial reminder. Act now, before it’s too late. Thank you, Bonnie!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for your support and love and for this great review! i appreciate it beyond words.

  • @judy-zz9ok
    @judy-zz9ok 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ...words matter, dance on the table, life is short...so true...we all need to be reminded. Thx Bonnie.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      YES...go dance on that table. I danced with my mom on a table when I was 9 lol. Still remember it.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes! Dance on that table. Just be careful!

  • @danamileskie3289
    @danamileskie3289 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was AWESOME Bonnie!! Laughter and tears together!! Congratulations on this amazing TH-cam!!
    Loved to hear Bess’s name and memories you shared❤️🙏🏻💕❤️🙏🏻💕💕

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank so so much Dana and thank you for the love and support.

  • @goldsteinfamily
    @goldsteinfamily 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What an amazingly inspirational presentation. Bonnie speaks with humor and grace. It made my night. I can’t wait to see what she shares next.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so very much Jean. Your comments made my day.

  • @anneshaffer5314
    @anneshaffer5314 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is the TedX video you will want to show your family, friends, students, and the neighbors! Great life lessons!!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      THank you so very much for your thoughts and sentiments. This is what life is all about. RIght?

  • @LeahFisher-pd8fe
    @LeahFisher-pd8fe 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Absolutely fantastic. Poignant, charming, funny, lovely.

  •  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bonnie is a gem of a person and this talk is just so sweet and inspiring!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you and back at you.

  • @sarahoberlin3869
    @sarahoberlin3869 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bonnie this resonates with me. I'll keep your message in my heart as I work to remind others how much they mean to me. YOU impacted my college life in many important ways, but most of all by being my friend. Cheers to you.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your feedback. Love you and have such wonderful memories of our times together.

  • @gerikern5570
    @gerikern5570 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Super job, Bonnie!!!

  • @bvisiblewithmel3582
    @bvisiblewithmel3582 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bonnie's grace & eloquence always warms our 💕 with inspiring magic. Watching with warm tears as your stories help us celebrate loved ones & their legacy.
    You rich presentation is helping me navigate some big steps with courage. Bless you Bonnie.
    Looking forward to a virtual toast to celebrate your success until we meet in person.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope we do meet in person one day. We need to make that happen. Thank you!

  • @jmartello89
    @jmartello89 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such wisdom! And delivered in a beautiful and funny way. Bonnie's talk made me pause and reflect on what's important in my life.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much. Mission accomplished! Appreciate your feedback and support always.

  • @ColleenMegna-pi6mi
    @ColleenMegna-pi6mi 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful Tedx, Bonnie! Your mother sounds like an amazing lady. ♥️♥️

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Every mom is special. Sending hugs!

  • @theagilebrand
    @theagilebrand 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Loved this - and so inspiring to hear Bonnie share this. We made a couple calls after watching this...

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much Greg and what a blessing it has been to work with you and watch the podcast grow. Thanks for your ongoing support and I look forward to more great things together.

  • @philhopkins3132
    @philhopkins3132 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Phenomonal job and message. I laughed, I cried and you reminded me of so many wonderful memories of and with my own mom. Life lesson # 9 and life is one big connection really resonated. This is a lesson that I try to impart on my son as I believe this is a lesson that is lost with the younger generation. Talk about connections, my wife worked with your mom at a retailer in the Harford Mall and your mom would always remember my wife when we would see your mom out and about. Finally, I also think while your message speaks to telling others of their impact, it also speaks to the fact that we can never understimate our own impact on others, no matter how big or small - so treat people with kindness, give them a hand up if needed and connect with them. Thanks for sharing!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so very much Phil and I love your feedback and insights. It is an evergreen message that we need to spread.

  • @snakejohnson2740
    @snakejohnson2740 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Must be nice to have that kind of relationship with your mom

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We all have special relationships with someone who has made a difference. I also had a few special teachers and friends. Teachers make such huge impacts and I am grateful I had some who truly helped shape my life.

  • @LawofAttractionwithAlleah
    @LawofAttractionwithAlleah 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful! I read her book about her mom as well and it was TRULY a warm hearted and entertaining read! Love this reminder❤

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much! Love that you read the book. My mom was a funny but insightful lady. I miss her every day.

  • @maryellenhughes7759
    @maryellenhughes7759 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Incredibly Beautiful! Awesome 👏

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much and thank you for all of your support.

  • @LeighRadtke
    @LeighRadtke 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such an inspiring story and important message Bonnie! Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your support and for sharing your feedback! Means a lot.

  • @PegStrohecker-nc7it
    @PegStrohecker-nc7it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow!! What a great message and lessons to live by!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so very much. I truly appreciate the love and support. Our lives go by so quickly and time is precious.

  • @MichaelBrocato-vn4sn
    @MichaelBrocato-vn4sn 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Really well done. Such a heartwarming presentation of great memories and words of wisdom! Everyone can take something away from this to apply in their own lives.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so very much. I am grateful for your support and feedback. If it resonates with one person to make a difference and let someone know how special they are, then it is all worth it.

  • @simonebrady9723
    @simonebrady9723 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Powerful words conveyed in a light hearted way. Great advice to live by . I will be making some phone calls tomorrow and look forward to reading the book. Thank you for sharing .

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your thoughts. I hope those calls went well! I appreciate the support.

  • @lindarocha8126
    @lindarocha8126 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This was so touching and relatable to all that have lost someone close ❤

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes. We can all relate. It is evergreen. Thank you so much!

  • @delcere63
    @delcere63 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video! Such an inspiring and wonderful message. Life is short so no better time than now to tell those who make a difference in your life just how much they mean to you! Thank you!!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your support and feedback here. I truly appreciate it and love that it resonates!

  • @trishmonaghan4268
    @trishmonaghan4268 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful talk, thank you for sharing.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so very much, Trish. This has been a dream come true.

  • @AmberHoward-zw3gv
    @AmberHoward-zw3gv 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So funny and heartwarming ❤

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so very much for your thoughts and support. It means a great deal.

  • @Lolcoca
    @Lolcoca 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes like tell that you love your FAMILY so much 😍🥰 like EVERYDAY 🤍🤍

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you! I totally agree! Thank you for your support.

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching and your time and feedback! Appreciate it!

    • @BonnieHabyan
      @BonnieHabyan 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      YES. Every day. Even when they don't respond back lol. As long as they know your love for them.