If a man is up front and asks her out, she can accept or not......if she does not accept and he keeps pursuing, especially following, calling, ets,. Then yes, he is a creep
@@shanice_aWasn't talking about her support system, I was talking about the man. Please stop jumping to conclusions. Out of all the responses, you chose my 2-word comment to pick on!!! Why ???
Her family is right. Been there, done that. If he is not interested in her meeting his family and friends AFTER A YEAR, not a good sign. Don’t waste any more time. Run!
Not everyone are dumb enough to bring their life to public. This girl is a whole mess from her own story. And her family are the worst ppl to deal with. As a man I do not wanna deal with anyone girls family about my relationship with a women. Now I’m not saying he is good or bad guy. But her family nor Steve don’t even know about this guy and making so much assumptions as always. If I was the guys and good guy, I would run away as fast as possible!
@@meseretmehari6139 Tell that to your daughters when it's time for them to date. Apart from bringing her family business to Steve, who made her see the light, the guy's been doing other stuffs beneath that doesn't make him a suitable partner. Sometimes we need people around that genuinely cares about us to help us remove the scales from our eyes. I'm sorry if you don't get this
Ding!!! It has very little to do w her support system but her own misplaced agenda. If it wasn't clear to u there's a father missing, her mom is shaming her in the looks department, as well as she's a slew of bad decisions to learn from. All of us NEED to spend years alone for self strengthening w God
This is SO TRUE !!! I always tell my best friend this!!! My precious momma passed from Covid 2021 and I miss her so much-she gave the most amazing advice!
But Steve has always said "men can't be friends with women". The man is just waiting for his opportunity. So I guess he either forgot he said it or he's wrong. I've gotten into many debates about this and been chewed up. As long as it's no agenda then men and women can be friends.
@dejonbooker2450 Or she's just not attracted to this man. They'd already met before, and she turned him down. I would make a face too if I had to reject the same guy twice. They wouldn't have done this to a man who'd already turned down a woman.
Worst part is that almost everything she mentioned she liked about the guy was superficial. He has a professional job, is "beautiful," charismatic, charming, and they look good together. Doesn't sound like much substance.
TWO actions speak volumes in this clip 1) the unmarried, handsome, caring, supportive best friend does NOT want to date her 2) She didn't stand up to greet the new guy. That's just plain rude. Even if you're not interested you're still supposed yo use your MANNERS.
Nope… he’s married reason why he couldn’t come on the show (he’ll be exposed) and the reason why after a year of dating neither one of them have met each other’s parents!
I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk
VERY. Like her mother said she’s not very street smart .. she clearly has not been out there to learn about it enough .. at least that’s what it seems like to me .
Watching this makes me SO grateful for my boyfriend of the past one year! He was ready to meet my parents after not even 6 months and he IMMEDIATELY hit it off with them and now he ALWAYS wants them to come along on our weekend getaways with us! Every week he asks me, “Are your parents coming?! We need to get them out more!” He even just spent hundreds of dollars on orchestra tickets for us and my parents to surprise my dad for his birthday in just under 2 months and made arrangements for my dad (a retired professional trumpet player) to play on stage with said orchestra through connections he has via his brother and arranged for them to play happy birthday for him! He also has met most of my friends and he loves them as well and vice versa! Ladies, if your man won’t meet your family and friends, that’s a HUGE red flag!!!!
@@sammie8854 I'm pretty sure we're a forever kind of thing! He's 17 years older than me, but that doesn't matter to either of us! We just click so amazingly well and have the exact same sense of humor! I've never laughed as hard or as much as I have in the past year with him! I was widowed in June of 2022 and had a very toxic and abusive marriage for many years, so he's been a breath of fresh air! Sometimes I joke that it seems like he's dating my parents!
Steve, you always say that a male friend is only a friend because he's waiting for the perfect time to swoop in and become more. Is Tomas single? He's been there for her through thick and thin. If he's single, she should take a different look at him.
@@jonscott234 yes and afterwords we got regrets because we didn't realised it first but after.. ladies be happy with what you got! Look at the future what you want to see in your husband later..
I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk
How does someone have such a beautiful and sweet woman in their life who is serious and still wanna play games? But mama is right ‘my daughter is not street smart.’
This was a very good family show Mr. Steve Harvey.... Your presentation is marvelous, your caring for other people is a heart warming one. From this great video, i got something about how the current generation should choose the family in the right manner. Thank you so much for your concerns and socialisms...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Wishfull thinking. She knows he doesn't love her but she wants to keep him around hoping that he will change. He already knows that she loves him so he doesn't care. Good thing she never tried to defend him. She was honest with her "no" answers about him. She's going to have a good man because she opened up and was willing to take advice.
Baby girl run he's not serious take it from me hun🇹🇹 listen to your family and friends they love you more than him they are there. Don't get caught up on love get caught up in your worth as a human and a beautiful woman at that❤💯
I swear I need friends like Tomas and Barbara, just went through a divorce because I picked the wrong man, and kept giving him too many chances when I shouldn't have, if I had friends like Barb and Tomas they could help me weed out the bad guys😂
The bitter and optimum question her is ::: WOULD YOU LADIES HAVE ACCEPTED THE TRUTH,if them told u do 🤷🏽♂️🤔..that's it ..till ur eyes 👀are cleared out, that's wen u know
I would love to know what happened with her and the guy that her friend tried to hook her up with; he was a tall glass of Chocolate milk goodness and seemed very polite, respectful and very interested in her but she didn't seem interested in him in the very least. I wish I had a whole network of caring people concerned about my happiness enough to try and hook me up with a few men that they believe would treat me right and that I might be attracted to; I would have at least stood up to greet the man with a hug and look like I was optimistic about the date; the look on her face was like, "Throw him back in the ocean!". Smh!
Sometimes families could be wrong and other times they're right! Sometimes we often lose a good person for listing to a miserable family member or a friend, but her case is different I think she's just a desperate person.
He can take the hat off, the date that is. I wish he had someone to give him a style look over before he stepped out. First impressions are everything.
He sat too close to her at once.... Red flag... That stunt are for the birds... Relationships fixers are as risky... is that what this TVshow is about 😮😮? -Really 😮😮????
"When a man want you, theres nothing you can do to keep him away" facts😊
🎯🎯
The woman can accuse him of being creepy or a stalker. Men be careful with this phrase
If a man is up front and asks her out, she can accept or not......if she does not accept and he keeps pursuing, especially following, calling, ets,. Then yes, he is a creep
She has a whole gang of people who love her around her. She is blessed and highly favored. Listen to those who love you...
Her support system is standing on business 💯
As they should...
💯 ‼️👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Very suspect!!!
@@terridobson8561Suspect ? Or are they looking out for and protective of their loved one ?? There’s a difference ..
@@shanice_aWasn't talking about her support system, I was talking about the man. Please stop jumping to conclusions. Out of all the responses, you chose my 2-word comment to pick on!!! Why ???
Life is too short to wait on somebody to act right. SO SO POWERFUL. I pray our youth realise this very soon. There will be few broken hearts.
Facts 💯
Move on.
Her family is right. Been there, done that. If he is not interested in her meeting his family and friends AFTER A YEAR, not a good sign. Don’t waste any more time. Run!
Red flags when you don't know the family, and he has a lot of excuses. Run
RUN🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Does he exist?
Some people do not want to meet family or have their family meet their significant other. Nothing wrong with that
lets be honest there was no family emergency that stopped him from coming to steve show
Not everyone are dumb enough to bring their life to public. This girl is a whole mess from her own story. And her family are the worst ppl to deal with. As a man I do not wanna deal with anyone girls family about my relationship with a women. Now I’m not saying he is good or bad guy. But her family nor Steve don’t even know about this guy and making so much assumptions as always. If I was the guys and good guy, I would run away as fast as possible!
hell yeah! LOL. I huge national TV show like this and bail? Please
@@meseretmehari6139 Tell that to your daughters when it's time for them to date. Apart from bringing her family business to Steve, who made her see the light, the guy's been doing other stuffs beneath that doesn't make him a suitable partner. Sometimes we need people around that genuinely cares about us to help us remove the scales from our eyes. I'm sorry if you don't get this
Exactly
Smart man
When she came back she was GLOWING and her confidence is so upgraded! Ill always trust Uncle Steve's word
That man has a whole family at home😂😂😂
YUP
I thought the same thing!!!!
😂
FACTS
Hell yeah 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Steve please come to South Africa with this show. Our daughters need this.
You guys are too traditional. The elders wouldn't agree with his suggestions. Ha.
@@DarlinRealyes we are traditional and have morals. We are proud of that. And there is nothing with this show
@@rojamillerover hahaha. What morals? Oh please. Probably used to have.
Life is too short to have to wait on somebody to act right. Word!
Ain't it THOUGH!!!
"We're both very busy,"
But she made time to be on the show, and he didn't 🙄
Precisely 👍🏻
He also didn't want to air his dirty laundry to the entire world
It's funny that she wants to give him a second chance without him even asking for a second chance. She just giving out them second chances for free
What a wonderful support system she has.
She Need To Be Alone And She Need To Focus On Herself
Perfect,
Not jump from one horror to another
That’s right ‼️💯👋👏👏👏👏👏👏
no she don,t she didnt come from a traumatic situation . she has a support system. they got it right . she will be ok
Ding!!! It has very little to do w her support system but her own misplaced agenda. If it wasn't clear to u there's a father missing, her mom is shaming her in the looks department, as well as she's a slew of bad decisions to learn from. All of us NEED to spend years alone for self strengthening w God
Exactly. Counseling with a Therapist and do a good selfreflection and innerwork personal growth & get of the shallow materialistic cloud.
Tomas is the real pick. He knows her, protects her and shows how much he cares.
i thought that too
You might have a point
Yes!
I thought so 😢
I think so too❤
She don’t know how blessed she is to have a friend like Tomas!!!!
This is what "i just want a relationship, no matter what" looks like.
Also, always trust yo mama, they never wrong, moms intuition is scary how correct it is
This is SO TRUE !!! I always tell my best friend this!!! My precious momma passed from Covid 2021 and I miss her so much-she gave the most amazing advice!
We all need Tomas in our life
Her 2 friends has the love for her to watch her back & all the moral support
Most people can't take a Tomas trust me.
For Tomas her bff is watching out for her best interest
But Steve has always said "men can't be friends with women". The man is just waiting for his opportunity. So I guess he either forgot he said it or he's wrong.
I've gotten into many debates about this and been chewed up. As long as it's no agenda then men and women can be friends.
@@timothybanks2927i have had friends i wanted to sleep with but it never happened and after a while i lost that interest and became best of friends
His wife is his family emergency.
Her face when he walked out said it all 🥴 but I must say that post break up glow up looked very good on her!
Exactly. She didn't even stand up to say hello. She still wants her ex.
@dejonbooker2450 Or she's just not attracted to this man. They'd already met before, and she turned him down. I would make a face too if I had to reject the same guy twice. They wouldn't have done this to a man who'd already turned down a woman.
Worst part is that almost everything she mentioned she liked about the guy was superficial. He has a professional job, is "beautiful," charismatic, charming, and they look good together. Doesn't sound like much substance.
Ooh! I just commented this!!!! Yes!
Good take.
It sure don’t
I like your comment, made me laugh because it’s true. Thank you!!
Exactly. How about "He makes me feel Loved or safe or Happy!
Razorblades and lemon juice 😂😂😂
I replayed this
The most awkward greeting
Her not standing up to greet him is a red flag 🚩
I agree. I don’t think she’s feeling him.
I've been looking for this comment
@@GreatLee05 I think she's finally seeing him for what he's ! 🤷🏽♀️
@@luwamalem9537 Quite possibly.
She has some growing to do...she want a thug😝🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Praying for her clarity.
She’s making excuses for him… 🤷🏻♀️
That she is.
TWO actions speak volumes in this clip
1) the unmarried, handsome, caring, supportive best friend does NOT want to date her
2) She didn't stand up to greet the new guy. That's just plain rude. Even if you're not interested you're still supposed yo use your MANNERS.
Nope… he’s married reason why he couldn’t come on the show (he’ll be exposed) and the reason why after a year of dating neither one of them have met each other’s parents!
I thought the same thing
HONEY MOVE ON YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING ❣️ MOVE ON IN JESUS NAME 🙏
Yea that CREEP IS MARRIED
@@gwyenettewright2362😂😂😂😂
She in love ❤. She can’t see what is coming, no one can convince her
Oh Tomas is cute...she shld be with him. Think he likes her😊
I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk
@@NatureForce37😂
@@bellyman1783 Am I lying though? Idk idk!
Naive !! That man is married with a whole other family
VERY. Like her mother said she’s not very street smart .. she clearly has not been out there to learn about it enough .. at least that’s what it seems like to me .
Wake up, girl! Don't waste your time and life on someone who doesn't value you and doesn't appreciate you
That greeting was sooooo cold. Eish. I feel so bad. She did not love the guy at all.
Agreed. She was cold.
Yeah I feel like that was rude!
She obviously don't want that man
Thats not the same guy
Watching this makes me SO grateful for my boyfriend of the past one year! He was ready to meet my parents after not even 6 months and he IMMEDIATELY hit it off with them and now he ALWAYS wants them to come along on our weekend getaways with us! Every week he asks me, “Are your parents coming?! We need to get them out more!” He even just spent hundreds of dollars on orchestra tickets for us and my parents to surprise my dad for his birthday in just under 2 months and made arrangements for my dad (a retired professional trumpet player) to play on stage with said orchestra through connections he has via his brother and arranged for them to play happy birthday for him! He also has met most of my friends and he loves them as well and vice versa! Ladies, if your man won’t meet your family and friends, that’s a HUGE red flag!!!!
Love this for you!!! Hope y’all last forever!!
@@sammie8854 I'm pretty sure we're a forever kind of thing! He's 17 years older than me, but that doesn't matter to either of us! We just click so amazingly well and have the exact same sense of humor! I've never laughed as hard or as much as I have in the past year with him! I was widowed in June of 2022 and had a very toxic and abusive marriage for many years, so he's been a breath of fresh air! Sometimes I joke that it seems like he's dating my parents!
Love this you definitely hit the jackpot..many blessings💯
Self love is so important
Steve, you always say that a male friend is only a friend because he's waiting for the perfect time to swoop in and become more. Is Tomas single? He's been there for her through thick and thin. If he's single, she should take a different look at him.
That’s what I was thinking. I mean maybe there just isn’t a spark there but that was my thinking too
Tomas had his chance tho and picked a guy for her
Lots of ladies rarely like what's truly good for them, sad but true
@@jonscott234 yes and afterwords we got regrets because we didn't realised it first but after.. ladies be happy with what you got! Look at the future what you want to see in your husband later..
He's probably interested but she friend-zoned him.Now, she's getting his attention & blocking him from moving on to someone who wants him.
Very powerful Steve thank you
Ladies WAKE UP!! Canceling Dates means something BETTER came up!! Canceling Dates is DISRESPECTFUL! Once... Twice... Three times. You're a sidechick!
Tomas seems like such a gentleman, I kinda hoped he would date her.
I thought that too, but I think he may be ... how do I say it 🤔.... undercover light in the loafers ... or a little too much sugar in the tank?? 🤣 idk idk idk
I like him too...
@@NatureForce37lol😂
I had the same thought, hoped he was the surprise man 😂
Tomas deserves a smarter one
He's playing you girl
It's her choice to be played.
Hell to the yeah 💯
U right 😢an I hate it when I see things like this omg
Yes it seems😊
Wrong. Her former family is playing her. Worst women: those who rely on what "mommy said".
Love is blind but our neighbors ain’t.
So she couldn't stand to greet the guy? 😂
She didn't ask for this one, I even thought it was a joke, they don't match
He does not catch her attention! That’s why she did not stand. But it’s not always about the outside. I guess we will see
girl it's common courtesy whether he catches her attention or not , it's expected@@antwinetteluke8372
But it’s still rude! She should have been courteous and stood up and be more humble… ‼️
@@antwinetteluke8372it's rude. Just stand, women are too entitled.
The friends..😂😂😂😂😂 too cool!!
Have not met their family it's been one year, a Red flag
See, I had a feeling he was dating someone else
Listen to the Family.
I was hoping Tomas was the surprise. He seems so cool.
It’s a dream to have the support system she has.
He has a wife and kids at home.... lol
Exactly what I said! Married man!
Why is this funny?
Listen to your family, they have your best interest at heart!
What a delusional lady. Steve should have put a pic of her bf up so the wife could find out.
😂😂😂😂😂
I thought so good
That don’t do no good these days . The women still stay with them .
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sheldons walk out killed it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I wanna sit next to my new opportunity too 😂😂😂🎉❤
How does someone have such a beautiful and sweet woman in their life who is serious and still wanna play games? But mama is right ‘my daughter is not street smart.’
7:50 this is the best part 😂😂😂
13:56 so she not gonna stand to meet him? Lol
Sheldon and her are GORGEOUS, together and individually. I wanna know how this played out!!!!
My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very Blessed!
He’s handsome, but the way he walking is a turn off for me 😂😂. Them knock knees loll
That indeed was TRUE 🎉 , nothing kept my husband from me 😊
She's blessed to have a family that cares and will not back out❤❤❤❤
She have blinders on
Girl you too cute for a no show.
Your friends are right
I AGREE WITH STEVE ON THIS ONE❤
This was a very good family show Mr. Steve Harvey.... Your presentation is marvelous, your caring for other people is a heart warming one. From this great video, i got something about how the current generation should choose the family in the right manner. Thank you so much for your concerns and socialisms...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Her friend Tomas is a gentleman 💜
Bestfrnds always laugh😂😂
😂😂3 guys. I hope creepy boy is watching this episode.
How does she not see he's NOT for her
Wishfull thinking. She knows he doesn't love her but she wants to keep him around hoping that he will change. He already knows that she loves him so he doesn't care. Good thing she never tried to defend him. She was honest with her "no" answers about him. She's going to have a good man because she opened up and was willing to take advice.
@@stellamundam6104yep. And I think she just wanted to hear it Fr someone else outside her fam
Maybe the sex was good? That’s why she doesn’t see it.
Did you watch the full video? She ended up seeing it and she dropped him! He was also cheating!
Baby girl run he's not serious take it from me hun🇹🇹 listen to your family and friends they love you more than him they are there. Don't get caught up on love get caught up in your worth as a human and a beautiful woman at that❤💯
Uncle Steve!! I’ve been soo sad, and watching your videos brought joy and laughed so hard. Thank you 🙏
You've wasted a year in your relationship, how many more years are you going to waste?
As long as she learned a lesson, it wasn't a waste of time.
@@The-Oneness11 Don't reply when you're just released from prison.
she has a pure heart but she's blind with love
Baby girl you deserve so much better. All the best.
Well said Steve Harvey.....Look for daddy coming through the door 🚪
I swear I need friends like Tomas and Barbara, just went through a divorce because I picked the wrong man, and kept giving him too many chances when I shouldn't have, if I had friends like Barb and Tomas they could help me weed out the bad guys😂
Truth. My family tried to warn me about my ex husband. Married him, divorced 2 years later. Lesson learned.
The bitter and optimum question her is ::: WOULD YOU LADIES HAVE ACCEPTED THE TRUTH,if them told u do 🤷🏽♂️🤔..that's it ..till ur eyes 👀are cleared out, that's wen u know
She is desperate and the next man will treat her the same way because she doesn’t love her self to say no to being treated like that.
I would love to know what happened with her and the guy that her friend tried to hook her up with; he was a tall glass of Chocolate milk goodness and seemed very polite, respectful and very interested in her but she didn't seem interested in him in the very least. I wish I had a whole network of caring people concerned about my happiness enough to try and hook me up with a few men that they believe would treat me right and that I might be attracted to; I would have at least stood up to greet the man with a hug and look like I was optimistic about the date; the look on her face was like, "Throw him back in the ocean!". Smh!
She's not attracted to him... Not now just like she wasn't when he wanted her # before 🤷
She should of stood up to hug 🤗him
He has a whole family
He got another woman . Lots of red flags, girl ruunnn.
Her dupport systems is awesome...Thomas js a greet friend and very outspoken too
Yes its odd steve
I really wish i would have had that opportunity of talking to Mr Steeve as my biggest birthday present 🇹🇿
I'm gonna help you that. When is your birthday?
10th march
Sometimes families could be wrong and other times they're right!
Sometimes we often lose a good person for listing to a miserable family member or a friend, but her case is different I think she's just a desperate person.
usually they're right, if a girl is not stubborn and blind folded she will consider
Tomas is FINE!
Mom said "So What's Good?", That Boy had to sweat buuullets at this moment 😂
I hope she stop and search his heart and not jus his appearance. As my mother always used to say, love who love you never who you love
I love her family and friends! Amazing!
Reesa Teesa watching this and getting PTSD 😂
She has low self esteem, that's why he's able to get out of these situations/events/appointments with her.
I thought the man was going to be Tomas
He can take the hat off, the date that is. I wish he had someone to give him a style look over before he stepped out. First impressions are everything.
her friends laughing 😅 .. I love them..
This woman cannot make a decision for herself. Needed the entire family to tell her what to do even though she is an adult.
So happy for them!
Girl get out of that relationship please
It's her choice not yours.
She didnt even get up to greet him
I like Toma!!!! ❤
He's new to her give them time
He sat too close to her at once.... Red flag... That stunt are for the birds... Relationships fixers are as risky... is that what this TVshow is about 😮😮? -Really 😮😮????
@@agdcomms9058 she don't like him.
@@maydate86 They"ve met before. She wasn't attracted to him before and she is still not attracted to him.
Is there a follow-up? Would love to know what happens next! I'm glad they set her up but I feel she's still hung up on the time-waster!
Love is truly blind, and so is she