终于得到美国老丈人的许可 Surprise Ramen Proposal AMWF
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ย. 2024
- Ari and Jay talk about when he asked Ari's parents for their blessing to marry Ari. They drink tea and talk about the nervousness he felt in asking Ari's parents permission to marry their daughter in English. And how he went about planning the proposal in front of friends and family. They also show a clip of the proposal that got 10 million views in China and how that influenced their decision to continue to share about their lives with people.
Share some tea with Tennessee Jay and Ari. 田纳西Jay和Ari
Ari’s Instagram! @under_starlight
We really like to read your guys' comments. So sweet and encouraging. Thank you and we are so happy we can share this life all together ☺️
The comment from me is that, you guys must all together and sweet in the rest of the whole life.
Your parents are so nice!
Jay is like other Chinese wants to green card that's fact. In China you can get undergraduate, Master degree with PHD without going to colleges just paying off to admission guys. China is terrible place to do business not to mention worst air pollution in the world so Chinese girls just want to marry white guys from my working experience in China. Why can't Jay get Master degree in US ? Jay might be a spy as Trump and DOD have confirmed Chinese students in US many of them are spies. We are watching you from Al Pacino.
真心祝福你们！太棒了，这是我看到最真实的爱情故事！加油！！！
@@Tchf1000 You are juz envious ... what a sick sour grape!
The day you asked permission was one of the most special days of my life. You were so nervous and emotional but so prepared and determined. You made it easy to say yes and it was one of the best Yesses I ever said!! Love you, Mom.
Omg, is this Ari’ mom? Love your family!❤️🌹
Mom, you're the sweetest 😭 Your words really touched us🥰 We love you so much!
ooooww so sweet, bless you and your whole family!
You are such a great mother, such a happy family, God bless your family!
we love your little daughter too. you are a great Mom.
非常欣賞西方父母的包容，不会基于金錢、权利、地位，只有子女喜欢，很少干涉，值得中国父母学习
是的。可是真的到頭的時候很難做的到啊
但是在美国大城市人性恶劣，人堕落了，美国和西方要有大难了。
人们常说学好不容易，学坏一出流。美国这样下去比北朝鲜还要烂。
美国的年轻人好日子过久了，变成了理所应当必须的。
@@maike5447 美国就是自由和开放，我也喜欢这样，但是太自由了就乱了，要在遵守法律和有原则的前提下自由才是真正的自由。
小伙子，这一刻你是世界上最幸运最幸福的男人，好好珍惜吧！祝福你们！你媳妇太美了，人美心灵更美！
新娘 纯真 友善❤❤
Anti-Asian violence is on the rise, but seeing u guys together is like seeing humanity again. The world needs more couples like Ari and Jay. May God bless you, your family and your future ❤️ from California!
有爱的一对couple
Well said,
Is it still that bad over in the States?
Ari是个好姑娘，Jay要好好珍惜。祝你们幸福永远。
Ari, you are very lucky to have Jay, in Chinese point of view, Jay is a very handsome and smart guy. On the other side, Ari is a doll, pretty and cute. Wish your marriage last forever.
Jay, i never knew the whole story, so thank you for this video. I will say that i had never seen a man work through his nervousness with such determination. In a new language that was new. Wow! We love you both, Lao Zhangen
what a LAO ZHENGREN!👍
lao zhangren
Wow, it’s amazing. Your father in law know LAOZHANGREN. Hope your big family will visit China.
He needs be very careful, if he goes to New York, it i very dangerous. We heard that the situation get much worse than before. Maybe one day the bad things will also happen even in cities like Kansas city.
@@sx9475 Oh shut ya bloody lying mouth you CCP bot
小伙子你非常幸运，媳妇家人这么通情达理，善良！你应加倍努力，好好工作，在精神和物质上以实际行动让家人生活得更好，这是爱的责任和承诺！
你抖音的两段求婚视频的确很火，看了很多次，超级感人！
没有金钱、地位、名誉等等噪声的才是真爱，祝福！
小伙子不错，一点都不做作，是个真诚的人，女孩子很漂亮，善解人意，祝福你们。
美国姑娘纯真、大方、美丽。好得很👍
美国人口再变化，传统的白人再减少，这些好人岁月静好的日子要结束了，大难要来了。
也就是在田纳西能找到这样的了
Ari's mom and dad are the sweetest in-laws that I've seen.
Thank you. Ari and Jay are easy to love.
@@lynettehuisinga2202 Amen to that!!! Your whole family is as well - blessings!!!
太可爱了这个女孩子，希望我老儿子以后也能有这样的福气，遇到这样美丽善良的好姑娘😄
这样下去在美国这种人要绝迹了，呵呵。
我也觉得这个女孩子太可爱了，我三个儿子，真希望以后我的儿子也会有这样的福气，娶到这样的好女孩儿
我去，这就订出去四个，小心懂王用枪崩了你😂
@@junshi8590 美国越来越不安全了，尤其是在大城市，前几天在Riverside CA有个遛狗的华人被流浪者一下捅死了，很快。
@@jingpan3674 同感🤝你抢了我的台词。我也有一个儿子。
真好，祝福哦，真为你担心，还好，姑娘很纯洁，她的父母很慈祥，小伙子很善良。愿中美两国人民也像你们的生活那么美好！
已經比大多數好了
種族歧視還有很多的
杰你是幸运儿，徵婚后当天，Ari 的双亲流着淚抱着他们的女儿说：“妳找到一位值得付托终身的男人”。切记要爱你老婆和他的家人。
感觉这是整个视频的泪点！太感动！为Ari 父母的开明、为Jay的真心！
亚洲人的婚姻比较保守传统， 美国人的离婚率高-接近50%.
祝福Ari和Jay.
@@jameslee2465 总体上中国男性婚姻责任强于其他种族，有什么不好意思说？黑人不结婚女人没丈夫孩子没爸爸，白人离婚率超级高，拉美人一样混乱，我们汉族男有啥自卑哪？哪些人有啥资格对我们装*的。
You two are awesome together. The most important thing in life is finding the right partner along the whole journey. Money will come later as long as you both have clear career goals and strive to achieve them. You both are still quite young, having too much money at this stage isn’t necessarily a good thing. You become better person and enjoy more and appreciate more when you need to work hard to earn your way to better life.
😂 LoL. Too young. You married. It’s time think about the future. Like try to find a better pay job And save up to buy a nice house 🏡 then have a family.Time fly if you don’t have a goal. That’s just my opinion
I came to the States when I was 19, but since I was raised in Hong Kong, I had a better handle on English than Jay. When I was in college, I went out with several America girls, but my mother told me that I should not marry them because she would not be able to communicate with them. If you know that Chinese wives and Chinese mothers-in-law usually have problems getting along (because they communicate too well), you can appreciate and understand that Jay is very wise and lucky :-) Best wishes to Jay and Ari ......!!
America and China is so divided at the moment. But seeing and hearing u both gives me hope and reconciliation. If only everyone can see life thru your lenses as well as that of your consenting parents, this will be wonderful world to be in. It may well be your religious beliefs. But congrats to u both. It’s a rarity to find genuine love that’s giving and unconditional
You both are lucky to have each other! No amount of money could buy what you have. No amount of money can buy back time either. Remember that!
这纯真的爱情让我感动得想哭！！！！每个男人都希望有一个这样的爱情获得一个如此纯真善良美丽的姑娘。每一个这样的爱情都是上帝馈赠的最高奖赏。祝福你们！！！
早上好，帥哥美女！我和我的家人朋友都在在香港和佛山兩地每天都一直關注您們。歡迎您們常回家看看。歡迎來廣東大灣區佛山以及香港來吃喝玩樂。這裡有好多美食啊
在大陆见个人都叫帅哥，美女 😁😉😉😉
You guys made me burst into tears. Ari is pretty like an angel. You both are so lucky to find each other. Blessings! 😃
看到太感动了！你们真的很配对！加油💪🏻
刚开始看你们视频的时候我觉得有点普通，可能最近点了一些华人在美国生活的视频所以TH-cam就推送了你们的给我，差点准备放弃了。后来发现这看似普通记录生活的视频里，不仅仅看到了你们俩都非常尊重对方的文化，而且后来也越来越敬畏你们夫妻之间的包容，现在全部视频看完以后已经subscribe了。我猜jay不光得到老丈人的许可难，恐怕得到自己父母的许可也难。但是好在ari真的是个很善良很懂事的美国女孩，能有更多的支持和帮助。之前刷评论还意外看到你们俩都信主了，太辛福了。两个人有共同的信仰，就算以后遇到什么挫折，我相信也会共同度过的。上帝赐福！
I admired your parents . They’re super nice people and so is you
Very kind of you to say Tony. Blessings LaoZ
很仔細也～感覺的出來美國的岳父岳母應該也能趕受到Jay的用心～祝你們一直都幸福～
You two are so adorable. Better love story than any Chinese drama I’ve seen as of late. Wish you two a wonderful life together.
I wish all American can be like Ari and her family. Looking at the character and sincerity of a person rather than the skin color
I watched a couple of other videos before watching this one. From what I saw in other videos, I could tell Ari's mom and dad are super nice persons and they would appreciate getting a son-in-law with a good personality, no matter where he is from. From the way Jay talks in the videos, Jay is a humble and sincere person. I would be moved if the person my daughter loves prepares a 3-page letter to talk to me with emotion and determination. I would choose good heart/personality over money/career. After all, money and career are nice to have only if they are with a good person.
The proposal was such a surprise and romantic moment! Jay, so proud of you!
居然把我感动哭了。因为看起来开始觉得普通，但看到这么优秀的漂亮女孩。她和他的家人不在乎你是外国人。语言文化怎样，只觉得你人好。就嫁给你。了不起。在国内即这位男士在优秀也不容易找到这么好的女孩。所以祝福他们的相爱。一定要幸福。好好对她和她的家人。
每天都睡前看一下你的视频，非常喜欢。跨国求婚觉得挺不容易的，迈出这一步，当一无所有的时候用一颗真诚的心打动老丈人。Ari家庭也很朴实，父母也非常好。中华文字博大精深，经常有的时候和老外聊着就不知道用什么去表达正确的自己的心境。
you both are so cute.你俩实在太可爱了！
we old people love to see you young people loving each other so sweet so warm
真心祝福你们，这就是我们向往的美国生活，纯真，正直，善良，父母对婚姻不计算名利，而是尊从子女的内心。祝你们白头到老！
我就是从那个视频开始关注到现在，真的很喜欢看你们分享生活，祝你们幸福美满，hope you guys lovely forever❤️
Very good love story. Ari 越来越漂亮啦。好像瘦了。希望Ari 以后有机会给中国人传福音。
You two are really sweet, hope you two will love each other forever. Watching your videos make me smile.
Yo lovely couple. I just wanna say whenever I watch you guys' videos is always inspiring me. this video makes me quite surprised that j hasn't been studied in us. But what I can tell he must be put lots of effort into his language, jess, as well as what he did in this relationship. Even we could not hear the sound When he was proposing. But. It's touching and moving. Wish you guys all the best. And happy A wonderful marriage. Just like what I said before. J. Is A super nice and kind Chinese guy. I bet he won't let yall down.
非常能干和勇敢的Jay，我一直还以为你是在美国读的大学！继续努力，你会越来越棒！👍👍
So absolutely sweet! You guys brought tears to my eyes...
You guys are such a sweet couple and a match made in heaven. I love and enjoy very much watching your life journey!
最近的视频很深入很好看！！因为你们都用英语交流，听起来很舒服很吸引人👍👍
Very touching, feel so great to see both of you found your real partner, a ring and a ramen for engagement is so so funny but yet so sincere by this young man. Lucky couple that's so wonderful.
感动到了 好好珍惜和尊重人家姑娘 祝你们开心幸福
好棒
我是台灣人
趁機會學英語
感謝你
祝福你們新婚愉快
多子多孫
+1+1😂
I am so happy for both of you. You make a wonderful couple!
非常感动！也令我想起我如何和当时的女人（现在的太太）求婚。这么快就过了16多年！
Love your stories, wish you two a lifetime of happiness together!
If I could marry a right Chinese, I would definitely go to live in China with him. I love both cultures, but I believe China is a happier place to live!!!
🤔
I think it is not a good place to raise ur child if u have one, asian competition is crazy. It's a good choice to just live there and get an experience because the food is really amazing and life is so convenient and it is so safe in China.
@Jane Conrad: what's your definition of "right Chinese"?!
杰，是好男人，看他每次聊天都好真诚，都是说真心话。在美国努力可以得到更好的生活
之前在抖音上看到过这个求婚的视频，我当时只是觉得这个男孩子好幸福，求婚成功，女孩子长得也好，身材也好，后来在youtube上看到你们的视频觉得蛮真实就一直关注了，没有想到就是当时抖音上看到的那一对，希望你们一直幸福下去
谢谢！~
超级感人，现实版的泰坦尼克号。祝福你们和Ari的全家。May God bless you and your family forever !
No politics. No prerequisites. No requirement. No interest, no fear to captured gap , just love to be living with each other . If politicians learn even just a little from that, the world would be better.
Politicians want us to hate each other, so they can rule the world.
问题是政治这代表了一个民族的性格和决定这所有人的命运，中国在毛时代封闭，独裁，民众麻木和迷信专制，导致经济大落后，cultural revolution, 破四旧，干多干少一个样，知识越多越反动，反美反苏，后来又有大饥荒饿死几千万人，这些悲剧距离今天不远，那时候不就是因为社会制度造成的吗？人们是社会环境的产物，如果社会出问题了，人们很惨的，不要高估人性，人性本身都是邪恶和贪婪的。今天的美国就有往这方面走的趋势，善良和有信仰的美国人的生存空间被压缩，越来越式微，这样下去后果可想而知。
That's why they are called politicians.
感動哭了，真羨慕你們找到那麼珍惜自己的另一半
Even though it's after 2 years, I'd still like to say congrats Jay, you are such a brave dude. You deserve a good girl such as Ari and I wish you the best luck in your marriage 🙏
Always remember, life is a journey. May the lord Jesus Christ blesses you and your family
you are right
Amen
Life is a journey and you are the protagonist.
And life is so fantastic. Best wishes to your guys.
太感动了😹，祝你们白头偕老！天荒地老！
You two are a delightful couple and are lucky to have an understanding parents. May your union be blessed and enriched with wonderful offsprings.
As a Chinese man myself, i can truly say Jay is a good man n well brought up and so is Ari.
Ari的父母真的很开明，甚至在美国也是为数不多的，Good Luck Jay. 祝福你们
I love your love stories, like fairy tales. Love can overcome all the difference and difficulties. Keep telling your stories, I really enjoy them.
看了你俩的视频很感动，衷心祝愿你们幸福偕老百年。
You guys are beautiful and blessing couple, all the best on your love journey.
Wow!! The most heartfelt congratulations to you both! I thought in your earlier videos, you were both already married. Never the less, you both found each other in this world of billions. There will be much happiness but that comes from helping each other. I believe both of you are really level headed when it comes to deciding on mutual compromises too. I can see in Jay's heart, he has a very strong love for you Ari and your parents/friends. It really is beautiful to see Jay make the effort as well to find the ring and create that cherished letter too. As a guy, I'd be a nice crazy nervous to meet with the parents and I know most of us guys fell the same way.
Again you guys both light up each other wherever you both are and your love never extinguish for each other too!
To Jay, when you and Ari go back to China, will you present her with a piece of Jade jewellery. Also if you not already shared with Ari yet, what the significance of jade is? Anyways I wish you both a long healthy prosperous & blessed marriage as you both continue to share your life journey together. I look forward to viewing more of your future vids. Stay well and be safe!
Thank you for such a sweet comment! We actually were already married we were just saying how he proposed before in this video ^_^ this is Ari and I will have to ask Jade what the significance of Jade is! Thanks we wish you all the best ☺️
好主意！温软如玉，小家碧玉，寓意很好！
real nice video. simple, pure and full love make this happened. best wishes to you both....
Hey, Jay and Ari, I happened to see one of your clips weeks ago, and found it interesting. So happy for you guys. May God bless your marriage!
The key of long lasting marriage is not how much you two are alike (sure it's a huge plus) but how much you two can totally accept or even embrace the differences between each other. Sharing my experiences after married for 20+ years.
Agree for I have the same experience for ~35yrs of AMWF married...
TH-cam 上还有这么美好的视频，看得我都感动的流泪了，祝福你们！❤
Ari, her parents, and her family are truly nice people, like millions of others , make America is still greatest country in this world. God bless you two !
挺佩服阿芮的爱情价值观，不基于名利。祝福你们👍👍
Beautiful story. You are both very lucky that you found each other.
A ring and a Ramen! One for the spiritual sense, and one for the physical. What else do we want?
What a lovely couple with joy and cheerfulness！ May God bless you! 衷心祝愿你们钟爱一生，家庭幸福！
幸福的一對❤️❤️😘😘
看你们的视频，感觉很幸福！感谢你们拍的视频！
The story you guys told is so touching and sweet. Which you two be happy every day
我看到了许多你们的视频，俩个年轻人很真诚很可爱，但是我还是很心疼这个小伙子，每一次都是小伙子为他的女朋友或她的家人做事情，小伙子努力赚钱吧，只有财富才能为你的今后迎来幸福和自尊。
What a lovely and warm story.
Nice couple. I almost am crying for him who is so smart and brave.
wow your make me crying 😭.so sweet video.
when Ari look at you, there is full of love in her eyes. 这就是缘分吧！！
恭喜你倆佳偶天成。 A blessed couple.
Ari跟Jay是非常相配的一對伴侶，恭喜他們結婚感情很好，還擁有一個還可愛的小豆腐❤
How a wonderful couple Jay and Ari !
Jay，刚看过你的文章然后火速找到你的视频订阅，看完文章很感动，真心祝福你们，棒棒哒，祝生活美满，频道红红火火！
真好，Ari是个好妻子，希望你们幸福了，顺带，祝你们也能补充一个仪式😊😊😊
噢！那个求婚的短视频，过去我看过！！原来是你们哪🎉🎉🎉在你们描述如何让Ari父母同意婚事的情景时，我心里也有点紧张，也许你们说得太绘声绘色让人如临其境；当说到父母回家后就拥抱自己的宝贝女儿哭起来时，尽管我非Ari父母但有同样感觉，天下父母心啊……这是一个完美的结局，王子与公主终在一起了，从此过上幸福的生活♥️恭喜+祝贺你们👏👏👏
you guys are perfect match. Thank you for sharing
You two are a sweet couple. Your stories are so romantic, touching and sometimes cute. 😊 I love your videos cuz they're so natural and warm.
衷心地祝福你們幸福快樂，求婚瞬間真的令人感動！
Jay真的好浪漫好貼心❤
Very sweet young couple. Bless you two🌹
我最近開始看你們的影片，每天都很喜歡看，看到今天這一集，Jay你的真誠求婚那一段感動到我忍不住掉淚，Ari美麗善良👍祝福你們及小BB永遠幸福快樂❤🎉😊
你們結婚的經歷過程，很值得感動人心，感謝主你們有美好的婚姻，好好經營美好家庭。
祝福你們兩人百頭偕老，幸福永存 😊
Watching it for the second time today, the sweetest and most moving video. I am saving it and showing it to everyone I know.
Oh wow that’s so great to hear! Thank you 🥰
Happy for you guys, 为你们感到高兴
Everything is about love. Thanks for sharing the happy story
Ari很可爱，Jay很勇敢，回忆很甜蜜😄