One of the reasons why Chinese can mix with other culture is because Chinese culture is religious and politic neutral. It would be almost impossible for a Democrat to marry a Republican or a Mormon to marry a Muslim.
I can see that Jay is still very smitten with Ari. Your love for each other is just so strong and overflowing that I think it will bear fruits the way Ari wants it - 5 kids!!
I always pay more attention to conversation of your american daily life, even learn how to speak native english just like Ari, what your expression is really helpful to me, most important to see great chinese food Ari enjoy a lot.
Great conversation, one of the best videos from you guys recently. It's always interesting to talk about culture differences, especially between two very different countries like the US and China.
OMG, Jay you are a such good cook and you make things look so easy. I would not mind to pay you to cook my dinner every day or every other day if I live close near by you.
Just back from China. Loved Chinese food there. I don't like animal organs either, but you can have a lot of other choices. Looking forward to your good news on baby planning.
Chinese people are all about penny pinching, but when it comes to certain things like a kid's education, parents will usually be willing to shell out the big bucks to ensure their kids get the best, lol. Y'all always seem to cook up a feast for dinner, the Coca-Cola chicken looks awesome. Wouldn't mind living frugally if I can enjoy that type of food. 😋
It's too shallow to think it's just about penny pinching. There's Chinese idiom 人无远虑必有近忧，meaning if you don't have a long term plan you are bound to run into immediate troubles. Take the current Ukrain situation as an example. China had planned to stock up on grains more than a year ago. Now it is paying off in the face of global food shortage and price hike. Same with oil, gold, and other commodities. Compared with the shortsighted election cycle in the US where all politicians care about is to hold on to power by lip servicing the constituents rather than the long term benefits of the country and its people.
@@junliliu4997 Food cost is such a small percentage of family expenditure that hoarding food is more of a problem than a solution. US family spending on food is greatly exaggerated by dining in restaurants. However, all current food pricing increases are due to logistical and labor circumstances. The amount of commodity that is to be consumed such as grain or petrol can not be reasonably stored to fight shortage. If you have predicted such, buying contracts and selling for profit would be much reasonable. The derided arguments of US politics is completely without merit. >It's too shallow to think it's just about penny pinching. There's Chinese idiom 人无远虑必有近忧，meaning if you don't have a long term plan you are bound to run into immediate troubles. Take the current Ukrain situation as an example. China had planned to stock up on grains more than a year ago. Now it is paying off in the face of global food shortage and price hike. Same with oil, gold, and other commodities. Compared with the shortsighted election cycle in the US where all politicians care about is to hold on to power by lip servicing the constituents rather than the long term benefits of the country and its people.
It almost seems like Jay has had formal training in the cooking arts. I really enjoyed the discussion on the four facets of marriage when it comes to international couples You guys have a great outlook and give and take when it comes to your guy's marriage.
I had always believed delayed gratification, worried about the future of myself and my family, until I was diagnosed with a cancer that is not hereditary or caused by life style (we eat super healthy). After that it really changed my opinion on money. While I still have plans for the future I also believe now that one should also enjoy the present.
Steamed dishes. Classic steamed chinese meat loaf. Steamed black bean sauce spareribs. Steamed fish of course. Classic cantonese Steamed pork( slices)with fermented shrimp paste( although I don't think the western palette would like) ..Steamed head on shrimp( with lots of garlic on top and light soy with dark soy as the sauce). Will reply with more...
Steamed chicken with mushrooms. Steamed tofu with pork and or shrimp fillings on top. Classic cantonese Steamed or poach chicken with ginger scallion sauce( called " white cut chicken") . Steamed beef with preserved vegetables... and many more!!
I just can't help smiling when looking at you guys having the conversation, just heart warming. I do like Ari's attitude towards life, "you're not really living in this moment if you invest all your money in the future that you don't know", that's a good one. you guys are great, enjoy the life
這先生真的太優秀了 認真做菜給老婆吃 還會工作養家～性格還那麼好。真的太難得一見了
wow, great food, great conversation, great laugh track! love it, dad
HAPPINESS!
You are great in law for them. So supportive.
I love your performance, brother ♥ May Lord continue to bless you and family members. To God be All The Glory.
又见laozhangren！期待laozhangren 的音乐评论更新！
老岳父啊
I try not to serve pizza when Jay visits.😀😀.😀 It is great to see how well you two get along. Love you, Mom.
Hello Sister Lynette, you are blessed with precious family. May the Lord continue to protect you and family members. ♥ Hallelujah.
cute mom
丈母娘啊
hello,,,
Love you so much mom! Jay is liking pizza more now so you can serve it when you want haha ☺️
ARI 除了美丽，还那么纯真善良。JAY有福了。
但照顧這種老婆也很累，她不禁風霜…還好在東方男子扛家計負上總責任的全面保護下，她當好公主當好聽話溫柔支持的另一半即可，因為她特性很好，主見沒那麼多又不強勢！而且很能吃！老美的食慾就是控制不了，還好她遇見Jay這輩子註定可以傻傻的過了ㄚ
每次看你们的视频，都能感受到溢出屏幕的幸福和爱，祝你们永远都这么开心幸福的生活下去。
兄弟，你真幸运！老婆愿意生5个孩子，真是太让人羡慕了。作为过来人真心祝福你们。因为孩子带给父母的快乐远远大于父母为他们的付出。
您也许是和我一样出生于60~70年代的人。中国目前放宽2~3胎政策，可是，响应却很消极。中国有消极态度的其实不是男方大部分来自女方。中国女性因地位高，认为生育后影响她的晋升，耽误她更多的课余休闲时间，还有认为她的容貌和体形都会产生影响。当然，经济方面也非常的担忧。这些之外中国目前的年轻女性大部分都是独生子，她们从小没有体会过兄弟姐妹之情，内心的孤独感和那种不自信感满满之时她们就成家了。对于一个孩子的出生都是手忙脚乱状态，她们不敢去在想第二三胎的问题。
Ariy应该给她们生4~5个看看，并且，那种和孩子们的快乐情形及如何将所有孩子都梳理的井井有条的写照拍摄给大家，也许会让更多的中国年轻妈妈们鼓起勇气挑战自我。
@@songlintai1638 不要冠以“中国女性”，帽子盖得有点大了，观点颇有点片面。
@@XieAlisa 不要“冠于中国女性”？目前女性问题中国最多，最大。我们要实现民族伟大复兴。现在来看最大的担忧就是来自我们中国女性的问题太多。中国男人最大的忧愁也是来自我们女性方面。不论这位小伙子多么优秀，想找一位可心❤的夫人却是难于上青天啊！为什么？好女人比熊猫🐼数量还少啊！
@@huajunhan4239因为他说的中国女人，范围有点大，生孩子不是女人一个人决定的事情。从我的角度来看确实如此。
做為美國女生Ari性格溫和大度、美麗優雅、謙遜包容，可以說很難得，祝福你們永遠幸福快樂☀️
做你们的小孩一定很幸福,Jay和Ari都是很有教养的人,Ari想要五个小孩,显示她的童年及成长过程原生家庭给予她很多的爱和快乐,可当时她是做小孩子的角色,做父母的角色可不是这样单纯轻鬆,带小孩做家务是很劳累耗体力和精神的工作,且全年无休,除此之外还要牺牲夫妻二人的相处时间,从如今悠閒的步调变的溷乱不堪
Ari要辞去工作,Jay要承担一切开支,孩子越多经济压力越大,若Ari带孩子精疲力竭之馀还会乐在其中,不抱怨不生气且和现在一样的温柔,如此神级的贤妻那真是Jay的福气,祝福你们!
一段理想的婚姻關係,就像跳舞,和諧的完成一段舞蹈,過程中偶有一人之時,也偶有多人之時,但是主體還是雙人舞,跳好這段舞,就是一段好的婚姻.
jay的英文肉眼可见的进步了好多！
在你們談話之間已經感受到幸福。 😀😀
㇏一一:....
Ari吃美食真的很享受、很真诚，可以做成表情包了，放在餐厅，一定生意兴隆！
而且对未来和人生的想法积极、正面又不失理性。
还可以尝试蒸茄子配这个秋葵汁、冷冻四季豆段沾少少玉米粉蒸配醋盐蒜汁
一對真誠的佳偶，彼此尊重，幽默，和諧，有趣 ⋯
你们两个人真的很好，希望你们天天开心，永远幸福。
每次看Jay煮飯都覺得可以開餐廳了！超厲害。要抓住Ari的心先抓住她的胃，好可愛。
You two are so adorable. Watching your channel makes me happier.
I feel having a Chinese spouse, wife or husband, is a blessing as a family. The cultures from both sides are quite enjoyable :-)
One of the reasons why Chinese can mix with other culture is because Chinese culture is religious and politic neutral. It would be almost impossible for a Democrat to marry a Republican or a Mormon to marry a Muslim.
@@4KSnSLifestyle I agree.
@@4KSnSLifestyle Good point hahaha
True
@@stevechoi9329 Only time will tell.
I can see that Jay is still very smitten with Ari. Your love for each other is just so strong and overflowing that I think it will bear fruits the way Ari wants it - 5 kids!!
很喜歡你（妳）們的互動，讓人開心，祝福你們永遠幸福美滿，快樂過每一天
夫妻生活时间长了会形成一种默契的家庭语言，只有家里人才能明白，所以语言根本不是问题，爱是最重要的，而且必要的时候都能发电😂
看到你们夫妻这么恩爱，非常高兴！看得出来，你们都是善良淳朴又能彼此体贴包容的人
非常完美的家庭，父母的祝福，在这个时期给我们展现爱与家庭！谢谢
There is always a way to settle both international cultural shocks or conflicts.
And Mr Jay sure is a good cook, all the dishes are divine.👏🏻
Love your video beautiful couple love from UK England
Comparing and considering between the reality and future, the keyword is "balance".
好期待看到你们的漂亮宝宝。好幸福的一对夫妻。
我的天，，，，
幸福溢出屏幕了
you guys always a blast for me to watch. Keep it up and have kids when you are really ready.
只要兩人相愛，便會懂得互相尊重及包容，這是發自內心的，我們都看到了，謝謝…！
有了孩子，便是人生另一個階段，家庭亦會產生變化，亦是對夫妻的考驗，要堅守對方，便會幸福到老…！
关于要多少个孩子，人的思想会变的，或许后面Jay的想法会变，多少个孩子没关系的，最重要的是看到你们同心合一，一起努力。虽然youtube频道上也有很多跨国夫妻的视频，点赞播放量很高。但是我只关注你们，你们做得很用心，通过你们的身上，我可以学习到一些烹饪的知识，美国的文化等，这就很足够啦。铁粉
To have some savings and to spend, both are important... Its about managing and balancing. I hope you both have a family soon.
我们是中瑞家庭，先生是瑞典公务员。其实在西方公务员的工资不是很高，我们结婚20多年除了语言有一点误会，其他对于经济和孩子教育没有任何障碍。我们的孩子都搬出去自己生活，病毒前我们每年到国内度假。现在主要是在欧洲。
存钱真的很重要，因为真的不知道未来会发生什么事情，不知道自己能否一直保持这种收入水平，提前规划挺好的。我的另一半也是美国人，但是我们消费观，价值观完全一致，饮食习惯也一致，都喜欢吃中餐。
存錢很重要，花錢更重要。
如何賺錢成長重要。賺不到錢如何存跟花呢？
ari讲中文的时候好像小宝宝的语气！好可爱~~【下次试试虾仁蒸蛋 也好吃！【我也不是很喜欢吃披萨哈哈哈哈
I always pay more attention to conversation of your american daily life, even learn how to speak native english just like Ari, what your expression is really helpful to me, most important to see great chinese food Ari enjoy a lot.
天天做这么高热量的食物，你想让你媳妇多胖啊。🤣 我给你推荐一道低热量的菜，白菜撕碎焯水捞出（不焯水也可以），芝麻将，醋，耗油，蜂蜜，比例2：2：1：1，再加一点点盐，搅拌均匀倒入白菜里搅拌，醋和芝麻酱可以多放一些。
有五个孩子太好了。支持你们！
Jay’s cooking skill is 10 out of 10 😃, love it
中外夫妻好多，Ari真的是看到过最甜美漂亮的，希望你们幸福一生
小夫妻真恩爱幸福，真会过小日子！
Jay, 我學到了，沒想過生菜可以蒸蛋餅
Great conversation, one of the best videos from you guys recently. It's always interesting to talk about culture differences, especially between two very different countries like the US and China.
我是杭州人，我也從小不接受吃動物內臟，這可能是個人對事物的選擇吧。
對於小家庭的生活消費和理財目標等觀念融合，我覺得如果小家庭可以當作一個企業管理的模式來經營，相信家庭成員的合作會更理性，更容易，更愉快。只有制定一個共同認可遵守可順利執行的家庭計劃，那麼所有的大大小小的的家庭事務都會進入到一種如同公司規則的遵守互動與保護中順利進行，減少摩擦。因此，有計劃的共同目標，才有可執行的公平共識認可，出來的效果也應當是符合家庭本身設下的預期結果，一切都變成了團隊精神的共同努力。
祝，你們這間國際小家庭企業經營成功，心願必達。
我支持你們生5個小孩！
我也是杭州人 从来不吃动物内脏
我喜欢的女孩也叫Emily 她叫Emily Lou
I like Jay's cooking show.
你们的视频让我很感动。平淡温馨有憧憬，祝你们享受当下，珍爱彼此，拥抱未来
You guys are so compatible! Love you both！ 支持你俩！加油！
I guess relationship can be a lot less complicated when both people have a gentle and fun soul. And that's what we see in Ari and Jay!
What a sweet couple
Ari has such a lovely personality!!😊😊
What a happy young couple !
为幸福满满的一对鸳鸯点赞!
你们的粉丝 R.C from Seoul Korea
今天也是很精彩！
OMG, Jay you are a such good cook and you make things look so easy. I would not mind to pay you to cook my dinner every day or every other day if I live close near by you.
讲得非常好。一对十分和谐恩爱的夫妻，另人羡慕。点赞！
不錯 漂亮的媳婦 哈
Jay 你的英文已经非常好啦 非常棒 太谦虚了 怎么会有人评论担心你们的沟通问题？我真是要晕过去了 ..
Love watching both of you lovely couples, Ari and Jay
Just back from China. Loved Chinese food there. I don't like animal organs either, but you can have a lot of other choices. Looking forward to your good news on baby planning.
她总是一直在吃 说明你的菜真的很成功 加油
Chinese people are all about penny pinching, but when it comes to certain things like a kid's education, parents will usually be willing to shell out the big bucks to ensure their kids get the best, lol. Y'all always seem to cook up a feast for dinner, the Coca-Cola chicken looks awesome. Wouldn't mind living frugally if I can enjoy that type of food. 😋
It's too shallow to think it's just about penny pinching. There's Chinese idiom 人无远虑必有近忧，meaning if you don't have a long term plan you are bound to run into immediate troubles. Take the current Ukrain situation as an example. China had planned to stock up on grains more than a year ago. Now it is paying off in the face of global food shortage and price hike. Same with oil, gold, and other commodities. Compared with the shortsighted election cycle in the US where all politicians care about is to hold on to power by lip servicing the constituents rather than the long term benefits of the country and its people.
@@junliliu4997 Food cost is such a small percentage of family expenditure that hoarding food is more of a problem than a solution. US family spending on food is greatly exaggerated by dining in restaurants. However, all current food pricing increases are due to logistical and labor circumstances. The amount of commodity that is to be consumed such as grain or petrol can not be reasonably stored to fight shortage. If you have predicted such, buying contracts and selling for profit would be much reasonable.
The derided arguments of US politics is completely without merit.
>It's too shallow to think it's just about penny pinching. There's Chinese idiom 人无远虑必有近忧，meaning if you don't have a long term plan you are bound to run into immediate troubles. Take the current Ukrain situation as an example. China had planned to stock up on grains more than a year ago. Now it is paying off in the face of global food shortage and price hike. Same with oil, gold, and other commodities. Compared with the shortsighted election cycle in the US where all politicians care about is to hold on to power by lip servicing the constituents rather than the long term benefits of the country and its people.
What a lovely beautiful wife! Wish you couple a happy life forever!
It almost seems like Jay has had formal training in the cooking arts. I really enjoyed the discussion on the four facets of marriage when it comes to international couples
You guys have a great outlook and give and take when it comes to your guy's marriage.
期待你們的混血寶寶😄寶寶必定超得意👍👍👍
Both the husband and wife are adorable!
Lovely topic again! Great exchange between the two!👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰
有個美麗又體貼明事理的太太真的很幸福
现在的视频自然了很多，看的时候不会出戏，说的四个可能的问题挺启发的，很好呀！
太棒了 正能量满满 互相理解才能走到最后 加油 💪 一起努力生活吧
I had always believed delayed gratification, worried about the future of myself and my family, until I was diagnosed with a cancer that is not hereditary or caused by life style (we eat super healthy). After that it really changed my opinion on money. While I still have plans for the future I also believe now that one should also enjoy the present.
so its important to keep a balance instead of going into an extreme side rigtht?
Wow真美味 祝您們早生貴子 很期待 希望能早日有好消息哦 祝福身體健康 平安
希望快啲聽到你哋好消息祝福你們…
小夫妻要永遠恩愛噢！
I like to hear Ari talk. Clear and slow in Southern style.
要生孩子现在就生，越早越好。像你们这样，生5个都没问题。
真幸福、男的帅、女的漂亮、将来的小宝宝一定很可爱！加油！帅哥！
哈哈期待早日看到你们的混血baby
please try steam pork rib with black bean paste and as well with garlic and ginger
很幸福的一对夫妇
被你们感动到，如此坦白和真诚的交流
生多几个宝宝，混血儿肯定很可爱。
加油哦，jay和ari
Steamed dishes. Classic steamed chinese meat loaf. Steamed black bean sauce spareribs. Steamed fish of course. Classic cantonese Steamed pork( slices)with fermented shrimp paste( although I don't think the western palette would like) ..Steamed head on shrimp( with lots of garlic on top and light soy with dark soy as the sauce). Will reply with more...
Steamed chicken with mushrooms. Steamed tofu with pork and or shrimp fillings on top. Classic cantonese Steamed or poach chicken with ginger scallion sauce( called " white cut chicken") . Steamed beef with preserved vegetables... and many more!!
Please youtube these recipes
You have a lot of great recommendations! Thanks so much! We can look more into these!!
I just can't help smiling when looking at you guys having the conversation, just heart warming. I do like Ari's attitude towards life, "you're not really living in this moment if you invest all your money in the future that you don't know", that's a good one. you guys are great, enjoy the life
多生宝贝多好，有宝贝才有生活长久的乐趣。祝福你们
Love you guys, and hope to meet your kids early.
满满的幸福和爱，让人看的好舒服！
very sweet, very warm
你們的頻道太棒了，加油
Ari 太幸福啦，Jay厨艺👍
Jay needs a traditional wood cutting board from China. Food ingredients would not fly all over the place when cutting
男的俊，女的俏，期待您们的结晶，越多越好，公主更好！
把高麗菜中間的芯挖掉，加進沙茶醬下去蒸，就會吃出菜的甜味跟沙茶醬的香味，可以試試看唷。
To have kids definitely on the right track. That's having a real family of your own.
杰:分享喜樂-傳授--[台式泡菜]製作方法
一-準備材料:
1-乾淨玻璃瓶:中大1個
2-高麗菜[包心菜]:1個
3-紅辣椒:3--5根
4-鍋子:1個
5-涼開水:3000cc[毫升]
**糖水比例::1:1:1
1-自來水:500cc[毫升]
2-白醋:1瓶--500cc[毫升]
3-白沙糖:1包--500g
二-製作方法:
1-將糖水比例三種倒入鍋子攪拌均勻-開大火煮沸-關火-待涼[2小時]備用-
2-包心菜對半切開-片片剝開沖水洗淨-瀝乾水分-
3-倒入涼開水至盆中-將洗淨包心菜剝適當大小浸泡一下-
4-瀝乾水分-直接放入乾淨玻璃瓶內[瓶內不能有水或油]-
5-紅辣椒擦乾-切小段放入瓶中-
6-將待涼糖水直接倒入瓶中-封蓋--註明製作日期-放在陰涼處-
7-第二天24小時就可食用-放越久更入味-
8-冰箱大直接將釀製泡菜放進去-
9-使用時-需用乾淨筷子夾出來-
[無中生有]0+0=1
Ari 真可爱，尤其是吃饭的时候，哈哈！
其实我英文很差，但是都能看懂英文下面的名字和文法，看你们交流很帮助我的英文提升，很不错的对话希望你们经常用这样沟通方式来帮助我提升英语
You two make a lovely couple!
蒜蓉蒸娃娃菜～👍🏻👍🏻可以一试
这小妹妹好扎实，兄弟恭喜了
No worries Bro! US can take care all of them. Keep it Up!
可以試吓👉蒜蓉蒸絲瓜+粉絲。或者蒜蓉蒸蝦+粉絲。蒸熟之後淋上滾油/豉油/辣椒。
I really love the attitude that you treat each other.
I just watched your video with a smile on my face till the end. Haha, lovely.