Dated a woman like this for 6 months once it started I recorded every time she came over, after more than a half dozen attacks by her on camera I told her I was breaking up with her and she needed to leave. Half an hour later I’m in handcuffs getting put in the back of a cop car. I look over and see my “girlfriend” has. A black eye and a cut on her wrist where I supposedly cut her when I went after her. I got lucky as I’m sitting there incredulous I tell the cop can we go back upstairs I have something to show him. After showing him the first incident he called two other officers and all 3 watched the next 7 and then they let me out of the cuffs and arrested her. She confused that she hit her self in the face and cut her own arm to frame me. She spent 4 yrs in jail and I have a restraining order on her for 20 yrs. I moved away like far away she’ll never find me but I’m glad I had recorded those incidents or I would’ve been the one in jail. The cops were unwilling to listen until I showed them actually video of how psycho she was. The main detective still emails me from time to time to check on me and see how I’m doing! Turned out to be a great friend. Guys record it on camera if possible and audio if tats all you can get. Try to take an inventory of wat happened and the results of the argument. To cover your ass. If you can’t record it, it’s going to be harder for you. Oh yeah I’m 6’4” and weight 275 lbs the cops refused to think at my size it could happen. It I told them I had a father who always told me no matter what do not hit women. So I wouldn’t and that’s how she got away with it fo so long. Guys be Smart Cover your ass.
I admire your strength. It makes me glad to know you were able to leave this relationship. It's beyond sickening and you deserve all the justice in this. I hope the very best for you ❤
This is more realistic of all the domestic abuses, but also the female abusers use others to bully as well. Also the shopping is used to bully for "Getting the wrong item or wrong brand". She will often inflicted aid of others including children, by claiming she is the victim of him with domestic abuse if he defends himself and she will claim, that he is lazy and abusive of her.
And why are men committing suicide. If a man is brought to the point of total humiliation, and men have no voice. What do they do, commit suicide, No one will know the shame, for he uphold his father's words NEVER HIT A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!
Andrew Millar I had a friend in said situation. She beat on him constantly. He never reported it due to the stigma it's weak for a man to ask for help and he never fought back since he was always told to "never hit a woman" When she finally was caught and arrested, the cop who arrested her (the cop was a woman) told him that when he was getting beat up he has every right to protect himself
Yes, the cop said the right thing. Kudos for her. The real problem, however, is the huge size of anti-male law, culture and society. A woman doing something against men, even without a plausible reason, is seen as "empowerment, independence, superior gender blah blah blah", but a man doing something against women, even in self-defense, will be demonised, witch-hunted and burnt at the stake without even having his word considered. Female-on-male abuse and violence are okay and comedic, but the reverse is a monstrous crime.
Women who have been affected by violence for the most part have set up shelters for other affected women because they realised there was a problem. Men need to do the same- maybe with the help of your church or social services, you have to look for help, be proactive
I was an abusive relationship with my ex for 6 years always walked away got hit smacked glass ash tray to the temple well I never hit her back I got fed up and called my niece and she took care of it for me.
I have posted videos of my girlfriend screaming and hitting me out side on a hidden camera. My family warned me but I stupidly didn't listen and it was my first relationship. I thought she would change but she only got worse and now my confidence is gone and my head isn't thinking straight. I am posting these videos to show men get abused as well and I want everyone who is in a abusive relationship to get out now cause in the long run it will mess up your head.
That is some of the worse abuse I've ever seen in youtube. I know people tell there story's about there abusive relationships but seeing it on video make's it even more worse and has a bigger impact. She was really aggressive and threatening towards you and it was outside and no one came to help you. I am very sorry SevenX
This video shows a small picture of what men go through at the hands of abusive women. My son is with a mentality unstable woman who tries to control all aspects of his life. She belittles him, he’s made to feel like he’s not a real man, she controls who he speaks to, she has blocked my calls and texts on the phone that she bought him because I see her for who she really is, and I’m not allowed to see my grandkids. He’s always covered in bite marks and bruises, and she’s attacked him once with a machete. He won’t press charges because she threatens him with losing his children. I’m praying that he wakes up and sees that he can’t live his life walking on eggshells around a toxic individual like her. It’s no laughing matter when men are abused. Many are afraid of losing their kids, and courts are often on the side of the mother’s. The police were called on one particular occasion, and because she’s clever at twisting professionals around her finger, (she’s a mental health nurse) my son was ordered to go on an anger management course.
Tell him to record everything in a way so that she doesn't see and to not stop recording every second of the incidents if he is still with her. I hope he isn't with her anymore tho
So sorry Anna I know this hurts you to know what your son is going through. The best thing for him to do is to record her, he should do it as often as he can and make copies. My relative is going through this, the girl's mother and father cheer her on with her abusive behavior. He also has children and doesn't want to leave them but he is not in good condition and needs to leave. It's very painful, I know. Can you visit him?
Get him out of there and give him a home again. Help him to get over this and get his children. It may take time but it will happen. Then he can re build his life. I wish him well.
My now ex-girlfriend was exactly like this. One day she attacked me, scratched my chest all up and then denied even doing it. The next day she started acting really crazy again so i told her it was time to leave. she caused such drama the police ended up coming, i even showed them my scratch marks on my chest. They didnt care and i was the one arrested.
It’s hard. My mother is mentally abusive. My older sister understands this, and she knows what I’m going through- but my dad has it so much worse. I’ve told my sister its domestic abuse, but she can’t comprehend that. It makes me really sad, he doesn’t seem to believe it’s abuse either, or maybe he just refuses to let it show. I don’t have any way to let him know I understand, because he’s pretty unstable at this point and i could totally see him dismissing is 100% and getting very angry with me. and if my mother finds out what i said?... i don’t want to think about it.
I'm a victim of female abuse since I was a kid. I was physically abused by my older sister. In school, girls would lie saying I hurt them after I told them off because I wouldn't give these girls a time of day (saying I was stuck up,,and?) so they made up stories and got ppl against me. my freshman yr of college, a blk girl i didn't know spread rumors about me and got ppl against me. I was contently being verbally, psychologically, and emotionally abused by women since I was 11. Now I made peace BUT it still hurts and I may took me years but I finally see it clear as day
The problem with men suffering these types of women is that the women know what they are doing and will let you know what they will do to you if you try to say anything to anyone. The numbers are a lie, way more men are abused than the numbers show its simply just not reported. Sadly the fact that eventually a man may not respons well and cause harm to the original perpetrator, making everything she has done completely moot because every man becomes demonized the minute they protect themselves/ have had enough.
I'm in abusive relationship 12 months. Somehow just got strength to buy a one way ticket to fly home. Now i have full power of abuses and humiliations then my gf found out i'm trying to run away. Today she started new topic that i'm gay. Well, what can i say, then she will see wallpaper of Nicole Scherzinger on my PC it will be another types of abuses. So dozens of them just doesn't work, because i know who i am just lack of money can't get out. Sleepless night, late or missing work, crying in the garden or if it's day time then in the bathroom that no one would see that, especially the kids and nearest neighbours, because even if they not suspecting anything i don't remember then i looked at them without feeling pathetic. Good video, very good. Thank you.
You aren't alone. Many men have been through it. There is no support from charities, government, or churches. You are strong. You can make it out. You are not alone.
@@mikeymaster2938 it's alright. I got away with a gift. I started individuation process. Strongly recommend to give only love no matter how toxic someone is.
@@mikeymaster2938 yes, i got out. I created a plan there my ex psychopath won't have another choice how unconsciously get rid of me. January 16, 2019 i was thrown out because i stopped giving her £200 each week while I'm on holidays. Gave all my money, enjoyed each moment spent with her kids, taught them as much good life qualities i could before devaluation and discard will happen then i will run out of money. And even then my ex psychopath throw me out she was stalking me 1 more year until 2019 Christmas. 2020 New Year wish i got from a woman i was together 2 years was "you won't beat me on quality". That's how toxic people see love. It's a competition for them. Make sense if you know psychopaths brain part which responsible for the empathy doesn't work. P.S.the best way to find out are you with toxic person is to give them love. They can't feel that and it makes them jealous. The most important thing while someone is in the relationship with narcissist, sociopath or psychopath is learning psychology and neuroscience that then everything will be over you could have knowledge not to jump to the next beast of prey.
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In reality this all starts with education, if young kids are taught that violence is wrong and what to do if they are caught up in it then they will take that lesson into adulthood. We must educate our children in how to protect themselves from violent predators whether they are male or female, without resorting to violence to solve the problem.
current education is adding to this one eyed population, I really hope people would start to self educate themselves only with what they want to. These education factories have been a political play ground , completely!
I wish this was seen by the Government of Canada. my country the police suppose to protect me my coworkers until recently. apart from the sexual parts of this is exactly what im put through since the start of the year but nobody believes the man i cant sleep at night i drink at night to cope to sleep i cry i tell my friends that the cuts on my face are from hockey to protect her from getting in trouble but in reality they are not. Men deserve rights too such a sad world sorry for my grammar im upset
Thank you for commenting, we are very sorry to hear what you have been going through. We would advise you to speak to someone who you trust about this. If you can report the abuse that is also something to consider. Best wishes.
That clip show that every time the guy tried to tell his friends that his girlfriend abuse him but he dont say anything as his friends make fun of him its difficult for men to tell and specially when people think that woman cannot abuse a men or think that the guy is joking and this video video show it this video show it clearly.
Tbh I probably would have been like "bitch, get your award winning horror movie face out of mine" and left her after making a big af mess for her to clean 😇😁✌
Heres my question. Why is it that every time a woman hits a man. Everone asks the man "what did you do" as if the man did something wrong to deserve it. Because women cant do anything wrong!!! Their perfect angels!!! Its such bullshit. And about everytime an abuse case against men actually goes to trial, its passed of as the woman having mental problems.
This is so disturbing. I had to stop watching it. I under went even worse verbal abuse than this tonight. But I leave my very verbal, alcoholic, aggressive sister for good, tommorow. I have a chronic illness that affects my Breathing. Still I was attacked, again, out of the blue tonight. My sexuality, dress sense, personality, health was all very, nastily put down. I'm over 50.and I felt pressure in my chest. Due to this deranged, woman's attack. She was very badly abused by her drunken, pedophile, wife batteri g boyfriend. But shes just like him. So I leave for a home less refuge tommorow. I can't take it anymore. Its killing me.
It's so sad. Not only does a man get abused by their spouse and have to put up with it but, in court I've even seen the court system blame the man asking things like " well you didn't have a problem with her during the last hearing." Or "you cannot represent this evidence because, it's an attack againts their character." Itself sad and disgusting. CHECK YOUR RECORDING LAWS. One party consent recording laws exist.
It's time to stop any and all kinds of abuse, if your in a toxic relationship, call the hot line and get help to get out. And then get therapy so you can learn to avoid this kind of a relationship. We all must learn to put ourselves into understanding why we pick these kind of people that are toxic for us. Learn the warning signs of an abusive person and or relationship and get out before you become a statistic. I think men tend to end up being more physical but women tend to be more caustic to a person's psychie. But of course we all know that it can be both ways one just doesn't see the wounds, scares from verbal abuse. Which is harder to heal from. I know I've carried mine all my life from when I was bullied in school and I'm now in my 60's that's a long time to carry all that extra baggage around. It's colored my whole life. So I sympathize with this young man in this video.
Apparently a leading feminist author has anti disabled followers who says it's ok (using the R and V words) to do so if disabled. It is not. It's what caused a relative to neck himself
Example: Papa remarried a second time after Grandma's passing. It was said that wicked witch used to beat the ol' man with her shoes. Abusive humans come in all shapes, sizes, and physical descriptions. There is no profile for abuse.
Tony Irving hi, thank you so much for watching my film, if you have been effected please look at the links in the description mate! There is so much help out there for you
Behaving offensively becomes part of the norm. Unless we look for other role models or make an effort to educate ourselves on the subject of mis-behavior. Abuse takes many forms.
Maybe if this showed him speaking up or one of his friends asking him seriously if he's ok but NOPE they just add to his emotional trauma. This breaks my heart because it's true. If a man does speak out he's basically told to man up, WTF is that ment to mean any way. He can't defend himself when she's physically abusive because then he is an abuser as well and it's twisted to make her still look like the victim. Please show something that shows these men the way out without the ridicule. Would ANYONE stops to intervene if they saw a man being abused by a woman?? I don't think so. It should be justice for ALL VICTIMS.
I have been single for just over a year after leaving an abusive relationship with my now ex girlfriend. I would say to any bloke experiencing domestic abuse to contact the Mankind Initiative peeps. They were very helpful and gave lots of useful advice.
I believe all abuse can be subtle. Dangerously so. It can be hard at first to detect, whether from women or men. Its a real shame that there is a stigma about abuse at all, especially if one is married to the abuser. In this day & age, society STILL seems to inexplicably feel that it is somehow 'different' if one is struck by someone they married! If its a stranger, then bam its to jail. But marriage seems to imply they are complicit. Bizarre, right?
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This is rare but only because men are embaressed to report that a women beats on them. Rage causes this. Little bitty women beating and sometimes killing a huge man, simply because he doesn't want to hit a woman.
Believe it or not this does indeed happen to Good Men who simply refuse to beat up a Woman, .No matter how poorly, and mistreated he may be treated. These Men are Not wimpy Men, or weak, these men are not sissies, they simply respect Women, and Would NEVER hurt a Woman, therefore some men endure public humiliation, yet without ever hurting or harming a woman. Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan
Really men should just leave this people alone,they are used by the devil himself,and I'm tied of people making it a joke or not taking it serious.please people don't post that women are good people,they are not.
I have to admit it was a bit humorously made, and I couldn't help but chuckle a bit when the crazy girlfriend is yelling at the poor guy for not being able to, you know, satisfy her in the bedroom. But jokes aside, I can't imagine how the poor guy COULD possibly get it up when he has that insane wench screaming insults at him! Men abusing women, or women abusing men... it's all just so messed up! Two people who elect to be in an intimate, romantic relationship together should maybe treat one another with love, no? I can't imagine having to be stuck in an abusive hell like that. I hope anyone who is, is able to get out ASAP.
KCMO, USA, LEFT my narcissist 6 days ago. Sixteen or more years. See! If I would say that, she would want to the second, of when I asked her to leave. Then she packed everything up! If it wasn't for my landlord, I wouldn't even have a stove or fridge. Because, she mentioned that she forgot to take the mini fridge too. I don't care! I just wanted her gone. EVERYONE! I had made a pillow bed, when she took the real bed. And she took the pillows that I was using to sleep on. But, what's hurting now... is I MISS HER SO MUCH! WHY? JEESH this really hurts! gf.me/u/ygubnn
Nv06urzz Ali stand up for yourself. ..stand up to her. Don't run away to these websites. If she is abusing you tell her to stop, and not to be talked to like that. Don't be a scared little boy.
@@markusemmons6457 did you just say "don't be a scared little boy" to a dv victim? That's fucking pathetic to say that to the op even if it is years old
The texting from a girl is suspect though, he needs to show the transcript of texts, and even be able to have the two people speak to each other but like if she cannot handle or compose herself then he needs to get rid of her… at the same time work environments should be careful about properly integrating men and women and avoiding circumstances that could be on one side make one believe there’s cheating but on the other side overly protective that men and women are not able to work together… but some improvements can certainly be made here.
Usually if someone is paranoid about being cheated on its either because they've cheated themselves or are thinking about cheating on their partner or in the case of abusers weirdly obsessive and controlling
The toilet part just seems like a bit of a kink though.... All jokes aside....abuse is wrong. Verbal, physical... all of it, abusive, buuut we all know that.
You know, it's feminist media and society always pushing the absurd idea of "only women are poor victims and only men are sexual predators and monsters"...
These films over dramatize situations... A woman can be verbally abusive on a smaller scale and not act this extreme!!! Movies always exaggerate stuff and take it to the max!!!
It’s sad that people automatically assume that the guy is at fault. It happens to guys too
Init and we get blamed if we protect are self
It happens way to often to guys i mean the only reason why women are more expected is because theyre WEaK n FRagILe
Take it from me. I've been there, too.
@@joshuabirdsall8440 This Doesn't Apply To Me Since I'm A Girl. Poor Men
Dated a woman like this for 6 months once it started I recorded every time she came over, after more than a half dozen attacks by her on camera I told her I was breaking up with her and she needed to leave. Half an hour later I’m in handcuffs getting put in the back of a cop car. I look over and see my “girlfriend” has. A black eye and a cut on her wrist where I supposedly cut her when I went after her. I got lucky as I’m sitting there incredulous I tell the cop can we go back upstairs I have something to show him. After showing him the first incident he called two other officers and all 3 watched the next 7 and then they let me out of the cuffs and arrested her. She confused that she hit her self in the face and cut her own arm to frame me. She spent 4 yrs in jail and I have a restraining order on her for 20 yrs. I moved away like far away she’ll never find me but I’m glad I had recorded those incidents or I would’ve been the one in jail. The cops were unwilling to listen until I showed them actually video of how psycho she was. The main detective still emails me from time to time to check on me and see how I’m doing! Turned out to be a great friend. Guys record it on camera if possible and audio if tats all you can get. Try to take an inventory of wat happened and the results of the argument. To cover your ass. If you can’t record it, it’s going to be harder for you. Oh yeah I’m 6’4” and weight 275 lbs the cops refused to think at my size it could happen. It I told them I had a father who always told me no matter what do not hit women. So I wouldn’t and that’s how she got away with it fo so long. Guys be Smart Cover your ass.
I admire your strength. It makes me glad to know you were able to leave this relationship. It's beyond sickening and you deserve all the justice in this. I hope the very best for you ❤
I love it when people finally acknowledge that men experience it too. Kudos.
These guys are gay losers who never learned how to be a real, strong man!
@@MarcVaBs You're probably weak af.
@@MarcVaBs shut up if a girl hits you you hit her back, where's the equal rights
@@jasonSTILL5 My Mama Say "A Real Man Doesn't Hit A Girl" Is That True?.
Being mean and cruel has no gender. These issues should be spoken out loud to pre teens and teens. Most don't understand what hits them.
This is more realistic of all the domestic abuses, but also the female abusers use others to bully as well. Also the shopping is used to bully for "Getting the wrong item or wrong brand". She will often inflicted aid of others including children, by claiming she is the victim of him with domestic abuse if he defends himself and she will claim, that he is lazy and abusive of her.
Limerickman looks like someone is talking from experience
Ikr sounds like you are talking about my mum
And why are men committing suicide.
If a man is brought to the point of total humiliation, and men have no voice.
What do they do, commit suicide,
No one will know the shame, for he uphold his father's words NEVER HIT A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!
Andrew Millar
I had a friend in said situation. She beat on him constantly. He never reported it due to the stigma it's weak for a man to ask for help and he never fought back since he was always told to "never hit a woman" When she finally was caught and arrested, the cop who arrested her (the cop was a woman) told him that when he was getting beat up he has every right to protect himself
Yes, the cop said the right thing. Kudos for her.
The real problem, however, is the huge size of anti-male law, culture and society. A woman doing something against men, even without a plausible reason, is seen as "empowerment, independence, superior gender blah blah blah", but a man doing something against women, even in self-defense, will be demonised, witch-hunted and burnt at the stake without even having his word considered. Female-on-male abuse and violence are okay and comedic, but the reverse is a monstrous crime.
Vinícius Valois
Which convinces me that feminism is a moot point... women are already given superior treatment.
Women who have been affected by violence for the most part have set up shelters for other affected women because they realised there was a problem. Men need to do the same- maybe with the help of your church or social services, you have to look for help, be proactive
I was an abusive relationship with my ex for 6 years always walked away got hit smacked glass ash tray to the temple well I never hit her back I got fed up and called my niece and she took care of it for me.
I have posted videos of my girlfriend screaming and hitting me out side on a hidden camera. My family warned me but I stupidly didn't listen and it was my first relationship. I thought she would change but she only got worse and now my confidence is gone and my head isn't thinking straight. I am posting these videos to show men get abused as well and I want everyone who is in a abusive relationship to get out now cause in the long run it will mess up your head.
That is some of the worse abuse I've ever seen in youtube. I know people tell there story's about there abusive relationships but seeing it on video make's it even more worse and has a bigger impact. She was really aggressive and threatening towards you and it was outside and no one came to help you. I am very sorry SevenX
My cousin is in a toxic relationship but they’re both as bad as each other
This video shows a small picture of what men go through at the hands of abusive women. My son is with a mentality unstable woman who tries to control all aspects of his life. She belittles him, he’s made to feel like he’s not a real man, she controls who he speaks to, she has blocked my calls and texts on the phone that she bought him because I see her for who she really is, and I’m not allowed to see my grandkids. He’s always covered in bite marks and bruises, and she’s attacked him once with a machete. He won’t press charges because she threatens him with losing his children. I’m praying that he wakes up and sees that he can’t live his life walking on eggshells around a toxic individual like her. It’s no laughing matter when men are abused. Many are afraid of losing their kids, and courts are often on the side of the mother’s. The police were called on one particular occasion, and because she’s clever at twisting professionals around her finger, (she’s a mental health nurse) my son was ordered to go on an anger management course.
Tell him to record everything in a way so that she doesn't see and to not stop recording every second of the incidents if he is still with her. I hope he isn't with her anymore tho
Thats sad
So sorry Anna I know this hurts you to know what your son is going through. The best thing for him to do is to record her, he should do it as often as he can and make copies. My relative is going through this, the girl's mother and father cheer her on with her abusive behavior. He also has children and doesn't want to leave them but he is not in good condition and needs to leave. It's very painful, I know. Can you visit him?
Get him out of there and give him a home again. Help him to get over this and get his children. It may take time but it will happen. Then he can re build his life. I wish him well.
Interesting...I would like to hear her and his side of this story. Men marry their mothers.
Domestic violence can take many forms most of it is emotional be verbal.
i suffered domestic abuse for four years it was only that a police officer recognized the signs and managed to escape.
It's weird what we accept as normal. Where is my police man ... the time has come
My now ex-girlfriend was exactly like this. One day she attacked me, scratched my chest all up and then denied even doing it. The next day she started acting really crazy again so i told her it was time to leave. she caused such drama the police ended up coming, i even showed them my scratch marks on my chest. They didnt care and i was the one arrested.
That’s awful
@@dmc41987 That Karma For You.
@@dmc41987only once... you had a lucky escape... its happening regularly
it's time to sop ignoring men
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@@annikenlittle9644we know its time
Stop the stigma. Equal rights for men who've been abused.
It’s hard. My mother is mentally abusive. My older sister understands this, and she knows what I’m going through- but my dad has it so much worse. I’ve told my sister its domestic abuse, but she can’t comprehend that.
It makes me really sad, he doesn’t seem to believe it’s abuse either, or maybe he just refuses to let it show. I don’t have any way to let him know I understand, because he’s pretty unstable at this point and i could totally see him dismissing is 100% and getting very angry with me. and if my mother finds out what i said?... i don’t want to think about it.
This should get more attention in my opinion and to show people that men can also be abused victims and women can also be abusive.
When you do speak up about it people either mock you, or don’t believe you.
Well done for producing these videos and raising awareness.
I'm a victim of female abuse since I was a kid. I was physically abused by my older sister. In school, girls would lie saying I hurt them after I told them off because I wouldn't give these girls a time of day (saying I was stuck up,,and?) so they made up stories and got ppl against me. my freshman yr of college, a blk girl i didn't know spread rumors about me and got ppl against me. I was contently being verbally, psychologically, and emotionally abused by women since I was 11. Now I made peace BUT it still hurts and I may took me years but I finally see it clear as day
The problem with men suffering these types of women is that the women know what they are doing and will let you know what they will do to you if you try to say anything to anyone. The numbers are a lie, way more men are abused than the numbers show its simply just not reported. Sadly the fact that eventually a man may not respons well and cause harm to the original perpetrator, making everything she has done completely moot because every man becomes demonized the minute they protect themselves/ have had enough.
I had an ex girlfriend who fits the description of a narcissist! She would hit and kick me while i was asleep and then deny doing so when i asked her.
I'm in abusive relationship 12 months. Somehow just got strength to buy a one way ticket to fly home.
Now i have full power of abuses and humiliations then my gf found out i'm trying to run away.
Today she started new topic that i'm gay. Well, what can i say, then she will see wallpaper of Nicole Scherzinger on my PC it will be another types of abuses. So dozens of them just doesn't work, because i know who i am just lack of money can't get out. Sleepless night, late or missing work, crying in the garden or if it's day time then in the bathroom that no one would see that, especially the kids and nearest neighbours, because even if they not suspecting anything i don't remember then i looked at them without feeling pathetic.
Good video, very good. Thank you.
You aren't alone. Many men have been through it. There is no support from charities, government, or churches.
You are strong. You can make it out.
You are not alone.
Im sorry that you have to go through this
@@mikeymaster2938 it's alright. I got away with a gift. I started individuation process. Strongly recommend to give only love no matter how toxic someone is.
@@AudriusMikalajunas thats true. However, i hope you get out of that relationship because no one should be treated like that at all
@@mikeymaster2938 yes, i got out. I created a plan there my ex psychopath won't have another choice how unconsciously get rid of me. January 16, 2019 i was thrown out because i stopped giving her £200 each week while I'm on holidays. Gave all my money, enjoyed each moment spent with her kids, taught them as much good life qualities i could before devaluation and discard will happen then i will run out of money. And even then my ex psychopath throw me out she was stalking me 1 more year until 2019 Christmas. 2020 New Year wish i got from a woman i was together 2 years was "you won't beat me on quality". That's how toxic people see love. It's a competition for them. Make sense if you know psychopaths brain part which responsible for the empathy doesn't work.
P.S.the best way to find out are you with toxic person is to give them love. They can't feel that and it makes them jealous.
The most important thing while someone is in the relationship with narcissist, sociopath or psychopath is learning psychology and neuroscience that then everything will be over you could have knowledge not to jump to the next beast of prey.
many suffer in silence
I went through this myself my she was controlling, jealous, manipulative and would dictate what I could and couldn’t wear.
Men need help and protection too.
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In reality this all starts with education, if young kids are taught that violence is wrong and what to do if they are caught up in it then they will take that lesson into adulthood. We must educate our children in how to protect themselves from violent predators whether they are male or female, without resorting to violence to solve the problem.
sica h everyone knows that hurting others is wrong, they do it anyway
current education is adding to this one eyed population, I really hope people would start to self educate themselves only with what they want to. These education factories have been a political play ground , completely!
@@adwait9806 sadly I have to agree
I wish this was seen by the Government of Canada. my country the police suppose to protect me my coworkers until recently. apart from the sexual parts of this is exactly what im put through since the start of the year but nobody believes the man i cant sleep at night i drink at night to cope to sleep i cry i tell my friends that the cuts on my face are from hockey to protect her from getting in trouble but in reality they are not. Men deserve rights too such a sad world sorry for my grammar im upset
I wish I could help you I am sorry what you are going through 😭I will be praying for you.
:( thank you for your concern
Thank you for commenting, we are very sorry to hear what you have been going through. We would advise you to speak to someone who you trust about this. If you can report the abuse that is also something to consider. Best wishes.
sorry to say Kev but shit in canada is just as bad as any other place because the liberals don't give a shit about men
Kev Skylark i believe you man....
That clip show that every time the guy tried to tell his friends that his girlfriend abuse him but he dont say anything as his friends make fun of him its difficult for men to tell and specially when people think that woman cannot abuse a men or think that the guy is joking and this video video show it this video show it clearly.
Why would anyone have interest in a partner who was demeaning or abusing them?
Tbh I probably would have been like "bitch, get your award winning horror movie face out of mine" and left her after making a big af mess for her to clean 😇😁✌
Heres my question. Why is it that every time a woman hits a man. Everone asks the man "what did you do" as if the man did something wrong to deserve it. Because women cant do anything wrong!!! Their perfect angels!!! Its such bullshit. And about everytime an abuse case against men actually goes to trial, its passed of as the woman having mental problems.
This is so disturbing. I had to stop watching it. I under went even worse verbal abuse than this tonight. But I leave my very verbal, alcoholic, aggressive sister for good, tommorow. I have a chronic illness that affects my Breathing. Still I was attacked, again, out of the blue tonight. My sexuality, dress sense, personality, health was all very, nastily put down.
I'm over 50.and I felt pressure in my chest. Due to this deranged, woman's attack. She was very badly abused by her drunken, pedophile, wife batteri g boyfriend. But shes just like him. So I leave for a home less refuge tommorow. I can't take it anymore. Its killing me.
You did the right thing.
I hope you get to somewhere better than what you're describing:do you know anyone that you can stay with? Will pray for you.
Abuse is NOT love.
LOVE is Love.
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Finally men are understood
Thank you. Never again.
It's so sad. Not only does a man get abused by their spouse and have to put up with it but, in court I've even seen the court system blame the man asking things like " well you didn't have a problem with her during the last hearing." Or "you cannot represent this evidence because, it's an attack againts their character." Itself sad and disgusting.
CHECK YOUR RECORDING LAWS. One party consent recording laws exist.
About time sick of double standards
People always point men out, but some women can be very diveas
It's time to stop any and all kinds of abuse, if your in a toxic relationship, call the hot line and get help to get out. And then get therapy so you can learn to avoid this kind of a relationship. We all must learn to put ourselves into understanding why we pick these kind of people that are toxic for us. Learn the warning signs of an abusive person and or relationship and get out before you become a statistic. I think men tend to end up being more physical but women tend to be more caustic to a person's psychie. But of course we all know that it can be both ways one just doesn't see the wounds, scares from verbal abuse. Which is harder to heal from. I know I've carried mine all my life from when I was bullied in school and I'm now in my 60's that's a long time to carry all that extra baggage around. It's colored my whole life. So I sympathize with this young man in this video.
Apparently a leading feminist author has anti disabled followers who says it's ok (using the R and V words) to do so if disabled. It is not. It's what caused a relative to neck himself
Example: Papa remarried a second time after Grandma's passing. It was said that wicked witch used to beat the ol' man with her shoes. Abusive humans come in all shapes, sizes, and physical descriptions. There is no profile for abuse.
This is my life ,this is most days for me,I pray for death so it stops the hurt inside.😦
Tony Irving hi, thank you so much for watching my film, if you have been effected please look at the links in the description mate! There is so much help out there for you
Death isn't the answer. I hope you're ok, you can just leave. You should record her.
@@EW-uw7dg leave ...
You need to leave mate death isnt the answer please take it easy
Please Leave her Tony. She is not worth staying for. One day later you will know that too & be glad you left. No one should treat you like that
Behaving offensively becomes part of the norm. Unless we look for other role models or make an effort to educate ourselves on the subject of mis-behavior. Abuse takes many forms.
Maybe if this showed him speaking up or one of his friends asking him seriously if he's ok but NOPE they just add to his emotional trauma. This breaks my heart because it's true. If a man does speak out he's basically told to man up, WTF is that ment to mean any way. He can't defend himself when she's physically abusive because then he is an abuser as well and it's twisted to make her still look like the victim. Please show something that shows these men the way out without the ridicule. Would ANYONE stops to intervene if they saw a man being abused by a woman?? I don't think so. It should be justice for ALL VICTIMS.
I need help no one believes me it's the mental side of it I can't deal with dono what else to do
Don't care for the music, not well developed as much but the subject matter is important. Men's lives matter too!
I have been single for just over a year after leaving an abusive relationship with my now ex girlfriend. I would say to any bloke experiencing domestic abuse to contact the Mankind Initiative peeps. They were very helpful and gave lots of useful advice.
that woman a NArc .
like they use a little guy with a bigger girl . thats a more realistic abusive relationship
Where do you go to get help and someone to talk to plz
The abuse is often more subtle from women.
I believe all abuse can be subtle. Dangerously so. It can be hard at first to detect, whether from women or men. Its a real shame that there is a stigma about abuse at all, especially if one is married to the abuser. In this day & age, society STILL seems to inexplicably feel that it is somehow 'different' if one is struck by someone they married! If its a stranger, then bam its to jail. But marriage seems to imply they are complicit. Bizarre, right?
It's now 2021 and that figure is now more like 50%. FACT
I hate the fact that men are to scared to speak up 😢😢😢😢
Well done my friends. Well done
He looks like John Cusack.
Always remember we must repent of our sins (sin is transgression The Law Of Yahuah The Father in Heaven. The Law are The Books: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy). We must repent of our sins and Have Belief On Yahusha The Messiah. HE Died and Rose three days later so that we can be forgiven of our sins!
Come to HIM🙂🙂
This is rare but only because men are embaressed to report that a women beats on them. Rage causes this. Little bitty women beating and sometimes killing a huge man, simply because he doesn't want to hit a woman.
Believe it or not this does indeed happen to Good Men who simply refuse to beat up a Woman, .No matter how poorly, and mistreated he may be treated.
These Men are Not wimpy Men, or weak, these men are not sissies, they simply respect Women, and Would NEVER hurt a Woman, therefore some men endure public humiliation, yet without ever hurting or harming a woman.
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man.
Author Advocate for Humanity,
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
Domestic violence.. Talk plzzzzzzz guys
Jesus is needed all over the world!
shut the fuck up
@@TheAcadianGuy what do you have against Jesus?
@@squigglyline6488 Christianity hasn't brought anything to this world except genocide and conquest. So give us a break about your goddamn religion!
@@squigglyline6488 Your so-called teaching of love is nothing more than a facade that you are too dumb to realize.
@@TheAcadianGuy I urge you to reconsider that
It's not about what gender you are but what kind of a person you are.
Really men should just leave this people alone,they are used by the devil himself,and I'm tied of people making it a joke or not taking it serious.please people don't post that women are good people,they are not.
Mapurunyane Shai are u saying men deserve this?
No no no no😠😠😠😠😠.men don't deserve this at all.
Yeah dubstep!!! Yeah domestic violence!!!! I can really rave to domestic violence!!!!!
I have to admit it was a bit humorously made, and I couldn't help but chuckle a bit when the crazy girlfriend is yelling at the poor guy for not being able to, you know, satisfy her in the bedroom.
But jokes aside, I can't imagine how the poor guy COULD possibly get it up when he has that insane wench screaming insults at him!
Men abusing women, or women abusing men... it's all just so messed up! Two people who elect to be in an intimate, romantic relationship together should maybe treat one another with love, no? I can't imagine having to be stuck in an abusive hell like that. I hope anyone who is, is able to get out ASAP.
KCMO, USA,
LEFT my narcissist 6 days ago. Sixteen or more years. See! If I would say that, she would want to the second, of when I asked her to leave.
Then she packed everything up! If it wasn't for my landlord, I wouldn't even have a stove or fridge. Because, she mentioned that she forgot to take the mini fridge too.
I don't care! I just wanted her gone. EVERYONE!
I had made a pillow bed, when she took the real bed. And she took the pillows that I was using to sleep on.
But, what's hurting now... is I MISS HER SO MUCH! WHY? JEESH this really hurts!
gf.me/u/ygubnn
MGTOW is freedom.
When did the MISFITS get so serious?!
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Thank you!
true
Makes me glad I'm gay!
I wish you would help me
+Nv06urzz Ali Hi, If you are struggling we suggest you talk to someone you trust, or visit nhs.uk/livewell/abuse for more advice. Best wishes
Nv06urzz Ali stand up for yourself. ..stand up to her. Don't run away to these websites. If she is abusing you tell her to stop, and not to be talked to like that. Don't be a scared little boy.
+markes emmons Tell her to stop? Wait... I didn't just read that, did I?
Get your balls back, stop being a beta simp, be a man and kick the bitch to the curb.
@@markusemmons6457 did you just say "don't be a scared little boy" to a dv victim? That's fucking pathetic to say that to the op even if it is years old
Once this issue becomes mainstream feminism will finally end.
Feminist want men to be able to speak up.
The texting from a girl is suspect though, he needs to show the transcript of texts, and even be able to have the two people speak to each other but like if she cannot handle or compose herself then he needs to get rid of her… at the same time work environments should be careful about properly integrating men and women and avoiding circumstances that could be on one side make one believe there’s cheating but on the other side overly protective that men and women are not able to work together… but some improvements can certainly be made here.
You don't need to show 'proof' of anything to your partner. If there is no trust, then why even be with the person?
Usually if someone is paranoid about being cheated on its either because they've cheated themselves or are thinking about cheating on their partner or in the case of abusers weirdly obsessive and controlling
Again, thank God I'm gay.
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First of all this situation they illustrated is very unlikely. What is a reason a man would allow this treatment from a woman.
Interesting how this video is 4 years old and has only 30K views. TH-cam is run by a feminist hag who cencors videos related to men's issues.
Need more honest conversation between men get togethers. Yeah?
The toilet part just seems like a bit of a kink though....
All jokes aside....abuse is wrong.
Verbal, physical... all of it, abusive, buuut we all know that.
some people arent self aware enough to see that they are the ones "doing the abusing" though. This is the problem.
Why is women always the victim? They are not the only victim I have been abused by my parents but lucky we got therapy
You know, it's feminist media and society always pushing the absurd idea of "only women are poor victims and only men are sexual predators and monsters"...
lol
@Robert Barry I totally forgot about this, rewatched the video. Just as funny today then it was 2 years ago.
These films over dramatize situations...
A woman can be verbally abusive on a smaller scale and not act this extreme!!!
Movies always exaggerate stuff and take it to the max!!!
Trust me people can be this bad or even worse!!
Did you not see the case about Jodi Arias? Have you never heard on the news how a woman abused her own children? So of course they can abuse a man.
No it's over-dramatic. IT IS REAL.
If you can't see that it's bcos it's not dramatic enough
Impossible. He has friends.
How is he allowing his friends to talk about her like she is a trophy girlfriend? We need to reassess the undertones of this.
What wrong with banta? Is anyine getting hurt? Are they sharing eachithers feelings of how atracted they find their partners? How horrifc...
@@MrTunes333 👈English please or go back to school.