Once you're in a relationship, there absolutely does need to be certain boundaries and limits when it comes to opposite gender friendships. And yes, there are different standards when it comes to same gender vs opposite gender friendships. Certain things become inappropriate. If you can't accept this basic reality, you have no business being in a relationship. This girl blatantly disrespected her bf, and deserved to be dumped as soon as she even suggested going on a vacation with a male friend, without OP.
Partial story, gender swapped rewrite with a different ending. Original OP was a girl and broke up with her boyfriend that uninvited her from a week long trip with his female best friend.
Men don't have female 'best friends' and women don't have male 'best friends' generally. The lack of consideration and respect from the jump and it doesn't matter which gender is which in the story it's obvious that there isn't a good relationship there to salvage. Cut your losses and be happy you weren't married.
I would have told her on the spot, we were through the moment she uninvited me on the trip. No if ands or buts about it, she would need to pack her shit and GTFo.
The girl is getting her back blown out by the other dude
Once you're in a relationship, there absolutely does need to be certain boundaries and limits when it comes to opposite gender friendships. And yes, there are different standards when it comes to same gender vs opposite gender friendships. Certain things become inappropriate. If you can't accept this basic reality, you have no business being in a relationship. This girl blatantly disrespected her bf, and deserved to be dumped as soon as she even suggested going on a vacation with a male friend, without OP.
Partial story, gender swapped rewrite with a different ending. Original OP was a girl and broke up with her boyfriend that uninvited her from a week long trip with his female best friend.
Men don't have female 'best friends' and women don't have male 'best friends' generally. The lack of consideration and respect from the jump and it doesn't matter which gender is which in the story it's obvious that there isn't a good relationship there to salvage. Cut your losses and be happy you weren't married.
I would have told her on the spot, we were through the moment she uninvited me on the trip. No if ands or buts about it, she would need to pack her shit and GTFo.