Hm meanwhile i do relate having a rigid thinking, in my personal experience the whole experience is a bit lonely and somewhat shameful, because I'd say the natural flow of things is to focus on one or two specific careers and when you're constantly changing or looking for one, it's hard to admit confidently to people you're kind of a mess, which makes it hard to build "the little things" that are also meaningful like relationships/friendships for instance. I do believe a lot of people trick themselves into pursuing and liking something even if they aren't sure mostly because of the reason above and I gotta agree, it's hard to live with insecurities.. but I do agree with what you said on this video and I should be working more about the way I perceive things. Thanks for the reminder!
100% - "Just focus on the little things" is something that can sound easy on paper but there are a million things that make that goal uncomfortable, difficult and unintuitive.
Sound advice - thankyou.
Hm meanwhile i do relate having a rigid thinking, in my personal experience the whole experience is a bit lonely and somewhat shameful, because I'd say the natural flow of things is to focus on one or two specific careers and when you're constantly changing or looking for one, it's hard to admit confidently to people you're kind of a mess, which makes it hard to build "the little things" that are also meaningful like relationships/friendships for instance.
I do believe a lot of people trick themselves into pursuing and liking something even if they aren't sure mostly because of the reason above and I gotta agree, it's hard to live with insecurities.. but I do agree with what you said on this video and I should be working more about the way I perceive things. Thanks for the reminder!
100% - "Just focus on the little things" is something that can sound easy on paper but there are a million things that make that goal uncomfortable, difficult and unintuitive.
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