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Cell Phone Addiction | Tanner Welton | TEDxLangleyED
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มิ.ย. 2019
- Tanner has a comedic and uncanny way of noticing everyday events. He draws people in while entertaining them about his personal experiences pertaining to social interactions and common cell phone usage amongst the youth of today. Tanner Welton is a grade 8 student from the Langley, British Columbia. He enjoys public speaking, hockey, drama the outdoors and socializing with friends. He is a very social kid who takes a keen interest in people. He is very personable and charismatic. He notices the more subtle ways people interact and loves to evaluate these relationships and share stories. He is empathic and caring towards others and notices when others feel sad, lonely or not accepted in groups. He wants all to be accepted and cared for and strives for fairness and understanding in the world. He has learned to be resilient as he faces his own daily challenges and is learning to overcome obstacles and see the light in his future. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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Plain and simple... technology was supposed to bring us closer and make us smarter; we're just getting dumber and pushing loved ones farther and farther away
Stop projecting. Technology DOES make people smarter. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it somehow makes people dumber.
I feel you are absolutely correct. Don’t give kids all out access to phones and definitely keep them off social media. Strive to teach your children how to make meaningful and long lasting relationships. I see my kids friends that are in elementary school and already have cell phones and Facebook. When they stay over at our house we ask the parents to please keep the cellphones since we don’t allow our children access to things they don’t need to access.
Well it can, we just need to somehow use it in the right way
@@ryanthomas49 You're only half right ... I think phones must have existed only for calls and videocalls ..
I'm with y
I think this whole speech is very accurate in showing the harsh reality in how so many people around the world are actually addicted to their cell phones. It’s an issue that lots of kids fail to acknowledge because it’s so common. I personally know multiple people in my life who are addicted to their phones and it’s sad to see how common it is.
I’m 23 and agree on this. Social media has destroyed society. I deleted it ages ago, and you notice how annoying it is seeing so many people glued to it.
I am 13 years old and I was a victim of cell addiction. It wasn't a problem when I looked at my phone and played numerous videos for hours but then later own I noticed some changes in myself. Being distant with my family members, having anxiety problems and a lot of temper in the sense I get angry really easily for small things and I also became poor in studies. I just wanna give a small advice to students my age, phone addiction makes you loose a lot of things and yourself. I recommend you all to take very less time in front of the screen, cause once you get addicted it's hard to come back to reality instead lets take care of ourselves and focus for our future.
Thanks for your honesty and sharing. More people need to recognize this in themselves like you did! You're on your way to healing!
Im glad that you’ve realized that while you’re still young
What did you do for the recovery? My kid is doing same you described above.
I do agree that this is a problem but I do not think it is a very large one yes it is bad for kids to become distant and develop anxiety etc. However there are so many bigger things to focus on what about kids who are being targeted by vaping companies and get addicted to that what about kids who are being violently bullied online not because of cell phone attiction but for just being themselves. As someone who has been diagnosed with major depressive disorder, has an addict for a parent(alcohol) and has tried to end there own life all at only 14 I think I have some say in the matte of wether this is a real problem we need to be focused on.
Gives me hope to see someone so young talking about this issue. Thanks, Tanner!
he did it just to put it on his resume
Amen
@@Jef166 so true
I hope he’s still doing big things
I am 12 years old and I find this video really interesting and I am really satisfied with that quote he says at the end “Your time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”
Then put the phone down
@@pikazu2578 I did lmao 🤡🤦♂️
Bravo Tanner! While it is fairly common to hear adults complaining about this “pandemic” of cell phone addiction, it is so much more powerful to hear it coming from a bright and intelligent young person like yourself. You are humble and aware. Thank you for your sharing and thoughtfulness. We ALL have work to do in this area! (and I’m in my 50’s :-)
I found this so relevant and I love that a middle-schooler is saying these things. I actually quoted him in a podcast on the dangers of social media...
"dangers of social media..."???? bruh
It takes over our Life
Phone addiction often reduces face-to-face interactions, weakening real-life social skills and relationships.
Im failing school because i want to escape the cruel reality thru my phone.
Nooo! Fight back! I had this problem too. I would install an anti social media add on to my browser/app when I studied. Just got to break out of the habit. You still have time, you got this :)
@@snowjae9380 right
Don't waste yourself
Its ok idrc
@@dynamo5326 daammn I know tht feeling tho but I try to escape it through music
*It is sad that almost nobody cares about cell phone addiction*
i dont
Though I care,
I don't know what to do
Technology is the future and present. Don't like it? Don't use it.
@@ryanthomas49 it is not that simple when companies everywhere want people to do stuff online . From banking to bill payments and shopping. It is all being forced online. So its very hard to get away from technology even though i crave simpler times myself. Life just isn't like that anymore. People who weren't born before technology really evolved during the last 20 years simply dont understand. You go down the high street and for every ten people you see 9 of them will be staring down at their phone. It is awful, really awful. I wonder just how many of them will get to the end of their lives and be filled with regrets over how much of their life was wasted staring at a phone screen . Smartphones are not a blessing they are a curse
Anybody else watching this for homework?
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We’ve perpetuated a world where we all need devices to carry out life for the most part. I pay bills, gps for work, keep reminders for side business, need calls and texts from family. It is definitely hard to have control rather than the devices usefulness itself.
I deleted most of my social media apps off of my phone besides discord and Snapchat, because these two tend to have the most privacy. It really makes you come to reality of how many friends/connections you actually have vs the fake connections in the virtual world.
As a child, I used to be so worried that I won’t be like everyone else because everyone has Instagram, Snapchat, and more. But honestly, I would go back in time and thank my mom for not letting me have social media, and honestly to never let me and my brother have it at all. I regret using social media.
It’s a waste of energy, and the sad part is people who have mental disorders seek online forums that do absolutely nothing for them but spit the same negative symptoms they are trying to address or fix. It’s ironic as the thing they are trying to use to address their mental illness is actually causing it.
It gets to the point where adolescents and especially young teens can’t form a stable sense of self, and base their identity off of what everyone thinks. They turn down long-term dreams for short-term acceptance (fake acceptance), and it’s actually very sad.
The world could possibly be a better place if the like button didn’t exist, and the like button was a clever component of social media from day one. Tech companies/social media companies are feeding off of social media usage, and the more likes users get, the more they’ll be apt to continue to use these outlets, therefore giving the companies what they want.
Agreed! I didn't have a smartphone until my mid twenties, life is better without phones :)
I’m amazed.
Ok boomer
So then get off technology then. You cannot complain while simultaneously being on technology.
Yes I am kid but still l use phone but l will not much phone
Me too. 38 years old and I didn’t get a phone till I was 22 and I’ve never had any social media accounts. I see everyday, people I work with can’t go to a meeting and stay focused. They are constantly messing with their phones.
When I go hang out with new friends I always leave my phone in the car because I want to show them that I’m fully invested in our conversations. It makes for a more fulfilling life when you make actual friends and not fake Facebook friends
POV: you're 5th grade teacher told you to watch this and write an essay on it
9th grade for me
10th grade for me and I have to write a persuasive speech.
i'm a 10th grader and my teacher did the exact same thing💀
@@zeynepbilgi6245 I'm here for the same reason :D
Second for me
The last words are true, me while seeing a wired cloud or beautiful sunset. My brain not enjoying the scenery, instead taking a snap and upload it online makes me happy. I don't wanna waste my time for living somebody else's life
It is all about balance. When you go to see a movie with your spouse, leave your phone at home. When you visit friends, put your phone away while you visit. You can grab a pic together just before leaving for home. When you go for a walk, enjoy nature, your dogs or children or significant other. Do not worry about social media. Be in the moment. Phone watching while crossing a street or worse yet, driving while using your phone, could be fatal for you or someone else. If you have an unfortunate aggressive encounter with someone, do not use your phone to spread the details of this toxic encounter with people who have nothing to do with the encounter and who do NOT want to know about it. Limit your time on the phone. Leave it at home and see if you can feel happy and comfortable without it. If not, you are addicted and no addictions are good for you. They imprison you! You will end up not sleeping well, getting depressed, feeling unfulfilled, because you are wasting precious time. Use them to uplift, educate or capture beautiful memories. Limit your time spent on them to one or two hours...no more! Do not document every minute of your life. Live instead!
Before looking at this comment...
I was just reading "Newlands octave"
Absolutely not.
No
True but one word on why it’s important to keep it around, emergency.
I tried telling kids and was told .. I was crossing boundaries .. we must start loving our children and that means making sure they are healthy minds as teens ! Great speech young man ! Stay strong ! God bless our youth !! Very sad truth ,
I'm fulfilling my phone addiction by watching this video. As my brain says "this is the most relevant thing to do". And brain does that without thinking
I went into a crisis care 2 years ago. When I went in, they locked away my phone and I could only use it for like 30 minutes when I was able to use it. I had to also wait for other people. I now know that is when I am depressed when my phone is constantly in my hand smh. It's sad.
Watching this from my phone rn
all parents "well in the 80's i played with rocks"
no they ran down slaves
@@LorraElizabeth and cereal killer's, Drug epidemic y'all weren't all that great either 😬
@@maleahj308 that sounds cooler
I did. I named them all and mark them with my switchblade. It was very fun when you had nothing to do
Yeah, we threw them at each other.
It is great that this young person is sharing this information to adults and teaching other young people. Thank you.
This wasn’t the video I was looking for. Yet here I am
The phone is an integral part of our life, but frequent use is addictive. I myself feel discomfort when I am left without a phone, the main problem is not in the phone, but in the person.
It's refreshing to see someone at this age tlaking about an issue like this. Great talk, Tanner.
I knew something was very wrong with the world when I saw people on bikes glued to their cell phone, on skateboards glued to their cell phone, driving a car and glued to their cell phone, in movie theaters and glued to their cell phone, a mother pushing her baby in a carriage and glued to her cell phone, a mother walking her little daughter home from school and glued to her cell phone, people walking in a park and glued to their cell phone, a father playing soccer with his daughter at the park and periodically checking his cell phone. My advice is PUT YOUR CELL PHONE DOWN AND PAY ATTENTION TO THE PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU.
God he's so well spoken I'm mind blown
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@@tripppaynter2633 funny how you use a twitter quote in this video
I love the irony in quoting Steve Jobs as his closer.
Because Steve had a childish selfish business model? Jokes
"...talk about something from the 1900s." First time I heard a kid say something like that.
talk about this ratio
The addiction is one thing leading to another.
it was really simple and basic.I hope we see more people like tanner coming up and understanding this. Great Job!
This kid need to do school tour.
Great speaker, personal and timely subject, and even some humour..! Great work!
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I found this video helpful and took notice that even I could even have a cell phone addiction. As I do, I use use my phone for everything and as everyone does. Sometimes you rely on your phone too much. We do need to take a break from a phone or any electronics and be in the moment with family and friends. Thank you for this informative video.
I would panic if I don’t have my phone in my pocket because I would assume I lost an $800 object that is my only form of communication
lmao
@Juju Dickson I would panic if I was in public no lost it because it’s $1000 and I might not be able to find it, are you seriously telling me if you lost your phone in public you would panic
@Juju Dickson it has all of your information, and were literally in a pandemic ''face to face'' is really dangerous now
This young man is very smart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Technology is not the problem, the problem is the way we use it.
This kid speaks the truth! Listen to him!
Kid: "You freak out when you loose your phone? YOUR AN ADICT!"
Me: "Well maybe its because my phone costs a good amount of money and I don't want to deal with getting a new one."
Very well spoken young dude. I'm on a social media break
you say as you’re on youtube
@@Slayzlee youtube is a social media🙄
@@Slayzlee bro not to be rude at all but youtube is social media 😂
@@Slayzlee I work as a software engineer and I can tell you that there’s literally no difference between TH-cam and Facebook. So technically you’re not on a social media break
I'm watching because it's compulsory for us to learn it in training center😢
I am so addicted that I don't pay attention to school anymore, assignments are neglected and even worse I don't have the motivation to go to school when my other friends have a lot of ambition. I'm really confused with myself, my life is only about my phone and can't focus on reality
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@@tripppaynter2633 omfg stop go back to Twitter tf..
Fubbing is awful! I have had people come for a visit and they spend most of the time on their phones! So why visit? What message is being conveyed??? I care more about FB or someone else than I do about you!
He forgot the most important thing the people who designed the phone and the frequencies that the phone generates intentionally made it so your mind would become captivated remember you're just to sell vibrating at a specific frequency
Oh so your one of those crazy people.... Ok
The problem I have a phone addiction is usually people are addicted to their phones but when they order something for delivery or when they are actually needed for something, they all the sudden don't have their phones with them
As a delivery driver, if my customer isn't going to answer the phone, I will blow up their phone into Oblivion until they answer their phone even if they give me the worst possible rating, I will even remind them that society has been guilty of being addicted to their phones but all the sudden when it comes to something actually important to them, they all the sudden are off their addictions
With the development of the Internet and the popularization of mobile phones, more and more teenagers are addicted to the Internet. I hope that parents can also strengthen supervision, so that children can plan their time reasonably while completing their studies.
I am so glad someone else sees what is really going on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Awesome bro😘 kya speech diya he tomne ekdum jhakkas ❤
I tend to think a lot of people miss out on life when they're on like Facebook, Instagram. People don't realize how fast life goes by
i tend to think a lot about this ratio
@@tripppaynter2633 🤔
it's too easy to depend on a phone ...that's what hooks people.
My mom only lets me use my phone one 2:00 in the afternoon.
Love you bros!
Consider Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple until his death in 2012. He didn't let his children use cellular technology until they turned 14. In a 2011 New York Times interview, he said that he prohibited his children from using the then newly-released iPad. Jobs specifically told reporter Nick Bilton, “We limit how much technology our kids use at home." When he was asked why he never let his kids use an iPad, he said “Actually we don't allow the iPad in the home. We think it's too dangerous for them in effect.” He recognized just how addictive the iPad was. And certainly marketers saw how much of a vehicle it was for delivering advertisements to people. Coming toward 2020, the lines were becoming very blurred in just how negative the effects of too much technology were having on this generation.
Excellent presentation! Totally right on!
but if someone likes your post it means that someone actually likes what you're posting
Great talk on such a relevant topic! Great job!
"... or things they did way back in the 1900's..."
Ah the good old 1900's when some of us used to spend 3+ hours on the phone (landline) talking to friends we had just talked to at school, or when our parents complained about the dial-up internet usage.
Lol I laughed so hard when he said "back in the 1900s." Like... well played little man, well played.
great talk on this ratio
wow this kid really knows what he talks about. thanks!
This kid is smart and is going places
this ratio is going places
The issue is, that addiction is required to function in society in most large countries right now. It's kind of disturbing when you think about it. It would be like if you had to take oxycodone before allowed into a job interview. Not having a cell cuts you off from job opportunities, safety/location assistance (ie if you have kids you'll understand this one for sure, I need a phone on me always), financial control/information, and speed/information required today for occupations or even daily tasks (like signing up for and getting to appointments). One example is many of the covid tests, which, regardless of your views on, many employers required before returning to work. They required the use of the VAULT website or app to submit the test as well as an email for timely results. Yes, there may be many issues surrounding phone usage but the answer unfortunately can't be "just stop then." I honestly wish there was an earnest discussion about things we could do to combat these issues.
Meanwhile, like I said I acknowledge an addiction issue, my mom will not put down her phone for the reason of constantly perusing and posting to FB (which i personally hate and avoid using because I see what it does to her). I'm guessing the "answer" is a lot more nuanced and tailored to individuals as most instances of addiction are... it's just the societal reliance on the addiction source that makes it all that much more difficult.
the issue is this ratio
There's so much to learn from him, great talk!
I am literally forced to be on my phone since 6 am because I do school on my phone.
Consciousness is the answer to all the questions.
i bet you this kid got straight on his phone right after 💀💀
“Way back on the 1900s” made me feel real old real quick..
Good points and props to him for doing this in eigth grade but did anyone else find this kinda cringe.
Are we just not gonna talk about the fact that he’s probably just gonna go home and go on this phone instantly
pay attention to little thing that makes u happy
pay attention to this ratio
I'm not clear when he says "obeah". What does it mean? Magic power?
i use my phone so much that when i lose my phone, i cry
My wish is to be able to use smartphone as a tool like a screwdriver. I want to use it when it is required but screwdriver never distracts me for playing with it.
I wish no-one made a phone
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My teacher showed this to my class today
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i need this for my oral communication, thanks :)
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I have spent 10 years just looking at my cell phone none stop. Help.
maybe tell us why?
That is so true ❤
I'm watching this on a technology though.
anyone know where the tricolon is?
Questions according to the video you can use during the lesson:
1) what is the name of the "nophoneobeah"?
2) What do British or Spanish arents do to their children who are addicted to smartphones?
3) How do likes affect your brains?
4) How does a restaurante date look like now?
5) What's phubbing?
6) what way does the phone affect your sleep, driving, relations?
7) what was the best day of Tanner and why?
8) Do you agree with the cocnclusions that Tanner came to?
I don’t use my phone when I drive the car🎉
People also disassociate into the Internet on their phones when they have unresolved trauma.
I panic when i lose my phone because my mom will get super mad at me 😰
Umm... Sir I think you drop this 👑
how will I wake up to go to school without an alarm, and also did you know that ever since the iPhone X all phones are oled phones, oled is where each pixels light them selves so point is if you have a phone newer than the x you won't get blue light.
Especially now college online at home
Great speech the ending was awesome ! God bless you , young man
Me who's 14 and doesn't have one: IKRRRRRRR PHONES ARE SOO BAD
Notice how this hands cannot go apart. Its like he has a phone in hands the whole time.
People cannot even open up their arms
True
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Gandalf: "A Palantír is a dangerous tool, Saruman."
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i am going to use my mobile like a telephone ......i am fed up with my mobile addiction.....i don't need unnecessary information.....
Awesome speech bro!
I love so much❤
A person with a crack pipe is no differnt than a person with a cell phone. Its sad how many people get mad at you when u say something about cellphone use on social media. ..people get triggered!!! People get mad!! Like they feel attacked!! Scary!!!
Half of my life has been destroyed by smartphone..
you life is gonna be destroyed by this ratio
The captions that are automatically generated in 42' is "cell phone addiction is a number 1 word". Is it right? I usually doesn't say like that.
We use the blue light filter boii
how about you use this ratio
I freak out when i lose mine bc its 1,000 dollars