Once You Complain You've Already Lost
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ต.ค. 2024
- This video comes from Gary's 2016 keynote at Web Summit. Watch the full keynote on his main channel here: • WEB SUMMIT GARY VAYNER...
Complaining is one of the least productive things you can do for yourself and your situation. By facing the reality of what things really are, you can get to correct the problems much faster than dwelling and complaining about them.
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"If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you."
And what if "you" are not and you're not aware of it?
Amer Kovač I guess that’s the work we all have to do to be successful. Cultivate the self awareness to know. I think it works the opposite way as well where a person can be naturally excellent at their craft but they don’t know it because it comes so easily to them.
Translation "If you could, you would." Ignores logistics, reality, and passive aggressive sabotaging of other people.
@@amerkovac5247 Then you're stopping yourself
*So true when I realized this my life changed for the better. Take full responsibility and strive to become the best version of yourself and use all the energy on bettering yourself and not making excuses.*
just like Goku :)
@@JBtheWeightlifter exactly!
Excuses on what?
So when I killed myself. Nobody cares
Take responsibility for something you didn't even do that is effecting you?
Absolutely! You’re either “solutions-oriented” and you’re actually valuable moving forward, or you’re “problems-oriented” and as you complain, you’re just another part of the problem. Never point out a problem, instead point out areas of opportunity with at LEAST 3 good solutions.
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*Never _just_ point out a problem (I'd say..)
Barzzzzz!!🙌🏽🎯
I don't understand how this shit is free!! Thanks Gary!!
I think it boils down to acceptance more than anything. Many people complain bc things aren't the way they want them, so instead of accepting that reality, they deny it, and since it continually lets them down, they complain. Ultimately it gets them nowhere, which is why acceptance is liberating, even when we accept things we don't particularly like or want to.
Exactly: it frees you!
And they expect others to help them because they're in a tough spot. WAKE UP!!! No one is going to help you. It may feel unfair, but that's life.
If we take the time that we use complaining to take actions towards our goals... things start to take a big shift for the better. Positivity, gratitude, patience, persistence, consistency.
Let’s go!! Join the positivity train.
Every time things don't go my way and I start pondering, little Gary appears on my shoulder and yells: 'Stop complaning. Do something about it. Cause nobody fucking cares!' - There's no better motivation!
That's why don't complain. Be happy when problems or obstacles arises. It's your leveling spot.
That's right that nobody cares. I work harder than everyone, life was never fair to me, i always found a solution BUT i complain at the same time! Of course i speak it out if something is not right!
People complain so much at my school, but I feel like it’s a good thing in a way, to express what your going through inside and let it out. But yea most of the time I don’t care or people don’t care when I complain.
Great talk Gary! I have applied my no complaining rule for 4 months now. It was hard in the beginning but feel like I am getting the hang of it. It has brought me joy and peace. It has given me the opportunity to see the good in every situation. Cheers to everyone trying to live the best life possible!
The greatest talk. And this is the best chunk of it.
Absolutely! Gary Vaynerchuk rocks 👏💜I love listening to the truth: you are so right & right on the money on what to do now. We are lucky to be living NOW in the greatest era, being who we are really... "Who are you scared to fail in front of?... Own it or eliminate it. Put yourself in a position to succeed!... If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you!" 🙌💜
This is timeless wisdom from Gary. I'm going to forward this s*** to all the complainers I know. LOL
5:48 The entire speech in 9 words.
nah, others are great
So true. Gotta think macro and also take full responsibility!
I have had a productive week, your videos are hitting me hard today gary! I am meeting with my old boss and hopefully future mentor! I wish happiness for everyone! LOVE
Complaining is not only therapeutic but also the first step towards creating change
True
The uncle I never had but always wanted. Thanks uncle Vee
Absolute truth for me and many others
yes thats right i learn this from garyvee
Those invisible coconuts almost took out my boy gary lol .
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Yeah I won't do that-i won't give up on my TH-cam dream. -i will keep grinding and pushing and become a youtube success
I "fuckin" love this guy...I needed to watch this video
Gary's trying to squeeze his hand off his arm in the thumbnail 😂
"Eliminate Mom and Dad" got it gary, Thanks as always
I take it you don't have Narc Parents.
all crying does is expose sadness
Great stuff Gary!
I will say though, love yourself and care for yourself. Suppressing trauma and baggage just to act tough will also hold you back.
Fuck if nobody gives a fuck. Please give a fuck about yourself. 🙏
#Balance
As someone who’s been in business for a number years (nowhere close to as experienced nor as wealthy as Gary), I can tell you that he is 100% right!
Along the journey of becoming an entrepreneur, you’ll meet all kinds of horrible characters. Suffer from immense stress and loss of wealth in chasing your dream. You’ll have more bad days than good in the beginning, and it’ll seem like everything and everyone is against you. Complaining about it won’t achieve anything, because as Gary said; “nobody gives a fuck”. All you do is waste your energy by complaining and end up feeling sorry for yourself. The difficulties are part of the journey and you have to face them I’m afraid.
Not everyone is cut for this journey and I appreciate that. This is why I hate people going around thinking that calling themselves a CEO, entrepreneur etc is cool. It’s not! It takes years and years of hard work with blood, sweat and tears! The title may sound fancy but the journey you have to embark on, not many can handle.
Best Gary Vee speech so far
I just came to the comments to complain Gary! Here's me complaining!
really nice that's so true
really true
true
rewatching this in 2021 🤗
The coconut comparison was awesome. I love hoy Gary!
i love it when extremely important things go wrong
You can do only one thing good at a time and they can't be opposite hence either you are solving something or sitting and complaining about it, which side are you on ? .... me always solving :)
I've been going through some hard times lost all my friends and i am alone and feeling like I'm going insane but i taken an promise not to complain ever again. because it makes me ugly.
It really does. Happy people and successful people don’t have time for it.
Dwelling and Pondering and Prying Doesn't Do Anything.. *That's huge!*
Better to use your time to move forward than to whine!
I think it was better to be a nerd 20 years ago. There was so much less competition back then, and technology barriers was much harder.
"If you're a FUCKING ALIEN" hahahahah GARY VEE!!!! You should make a stand-up comedy special, I'm tellin you man :))
Yep truth : no one cares and no one is coming to save you
U figure it out alone.. its sucks to accept this, but once u do, u become free to go be yourself and do wtf works for ya with no explanations, cause who cares wtf u do?! No one 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I keep watching Gary, I feel like his words apply to me, however it’s really hard to hold strong to my passion of cannabis, I feel like I’ll disappoint everyone around me even though it’s something I want and would enjoy, if I make 40k a year I’ll be content. But I don’t wanna do what I love because I only have so many people in my life :/
Gary Vee is that dude. I hope he close to god while hes doing this as well. Like this dude. Real dude.
Thank you, I needed to hear that :))
Yeaaaaaa!!! No more complaintssss!!!!! Get into Action!!!!
One of the best speeches ever!
To be fair theres a difference between complaining and speaking up tbh
I need to hear this
As a EU citizen, I was affected by Brexit. I dealt with it by leaving the UK and went travelling to Australia and never stopped :p
Daily Energy! Thank you Gary!
Oh thank you.
Nothing but facts 👏🏽
Sounds like this guy needs a hug. I encourage my closests friend and loved ones to complain to me if they need to just let off steam. For him to say no one cares... Well i dont think he's met everyone
Gary Vee is such a boss! Keynote with no notes!!
Thank you.
It’s not fair that there’s an empty chairs ! I would die to be setting there 😭
Facts 💯🔥
Best speech ever!!!
advice from adventurer to adventurer
Love it Gary😝😍👌
si!
I love this guy
Amazing video, motivating, in reality complaing is not going to get you any success
i'm either happy or annoying
they have a list of extra good people
All the phones... drop it.. and take the message in. What have we become?
If you can, try to find a solution. Next step is to reach out. But don’t give up, unless it’s a last resort. And if so, learn from it. Tomorrow’s another day.
Yeah true bro
this is power ever in my life motivation
It just is how He said it is
#ThankYouGaryVee
His Energy level is so fucking High.
I bet he is not High but The Energy is.
and sadness is our little secret
Thank you Gary Vee
Complaints only hold water when your are the ocean
virtue is self-betrayal
to never check would be a mistake
Also I know one type of people who always lose by default someone has more facts than them they'll try to go for grammar having bad grammar doesn't change the fact that someone has more information on something than you do I'm actually call people out on that. And I say grammar doesn't change the fact that the person knows more than you do it just satisfies your need to think you have better grammar but it doesn't help you to actually win then I tell them which means that your idea of grammar is absolutely useless when it comes to knowing your facts
been there. done that.
everything will be okay
bruh when the camera turned and i saw all the cameras i died lel
Actually just complaining can do good stuff, people started complaining about something for example women's in the past didn't had rights and that stuff. They didn't started doing something they started complaining seeing that complaining didn't work they started fighting and actually doing something complaining helps in some cases to make more people notice the topic
i do that all the time
put a smile on your face
In this event, gary drank one cup of coffee
i hope it's extremely important
someone worked very hard to set this all up
i just start with it
Yeaaaaaaa i needed this!!!
I needed this
Fuck he's right!
you are the voice of virtue
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So revelent
You are spot on every single.what saying happenings to be
My wife is a chronic complainer. EVERY little thing. Yet, she does absolutely NOTHING to resolve any issues.
Fired up!🔥🔥🔥
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once you smile you already lost