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Keep exposing theses weirdo perverts filming young girls in Medellin its out of control and gross not sure why youtube allows men to sexualize degrade humiliate put faces and location on a thumbnail of theses girls then follow them with a hidden camera disgusting even more gross a women is the CEO of TH-cam and she allows it needs to be said gracias Hermano Colombia appreciates you for real
I got you sir. So for me I don’t go to Medellin or Colombia in general for sex. I started going there last year and I have meet a few ladies through friends. Anyway I also have gone to a couple casa which is for me safe. Overall though like you say in your videos if you have game you have it and if you don’t you don’t and a lot of guys going there trying to live a dream that is not real.
I had fun for a couple years. Got played a couple times, but on the whole it was good. Then met my wife. I know men get played/scammed a lot but i don’t think it’s the norm unless you only come down for a short time and don’t speak Spanish
A lot of gems in this video. You touched on some really key points that the guys who are looking for a serious relationship in Colombia, need to pay attention to.
All women are looking for stability and financial support in the long-term. .... there is no "good" woman.... there are women that fit certain roles and women that don't... but remember it's all situational based
Well said. All women across the world wants the "best provider" they can find. Do you blame them why start a family with someone who can't take care of it? So they'll want the cash and guess what is fellas want, the ass been this way forever.
Just found your channel and wow is it a relief! I’m a married guy so a lot of this doesn’t apply to me but so many gems and universal truths in this video. I’m a traveler and plan on retiring abroad in 10 years. I’m fluent in Spanish and currently Colombia is at the top of my list for retirement. You hit the nail on with ex pats not speaking Spanish. Astounds me people think they can understand a culture without speaking the language
Absolutely true what was said in this video. Been to Colombia many times and have seen how important it is to be careful in how you approach and what type of female you should be approaching. Stay away from clubs to meet a life partner. Best bet is to make friends a good family and after a while through these friends you may have a chance to meet and get to know a quality female with values no games
I know this is an old video but you are my new favorite content creator when it comes to getting this kind of info. I also am disgusted by the over saturation of "sleaze videos" in Colombia and all of South America. It honestly has been suffocating and your content has been a breath of fresh air dude.
You are a real one. This video needs to have more views. Too many videos about sexualizing women in South America in general on YT. People, and women in general, aren't some pieces of meat. People need to be respected, and not sexualized. Those videos are doing such a disservice to South Americans.
I never said this before.. but you really are on the money with this.. everything from the dating advice... to being all in, and starting a business there.. Great videos, great person.. cheers man
This is no bullshit a great video really informational about the sub genres of TH-camrs and ex pats that visit Columbia and has painted the way I see Columbia in a drastically different way thankyou for making this may it never come down
@Yadi @Yadi no valen la pena. son gente ignorante y vergonzosa. detrás de su riqueza estan sus gobiernos criminales, hipocresia, y un exito en general ilusorio.
The funny thing is many guys play like they are picking up these woman using game. They are mostly paying for woman and playing like they are picking them up.
Wes thank you for making a channel like this. I've been thinking of going to Columbia because I have friends here in the states through church from Columbia that woke my interest. Especially when I see some of the rivers, lakes and sceneries I've seen they're beautiful and in every single picture I see beautiful women in Colombia but I had already heard a lot about stuff, so never took the time to do the research. I stumbled to your channel by mistake and I am really happy that I did. Thank you for the great quality and good material that you put out on your videos. Hello from Washington DC.
I am going back to Colombia for the third time this May. I had 'dealings' with two women there, but I knew what I was getting into, so it was no serious expectations there. With this third woman I met, she's closer to my age (I'm 45 she's 37 years old) and yes she has kids and don't want anymore, shes a better fit for me. To be honest, even if I hadn't met her, I would still retire there. I'm not looking for the 'fast life', I don't drink or smoke and I don't go to clubs a lot. Bottom line is that we get in what we put into it. You spot on, brother. You have a new subscriber.
Wes , absolutely love your videos, you keep it so real. I have been to Cartagena and Medellin, both more than once. And you really hit the nail on the head. I also travel to Southeast Asia, looking forward to checking out your videos on Thailand in Vietnam, Philippines, too.
Wes. I came here first time at 40. I’m not particularly good looking but I spoke some Spanish, went out with a ton of girls. Most much more attractive than I am. . If you go into it with no expectations, and you go in just thankful you can afford to take a woman out every day without breaking the bank, IDK, I think a guy can enjoy himself with women of all ages. If you come into things with an attitude that you don’t expect sex, you just want to learn about the culture, improve your Spanish and have fun, the sky is the limit (and you will find sex ) . If you don’t care about the culture, stay home. People can feel that. And if you’re in your 40s, yeah, you can go out with a 20 year old and have a good time, but keep in mind, she wants to experience the world in most cases. Not settle down and be a housewife. I’m a step dad now, and I don’t regret it, but I had a rule: I never had kids so I’ll take on one, but I won’t take on 2 that aren’t my own.
Just saw this video for the second time. I love your practicality and overall general advice. So much of that is missing on YT when trying to gauge realistic expectations when visiting Medellin. I appreciate you Wes! 🙏🏻😎
Yep. Dudes go to these places and just rotate through the girls who can speak a bit of english and are looking for money to support ther lifestyle. I've seen it in Thailand, Indonesia, Philippines and even Japan. The guys who I see being successful are the ones who learn the language and look for a wife who has no involvement with foreigners through work or play and cant speak english.
I disagree that getting a wife defines a man's success. Also foreign men in Colombia are at different stages in life. Many older ones are divorced in the states and prefer to live single.
@@mateor7302 Success as in they had a goal to move countries and find a good woman in that country. I never said a man success in life is defined by getting a wife.
Truth! Bro I everytime I go to Medellin I run into obnoxious Americans being super loud, flashy, looking for the vices that illegal in the states. Also they don't even learn Spanish, they expect the locals to understand them or are beginners Spanish level speaking ability. That's why I don't ever really stay in Medellin other than the layover night stay to head to a less tourist-y city.
@@johannesvonsaaz3987 I'd say Cartagena but then again that's my opinion. Cali is a bit rough IMO. unless you want to do Salsa everyday. Cali is also less tourist-y so make sure your Spanish is pretty good.
@@johannesvonsaaz3987 If your traveling with someone that's cool, but please keep in mind the less tourist-y a city is the more you'll need to know Spanish. Out of all 4 major cities in Colombia. Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena & Cali. Cali is the least English speaking of them all , Ive been to Colombia I want to say 6 times now all in 5consecutive years and still haven't gone there. But I have been to all thee other cities including Manizales. Keep this rule of thumb, if your Spanish is not so good, get good lol. Not trying to insult just saying. Otherwise it's better off you only go to two locations, either Medellin or Cartagena..
Hey Wes. I think even mentioning you're from the US is bad idea because if the woman is indeed a goldigger she will immediately think "Oh this guy must have a lot of money or if I marry him I'll get papers to be able to live in the US" Spanish is my native tongue so I won't have a language barrier issue. When I go to Colombia, I'd like to meet you. Best regards!
Sir I like your videos such a difference from the street walking ones. Anyway where is your restaurant I retiring to Medellin and would love to support you.
I plan to go to Colombia 🇨🇴 in the future and have seen many videos on dating there but you have made a great video. You touched on some key and very important points.
as someone who's about to hit 8 years with a single colombian mother from Bogota who's living in Santa Marta with plans of moving to the USA, I can say I only been dating Colombian women because they do hold traditional values while not being totally shut ins. I had a couple of two relationships but the most recent two lasted longer than expected.
@bobonline7129 lmfao i'm sorry if you think you know someone's personal life but i can tell you're just a bitter hag trying to project your own issues onto a happy and healthy household. you're forever wrong lol
@8:11 my man said "I'm not sure" if I need a woman with 2 kids lol either you cool with it or not. But anyways, gonna have to pull up to your restaurant bro hopefully I'll catch you there.
My experience in Medellín was mixed. I speak Spanish at a fairly high level, from having studied it and learning Portuguese too, so that wasn't a problem. I mostly met women from online dating sites. I met some women who were good women, and I met some women who wanted to use me for money. One woman didn't want to commit because I wasn't going to be there for more than 3 months. The main woman I went out with, I could pretty much tell she was using me for money, but I also think she cared about my well-being as a person, even if she kept a lot of aspects of her life away from me, and that might have been for the best. From my experiences in both Brazil and Medellín, I prefer Brazilian women. I think a good combination would be a Brazilian wife or girlfriend and living in Manizales, but I'd also be willing to give the right Colombian woman a chance. Even the ones I met while out and about in Medellín were very pretty and nice, but most of them were in their 20s, and since I was in my 40s when I was there, I wanted to be more age appropriate, even if Colombian men themselves went for much younger women, so my minimum age requirement was 30, and yes, there are a lot of single moms in that age group. Why Brazilian over Colombian women? Well, for one thing, not every Brazilian woman is from Rio de Janeiro. The longest relationship I was in was with a Brazilian woman. When I met her family they weren't trying to take advantage of me. My ex-girlfriend wasn't looking for a sugar daddy or use me for money - but there are some interesseiras / interesadas to be sure! Last year I deactivated almost all of my foreign dating site accounts because too many women were basically looking for a green card, so I've come to the conclusion that it's better to live in a country for a while, find local friends and a woman in real life instead of online.
Nice post. Thank you. I agree 💯 about online dating. I’m in LA tried online dating a few times . Don’t like it I’d rather meet the someone the old fashioned way.
0:40 HUGE respect for pointing that out cous I (as most bilingual Mexican millennials with access to early internet and grew up in the anime boom with some English in the 🇺🇸) Am a huge fan of Japan and all things Japanese but DAAAMN do some “non anime japan”TH-camrs love to do everything wrong with “passport bro”ing They do that in Korea and Japan too
He’s right, it takes a lot of time . Assimilation is not that easy. Paisas due to the history of medellin are not open with Colombian people much less foreigners.
@@WheresWes I’m in the process of looking around Colombia myself for me to live in, I currently live in DR, I’m scheduled to be in Barranquilla next month hopefully we can link up and talk or something
Please tell me, did you speak much Spanish before going to Colombia? How long did it take you to get to at least a decent level of being able to communicate? I really want to learn. I have a great friend in Bogota. Do you have suggestions for schools there? I really appreciate your great advice. Thank you
I did not know any before coming. It took me 2-3 months for basic convos and 6 months to be able to live by myself. I suggest Elefun School in Medellin, it's the one I went to. Website: elefun.com.co WhatsApp: +57 304 2732082 Let them know I sent you please!
Hey man first time seeing your video. I was thinking about taking a trip to Colombia with a friend that’s from there. Then I stumbled upon this video. I speak very little Spanish, but I was curious where I can learn another language efficiently? Reason being i went to Cancun tulumn and when I left I said I’d live here 😂 but I realize not knowing the language will put me at a disadvantage.
I believe that a man from another latin country who travels to Colombia can end up with good women from Colombia, because after all that man is from the same latin culture, so he comes to act like one more Colombian and can find more real women, because in my experience as a latin man I feel that people from latin America end up staying among them because emotionally we connect more, that's why I feel that a latin man who travels to Colombia can connect faster with a good woman than a foreigner from another continent, latinas appreciate more the affection that we latinos give them
Very similar but not the same. I've noticed several Mexican and Mexican-American men going to Colombia or Mexico to get a wife, especially those living here in the States.
Wes ya' hit the nail right dab smack in da head!💥By the way I saw you have a pic of my cousin Stefa and her American husband Hunter in your video. Their channel is Los Dos Vamos. Cool💥 I have been here in the Medellin area for a total of 24 years and I have been through so much in the dating game. I'm Colombian-American, born and raised in The US, and I speak Spanish fluently now with very little American accent. Any dudes reading this pay heed to Wes's advice. Learn Spanish and forget about them dating apps and forget about finding a down home girl in a bar or nightclub. You're chances of finding a good gal like that are about 10% max Jack! Great video Wes 😎😎👍👍
Here's his video on his language learning, might answer your questions if he doesn't chime in with the short version th-cam.com/video/OU9fle3cIvo/w-d-xo.html
@@WheresWes Damn Wes! You were cranking out 2 hours per day, Mon thru Fri and then, a week off. That is setting the Gold Standard for learning a new language (Spanish).
The street does NOT belong to women. Any woman who leaves her house and freely decide to stand on a street.corner must know the street belongs to the public. People have the free right to walk on any street with a camera as long as nobody is entering those women's houses to record them. Why are they standing on PUBLIC STREETS??
Tbh I agree with the doctor friend of yours. You asked who is he? He’s a doctor lol He doesn’t need a woman with two children, he holds all the cards .
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Keep exposing theses weirdo perverts filming young girls in Medellin its out of control and gross not sure why youtube allows men to sexualize degrade humiliate put faces and location on a thumbnail of theses girls then follow them with a hidden camera disgusting even more gross a women is the CEO of TH-cam and she allows it needs to be said gracias Hermano Colombia appreciates you for real
Gold Digger
I got you sir. So for me I don’t go to Medellin or Colombia in general for sex. I started going there last year and I have meet a few ladies through friends. Anyway I also have gone to a couple casa which is for me safe. Overall though like you say in your videos if you have game you have it and if you don’t you don’t and a lot of guys going there trying to live a dream that is not real.
Tried twice, the first was a cheater the second was overly demanding and very slutty
I had fun for a couple years. Got played a couple times, but on the whole it was good. Then met my wife. I know men get played/scammed a lot but i don’t think it’s the norm unless you only come down for a short time and don’t speak Spanish
A lot of gems in this video. You touched on some really key points that the guys who are looking for a serious relationship in Colombia, need to pay attention to.
cheers bro thanks for watching
All women are looking for stability and financial support in the long-term. .... there is no "good" woman.... there are women that fit certain roles and women that don't... but remember it's all situational based
for sure
What an intelligent perspective
Well said. All women across the world wants the "best provider" they can find. Do you blame them why start a family with someone who can't take care of it? So they'll want the cash and guess what is fellas want, the ass been this way forever.
😅 What is the Percentage of Girl/Boy Virgin after College or Finishing Studies ?
@@masfiqratul7559 I think most do it at around 16-18 yes old. If you're 20+ and still haven't had sex in Colombia, you're considered a late bloomer
Just found your channel and wow is it a relief! I’m a married guy so a lot of this doesn’t apply to me but so many gems and universal truths in this video. I’m a traveler and plan on retiring abroad in 10 years. I’m fluent in Spanish and currently Colombia is at the top of my list for retirement. You hit the nail on with ex pats not speaking Spanish. Astounds me people think they can understand a culture without speaking the language
Cheers bro thanks for watching!
Absolutely true what was said in this video. Been to Colombia many times and have seen how important it is to be careful in how you approach and what type of female you should be approaching. Stay away from clubs to meet a life partner. Best bet is to make friends a good family and after a while through these friends you may have a chance to meet and get to know a quality female with values no games
I know this is an old video but you are my new favorite content creator when it comes to getting this kind of info. I also am disgusted by the over saturation of "sleaze videos" in Colombia and all of South America. It honestly has been suffocating and your content has been a breath of fresh air dude.
Thanks!
this guy is so clean, his thought process is so clear every man should watch his videos
Editing was on point in this video 👌
cheers bro
You are a real one. This video needs to have more views. Too many videos about sexualizing women in South America in general on YT. People, and women in general, aren't some pieces of meat. People need to be respected, and not sexualized. Those videos are doing such a disservice to South Americans.
cheers bro I appreciate that
@@WheresWes 👊🏼
The women get what they put out.
I never said this before.. but you really are on the money with this.. everything from the dating advice... to being all in, and starting a business there.. Great videos, great person.. cheers man
Thanks for the comment bro
Just subbed your channel because you tell it straight as it is for those who wanna come to Colombia.
True
If I were ever able to date a thoughtful woman from Latin America, I would marry her.
I am not even a Spanish speaker but I am learning it right now.
you words gems are like gut tyson gut punches .pure reality .appreciate you bro
Cheers bro
This guy speaks the truth
cheers bro
love this, good points that i'm surprised a lot of people don't seem to get here
Cheers bro
This is no bullshit a great video really informational about the sub genres of TH-camrs and ex pats that visit Columbia and has painted the way I see Columbia in a drastically different way thankyou for making this may it never come down
@Yadi
@Yadi no valen la pena. son gente ignorante y vergonzosa. detrás de su riqueza estan sus gobiernos criminales, hipocresia, y un exito en general ilusorio.
The funny thing is many guys play like they are picking up these woman using game. They are mostly paying for woman and playing like they are picking them up.
exactly bro
You’ve matured a lot mate bravo
Wes thank you for making a channel like this. I've been thinking of going to Columbia because I have friends here in the states through church from Columbia that woke my interest. Especially when I see some of the rivers, lakes and sceneries I've seen they're beautiful and in every single picture I see beautiful women in Colombia but I had already heard a lot about stuff, so never took the time to do the research. I stumbled to your channel by mistake and I am really happy that I did. Thank you for the great quality and good material that you put out on your videos. Hello from Washington DC.
This guy is spot on👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
cheers bro
Good video man. Very true
Thanks for keeping it real bro much respect
Cheers bro ty
yo i live your channel. My ex wife is from colombia and i have been to colombia many tines and everything you speak on is accurate!
I am going back to Colombia for the third time this May. I had 'dealings' with two women there, but I knew what I was getting into, so it was no serious expectations there. With this third woman I met, she's closer to my age (I'm 45 she's 37 years old) and yes she has kids and don't want anymore, shes a better fit for me. To be honest, even if I hadn't met her, I would still retire there. I'm not looking for the 'fast life', I don't drink or smoke and I don't go to clubs a lot.
Bottom line is that we get in what we put into it.
You spot on, brother. You have a new subscriber.
Right on Brah! Well said.... Write the Manual.
Wes , absolutely love your videos, you keep it so real. I have been to Cartagena and Medellin, both more than once. And you really hit the nail on the head. I also travel to Southeast Asia, looking forward to checking out your videos on Thailand in Vietnam, Philippines, too.
Just stumbled on to your channel....immediately I like how you call out other youtubers who CANT SPEAK SPANISH in colombia....I know bananas....lol
haha
Sharp guy.
Brilliant advice.
On pOint man! Gringos are getting played and don't even see it lol - Nice video editing too :) Keep up the good work
cheers bro thanks for watching
Wes. I came here first time at 40. I’m not particularly good looking but I spoke some Spanish, went out with a ton of girls. Most much more attractive than I am. . If you go into it with no expectations, and you go in just thankful you can afford to take a woman out every day without breaking the bank, IDK, I think a guy can enjoy himself with women of all ages. If you come into things with an attitude that you don’t expect sex, you just want to learn about the culture, improve your Spanish and have fun, the sky is the limit (and you will find sex ) . If you don’t care about the culture, stay home. People can feel that. And if you’re in your 40s, yeah, you can go out with a 20 year old and have a good time, but keep in mind, she wants to experience the world in most cases. Not settle down and be a housewife. I’m a step dad now, and I don’t regret it, but I had a rule: I never had kids so I’ll take on one, but I won’t take on 2 that aren’t my own.
Just saw this video for the second time. I love your practicality and overall general advice. So much of that is missing on YT when trying to gauge realistic expectations when visiting Medellin. I appreciate you Wes! 🙏🏻😎
cheers bro thank u!
Great video again. Love, from your asian brudder from Singapore. Anyways, the hokkien noodles from your restaurant was super delicious. Good luck
cheers bro it was nice meeting you
Yep. Dudes go to these places and just rotate through the girls who can speak a bit of english and are looking for money to support ther lifestyle. I've seen it in Thailand, Indonesia, Philippines and even Japan. The guys who I see being successful are the ones who learn the language and look for a wife who has no involvement with foreigners through work or play and cant speak english.
totally agree
I disagree that getting a wife defines a man's success. Also foreign men in Colombia are at different stages in life. Many older ones are divorced in the states and prefer to live single.
@@mateor7302 Success as in they had a goal to move countries and find a good woman in that country. I never said a man success in life is defined by getting a wife.
so much truth in this video
Great video, brother. TY
Great content. But what caught my eye is your transitions! Exceptional editing!
Thanks bro!
@@WheresWes do you do consultation calls?
Yes I do! shoot me an email at usingthisforspam283@gmail.com or instagram @wesleezy
Great video my friend awesome insights and fluid delivery
Thanks bro
@@WheresWes when I’m back in Colombia I’ll come for a meal as long as you have that dog in a lead! 😆
Truth! Bro I everytime I go to Medellin I run into obnoxious Americans being super loud, flashy, looking for the vices that illegal in the states.
Also they don't even learn Spanish, they expect the locals to understand them or are beginners Spanish level speaking ability.
That's why I don't ever really stay in Medellin other than the layover night stay to head to a less tourist-y city.
cheers bro thanks for the comment
Cali or Cartagena is better?
@@johannesvonsaaz3987 I'd say Cartagena but then again that's my opinion. Cali is a bit rough IMO. unless you want to do Salsa everyday. Cali is also less tourist-y so make sure your Spanish is pretty good.
@@danperez3970 My Spanish is awful haha
@@johannesvonsaaz3987 If your traveling with someone that's cool, but please keep in mind the less tourist-y a city is the more you'll need to know Spanish.
Out of all 4 major cities in Colombia. Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena & Cali. Cali is the least English speaking of them all , Ive been to Colombia I want to say 6 times now all in 5consecutive years and still haven't gone there. But I have been to all thee other cities including Manizales.
Keep this rule of thumb, if your Spanish is not so good, get good lol. Not trying to insult just saying. Otherwise it's better off you only go to two locations, either Medellin or Cartagena..
this video was fire
Yo brother, I like your contents. I'm an Asian man who loves Latin women as well. Just subscribed. 🤙🏼
cheers bro
This was another incredibly intelligent and informative video. Thanks.
Excellent video….. very practical advice
Cheers
True😊bro very true I respect your honesty and guy be practical jjj ❤ thank you and stay Blessed always
Fantastico!
you said it all
cheers bro
@@WheresWes poeple think its fun and games untill the truth smacks them in the face
Thanks for your highly informative video!
Hey Wes. I think even mentioning you're from the US is bad idea because if the woman is indeed a goldigger she will immediately think "Oh this guy must have a lot of money or if I marry him I'll get papers to be able to live in the US" Spanish is my native tongue so I won't have a language barrier issue. When I go to Colombia, I'd like to meet you. Best regards!
cheers bro
Thank you for saying this!
Solid info.
Inspiring Intelligent Great Job 👍 Wes
Thanks bro
very good info. thank you.
Thought the editing cuts on this video were really cool!
cheers bro ty
Colombian men living there have a much better dating market than men living in America .
🎹 Thank You
cheers bro
You got some sense lil homie.
Sir I like your videos such a difference from the street walking ones. Anyway where is your restaurant I retiring to Medellin and would love to support you.
thanks bro! my restaurant is actually in Manizales if you ever stop by. it's called Ni Hao
@@WheresWes ok cool I haven’t been to Manizales yet but one day.
I plan to go to Colombia 🇨🇴 in the future and have seen many videos on dating there but you have made a great video. You touched on some key and very important points.
I can agree here a little
cheers bro
“A little”
Wes is spot on.
Bravo…👏💯
Wow this video was really good. I’m sure a lot of a men won’t like the truths in this video.
Always Great stuff Wes...Thanks bro👍
cheers bro
Great video 💯
cheers bro
I’ll be in n Medellin in august maybe we can link up. I def want to check your restaurant out
Make a video about the dog incident
lolol. I went to pet it, the dog gnawed at my face.
the end
as someone who's about to hit 8 years with a single colombian mother from Bogota who's living in Santa Marta with plans of moving to the USA, I can say I only been dating Colombian women because they do hold traditional values while not being totally shut ins. I had a couple of two relationships but the most recent two lasted longer than expected.
@bobonline7129 lmfao i'm sorry if you think you know someone's personal life but i can tell you're just a bitter hag trying to project your own issues onto a happy and healthy household.
you're forever wrong lol
I agree with everything in theis video
Really interesting and good video. Thank you.....
straight facts
Cheers bro
Great video man. Keep up the great work.!
cheers bro
nail on the head!
cheers bro
@8:11 my man said "I'm not sure" if I need a woman with 2 kids lol either you cool with it or not. But anyways, gonna have to pull up to your restaurant bro hopefully I'll catch you there.
My experience in Medellín was mixed. I speak Spanish at a fairly high level, from having studied it and learning Portuguese too, so that wasn't a problem. I mostly met women from online dating sites. I met some women who were good women, and I met some women who wanted to use me for money. One woman didn't want to commit because I wasn't going to be there for more than 3 months. The main woman I went out with, I could pretty much tell she was using me for money, but I also think she cared about my well-being as a person, even if she kept a lot of aspects of her life away from me, and that might have been for the best. From my experiences in both Brazil and Medellín, I prefer Brazilian women. I think a good combination would be a Brazilian wife or girlfriend and living in Manizales, but I'd also be willing to give the right Colombian woman a chance. Even the ones I met while out and about in Medellín were very pretty and nice, but most of them were in their 20s, and since I was in my 40s when I was there, I wanted to be more age appropriate, even if Colombian men themselves went for much younger women, so my minimum age requirement was 30, and yes, there are a lot of single moms in that age group. Why Brazilian over Colombian women? Well, for one thing, not every Brazilian woman is from Rio de Janeiro. The longest relationship I was in was with a Brazilian woman. When I met her family they weren't trying to take advantage of me. My ex-girlfriend wasn't looking for a sugar daddy or use me for money - but there are some interesseiras / interesadas to be sure! Last year I deactivated almost all of my foreign dating site accounts because too many women were basically looking for a green card, so I've come to the conclusion that it's better to live in a country for a while, find local friends and a woman in real life instead of online.
Nice post. Thank you. I agree 💯 about online dating. I’m in LA tried online dating a few times . Don’t like it I’d rather meet the someone the old fashioned way.
then how else are you gonna meet the girls ?
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HUGE respect for pointing that out cous I (as most bilingual Mexican millennials with access to early internet and grew up in the anime boom with some English in the 🇺🇸)
Am a huge fan of Japan and all things Japanese but DAAAMN do some “non anime japan”TH-camrs love to do everything wrong with “passport bro”ing
They do that in Korea and Japan too
He’s right, it takes a lot of time . Assimilation is not that easy. Paisas due to the history of medellin are not open with Colombian people much less foreigners.
Well said
great video,subbed!
cheers bro
@@WheresWes I’m in the process of looking around Colombia myself for me to live in, I currently live in DR, I’m scheduled to be in Barranquilla next month hopefully we can link up and talk or something
Thx for heads up
great content Wes
Cheers bro
Please tell me, did you speak much Spanish before going to Colombia?
How long did it take you to get to at least a decent level of being able to communicate?
I really want to learn. I have a great friend in Bogota. Do you have suggestions for schools there?
I really appreciate your great advice.
Thank you
I did not know any before coming. It took me 2-3 months for basic convos and 6 months to be able to live by myself.
I suggest Elefun School in Medellin, it's the one I went to.
Website: elefun.com.co WhatsApp: +57 304 2732082
Let them know I sent you please!
I feel much more comfortable in Bogota. Medellin is like Las Vegas
Great video
What’s your restaurant name? I might ordered from there on Rappi.
sold it, no longer have it
Thailand seems to be the new hot spot for travelers looking for paid love.
i have seen that as well. It's always been there in Thailand but it's now more mainstream
I bought an apartment do you have recommendations on where to pickup kitchen essentials?
home center
Great video.. do you know anything about those tour groups that introduce you to women "looking to get married"
all that stuff to me honestly is cringy. I've seen those videos but the guys they interview are super cringy lol
@@WheresWes Yeah same.. the old guys dancing with the young girls is always funny to see
Facts
Great video
Cheers bro
Do you prefer it in Colombia vs USA
Hey man first time seeing your video. I was thinking about taking a trip to Colombia with a friend that’s from there. Then I stumbled upon this video. I speak very little Spanish, but I was curious where I can learn another language efficiently? Reason being i went to Cancun tulumn and when I left I said I’d live here 😂 but I realize not knowing the language will put me at a disadvantage.
I would recommend living with locals and taking lessons with the school I recommend, Elefun
@@WheresWes have you ever heard of babbel? I just bought 1 month for 15$
I’m in Mexico thinking of going to Colombia but I’m worried about safety there!
can't imagine it being much worse than Colombia
And I stay in Colombia for half a year and thinking of going to Mexico but worried about safety over there lol! The irony 😅
I believe that a man from another latin country who travels to Colombia can end up with good women from Colombia, because after all that man is from the same latin culture, so he comes to act like one more Colombian and can find more real women, because in my experience as a latin man I feel that people from latin America end up staying among them because emotionally we connect more, that's why I feel that a latin man who travels to Colombia can connect faster with a good woman than a foreigner from another continent, latinas appreciate more the affection that we latinos give them
Very similar but not the same. I've noticed several Mexican and Mexican-American men going to Colombia or Mexico to get a wife, especially those living here in the States.
Wes ya' hit the nail right dab smack in da head!💥By the way I saw you have a pic of my cousin Stefa and her American husband Hunter in your video. Their channel is Los Dos Vamos. Cool💥 I have been here in the Medellin area for a total of 24 years and I have been through so much in the dating game. I'm Colombian-American, born and raised in The US, and I speak Spanish fluently now with very little American accent. Any dudes reading this pay heed to Wes's advice. Learn Spanish and forget about them dating apps and forget about finding a down home girl in a bar or nightclub. You're chances of finding a good gal like that are about 10% max Jack! Great video Wes 😎😎👍👍
Cheers bro
I want to settle down with a Colombian women but what towns is the best option?
How often did you attend Elefun Spanish School when you took their Spanish classes?
Once, twice or three times per week...
Here's his video on his language learning, might answer your questions if he doesn't chime in with the short version
th-cam.com/video/OU9fle3cIvo/w-d-xo.html
I went for s total of 3 months on a one week on one week off system. 2 hours a day for the whole week, then I took a break.
@@WheresWes Damn Wes! You were cranking out 2 hours per day, Mon thru Fri and then, a week off. That is setting the Gold Standard for learning a new language (Spanish).
@@RoyalWalker imo it's the best way to learn! U have to practice outside of the class and when you go to class it's too mentally draining
I HATE those hidden camera youtuber!!!!!
agreed
The street does NOT belong to women. Any woman who leaves her house and freely decide to stand on a street.corner must know the street belongs to the public. People have the free right to walk on any street with a camera as long as nobody is entering those women's houses to record them. Why are they standing on PUBLIC STREETS??
if you go there with the mentality of playing those women then expect to get played by them. Same can be say for any countries in the world.
That's facts
Tbh I agree with the doctor friend of yours. You asked who is he? He’s a doctor lol He doesn’t need a woman with two children, he holds all the cards .
Soy Américano y Europeo y visito Colombia seguido por temas de negocios y si e notado que muchas mujeres son madres solteras, esta última vez que fui conocí una de 20 mamá soltera 😳.
Good video. :)