High Street vs Mid-Tier vs Luxury Handbags... Why I DON'T BUY Cos, Ralph Lauren, Coach | Lela Sophia

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  • @stephaniee.nicolee
    @stephaniee.nicolee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Girl, I got bitten by the Coach bug. I purchased the Brooklyn 39 in black leather and suede. I also purchased The Time Square Tabby in their merlot color, I am very impressed. I really only purchased from designers in the last 7-8 years but Coach is killing it. I would say at least go in the store and just have some fun try on a few bags.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
      Oh my goodnesssssssss you know how valuable your opinion is to me so this is 😍😍😍😍😍
      Ugh… you’re right 🙈🙈🙈🙈 I should at least go see them in person 😂😂😂😂
      I’m sure yours are literal perfection on you 😍 ugh there are so many tempting styles it’s very difficult to be good these days 😅🙈😍

    • @LianeBroz
      @LianeBroz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When a replica is better quality than the original that costs Low why not *hotdups*

  • @mimilynn5619
    @mimilynn5619 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this video. I am saving for my Birken . But these high street brand are trying to tempt me. Stay strong 💪🏾

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  หลายเดือนก่อน

      We’ve got this!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to know I’m in it with someone… I think we’ll ultimately be very happy when we have our Birkins in our hands soon hopefully 😍😍😍😍

  • @Eyexzaa
    @Eyexzaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Face card is GIVING
    This is your look 😍😍

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
      Omgggggggggg thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
      Wow 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @MarysRoom
    @MarysRoom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel you on this, I get tempted being on this platform whenever I see a nicely priced contemporary bag. Last year I bought the viral Cos bag, I was feeling emotional but I've barely worn it, I really don't love it, I'm going to have to give it away bc it doesn't have much value. I know for me it can be a slippery slope. I think it's a scale, and I will say if a design is so good, serves a purpose and its mid-tier -Dragon Diffusion tempts me every summer, I get it. I've definitely thought about getting a light breezy summer mid-tier bag but I've also realized I can just as easily wear my "wintery" black leather bags lol😂 I know I can talk myself into buy a bag, but sometimes just as easily talk myself out. And usually my talking-myself-out monologue is I want the higher-end bag more lol!

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my goodness you know how important your opinions are to me so that’s honestly very grounding and good to hear about your Cos bag!!!!! Especially when I was editing this I realized how much I’ve bought into mid-tier/high street in the past, and have to admit I had the same exact experiences as you… I’d look at them and think, man I should really wear this… and then 100% of the time reached for my luxury/designer bag instead 🙈🙈🙈
      I am stilllllll tempted by Dragon Diffusion also 😂 one of these days I should just go for one as my vacation bag, but other than that, I think you’re beyond right 🫣
      Luxury, especially pre-loved luxury is really where it’s at for value in ALLLLLL ways 😍😍😍

  • @thislifereconsidered
    @thislifereconsidered หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think it depends on the bag and brand - as there are grades and levels of quality even in these super high end brands, owning pieces from them too. I have a Hermes Kelly I got from the boutique and it’s a stunner but I don’t carry it as much as you would think (and it’s a classic color, pebbled leather and everything). But I have a couple of Coach pieces that people STILL complement me on and they are 15+ years. I just keep them sharp, just take them to a leather shop and they keep going strong. I think as long as you shop quality first, your collection can always look upscale. Just care for your stuff.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are spot on!!!! So many amazing points and I’m so grateful you shared your experience!!!! I agree, going for quality first I think should always be the priority 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Eyexzaa
    @Eyexzaa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Makeup looks SO GOOD

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰 omg stoppp thank you so so much!!!!!!!

  • @elizabethm3600
    @elizabethm3600 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I recently purchased the Coach Swing Bag in black and I LOVE it! A smidge bigger than my 90’s bag…AND it fits on your shoulder…the swing bag is perfection and I am definitely buying it in brown suede if they release it😎
    I haven’t bought a coach bag since the 90’s!

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
      You had me at brown suede oh my goodnessssss!!!!!!!! I am not strong enough for this, lol I’m literally cracking up at myself because I’m going to see which colors are currently available in which leathers 😂😂😂😂
      I say it probably too often, but you know how much I value your opinion… so off to Coach I go to see some goodies in person 😍🥰😍🥰

    • @LianeBroz
      @LianeBroz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My friend is one of those women who can definitely afford the original version (and has it), but recently told me about a high imitation called *hotdups*

  • @demi-pointenoir
    @demi-pointenoir 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As an Aussie 🙌🏾🇦🇺 I have to rep St.Agni bags for mid tier cuties. I also think you’d love the poppy croc leather clutch for another Aussie brand- Camilla and Marc- it’s super chic. For some reason Mid tier bags (MTBs 😂) seem to be killing it rn. COS is sooooo tempting ❤

    • @LianeBroz
      @LianeBroz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      La sakoj ene de *hotdups* estas perfektaj kiel donacoj por amikoj. La prezo ne estas alta kaj la kvalito estas bona.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ugh Cos IS soooooooooo tempting!!!!!!! So far I’m staying strong but boy is it difficult 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
      Omg you have no idea, I already looked up both Aussie brands you mentioned and my goodness they’re amazing 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
      Thank you as always truly!!!! I think I say this every time but you know me so well 🥰

  • @thislifereconsidered
    @thislifereconsidered หลายเดือนก่อน

    11:27 Also note that not all ‘luxury’ has a great resale value, unless you have stuff from the ‘Trinity’ - Louis Vuitton, Chanel and Hermes. Otherwise, it can be a crap shoot, too.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s so true!!!!!!!! I should have weighed in that I always make sure to pay about 50%-70% below retail for the pre-love handbags I purchase. That’s no guarantee to make that percentage back, but purchasing that low second hand helps make sure you can sell for a similar amount a lot of the time in my experience 🙏🏼

  • @asdrabkin
    @asdrabkin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know i you consider Toteme bags as luxury or mid-tier, but I'd love to hear what you think of them. I'm intrigued with the T-lock and the belted tote bags

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg I completely forgot to add in Toteme!!! I’d definitely put them in the highest category of mid-tier right?? Their quality is apparently amazing and I love their designs!!! Some of them have definitely leaned very The Row as of late 👀, but I hear nothing but good comments from people who own the T lock bag which I find to be very unique 😍😍😍

  • @giedrebey5444
    @giedrebey5444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Lela, I think you should stick with your wishlist . I would say if it’s something like $300, like Porto pouch in some bright color, then it’s ok, but investing in medium priced bags, as a dupe , to the real thing, It’s not worth it, especially if you know, that you still going to get the premium, your dream one. And you know once you get it, the dupe will not be used anymore 😉🤪 and with low resale value, you will regret it. It’s better stick with the plan, especially you already have a beautiful collection 😍 Have a blessed day🙏❤️

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow… I think you must have read my entire mind because everything you said is perfection!!!!!!!!! Couldn’t agree more😍… you already know that if I were to collect a dupe, it would only make me want the original THAT much more so thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      You even knew which exception I can’t stop thinking about which is Porto Studios (so silly but I just can’t get that bag off of my mind 🙈🙈🙈)
      Only question is the light pale green, baby pink, or one of my usual browns??
      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @giedrebey5444
      @giedrebey5444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lelasophia don’t do brown. You have those in premium collection. I think green or pink it’s fun color. I am thinking about pink goes well with all colors🤔 with LBd when I want some unique style and not a branded bag ( like Chanel flap) 🤪😝❤️

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you thank you!!!!!!!
      Still torn between green and pink, lol currently doing an Instagram pole and I think 100% of the votes are for green 😂
      You made a really good point though… hmmmm 🤔🧐😍

    • @giedrebey5444
      @giedrebey5444 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lelasophia if you love green go for green. It’s beautiful and probably more unique, than pink and goes with a lot of colors too, especially browns, . I don’t like green 🤪 so I have to go with pink 😝 I do like pink if it’s more cool tone, not barbie 🤪

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @giedrebey5444 sameeeee omg I love a ballet slippers pink to baby pink 🩰🌸

  • @alinaiyana
    @alinaiyana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always say: Cheap is Expensive and Expensive can be cheap too if youre not aware❤

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg you are brilliant!!!!!!!!!!!! I absolutely have to once and for all adopt this attitude because you could not be more correct 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @the3dspage
    @the3dspage 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my, some of those mid tier bags are tempting! Sadly, or maybe not, lol, I'm a bag snob. So buying the former would be very difficult for me. A few years back I bought a Coach bag and tried to rationalize it, but the snobby part of me knew if i kept it i wouldn't wear it. So back it went. Whats even sadder - had it not had the Coach branding i might have been able to wear it.
    I must confess, i was summoned to the COS website today after seeing an ad on IG. It was a huge oversized clutch, sold out in red, but available in a couple other colors. I just went to their website to look again and its not there or I'd tell u the name.
    That all said, you might want to go to the store to see and feel them. If your heart skips a beat for one go for it. I dont know that id buy a bunch bc buying multiples even tho they are very well priced, would cut into ur Birkin money, but one small distraction wouldnt set u back much. And if u tire of it u could gift it away and make someone elses heart skip a beat 😘🥰😍

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are sooooo right and I love that you are helping to keep me grounded and on track!!!!! Agreed 1000%, honestly not snob-ish at all, we are ladies who just love quality 🤎🤎🤎
      For now I’m staying strong, although the mini Porto Studio bag is really calling my name 🙈 I’m trying to justify it that if I get a fun color it’ll be different enough but that’s also just another excuse 😂😂😂
      We shall see, but for now thank GOD for your words of wisdom 😍🥰

    • @the3dspage
      @the3dspage 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, we do love quality. There can be quality to lower tier designer bags too it just depends on the bag. Jesse, another YT creator that loves Hermés just bought a Coach bag and absolutely loves it. She doesn't have to stress about it, she can just enjoy it.
      I personally wouldn't buy a bag to sit on my shelf, Hermés or not. Bags (to me) are meant to be used, just like fine china and flatware. I have different Hermés patterns that I use everyday. I wouldn't buy them to sit in my cupboard or just have them for display, collector or not, It's all meant to be used. If u can't afford to use it buy something else you're comfortable using. Life is too short to worry.
      Circling back to lower tier bags, if one pulls at ur heartstrings buy it, use it, and enjoy it, ur worth splurging a little, or saving to splurge a lot on whatever makes you happy 🥰

  • @the_beloved_pupper
    @the_beloved_pupper 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not big into bags, but I feel the exact same way about clothing. Why spend $100 on a top from COS/J Crew/Doen when I can get a second-hand designer equivalent in great condition for the same price or less? 90% of the time, I regret buying fast fashion or cheap thrifted clothing, but I've always loved each and every one of my designer pieces. I know you shouldn't tie your self worth to material things, but it makes me feel so dignified to wear a beautifully designed 100% wool sweater that actually keeps me warm during winter.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are spot on!!!!! Couldn’t agree more 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      I need to stop feeling like I’m offending anyone whenever I talk about wanting to prioritize luxury, but you make such a good point!! Since slowing down (in some cases completely stopping) buying mid-tier/high street, dare I say fast fashion purchases, I’ve found myself buying less but higher quality. I did that with jewelry years and years ago, but it’s definitely taken me longer with other categories. It feels so easy to get pulled back in because of deals and sales, but I’m loving consuming slower, and more consciously these days 😍🥰😍🥰

  • @shoelady6457
    @shoelady6457 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have my eyes 👀 on Bottega Venata clutch..in brown. 😊

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh I LOOOVEEEEE!!!!!!!!!! You are truly speaking my language 🤎🤎🤎

  • @mariacancello-zi3dr
    @mariacancello-zi3dr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Léla, I agree with your Mumma! Please save your dollars for what you really want to add to your collection this year 🤎 BUT not gonna lie, I’ve been distracted by Little Lifner small totes (burgundy and chocolate brown) too, and the larger Longchamp Le Foulonné crossbody bag for everyday use…. BUT that would make a dent in my savings for luxury winter bags/scarves that I have my beady eye on! I think you might get bored of a mid-tier bag 🤔🤔🤔 even the Savette bags have issues with their clasps and I can’t see that happening with a ‘luxury’ bag.
    Can’t wait to see what you pick as your September birthday treat - have a fab weekend 🤗

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg someone is here to stop me THANK GOD!!!! lol!!!!!! It’s soooooo tempting… I swear there are 5 Little Lifner bags alone I want 😍😂🙈
      I’m so upset at myself because as soon as this video premiered, I realized I forgot to talk about Savette!!!!!!! Like THE prime example of me going for an up-and-coming high/mid tier brand and then experiencing a quality issue almost immediately 🥴🫠 (don’t know how I forgot that but exactly… you already knew exactly what was on my mind)
      For now I’m being strong… but honestly I don’t trust myself with all of these sales this weekend in America for Labor Day 🙈🙈🙈
      I guess we shall see how I do 😂😂😂😂

    • @mariacancello-zi3dr
      @mariacancello-zi3dr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lelasophia be strong! I have faith in you 😊

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @mariacancello-zi3dr 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @bini5576
    @bini5576 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hmmm, these mid-priced bags don't usually appeal to me. I'm also a quality junkie. The gap is really too big. And exactly: the money is gone

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Omg I’ve definitely learned the hard way, but I have to say I completely agree with you!!! lol thank you for bringing me back down to earth! And why would I completely disregard the fact that I hate dupes 🙈😅😂
      You’re so right, the gap in quality speaks volumes when you actually compare the way these pieces wear 🙏🏼
      (Cough cough to my Savette bag that I can’t believe I forgot to mention. Only months in the clasp is completely broken and I can’t even wear it 🙈🙈🙈)

  • @_ElleB
    @_ElleB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't sleep on Ralph Lauren bags! They have really good craftsmanship, specifically the collection line. The 'Ricky', named after his wife, is beautiful if hardware is your thing. They run from 2.5K to 20K+ and have been a staple of the brand for forever. I like them specifically because they aren't considered mainstream bags.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve heard that, thank you so much for also weighing in!!!!! I swear my only vendetta with RL is that my entire family and school wore nothing but RL and Rugby… since they didn’t make plus sized clothing back then so I was left out of the game 🙈🙈🙈
      But… since we happen to be from the same town lol, I should definitely put my childish silly ego away and actually try out one of his bags 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      Especially after hearing your thoughts so thank you again!! 😍🥰

    • @_ElleB
      @_ElleB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lelasophia I hear ya! i too was also plagued by RL and Polo at my school😂

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @_ElleB 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      My older step brother worked at the Rugby store near by literally almost 20 years ago… let’s just say I’ll be fine if I never see another piece of clothing by Rugby again 😂🙈😂🙈😂🙈
      However, Ralph’s has become my favorite go to coffee shop, so maybe that counts a bit?? 🤣

  • @giorgia8294
    @giorgia8294 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand what you mean but…..
    1- have a bag should be fun and a way to express your style or yourself with no pressure “if I can’t have the same money back if I resell………then is not for me…….(is the mentality of people who cannot afford but do anything to have it like a life goal “(psychology that most brands use and you never realize)
    2- the reason why people just don’t have fun anymore is because they buy a bag that is above whta they can afford . Example: young children having the last iPhone because is cool is a brand that most celebrities have and even because of its qualities
    3- we have been educated by luxury brands (imprinting) “something only a few people can buy this is more juicy” is a status
    4- even when we have the best intentions like a gift we made to ourselves a luxury brand for our hard work is not bad but the idea we have been educated (imprinting)by this culture of luxury brand remains . Question why it need to be something like Chanel or Hermes ? Because is exclusive a sort of privilege. The fact that we can resell it just makes our brain justify even more our choice again “the culture of luxury” . People who really enjoy the bag never have this sort of thought just people who to afford such a bag try their best in saving have this sort of thought the one who enjoy their bag just use it until the end like the person who ispired the Hermes Birkin who show her personality in her bag until it broke.
    5- before anything a person who really wants a bag should choose without looking at the logo , should feel the leather , the stitching ecc. Someone who really appreciate the artisan job even would look for a personal bag who will cost even less than a luxury brand bag . A bag that you could buy , choose the type of leather , the design ecc. Because all this brands are not anymore the original since their founders died and sold their brand to LVMH or the other one who I don’t remember the name . There is a video who show how LVMH AND other luxury brands just have the same poor factories with Chinese people working on their bags for parts (is on TH-cam) the factories are ……….you can imagine they just hide this truth and have beautiful factories to show off but the reality is completely different all bags of Lmvh that includes a lot of brands are made in the same fabric …………….just a few are really made in what they say are made (to hide the reality) . Chanel is no more Chanel since the real Chanel died and the same goes for other brands of course the bags whoever looks good because the workers work hard but where is the labor rights in here ? Is a luxury have such a bag ????
    Sadly yes because of the culture of luxury that was imprinted on our minds because we can justify saying they have more resell value in more years I made an investment and is a status symbol for others.

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so so much for your incredibly thoughtful words!!!!!
      Honestly… ever single sentence was spot on 🙏🏼
      I couldn’t agree more and have to admit, I feel the exact same (although clearly I do still see through rose colored glasses on occasion). I’ve been thinking of how to do a video on the “downfall of luxury” but want to wait until I can exactly express my thoughts. A lot of what you said is precisely how I feel so it’s wonderful to know I’m not alone in my thinking.
      I do think exceptions are fun sometimes, but ultimately (whether one agrees or not) that’s why I buy from the brands and enjoy wearing the vintage styles that I do. There is something about quality that will trump all for me 🙏🏼
      With most brands these days, quality seems to be completely irrelevant, and for the most part silhouettes and thoughtfulness of the functionality has completely fallen by the wayside as well 🫠

  • @breathless_siren
    @breathless_siren 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't find that Margaux dupe on the website. At first when I saw it one the landing page I tried to find it and assumed it was just a styling thing

    • @breathless_siren
      @breathless_siren 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And during this video I double checked and nothing comes or shows up

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know!!!!!!!! I mean maybe I should have bought and resold it for triple the price (lol would never do that but I am one of the lucky few who actually had eyes on it for the two seconds it was on the website 🙈🙈🙈)
      For some reason as soon as it sold out within one day, they removed it from the web in the US 😤🫣🫠😫
      www.cos.com/en_usd/women/accessories/bags/product.studio-bowling-bag---leather-brown.1230177001.html
      Just if you want to look at details I found it somehow here even though it’s out of stock 🙈

    • @lelasophia
      @lelasophia  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙈🙈🙈
      It just released so I’m hoping they’ll do a restock. I may make a trip downtown to see if it’s in store but even that I’m sure is not the case 🤪

  • @shoelady6457
    @shoelady6457 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @lelasophia
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