Not only am I 5’2”, but I am very short-waisted and wear a 36G bra!! This presents quite a problem. lol 😢. I am also 85 years old but I love your videos and always learn good things from you. Thank you!!!
I’m right there with you. 😊. I never wore button up shirts ever just dark t shirts. However recently I have been throwing caution away and wearing very lose tops. They “don’t elongate” but every outfit was kind of boring after a while.
@@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 same here, why do they make white shirts with breast pockets? reminds me of girl guides who kerp all sorts of things in their breast pockets. look dreadful.
I wore high heels every day till 70😢Now no place to go with high heels😜Living at the seaside and here you are happy to see people with shoes! Let alone nice flattering shoes! And shoes are a vital element in upgrading your style! Oh how I miss the work(education) and all the places I used to go😃👍🇿🇦
Just to throw another hat in the ring about high heels: I find high heels to be painful & I have seen how disfiguring & crippling the cost of this fashion. Meaning no disrespect to you ladies, please understand. I have reasoned that if I need to wear high heels to be attractive...then said people are really interested enough in me. 😅 And nothing will convince anyone that I am not petite. I went to a ball, very dressy event & wore a pair of dressy Jimmy Chew FLATS! So many women approached me, looking at my fancy flat shoes & said to the effect: ' Oh, I wish I had thought of that....' So there's no one right or wrong, it's different coping & circumstantial...girls just wanna have fun 🎉 right?
I found more than ten tips: 1. no low rise or exposed midriff 2. no large prints 3. no chunky shoes - only pointed toe or high heels or nude tone (with skirts) 4. no chunky clothing/bulky knits/excessive fluffy layering - only stream-lined clothing 5. monochrome if possible - or draw the eye from up to down 6. v-necks 7. Don't oversize or swamp your petite frame 8. power of colours - not only dark slimming colours; try colours that suit complexion 9. medium or small hand bag - not large, bulky bags 10. add height not width to your hairstyle; show your neck; have fun with hair 11. avoid large accessories/jewellery in general - the eye is drawn to accessories, so put showy accessories at the top of your body eg flower clip
I've always teetered on petite height-wise, but now after spine surgery, I'm officially a petite. But I also can't wear pointy toe shoes due to bunion & feet pain. 🙏🏼 that'll change after next month's foot surgery. Anyhow, I'd love seeing you use petite models who are older and not as comfortable with their post menopausal bodies. 🙏🏼 you'll share additional outfits that glam up us 50+ petite gals too. Continued blessings, Frederique.
My dear mother had all her clothes tailored to fit her body, including having the tailor sew the pant pocket opening closed and then remove the interior portion of the pocket. It made her pants hang better and smoother. I also do so, and recommend it for ladies who like a smooth look around the hip area.❤
@@lorih791 I was just thinking, I wish they just took buttons off the front of jeans, there really is no point... make them stretch and smooth no matter what
I am 5 ft tall and my boss once said you look so much taller!! I said I dress tall 😂😂😂I love classic lines and monochromatic looks and he literally measured me😂😂😂😂😂😂5ft tall!! I love you my friend and always loved Coco Chanel with her little black dress🎉🎉🎉 I’m 73 now and still like to dress classic and with a less is more mentality!! Great tips my friend!! ❤❤
Frederique, I don't know if anybody's ever told you this, but your videos are so full of love for all things feminine, pretty, chic, classic, also love to give the outfit that little twist, pop of colour, cheekey/fun touch.... and to share it with the ladies is something beautiful ❤ Wholeheartedly, thank you Sunshine 🤗🥰
Thank you for addressing hairstyles. I'm a hairstylist, forever trying to improve my client's hair to stay within the scale of their body's size. And to stop hiding behind the hair!
Everytime I decide to let my hair grow to my chin, my stylist just cringes and tells me I’m too small for all my thick hair…even when it’s layered. I get the most compliments when it’s much shorter.
If you have a “tummy”, side zip pants don’t work-the center seam won’t center. Front and center fly cuts tummy in half making it look more narrow. And it is always properly centered.
I must have a better eye than I thought because I have always just felt v necks and button downs were the best choice for me, busty and 5” 1’. I have recently lost 80lbs so my hips are now slim!!!! So I’m going to wear pockets, I love pockets. This is a great video, I really enjoyed it and I listen to your lovely accent all day! Thank you for what you do! I may try to find some pointy toe shoes that are tolerable but at my age, 64, comfort is as important to me as style
I am 5'2 and almost 30 and my mother (who is 4'11) has said these same things to me when I was younger but I never listened. Well she was right, of course. I find that when I follow these tips I feel better overall about how I look. Of course, I'll play around and maybe wear something not petite-friendly but I carry these tips as the basis of all my outfits and feel incredible. Thank you! I will definitely be watching more of your videos! p.s. Pointy toed shoes are a pain, but my goodness the way they elevate a look!
Thank you so much for your advice, Frédérique! I am almost 51, very small…an inch shorter than you are 😂 Your ideas and tips are so helpful! I have donated all the unflattering clothes (big prints, low rise pants) and am streamlining my wardrobe to be more appropriate for my petite size. Luckily, I always gravitate towards V neck tops and wearing “columns of color” (monochrome), so at least I have that taken care of. I don’t like very high heels anymore, but I do love kitten heels. A few weeks ago, I cut my hair into a cute little bob style, and it’s been so much fun after having long hair for the past five years or so. I look forward to learning more from you! ❤
Thanks so much for all the very good advice, at almost 80 I try to be stylish and am already doing everything you suggest but must wear flat shoes. My indulgences are scarves and jewellery. My distraction is a smile smiley eyes work wonders for others and makes one feel good too. Thanks again really appreciate the advice you are a wise woman.
Such a thought provoking video 🙏👍soooo many tips, will be helpful to cleanse my wardobe....I have been tempted to buy some clothes, but want to let go of clothes that don't work for my silhouette/height/ etc. I love your work and humour and passion. ❤ Thankyou Frèdèrique 😘😘
I had a small preCancer removed near my nose it left a small divit. My dermatologist sid because I live in the tropics and am very fair that sunscreen just inst enough I must:1) use Tretinoin/Retin A not retinols which are cosmetic strength and 2) wear a hat...that sunscreen only screens out a max of 50% whatever high % they put on the bottle. SO I splurged on an expensive Panama hat made in Ecuador. Tjen so it wont blow off I found a lare Gibson girl hatpin in an anti.que shop! It is my signature piece. The two together. I get compliments from so many people and it is a conversation starter.
My first time stumbling here (where did this come from, Mr algorithm?) I love this woman.. such a light and serious tone.. and the last piece.. "Don't forget YOU ARE FABULOUS - whatever you are trying to hide" 🤣💋
I loved this,I’m a petite curvy woman, who even at 57 doesn’t really know what suits me. So this was great, I noticed some mistakes I’ve been making. I’ve subscribed, and saved this video to go watch again. Thank you ☺️
This is a very helpful video. I'm 5 '1 tall and always have problems to pick out nice outfits that make me look tall. I will be in Paris and Nice next month. Can you please let me know local shops that are not touristy and not too expensive doesn't have to be big brand names. Any recommendation local restaurants. Merci beaucoup!
I personally would love a video on colors & how to know what colors best suit me. I definitely prefer neutrals however I’d like to add a few pieces of color into my wardrobe.
Being an Asian (Filipino), your video is very relevant to me/us. Thank you. One thing I am doing all these years are 1. shorts 2. monochrome 3. small bags and porters 😅 4. V neck and I think the most important of all is keeping weight normal or slim side. Nothing looks good if you’re in the heavy side. I know we have to embrace our true self but keeping healthy by exercising and eating nutritious food in correct amount is very good for the body and would be pleasing to anybody’s eyes. my 2 cents ❤
English Canadian, about 155 cm, possibly less. Heels are out - I live in rural Bretagne (Lorient is my nearest city!) and the roads and gravel would have me spraining my ankles if I wore heels. I hadn't really thought about the hair - I have thick white hair that I'd like to grow, but it probably would make me look shorter. I already have a lot of people asking if I'm my Breton husband's mother, which is upsetting to both of us! Will definitely use all these tips to help make me look taller. I love your videos, Frederique, and you always make me smile!
I think short women tottering on heels look shorter. Wear slim, not bulky, flats and walk tall, the current trend is for flats! Your hair sounds lovely. Just have a crisp shaped simple hair cut and moisturise it well, maybe a spray in conditioner when dry. Maybe review your clothes and put together a few casual but elegant outfits that make you feel confident.
I have never been a fan of prints, especially those with lots of colors, I think they look like you're wearing a bedspread or curtains. For the same reason, I hate Vera Bradley handbags. I also think if you're wearing jewelry you would want to remove before being weighed, then it's too much! Another great video!
Agree. I’m 58 and 5’4”. Larger boobs and apple tummy. 165 lbs. I think prints look matronly on my body. I have a Vera Bradley recycled fabric toiletry kit ( no quilted! Ew) that gives me that nice floral print to look at but not to wear.😂
I just have to say I adore you. I love the fact that you laugh so much at yourself and what you’re saying. What a great thing to do and to have this ability to be so lighthearted. You’re very cute and very confident and you can tell that you’re very a genuine happy person… very impressed. Thank you
For all the girls out there with short torsos, wear mid rise trousers and jeans. Don't forget not to have them super tight though as they should skim your hips and not give the grip of death. 4'11 and hourglass figured. My torso is in proportion to my height. However, my sister is the same height but with a shorter torso. She swears by mid rise jeans and trousers and she honestly looks way better proportionally.
I’ve been so excited for the high waist pants. My favorite go to is a body suit with a high wasted, slightly flared , relaxed jean that skims the floor with platform sandals. It is truly chefs kiss!
Great tips! The visuals with stylish, classic clothing really help me see how I can implement your advice. Thank you so much for featuring Boden! I love their company, fabrics, prints and large selection of petite sizes.
I love your attitude Frédérique - and your accent. I’m a short (161cm) chunky (76kg) busty (34G) 79 year old woman who needs all the help I can get to look modern. So far I’ve probably broken all the rules you outline apart from having a short spiky hairstyle! I’m making a shopping list now! I only eve wear casual clothes and always jeans, chinos or straight leg trousers. You’ve given me some great ideas. No Pockets😢😢!! Barbara
I believe i just found my favorite fashion adviser. i'm asian and 5'4 ft tall and these tips are very useful to me. your accent as well as how passionate you are with fashion makes me want to listen to you all day. im so glad to have found your channel! enchantee
I love all of your good advice but better than that you are just fun to watch. Your humour and laughter and of course your beautiful accent is like spending time with a friend Thank you best regards
You are adorable! I can listen to you all day! I am 74 and now 5’2” ( I was heartbroken when I learned that I had lost 1/2 inch in the last couple of years!)! I innately followed many of your tips throughout my life, and was often told that I looked taller than I was. During the past few years I gained weight and no longer enjoy clothes. There are so few things I can wear now that are flattering. I’ve also had to replace the stilettos I was known for, with kitten heels or flats. I’m always watching my weight ( to no real avail) and mourn my younger days. Are there other tips you can give us petites who have grown wider with age? I love clothes and miss feeling fashionable. Thank you for your videos. You’re a joy to watch!
I’m loving your videos! I’m glad I found you! I’m 5’ 2” and I’m 65. I know many of your suggestions. It’s hard when you get to be my age to follow rules, styles and age appropriate!
Thanks so much for this Frederique! I am 5’1” and short-waisted. I cannot wear high-rise trousers, because they come up my ribcage!🤪SO uncomfortable. I am another one who has had a tailor cut out the pockets on certain pairs of trousers, because they were too pouffy and added volume at my hips. I got a smoother silhouette. Some trousers do have flatish pockets and those are fine. 🙋♀️🇺🇸🥰‼️
Ditto my high waist/short torso. I’m 5’. Mid rise even usually comes to my waist! Always have to gauge tucking in with high waist. Glad cropped tops and jackets are back in style; they fit my short torso perfectly!
I'm so love your videos. They ate such an I inspiration for me. At 65, I'm all about comfort, class, and, yes, elegant style. Thanks for keeping me on point. Merci
This is my first time watching a video of yours and I've absolutely adored your personality and your advice 🎉. I finally understand why I've never felt comfortable or been willing to buy any t-shirts, or other garments that don't surround my neckline in a V-neck shape. I now understand from your presentation that I intuitively knew and of course, saw that this was the most flattering neckline for my 4 foot 10 inch 88 pound body shape. I also appreciated your thoughts on the most appropriate sized bags for we "height compromised" women to carry. 😂 Over the years I've collected (too) many smaller black designer bags only to find that I'm unable to carry my necessities with me inside them. My one disappointment with your video was that it seemed to almost exclusively feature neutral colored clothing and bags, which do not suit my mixed Chinese/European coloring. I look ill in the white or cream colored clothing that you pictured so much of, do not own a single printed garment (apart from a few panties), but predominately wear black, browns, love greens and and some orange and redish purple, although I wear them only monochromaticly or, with the orange and purples, as a pop of color under black. Having seen your video, I'm thinking that this has been a mistake. 😮. But it becomes so drab sticking to dressing monochromatically. And I am not one for buying colorful earrings or pendant necklaces, so how else does a very small woman inject a bit of color into their wardrobe without distrupting the vertical line? Please do discuss such things on another video for your petite subscribers, of which I am now one!😊
Excellent suggestions for petite women like me! I could have never guessed that you are 5'2"! I'm also that same height and your suggestions are really good. A few months ago, I went for a pixie cut and it completely changed my look. I'm glad I did, because I was hiding myself in way too big clothes and long hair. And yes about smaller and delicate accessories.
I used to wear a suit every day for work. The first thing I did when I bought new pants was have the pockets cut and sewn closed. Cleaner lines, just looked better. Love your videos, thank you for all you do!
I lost some weight and at 5 2.5 I realised the more bulky chunky or bigger the clothes actually make me look smaller like I am wearing the hulks clothes. So I'm learning I love flats, trainers and looking at kitten heels always had a thing for pointed toes too. Now I know why.
Very good suggestions 👌🏼 About the hair, I can’t help having volume. I have high density curly hair, the more I cut the bigger it gets, so I have long curly hair to keep it down a bit 😄 Also love pockets in everything!
Please make videos that compliment different skin tones... I love your style. I am a black woman with a deep complexion, but I struggle with the right colors
I am so glad you are sharing these tips! It took me years to figure them out. So many petite women need to know how to style their frame. I'm busty but slim. I'm also height challenged. If I wear big prints because of the bust I always look like a hot air balloon ha ha. Also it's common for petite women to have no waist. Tailored, close to the body cropped tops and tighter trousers are a necessity for me to have a nice silhouette. I so agree with you about chunky shoes, puffy sleeves, excess pockets, and big handbags. I only wear V necks or lower scoop neck for my tees and summer tops. Great advice!
Great video Frederique 💛 i’m not petite but still enjoyed some of the hints and will use them. Your lighthearted approach makes the videos great to watch - you sparkle 🤩 ✨with fun!! Yes please re one on colour 🌻🥂
I'm 4'11 in tall , on the thin side, l 'm very short waited and in my 60's so l dont have a 24 inch waist anymore, now its 27 in, l absolutely can not wear high waisted, unless its leggings or athletic wear, l learned most of what you've said is right, took me years to know what look best on me, l don't work but l do wear the same color top & bottom , but l love most colors and small prints its boring to wear cream color, tan, black , l will wear a small printed top & plain bottom, but l like being authentic and l don't like dressing like everyone else , l stick to the petite do's , & don'ts, but l like color & prints and since my hips are small l wear chunky braclets, Most of the petite dressing l learned through trial & error and took years to know what was appealing me, thanks for the advice you confirmed what l finally learned
I've unstodd the pocket idea for years. They ruin the line. And now with ready to wear often the pocket fabric is too bulky and adds volume. I am bummed so many manufacturers add them. It might look great it a street style photo to have your hand in your pocket, but to put anything heavy in them, like your phone etc, pulls the fabric and looks even worse. Buy a nice large enough handbag and leave pockets off my clothes! Thanks for the charm you bring to your videos❤
Thanks for so much wonderful advice. I am 160 cm, I can't find kitten heels with my wide feet only lower chunky heels. Love your linen outfit Frederique
Hi Frederique, I am a curvy 5 foot short 😂 lady and I have always sewn up pants pockets and cut away the inside pieces 😂😂 as they do add inches to my hips. Thank you for the tios.
This video was perfect for petites! I would love to hear your suggestions for those of us who have a high waist/short torso which has proven to be immensely challenging to style. You seem to have such a good knowledge foundation for all things fashion related. Thank you for sharing!
Thinner belt was my take away. 60 and 5' 2 1/2. Petite in every way. I always thought thin belts looked wrong w wide belt loops? I will give it a try 👍 thank you!
I used to get all sorts of different hairstyles but now it's long and I like it. I like being able to put it up. It's thick, textured hair, so different cuts could end up with big volume, and having the length helps with that too.
Hi there! Petite curvy girl here.... Thank you so much for this video. I really appreciate the effort you put in all your videos! Very insightful and informative! I have been going the monochrome way these days...very easy to style and maintain! Please do make the video on colors for skintone...would love to hear your insights on them! Love from India!
Well, Frédérique, I do NOT like pockets in my hip area either! I have my tailor cut them out and sew the opening shut to achieve a flatter, smoother line. I also have my tailor hem my tops, even t shirts, which REALLY helps with too much length and bulk. Regarding hair, I am growing mine longer because I am salt and pepper and it makes people so mad to see undyed silver hair, I love to push the envelope 🤣🤣
Thank you for the wonderful video, I can tell you love what you do. I’m 5’2 ballerina body, small frame, small hips and bust proportioned to my waist. I love princess cut of top’s and dresses fitted under the bust and crisscross sweaters. The tip about the color of the shoes and the outfit makes sense. I always wear black shoes most of the time regardless of the color of the outfit! Never occurred to me that breaks the line. Thank you !
I am loving your videos! I didn't hear you mention that even a heavy woman looks good in white if her clothes are appropriately styled, and fit well. Thank you for entertaining and helpful information!
When I’m in Europe I always feel better. Never bloated. It takes me 6 weeks to gain 5 pounds of weight, in New Jersey only takes me a week. Michael looks stunning. You guys are awesome ❤
Love your channnel. Thank you for all of the tips. I have a capsule wardrobe as I live on a sailboat, all my pants are high-waisted and wide-legged. I discovered the style fit me perfectly - no pockets. No high heels for me...what difference does it really make when you're 5' tall...lol. Kitten 1 1/2" heels for me. I did purchase some Chelsea boots, but found a pair that is finer, more delicate looking. And my handbags are all smaller. One is a vintage Canon camera case - oval and hard - one of my favs. I have a dress I love that has a large print - that is not bold colours but muted but I will now consider it and look at it differently when I put it on next.
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I would love it❤❤❤
Yes yes yes
Please do! You look lovely today! Natural makeup, slicked back hair... difficult but you carry it off very well❤
Yes, please ❤
Yes please!!!
Not only am I 5’2”, but I am very short-waisted and wear a 36G bra!! This presents quite a problem. lol 😢. I am also 85 years old but I love your videos and always learn good things from you. Thank you!!!
I’m right there with you. 😊. I never wore button up shirts ever just dark t shirts. However recently I have been throwing caution away and wearing very lose tops. They “don’t elongate” but every outfit was kind of boring after a while.
85????? God bless you! Do not worry about those things, your beauty is on the years you’ve lived. I pray that my mother lives as long as you dear!
@@OlgaSmirnova1 We all want to smash it as far as looking good. You will at 85 too I am sure.
Same her 5'2, short waisted, massive boobs😢. Think I need a whole new wardrobe after watching this video.
@@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 same here, why do they make white shirts with breast pockets? reminds me of girl guides who kerp all sorts of things in their breast pockets. look dreadful.
I wore high heels every day till 70😢Now no place to go with high heels😜Living at the seaside and here you are happy to see people with shoes! Let alone nice flattering shoes! And shoes are a vital element in upgrading your style! Oh how I miss the work(education) and all the places I used to go😃👍🇿🇦
❤❤
Well, grab a friend and just get up and go!
I understand! I love heels with jeans ( boot cuts) and still wear them at the crummy jazz club I go to😂
Just to throw another hat in the ring about high heels:
I find high heels to be painful & I have seen how disfiguring & crippling the cost of this fashion.
Meaning no disrespect to you ladies, please understand. I have reasoned that if I need to wear high heels to be attractive...then said people are really interested enough in me. 😅 And nothing will convince anyone that I am not petite.
I went to a ball, very dressy event & wore a pair of dressy Jimmy Chew FLATS! So many women approached me, looking at my fancy flat shoes & said to the effect: ' Oh, I wish I had thought of that....'
So there's no one right or wrong, it's different coping & circumstantial...girls just wanna have fun 🎉 right?
Very witty!
I found more than ten tips:
1. no low rise or exposed midriff
2. no large prints
3. no chunky shoes - only pointed toe or high heels or nude tone (with skirts)
4. no chunky clothing/bulky knits/excessive fluffy layering - only stream-lined clothing
5. monochrome if possible - or draw the eye from up to down
6. v-necks
7. Don't oversize or swamp your petite frame
8. power of colours - not only dark slimming colours; try colours that suit complexion
9. medium or small hand bag - not large, bulky bags
10. add height not width to your hairstyle; show your neck; have fun with hair
11. avoid large accessories/jewellery in general - the eye is drawn to accessories, so put showy accessories at the top of your body eg flower clip
Big help ❤thanks
Very helpful
High waist pants and skirts make the upper torso look short and out of balance.
@@zerozero9085 depends on the person body
Thanks so much for sharing these insights and tips ..Tres utile pour moi
I've always teetered on petite height-wise, but now after spine surgery, I'm officially a petite. But I also can't wear pointy toe shoes due to bunion & feet pain. 🙏🏼 that'll change after next month's foot surgery. Anyhow, I'd love seeing you use petite models who are older and not as comfortable with their post menopausal bodies. 🙏🏼 you'll share additional outfits that glam up us 50+ petite gals too. Continued blessings, Frederique.
My dear mother had all her clothes tailored to fit her body, including having the tailor sew the pant pocket opening closed and then remove the interior portion of the pocket. It made her pants hang better and smoother. I also do so, and recommend it for ladies who like a smooth look around the hip area.❤
I do the same for decades!
@@lorih791 I was just thinking, I wish they just took buttons off the front of jeans, there really is no point... make them stretch and smooth no matter what
I do this too
I am 5 ft tall and my boss once said you look so much taller!! I said I dress tall 😂😂😂I love classic lines and monochromatic looks and he literally measured me😂😂😂😂😂😂5ft tall!! I love you my friend and always loved Coco Chanel with her little black dress🎉🎉🎉 I’m 73 now and still like to dress classic and with a less is more mentality!! Great tips my friend!! ❤❤
I so agree and dress classically.
5'2 and difficult to find clothes in petite.
@@ElizzzaBI’m 4ft 11 “ and find it impossible , so I have to pay an extra €25 to have the hems taken up plus an extra €10 if there is lining
thank you for addressing petite issues...it can be very challenging buying and dressing for us petites
You are so welcome!
Yes, yes. Love your tips!
Frederique, I don't know if anybody's ever told you this, but your videos are so full of love for all things feminine, pretty, chic, classic, also love to give the outfit that little twist, pop of colour, cheekey/fun touch.... and to share it with the ladies is something beautiful ❤ Wholeheartedly, thank you Sunshine 🤗🥰
Wow, thank you!
Thank you for addressing hairstyles.
I'm a hairstylist, forever trying to improve my client's
hair to stay within the scale of their body's size.
And to stop hiding behind the hair!
thank you, check this new video coming about thin hair it will be great to have your feedback x
Everytime I decide to let my hair grow to my chin, my stylist just cringes and tells me I’m too small for all my thick hair…even when it’s layered. I get the most compliments when it’s much shorter.
I would love if side zip pants came back. They look so much sleeker. Women don’t need “flies”. I have a pair of corduroy and they look so nice.
The option would be great!!💖
If you have a “tummy”, side zip pants don’t work-the center seam won’t center. Front and center fly cuts tummy in half making it look more narrow. And it is always properly centered.
I find them hard to put on unless they are a size or two bigger. But, they do look nice.
I adore your videos for petite women. I wish there were more of them. I am 159 cm tall, and you understand me.
Being "close" to 70 -- this petite sassy lassie luvs all of your tidbits and hints. Merci.
I must have a better eye than I thought because I have always just felt v necks and button downs were the best choice for me, busty and 5” 1’. I have recently lost 80lbs so my hips are now slim!!!! So I’m going to wear pockets, I love pockets. This is a great video, I really enjoyed it and I listen to your lovely accent all day! Thank you for what you do! I may try to find some pointy toe shoes that are tolerable but at my age, 64, comfort is as important to me as style
64 is the new '44'. 😊
@Paula...congratulations on the new body! Rock on looking fantastic!
I am 5'2 and almost 30 and my mother (who is 4'11) has said these same things to me when I was younger but I never listened. Well she was right, of course. I find that when I follow these tips I feel better overall about how I look. Of course, I'll play around and maybe wear something not petite-friendly but I carry these tips as the basis of all my outfits and feel incredible. Thank you! I will definitely be watching more of your videos!
p.s. Pointy toed shoes are a pain, but my goodness the way they elevate a look!
Thank you so much for your advice, Frédérique! I am almost 51, very small…an inch shorter than you are 😂 Your ideas and tips are so helpful! I have donated all the unflattering clothes (big prints, low rise pants) and am streamlining my wardrobe to be more appropriate for my petite size. Luckily, I always gravitate towards V neck tops and wearing “columns of color” (monochrome), so at least I have that taken care of. I don’t like very high heels anymore, but I do love kitten heels. A few weeks ago, I cut my hair into a cute little bob style, and it’s been so much fun after having long hair for the past five years or so. I look forward to learning more from you! ❤
Not only you are so right about your fashion tips ..you are also funny , classy, and fun to be heard ❤
Oh thank you!
Another yes to a tutorial on choosing correct colours
I would love to see a video about what colors fit your skin tone.
coming soon!
Thanks so much for all the very good advice, at almost 80 I try to be stylish and am already doing everything you suggest but must wear flat shoes. My indulgences are scarves and jewellery. My distraction is a smile smiley eyes work wonders for others and makes one feel good too. Thanks again really appreciate the advice you are a wise woman.
I love your hair styled this way. Very few women can pull this look off.
Yes! Thank you!
Such a thought provoking video 🙏👍soooo many tips, will be helpful to cleanse my wardobe....I have been tempted to buy some clothes, but want to let go of clothes that don't work for my silhouette/height/ etc. I love your work and humour and passion. ❤ Thankyou Frèdèrique 😘😘
I had a small preCancer removed near my nose it left a small divit. My dermatologist sid because I live in the tropics and am very fair that sunscreen just inst enough I must:1) use Tretinoin/Retin A not retinols which are cosmetic strength and 2) wear a hat...that sunscreen only screens out a max of 50% whatever high % they put on the bottle.
SO I splurged on an expensive Panama hat made in Ecuador. Tjen so it wont blow off I found a lare Gibson girl hatpin in an anti.que shop! It is my signature piece. The two together. I get compliments from so many people and it is a conversation starter.
My first time stumbling here (where did this come from, Mr algorithm?)
I love this woman.. such a light and serious tone.. and the last piece..
"Don't forget YOU ARE FABULOUS - whatever you are trying to hide" 🤣💋
Welcome 🙏
I loved this,I’m a petite curvy woman, who even at 57 doesn’t really know what suits me. So this was great, I noticed some mistakes I’ve been making. I’ve subscribed, and saved this video to go watch again. Thank you ☺️
I’ve dressed using all your rules all my life lol I’m the same height as you. Thank goodness I’ve been able to stay slim for over 70 years ❤
Bulky❌ Chunky❌ Large prints❌ Multiple contrasting colors❌ Anything oversized❌ Wrong hairstyle❌ Loud accessories❌ Overdoing everything❌ Got it. 😅
So true!!!!!!
Yes please. Color for our skin tone.
I have a tiny Asian colleague, she always wears her shirts tucked in, wide legged pants (but not too much) & high heels. She always looks great.
This is a very helpful video. I'm 5 '1 tall and always have problems to pick out nice outfits that make me look tall. I will be in Paris and Nice next month. Can you please let me know local shops that are not touristy and not too expensive doesn't have to be big brand names. Any recommendation local restaurants. Merci beaucoup!
Is she a filipina?
I personally would love a video on colors & how to know what colors best suit me. I definitely prefer neutrals however I’d like to add a few pieces of color into my wardrobe.
I’m a 5’2 curvy girl and I also cut the pockets out of everything, b/c the pocket never lays flat and just adds bulk to my hips.
Being an Asian (Filipino), your video is very relevant to me/us. Thank you. One thing I am doing all these years are 1. shorts 2. monochrome 3. small bags and porters 😅 4. V neck and I think the most important of all is keeping weight normal or slim side. Nothing looks good if you’re in the heavy side. I know we have to embrace our true self but keeping healthy by exercising and eating nutritious food in correct amount is very good for the body and would be pleasing to anybody’s eyes. my 2 cents ❤
fabulous thank you for sharing ps: I love the Philippines need to go back for another diving trip :)
English Canadian, about 155 cm, possibly less. Heels are out - I live in rural Bretagne (Lorient is my nearest city!) and the roads and gravel would have me spraining my ankles if I wore heels. I hadn't really thought about the hair - I have thick white hair that I'd like to grow, but it probably would make me look shorter. I already have a lot of people asking if I'm my Breton husband's mother, which is upsetting to both of us! Will definitely use all these tips to help make me look taller. I love your videos, Frederique, and you always make me smile!
I think short women tottering on heels look shorter. Wear slim, not bulky, flats and walk tall, the current trend is for flats! Your hair sounds lovely. Just have a crisp shaped simple hair cut and moisturise it well, maybe a spray in conditioner when dry. Maybe review your clothes and put together a few casual but elegant outfits that make you feel confident.
I need color help. Please a video.
I have never been a fan of prints, especially those with lots of colors, I think they look like you're wearing a bedspread or curtains. For the same reason, I hate Vera Bradley handbags. I also think if you're wearing jewelry you would want to remove before being weighed, then it's too much! Another great video!
Agree. I’m 58 and 5’4”. Larger boobs and apple tummy. 165 lbs. I think prints look matronly on my body. I have a Vera Bradley recycled fabric toiletry kit ( no quilted! Ew) that gives me that nice floral print to look at but not to wear.😂
Your advices are absolutely priceless. No pockets would be a punishment for me. Grand merci!
I'm a bit late watching this video... but I only discovered you a few days ago, Frederique!
I would LOVE a video that shows me what my colours are!
I just have to say I adore you. I love the fact that you laugh so much at yourself and what you’re saying. What a great thing to do and to have this ability to be so lighthearted. You’re very cute and very confident and you can tell that you’re very a genuine happy person… very impressed. Thank you
You're the best!
Thank you so much! I would love to see a video on proper colors for a fair and freckled person with green eyes and 😊 blondish reddish hair.
Yes to "what is the best color for you"
Yes please do a what is the best colour for you video!
For all the girls out there with short torsos, wear mid rise trousers and jeans. Don't forget not to have them super tight though as they should skim your hips and not give the grip of death. 4'11 and hourglass figured. My torso is in proportion to my height. However, my sister is the same height but with a shorter torso. She swears by mid rise jeans and trousers and she honestly looks way better proportionally.
Yes, with a short torso, midrise transforms to high-rise at the body while high-rise might sit unnaturally reach up to the bra.
😵😂😂😂and look ridiculous!!!
I’ve been so excited for the high waist pants. My favorite go to is a body suit with a high wasted, slightly flared , relaxed jean that skims the floor with platform sandals. It is truly chefs kiss!
Thanks for sharing!!
I love your energy, humor and of course the wonderful tips! 👍🏻👍🏻💙💙🥰
Thank you so much!
Great tips! The visuals with stylish, classic clothing really help me see how I can implement your advice. Thank you so much for featuring Boden! I love their company, fabrics, prints and large selection of petite sizes.
I love your attitude Frédérique - and your accent. I’m a short (161cm) chunky (76kg) busty (34G) 79 year old woman who needs all the help I can get to look modern. So far I’ve probably broken all the rules you outline apart from having a short spiky hairstyle! I’m making a shopping list now! I only eve wear casual clothes and always jeans, chinos or straight leg trousers. You’ve given me some great ideas. No Pockets😢😢!! Barbara
I believe i just found my favorite fashion adviser. i'm asian and 5'4 ft tall and these tips are very useful to me. your accent as well as how passionate you are with fashion makes me want to listen to you all day. im so glad to have found your channel! enchantee
I love all of your good advice but better than that you are just fun to watch. Your humour and laughter and of course your beautiful accent is like spending time with a friend Thank you best regards
Thank you for the tip on the chunky… shoes, jewelry, chunky everything. I like this most.😊
Help with colors!
You are adorable! I can listen to you all day! I am 74 and now 5’2” ( I was heartbroken when I learned that I had lost 1/2 inch in the last couple of years!)! I innately followed many of your tips throughout my life, and was often told that I looked taller than I was. During the past few years I gained weight and no longer enjoy clothes. There are so few things I can wear now that are flattering. I’ve also had to replace the stilettos I was known for, with kitten heels or flats. I’m always watching my weight ( to no real avail) and mourn my younger days. Are there other tips you can give us petites who have grown wider with age? I love clothes and miss feeling fashionable. Thank you for your videos. You’re a joy to watch!
I’m loving your videos! I’m glad I found you! I’m 5’ 2” and I’m 65. I know many of your suggestions. It’s hard when you get to be my age to follow rules, styles and age appropriate!
Love how directly and clearly you explain. I only subscribe when speaker gets quickly to the point!
Great video. Two things you did not mention which I think are big mistakes are pleats and cuffs. Both are terrible for petite women.
Thanks for sharing!
I never feel like I look right with pant cuffs or pleats. Glad you mentioned that.
My college roommate is petite and back in college she rocked pleated mini skirts. I would recommend pleats in the right places.
There are different kinds of pkeats box pleats, crystal pleats. Its really about proportion. For trousers, pick two pleats instead of three.
Fantastic styling tips with your charming so French accent. Thanks
You’re welcome 😊
Thanks so much for this Frederique! I am 5’1” and short-waisted. I cannot wear high-rise trousers, because they come up my ribcage!🤪SO uncomfortable. I am another one who has had a tailor cut out the pockets on certain pairs of trousers, because they were too pouffy and added volume at my hips. I got a smoother silhouette. Some trousers do have flatish pockets and those are fine. 🙋♀️🇺🇸🥰‼️
Ditto my high waist/short torso. I’m 5’. Mid rise even usually comes to my waist! Always have to gauge tucking in with high waist. Glad cropped tops and jackets are back in style; they fit my short torso perfectly!
I'm so love your videos. They ate such an I inspiration for me. At 65, I'm all about comfort, class, and, yes, elegant style. Thanks for keeping me on point. Merci
You hair looks fantastic. It suits you 100%. Just beautiful. Thank you for your videos.
Thank you so much!
This is my first time watching a video of yours and I've absolutely adored your personality and your advice 🎉. I finally understand why I've never felt comfortable or been willing to buy any t-shirts, or other garments that don't surround my neckline in a V-neck shape. I now understand from your presentation that I intuitively knew and of course, saw that this was the most flattering neckline for my 4 foot 10 inch 88 pound body shape. I also appreciated your thoughts on the most appropriate sized bags for we "height compromised" women to carry. 😂 Over the years I've collected (too) many smaller black designer bags only to find that I'm unable to carry my necessities with me inside them. My one disappointment with your video was that it seemed to almost exclusively feature neutral colored clothing and bags, which do not suit my mixed Chinese/European coloring. I look ill in the white or cream colored clothing that you pictured so much of, do not own a single printed garment (apart from a few panties), but predominately wear black, browns, love greens and and some orange and redish purple, although I wear them only monochromaticly or, with the orange and purples, as a pop of color under black. Having seen your video, I'm thinking that this has been a mistake. 😮. But it becomes so drab sticking to dressing monochromatically. And I am not one for buying colorful earrings or pendant necklaces, so how else does a very small woman inject a bit of color into their wardrobe without distrupting the vertical line?
Please do discuss such things on another video for your petite subscribers, of which I am now one!😊
welcome xxx
Would love a video about skin tone and complementary colours! Enjoying your videos Frederique.. Thank you!
Great idea!
So helpful! As an older woman I am losing height but was never tall. Would love to see a video on colour! Merci!! 💟👍🏻
I have long legs for my 5'3" body. High waist can make me lose all of my torso sometimes. I like mid rise best.
Your lovely personality really shines in this video! ❤❤❤
I’m 180 (5”11) tall but I still watched it to the end 🍏🐝
Thank you so much!!
Excellent suggestions for petite women like me! I could have never guessed that you are 5'2"! I'm also that same height and your suggestions are really good. A few months ago, I went for a pixie cut and it completely changed my look. I'm glad I did, because I was hiding myself in way too big clothes and long hair. And yes about smaller and delicate accessories.
Yes! Thank you!
I used to wear a suit every day for work. The first thing I did when I bought new pants was have the pockets cut and sewn closed. Cleaner lines, just looked better. Love your videos, thank you for all you do!
Hello from England. I used to cut the inside of my pockets , too. I never thought anyone else wld do the same. 😊😊
I agree with everything. Hate bold jewelry, I’m definitely monochromatic, hair is barely below my ears. Love your channel. I’m 5’6
It never occurred to me that large bracelets would draw attention to my hips! Why have I never realized that? Thanks for that.
I lost some weight and at 5 2.5 I realised the more bulky chunky or bigger the clothes actually make me look smaller like I am wearing the hulks clothes. So I'm learning I love flats, trainers and looking at kitten heels always had a thing for pointed toes too. Now I know why.
Very good suggestions 👌🏼
About the hair, I can’t help having volume. I have high density curly hair, the more I cut the bigger it gets, so I have long curly hair to keep it down a bit 😄
Also love pockets in everything!
So much good advice in this video! I'm 5'2" as well. I decided several years ago that big prints overwhelm me and I'm lost in them so I ditched them.
You are so welcome!
Your accent is the key to being fashionable i. My modest opinion. It catches my attention and vous avez raison.
Please make videos that compliment different skin tones... I love your style. I am a black woman with a deep complexion, but I struggle with the right colors
🎉enjoyed this video. Some of my favorite tips - small prints, high waist, proportions:) I am off to get stylish for today
Love that!
I am so glad you are sharing these tips! It took me years to figure them out. So many petite women need to know how to style their frame. I'm busty but slim. I'm also height challenged. If I wear big prints because of the bust I always look like a hot air balloon ha ha. Also it's common for petite women to have no waist. Tailored, close to the body cropped tops and tighter trousers are a necessity for me to have a nice silhouette. I so agree with you about chunky shoes, puffy sleeves, excess pockets, and big handbags. I only wear V necks or lower scoop neck for my tees and summer tops. Great advice!
I am petite & I cannot wear high waisted as I have a short torso & find high waisted very uncomfortable but I love mid rise .
Great video Frederique 💛 i’m not petite but still enjoyed some of the hints and will use them. Your lighthearted approach makes the videos great to watch - you sparkle 🤩 ✨with fun!!
Yes please re one on colour 🌻🥂
Great video! Losing height, now 5 feet even. Would like to see best neutrals video. You are at the top of your game! Thanks.
I'm 4'11 in tall , on the thin side, l 'm very short waited and in my 60's so l dont have a 24 inch waist anymore, now its 27 in, l absolutely can not wear high waisted, unless its leggings or athletic wear, l learned most of what you've said is right, took me years to know what look best on me, l don't work but l do wear the same color top & bottom , but l love most colors and small prints its boring to wear cream color, tan, black , l will wear a small printed top & plain bottom, but l like being authentic and l don't like dressing like everyone else , l stick to the petite do's , & don'ts, but l like color & prints and since my hips are small l wear chunky braclets, Most of the petite dressing l learned through trial & error and took years to know what was appealing me, thanks for the advice you confirmed what l finally learned
I've unstodd the pocket idea for years. They ruin the line. And now with ready to wear often the pocket fabric is too bulky and adds volume. I am bummed so many manufacturers add them. It might look great it a street style photo to have your hand in your pocket, but to put anything heavy in them, like your phone etc, pulls the fabric and looks even worse. Buy a nice large enough handbag and leave pockets off my clothes! Thanks for the charm you bring to your videos❤
Thanks for so much wonderful advice. I am 160 cm, I can't find kitten heels with my wide feet only lower chunky heels. Love your linen outfit Frederique
Hi Frederique,
I am a curvy 5 foot short 😂 lady and I have always sewn up pants pockets and cut away the inside pieces 😂😂 as they do add inches to my hips. Thank you for the tios.
This video was perfect for petites! I would love to hear your suggestions for those of us who have a high waist/short torso which has proven to be immensely challenging to style. You seem to have such a good knowledge foundation for all things fashion related. Thank you for sharing!
xxxx
Thinner belt was my take away. 60 and 5' 2 1/2. Petite in every way. I always thought thin belts looked wrong w wide belt loops? I will give it a try 👍 thank you!
Fun, straight to the point and really good advice. You are literally helping me to pack for my overseas holiday Frederique! Greetings from Melbourne 🦘
Any ideas for what to wear (shoes) in autumn for a petite woman? Thank you
I used to get all sorts of different hairstyles but now it's long and I like it. I like being able to put it up.
It's thick, textured hair, so different cuts could end up with big volume, and having the length helps with that too.
Love your tips. Your opinion is exactly what I think.
Than you for focusing on petite women!!!
The best clothes are those that make you feel happy.
Sorry but no, they should lengthen your frame and also make you happy.
Thanks , it’s very informative , joyful to watch ❣️
So nice of you
Hi there! Petite curvy girl here....
Thank you so much for this video. I really appreciate the effort you put in all your videos! Very insightful and informative! I have been going the monochrome way these days...very easy to style and maintain!
Please do make the video on colors for skintone...would love to hear your insights on them!
Love from India!
thank you rapti good to see you back to my channel xxx
So helpful and educational.Thank you!
Great video with excellent ideas. Thank you.
Well, Frédérique, I do NOT like pockets in my hip area either! I have my tailor cut them out and sew the opening shut to achieve a flatter, smoother line. I also have my tailor hem my tops, even t shirts, which REALLY helps with too much length and bulk. Regarding hair, I am growing mine longer because I am salt and pepper and it makes people so mad to see undyed silver hair, I love to push the envelope 🤣🤣
Hahaha good on you!
I cut my pockets. Not wearing bangles is so smart never thought of the eye going to the hips. Newly subscribed.
Thank you for the wonderful video, I can tell you love what you do. I’m 5’2 ballerina body, small frame, small hips and bust proportioned to my waist. I love princess cut of top’s and dresses fitted under the bust and crisscross sweaters. The tip about the color of the shoes and the outfit makes sense. I always wear black shoes most of the time regardless of the color of the outfit! Never occurred to me that breaks the line. Thank you !
Loved this! You are great! The large prints really resonated with me, I never realized that. Have a great day!
I am loving your videos! I didn't hear you mention that even a heavy woman looks good in white if her clothes are appropriately styled, and fit well. Thank you for entertaining and helpful information!
Good point!
When I’m in Europe I always feel better. Never bloated. It takes me 6 weeks to gain 5 pounds of weight, in New Jersey only takes me a week. Michael looks stunning. You guys are awesome ❤
How do I put together with a trench coat ? I love wearing trench coat and I’m 5”2
I LOVE your videos! You are charming and beautiful.....keep posting more videos! Thank you for your beautiful spirit ❤️
Hi Frédérique, How do you style your hair? Including products please. I’ve purchased many items you recommend over the years using your links. Thanks
not much because i wear an helmet on the scooter, fan in the office, 150% humidity and i swim every two days hahaha
It’s a great sassy style, for ladies like us on-the-go! Any pointers for keeping it tame and frizz free. Would be appreciated. 😊
Love your channnel. Thank you for all of the tips.
I have a capsule wardrobe as I live on a sailboat, all my pants are high-waisted and wide-legged. I discovered the style fit me perfectly - no pockets.
No high heels for me...what difference does it really make when you're 5' tall...lol. Kitten 1 1/2" heels for me. I did purchase some Chelsea boots, but found a pair that is finer, more delicate looking. And my handbags are all smaller. One is a vintage Canon camera case - oval and hard - one of my favs.
I have a dress I love that has a large print - that is not bold colours but muted but I will now consider it and look at it differently when I put it on next.