Mother hurting stepchild by not treating equally like real child. | Social Experiment in Japan

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  • @milu_kaka8385
    @milu_kaka8385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6556

    The first person is very kind , not only wanted to help the child but reflected how he could have handled it better. True gentlemen!!

    • @louisevee7542
      @louisevee7542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I totally agree. Bless his heart. :))

    • @1995marixsa
      @1995marixsa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Bless him, he is such a onderful person

    • @jessicakim4488
      @jessicakim4488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      He's amazing:)

    • @kalikahooja2034
      @kalikahooja2034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I was going to make the same remark. He analyzed his own behavior as well. What a nice person!

    • @Lovelyyetlonely
      @Lovelyyetlonely 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ITS GENTLEMAN NOT GENTLEMEN OMG

  • @ARY.16
    @ARY.16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3647

    When he asked “You were lonely, weren’t you?” I totally felt sad at that time

    • @leandrosalazar9025
      @leandrosalazar9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Actually if you translate the japanese word by it self. It means "It made you feel sad, right?"

    • @Lizziecuteme
      @Lizziecuteme ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@leandrosalazar9025 No it's actually correct translation.
      He said 寂しかったですよね = you were lonely, weren't you?
      If he had said "You felt sad, right?", he would have said 悲しかったですよね
      寂しい = sabishii = lonely
      悲しい = kanashii = sad

    • @kai-j1b2i
      @kai-j1b2i ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Lizziecuteme yep.. he clearly said 寂しい

    • @harshmnr
      @harshmnr ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Lizziecuteme True, but 寂しい can also have a few other translations; it's not just strictly "lonely" in the sense of the meaning in English. It can be used loosely as just sort of any negative feelings that may have been _caused_ by loneliness or being left out, like this situation. So general "sadness" could be included. I can't think of any specific examples but I've definitely seen times where 寂しい has been used in a sentence that feels unnatural using "lonely" in English; based on the meaning and context it would make sense to use "sad" or another word, and that's actually how I feel for this situation as well.
      ~:~

    • @nonnon8309
      @nonnon8309 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@harshmnri am japanese. And he said 寂しかったよね?
      寂しい only means sadness from loneliness. Or feels like something is missing.

  • @lanarose1075
    @lanarose1075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1935

    The uncle in the beginning who defended the foster child made me cry. He seems he would be a good father or uncle

    • @Nooneir
      @Nooneir ปีที่แล้ว +5

      عربية صح؟

    • @jdana_rose
      @jdana_rose 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      fr!

  • @yixuancraze
    @yixuancraze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4199

    it's amazing how politely they're speaking even when they're pissed off

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Right

    • @angel786143
      @angel786143 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      True

    • @glubasuar7554
      @glubasuar7554 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      I was going to say that too. I've always heard that they're very kind and polite, and it seems to ring true. Even in situations like this, they can stay level headed and address the situation politely. It also keeps the child from becoming frightened. The people in this video are very kind.

    • @fernandabuitrago2393
      @fernandabuitrago2393 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Japanese

    • @habibabukasim2030
      @habibabukasim2030 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That woman didn't talk harsh to her that's why if she does the bad word then this guy is gonna turn suupa saiyajin

  • @たけ-c4u
    @たけ-c4u ปีที่แล้ว +258

    私だったら自分の考えを伝える際に絶対に言葉が荒くなってしまうと思う。ここまで落ち着いて自分の思いを冷静に相手に伝えられていて本当に尊敬です。自分も大人にならなきゃ…

  • @戦姫タニヤ
    @戦姫タニヤ ปีที่แล้ว +69

    子どもの頃の私が、時を超えて今救われた気がします。ありがとう

  • @yurikimu
    @yurikimu ปีที่แล้ว +240

    この場に居合わせたらめちゃくちゃ気持ちは怒って子ども抱きしめたい。でも、それしたら帰って更に子どもが辛くならないかと考えるし、長期的に救うには学校?行政?どうしたらいい?って迷ううちに時間がすぎる…だから声かけた人は素晴らしい

  • @ai-tn5wd
    @ai-tn5wd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3196

    I actually never thought or always had a second thought of how japanese people would act in situations like this publicly. Ive been prejudiced by statements that they won't butt in or not care because they don't want/like confrontations and they dont like to be the center of attraction. It's nice that there are people who stood up for the better.

    • @Teddyponsel2626
      @Teddyponsel2626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +284

      Keep in mind it doesn't show the number of attempts this experiment has taken. The one shown in the video is probably a 1/1000 rare occurrence or something like that. Unless the video states exactly the probability of this happening in a given situation, then that stereotype of Japan not wanting to be the center of attraction or confront someone might still probably be true.

    • @Mikasaxx0
      @Mikasaxx0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Kid is involved in this video. Japanese always stands up for children. It's just for adults case they'd have to rethink.

    • @yourmadjesty988
      @yourmadjesty988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This is exactly what I believed too, this video changed my view on them.

    • @zarakikenpachi6888
      @zarakikenpachi6888 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Maybe because the victim here is a child

    • @juliusc1381
      @juliusc1381 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I feel as though the fear of confrontation is a bit of a cultural mistranslation if that makes any sense.
      I grew up in an Asian household with an additude of keeping & appreciating the peace.
      There is also a lot, and I mean A LOT of folklore that teaches us that not everything is as it seems. We do not know the full story, so we either learn to mind our business or wait for more detail.
      Also learning to maintain control of composure (emotional control) at an early age.
      I think this really gets twisted in a westerner's perspective. Not that it's wrong to misunderstand, but I see a lot of comments still making excuses for the stereotype. Maybe we are all just human...
      This is just one guy's perspective anyways.

  • @syahu1414
    @syahu1414 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    こうゆう場になった時に声をかけれるのほんと尊敬します。

    • @Fasorus
      @Fasorus 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      子供がびっくりしないように落ち着いて話をしていてとても良いと思いました

  • @ILikeFoodss
    @ILikeFoodss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +735

    Crying of tears right now, couldn't believe there(s) still people out there willing to help !

    • @Imp-bq6iy
      @Imp-bq6iy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes, there's a lot. It's just that usually the stories that become known are the bad ones. I used to doubt the purpose of this kind of social experiments but now I know it helps good stories and people to be known.

    • @XxLutanixdamexX
      @XxLutanixdamexX 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only in asian countries mostly..white countries rlky dont give a fuck especially uk and USA 💀

  • @モモちゃん-q4m
    @モモちゃん-q4m ปีที่แล้ว +587

    他人でもこんなに優しくしてくれる人がいることがなんか安心する…

  • @sari4293
    @sari4293 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    日本にも勇気を持って正しいこと言える人がいてよかった。日本ってみんな優しいけど黙ってる人多いって思ってた。こんなことあったら大人は正しいことを言って導いてあげようね。子供はそんな大人がいることがわかるから。

  • @川水屋
    @川水屋 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    お兄さん優しいけど、子供を見る時は目が笑っているのに母親役の人見る時「なんだこいつ」みたいに鋭い目つきになってる。
    やっぱり、心って顔に出るんだね・・・

    • @ハオハオ-p9n
      @ハオハオ-p9n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      そりゃそうでしょw

    • @tks0930
      @tks0930 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      だからなんだよ当たり前だろ

    • @川水屋
      @川水屋 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@tks0930 あのー、正直さ そう言う言い方良くないよ。あんたの投稿動画にも出てるけどさ
      憂さ晴らしにこう言う事言われても迷惑だよ。素直に、コメント書いちゃいけないのか?
      そうやって喧嘩腰で来られたら、こっちも不愉快だし他人をドラレコでどうたらいう前に自分の言動見直したらどう?

    • @川水屋
      @川水屋 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ハオハオ-p9n そうやって他人をちゃかす事言うの恥ずかしいからやめときな。
      自分がされたら、嫌だろ。

  • @バイカーくま
    @バイカーくま ปีที่แล้ว +113

    動画と分かって見てても気分が悪くなる。
    そしてこんなにも声を掛けてくれる周りの人達がいることにまだ日本も捨てたもんじゃないなぁと思えた。

  • @まさきちまさきち-x7v
    @まさきちまさきち-x7v 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    メチャクチャ優しい😢
    当たり前のことを当たり前に言える素敵な人😢

  • @101Meeko101
    @101Meeko101 ปีที่แล้ว +461

    The first man’s side eye towards the mother shows just how disgusted he truly feels. Truly a stand up man, he doesn’t look like the most well off person but offering to buy the Foster child a meal just an amazing gesture, a person well raised and grew up to be an outstanding man

    • @marygracetakeuchi4766
      @marygracetakeuchi4766 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes he was really pissed 😢

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@marygracetakeuchi4766I want to be that calm when pissed. 😂 I will definitely be angry AF and my voice will shake.

    • @cecif5013
      @cecif5013 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, even though he looked angry and disgusted he was still polite.

  • @Alex-ow5bs
    @Alex-ow5bs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    "You were lonely, weren't you?" That line hit so hard, a tear came out loll.

    • @maxidal6927
      @maxidal6927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup, that hit really hard. Something related to my life as well. ❤

  • @生霊84
    @生霊84 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    再生してないけど流れてきて
    実の子だったのに男と女で差別が酷い環境だったから涙が止まらない…
    祖父も継母にこのような仕打ち受けてたんだもんな…
    減ってくれるといいんだけどな
    こんな思いをする子供が

  • @yuka2573
    @yuka2573 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    海外のこの手の番組を観た際、シャイな日本人は反応するのだろうかと疑問に思っていました。迷わず声をかけ迷わず意見される姿を見て、感動しそして日本も大丈夫だと安心しました。

    • @user77y2k
      @user77y2k ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i thought the same that the citizens would mind their business but i’m happy they intervened

  • @lin.sunflowerr
    @lin.sunflowerr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    The kindness from these people is incredible instead of lashing out they tried to reason with the mom too and child.. 😢❤

  • @ドン-j5m
    @ドン-j5m ปีที่แล้ว +21

    一人目のお兄さん、優しさに溢れてる!

  • @SomeOnce9
    @SomeOnce9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1815

    The guy with the blonde hair in case 2 is obviously listening and already speaking in his mind. Its quite shocking that the Japanese people we know who always mind their business, can speak up in times like these ❤

    • @Yuri-zi3gr
      @Yuri-zi3gr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah, I think so too.

    • @1995marixsa
      @1995marixsa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      he said so much without saying a word, his face spoke for him

    • @syafiqkamarulzaman357
      @syafiqkamarulzaman357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He looks like Yu Narukami, the protagonist from Persona 4.

    • @jamesa.646
      @jamesa.646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@syafiqkamarulzaman357
      Yikes 😬.

    • @СофияКим-и3р
      @СофияКим-и3р ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, me too😅

  • @barond3560
    @barond3560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    This not only happens with a stepchild, I have witnessed it with biological children as well. I have always tried to make both children feel equally special. Children are a blessing and not a burden regardless of whether they are yours or not.

    • @dazai974
      @dazai974 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True man... Once you take their responsibility willingly you have no right to decriminate them

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Especially male and female siblings. Parents always wanna control the girls but let guys do whatever they please..😡

    • @maybeitsyou1317
      @maybeitsyou1317 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah but that's mostly from a place of trying to protect the girl. The girl has a statistically higher chance of something happening. They just get made victims more, I can't see having a higher protection instinct for my daughter over my sons as favortism. It's just biology. @@vminhope3040

    • @Taiyo_Jingu
      @Taiyo_Jingu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@vminhope3040well, not from what I have seen. To be honest I hear more about the sons of parents who are pressured with all these hyper masculine rules and high expectations compared to girls and their hyper feminine rules. 🤷‍♂️

  • @spiritual-world-universe
    @spiritual-world-universe ปีที่แล้ว +101

    実際にこういう親は、外目は良くしてるし、辛い思いをしてる子供はこんな風に「なんで」とか言えない。
    辛い子供時代を過ごした自分としては、大人は誰も信用できなかった。大人はみんな親の側を味方するし、
    内緒で話しても、絶対に親との話し合いにもっていかれて、結局は家で親と自分だけになってしんどい思いをする。
    このドラマのような光景は、まずほとんどない。誰にも気づかれないし気づかれないようにしてるのが悲しい現実。

    • @YJ-7
      @YJ-7 ปีที่แล้ว

      かなしだけどきみわそうかな

    • @ナッツ-o2m
      @ナッツ-o2m ปีที่แล้ว +13

      そうです。その通りだと思います。言い返せる子どもは居ないし、もし他人に注意されたりしたら家に帰ってからもっと辛い目に遭わされるのは目に見えています。
      現実は辛いです。

    • @ぱふ-f5t
      @ぱふ-f5t ปีที่แล้ว

      わっかるー

  • @jvin1524
    @jvin1524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    優しいお兄さん😢🙏🙏🥰🥰

  • @nhdj964
    @nhdj964 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    やばい大泣きした。優しい人がまだまだいるんだな

  • @kerenpacheco8770
    @kerenpacheco8770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Hands down to these beautiful, kind and considerate men who stood up for the little girl who was mistreated. Good job!

  • @TMY732
    @TMY732 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The first person has such a pure heart. I love to see people like him

  • @Hiro-c7y8y
    @Hiro-c7y8y 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    このチャンネルを見るたびに、自分は声をかける勇気があるのか?と考えさせられます。演者さんが演じていると分かって居ても毎回涙がとまらない。無関心でない自分のトレーニングになりますね。

  • @elllllllle939
    @elllllllle939 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    I’m amazed by how calm, polite and peaceful Japanese people are even when in this confrontational situation.

    • @nephillinqbee1085
      @nephillinqbee1085 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      something that is hard to find nowadays

    • @davidmcleod5133
      @davidmcleod5133 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yeah, they tried the experiment in America, but the actress kept getting her face slapped right off her head.

    • @ST-uy2up
      @ST-uy2up ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidmcleod5133そうなんですか!😮

    • @suyashisingh
      @suyashisingh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup

    • @qfaknot6430
      @qfaknot6430 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@davidmcleod5133
      子どもにとって、暴力を見るのはストレスではないですか?

  • @あゆみん-w1n
    @あゆみん-w1n ปีที่แล้ว +86

    男性の方素敵すぎる...でも本当にこういう家庭もあるんだろうな...

  • @khiaratt
    @khiaratt ปีที่แล้ว +70

    なんでか分からないけど、これはすごく感情的なんだから. 今も気にかけてくれてる方々がいるということを見せてくれてありがとうございます。

  • @vainamoinen504
    @vainamoinen504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    The sad thing about these kind of scenarios is, that it is usually way more invisible to the onlookers, as it happens covertly and mostly behind closed doors.

    • @davidmcleod5133
      @davidmcleod5133 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I saw a commercial recently by the Japanese government that was encouraging people to call if they even so much as suspect child abuse. They’re really pushing to get people to interact with and show concern for their communities, and I am in tears over how wonderful it is.

  • @tamakimisai
    @tamakimisai ปีที่แล้ว +39

    自分だったらこんな風に声をかけられないよ。。
    すごいよ。。すばらしいよ。

    • @mtrest4
      @mtrest4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have to channel the samurai warrior 🗡️ spirit and stand up against injustice.

    • @GrandCamion-rf1pj
      @GrandCamion-rf1pj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      自分ならかけるね。例え相手になんて言われようが何をされようが、それが信じる100%の正義ならね。
      ただ、日本ではなかなかそういう光景に出くわさないけどね。それが一番なんだけど。
      貴方もは貴方のできる範囲の親切をすればいいことだと思うよ👍

  • @motivationchannelforyou
    @motivationchannelforyou ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The first person.. what a lovely human he is. I cant help but cry..so touching. Amazing human who stood up for the girl. ❣You have everyone's respect.❤

  • @兵庫のヨッシー-x9x
    @兵庫のヨッシー-x9x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    このお2人の男性、ほんと優しいし連れ子さんへの思いやりが凄くありますよね。ほんと素晴らしい対応だと思います。

  • @まさ-i8y
    @まさ-i8y ปีที่แล้ว +33

    血が繋がってなくても家族になれるよ。血が繋がってなくても仲良く出来るよ。血が繋がってなくても亡くなった時悔しくて悲しくて本気に泣けるよ。いつか自分が亡くなった時天国で会える日までこっちで頑張るよ😊

  • @sk-xj1tv
    @sk-xj1tv ปีที่แล้ว +31

    涙腺が…こんな心が綺麗な方と私も生涯共にしたいな。

  • @maryrosegonzales-ishikawa6699
    @maryrosegonzales-ishikawa6699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I’m crying my eyes out. Is this normal? This made me so emotional , we need to treat children special whoever their parents are.

  • @denversvlog5612
    @denversvlog5612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was touched specially with the second guy, he talk so calmly, on point and straight from his heart as seen in his eyes..

  • @lywyneedsmoraxxx
    @lywyneedsmoraxxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Man I'm crying right now. I know that this is just a staged scenario but I felt extremely sad for the kid. I'm not being mistreated or anything by my family but just thinking that many kids out there really experiencing this nasty situation.

  • @ST-uy2up
    @ST-uy2up ปีที่แล้ว +41

    今までの中で1番キレてた気がする笑
    本当に優しい人なんですね

  • @志瑜杨
    @志瑜杨 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Watching this made my heart feel happy. I wish kids weren’t treated unequally like this. But it’s good to know there’s good people that will stand up for them.

  • @がしわた-b9k
    @がしわた-b9k ปีที่แล้ว +10

    お二人は正義感が強い証拠です。その優しさと愛情は必ずこれからプラスになりますよ。人の事を自分のことのようにわかってあげるような。かっこよかった!でも、最初の男性の方、感動しました。自分のポケットマネ-から出してあげるとは。イエスキリストに見えました。ハ-トのある人かほんとたくさんいるんだ。😢😂

  • @jinghengtan174
    @jinghengtan174 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So heart warming these videos I felt the difference of their country social skill and kindness it feels like its possible to rely on person so heart warming ❤

  • @erickagarijo8095
    @erickagarijo8095 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This made me cry! We moved from nyc to Tokyo and it’s been quite tough for us since our two year daughter may be diagnosed with autism. It’s nice to see Japanese people show affection and love when it seems quite sparse as we navigate life in Japan. Thank you

    • @AutumnKatto
      @AutumnKatto ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have autism and if only people were so accepting 😢

  • @motivationchannelforyou
    @motivationchannelforyou ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The second man is such a wonderful human too. My goodness im crying. We need people like him ♥Thank you for your kindness

  • @heyitsrosie
    @heyitsrosie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The first Sir is so kind. He sounds like a great person.

  • @あなゆき-j7d
    @あなゆき-j7d ปีที่แล้ว +13

    みてるだけでなんか涙出てきた
    素敵です

  • @catalinacurio
    @catalinacurio ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a kind gentle heart, bless you sir. 🌸

  • @Dissey
    @Dissey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Ahhhh...I can't this made me cry a river and i'm not even kidding. Thank you so much for translating these to english! this is the best social experiment channel ever. This channel seriously deserves milions of subscribers, the content, experiments and everything is so real and well made. The actors are AMAZING!!! I will share your channel to everyone I know and stay a true subscriber to the end. Please keep the videos coming!

  • @RA-xt4vq
    @RA-xt4vq ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Even if they are pissed or angry they still speak politely and the tone of voice is so calm!

  • @angie4230
    @angie4230 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These men have a true heart! They stepped in to help this child, to speak their truth. Although these were actors. I can only imagine how uncomfortable it may have been for them to hear such a conversation. I myself love children. God bless them!!

  • @jr9875
    @jr9875 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    本当にありがとう。私の母は姉が前の旦那さんの連れ子だったらしいのですが、おばあちゃんが全く贔屓せず10人を育てて、私は本当の家族だとずっと思っていましたが、それがわかったのはおばあちゃんが死の際でした。おばあちゃんは
    すごく凛とした人だったので、どの子にも平等に筋を通したのだと思います。改めておばあちゃんを尊敬しますし、この人も助けてくれた人たち尊敬します。

  • @t-kaardo
    @t-kaardo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    This channel is like a Japanese version of What Would You Do. It has a lot of the same scenarios that the show had and I like it a lot.

    • @conan4632
      @conan4632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      maybe this channel is actually inspired by WWYD

    • @t-kaardo
      @t-kaardo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@conan4632 maybe it is!

    • @mg137b
      @mg137b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I thought this is inspired by TreeMan

    • @catladynikki2024
      @catladynikki2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same thing you say exactly what appears in my mind I watch this video! Omg! I can’t believe people felt same way what I felt about WWYD show!

    • @dreamydimple
      @dreamydimple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's more like TreeMan.

  • @arueru88
    @arueru88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This situation kind of hit close to home tbh.
    I have a stepmother too, and she never treated me and my siblings like a family, and consider us a nuisance when we grow older. My bedroom was taken away and my stuffs thrown when I went to college, my younger brother was told to leave the house when he got into an accident, broke some bones and had to quit job. Her reason for telling my brother that? He is taking too much space she can't keep her stuff anymore. She threw all of our stuffs away and tells her children who's in elementary school to persuade my brother to move out quick.
    I never asked for her money. I just want to be treated like a human, not a garbage. But I guess that is too much to ask for...

    • @Musaska
      @Musaska 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish best of luck for you king.
      Stay strong! You can do it.

    • @LanguageNerd
      @LanguageNerd ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is extremely sad to hear that people can't treat with decency children...

    • @violetruby8204
      @violetruby8204 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sorry that happened to you. How things going with you and your siblings? Are you both doing fine? I hope the situation get better for both of you.

    • @BloodMoonCosplays
      @BloodMoonCosplays ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This, me too, I wish there had been someone like these people for us

  • @yukakurachi2749
    @yukakurachi2749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Nossa, me emocionei com o senhor querendo pagar algo para a menina😢
    優しいな男性!
    この世界に、まだ良いな人いますね❤

  • @clo0816
    @clo0816 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    子供に罪はない。の言葉を一発目で出せるようにに私たちは普段から勉強してるんだよな

  • @MsNeowise
    @MsNeowise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love that the two men can call out the stepmom with such composure and calmness.. ❤

  • @EliseoBeltran
    @EliseoBeltran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Glad I discovered this channel, I'm ugly crying right now though

  • @ネモフィラ-l1i
    @ネモフィラ-l1i ปีที่แล้ว +26

    涙が出る。悲しい💧💧💧
    私もこんな勇気が欲しい!❤

  • @cathie5000
    @cathie5000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ty for showing the kindness of strangers. How powerful and courageous even 1 person is, showing up for the weak and teaching them that they are not the problem. Love even from a stranger can change 1 persons life forever.

  • @eurosise
    @eurosise ปีที่แล้ว +17

    「ただの連れ子」って「あんたなんか生むんじゃなかった」位の破壊力あるよね

  • @tjt-w6g
    @tjt-w6g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    最初のお兄さん、かっこよすぎる。

  • @MayKelvin0806
    @MayKelvin0806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    *_“The biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved”_*
    - Princess Diana

  • @mississantos
    @mississantos ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So amazing seeing the first Japanese man. I’ve always been fascinated with Japan when I started learning about their culture. They’ve always set the bar high by being polite and thoughtful of others. Thanks to him for radiating positivity and kindness by all means 🙇‍♀️ #🇯🇵is♥️

  • @我喜欢成龙
    @我喜欢成龙 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    海外にもこの様なドッキリ番組はあるが我が日本にも正義感や優しさに溢れる人々が勇気を出して正しい行いをする事に日本人として誇りに思い同時に感動しました。

  • @noname-m8j5e
    @noname-m8j5e ปีที่แล้ว +6

    コメント欄を見てもわかるけど、いろんな国や、いろんな家庭事情の方から称賛がもらえている
    この活動は続けてほしいし、メディアでとりあげるべきだとおもう

  • @ともとも-o4k
    @ともとも-o4k ปีที่แล้ว +16

    あんなの目の前で、されたら悲しくなるよね。😢
    でも、日本って、こういう人達が多いから日本ていう国なんだよね。
    見ていて泣いちゃいました😂

  • @kitsukan1541
    @kitsukan1541 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ケース2で奥に座ってる金髪の方は行動しようしていたのでは?
    隣のテーブル席の男性が動かなければ間違いなくこの方が母親に喝を入れていたと私は思います😊
    一緒に母親に注意をすることも出来たと思いますが、多数で責めない判断も素晴らしいと感じました。
    優しさとは何かを改めて考えさせられた秀悦な動画だと思います!

  • @kaelaaaaaaa
    @kaelaaaaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I give my highest respect for these guys. Hat off o7
    The first guy will be/is/always be a great father.
    And the second one, his girlfriend is lucky to find a gentleman like him

  • @Seevawonderloaf
    @Seevawonderloaf ปีที่แล้ว +60

    😭i used to live in this amazing country. Some of the kindest people I've met in all my travels, hands down. I'm even more heartened to hear how the first man stood up for the kid, being patient with the mom and trying to convince her but not yelling at her. Just the way he approached the whole situation 😭

  • @BloodMoonCosplays
    @BloodMoonCosplays ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As a child who was treated this way next to my brother who was also adopted, I wish there was someone like these kind souls to help me, I hope for all children treated this way to find happiness somehow, despite our parents disdain. This saying I love fits here. “Every child deserves a loving parent but not every parent deserves a loving child”. This wasnt all, I was hurt physically and people just watched or ignored me, so before anyone tries to convince me my family loves me, it sadly is not the case, though every day I wish it was so. Happiness for every child is what I want, I know it wont be everyone, I wasnt, but this made me hopeful that someday one child will be the last lonely child.

  • @Dalwoo16.
    @Dalwoo16. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    あなたが寂しいと彼が言ったとき、それは彼も感じているようでした!共感してくれる人がいて嬉しいです

  • @profia8263
    @profia8263 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    もしこの場に自分が居たとしても
    流石に黙っていられない
    たぶん喧嘩腰に物言いをしてしまいそう

  • @481guensuiBnG
    @481guensuiBnG 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    例え血が繋がってても「苗字が違うからお前は他人」とほざく母方の祖母もいるんだぜ…(経験者談)
    要は血縁よりも心の絆だと思います

  • @inoiro
    @inoiro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This type of contents is what makes my eyes go drip drip.... Thanks to you it made my day.. It was really interesting to watch it and listen to social experiments

  • @Nafi1009
    @Nafi1009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    whether it's just an experiment, I'm still sad to see the treatment of a mother like this, and I'm very proud of this man.

  • @Kiana978
    @Kiana978 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God blessed that man. Happy that he speaks out and offer to help pay for her meal. We need more ppl like him in this world.

  • @xymonau2468
    @xymonau2468 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kind hearted people are everywhere, thank goodness. We should all speak up.

  • @yellowhead.
    @yellowhead. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This channel is so underrated. deserves to get more viewers and subscribers

  • @starknights101
    @starknights101 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This experiment really makes me cry.
    I don't even know why my tears are coming out.
    Probably due to me grateful for having good parents and can't stand if kids are treated like this

  • @danceislife3888
    @danceislife3888 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The most beautiful thing about this, is How they are so polite in this situation, they dont high level their voices or dont use bad words. Japanese people are very polite. ❤

  • @サクジュン-i8e
    @サクジュン-i8e ปีที่แล้ว +13

    日本人て他人とか揉め事に関わりたく無い人多いイメージあったけど、海外と反応同じで驚いたと言うか、結局はその人それぞれなんだと思った。

  • @mariaiwaoka2023
    @mariaiwaoka2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It made me feel so emotionally,then i start crying from the first place!

  • @YOUHE.
    @YOUHE. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have never seen a TH-cam channel like this thank you for the videos❤

  • @mohammad227
    @mohammad227 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for translating this 😢

  • @bryanliu2379
    @bryanliu2379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He has been so kind to offer and speak for the girl.

  • @natalee61
    @natalee61 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm crying watching this. You make a good video! High quality. Love it

  • @伊澤崇-e4k
    @伊澤崇-e4k 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    いくら自分の子供でないにしろ自分の子供との差別は子供の気持ちを考えない行動で悲しくなりますね。最初の男性はきちんと親にいけない事を説明して尚可哀想な思いした女の子に自分がしたいからだと言って食事奢るのはなかなか出来ない立派な勇気です😊

  • @nya___nya
    @nya___nya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am a little surprised that they didn't mind their own business and brushed off what was happening.

  • @chrystianaw8256
    @chrystianaw8256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This warmed my heart

  • @raquelkeiito4881
    @raquelkeiito4881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    これ見て泣いた 😢😢

  • @dwighttamayo9025
    @dwighttamayo9025 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I'm glad I have come across this channel. I live in japan for more than 3 years and i never thought japanese people would intervene in situations like this. How about an experiment with foreign actors? I'm really curious about their next actions/ reactions. Anyway, great video! This channel will gain more subscribers in the future ❤️

  • @notkarit
    @notkarit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm crying watching this. Even your own blood can make you feel worthless and unloved. How I wish the world can be fair for everyone.

  • @AmshaGhazi
    @AmshaGhazi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first person is really very nice person such a gentleman ❤

  • @levi7811
    @levi7811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People interacted very wonderfully

  • @alexcheung7013
    @alexcheung7013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    すごい! This channel deserves much more subscriber and support.

  • @orpheusblack69
    @orpheusblack69 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    omg i know this place ! The gentleness and concern are amazing.

  • @ToonDereAnimation
    @ToonDereAnimation 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm here bawling my eyes out. A while ago someone poisoned our dog, he's part of our family. And It really hurts when ppl abandon/neglect children or animals. And even more to kill poor animals.
    I am just sadddd rn and this video is making me cry more. 😭🥲

    • @elithluxe7568
      @elithluxe7568 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg that's so awful. I hope karma hits them so hard these effing murderers