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No he was referring to the older guy standing up then an even older guy (the guys father) stood up too he saying his father supported his actions@@ALAINLEONGJIANXIANGMoe
@@scuzemoa No clue where in Europe you are from to say this but you shouldn't bag 44 distinct countries together under such a claim. I have seen droves of elders who are respectful and can teach the younger generations a lot and so many more young people helping out the elderly or showing them empathy and politeness. Might be just "you" problem.
@@SoulessStranger Nah, that is definetly not a "you problem"... Times have changed, ppl in the west no longer respect ppl just becuase of being old... Which makes sense, ppl should not get special treatment ONLY becuase they are old... If elders wants respect, they should give it too... Ppl nowadays do not respect elders (in general) given how their attitude is towards younger generations... Lot of elders just expect to receive special treatment becuase on their times it used to be this way but since nowadays is not happening, they do not like it... While not all of them have that type bad attitude, unfortunately is pretty common for them to have that type of attitude... 🤷♀️ The only reason why is that less common in eastern countries is becuase of the culture they have to respect the elderly which as we can see here, it becomes too toxic and younger ppl no longer believe on that "type" of culture...
I find it so interesting that at 2:30, the guy wants to stand up and say something and the older man tells him not to. It can be interpreted in different ways, but it clearly shows a difference in thoughts and action from a generational and life-experience gap.
That's the sad part of Japan, these older people want to speak up but were taught to never do so, it's good that more and more young Japanese people are speaking out.
Man I feel this. I never ever did bad in my exams, it was always in the 90+ range but my mother was absolutely never satisfied. I remember getting 100 in math, being so proud and happy that i’ll finally be able to make my mother proud but all she said was “practise on your handwriting.” I cried in my room for the entire night.
Your mother may not be proud, but I am. Even if she doesn’t show it, and only tells you your flaws, me and some others out there believe you did amazing. The most I’ve ever gotten was 98! 100 is really good. When you have another exam score, you can come back here and tell us it. Even if you failed, we or at least I will try to cheer you up.
@@aether02737 that really means a lot to me. right now, i’m just trying to get through university and trying to pursue my dream career (architect), me and my mom did end up fighting a lot but my dad really supported me so it’s all thanks to him :). your comment really cheered me up and made my day, I hope you know that.
I really appreciate your hard work and dedication. Keep up the burning passion and the great work, hope you will achieve whatever you're aiming for in the future. And one way to get the 90+ range in the exam of life is to always see things from a positive perspective, seek underlying meaning/symbolism, and make them a useful tools for your present&future.
I hope you’re okay and it’s great u got a 100, but your mother probably wanted the best out of you but to much pressure can make it harder to reach the goal
I find it cute how the 2 children showing concern by keep close with them like they're so worried to the son but don't know what to do. So they just standing close to them to make sure everything is fine. >
You have no idea how much I've been wanting to see experiments like this done in Japan. As a half-Japanese who's planning to take the leap and move to Japan soon, this is honestly very helpful in gaining insight as to what society is like there. Sad to say, I've only heard sad stories about half Japanese people in Japan and for the longest time, it has made me anxious and scared about moving there. I know that isn't related to the video, but seeing people standing up against situations they deem wrong, shows how warm-hearted and kind Japanese people are. Thank you very much. I have subscribed and am looking forward to more videos from you. Much love
Idk if you've moved here yet, but as a half-black half-Japanese 19yo who came here to work, I've had nothing but good experiences. People have been very kind and understanding towards me. Yes, if you don't look Japanese (like me, I don't look Japanese), depending on what areas you go to you may get stared at walking around. I know I've been stared at, not that I see them because I can't stare back but I can feel it for sure. But part of that has generally been because I've mostly been working in areas further away from the big cities. Otherwise, I haven't been treated negatively, yeah I still get the nihongo joozu and people always assume I'm not Japanese but in terms of overtly negative treatment, nothing and I've been here for around 7-8 months now.
@@blasianking4827 I'm not half Japanese, but I was planned to move to Japan for it's animation university. But my friends and family showed me so many murder and crime cases in Japan to tell me it's a bad country with psycho pervert people and they were horrible and it traumatized me badly. I want to cancel it but not sure.
@@Sairah.Schmitz just search the same information about your country or look at the statistics and you'll see how much Japan is safe compare to most of the Europe and USA)
That little kid reminds me when I had a 9 of a 10 in an assignament and my mom was mad at me bc I didn't get a 10, I felt terrible that day, I was so proud of myself for that 9, I wish those two guys were there when my mom started to say harsh things to me..
I love how the man approached them politely, and instead of judging the mom's behavior, he suggested her alternative and better options for the boy's talent. Props to him and his parent's good parenting
Watching this makes me grateful that my parents aren't the type to scold me if I don't reach their expectations. It's not like they always give full support to what we siblings want to be either, but they never told us that what we want to do or be are wrong. I believe that it's because despite finding themselves disagreeing with our choices, they also acknowledge the fact that there's a lack of understanding and generational differences between us. They would always try to listen and understand things from our perspectives as best as they can.
bro if its true than u r very lucky and always thank god or whoever u believe in for granting such parents i would go to lengths for such parents. my parents were so disappointed for getting 90% in 12 grade and i still cried for months due to them saying i couldnt reach their expectations.i.e 95% even tho they knew it was a difficult time for me
Despite being in "Asian" family. I'm sooo bad at math (i literally got D for my final exam high school and F on addmath) But they know i like art so much, so they let me take any course that i can actually take where i don't struggle. You have to focus on what your child can do and interest with, don't focus on the impossible.
@@neon940 I'm sorry to hear that neon. Keep in mind that in the end it's still your life and you decide how you want to live. Try to find your passion and work towards your own dreams. It helps tremendously having supporting parents, but it is still possible without. try to keep your head up ❤
The father of the guy seems so respectful and calm . He raised his son right. And even from older generation he seemes to understand the struggles of kids
2:33 Did you see when the boy decided to stand and speak his father kind of let him sit ? But he still supported him at the end - this shows the difference of mentally of young and adults adults thinks then act while younger acts first
Nothing to do with being young and old. Also if anything that older losers are just even more doctrinated to stay out of trouble to save their own skin Im glad his son represents the future generation
@@powerfulberry237 Yes, it does. Normally as you get older you start to become more cautious and thoughtful. That's what usually happens... If you have feelings with adults, that's your problem. You are also developing your own doctrine and you are not even realizing it.
I’m so glad to see there are some people who can raise a voice to strangers when they thought others are wrong in Japan. I’m proud of him and his dad as Japanese‼︎
*If you're a parent, you shouldn't tell yout child what to do, instead you should give him a variety of experiences to help him.* Bro literally said the best quote I've ever heard face to face to a parent!!!
This made me cry. It reminded me of the hurtful words my family said to me when I was little. I'm a parent now and I hope I don't make the same mistake to my daughter. It will destroy her the way it did to me.
This is very nice, and educative It's very hard finding videos of this kind of social experiment in Japan, you mostly see it in Korea, please keep up and i will love to see more
I don't have a mother or a father but then again I feel very grateful for those who stand out and speak for whats right, we need more people like those, parents can be a pain they are never please, they think your a robot and you can work nonstop.
"Remember to respect even when dealing with children." As a mom of three, I admit that sometimes I am not as considerate as I should be with them and praise/scold them according to their age and not to their skills. This video reminded me of what I should do when my five-year-old tries to score a goal in a soccer match but fails, or my twin girls are having trouble pronouncing some words properly even though their friends are already fluent. When I pick them up from kindergarden today, I will go to the playground and have fun with a ball with my son and give a s*** if he kicks it in the direction it´s supposed to be and make a word game with my daughter so she can correct me instead of me telling her to finally learn the stuff others can do. It feel bad but refreshed at the same time. Thank you for this experiment
Strangers standing up for that child and not hesitating to comfort him is soo wholesome! The old man dealt the situation optimistically by not letting the mother fall in eyes of the child rather tried to create an understanding of what her situation might be is a point to be noted.
You made me cry so hard ! I'm so impressed by japanese pepole for this. In France we used to stand up for things but it often comes from anger and trying to know who is right or wrong. I feel like japanese ways of being and values, with all its flaws from my perspective, allows things like that to happen smoothly. And it's a true inspiration for me.
Hey!! congratulations on everything you do with your effort and time and care! You must know that you are the one that defines the greatness of your accomplishments, not others.
@@mayonesa123. I greatly appreciate your words. They hit me positively, I try every day to think like that but it's very difficult because even the smallest mistake they already tell me that I don't do anything correctly. It's always like this, but I really appreciate your words. Very thanks
Just remember this "Hard Works pay off". I'll pray to God for your future and your family. Having a family is one of the greatest blessing in this world. So don't give up or despise on them. Bless you brother
@@akhutoYaro000 Thank you so much! It's disheartening and hurts me a lot because my parents have been demanding a lot from me since I was a child, so it's never been easy but I always try my best, despite knowing that at one time or another they'll come back to tell me to do more than I've ever done.
I grew up having a the opposite. My parents would pretty much be ambivalent about anything. With light praise for small things. I never felt a sense of pride in anything I did. Never felt like I had the motivate myself to do anything really.
"I think it's important to respect the dignity of the individual whoever you're dealing with" How sad almost all the parents don't think like this. Instead parents think because they gave birth to the child they can force or emotionally blackmail children to do anything as per their wish.
@@Sonnenanbeterin1991 even during this world cup Japan was the less problematic country , they were the first to pick up the trash after the match ended and the team was humble and greeting everyone when they came to Qatar , I'm putting football as an example here cuz the community is very toxic, however it was very refreshing to see a country (Japan) for the first time not pulling a tantrum or racism even when they lost It's true there might be some flaws like any other country , but the majority of it is all positive from I saw and heard from the foreigners that lived there ,it's not the best but it's better ten times than my country at least ,I consider living in Japan after I get enough money
@@Sonnenanbeterin1991 I wasn't glorifying anything. I'm not dumb to be unaware that every country has it's flaws. Japan is special for me and if not for you then mind your own business.
良いお父さんですね. そんけいしています。お兄さんも いろんな経験で 素晴らしい考え方と良い心。Thanks for sharing this video, i thought that Japanese people was cold hearted .nd dont care to other family or People そうでもないで分かりました。We learn from other ,ありがとうございました。
I'm literally crying seeing her mom talked like that to her son (eventho I know it's just an act)... I have a son at his age too, so it hurts me to see a mother said cruel things about her child's effort 😢😢
It's good to be reminded that there is good in the world, that there is good people, that there is good in people's heart every now and then. It's good to see it
関係ないこと and this very simple word stop some japanese from helping someone who's been struggling in life. but there are times that we need to stand and help. I hope someday all japanese will be like those people who are in the video. 今の日本人はすごい人なんですが、このような行為をすればもっとすごい人になることができると思います。
thats a great dad what he said is my number 1 thing with kids they also need to be treated with respect and people dont agree with that but how else can they learn to be respectful if they are never respected focus on raising ur kids instead of punishing them all the time
I love how they actually said this was a youtube project & showed where the camera was. As it shows there are actually good people who care without the cameras
It's kinda sad to know many parents sometimes don't appreciate their kid's hardwork. Inculding mine, I was never particularly bad at school, I usually got mostly A's. But a few times, I got a certificate and letter for getting good marks in english. in the certificate, i got first place in my entire grade, and the letter, it just showed i was one of the top students. I was so exited, thinking my parents would compliment me for getting those, so i rushed home and showed them the stuff. My father saw the certificate and just nodded. without emotion. I asked him if he could compliment me or at least congratulate me. He said to me "why should i congratulate *you?* " I was absolutely heartbroken. That hurt. Later on i showed my mom the letter, She just asked me if now she had to pay another extra 90$ on a stupid quiz mentioned in the letter. I cried myself to sleep. They weren't impressed at all, hell, they only saw the negatives. I wasn't really excited on any other achievement of mine after that.
oh my goodness, first im sorry you had such parents who never gave you credit when it was very much due, man if I had your marks my parents would’ve been happy at least! fucking hell, what were your parents expecting? I get that you cried about it cuz you were just a kid, but I guess now you’re grown it pisses you off to think about those times, at least I would be. to me, you sound like a great and intelligent student, more than I ever was in fact lol. on the serious side of things, I respect you, and I support you.👊
My parents are never like this but my mom used to compare me alot with my cousins. I have 4 younger cousins that was attending the same all girls school as me. All of them excelled academicaly and was very active in organizations. I was just an ordinary student. Not failing but also not particularly excellent at anything. Worse is one of them is in the same grade as I am. My mom could not help comparing me to them. Was really glad when my dad asked my teachers to move me to a different classroom when me and my cousin was put together in the same class. He said he does not want me to be compared, I'm sure he knows my cousin is better but the gesture of him asking the teachers to move me to a different class really made an impact to me.
I grew up that even 95 is not enough, though it was not compelled by my adoptive parents, it was like my obligation, especially inside the classroom that always strive for perfect score all the time. Growing up as adult taught me a lesson that the world is not perfect and full of flaws, and thats the beauty of it. I even failed 3 board exams, and took that opportunity to wake me up that it's not the end of the world. It's a lesson to inspire. Of all places I'm surprised that Japanese intervenes in this kind of situation, it's a good start.
I'm glad my parents aren't like this. I enrolled in a famous high school in my country and even though I only ranked 30th they were still happy! No child deserves to go through these. I hate these type of parents.
Great video. I love how sensitive and overthinking Japanese people are. Props to the two great gentlemen who tried to advise the child's mother. Also, I can't thank you enough for including Arabic Captions, that means a lot to all of us. Thank you, and keep up the good work.
"Do you work hard on anything?" *Shakes head to say no despite knowing that 88 doesn't come without hard work* That got me Gaslighting a child :( Broke my heart
My mom is exactly like this to me. If it isn't a 98-100 on a test, I did not do well enough and spent too much time not studying or questioning the teacher. My mom would ask the teacher to assign me extra homework and classwork and watch over me doing the work to make sure I do all the extra work. I wish someone would please step in and end this because I am already overworked with dual enrollment to college courses and my parents still want me to do more.
My parents would praise me if I even got close to 70 lol "There is enough room for all of us to be successful in our own way" just one of my favorite quote
I got an 82 this year as my final score. I was scared of my parents' reactions. My dad was upset and angry at me. However, my mom didnt het upset at all and understood that I've been through a rough time since 4th grade. She understood me, and promised she'll stay by my side this year. I hope everyone who reads this understands that every parent should have this mindset 💗
This hit too close to home. Parents, acing in exams won’t ensure a happy and bright future for your children. I had ambitions when I was growing up, but now I am farthest from the ace student that I was because too much pressure and expectations from my mom affected my EQ so much.
i think something people who arent from this type of culture might miss out on (especially other Americans like me) is that the age hierarchy culture in Japan makes this interaction even more meaningful. From highest to lowest in age and hierarchy, it goes like this presumably: The young man's father (well call him grandpa) the mother the young man the little boy The mother chastised her son harshly. the grandpa stopped his son from speaking out on something that his generation perceived as not their place to intervene in. When the mother said she was ashamed of her son, the young man couldn't just sit and listen to her talk to her son that way, so he got up and respectfully told the mother what he thought, and the response he got was what probably most people would get: "mind your own business and leave us alone". And instead of telling his son to abide by his elder's words, the grandpa backed up his son and told the mother that she needed to be more open minded. A lower rung in the social ladder stood up to the rung above, and when challenged, the highest rung stood up and defended them instead of knocking them back down. It's incredibly meaningful for a young person to stand up for someone younger than them to someone older than them, and then to receive support from the eldest person when challenged and put in their place. the mother and the boy were actors, but the grandpa and his son no doubt walked away with a very important lesson that day. Sometimes speaking up is difficult, but necessary.
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Bruh I need to get 95 and above for them to through a party for me😢
@@JinnyYang-nc4fbI mean. . . At least you can GET a party
here to say hi! 🌄from the Philippines! i did watched and subscribed bec. of this episode..will be watching more.. 🥰
Iya Untukmu syang kami semua pasukan pekerjaan
I love Japan
The father stood up and supported his son's action. His father raised his son right. Props to you dad lol
I agree
I also agree. Great parenting there.
I agree alot
maybe his not a father in the mothers family, maybe its JUST ANOTHER FAMILY
No he was referring to the older guy standing up then an even older guy (the guys father) stood up too he saying his father supported his actions@@ALAINLEONGJIANXIANGMoe
That boy is so brave, not only to speak out, but to speak against an elder. I want to have his bravery
5:46 the two kids next to the bench are they the man’s kids
Come a month in Europe, you will immediately learn bravery, we here don t respect elders much because they don t respect us so its fair.
@@scuzemoa No clue where in Europe you are from to say this but you shouldn't bag 44 distinct countries together under such a claim. I have seen droves of elders who are respectful and can teach the younger generations a lot and so many more young people helping out the elderly or showing them empathy and politeness. Might be just "you" problem.
She might be an elder, but she's also a woman.
@@SoulessStranger
Nah, that is definetly not a "you problem"...
Times have changed, ppl in the west no longer respect ppl just becuase of being old... Which makes sense, ppl should not get special treatment ONLY becuase they are old...
If elders wants respect, they should give it too...
Ppl nowadays do not respect elders (in general) given how their attitude is towards younger generations...
Lot of elders just expect to receive special treatment becuase on their times it used to be this way but since nowadays is not happening, they do not like it...
While not all of them have that type bad attitude, unfortunately is pretty common for them to have that type of attitude... 🤷♀️
The only reason why is that less common in eastern countries is becuase of the culture they have to respect the elderly which as we can see here, it becomes too toxic and younger ppl no longer believe on that "type" of culture...
I love how the father first stopped his son, but when his son stood up, the father was there to support him
I find it so interesting that at 2:30, the guy wants to stand up and say something and the older man tells him not to. It can be interpreted in different ways, but it clearly shows a difference in thoughts and action from a generational and life-experience gap.
in a way it comes full circle when he backs him up later
That's the sad part of Japan, these older people want to speak up but were taught to never do so, it's good that more and more young Japanese people are speaking out.
@@IsanSamaa it's called mind your own business
That is not very John Quiñones of you.
Anne çocuğun yanındayken eleştirilirse anne otoritesini kaybedebilir. Çocuk etrafta yokken anne ile konuşulmalı ve yaptığı şeyi düzeltmesi sağlanmalı.
親子が子供の前ではお母さんに指摘して、その後に子供だけになったときにごめんとか焦っちゃってるだけだって‥優し‥
子供2人が無言で近くに寄ってるの泣けてくる
Man I feel this. I never ever did bad in my exams, it was always in the 90+ range but my mother was absolutely never satisfied. I remember getting 100 in math, being so proud and happy that i’ll finally be able to make my mother proud but all she said was “practise on your handwriting.” I cried in my room for the entire night.
Your mother may not be proud, but I am. Even if she doesn’t show it, and only tells you your flaws, me and some others out there believe you did amazing. The most I’ve ever gotten was 98! 100 is really good. When you have another exam score, you can come back here and tell us it. Even if you failed, we or at least I will try to cheer you up.
@@aether02737 that really means a lot to me. right now, i’m just trying to get through university and trying to pursue my dream career (architect), me and my mom did end up fighting a lot but my dad really supported me so it’s all thanks to him :). your comment really cheered me up and made my day, I hope you know that.
I really appreciate your hard work and dedication. Keep up the burning passion and the great work, hope you will achieve whatever you're aiming for in the future. And one way to get the 90+ range in the exam of life is to always see things from a positive perspective, seek underlying meaning/symbolism, and make them a useful tools for your present&future.
@@unidentifiedddd Yeah what aether said man. We're here for you
I hope you’re okay and it’s great u got a 100, but your mother probably wanted the best out of you but to much pressure can make it harder to reach the goal
助けに入った親子、、素敵だなぁ😢
I find it cute how the 2 children showing concern by keep close with them like they're so worried to the son but don't know what to do. So they just standing close to them to make sure everything is fine. >
Ikr so cutw❤
You have no idea how much I've been wanting to see experiments like this done in Japan. As a half-Japanese who's planning to take the leap and move to Japan soon, this is honestly very helpful in gaining insight as to what society is like there. Sad to say, I've only heard sad stories about half Japanese people in Japan and for the longest time, it has made me anxious and scared about moving there. I know that isn't related to the video, but seeing people standing up against situations they deem wrong, shows how warm-hearted and kind Japanese people are.
Thank you very much. I have subscribed and am looking forward to more videos from you.
Much love
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Idk if you've moved here yet, but as a half-black half-Japanese 19yo who came here to work, I've had nothing but good experiences. People have been very kind and understanding towards me. Yes, if you don't look Japanese (like me, I don't look Japanese), depending on what areas you go to you may get stared at walking around. I know I've been stared at, not that I see them because I can't stare back but I can feel it for sure. But part of that has generally been because I've mostly been working in areas further away from the big cities. Otherwise, I haven't been treated negatively, yeah I still get the nihongo joozu and people always assume I'm not Japanese but in terms of overtly negative treatment, nothing and I've been here for around 7-8 months now.
@@blasianking4827 I'm not half Japanese, but I was planned to move to Japan for it's animation university. But my friends and family showed me so many murder and crime cases in Japan to tell me it's a bad country with psycho pervert people and they were horrible and it traumatized me badly. I want to cancel it but not sure.
@@Sairah.Schmitz just search the same information about your country or look at the statistics and you'll see how much Japan is safe compare to most of the Europe and USA)
@@dariashchipkova683 I'm from Canada. It's safe here too really. Dunno what to do but maybe try another country for apply.
This woman’s acting is amazing! 😍 She should be in more videos
1組目はこの親にしてこの子あり。
良い父と良い息子だな。。😢
This man will make an amazing father. Solid values and the bravery to speak up when something is wrong.. What an amazing man❤
にいちゃんの優しさと勇気に涙出てきました。😢
ここで声かけられる勇気はすごい
息子さんが論破されそうになった時すかさずフォローにはいったお父さん素敵です!
息子さんの言葉染みましたよ。素敵なお父さんで良かったですね😊
声をかけてくれた親御さん。とても素晴らしいなって思いました。勇気を出して声をかけてくださったことにその言葉に涙が出ました。
That little kid reminds me when I had a 9 of a 10 in an assignament and my mom was mad at me bc I didn't get a 10, I felt terrible that day, I was so proud of myself for that 9, I wish those two guys were there when my mom started to say harsh things to me..
I will send a fully armed battalion to remind you of my love.
You have every reason to be proud of yourself.
Same. I got a 97/100 overall score in my 1st grade yet my mom was mad
I'm SO sorry..
You did great and you know it. That's all you should care about!🤩
I love how the man approached them politely, and instead of judging the mom's behavior, he suggested her alternative and better options for the boy's talent. Props to him and his parent's good parenting
Why every adult in Japan is so kind and nice. I can feel my inner child healing when I listen to them. Even their scolding is kind 😭😭😭
Japan has actually a very high rate in child abuse, so… this is acted ofc, the reality is not that pretty.
Watching this makes me grateful that my parents aren't the type to scold me if I don't reach their expectations. It's not like they always give full support to what we siblings want to be either, but they never told us that what we want to do or be are wrong. I believe that it's because despite finding themselves disagreeing with our choices, they also acknowledge the fact that there's a lack of understanding and generational differences between us. They would always try to listen and understand things from our perspectives as best as they can.
bro if its true than u r very lucky and always thank god or whoever u believe in for granting such parents
i would go to lengths for such parents.
my parents were so disappointed for getting 90% in 12 grade and i still cried for months due to them saying i couldnt reach their expectations.i.e 95%
even tho they knew it was a difficult time for me
Same
Despite being in "Asian" family. I'm sooo bad at math (i literally got D for my final exam high school and F on addmath) But they know i like art so much, so they let me take any course that i can actually take where i don't struggle. You have to focus on what your child can do and interest with, don't focus on the impossible.
@@neon940 I'm sorry to hear that neon. Keep in mind that in the end it's still your life and you decide how you want to live. Try to find your passion and work towards your own dreams. It helps tremendously having supporting parents, but it is still possible without. try to keep your head up ❤
The fact that this is what I normally see at my home and seeing all these people standing up it’s like so wholesome
The father of the guy seems so respectful and calm . He raised his son right. And even from older generation he seemes to understand the struggles of kids
お母さん役の方の演技がうますぎる、、
子育てって本当に難しくて親になったら一大プロジェクトですね。
アラサーの娘が二人おります。
今振り返ると、別の個体を必死にまともな人間に育て上げる事がミッションだと思いあくせくしていた子育て時代でした。
誉める 叱る 見守るの繰り返しでした。
以前は社会人になるまではしっかり躾をしなければと思っていましたが、親である私たちがあの世に行くまでを見せるまでが大切だと思う年代になりました。
若いパパママさん、自分が亡くなった後も子どもがしっかりと生きていける事を考えて子育てしてくださいね。
どうやら俺が思っている以上に
実際の社会に生きる人は 人格に優れているようだな
俺はこんな人の場面を見たことがない
内に秘めているのだね
こんなにも高い人格を
子供の目線に合わせ、優しく話が出来る。お母様のフォローもしつつ、しっかりとした方々。
2:33 Did you see when the boy decided to stand and speak his father kind of let him sit ?
But he still supported him at the end - this shows the difference of mentally of young and adults adults thinks then act while younger acts first
Nothing to do with being young and old. Also if anything that older losers are just even more doctrinated to stay out of trouble to save their own skin
Im glad his son represents the future generation
@@powerfulberry237 Yes, it does. Normally as you get older you start to become more cautious and thoughtful. That's what usually happens... If you have feelings with adults, that's your problem. You are also developing your own doctrine and you are not even realizing it.
私も子供の頃にこういう人に出会いたかった
I’m so glad to see there are some people who can raise a voice to strangers when they thought others are wrong in Japan. I’m proud of him and his dad as Japanese‼︎
This touched my heart 😭
Thank you for our watching!✨
本当に声かけるの勇気いるよな。
*If you're a parent, you shouldn't tell yout child what to do, instead you should give him a variety of experiences to help him.*
Bro literally said the best quote I've ever heard face to face to a parent!!!
This made me cry. It reminded me of the hurtful words my family said to me when I was little. I'm a parent now and I hope I don't make the same mistake to my daughter. It will destroy her the way it did to me.
This is very nice, and educative
It's very hard finding videos of this kind of social experiment in Japan, you mostly see it in Korea, please keep up and i will love to see more
Thank you for your watching! We'll keep uploading ones.✨
The first lad supporting the little boy, and then the father ❤ i wish there were someone for me when i was in that place
I have watched 2 videos of yours and I cried in both because I'm touched. Good videos, keep going!
Thank you for your watching!✨ We'll keep uploading ones!
I don't have a mother or a father but then again I feel very grateful for those who stand out and speak for whats right, we need more people like those, parents can be a pain they are never please, they think your a robot and you can work nonstop.
Such an underrated channel. Best luck to you and best luck to the people of Japan!
The way this is how some parents treat their kids makes me sad but to try speak up to help the child is very kind and inspiring! i
涙出てきた。
でも、家ではこういうお母さん、多いんじゃないかな。
That young man and his old man's father-son relationship seems very nice
I cried watching this even though I know this is just a social experiment
この助けた親子は、素晴らしい親子ですね( *´꒳`*)息子もお父さんも素晴らしい👏
正義感を振りかざすような言い方ではなく、親御さんにも、子供にも寄り添って、同じような立場で目線で、声をかける。
これは簡単にできることではありません。
素晴らしいお人柄ですね。
涙が止まりません。
存在してくださって、本当にありがとう。
When someone who is not a parent gives you parenting lessons, they're talking to you from the child's point of view. Which you should listen.
在日の外国人ですが、感動したわ！あの男性二人は素晴らしい日本人ですよう！尊敬するわ！僕も小さい頃すっごい好きなことができなくて困っていたが、結局留学して好きなことができるようになりました。今はもう帰りたくないぐらい！😁
Both the father and the son are so respectful 😭
Raising good people will solve a lot of problems in society. Being a parent is the most important job in this world.
"Remember to respect even when dealing with children."
As a mom of three, I admit that sometimes I am not as considerate as I should be with them and praise/scold them according to their age and not to their skills. This video reminded me of what I should do when my five-year-old tries to score a goal in a soccer match but fails, or my twin girls are having trouble pronouncing some words properly even though their friends are already fluent.
When I pick them up from kindergarden today, I will go to the playground and have fun with a ball with my son and give a s*** if he kicks it in the direction it´s supposed to be and make a word game with my daughter so she can correct me instead of me telling her to finally learn the stuff others can do.
It feel bad but refreshed at the same time. Thank you for this experiment
Bro had the audacity (1st clip) to say hes lazy meanwhile hes always goin to school💀💀💀
Strangers standing up for that child and not hesitating to comfort him is soo wholesome! The old man dealt the situation optimistically by not letting the mother fall in eyes of the child rather tried to create an understanding of what her situation might be is a point to be noted.
They tried to explain it to the child well , they still care about the mother
This one is good, I can imagine those who spoke up were nervous to do so
Heartbreaking knowing there are kids that have to go through that. Stay strong loves~!❤
You made me cry so hard ! I'm so impressed by japanese pepole for this. In France we used to stand up for things but it often comes from anger and trying to know who is right or wrong.
I feel like japanese ways of being and values, with all its flaws from my perspective, allows things like that to happen smoothly. And it's a true inspiration for me.
当たり前のことが出来る人と必死に努力する人ってすごいね…
My father and mother are like that. Nothing I do has ever been and never will be enough for them.
Hey!! congratulations on everything you do with your effort and time and care! You must know that you are the one that defines the greatness of your accomplishments, not others.
@@mayonesa123. I greatly appreciate your words. They hit me positively, I try every day to think like that but it's very difficult because even the smallest mistake they already tell me that I don't do anything correctly. It's always like this, but I really appreciate your words. Very thanks
Just remember this "Hard Works pay off". I'll pray to God for your future and your family. Having a family is one of the greatest blessing in this world. So don't give up or despise on them. Bless you brother
@@akhutoYaro000 Thank you so much! It's disheartening and hurts me a lot because my parents have been demanding a lot from me since I was a child, so it's never been easy but I always try my best, despite knowing that at one time or another they'll come back to tell me to do more than I've ever done.
I grew up having a the opposite. My parents would pretty much be ambivalent about anything. With light praise for small things. I never felt a sense of pride in anything I did. Never felt like I had the motivate myself to do anything really.
i remember when i was young i received a 87% and my parents lectured me for 3 days straight. It's great seeing this
Parents are a big headache
"I think it's important to respect the dignity of the individual whoever you're dealing with"
How sad almost all the parents don't think like this. Instead parents think because they gave birth to the child they can force or emotionally blackmail children to do anything as per their wish.
:(
The way adults treat children worse than they would treat other adults
@@fosminclorin adults are monsters
4:49 that little tap there, truly a dad support,... love it
Everyone was great in this video. Even the other curious kids watching on the side of the bench lol
A modern day hero. Thanks for the inspiration. ❤
I can't hold my cries, uwaaaaaa
Who put the onion on my eyes 😭
This is why Japan is special and I've been wanting to go there and live there peacefully soon hopefully.
これが日本が特別な理由であり、私は日本に行きたいと思っていました。
accomplish ur dreams my boy
same, i hope i can raised my family in japan
Oh please every country has His downsides too dont Just glorify It. From one video
@@Sonnenanbeterin1991 even during this world cup Japan was the less problematic country , they were the first to pick up the trash after the match ended and the team was humble and greeting everyone when they came to Qatar , I'm putting football as an example here cuz the community is very toxic, however it was very refreshing to see a country (Japan) for the first time not pulling a tantrum or racism even when they lost
It's true there might be some flaws like any other country , but the majority of it is all positive from I saw and heard from the foreigners that lived there ,it's not the best but it's better ten times than my country at least ,I consider living in Japan after I get enough money
@@Sonnenanbeterin1991 I wasn't glorifying anything. I'm not dumb to be unaware that every country has it's flaws. Japan is special for me and if not for you then mind your own business.
Wonderful people! So caring and considerate.
良いお父さんですね. そんけいしています。お兄さんも いろんな経験で 素晴らしい考え方と良い心。Thanks for sharing this video, i thought that Japanese people was cold hearted .nd dont care to other family or People そうでもないで分かりました。We learn from other ,ありがとうございました。
I'm literally crying seeing her mom talked like that to her son (eventho I know it's just an act)... I have a son at his age too, so it hurts me to see a mother said cruel things about her child's effort 😢😢
It's good to be reminded that there is good in the world, that there is good people, that there is good in people's heart every now and then. It's good to see it
🥰 very respectful people even when they are mad
へへ…赤点回避だけはしてたぜ
全教科40点ぐらいだぜ
関係ないこと
and this very simple word stop some japanese from helping someone who's been struggling in life.
but there are times that we need to stand and help.
I hope someday all japanese will be like those people who are in the video.
今の日本人はすごい人なんですが、このような行為をすればもっとすごい人になることができると思います。
thats a great dad what he said is my number 1 thing with kids they also need to be treated with respect and people dont agree with that but how else can they learn to be respectful if they are never respected focus on raising ur kids instead of punishing them all the time
I enjoyed the man’s reaction, he was really affected by those words from the mother
I love how they actually said this was a youtube project & showed where the camera was. As it shows there are actually good people who care without the cameras
自分の親がそうなので、少しトラウマになってはいますが、こういう参考資料があるのがありがたいですね
私も
わかる
自分の理想を子供に押し付けるような毒親多いですね
でも外面がよくわかりにくい毒親のほうが多い気がします
打ち明けても熱心でいい親だとか親のせいにするなとか特に大人になってからだと家をでないの？と思われたりしますよね
毒親の辛さは実際に経験しないとわからないと思います
親の言うことは正しいんだとか私が悪いんだと洗脳されてしまいます
自分の親はおかしいと気づくきっかけに出会えたときがターニングポイントです
It's kinda sad to know many parents sometimes don't appreciate their kid's hardwork. Inculding mine, I was never particularly bad at school, I usually got mostly A's. But a few times, I got a certificate and letter for getting good marks in english. in the certificate, i got first place in my entire grade, and the letter, it just showed i was one of the top students. I was so exited, thinking my parents would compliment me for getting those, so i rushed home and showed them the stuff.
My father saw the certificate and just nodded. without emotion. I asked him if he could compliment me or at least congratulate me. He said to me "why should i congratulate *you?* " I was absolutely heartbroken. That hurt. Later on i showed my mom the letter, She just asked me if now she had to pay another extra 90$ on a stupid quiz mentioned in the letter.
I cried myself to sleep. They weren't impressed at all, hell, they only saw the negatives. I wasn't really excited on any other achievement of mine after that.
oh my goodness, first im sorry you had such parents who never gave you credit when it was very much due, man if I had your marks my parents would’ve been happy at least! fucking hell, what were your parents expecting? I get that you cried about it cuz you were just a kid, but I guess now you’re grown it pisses you off to think about those times, at least I would be. to me, you sound like a great and intelligent student, more than I ever was in fact lol. on the serious side of things, I respect you, and I support you.👊
Eu chorei, meu coração ficou quentinho vendo aquele primeiro menino falando. Mesmo tímido ao falar, ele não deixou a criança ser diminuída.
My parents are never like this but my mom used to compare me alot with my cousins. I have 4 younger cousins that was attending the same all girls school as me. All of them excelled academicaly and was very active in organizations. I was just an ordinary student. Not failing but also not particularly excellent at anything. Worse is one of them is in the same grade as I am. My mom could not help comparing me to them. Was really glad when my dad asked my teachers to move me to a different classroom when me and my cousin was put together in the same class. He said he does not want me to be compared, I'm sure he knows my cousin is better but the gesture of him asking the teachers to move me to a different class really made an impact to me.
算数88点、すごいじゃないか！
I grew up that even 95 is not enough, though it was not compelled by my adoptive parents, it was like my obligation, especially inside the classroom that always strive for perfect score all the time. Growing up as adult taught me a lesson that the world is not perfect and full of flaws, and thats the beauty of it. I even failed 3 board exams, and took that opportunity to wake me up that it's not the end of the world. It's a lesson to inspire. Of all places I'm surprised that Japanese intervenes in this kind of situation, it's a good start.
the guy is not only willing to stand up but he's also handsome :3 im glad his dad or senior relative backed him up later
I'm glad my parents aren't like this. I enrolled in a famous high school in my country and even though I only ranked 30th they were still happy! No child deserves to go through these. I hate these type of parents.
子供の気持ちをわかってあげないなんて😢
Great video. I love how sensitive and overthinking Japanese people are. Props to the two great gentlemen who tried to advise the child's mother. Also, I can't thank you enough for including Arabic Captions, that means a lot to all of us. Thank you, and keep up the good work.
"Do you work hard on anything?"
*Shakes head to say no despite knowing that 88 doesn't come without hard work*
That got me
Gaslighting a child :(
Broke my heart
even though there arent many japanese like the mother,it still shows that people are heartful and try to make everything better
My mom is exactly like this to me. If it isn't a 98-100 on a test, I did not do well enough and spent too much time not studying or questioning the teacher. My mom would ask the teacher to assign me extra homework and classwork and watch over me doing the work to make sure I do all the extra work. I wish someone would please step in and end this because I am already overworked with dual enrollment to college courses and my parents still want me to do more.
You should really stay away from your parents, remove all toxic relatioships from your life
That was the most respectful confrontation I’ve ever seen. Kinda made me tear up ngl
受験の時の私の母親。受験期まではこんな言い方されなかったし、次があるって言われたりしてたけど、受験期勉強してるのに成績伸びなかったら先生に分からないところ聞いてるの？とかなんでこんな点しか取れないのって言われたりしてた。で、いい点とっても褒められなかった。受験の時はとにかく大っ嫌いだったな
わかるわ
My parents would praise me if I even got close to 70 lol
"There is enough room for all of us to be successful in our own way"
just one of my favorite quote
I got an 82 this year as my final score. I was scared of my parents' reactions. My dad was upset and angry at me. However, my mom didnt het upset at all and understood that I've been through a rough time since 4th grade. She understood me, and promised she'll stay by my side this year. I hope everyone who reads this understands that every parent should have this mindset 💗
82 is not that bad don't feel disheartened 🙂
2:32 how the father knew that his son is gonna act and he signaled to him not to move, wholesome
This hit too close to home. Parents, acing in exams won’t ensure a happy and bright future for your children. I had ambitions when I was growing up, but now I am farthest from the ace student that I was because too much pressure and expectations from my mom affected my EQ so much.
very wholesome, i need more of this
this social experiment proves that when you sit and talk in public , those who sits next to us listens everything hahahaha
This happens to me also, (I'm the person who sits next to them)
3:48 wow can't believe Japanese can intervene in such situations. I hope this guy survives the harsh life there man
i think something people who arent from this type of culture might miss out on (especially other Americans like me) is that the age hierarchy culture in Japan makes this interaction even more meaningful. From highest to lowest in age and hierarchy, it goes like this presumably:
The young man's father (well call him grandpa)
the mother
the young man
the little boy
The mother chastised her son harshly. the grandpa stopped his son from speaking out on something that his generation perceived as not their place to intervene in. When the mother said she was ashamed of her son, the young man couldn't just sit and listen to her talk to her son that way, so he got up and respectfully told the mother what he thought, and the response he got was what probably most people would get: "mind your own business and leave us alone". And instead of telling his son to abide by his elder's words, the grandpa backed up his son and told the mother that she needed to be more open minded. A lower rung in the social ladder stood up to the rung above, and when challenged, the highest rung stood up and defended them instead of knocking them back down.
It's incredibly meaningful for a young person to stand up for someone younger than them to someone older than them, and then to receive support from the eldest person when challenged and put in their place. the mother and the boy were actors, but the grandpa and his son no doubt walked away with a very important lesson that day. Sometimes speaking up is difficult, but necessary.
良い親子
God, love it when the dad steps up behind the son's back like a Superhero