Feminine energy and secure attachment are deeply connected, both rooted in self-trust and unshakable confidence. When a woman learns to soften, receive, and let go of control, she steps into her most magnetic, radiant self. This isn’t about weakness, it’s about owning her worth, standing in her power, and trusting herself to receive love and support. By creating emotional safety within herself, she opens the door to deep, authentic connection and the healthy, balanced relationships she truly deserves. Which of these steps are you ready to embrace?
I second the above comment. I don’t want to impose. Additionally, the men I have been joined to were either mama’s boys and used to the woman doing everything for him or emotionally abusive so I felt unsafe and needed to “do it all” just to make sure my daughters and my needs were provided for and we were safe.
I just wanna say can we please place responsibilities on both sides ? … even if I’m a securely attached person by default, an unhealed man can bring out all types of insecurities because I would’ve put myself in a vulnerable position! It a huge and unreasonable responsibility to place only on women to work on themselves and feel a certain way irrespective of what’s on the other side, isn’t? There are men who say the right words but no actions to follow. I have fallen for men like this by being trusting. Biggest lesson I’ve learnt about secure attachment is being able to honour how I feel and my perception.
You are asking about why women aren't accepting with receiving. Here's the shocking truth. I am 55 years old and I literally never knew any of this until I went on this recent journey to learn about polarity. Listening to your content and other content about law of attraction which often references polarity and masculine and feminine energies is actually kind of mind-blowing. I absolutely had no idea how men thought. In terms of why I have been uncomfortable receiving it actually is because I don't want to be an imposition. If a man offers to help me I just don't want to impose upon him. I had no idea that men actually really want to do this stuff. Even though I am single and yes looking, I have now tried to be more open about just asking a man to for instance put a heavy bag of soil in my cart and then into my car. In the past I felt guilty. Yes guilty! It's crazy. I now am struggling to just see that letting go and allowing first of all I love it because I am sick of doing all this crap on my own. So secondly you can just see how happy it makes a guy when he can help a woman do something simple like that. I still have yet to meet a masculine man who is single though lol!
This comes from upbringing, I think, from being told not to ask for anything. Parents don't always realize what they're doing and it gets passed down via generations maybe, from traumas, wars, survival and etc. they went through. But yeah it's good to know that men like to help and to know that we can ask.
Agreed! My experience is similar to yours. It was a while before I took understood that masculine men love feminine women, and want to help them out with the little things here and there. I also think that many women know this. However, what has put many women off is how many men use this 'desire to help' women to obtain sexual favours, so women figured that they'd rather just do these things for themselves rather than have a bunch of sex pests using their masculinity to get closer to them. All in all, it has been a great lesson learned.
Thank you for sharing these insights! It is very helpful! Very hard to switch in a relationship with well warn patterns but I am trusting in the process of change! It is worth it and I know I can grow even more!
Congratulations....You have become one of my favourite speakers😅👏🎉🎊 I love the embience of your video, I love the way you speak...your accent and the passion and I love your topics...I feel positive energy from you. Thanks for another brilliant topic.
I am with a testosterone driven super masculine man and i stopped asking him for help because everytime i asked for something he said "leave me alone with your problems, you are destroying my positive vibes". And i am talking help with moving when going for a long travel with him and help when my dad fell sick. He is annoyed by me. Was never the case with a guy with more feminine energy. So tell me, why should i be cute and soft when i get this? Who is going to care for me when i am sick or old when i don't work and have a business mindset? We don't live in the 50s. If i don't work and let my masculine out, i starve, basically. I really don't feel safe in this world, you are right.
This dynamic doesn't sound too happy nor too healthy. Either it's that he's feeling nagged and guilted, and is reacting to manipulation, whether perceived or real ; OR, he's a person all about himself and has narc traits, which is fake masculinity and being a jerk, keeping you around to get his needs met, but isn't giving back. I don't know either of you or your situation, but brutal honesty, maybe holistic therapy and a serious decision about whether to continue, seem in order.
He doesn’t sound masculine at all. He sounds fake masculine or someone who’s posing as a masculine person…a true healthy masculine man would help you and protect you.
Thank you for the video. Learning to surrender, trust.... ❤ and see why maybe because of my past I learned not to trust. Happy that you and Melissa give us a healthy example of a loving relationship 🎉
I think it’s important to note that not all checking where a man is and what he’s doing on his phone is bad. Sometimes that’s how you save yourself future of regret in a potential life with a man with children when the man is a cheater… not all checking as bad, although I understand about overkill being too much. Balance is required in all things and it’s important not to be overbearing but also to definitely check when you feel there is need. Trust but verify.
What a powerful and simple explanation to help us ladies embody our divine feminine energy, while being balanced with our masculine, too. Thanks, Jake, as always. 🙏✨
Yess yes yes … I was dating someone who told me I’m too Much drama for wanting to be cherished, loved, and taken care of. I knew he wasn’t right for me it didn’t feel right that he felt these were too many “needs”.Needless to say after 5 months of dating we went out separate ways. Thank God.
Im certainly willing to try, i just hope it's not too late. I'vee been made to feel like I'm just a taker, from other men(family ) , I've been doing it all on my own most of my life. I wasn't allowing space for my special person to give or help. But every time he did, i felt the love. But also the guilt , because it's all new to me.
I was dating a very angry guy. He triggered my own anger and I would respond angrily to him and he got even louder and more aggressive. One day, instead of becoming angry and retaliating I started to cry. The same angry ,aggressive guy suddenly stopped yelling and immediately took me in his arms and gave me a hug. I learned a lot that day. It’s hard to stay quiet and soft when I’m near an angry man. But I do realize becoming angry does not produce good results. I was bullied as a child and my ex husband bullied me as well. I can very softly and calmly set boundaries. I don’t have to be loud or aggressive. ❤
Thank you for saying all this where in this culture a lot Man think is old fashion wanting to be protected and provided for. I know is a Good Man for me out there ❤
Hang on.. as a woman of experience When a woman is having difficulty receiving is that because of past trauma Childhood trauma of losing the first care giver at an early years ( 18 months) and then being displaced.. I don’t want a man who wants to give an amazing experience I want a man who doesn’t want to abandon me.. a man who understands me and respects me for who I am in my life experience.
I love to receive and my ex was open to giving me that. It was definitely something I could feel would essentially stroke his emotional ego and i got my needs met. We both won and it feels good honestly. My issue is men tend to emasculate themselves at some point because they'll pretend to be on their game then after they 'get' me, their real personality come out. Everything they originally loved about me is now being nitpicked or communicating starts to become an issue prompting me to leave. Safety within for both women and men is pivitol. Integration from within can only be done from within 🙏 still learning that winning strategy that brings secure men my way 😅
Thanks Bro for the Insights you shared i appreciate so true i been in my Maskulin roll and i dameged 8 years of the relationship which i loved with my soul and heart and unfortunately due to my EGO and luck of not trusling on him fully i broked up. he was in his Famine side and did not tok the actions which i thought it may saved our relationship and i thought it was not worth my life and time and i made finished. I still love him and wants him fully, but i dont feel to take the rsk of being againe in same situations ummm
i think we need a general default level of saefty just to function , but i think our part is *letting* the guy make us feel safe, and then i heard men initiate the womans deeper safety... and from there the woman empowers the man...
Attachment style should be added into future conversations because that will allow a better understanding of what makes them get reattach to the true self and maybe get some healing. People need to breath and enjoy each other and not put so much pressure on if this is the one for me .. I am a emotionally intelligent individual! I read ppl energy and spiritually if it is showing me strong vibes empath kind! I not so called attached to looks at first..yes I want clean and hygiene look but I fall for inside the person what they are giving off... It so special and only few ppl I encounter that and only yes only one fall for ! But it never got anywhere! Bad timing and I guess it's best to leave it alone. It was not meant to be! For me it was the craziest thing I have ever felt and it never came true. I pushed it aside now to let another bloom for another person to pick and pull and smell its lovelyness.
I think sadly the world makes it hard for women to let down. Most of us are doing it all...bringing up kids, paying bills, looking after sick parents, working full-time. And I know I am not the only one bringing up a child solo. If men stepped up more I reckon I would be super feminine. Most men can't even see the invisible work that goes on in a woman's world...why that brain keeps on ticking away. Lovely romantic notion though.
I am a very feminine woman, however sometimes I still struggle with receiving because men tend to want sexual favors for their provisions. That is why I don’t want to receive all the time and go independent and close myself from receiving altogether. I would love to know how to communicate this to man.
Very true.. they want us women to be there when they have sexual needs ... I found this very annoying.. sometimes I dont understand why I dont like to received this..
Wait à minute .. I met this type of guy at 57 .. and as I was ready to receiving him totally in all aspect of connection. He decided that he was married to his work and wasn’t a fan of any relationship.. after understanding that game how can you trust again and receive again. Any thoughts on that please?
We have a hard time receiving it because the world and my parents told me I have to be more like a man and do it on my own. You're 100% correct. It kills a woman and makes her sick and is yes always in survival mode, and you are not who you were created to be. Women hate that. I feel shame and guilt and like a failure becaus I don't do everything on my plate perfectly. l was called lazy and crafty and selfish for wanting to be a wife and a stay at home mom and this was from a conservative background, I was supposed to be a man and a woman to have true value. Work twice as much as well as being beautiful and healthy and happy. It's impossible for a man or a woman to meet that expectation. Then, my mother is super critical and judgemental, constatly evaluating your performance, and a dad who doesn't tell you you're valuable and loved is the nail in the coffin for women. Then you wonder why we're confused and dysfunctional. I love your videos. Thank you for your help. You make sense.
I think i have issues with receiving because there were strings attached when i received as a child. If i didn't do what my caregiver wanted I was rejected and punished.
I so appreciate your content. The upside down of society with regard to masculine & feminine energies is fascinating to me! Followed you for a long time but you blocked me on IG. I assume for disagreeing with something or some things you shared.
🚩With the way that men are being hurt and broken theses days and in their feminine, it requires that women do things on their own... it's exhausting and harmful to try to help these men.
Just what we need, another man telling us how to “woman” correctly. How did we end up coding all these “energies” (behaviours) as “masculine” or “feminine”? Maybe we’re just all human with the capacity for all behaviours, and we get to choose how to best evolve in that.
If your vulnerability, spoken without blaming or insecurity, doesn't create the protective masculine polarity he's talking about in a man, he's not mature and kind and safe so get away from him.
This is such a punch in the face of “black cat, golden retriever” theory which teaches women to mirror avoidant men’s behaviour…only to engage them in these games toxic men play, trying to win the game? Good luck to them while we wanna be healthy feminine women here ❤ Also was Jake recording this in one take??? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Great video, as always, thank you 🙏🏼
I love a lot of ideas you shared, but I notice you are trying to copy paste a personally over every single woman, claiming that a woman who is securely attached acts this one very specific way. I think this is simplistic and detrimental to women, men, and relationships & gender dynamics. You may want to keep in mind that personality types are equally distributed among the population & genders, and we can't pigeonhole the entire spectrum into one expression because of their gender.
These are universal principles that can manifest uniquely in each individual, not a one-size-fits-all approach. While I understand your concern, oversimplification isn’t the issue here; it’s about providing a starting point for women to reconnect with their confidence, trust, and worth in relationships. This work is about empowerment, not restriction. If you disagree with the approach, I encourage you to reflect on what specifically feels limiting and why, as these tools are meant to be a template to help inspire individual growth, not define it.
I'm not a feminist & I adore men. Unfortunately, feminism arose because women had few rights. Also men abused women alot. Unfortunately, the movement went haywire.
They managed to create a loose society where sx is free for all, sadly this messes up her compass for attachment. Yes please talk to men and LEAD them into being a safe vessel for the community. Sadly they are looked at as creeps in society 💔
Feminine energy and secure attachment are deeply connected, both rooted in self-trust and unshakable confidence. When a woman learns to soften, receive, and let go of control, she steps into her most magnetic, radiant self. This isn’t about weakness, it’s about owning her worth, standing in her power, and trusting herself to receive love and support. By creating emotional safety within herself, she opens the door to deep, authentic connection and the healthy, balanced relationships she truly deserves.
Which of these steps are you ready to embrace?
The psychologist said
You can’t “delete “ your early childhood trauma
But you can be conscious of your thoughts patterns and let them go
I second the above comment. I don’t want to impose. Additionally, the men I have been joined to were either mama’s boys and used to the woman doing everything for him or emotionally abusive so I felt unsafe and needed to “do it all” just to make sure my daughters and my needs were provided for and we were safe.
I just wanna say can we please place responsibilities on both sides ? … even if I’m a securely attached person by default, an unhealed man can bring out all types of insecurities because I would’ve put myself in a vulnerable position! It a huge and unreasonable responsibility to place only on women to work on themselves and feel a certain way irrespective of what’s on the other side, isn’t?
There are men who say the right words but no actions to follow. I have fallen for men like this by being trusting. Biggest lesson I’ve learnt about secure attachment is being able to honour how I feel and my perception.
Exactly- this advice only works with men with a secure attachment style, so learning how to recognize that in a man is the crucial first step.
You are asking about why women aren't accepting with receiving. Here's the shocking truth. I am 55 years old and I literally never knew any of this until I went on this recent journey to learn about polarity. Listening to your content and other content about law of attraction which often references polarity and masculine and feminine energies is actually kind of mind-blowing. I absolutely had no idea how men thought. In terms of why I have been uncomfortable receiving it actually is because I don't want to be an imposition. If a man offers to help me I just don't want to impose upon him. I had no idea that men actually really want to do this stuff. Even though I am single and yes looking, I have now tried to be more open about just asking a man to for instance put a heavy bag of soil in my cart and then into my car. In the past I felt guilty. Yes guilty! It's crazy. I now am struggling to just see that letting go and allowing first of all I love it because I am sick of doing all this crap on my own. So secondly you can just see how happy it makes a guy when he can help a woman do something simple like that. I still have yet to meet a masculine man who is single though lol!
This comes from upbringing, I think, from being told not to ask for anything. Parents don't always realize what they're doing and it gets passed down via generations maybe, from traumas, wars, survival and etc. they went through. But yeah it's good to know that men like to help and to know that we can ask.
You haven’t embraced your feminine energy yet.
I am in my 60s and have met quite a few attractive, healthy men my age. Got 3 marriage proposals. Why? I'm outgoing and very feminine. Men love it .
I'm quite feminine. I get alot of flak from women for this. They resent me because I attract men from all ages.
Agreed! My experience is similar to yours. It was a while before I took understood that masculine men love feminine women, and want to help them out with the little things here and there.
I also think that many women know this. However, what has put many women off is how many men use this 'desire to help' women to obtain sexual favours, so women figured that they'd rather just do these things for themselves rather than have a bunch of sex pests using their masculinity to get closer to them.
All in all, it has been a great lesson learned.
When I receive I feel like I owe something back … I’m working on it!
You owe nothing. A simple thank you & a smile will make a man's day.
Thank you for sharing these insights! It is very helpful! Very hard to switch in a relationship with well warn patterns but I am trusting in the process of change! It is worth it and I know I can grow even more!
🔥
This was beautifully explained.
Congratulations....You have become one of my favourite speakers😅👏🎉🎊 I love the embience of your video, I love the way you speak...your accent and the passion and I love your topics...I feel positive energy from you. Thanks for another brilliant topic.
Just now watching this - I’m up to the first 3 points and already just feel so much relief listening to this. Sooo reassuring and helpful. Tku. ❤
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Thank you so much for this, Jake❤. It would be great if you could also do a video on attachment styles.
great, thanks
I am with a testosterone driven super masculine man and i stopped asking him for help because everytime i asked for something he said "leave me alone with your problems, you are destroying my positive vibes". And i am talking help with moving when going for a long travel with him and help when my dad fell sick. He is annoyed by me. Was never the case with a guy with more feminine energy. So tell me, why should i be cute and soft when i get this? Who is going to care for me when i am sick or old when i don't work and have a business mindset? We don't live in the 50s. If i don't work and let my masculine out, i starve, basically. I really don't feel safe in this world, you are right.
This dynamic doesn't sound too happy nor too healthy. Either it's that he's feeling nagged and guilted, and is reacting to manipulation, whether perceived or real ; OR, he's a person all about himself and has narc traits, which is fake masculinity and being a jerk, keeping you around to get his needs met, but isn't giving back.
I don't know either of you or your situation, but brutal honesty, maybe holistic therapy and a serious decision about whether to continue, seem in order.
He doesn’t sound masculine at all. He sounds fake masculine or someone who’s posing as a masculine person…a true healthy masculine man would help you and protect you.
He sounds very selfidh. What does he do for you ?
I feel the same.
He's NOT masculine at all. In the Bible, men are called to honor & protect women. You should leave him. I'm praying to the Lord for you.
Thank you for the video.
Learning to surrender, trust.... ❤ and see why maybe because of my past I learned not to trust.
Happy that you and Melissa give us a healthy example of a loving relationship 🎉
I appreciate you and grateful to have you here!
I think it’s important to note that not all checking where a man is and what he’s doing on his phone is bad. Sometimes that’s how you save yourself future of regret in a potential life with a man with children when the man is a cheater… not all checking as bad, although I understand about overkill being too much. Balance is required in all things and it’s important not to be overbearing but also to definitely check when you feel there is need. Trust but verify.
What a powerful and simple explanation to help us ladies embody our divine feminine energy, while being balanced with our masculine, too. Thanks, Jake, as always. 🙏✨
I appreciate you!
Wow thank you. Yes emotional balance and safety is key 😊❤
Gonna listen that on repeat every day.
I appreciate you! 🔥
I love receiving 🎉
Yess yes yes … I was dating someone who told me I’m too
Much drama for wanting to be cherished, loved, and taken care of. I knew he wasn’t right for me it didn’t feel right that he felt these were too many “needs”.Needless to say after 5 months of dating we went out separate ways. Thank God.
Im certainly willing to try, i just hope it's not too late. I'vee been made to feel like I'm just a taker, from other men(family ) , I've been doing it all on my own most of my life. I wasn't allowing space for my special person to give or help. But every time he did, i felt the love. But also the guilt , because it's all new to me.
Never too late even if your 90.
Thank you!
I was dating a very angry guy. He triggered my own anger and I would respond angrily to him and he got even louder and more aggressive.
One day, instead of becoming angry and retaliating I started to cry. The same angry ,aggressive guy suddenly stopped yelling and immediately took me in his arms and gave me a hug. I learned a lot that day.
It’s hard to stay quiet and soft when I’m near an angry man. But I do realize becoming angry does not produce good results. I was bullied as a child and my ex husband bullied me as well. I can very softly and calmly set boundaries. I don’t have to be loud or aggressive. ❤
That guided part made me tear up
I just subscribed to your channel. Thank you for your clarity .
i believe this is all helping a lot thank you ❤
Best explaination of secure attachment.. I watched too many videos but this video has the answer
Thank you. 🔥
I love this. Thank you.
This helps. Thanks
Thank you for saying all this where in this culture a lot Man think is old fashion wanting to be protected and provided for. I know is a Good Man for me out there ❤
Hang on..
as a woman of experience
When a woman is having difficulty receiving is that because of past trauma
Childhood trauma of losing the first care giver at an early years ( 18 months) and then being displaced.. I don’t want a man who wants to give an amazing experience I want a man who doesn’t want to abandon me..
a man who understands me and respects me for who I am in my life experience.
I love to receive and my ex was open to giving me that. It was definitely something I could feel would essentially stroke his emotional ego and i got my needs met. We both won and it feels good honestly. My issue is men tend to emasculate themselves at some point because they'll pretend to be on their game then after they 'get' me, their real personality come out. Everything they originally loved about me is now being nitpicked or communicating starts to become an issue prompting me to leave. Safety within for both women and men is pivitol. Integration from within can only be done from within 🙏 still learning that winning strategy that brings secure men my way 😅
I'm willing.....
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New subscriber 😊
8:50 spoke to me. I wish all men understood this and did the inner work to be able to calmly and respectively communicate their boundaries.
Thanks Bro for the Insights you shared i appreciate so true i been in my Maskulin roll and i dameged 8 years of the relationship which i loved with my soul and heart and unfortunately due to my EGO and luck of not trusling on him fully i broked up. he was in his Famine side and did not tok the actions which i thought it may saved our relationship and i thought it was not worth my life and time and i made finished. I still love him and wants him fully, but i dont feel to take the rsk of being againe in same situations ummm
i think we need a general default level of saefty just to function , but i think our part is *letting* the guy make us feel safe, and then i heard men initiate the womans deeper safety... and from there the woman empowers the man...
Attachment style should be added into future conversations because that will allow a better understanding of what makes them get reattach to the true self and maybe get some healing.
People need to breath and enjoy each other and not put so much pressure on if this is the one for me ..
I am a emotionally intelligent individual!
I read ppl energy and spiritually if it is showing me strong vibes empath kind!
I not so called attached to looks at first..yes I want clean and hygiene look but I fall for inside the person what they are giving off... It so special and only few ppl I encounter that and only yes only one fall for ! But it never got anywhere! Bad timing and I guess it's best to leave it alone. It was not meant to be! For me it was the craziest thing I have ever felt and it never came true. I pushed it aside now to let another bloom for another person to pick and pull and smell its lovelyness.
Minnesota? Wisconsin? Chicago? What am I hearing in your accent? Great video by the way. :)
Wow 🔥
I think sadly the world makes it hard for women to let down. Most of us are doing it all...bringing up kids, paying bills, looking after sick parents, working full-time. And I know I am not the only one bringing up a child solo. If men stepped up more I reckon I would be super feminine. Most men can't even see the invisible work that goes on in a woman's world...why that brain keeps on ticking away. Lovely romantic notion though.
Last days/end times problems. It's actually spiritual warfare. The devil is waging war on humanity.
I am a very feminine woman, however sometimes I still struggle with receiving because men tend to want sexual favors for their provisions. That is why I don’t want to receive all the time and go independent and close myself from receiving altogether.
I would love to know how to communicate this to man.
Very true.. they want us women to be there when they have sexual needs ... I found this very annoying.. sometimes I dont understand why I dont like to received this..
It's actually in how you carry yourself. God will show you.
I have the fear of being used and then abandoned. I fear being made a fool of. My one past experience has left me scared.
You and 50 billion people. You need the Lord to heal your pain & help you navigate life & relationships.
Wait à minute .. I met this type of guy at 57 .. and as I was ready to receiving him totally in all aspect of connection.
He decided that he was married to his work and wasn’t a fan of any relationship.. after understanding that game how can you trust again and receive again. Any thoughts on that please?
Well we also must question gender roles which never happens on thos kind of content
my mom was more the completely absent type.. technically she was in the same home but she didnt play with me etc
Same 🥺 it's rough out here
We have a hard time receiving it because the world and my parents told me I have to be more like a man and do it on my own. You're 100% correct. It kills a woman and makes her sick and is yes always in survival mode, and you are not who you were created to be. Women hate that.
I feel shame and guilt and like a failure becaus I don't do everything on my plate perfectly. l was called lazy and crafty and selfish for wanting to be a wife and a stay at home mom and this was from a conservative background, I was supposed to be a man and a woman to have true value. Work twice as much as well as being beautiful and healthy and happy. It's impossible for a man or a woman to meet that expectation.
Then, my mother is super critical and judgemental, constatly evaluating your performance, and a dad who doesn't tell you you're valuable and loved is the nail in the coffin for women. Then you wonder why we're confused and dysfunctional.
I love your videos. Thank you for your help. You make sense.
Don't listen to parents or society. Listen to God. Your his beautiful, cherished daughter.
I think i have issues with receiving because there were strings attached when i received as a child. If i didn't do what my caregiver wanted I was rejected and punished.
I so appreciate your content. The upside down of society with regard to masculine & feminine energies is fascinating to me! Followed you for a long time but you blocked me on IG. I assume for disagreeing with something or some things you shared.
Fuck yeah...i will try it
You'd be more feminine & classier if you refrained from the F bombs.
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im really locked up... its hella weird😅
🚩With the way that men are being hurt and broken theses days and in their feminine, it requires that women do things on their own... it's exhausting and harmful to try to help these men.
❤❤
Just what we need, another man telling us how to “woman” correctly. How did we end up coding all these “energies” (behaviours) as “masculine” or “feminine”?
Maybe we’re just all human with the capacity for all behaviours, and we get to choose how to best evolve in that.
How to become a woman, that is emotionally grounded?
Accept Christ as your Savior is how! Call on His name. Repent for sins and allow Jesus to heal your soul & bring you joy.
If your vulnerability, spoken without blaming or insecurity, doesn't create the protective masculine polarity he's talking about in a man, he's not mature and kind and safe so get away from him.
This is such a punch in the face of “black cat, golden retriever” theory which teaches women to mirror avoidant men’s behaviour…only to engage them in these games toxic men play, trying to win the game? Good luck to them while we wanna be healthy feminine women here ❤ Also was Jake recording this in one take??? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Great video, as always, thank you 🙏🏼
The black cat theory basically embraces the fact that a woman doesn't chase a man. Cats are 'feminine ' mysterious beings.
I love a lot of ideas you shared, but I notice you are trying to copy paste a personally over every single woman, claiming that a woman who is securely attached acts this one very specific way. I think this is simplistic and detrimental to women, men, and relationships & gender dynamics. You may want to keep in mind that personality types are equally distributed among the population & genders, and we can't pigeonhole the entire spectrum into one expression because of their gender.
These are universal principles that can manifest uniquely in each individual, not a one-size-fits-all approach. While I understand your concern, oversimplification isn’t the issue here; it’s about providing a starting point for women to reconnect with their confidence, trust, and worth in relationships.
This work is about empowerment, not restriction. If you disagree with the approach, I encourage you to reflect on what specifically feels limiting and why, as these tools are meant to be a template to help inspire individual growth, not define it.
I think he makes sense.
I'm not a feminist & I adore men. Unfortunately, feminism arose because women had few rights. Also men abused women alot. Unfortunately, the movement went haywire.
They managed to create a loose society where sx is free for all, sadly this messes up her compass for attachment.
Yes please talk to men and LEAD them into being a safe vessel for the community. Sadly they are looked at as creeps in society 💔