Absolutely Outstanding! Thank you Massy and Dr. Zimmerman💐 My key takeaway ~ "If you don't do it in private, you will not be able to do it in public." I love myself enough to be consistent and create a routine.
You're so very welcome. This is a great takeaway, and one of my favorite things said during this discussion, it is so powerful and true. Thank you for commenting, what will be your first step to consistency and creating that routine?
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve affirmed myself this exact same message regarding being prompt. When I show up on time and my priorities are in order, I feel solid and grounded. I notice that it all starts with those early first thing in the morning routines and how I end my evenings. When these two are in alignment, everything else effortlessly falls into place.
@ShadaeBalancesKnightAstro you are very welcome! Thank you for sharing your experience, too. It really is life changing, and I feel accomplished even in the smallest ways. Grounded is a great way to describe it, and it also brings me peace.
I love myself to invest in me, to make myself a priority without feeling like I'm being selfish. I love myself enough to know that I am WORTHY and that I AM good enough! Thank you for helping me see that I am not the only one who feels what I feel.
I love myself enough to let go of other people's expectations of me and create and take action on my expectations of myself, loving me unapologetically.
What a stupendous content! Just yesterday i was singing A THOUSAND YEARS to my SELF ..... and I am with Massy... exercise has taught me SO MANY THINGS in different areas of my life 😊
You hit the nail on the head, when you talked about a surface level society…sooo true! People are so hung up on all the wrong things…looks being a big one! This is particularly a problem we women…we are sooo hard on ourselves and compare ourselves so much! And, we are not one to other women…we are hard on them too!! We all need to practice learning to live ourselves!!! This was very good!!
Beautiful conversation! I've actually never liked the term "self-love" honestly because I felt like it alluded to an excuse to be self-absorbed. This definition of it resonates MUCH more, like acknowledging your deep value, purpose, and the truth that you are (I am) a marvelous creation, fearfully and wonderfully made - powerful! I feel like this is best understood in the Biblical narrative. Loved this so much. Thank you, Massy!
I needed this my beautiful queens!!! You reminded me that I am capable, worthwhile, and lovable. I ❤myself enough to eat healthy & take care of my holy temple.
The ritual of bringing in our inner child, recognizing them, speaking to them, and affirming them...this is beautiful! I want to start this kind of practice to love up on my inner child. I love myself enough to recognize and love up on my inner child.
Good for you with a show!!❤ Outstanding episode! Beautiful simple true. Self love is the loving parenting or higher self in relationship with you and you. Its reparenting the abandonded, rejected, ignored parts of you all day. So lovely to hear experience this❤❤❤
Massy, thank you so much for this episode. I love myself enough to share this love with someone else who might be struggling in this area and who might just need reassurance in knowing that I love them with the love of God, which is a true love. An AGAPE love that never changes and is always the same yesterday, today, and forever more.
Thank you for this. I've lost my wife and kids because of self destructive addictive behaviors. I'm alone, I'm homeless. I've lost everything, I was on the brink of giving up. But I'm leaving this comment, signing off and I'm going to have a conversation with my younger self to start my journey back.
🙏🏾 Thanks …. My takeaway- “Being present in every thing we do. Follow a routine, honour myself. You visualise, seeing yourself succeed, the mind will follow “
Massy, you are amazing! I absolutely engage myself with your message. The biggest issue these days is a lack of fisical activity and one not spend time with oneself and her little children. This process by itself is amazingly healing. So much love. Walk and run our thoughts not sit them down.
In my own perspective, i think loving yourself is the best thing you can practice ever, and forgiving yourself for what you didn't know about due to certain circumstances and experience. This episode is indeed helpful... Looking forward to the next Shalom
Your talk was interesting, important, and needed. How quick are we to think we have to have our nails & hair done, a new bag, shoes, and maybe even plastic surgery? We don't. It seems to happen at even younger ages. Delena said that self-love is intrinsic. So true. I see it as foundational and enabling one to be resilient, pivot, and build on who you are. I noticed you didn't use an old term, self-esteem. Self-love seems to encompass more and is rich in meaning.
I love myself enough to give myself grace when I’m not parenting to the best of my abilities and letting my triggers get ahold of me. I love myself enough to exemplify good healthy habits. I love myself enough to repave the mislead habits to be the best me. Thank you to you both. From the bottom of my heart. You have no idea the hearts and minds you touch and on what days you touch them. I needed to hear this today and I’m so blessed to have come across it. ❤❤❤
I'm so sorry you were feeling that way. You are beautiful and worthy of amazing things, I hope you can take what you learned from this video and carry it out into your life.
@ Thank you, I’m slowly working on myself and loving myself more. I was filled with hatred and I have released it and boy, I feel peace for the first time.
Such valid points were made during this episode. We can never see, perceive, or even interpret the language & communication of self love, unless we identify it within ourselves 1st. Being subjected to past traumas, we do tend to habitually associate love with seeking validation through people's words of, gifts of or even trips to, however how can we have fully experienced such pure joy & fulfillment if we were never at the zenith of our loved self. These episodes are so enlightening. Terrific job🙌🏾
“The first step is to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for what you didn’t know. How could you know? Forgive yourself for the choices you made based on your survival skill. Not feeling good enough, not feeling loveable, creates behavior. I think it, I feel it, then I behave it. Because I can’t out-perform my belief system, I’m going to have the performance of a person who doesn’t believe they’re good enough. And who doesn’t know how to turn the corner. The first step is to forgive yourself. And when you have the same behavior again after getting the information, to forgive yourself again.” I have waited my entire life to hear someone articulate why I made some of choices I have made in my life. Thank you immensely.
Absolutely phenomenal message. Truly inspiring. Transparency, as well as vulnerability, takes great courage. And it was displayed masterfully, in this beautiful message. Thank you both. Keep walking in your light Queen. It’s beautiful to witness. 🤞🏽❤️✨
You amazing women are a whole inspiration 👏🏽❤️👏🏽. I have been a teacher for 16 years. I had a restaurant business for seven years while teaching. Then sold it three years ago. I opened an adult English school nine months ago. At the end of August, I was forced to close it due to health issues. I also ended my marriage and moved far away to focus on my health and mental wellbeing. On top of not being “intentionally” taught to love myself, chaotic relationships with two men who are heavily reliant on alcohol have derailed my confidence. I am immensely competent at many things but I’ve literally crawled into a shell for the past 11 years. Ladies, if someone is an alcoholic, the love you feel for this person cannot force him to change. No matter how much you think you can help, you will only hurt yourself. It’s haaard but you have to choose you and allow that person to hopefully begin their healing journey. I’m finally learning to love and affirm myself. Sending everyone peace, light and love ❤️✨🦋
Thank you for sharing this with all of us. I'm proud of you for recognizing the hard things that have happened in your life, but fighting through and loving yourself. What are your favorite affirmations to give yourself?
Thank you Queen! I’m definitely a work in progress. I’m learning to be as gentle with myself as I am with others. Each day I repeat, “I am love. I am light. I am peace. I am joy. My essence is divine. It took me a while to look myself in the mirror, say these words and not cringe. I still have work to do though. I’m so happy I came across your channel. I’m truly proud of you. Continue to bless us with all that you do. ✨🌱🦋
"Self love" imo means loving SELF -- selfishness. I'm other words putting self first, making self more comfortable, self centeredness and the unwillingness to sacrifice self. By sacrifice, i mean the wrong thoughts, attitudes, actions and responses to others and situations around us. Just my opinion. I love your channel tho 🎉
Yes this!!! I hope you enjoy the mobility flows that pair with these conversations. Don’t forget to do the first one, and the second one will be dropping tomorrow!
I needed that, I lost my wife because I didn't know how to love. I never seen a marriage acted out. But I jumped in ten toes down. Every thing was good, until we had kids. I forgot my wife. I was married for sixteen years. She left me with the kids, but God is great.
Self-Love is choosing what is best for you no matter what anything says, thinks about you. Radical acceptance of every evolution of you. Allowing yourself rest, balance, and accountability/ boundaries of self and others. Embrace your authentic self ✨️ 💛 😌.
I love myself enough to...stop pleasing others at the expense of my needs, use my voice, and rest without explanation or guilt.
Absolutely Outstanding! Thank you Massy and Dr. Zimmerman💐 My key takeaway ~ "If you don't do it in private, you will not be able to do it in public." I love myself enough to be consistent and create a routine.
You're so very welcome. This is a great takeaway, and one of my favorite things said during this discussion, it is so powerful and true. Thank you for commenting, what will be your first step to consistency and creating that routine?
@@MankofitFirst step? Recognizing that my small wins each day are significant. It doesn't have to be all or nothing to have a sense of accomplishment.
@@jej9176 I would say that those small wins are accomplishments!!
@@jej9176yes!! Love your comments!!!
I love myself enough to be on time, be patient with myself, and to continue to grow within my profession to continue helping others, and myself.
Amazing. You deserve all of this
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve affirmed myself this exact same message regarding being prompt. When I show up on time and my priorities are in order, I feel solid and grounded. I notice that it all starts with those early first thing in the morning routines and how I end my evenings. When these two are in alignment, everything else effortlessly falls into place.
@@Mankofit thank you!!
@ShadaeBalancesKnightAstro you are very welcome! Thank you for sharing your experience, too. It really is life changing, and I feel accomplished even in the smallest ways. Grounded is a great way to describe it, and it also brings me peace.
I love myself to invest in me, to make myself a priority without feeling like I'm being selfish.
I love myself enough to know that I am WORTHY and that I AM good enough!
Thank you for helping me see that I am not the only one who feels what I feel.
You are amazing and capable of all the things your heart desires!!
I love myself enough to let go of other people's expectations of me and create and take action on my expectations of myself, loving me unapologetically.
This is AMAZING!!!
Thank you!
What a powerful message. I love myself enough to know that I AM worthy of loving myself ❤
yes yes yes!!! Scream it from the rooftops!
What a stupendous content! Just yesterday i was singing A THOUSAND YEARS to my SELF ..... and I am with Massy... exercise has taught me SO MANY THINGS in different areas of my life 😊
You hit the nail on the head, when you talked about a surface level society…sooo true! People are so hung up on all the wrong things…looks being a big one! This is particularly a problem we women…we are sooo hard on ourselves and compare ourselves so much! And, we are not one to other women…we are hard on them too!! We all need to practice learning to live ourselves!!! This was very good!!
Beautiful conversation! I've actually never liked the term "self-love" honestly because I felt like it alluded to an excuse to be self-absorbed. This definition of it resonates MUCH more, like acknowledging your deep value, purpose, and the truth that you are (I am) a marvelous creation, fearfully and wonderfully made - powerful! I feel like this is best understood in the Biblical narrative. Loved this so much. Thank you, Massy!
Massy is an anomaly of reformed beauty from within with a spectacular perspective of self-worth.
I needed this my beautiful queens!!! You reminded me that I am capable, worthwhile, and lovable.
I ❤myself enough to eat healthy & take care of my holy temple.
The ritual of bringing in our inner child, recognizing them, speaking to them, and affirming them...this is beautiful! I want to start this kind of practice to love up on my inner child.
I love myself enough to recognize and love up on my inner child.
This is powerful thank you for sharing
Good for you with a show!!❤
Outstanding episode!
Beautiful simple true.
Self love is the loving parenting or higher self in relationship with you and you. Its reparenting the abandonded, rejected, ignored parts of you all day. So lovely to hear experience this❤❤❤
Thank you so much for watching, and taking the time to reflect. These conversations have been so healing for myself, and hopefully to you all as well.
Massy, thank you so much for this episode. I love myself enough to share this love with someone else who might be struggling in this area and who might just need reassurance in knowing that I love them with the love of God, which is a true love. An AGAPE love that never changes and is always the same yesterday, today, and forever more.
Share the love!! Thank you for watching and sharing.
Thank you for this. I've lost my wife and kids because of self destructive addictive behaviors. I'm alone, I'm homeless. I've lost everything, I was on the brink of giving up. But I'm leaving this comment, signing off and I'm going to have a conversation with my younger self to start my journey back.
🎉🎉🎉
Such grace in the room.❤❤❤
Thank you. What was your biggest takeaway from the video?
🙏🏾 Thanks …. My takeaway- “Being present in every thing we do. Follow a routine, honour myself. You visualise, seeing yourself succeed, the mind will follow “
Massy, you are amazing! I absolutely engage myself with your message. The biggest issue these days is a lack of fisical activity and one not spend time with oneself and her little children. This process by itself is amazingly healing. So much love. Walk and run our thoughts not sit them down.
I love myself enough to know my worth. ❤
This one is so important!!!
Gorgeous outfit ✨ You look amazing!
Thank you so much!!
In my own perspective, i think loving yourself is the best thing you can practice ever, and forgiving yourself for what you didn't know about due to certain circumstances and experience. This episode is indeed helpful... Looking forward to the next
Shalom
You’re so stylish ❤️ That look is fabulous!
I can't get enough of these conversations. Thank you ❤
Your talk was interesting, important, and needed. How quick are we to think we have to have our nails & hair done, a new bag, shoes, and maybe even plastic surgery? We
don't. It seems to happen at even younger ages. Delena said that self-love is intrinsic. So true. I see it as foundational and enabling one to be resilient, pivot, and build on who you are. I noticed you didn't use an old term, self-esteem. Self-love seems to encompass more and is rich in meaning.
Thank you Massy. I Love myself enough to say no when I want really don't want to do something.
Ohhh That is POWERFUL AFFIRMATION
Indeed it is, and it WORKS.
I love myself enough to give myself grace when I’m not parenting to the best of my abilities and letting my triggers get ahold of me. I love myself enough to exemplify good healthy habits. I love myself enough to repave the mislead habits to be the best me. Thank you to you both. From the bottom of my heart. You have no idea the hearts and minds you touch and on what days you touch them. I needed to hear this today and I’m so blessed to have come across it. ❤❤❤
I feel blessed as well that you came across this video when we did. Your comment was beautiful and powerful, thank you.
Dr.zimmerman had me in tears, I will surely apply loving myself to myself because I really was hating everything about myself, Thanks Massy!
I'm so sorry you were feeling that way. You are beautiful and worthy of amazing things, I hope you can take what you learned from this video and carry it out into your life.
@ Thank you, I’m slowly working on myself and loving myself more. I was filled with hatred and I have released it and boy, I feel peace for the first time.
I love myself enough to...live in my truth and making honesty with myself the core value of progress in my life.
💛
Yes woman! This is wonderful
Everything in this interview was 10 on 10!! I love myself enough to give myself grace while I continue with my self-healing journey
I love reading all of your “I love myself enough to” these are making my day 🥹🥹🥹
That was powerful!!! I'm so happy you were born to self 💚💚💚
I love myself enough to prioritize joy and peace everyday ❤
Yes, I loved to read this. Can you share how you will do so?
This right here is Life Transforming and so necessary for such a time like this!!! Thank you for sharing this. I will never forget this.
Thank you for this sweet comment! I agree, these conversations are so necessary.
I love Black women. That’s the statement, that is the point of my life right now as a Black woman❤️ thank you both so much for this comforting video.
Thank you for sharing this message .It way more of a reality hearing this❤
You are so welcome. Loving yourself is a journey, but it is one we all owe ourselves to do.
@Mankofit Appreciate you.We truly do in the most beautiful way ♥️🤗
Self.....
Succeeds he who nurtures it...
Doomed he who trumps it.....
Long live the carpenter....
Thank you both for this insight! We need to have a loving relationship with ourselves first. I'm inspired!
Such a great convo ❤
I ❤ self enough to begin again… tysm
This! What is going to be your first step in doing so?
Such valid points were made during this episode. We can never see, perceive, or even interpret the language & communication of self love, unless we identify it within ourselves 1st. Being subjected to past traumas, we do tend to habitually associate love with seeking validation through people's words of, gifts of or even trips to, however how can we have fully experienced such pure joy & fulfillment if we were never at the zenith of our loved self. These episodes are so enlightening. Terrific job🙌🏾
“The first step is to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for what you didn’t know. How could you know? Forgive yourself for the choices you made based on your survival skill.
Not feeling good enough, not feeling loveable, creates behavior.
I think it, I feel it, then I behave it.
Because I can’t out-perform my belief system, I’m going to have the performance of a person who doesn’t believe they’re good enough. And who doesn’t know how to turn the corner. The first step is to forgive yourself. And when you have the same behavior again after getting the information, to forgive yourself again.”
I have waited my entire life to hear someone articulate why I made some of choices I have made in my life. Thank you immensely.
Thank you. This conversation is everything. I will modify my parenting of my children to enable them to self ❤️
yes. its your legacy.
Massy you are my hero
Wow that is so unbelievably kind!
Gracias manita por tu autenticidad en tus contenidos . 🤗🙏🏽
I love myself enough to heal, forgive myself, and let go of all of the guilt, which is a totally worthless emotion 💕🙏🏽💕
This was AMAZING!!!!! Thank YOU Massy!!! I love myself enough to show up for MYSELF!!! ❤
YESS!! I love this. Keep saying that to yourself!!
I love myself enough to set boundaries with the people in my life, even if it upsets them or they don’t agree.
I love myself enough to be consistent with my workouts and food choices🎉
This is a very powerful video! Thank you.
You're so welcome!
Absolutely phenomenal message. Truly inspiring.
Transparency, as well as vulnerability, takes great courage. And it was displayed masterfully, in this beautiful message.
Thank you both.
Keep walking in your light Queen. It’s beautiful to witness. 🤞🏽❤️✨
I love myself enough to move through pain and build consistency in my workouts.
You amazing women are a whole inspiration 👏🏽❤️👏🏽. I have been a teacher for 16 years. I had a restaurant business for seven years while teaching. Then sold it three years ago. I opened an adult English school nine months ago. At the end of August, I was forced to close it due to health issues. I also ended my marriage and moved far away to focus on my health and mental wellbeing. On top of not being “intentionally” taught to love myself, chaotic relationships with two men who are heavily reliant on alcohol have derailed my confidence. I am immensely competent at many things but I’ve literally crawled into a shell for the past 11 years. Ladies, if someone is an alcoholic, the love you feel for this person cannot force him to change. No matter how much you think you can help, you will only hurt yourself. It’s haaard but you have to choose you and allow that person to hopefully begin their healing journey. I’m finally learning to love and affirm myself. Sending everyone peace, light and love ❤️✨🦋
Thank you for sharing this with all of us. I'm proud of you for recognizing the hard things that have happened in your life, but fighting through and loving yourself. What are your favorite affirmations to give yourself?
Thank you Queen! I’m definitely a work in progress. I’m learning to be as gentle with myself as I am with others. Each day I repeat, “I am love. I am light. I am peace. I am joy. My essence is divine. It took me a while to look myself in the mirror, say these words and not cringe. I still have work to do though. I’m so happy I came across your channel. I’m truly proud of you. Continue to bless us with all that you do. ✨🌱🦋
I love myself enough to think positive ❤
I love this!
Great information thanks for your show 👍🏿
Thank you ladies!❤
This was so gentle and powerful. Loved it❤
I LOVE MY SELF ENOUGH TO BE MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY HEALTHY AND FREE!!!
Incredible!
Thanks ladies ❤❤❤
Love this and had to listen twice to make sure it sunk in 🥰
Very necessary conversation ❤
I love myself enough to be my best self , to be loved , to let go of my limitions ❤
Love this.
go Massy, go!
Yesss Massy!
Love this discussion ❤😊
I loved it as well. What was your favorite part?
@Mankofit when the other lady said, "If you can't love yourself in private, you want be able to do it outside yourself "❤️🫂
I love myself enough to start a ritual of building a better relationship with myself.
Yes! What will be part of your ritual?
There’s a level of solitude that this requires from us.
Oh i really need this i took it advantage of it...i been lost with it i almost lose my life of guilty for myself thank you a lot 😢🤝
I love myself enough to be my most authentic self because as I am has always been enough ❤️
Yes you have been!!!
I Love myself enough to move to a better environment and forgive myself for what I didn't know.
Yes very helpful ❤
Glad you think so!
Self love is internal and external. Thats it. Thats all.
Honestly I needed this
Thank you 🙏🏾
You are so welcome
I love myself enough to make better habits everyday
Amazing! What will be your first?
I love myself enough to choose my thoughts and only engage with those that empower me
This is so so so important!!
Thank you very much…
Yes yes yes! Scream it from the rooftops!
❤
I needed to hear this 😢
I love myself enough to give myself rest when I have Fibromyalgia pains❤
Lovely. SO important to be kind to yourself.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching!
"Self love" imo means loving SELF -- selfishness. I'm other words putting self first, making self more comfortable, self centeredness and the unwillingness to sacrifice self.
By sacrifice, i mean the wrong thoughts, attitudes, actions and responses to others and situations around us.
Just my opinion. I love your channel tho 🎉
I love myself to live an unapologetic life because I am a priority ☺️
I love myself enough to forgive and let go of my transgressions❤
I love myself enough to TAKE time for exercise. Because I can't 'make' time ❤
Yes this!!! I hope you enjoy the mobility flows that pair with these conversations. Don’t forget to do the first one, and the second one will be dropping tomorrow!
I needed that, I lost my wife because I didn't know how to love. I never seen a marriage acted out. But I jumped in ten toes down. Every thing was good, until we had kids. I forgot my wife. I was married for sixteen years. She left me with the kids, but God is great.
I love myself enough to leave what does not serve me
This was a hard one to learn myself, but it has brought me so much more happiness. Learning to leave in order to protect yourself is vital.
Self-Love is choosing what is best for you no matter what anything says, thinks about you.
Radical acceptance of every evolution of you.
Allowing yourself rest, balance, and accountability/ boundaries of self and others.
Embrace your authentic self ✨️ 💛 😌.
Embracing your authentic self, that is so beautiful.
Love it
GOOD NIGHT. GOOD MORNING.. TO YOU..
First view 😊❤️
You're the best!
I love myself enough to do better, to speak positive, not Negative wordz.
Awesome…
💜
I Love myself enough to say no when I want really don't want to do something.
My oldest baby is 10... I struggle with the thought that it may be too late to instill this new information.
It is never too late to change!
I love myself to eat better and stay hydrated
🙌🏽🙌🏽💜✨🙏🏽
❤😌...
❤Beautiful Black Queen
🔥🌿✋🏽✋
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