It's great to hear that you maintain a positive self-image despite the challenging situation. Feeling anger about the time spent in a toxic relationship is completely valid-it's part of the healing process. Acknowledging those feelings can help you move forward and empower you to make healthier choices in the future. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Absolutely! It's true that our actions have consequences, and those who spread toxicity often face the results of their behavior. Thank you for sharing your perspective-wishing you all the best on your journey!
Absolutely! Your kindness is a powerful strength, and it's important to recognize that it reflects your character, not a weakness. Thank you for highlighting this important truth!
I grateful every day I got away from these evil people , I only think of the lessons I learned not the people and their problems. Every day is a blessing to learn more.
That’s a fantastic mindset to have! Focusing on the lessons and personal growth you’ve gained from those experiences is so empowering. Each day truly is a new opportunity for positivity and learning. Keep embracing that gratitude!
I shudder to think of myself as supply anymore. I view myself so differently and highly after getting out of that destructive relationship. Im achieving the highest echelons of self worth❤❤
That's an incredible transformation! It's inspiring to see how you've shifted your perspective and embraced your self-worth after such a challenging experience. Keep shining and achieving your goals! ❤️
Good for you!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 And that also gives me hope because right now.My brain is spaghetti and am totally worthless as far as motivation and creativity. I am COMPLETELY different than I was when I first met him. And often wonder if i'm ever going to even be back to regular normal...😢
This podcast has enabled me to fully embrace what I need to do and continue to do going forward as a survivor of narcissistic abuse. Thank you ever so much for hitting All the points where I needed insight and support. God Bless You!😊
I'm so glad to hear that the podcast resonated with you and provided the support you needed! Your journey as a survivor is inspiring, and I wish you continued strength and healing. Thank you for your kind words! God bless you too! 😊❤️
I can't imagine how these type of people ever exist here on earth because i had no idea about narcissist all these 15 yrs which i had eperiance with my ex partner.But i thanked God for giving me the courage to leave my ex without a second thought .Though it was very hard for me because he keep texting me like he had done before but i didn't reply .Its almost a month now i don't want to do anything ,i thought it was a dream ,and i can't described the pain and sorrow which i udergone during these 15 yrs especially at the same time raising my two kids a boy and a girl,but i thanked God for making me strong and eccepting that what ever happens in my life it is according to God's plan.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It's truly inspiring to see how you've found the strength to leave a difficult situation, especially while raising your children. Acknowledging the pain is important, but it’s wonderful that you’re holding onto your faith and strength as you move forward. You're not alone in this!
You’re absolutely right! Negative influences can be draining and leave us feeling empty. It’s important to recognize their impact and focus on surrounding ourselves with positive, uplifting energy instead. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I hope he's stuck regretting because maybe he'd learn something or change his ways but then again I keep reminding myself to not care and I continue about my day.
Its annoying when they reach out a month, 3 months, maybe even a year...I hope it stops even though it really makes me feel good because he regrets but then I remember its a selfish manipulative tactic he's trying and its just interrupting my healing and I hope one day he'll either GET IT and make a change or just LEAVE me alone. He has others so I don't get it. He knew them longer than me too.
It sounds like you're doing an incredible job focusing on your healing, even amidst the interruptions. It’s understandable to feel conflicted about his regrets, but prioritizing your peace is what truly matters. Keep reminding yourself that his actions are about him, not you. Stay strong and keep moving forward!
It’s powerful to recognize the impact you had on someone’s life, especially in a challenging relationship. Your contributions and support are valid, and it's important to remember your own worth. Focusing on your own growth and healing is key. Thank you for sharing your insight!
Absolutely! It’s a testament to our strength and resilience to break free from such toxic situations. Every step away is a victory, and it’s great to see you recognize that! Stay strong!
Your videos have helped me so much to understand dealing with my ex covert narcissist. He keeps hovering me after 2 years. He discarded me out of nowhere right before a vacation and planned holidays together. I went no contact immediately, he started to hoover 6 months later like nothing happened. Some nerve! These ppl are delusional.
I’m so glad to hear that the videos have been helpful for you! It’s incredibly challenging to deal with a covert narcissist, especially after experiencing such a sudden discard. Going no contact is a strong and important step, and it's frustrating when they try to re-enter your life as if nothing happened. Remember to prioritize your own healing and well-being. you're not alone in this!
I do believe this is true I was loyal honest and offered her the best life I possibly could she chose to cheat on me and to think I was with someone I didn't even know for 11 year has woken me up and learnt me a big lesson
I'm sorry to hear you went through such a painful experience. It takes a lot of strength to recognize those lessons and move forward. Your journey of self-discovery is important, and I appreciate you sharing it. Thank you for your honesty!
Thank you for sharing this … I’m in the process of leaving my Narcissistic Husband of 33 yrs. Your Video gave me Courage and Inspiration to keep going and never to look back. It gave me hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel 🌸🌹🌺 Thank You and God Bless 🙏
Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I'm truly honored to hear that my video has inspired you during this challenging time. Remember, you are strong and deserving of a brighter future. Keep moving forward, and know that there is hope and healing ahead. God bless you!
You're welcome! I completely understand that this journey can be incredibly challenging. You're not alone in this, and your strength will guide you through!
Hi ,whoever you are. I have spent countless hours trying to find the answers. Thank you, we are one, for what we have found out. This is the best of the best videos I have ever heard on our pain and pain of being so used, mistreated and many other words of prey. Thank you for your pen, thoughts and insights. A shear masterpiece of a story. Bless you
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm truly grateful that you found the video helpful and resonant. It's important to share our experiences and support each other on this journey. Bless you too!
This video has truly helped me understand the importance of being able to be more productive in my healing and self development journey. Thank you. I love this channel ❤😊
I'm so glad to hear that the video has helped you on your healing journey! Your support means a lot, and I'm here to share more insights as you continue your self-development. Thank you for being part of this community! ❤😊
What is mentioned in this video well described my situation. It is essential to end such toxic relationship even though it is still heartbreaking and truly painful. For my wellbeing, I must leave him and move on. Anyway, I don't think he will find another one like me.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Ending a toxic relationship is never easy, but prioritizing your well-being is so important. It sounds like you’re on the right path, and I wish you strength and healing as you move forward!
That’s fantastic to hear! Connecting with someone who matches your energy and aligns with your values can be so uplifting. Wishing you all the best in this new relationship! ❤😊
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but it's important to know that you're not alone in your journey. I hope you find the happiness and healing you deserve. Take care of yourself!
Thank you for your comment! I'm glad to hear that the video resonates with your experience. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and I appreciate you sharing your journey. Wishing you strength and healing!
Thank you for the encouraging words of encouragement and prayers to help not allowing no one's negativity to enbark on self care of love and life's journey to continue to grow, and be empowered by your past experiences(strength and builder to move forward).💪👍🙌
You're so welcome! I'm glad the message resonated with you. Your journey of self-care and growth is inspiring, and it's amazing to see you embracing your strength. Keep moving forward and empowering yourself! 💪
Me too. You won’t have it in me to end it or leave. But again, it’s my house! If anyone going to go, it’s not going to be me! I’m the owner of the house.
It’s great to hear you’re taking a stand for yourself and your space! Feeling empowered in your own home is so important. Stay strong and keep prioritizing your well-being!
I am strong Embath. I never new about covert narcissist or narcissist. My experience it was so dramatic which end up to expose her. I felt sorry for her but I understand we are contracted to be happen and I dont have any anemosity to odds her. I am happy is happen to me as I help myself to self loving and healing . I feel sorry from her to leave a life like this as society and family creating those all insecurities to become narcissists. I am sending love to keep her safe and well on her journey of life. Your programs their very good for peoples healing Thanks for sharing and educate us.
Thank you for sharing your journey! It's inspiring to see how you've turned your experiences into an opportunity for self-love and healing. Your compassion and understanding towards others, even those who may have hurt you, is truly admirable. Sending love your way as you continue on this path!
Thank you exactly. I was having one narcissist man, its true all that you have explained, just like that man, but I prove them and cut them out of my life they don't appreciate those people. Thank you for the video .
Thank you for your comment! I'm glad to hear that you were able to recognize the toxic behavior and take steps to cut that person out of your life. It takes strength to make those decisions, and it's important to prioritize your well-being. I appreciate your support and hope the video continues to help others in similar situations!
It's completely understandable to feel that way, leaving a toxic relationship can be incredibly challenging. Recognizing the situation and your feelings is a significant first step. You deserve to prioritize your well-being, and I’m here to encourage you on your journey!
That's a powerful mindset to have! It’s important to stand your ground and stay true to yourself, especially after facing difficult situations. Not giving in shows strength and resilience, and it's great that you have the clarity to communicate that to your friend. Keep prioritizing your well-being, and thank you for sharing your journey!
You’re not alone. I just got out of a 26 year marriage. Only 5 days ago. Everything is going so fast but yet so slow. It’s weird to find yourself again. I feel into them through the years. And when the curtain fell I couldnot not see it anymore. Stay strong. We are way stronger than that lost child❤
I'm so glad to hear that you found it helpful! Healing is a journey, and it's great that you're taking steps toward your well-being. Thank you for sharing, and I wish you all the best on your path to recovery!
It can be really tough to see someone stuck in that cycle. It’s sad when people can’t recognize the impact of their actions. Your empathy is clear, and I appreciate you sharing your thoughts.
You're very welcome! 💛 I'm glad the message resonated with you. Remember, taking care of yourself and your well-being is the top priority. Stay strong!
Thank you! It's great to see you celebrating your strength and resilience. Recognizing your worth is such an important step in healing and moving forward. ❤
I opened my life for her, made incredible effort to bring her in my country, have 3 small children with her who she’s now using and abusing as pawns against me whilst traumatizing them at the same time. A legal battle for custody is ahead. I can truly say she has deregulated my life profoundly. My house and livelihood is at risk. At times I feel like I am dealing with the devil. I am not sure if I ever will be able to forgive
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds incredibly challenging and painful. Remember to prioritize your well-being and seek support during this difficult time. You're not alone in this struggle, and there are resources available to help you navigate through it.
I always know that he won’t replace me. He can easily find low hanging fruits or airheads. But to replace me it’s an impossible task for him. He is running losses in Thailand where he can buy love! “Buy”!
It sounds like you have a strong understanding of your worth, which is so important! Narcissists often seek superficial connections, but they can’t truly replace the depth and value you bring. Stay confident in yourself and your journey!
I thank God that it was only 5 months. The "worm," married while we're engaged. What a shocker😮 He discarded me without cause. But, I am truly grateful that it is OVER. What I lost: a liar, cheater, joker, a demon 👿, a Coward and a clown 🤡. It was never meant to BE. I'm Moving forward continuingly to live my BEST Life. He will Reap what he sowed🎯. God is HEALING me ✝️💪🏽💯.
It's inspiring to hear your strength and gratitude for moving on! Recognizing the toxic behaviors and choosing to focus on your healing and future is a powerful step. Wishing you all the best as you continue to live your best life! 💪🏽
That’s often a common trait in narcissistic behavior, and it can be incredibly hurtful. It’s important to recognize these patterns to protect ourselves. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
"Best supply" !? Best fool , more like. Just turned on your video. I will listen & see. Wow . . . One of the best critiques I have ever heard : sensitive, empathetic,compassionate." Thank you so very much for your laser- beam , accurate insight and heart. She will never find one that fit " every part of her very soul " except God.I say this with the humility. 'Respect Trust Empathy Honesty Loyalty Understanding were the values I emphasized and kept in my mind . . . and a lot of Laughter ' I believe there comes a time , at least once , where the love is put to the test ; where the love,the relationship is put on the line. I ' ran the Distance' ,the extra mile 1st, " Love don't love nobody." (The Spinners) 2nd, You have to fight for that love..You must " Go the D I S T A N C E" (Rocky) I did this.I did all that I could do.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt and reflective comment! It’s clear you’ve put a lot of thought into your experiences and the values that truly matter in relationships. Your insights about love, trust, and the importance of fighting for what we believe in are powerful reminders for us all. I appreciate your kind words about the video, and I’m glad it resonated with you!
That's a powerful realization! It's so important to recognize that in toxic relationships, we often neglect our own needs and well-being. Acknowledging this is the first step toward self-love and healing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
❤Thank you for providing and sharing of teachings and understanding. This episode was enlightening for me. May I ask, could you also share information about covert narcissist? Is there a difference?
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the episode enlightening. I’d be happy to share more about covert narcissists in a future video-there are definitely key differences worth exploring. Stay tuned!
It's great to hear that you're focusing on yourself and not feeling the pressure to seek out a relationship. Prioritizing your own well-being and happiness is so important, especially after navigating difficult situations. Embracing this time for self-discovery and growth can lead to a much healthier future. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
It’s tough to let go, but it sounds like you’re finding peace in moving on. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is focus on our own growth and happiness. Trust that you’ll find someone who truly values you in the future. Stay strong!
Narcissist will fail, earlier or later. Its just a matter of time. This notion, is not popular term among ordinary people. Maybe she will find a more "competitive, and competent" narcissist, than she will take your boots. So move on, be happy life is a gift, and only one.
Deep down in their heart, such narcissistic soul don't have peace of mind.They are always on the look for new supply once they are fed up with the former one.
It's powerful that you recognize the difference between unconditional love and what others may offer. Your connection to the divine and your ability to give love freely is truly special. Wishing you continued strength and clarity on your journey!
Great video, thank you , yes I feel so deeply for him , still do love him like nobody else before in my life, ..but do not want to take him back 😢 I leave a void, he knows I am strong, but by ghosting me 3rd time now within 1 3/4 yrs., I am done and in pain
Thank you for sharing your feelings so openly. It’s completely normal to still have strong emotions for someone you love, even when you know it’s best to move on. Recognizing your strength and choosing to prioritize your well-being is so important, even if it’s painful right now. Allow yourself to grieve the relationship, and remember that healing takes time. You’re doing the right thing by putting yourself first!
They were walking along the road, he was looking at her and smiling. How has he found happiness when I am still ruminating and in pain? I gave too much, he had nothing. I cared, supported, accommodated, fetched and carried, lent money. We fell out every week because of his disrespect and toxic comments. He always persuaded me to let him back. He was definitely grooming the next person who he went to within days. He downgraded me for someone with young kids, works part time and i hear a filthy little house. It doesn't make sense.
I'm really sorry to hear about your pain and the difficult experiences you've had. It's tough to see someone who hurt you seemingly move on so easily, but remember that healing takes time. Your worth isn't defined by how others treat you, and it's important to focus on your own journey toward happiness and self-love.
Healing from NPD can be complex and often requires professional help, such as therapy. While removing yourself from a toxic relationship can be a crucial step for your own well-being, it may not necessarily lead to change in the other person. Ultimately, focusing on your own healing and boundaries is key. Thank you for raising such important questions!
It sounds like you’re recognizing a common behavior in narcissistic individuals, where they seek out new sources of validation and attention. This can be really difficult to witness, especially after a relationship. Remember, focusing on your own healing and self-worth is essential. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I don't find it hard to believe ...I have eyes! The boy is screwed up bad over it. So much so I questioned if his years of abuse was actually even narcissism because he did not run to the next one for supply. He is heartbroken and pitiful, (which also made it hard for me to leave for so long Because I felt sorry for him. I don't want to be responsible for breaking someone's heart.) But he literally left me no other choice! For years,He just made every single day miserable- for no reason. Instead of learning growing in loving , he always just wanted to insult me and be little me because he always thought I was cheating except I never once did (and never gave him any reason to think it either)
Although I am well aware that it is just because he has not found anyone else yet, as I am sitting here pitiful myself, because I can't even think right anymore, I know he is doing everything in his power To at least get laid. I figure he just hasn't had any luck- but as soon as he does- THAT'S when!
Thank you for sharing your experience so openly. It’s incredibly difficult to navigate a relationship with someone who exhibits such toxic behavior, especially when you feel compassion for them despite the pain they’ve caused you. Recognizing that you deserve better is a powerful step, and it’s understandable to feel conflicted. Remember, prioritizing your own well-being is essential, and it sounds like you’re on the right path to healing. Stay strong!
Because my husband no longer wanted to be controlled by his mother,she no longer speaks or talks to my husband and it’s been 10 years with no communication. He has tried to visit her and has left notes on her door but to no availability … so for his own peace and well being he no longer expects anything from her and will no longer try… but he will forgive her if she ever decides to speak to him and say that she is sorry but we both know that will NEVER happen. So sad!
That sounds like a really difficult situation for both of you. It's understandable that your husband has chosen to prioritize his peace and well-being after trying to reach out. It's heartbreaking when family relationships become strained, but it’s commendable that he remains open to forgiveness. Wishing you both strength and healing as you navigate this!
I will tell you my story one day , which is about similar like yours , it's been 10 months on aug 2024 , of our ended relationship, where I do not have mind to consider of who discard whom. Just ended the relationship. But I will stil take her for hook up, and having boundaries.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s important to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being, even after a difficult relationship. I look forward to hearing your story when you’re ready!
I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with this situation. It’s common for narcissists to deflect blame and create a narrative that paints them as the victim. Recognizing this pattern can be empowering, and it’s important to focus on your own healing and well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience!
It's wonderful to hear that you feel free and empowered after such a challenging experience! Recognizing your worth as a spiritual empath is incredibly important, and it's great that you've moved on. Wishing you continued strength and peace in your journey!
I love your perspective! It's true that the truth is powerful, and it can be freeing to let go of their drama. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and humor! 😂
It's common for people with narcissistic traits to avoid discussing their past, as it can make them vulnerable. Recognizing these patterns is an important step towards understanding and healing. Thank you for sharing your experience!
It sounds like you made a difficult but necessary decision for your well-being. Recognizing your worth and prioritizing yourself is so important, especially after such a long time. Trust your instincts and take the time you need to heal.
It's completely valid to take a break from relationships, especially after difficult experiences. Focusing on yourself and healing is so important. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey!
I won't see his new supplies because i don't give a fk. Im getting a new phone, new identity, new social media accounts. I will block him and his family and friends. I am going no contact. I am getting a PFA order against him in 2 counties. If he comes near me, ill have him arrested and press many charges.
It sounds like you're taking strong and important steps to protect yourself, and that's commendable. Prioritizing your safety and well-being is crucial. Wishing you strength and peace on this new path!
That’s a common tactic among narcissists to keep the focus away from the current relationship. It can be really frustrating and confusing. Remember, it’s important to prioritize your own feelings and boundaries!
He was on dating and escort sites and tried to hide it from me, but it came up on his phone and he quickly deleted it, but I seen it. He lied to me saying he never is on that site. But he is a pathological liar!
I'm sorry to hear you went through that. It's incredibly hurtful when someone we trust is dishonest. Recognizing those red flags is important for moving forward and protecting yourself.
I totally agree but I also understand what this person is trying to relay. Ppl think about it even though they don't wanna be with them. Its also easier to understand the narcs inner workings.
@@NatzTalk I’m sorry, I got a little worked up because my 18 years old daughter is dating one coverted kind. I’m scared to death but I understand the need to be patient with her choice. They’re in the honeymoon stage now so if I get my way, she might for him again during the Hoover phase. I just have to trust her judgement!
Absolutely! Walking away from toxic people is a powerful choice, and it’s all about prioritizing your own well-being. Don’t let their negativity hold you back-focus on your path and keep moving forward! 💪
I dont know if this is meant to be validation for the victims . . . We stuck in those relationships because we were desperate , and hang onto an unhealthy person in the name of being an empath . . . We wanted a relationship by any means . . . Thats a problem right there . .
You raise an important point about the complexities of being in such relationships. It’s true that many of us seek validation and connection, even when it’s unhealthy. Acknowledging this is a crucial step toward healing and understanding our worth. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
It's a tough realization, isn't it? Often, the best partners are the ones who truly understand and support their loved ones, yet they may be taken for granted. Remember, your worth isn’t defined by someone else’s inability to see it. Healing and self-love are what matter most!
Thank you for your comment! It’s interesting to bring in different perspectives. The concept of choice can be complex, especially in relationships with narcissists, where manipulation often plays a significant role. Understanding our own choices and boundaries is essential for healing and growth.
You're right. many narcissists often don't show empathy or care for the impact of their actions. It's important to recognize that and focus on our own healing and well-being. Thank you for your insight!
Great question! While this content is created with careful research and understanding of the topic, it's definitely not AI-generated like horoscope apps. I aim to provide insights based on real experiences and knowledge. Thank you for your interest!
I understand your frustration! It can be really difficult dealing with such toxic behavior. Prioritizing our own well-being is crucial, and it's important to find ways to move forward. Thank you for sharing your feelings!
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I never have a negative feeling about myself. I was just rage for allowing him to stay with me this long.
It's great to hear that you maintain a positive self-image despite the challenging situation. Feeling anger about the time spent in a toxic relationship is completely valid-it's part of the healing process. Acknowledging those feelings can help you move forward and empower you to make healthier choices in the future. Thank you for sharing your experience!
this sucks, but you got fully qualified at least.
You reap exactly what you sow, good luck Toxic Narc.
Absolutely! It's true that our actions have consequences, and those who spread toxicity often face the results of their behavior. Thank you for sharing your perspective-wishing you all the best on your journey!
Narcissists see our kindness as "our weakness"
WRONG!!!
Our kindness is OUR STRENGTH.
Absolutely! Your kindness is a powerful strength, and it's important to recognize that it reflects your character, not a weakness. Thank you for highlighting this important truth!
Absolutely, you are right ✅️
True to that
I grateful every day I got away from these evil people , I only think of the lessons I learned not the people and their problems. Every day is a blessing to learn more.
That’s a fantastic mindset to have! Focusing on the lessons and personal growth you’ve gained from those experiences is so empowering. Each day truly is a new opportunity for positivity and learning. Keep embracing that gratitude!
Very positive approach 👍
I shudder to think of myself as supply anymore. I view myself so differently and highly after getting out of that destructive relationship. Im achieving the highest echelons of self worth❤❤
That's an incredible transformation! It's inspiring to see how you've shifted your perspective and embraced your self-worth after such a challenging experience. Keep shining and achieving your goals! ❤️
@@NarcPedia thank you 🙏🏾
I get it for a narc but I never saw myself as that and still dont. I'm a human being who has a lot of love to give but to a partner worthy.
Good for you!!
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And that also gives me hope because right now.My brain is spaghetti and am totally worthless as far as motivation and creativity.
I am COMPLETELY different than I was when I first met him. And often wonder if i'm ever going to even be back to regular normal...😢
@@ruthparks5120may the Almighty God help you out of this devastating yet draining experience.. Lengthy huggs
This podcast has enabled me to fully embrace what I need to do and continue to do going forward as a survivor of narcissistic abuse. Thank you ever so much for hitting All the points where I needed insight and support. God Bless You!😊
I'm so glad to hear that the podcast resonated with you and provided the support you needed! Your journey as a survivor is inspiring, and I wish you continued strength and healing. Thank you for your kind words! God bless you too! 😊❤️
I can't imagine how these type of people ever exist here on earth because i had no idea about narcissist all these 15 yrs which i had eperiance with my ex partner.But i thanked God for giving me the courage to leave my ex without a second thought .Though it was very hard for me because he keep texting me like he had done before but i didn't reply .Its almost a month now i don't want to do anything ,i thought it was a dream ,and i can't described the pain and sorrow which i udergone during these 15 yrs especially at the same time raising my two kids a boy and a girl,but i thanked God for making me strong and eccepting that what ever happens in my life it is according to God's plan.
Thank you for sharing your journey. It's truly inspiring to see how you've found the strength to leave a difficult situation, especially while raising your children. Acknowledging the pain is important, but it’s wonderful that you’re holding onto your faith and strength as you move forward. You're not alone in this!
Negative replacements are so easy to get.Low energy and destructive are so empty,hollow,shallow.Pathetic.
You’re absolutely right! Negative influences can be draining and leave us feeling empty. It’s important to recognize their impact and focus on surrounding ourselves with positive, uplifting energy instead. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
When someone asks why are we single, I will refer them to your post.
I hope he's stuck regretting because maybe he'd learn something or change his ways but then again I keep reminding myself to not care and I continue about my day.
Its annoying when they reach out a month, 3 months, maybe even a year...I hope it stops even though it really makes me feel good because he regrets but then I remember its a selfish manipulative tactic he's trying and its just interrupting my healing and I hope one day he'll either GET IT and make a change or just LEAVE me alone. He has others so I don't get it. He knew them longer than me too.
It sounds like you're doing an incredible job focusing on your healing, even amidst the interruptions. It’s understandable to feel conflicted about his regrets, but prioritizing your peace is what truly matters. Keep reminding yourself that his actions are about him, not you. Stay strong and keep moving forward!
That’s true, without me, he wouldn’t be where he is right now.
It’s powerful to recognize the impact you had on someone’s life, especially in a challenging relationship. Your contributions and support are valid, and it's important to remember your own worth. Focusing on your own growth and healing is key. Thank you for sharing your insight!
😂 we are lucky to escape alive.
Absolutely! It’s a testament to our strength and resilience to break free from such toxic situations. Every step away is a victory, and it’s great to see you recognize that! Stay strong!
AMEN to that!!! I'm still not sure if he's going to go off the deep end and kill me!!! All I seem to be able to do is pray!!!
We the diamonds they threw back into the straw 😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
That's a great way to put it! We truly shine brighter after overcoming challenges. Love the positivity! 😂❤️
Your videos have helped me so much to understand dealing with my ex covert narcissist. He keeps hovering me after 2 years. He discarded me out of nowhere right before a vacation and planned holidays together. I went no contact immediately, he started to hoover 6 months later like nothing happened. Some nerve! These ppl are delusional.
I’m so glad to hear that the videos have been helpful for you! It’s incredibly challenging to deal with a covert narcissist, especially after experiencing such a sudden discard. Going no contact is a strong and important step, and it's frustrating when they try to re-enter your life as if nothing happened. Remember to prioritize your own healing and well-being. you're not alone in this!
I do believe this is true I was loyal honest and offered her the best life I possibly could she chose to cheat on me and to think I was with someone I didn't even know for 11 year has woken me up and learnt me a big lesson
I'm sorry to hear you went through such a painful experience. It takes a lot of strength to recognize those lessons and move forward. Your journey of self-discovery is important, and I appreciate you sharing it. Thank you for your honesty!
It is very strange to know how human behaviour is the same across the globe 😕
Thank you for sharing this … I’m in the process of leaving my Narcissistic Husband of
33 yrs.
Your Video gave me Courage and Inspiration to keep going and never to look back.
It gave me hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel 🌸🌹🌺 Thank You and God Bless 🙏
Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I'm truly honored to hear that my video has inspired you during this challenging time. Remember, you are strong and deserving of a brighter future. Keep moving forward, and know that there is hope and healing ahead. God bless you!
@@NarcPedia Thank You 🌹🙏🌸
Thank you ......lord knows this Journey is very hard to go through.
You're welcome! I completely understand that this journey can be incredibly challenging. You're not alone in this, and your strength will guide you through!
Hi ,whoever you are. I have spent countless hours trying to find the answers. Thank you, we are one, for what we have found out. This is the best of the best videos I have ever heard on our pain and pain of being so used, mistreated and many other words of prey. Thank you for your pen, thoughts and insights. A shear masterpiece of a story. Bless you
❤ !
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm truly grateful that you found the video helpful and resonant. It's important to share our experiences and support each other on this journey. Bless you too!
It really is.
This video has truly helped me understand the importance of being able to be more productive in my healing and self development journey. Thank you. I love this channel ❤😊
I'm so glad to hear that the video has helped you on your healing journey! Your support means a lot, and I'm here to share more insights as you continue your self-development. Thank you for being part of this community! ❤😊
What is mentioned in this video well described my situation. It is essential to end such toxic relationship even though it is still heartbreaking and truly painful. For my wellbeing, I must leave him and move on. Anyway, I don't think he will find another one like me.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Ending a toxic relationship is never easy, but prioritizing your well-being is so important. It sounds like you’re on the right path, and I wish you strength and healing as you move forward!
Im talking to someone else now.whos on my level and my energy.❤😊🙏💯🙌🤗👍💃
That’s fantastic to hear! Connecting with someone who matches your energy and aligns with your values can be so uplifting. Wishing you all the best in this new relationship! ❤😊
Listen to you with tears in my eyes longing for happiness.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but it's important to know that you're not alone in your journey. I hope you find the happiness and healing you deserve. Take care of yourself!
@@NarcPedia😢thank you
Thank you narrator, I am experiencing exactly what you describe in detail. 🙏☺
Thank you for your comment! I'm glad to hear that the video resonates with your experience. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and I appreciate you sharing your journey. Wishing you strength and healing!
Thank you for the encouraging words of encouragement and prayers to help not allowing no one's negativity to enbark on self care of love and life's journey to continue to grow, and be empowered by your past experiences(strength and builder to move forward).💪👍🙌
You're so welcome! I'm glad the message resonated with you. Your journey of self-care and growth is inspiring, and it's amazing to see you embracing your strength. Keep moving forward and empowering yourself! 💪
It's crazy how accurate this is
I'm glad to hear that you found it accurate! It's important to recognize these patterns, and I appreciate you sharing your thoughts!
Me too. You won’t have it in me to end it or leave. But again, it’s my house! If anyone going to go, it’s not going to be me! I’m the owner of the house.
It’s great to hear you’re taking a stand for yourself and your space! Feeling empowered in your own home is so important. Stay strong and keep prioritizing your well-being!
Thank you!!! Powerful message. 🙏✌️❤️to all of us survivers
Thank you so much! I’m glad you found the message powerful. It’s important to uplift each other as survivors, and I appreciate your support! ❤️
I am strong Embath. I never new about covert narcissist or narcissist. My experience it was so dramatic which end up to expose her. I felt sorry for her but I understand we are contracted to be happen and I dont have any anemosity to odds her. I am happy is happen to me as I help myself to self loving and healing . I feel sorry from her to leave a life like this as society and family creating those all insecurities to become narcissists. I am sending love to keep her safe and well on her journey of life. Your programs their very good for peoples healing Thanks for sharing and educate us.
Thank you for sharing your journey! It's inspiring to see how you've turned your experiences into an opportunity for self-love and healing. Your compassion and understanding towards others, even those who may have hurt you, is truly admirable. Sending love your way as you continue on this path!
Thank you exactly. I was having one narcissist man, its true all that you have explained, just like that man, but I prove them and cut them out of my life they don't appreciate those people. Thank you for the video .
Thank you for your comment! I'm glad to hear that you were able to recognize the toxic behavior and take steps to cut that person out of your life. It takes strength to make those decisions, and it's important to prioritize your well-being. I appreciate your support and hope the video continues to help others in similar situations!
I agreed. I would not have the strength to leave him.
It's completely understandable to feel that way, leaving a toxic relationship can be incredibly challenging. Recognizing the situation and your feelings is a significant first step. You deserve to prioritize your well-being, and I’m here to encourage you on your journey!
My friend thought I was giving up, but I told her no, I just won’t give in!
That's a powerful mindset to have! It’s important to stand your ground and stay true to yourself, especially after facing difficult situations. Not giving in shows strength and resilience, and it's great that you have the clarity to communicate that to your friend. Keep prioritizing your well-being, and thank you for sharing your journey!
This is very helpful with my healing. Thank you
You’re not alone. I just got out of a 26 year marriage. Only 5 days ago. Everything is going so fast but yet so slow. It’s weird to find yourself again. I feel into them through the years. And when the curtain fell I couldnot not see it anymore.
Stay strong. We are way stronger than that lost child❤
I'm so glad to hear that you found it helpful! Healing is a journey, and it's great that you're taking steps toward your well-being. Thank you for sharing, and I wish you all the best on your path to recovery!
She is a lost cause sad but true😮😢
It can be really tough to see someone stuck in that cycle. It’s sad when people can’t recognize the impact of their actions. Your empathy is clear, and I appreciate you sharing your thoughts.
Absolutely!😂his loss!😊
Absolutely! It’s empowering to realize that their loss is really an opportunity for you to grow and thrive. Keep shining and moving forward! 😊
Superb
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your positive feedback! It means a lot to me. 😊
This so true
I'm glad you found it relatable! It's important to acknowledge these experiences, and I'm here to support you on your journey. Thank you for watching!
Thank you for this reminder.💛
You're very welcome! 💛 I'm glad the message resonated with you. Remember, taking care of yourself and your well-being is the top priority. Stay strong!
This is very deep and informative
Thank you so much! I'm glad you found it deep and informative. Your support means a lot, and I appreciate you taking the time to watch!
I CONGRATULATE THEM, ❤ I NEVER MET HIM IN PERSON, SO IT MEANS NOTHING TO ME. 💯
Thank you! It's great to see you celebrating your strength and resilience. Recognizing your worth is such an important step in healing and moving forward. ❤
Thrive and love ❤️
Thank you! Your support means a lot. Wishing you all the best in your journey of thriving and spreading love! ❤️
Thank you for your video. It has helped me a lot.
You're very welcome! I'm so glad to hear that the video has helped you. Your journey is important, and I'm here to support you!
I opened my life for her, made incredible effort to bring her in my country, have 3 small children with her who she’s now using and abusing as pawns against me whilst traumatizing them at the same time. A legal battle for custody is ahead. I can truly say she has deregulated my life profoundly. My house and livelihood is at risk. At times I feel like I am dealing with the devil. I am not sure if I ever will be able to forgive
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds incredibly challenging and painful. Remember to prioritize your well-being and seek support during this difficult time. You're not alone in this struggle, and there are resources available to help you navigate through it.
We know that they wanna make it a movie even after selecting and appropriating nope not possible
You DONT have to forgive her. FORGIVE YOURSELF tho. I am sorry you are going through this. You got this.💛💪🏾😍
@@NatzTalk Thnxxx
@thebirima91 you're welcome! 💪🏾
I always know that he won’t replace me. He can easily find low hanging fruits or airheads. But to replace me it’s an impossible task for him. He is running losses in Thailand where he can buy love! “Buy”!
It sounds like you have a strong understanding of your worth, which is so important! Narcissists often seek superficial connections, but they can’t truly replace the depth and value you bring. Stay confident in yourself and your journey!
thanks for your advice
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the advice helpful. ❤
I thank God that it was only 5 months. The "worm," married while we're engaged. What a shocker😮
He discarded me without cause. But, I am truly grateful that it is OVER. What I lost: a liar, cheater, joker, a demon 👿, a Coward and a clown 🤡. It was never meant to BE. I'm Moving forward continuingly to live my BEST Life. He will Reap what he sowed🎯. God is HEALING me ✝️💪🏽💯.
It's inspiring to hear your strength and gratitude for moving on! Recognizing the toxic behaviors and choosing to focus on your healing and future is a powerful step. Wishing you all the best as you continue to live your best life! 💪🏽
@@NarcPedia Thank you so much. Your video was spot on. Great gems and a positive message.
She is pathological liar.
That’s often a common trait in narcissistic behavior, and it can be incredibly hurtful. It’s important to recognize these patterns to protect ourselves. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
"Best supply" !?
Best fool , more like.
Just turned on your video.
I will listen & see.
Wow . . . One of the best critiques I have ever heard : sensitive, empathetic,compassionate."
Thank you so very much for your laser- beam , accurate insight and heart.
She will never find one that fit " every part of her very soul " except God.I say this with the humility.
'Respect Trust Empathy Honesty Loyalty Understanding were the values I emphasized and kept in my mind . . .
and a lot of Laughter '
I believe there comes a time , at least once , where the love is put to the test ; where the love,the relationship is put on the line.
I ' ran the Distance' ,the extra mile
1st, " Love don't love nobody." (The Spinners)
2nd, You have to fight for that love..You must " Go the D I S T A N C E"
(Rocky)
I did this.I did all that I could do.
Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt and reflective comment! It’s clear you’ve put a lot of thought into your experiences and the values that truly matter in relationships. Your insights about love, trust, and the importance of fighting for what we believe in are powerful reminders for us all. I appreciate your kind words about the video, and I’m glad it resonated with you!
We only abandoned ourselves!
That's a powerful realization! It's so important to recognize that in toxic relationships, we often neglect our own needs and well-being. Acknowledging this is the first step toward self-love and healing. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
❤Thank you for providing and sharing of teachings and understanding. This episode was enlightening for me. May I ask, could you also share information about covert narcissist? Is there a difference?
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the episode enlightening. I’d be happy to share more about covert narcissists in a future video-there are definitely key differences worth exploring. Stay tuned!
Me too, I am not seeking anyone. I am not interested!
It's great to hear that you're focusing on yourself and not feeling the pressure to seek out a relationship. Prioritizing your own well-being and happiness is so important, especially after navigating difficult situations. Embracing this time for self-discovery and growth can lead to a much healthier future. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
I want to believe she will remember me and what she gave up. But she is getting married now. I doubt she remembers me. And that's a good thing.
It’s tough to let go, but it sounds like you’re finding peace in moving on. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is focus on our own growth and happiness. Trust that you’ll find someone who truly values you in the future. Stay strong!
Narcissist will fail, earlier or later. Its just a matter of time. This notion, is not popular term among ordinary people. Maybe she will find a more "competitive, and competent" narcissist, than she will take your boots. So move on, be happy life is a gift, and only one.
Deep down in their heart, such narcissistic soul don't have peace of mind.They are always on the look for new supply once they are fed up with the former one.
Hes not happy with someone else because thay can't love unconditional.i was giving that from the divine.
It's powerful that you recognize the difference between unconditional love and what others may offer. Your connection to the divine and your ability to give love freely is truly special. Wishing you continued strength and clarity on your journey!
Great video, thank you , yes I feel so deeply for him , still do love him like nobody else before in my life, ..but do not want to take him back 😢 I leave a void, he knows I am strong, but by ghosting me 3rd time now within 1 3/4 yrs., I am done and in pain
Thank you for sharing your feelings so openly. It’s completely normal to still have strong emotions for someone you love, even when you know it’s best to move on. Recognizing your strength and choosing to prioritize your well-being is so important, even if it’s painful right now. Allow yourself to grieve the relationship, and remember that healing takes time. You’re doing the right thing by putting yourself first!
@@NarcPediayes true, still very painful 6th weeek of ghosting , thank you, but I am moving on 🌈
❤ thank you 😊🌹
You are so welcome 😊
They were walking along the road, he was looking at her and smiling. How has he found happiness when I am still ruminating and in pain? I gave too much, he had nothing. I cared, supported, accommodated, fetched and carried, lent money. We fell out every week because of his disrespect and toxic comments. He always persuaded me to let him back. He was definitely grooming the next person who he went to within days. He downgraded me for someone with young kids, works part time and i hear a filthy little house. It doesn't make sense.
I'm really sorry to hear about your pain and the difficult experiences you've had. It's tough to see someone who hurt you seemingly move on so easily, but remember that healing takes time. Your worth isn't defined by how others treat you, and it's important to focus on your own journey toward happiness and self-love.
@@NarcPedia Thank you. And I know he's false, fake, lying, triangulating, abusing her behind closed doors. I was lucky to break free ❤️
Thanks for your information 🙂👍
You’re very welcome! I'm glad you found the information helpful. 🙂♥️
How does one heal from NPD? Is running away from them a solution? Does it make them better?
Healing from NPD can be complex and often requires professional help, such as therapy. While removing yourself from a toxic relationship can be a crucial step for your own well-being, it may not necessarily lead to change in the other person. Ultimately, focusing on your own healing and boundaries is key. Thank you for raising such important questions!
My ex is constantly getting new supplies.
It sounds like you’re recognizing a common behavior in narcissistic individuals, where they seek out new sources of validation and attention. This can be really difficult to witness, especially after a relationship. Remember, focusing on your own healing and self-worth is essential. Thank you for sharing your experience!
I don't find it hard to believe ...I have eyes!
The boy is screwed up bad over it.
So much so I questioned if his years of abuse was actually even narcissism because he did not run to the next one for supply. He is heartbroken and pitiful, (which also made it hard for me to leave for so long Because I felt sorry for him. I don't want to be responsible for breaking someone's heart.)
But he literally left me no other choice! For years,He just made every single day miserable- for no reason.
Instead of learning growing in loving , he always just wanted to insult me and be little me because he always thought I was cheating except I never once did (and never gave him any reason to think it either)
Although I am well aware that it is just because he has not found anyone else yet, as I am sitting here pitiful myself, because I can't even think right anymore, I know he is doing everything in his power To at least get laid.
I figure he just hasn't had any luck- but as soon as he does- THAT'S when!
Thank you for sharing your experience so openly. It’s incredibly difficult to navigate a relationship with someone who exhibits such toxic behavior, especially when you feel compassion for them despite the pain they’ve caused you. Recognizing that you deserve better is a powerful step, and it’s understandable to feel conflicted. Remember, prioritizing your own well-being is essential, and it sounds like you’re on the right path to healing. Stay strong!
Because my husband no longer wanted to be controlled by his mother,she no longer speaks or talks to my husband and it’s been 10 years with no communication. He has tried to visit her and has left notes on her door but to no availability … so for his own peace and well being he no longer expects anything from her and will no longer try… but he will forgive her if she ever decides to speak to him and say that she is sorry but we both know that will NEVER happen. So sad!
That sounds like a really difficult situation for both of you. It's understandable that your husband has chosen to prioritize his peace and well-being after trying to reach out. It's heartbreaking when family relationships become strained, but it’s commendable that he remains open to forgiveness. Wishing you both strength and healing as you navigate this!
I will tell you my story one day , which is about similar like yours , it's been 10 months on aug 2024 , of our ended relationship, where I do not have mind to consider of who discard whom. Just ended the relationship. But I will stil take her for hook up, and having boundaries.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s important to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being, even after a difficult relationship. I look forward to hearing your story when you’re ready!
My narci most likely added me to the list of women whom he claims used him and various other nasty and negative comments he's made against them.
I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with this situation. It’s common for narcissists to deflect blame and create a narrative that paints them as the victim. Recognizing this pattern can be empowering, and it’s important to focus on your own healing and well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience!
Im so free from him im a spiritual empath he couldn't deal with.7yrs.on and off but hes Old and sick now.i have no use for him anymore.
It's wonderful to hear that you feel free and empowered after such a challenging experience! Recognizing your worth as a spiritual empath is incredibly important, and it's great that you've moved on. Wishing you continued strength and peace in your journey!
😂 Wahahaha let them do cuz nodody give a damn . The only supply they need is the truth (facts) I hope they know what it is 😂
I love your perspective! It's true that the truth is powerful, and it can be freeing to let go of their drama. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and humor! 😂
My ex never talk about his past relationships. His lips were thick!
It's common for people with narcissistic traits to avoid discussing their past, as it can make them vulnerable. Recognizing these patterns is an important step towards understanding and healing. Thank you for sharing your experience!
After 10 years, he told me we were just friends...i had to leave, didnt I?
It sounds like you made a difficult but necessary decision for your well-being. Recognizing your worth and prioritizing yourself is so important, especially after such a long time. Trust your instincts and take the time you need to heal.
I understand this
I am done with men, i have no interest in anyone ever.
It's completely valid to take a break from relationships, especially after difficult experiences. Focusing on yourself and healing is so important. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey!
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Thank you for watching 🙂♥️
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Thank you! I'm glad you found it resonant. Your support means a lot! 🎯
I won't see his new supplies because i don't give a fk. Im getting a new phone, new identity, new social media accounts. I will block him and his family and friends. I am going no contact. I am getting a PFA order against him in 2 counties. If he comes near me, ill have him arrested and press many charges.
It sounds like you're taking strong and important steps to protect yourself, and that's commendable. Prioritizing your safety and well-being is crucial. Wishing you strength and peace on this new path!
Hes constantly bringing up his ex wives and girlfriends.
That’s a common tactic among narcissists to keep the focus away from the current relationship. It can be really frustrating and confusing. Remember, it’s important to prioritize your own feelings and boundaries!
He was on dating and escort sites and tried to hide it from me, but it came up on his phone and he quickly deleted it, but I seen it. He lied to me saying he never is on that site. But he is a pathological liar!
I'm sorry to hear you went through that. It's incredibly hurtful when someone we trust is dishonest. Recognizing those red flags is important for moving forward and protecting yourself.
Anyway, if you’re walking away, who gives a bleep about these monsters?
I totally agree but I also understand what this person is trying to relay. Ppl think about it even though they don't wanna be with them. Its also easier to understand the narcs inner workings.
@@NatzTalk I’m sorry, I got a little worked up because my 18 years old daughter is dating one coverted kind. I’m scared to death but I understand the need to be patient with her choice. They’re in the honeymoon stage now so if I get my way, she might for him again during the Hoover phase. I just have to trust her judgement!
Absolutely! Walking away from toxic people is a powerful choice, and it’s all about prioritizing your own well-being. Don’t let their negativity hold you back-focus on your path and keep moving forward! 💪
I dont know if this is meant to be validation for the victims . . . We stuck in those relationships because we were desperate , and hang onto an unhealthy person in the name of being an empath . . . We wanted a relationship by any means . . . Thats a problem right there . .
You raise an important point about the complexities of being in such relationships. It’s true that many of us seek validation and connection, even when it’s unhealthy. Acknowledging this is a crucial step toward healing and understanding our worth. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
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Thank you for watching the video! ❤
why where we the best? they had a lot..😞
It's a tough realization, isn't it? Often, the best partners are the ones who truly understand and support their loved ones, yet they may be taken for granted. Remember, your worth isn’t defined by someone else’s inability to see it. Healing and self-love are what matter most!
Who did the choosing?
1 Peter 2:9
Thank you for your comment! It’s interesting to bring in different perspectives. The concept of choice can be complex, especially in relationships with narcissists, where manipulation often plays a significant role. Understanding our own choices and boundaries is essential for healing and growth.
THEY DONT CARE
You're right. many narcissists often don't show empathy or care for the impact of their actions. It's important to recognize that and focus on our own healing and well-being. Thank you for your insight!
Is this Ai-generated? Like the horoscope apps? Seems way too precise and customized.
Great question! While this content is created with careful research and understanding of the topic, it's definitely not AI-generated like horoscope apps. I aim to provide insights based on real experiences and knowledge. Thank you for your interest!
@@NarcPedia Amazing. Thank you!
They can duck themselves
I understand your frustration! It can be really difficult dealing with such toxic behavior. Prioritizing our own well-being is crucial, and it's important to find ways to move forward. Thank you for sharing your feelings!