After having worked as an RN on a Dementia unit for about 11 years and listening to many people speak and "give lectures," some who know what they are talking about and many who don't, this is the wisest person I have ever heard speak on this heartbreaking disease. I have been retired for years but I still enjoy her message. Thanks 😊
How do you deal with a medical committee member (nurse) from the courts who says, my dad doesn’t need a guardian based on the 1 hr she spent with him? I’m afraid she is gonna screw me out of getting plenary guardianship. He has a court appointed guardian who looked at my dad for 5 minutes and said, he needs medical care. He has insomnia, paranoia (took his money out of a joint bank account and moved it into another checking account), getting scammed by a construction company, eats sweets and soup all day long, doesn’t take medication properly, doesn’t shower, wear the same outfit every day, short term memory issues, hasn’t turned on the tv in 3 months, gets angry with everyone’s opinion, etc. I want to put him in assisted living bc he can’t live alone and I’m in another state.
I just became a Housekeeper at a Retirement home a month ago. I like how this woman explains things to where I can understand. I may not be a Nurse or a Caregiver. But I do talk to the Residents. So it's important for me to understand what is going on for people with Dementia/Alz.
Hanna you are just as important to the resident's care as anyone else. Everyone who comes into contact with someone living with dementia can have an impact which is either positive or negative. I see so many domestic staff who are more skilled at communicating positively with the residents than the nursing staff are. Well done to you for seeking further information and thank you so much for what you do for people living with dementia.
@Lynda Anthony thank you there was a resident here that had Dementia that I really enjoyed his company. He would sit in his recliner while I cleaned his room he would tell me stories about his family and his career as a Pediatrician. He even gave me some helpful tips on how to get my picky 3 year old to eat. He unfortunately caught the Covid-19 a month ago and sadly passed away. I'll miss him dearly. 😢
God bless you for caring about the residents. Housekeepers are definitely a part of the team. You may be the only person visiting a patient other than nursing staff and you are very important to the patients. It makes things go better if you greet them and they will get to know you (and you'll know them) and maybe make some new friends in the process. A caring heart is a happy heart.
This is legendary, the character and expressions this woman uses to show other people her perspective is amazing. She has so much knowledge not only about talking to the patient but also about teaching family members bout situation & technics... This is TH-cam gold, giving someone the opportunity to share this kind of know how with the world...
I was on medication in my early 40’s that caused all the symptoms of dementia. I was like that for 3 years until I decided to stop my medication on my own. All my symptoms of dementia stopped altogether. Any medication the patient is taking should seriously be looked into as a possible cause of symptoms of dementia. Even if it’s not listed as a side effect it doesn’t mean for that person that’s not what’s happening. My dementia was caused by the antidepressant amitriptyline. Hope this helps someone out there.
@@RandomRoulett3 I did not stop the antidepressant all of a sudden. I slowly decreased the amount I was taking until I was at a very low dose and then took that low dose every other day for a week then skipped 2 days and so on and so forth. I also varied the time I took the medication so my body forgot when the dose was due. It took awhile for my short term memory to completely return but the first thing that happened is that I stopped inserting gibberish or the incorrect words in my sentences. On the medication I knew what word I wanted to say but would say a totally different word. I also started remembering peoples names that I should of known because they were my family and friends. Then I could finally read a sentence and remember the beginning…then a paragraph until finally I was reading and remembering what I read. The same for watching a movie. I use to sit in the living room and watch tv. Go into the kitchen and forget what I was just watching. Or ask my family the time over and over because I’d forget they had told me. I forgot how to drive. I got lost in a city because I kept driving in the same street forgetting I’d been there. It took less than a year for my mind to finally be back to what it was prior to the medication. I will never forget how overwhelming and frightening it was to realize I was dependent on the kindness of my family and even strangers to keep me safe and bring me home if I forgot where I was or how to do simple things I knew how to do in my sleep. So please be kind to those who are suffering from any type of dementia because it’s truly frightening when we get periods of lucidity and understand what’s happening to our mind.
I have been on amitriptyline for a very long time and I've never had any of these side effects.i tried to go off it years ago but I needed the medication for my depression. Did you go on to take another medication or was your clinical depression over?
@@nancymayberry27 I switched to Celexa (Citalopram). I have no side effects with that one. Everyone is different with side effects for meds…because mine affected my mental health in a negative way mimicking dementia I decided to mention it here.
Yes medication does act differently, from person to person. My side affects were more toward weight gain-sweets in particular. My husband had esophageal cancer 20 yrs ago and because the kept him on a acid reducing medicine he is dealing with dementia. We know it's not a inherited thing and they reduced it but he can't go without it. Such is life for now. Glad you are doing better!
@Virgen Weed 🤦♀️🤦♀️😡 I hope that one of your famiky members or even you never get this because it's not something you want to deal with this. Demonic entities my ass!! 😡
This lady is outrageous! Her clarity for explaining WHY they do WHAT they do is PERFECT! I would benefit from a personal in home session with an angel just like her, to educate my family in taking care of my grandfather, specially surrounding the shower or, eh-hem, spa time with a nail clipping manicure following... Right now we have 4 generations in the house and it's an amazing blessing. I love grandpa so much. He is the most kind, loving, appreciative man. May God bless him deeply.
This is surely a long shot, but try reading Dale Bredesen's book, The End of Alzheimer's. He's developed a draconian protocol that may help reverse symptoms in some small percentage of Alzheimer's patients. Your mom would have to change almost every aspect of her life, but you would know if its working or not in less than a year. My wife was too far gone and would not accept this, but it sounds like your mom might be willing to give it a try. You have very little to lose but a couple thousand dollars for medical oversight and perhaps a few pounds of excess fat. I see on Amazon that a fellow named Francis McNear wrote "Defeating Dementia" about his successful experience with Bredesen's protocol. It's worth the time to learn about this option...
@@aprilapril2 The dietary aspect is probably more about leaky gut than just ketosis, but diet is only one of several dozen factors that Bredesen attempts to address.
I am 58. I have had issues with recalling familiar word names my entire life, even as a child. Especially if I am very tired. "You know the thing that starts the car". I work in long term care as a nurse aide. I have used this ladies information to help my residents. I love her.
I have had depression, anxiety, PTSD, physical pain, loss of activity most of my life…and several items she has posted I have dealt with. As I’m aging, and all the above are getting worse, and then through in COVID-19 and not seeing friends for 17 month’s, now seeing my friends that had horrible diseases and have failed soo much, I’m struggling with many of those symptoms…I’m a Highly Sensitive Person also! Our brains at anytime have a difficult time dealing with all the crap going on in our lives and world…and we’re all overloaded!!! Yes deep Breathing is so important! Be well!
Good morning Dorothy. Would your physical pain prevent you from easy or moderate hiking,? There are studies showing that walking and being in nature can relieve some of these health issues. Check with your doctor first and best of luck to you.
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
She is absolutely amazing, she got me through the journey with my sweet mama who had Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease. My mom died a few months ago, but thank you Tee for so many great tips on how to care for her until Jesus took her home. 😥🙏🏻🙏🏻 Now I am dealing with my father who is 88 and starting to show the same symptoms. 😥
I have first hand knowledge of what disoriented dementia is. I fell off boxes at work and woke up in the hospital, them telling me they called my husband. I didn't have a husband. They must've meant they called my father. I was in hospital because I passed out in high school...so I thought. I had totally forgotten I graduated from high school, went to college, met a man, dated him, married him, and was living in a camper with him for nine months. When I started trying to think about it, it all began coming back to me. I've since been scared to death that the fall and the other head injuries I suffered through my life - due to fainting and slipping on ice and just being clumsy - will one day catch up with me and manifest as Alzheimer's, dementia or Parkinson's. I get why people don't fear cancer. Cancer can be fought. But once dementia gets its gnarly bony grip on the person's brain, they no longer have control. They rellinquish control to the disease, and stop fighting. Because they don't know how to fight. They don't remember what they're fighting. And family members are so exhausted, their life is on hold, and they're in limbo while waiting for their loved one to die, because they also can't fight the disease. For family members, I imagine that it's like trying to carry a limp dead-weight body through a roaring fire while also carrying a screaming and thrashing child or two. At some point they have to let go of the dead-weight, but it's impossible, when they are still living and breathing. With cancer, at least they can carry their own weight. At least they know what's happening and they can express their pain or fears. And there's always that possibility that they will be cured of cancer. Cancer offers a possible glimmer of hope, where dementia offers none.
I wish I had seen these when I was losing my Mum. As I listen to Teepa talk, I now understand my Mum's world in the last 12 months of her life far more than I did at the time
I spent 3 months with my Mom this summer. We know she will be dying soon . I got to say good bye after getting to know her again. I left home at 18, I am 57 now and she just turned 82... it was so precious this time. 😭. I saw all these things in Mom. I was expecting it too as we knew already she had Dementia for 3 years. I Live in WA State and her in Ark. So I can't visit often. I prepared myself with watching talks about Dementia before I visited. It was hard but getting harder. I'm back in WA State and call weekly or when my Sister's who are in TX tell me Mom having a bad time. I call to see what's wrong and talk with her. Change subjects or just agree with her if needed, patience is my thing, kinda like the Mom Whispers to walk her thru basic we take for granted. I know she will be back in same boat over same thing next week. But that is okay. She has admitted now that she needs to move closer to home in TX so all family can help her out. That is a big relief on my sisters who have to go back n forth. But nothing prepares you for this illness nor the others of this type. I'm sad but understanding.
This woman is incredible. I have just watched 5 of her videos on dementia and the knowledge she has and energy she exudes is amazing. I could listen to her all day. My heart goes out to you Teepa. Thank you for so much information and for sharing it with us all.❤
I watched this lady perhaps a year ago, just out of curiousity, and I was enthralled about her common sense approach to dealing with dementia. My mother died of it and pneumonia, and I guess I was just interested in finding out about it. And now, I am a caregiver for my older brother, who also has all the signs of dementia. Now instead of just being curious, I now need this in order to survive this experience and be the best caregiver I can be for my brother. Thank you so much for this; I never thought I would actually need this video and now I'm really paying attention like my life depends on it, and it probably does. This is going to help me to be more understanding of my brother as we both go through this horrible disease together. Thank you Teepa.
You might find something to relieve some stress through TH-cam physicians such as Doctor Berry. He and a hundred other doctors do these TH-cam podcasts concerning dementia and other illnesses by addressing them through diet successfully. I know I figured it would not hurt so I tried what they say and I totally reversed my diabetes 2 in little more than a month. I’m now off all medications and the healthiest I’ve been in twenty years. Good luck to you ❤
I’m a caregiver and I can say how accurate Teepa is with all this. I have clients who show these symptoms. Unfortunately, the spouses or the family members tend to really struggle with their expectations of the affected individual. They want to hold on to the idea of what their loved one “should” be able to do because it it’s the battle of acceptance of the disease and what it is doing. Denial is a powerful delusion, almost as bad as the dementia itself.
Teepa’s videos are so interesting. Her dementia knowledge is great. I am a nurse who works in aged care and Teepa has taught me a lot about understanding the people I am with everyday. What she says is so spot on. I watch her videos often and I always pick up a new skill I can use at work.
She is an utter crock of shit. She speaks Yank, she speaks almost valley. I, as a Brit with a degree in English grammar, cannot get past her poor grasp of the language.
I came across this lady a month or two ago. My mother was diagnosed with vascular dementia roughly 18/24mnths ago. This lady has given me the strength and an understanding of the disease in layman's terms and not to be so distraught with the process of the disease. I thank you so much. ❤️
This is pure gold, thank you, Teepa Snow, for your use of common sense, sense of humor and great experience, that shines through you in this presentation. Just saying it as it is, with a heart and mind in the right place. We can use more people like you, in our present time, with an enormous rise in dementia in Britain. I've learned much from your presentation, well done!
She is so knowledgeable & a great teacher of all the pieces of this horrible circumstance. My Mom had Alzheimer & Dad dementia. It was horrific. I so wished I'd heard her speak before living it, I would've handed things so differently😥
Attending a workshop/seminar given by Teepa last year was life-changing ... my mom is in mid-stage dementia and when I look back many years there were so many signs. Teepa sorted things out for us that helped us to understand and to deal with my mom in a very different, more compassionate, and helpful way.
I know nothing about this subject and fell onto it by accident (rock music videos), but love to see someone who really has a knowledge and passion about their subject. Hat doffed.
This was a clearly outstanding video. Teepa Snow is so helpful in helping caregivers to better understand and be supportive of family members with dementia.
I believe 90% of modern-day dementia is rooted in people's chronic, LONG-TERM (Years) malnutrition and lack of physical exercise. When we are young, the body and brain are very resilient and adaptable to dealing with nutritional deficiencies. Not so when we hit our late 30s onwards. It's absolutely PHENOMENAL how many required brain health dietary nutrients American's are missing out on day after day: choline, I'd say, is just one of the most important substances necessary for good brain function. The B vitamins may be lacking in most dementia patients. Monosaturated healthy fats are critical, but most people are grossly derelict in ingesting these. The very first thing I would do if I had a loved one showing questionable signs, is to get them in front of a good Nutritionist for a dietary evaluation. The other MAJOR thing that is bringing on this tidal wave of dementia in our culture is the greatly disappointing lack of physical exercise in most older Americans. Nearly every "oldster" you see nowadays is either pathetically mouth breathing, barely breathing, and/or just panting with only the top portion of their lungs--and more often than not --are hooked up to an automatic breathing apparatus at night. Terrible for the maintenance of strong, healthy lungs! The point is, we need to get really good amounts of oxygen into our lungs all the time. Daily Physical exercise certainly helps maintain that steady flow of brain--powering oxygen!😃
@@walterscott2286 statins are also associated with dementia. So many people are on statins today. The brain is made from cholesterol. Statins lower cholesterol. We need to stop being afraid of cholesterol. Statins make lots of money for Big Pharma but don't do much to improve heart health and are devastating for brain health.
@@lauriehapner7315 Yes indeed, Laurie. Exactly. Anti-depressant drugs also significantly up the chances of eventual dementia. I have a 61 year old sister who is "off the charts" likely to lose her brain function.(Has definite earmarks of already.) She checks every box for increased likelihood of becoming demented: 1. Morbidly obese through most of her 40s and 50s. 2. Chronic depression throughout her adult life. 3. Anti-depressant user for decades. 4. Bipolar status 5. Statin user (just recently at her dumb Doctor's urging) 6. No physical exercise whatsoever. 7. Almost no social involvement or support 8. Severe insomnia, sleep deprivation for many years now (average of maybe 3 hours sleep per night) 9. Eats typical American diet (a.k.a. "sad" Standard American Diet) 10. Etc, etc. At least several things on the list here have INDIVIDUALLY been shown in medical studies to increase the likelihood of dementia by around 60%! Prominent brain Doctor, Dr. Daniel Amen (of the famous brain health clinics) has said that he predicts a "tidal wave" of dementia will hit America in less than 20 years--which essentially, in numbers afflicted, would be about one out of every three American Seniors. Thanks in large part to the idiotic Doctors who keep pushing these damn crappy medications on everyone!!
I am training with Teepa ,there are so much I have learned very excited to share with those that need to have the right tools .to help those that have this mind change
Just amazing the way everything is clarified. I wish I had known this when my Mum was ill. It has taken years to begin regaining my own equilibrium. The stress, the cortisol and weight gain, and blood pressure. No one told me! The funny side helps... Laughter is the best medicine. Thank you so much. 🌟😘💙👏
[ thank you. I’m now a care partner for my 55 year old husband. Thankfully I had experience with my grandmother who suffered with Parkinson’s and my experience working with special needs students. Teepa is a blessing to me. Mahalo. ]
The best explanation i've seen, really helps you step in their shoes to see what they really go through. My grandma gets frustrated with my grandpa because he doesnt think things through and she doesnt understand how to be patient with him. I probably need to show her this video.
I just stumbled on to this video and I'm so glad I did! my Dad lost his Mom and sister to alzheimer's/dementia and I'm seeing the same symptoms with him. his primary care saw it almost 2 years ago and never reacted to it or did anything to help slow the progression. he had an in-home visit last year with another doctor and she said something to me about it but no one else. so I've been guessing as I've watched the progression. I am his caregiver and I'm doing the best I can but it's so hard watching him fade. when I was growing up, he was one of my biggest heroes and it's hard to see your hero fall! thank you for confirming what I think I already knew and everyone else has been afraid to admit to me..
*DEMENTIA CURE:* Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact Homeocure Worldwide
*This so sad, but anyone who has looked after a loved one with dementia will know how hard it is physically and mentally. My heart goes out to anyone/everyone affected by Alzheimer's/Dementia. A huge shout out to any caregiver doing this alone! I feel your journey. I feel your pain because I've been there. My mom was also diagnosed in her 60s. Feeling absolutely shattered, heartbroken, and drained, working with different physicians across the country with little or no improvement. I was exhausted and overwhelmed to look any further. Crying a lot through frustration, anger, and despair, But today with the help of Homeocure Worldwide Natural Medicine, my mother is completely healthy and well again. I think we only need more support and sunlight to overcome this dreadful disease. Search for support regardless and don't stop until you get it. With Homeocure Worldwide treatment, there is hope, don't give up! Check out this blog for useful info️; **homeocureworldwide.blogspot.com**, Be it any condition, natural treatment and a healthy diet is a road to fast recovery.*
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
@@carryjgful hi Sarah how are you doing I hope you are good am Ben from Austin Texas am glad you responded to me I don't understand how you talk I really like you so much let's get to know each other very
Excellent, finally some help that I need. Taking care of my husband, struggling, doing the best I can, reading everything that can aid me in his care. Finally some relief with Teepa.
She is spot on! Wow, do I need this info right now...my mom is driving me crazy! I can feel the stress doing bad things to my own sense of wellbeing and confidence.
Seeing this made me realize that my mom had dementia but she never was diagnosed as she was a very stubborn woman who wouldn't go to a doctor. She had all these signs and got very mean at the end. I wish we had known this before as we could have done better for her. 😥
My mom had severe depression on and off for years; her depression masked the start of her dementia. By the time I took her to the neurologist, she was diagnosed as being in mid stage dementia. But at least it explained all the difficulties communicating we had been having. I found Teepa Snow online and was helped tremendously by what she shared. Mom passed almost 6 years ago now; and I am blessed that I was able to provide care in my home for her until the last few years of her life; when I was able to set up help for her in an excellent memory care cottage, and then an excellent Nursing home after a medical episode. Near the end of her life, every five minutes was a brand new day, and calm and patitence was what was needed. PRAYERS for all caregivers and their loved ones as they navigate their way through this difficult stage of life.
This is really great. My sister is suffering with dementia and I was concerned about her posture, memory, and other things. This lady right here answered more questions than the staff in memory care unit where she is. Thank you so much!
I agree totally. My Mom was diagnosed with Advanced Dementia over 7 years ago. I have nearly had a nervous breakdown dealing with her and working full time. I so wish I’d found Tee years sooner, it would have saved us so much grief, pain, & suffering. Mom is now in a senior care facility and after 12 months I am coming out of my fog and feel like my life may be salvageable and I am able to deal with Mom without coming home and curling up in a fetal position myself. It has been devastating for me watching her rapid decline the last year. Having the knowledge and tools to deal with Mom without having a meltdown myself is such a tremendous relief for us BOTH! Thank you for your dedication and teachings, I am recommending you to everyone I know who is dealing with someone with dementia. God Bless You! 🌷
I'll never forget the first time I heard Teepa Snow speak. It was in 2010 and my mom was in the late stages of Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia. It changed my life, and how I cared for my mom. It also showed me that more families need this education! This education empowers us to understand the disease and gives us the means and skills to care for our loved ones living with dementia. It also shows us that being a dementia care partner does NOT have to be such a doom and gloom, frustrating and stressful job. I learned a little too late with my mom, but my dad now has Alzheimer's and Teepa's training has helped to make this journey with him less heartbreaking and emotional. Yes, I'm slowly loosing my dad but I'm not dwelling on it, or in denial trying to fix it...I'm just enjoying our time together and making the very best of it!!
Hi, I'm from Poland. So similar story as yours. I left my nice life in London to take care for my dad in Poland. He's late stage of Alzheimer and vascular dementia. He gives me sooo hard time. He fights Always and for silly daily activities. I really hate him quite often. I feel helpless. I even can't recognize myself: I was happy 37 yo well educated feminist, doing interesting things, travilling and having good life. Now I feel like 138 years old, ugly, away from friends, unhappy, I can't plan my life again, exhausted, I'm kind of agressive sometimes. I can't/don't want to do this anymore. However there is little hope to me to feel little better.
*DEMENTIA CURE:* Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact drmakusm@gmail.com
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
It is so frustrating for the people trying to deal with this. My Dad has it and he becomes defensive and denies everything. Judgement is totally compromised. Continues to blame everyone else or just doesn't remember anything or only remembers negative things. It's extremely hard. My Grandmother died from it so it's a horrible illness.
My mom is the same way. She refuses to be tested for dementia and says that there’s nothings nothing wrong with her. It is frustrating to the nth degree. I also watch Dementia Care blazers which has helped me tremendously in giving care to my mom. I wish you the very best. Know that you’re not alone though it seems that way. Take care of yourself as best as you can. And yes, taking deep belly breaths does help.
My MiL knows her own age-brags about how old she is-but keeps telling her daughter "Well, when you grow up..." So we don't know if she's calling her immature or really thinks her 60+ year old daughter is a kid.
This is one of the best explanations of dementia I have ever seen and I've been working with seniors for 10 years. Thank you !!!Thank you!!! Love your humor too
i actually was able to learn from this woman it was amazing because i worked with some VERY hard to deal with patients and i was so tired of people coming in to tell us how we should handle them and at the time i had over 20 yrs with dementia experience and I had never seen or dealt with such volatile angry dementia patients and I needed someone to give us another way and to understand that we were doing our best and she did just that thank you so much Miss Snow some of your tricks really work and then others went straight down the shitter
th-cam.com/video/pXLbdpu1CcU/w-d-xo.html Another wonderful lady, and she speaks of patients reflecting the attitude of the caregiver and how it can be changed.
*This so sad, but anyone who has looked after a loved one with dementia will know how hard it is physically and mentally. My heart goes out to anyone/everyone affected by Alzheimer's/Dementia. A huge shout out to any caregiver doing this alone! I feel your journey. I feel your pain because I've been there. My mom was also diagnosed in her 60s. Feeling absolutely shattered, heartbroken, and drained, working with different physicians across the country with little or no improvement. I was exhausted and overwhelmed to look any further. Crying a lot through frustration, anger, and despair, But today with the help of Homeocure Worldwide Natural Medicine, my mother is completely healthy and well again. I think we only need more support and sunlight to overcome this dreadful disease. Search for support regardless and don't stop until you get it. With Homeocure Worldwide treatment, there is hope, don't give up! Check out this blog for useful info️; **homeocureworldwide.blogspot.com**, Be it any condition, natural treatment and a healthy diet is a road to fast recovery.*
oh my goodness! Thank you so much! I feel like I'm all alone taking care of my dad. This may help my husband understand what Dad is going through. I'm fighting to keep him home with us but I feel like I'm losing. I'm failing.
Learning to just go with the delusions and comfort my mom was the main thing that helped me when I was caring for my mother. She was very very poor growing up and she would beg me to let her mother come live with us "She can have my food"...her mother has been dead for a long time....but she was stuck in the times of her youth when she was scared her mother was going to starve to death. It's heartbreaking to know she went through that not once but twice (once in real life, and again with the dementia). I would just reassure her, nightly, that her Mom was 'at Aunt Sophie's house out in Kansas, remember? It's late and she's probably asleep, do you want to call Aunt Sophie to check on her?" and that reassured her that her mom was ok. Another thing was she was always wondering if 'the baby' was ok. And I'd say "She's in there in the bedroom sleeping" and she was fine with that. Now she's been gone for 6 years and I am so scared I am already showing signs...these videos are reassuring.
15:40 "it could be depression." That's true for me. These stress reactions are exactly what have been keeping my life small, dark, and uninitiated for years. I hope that I will breathe when I remember to. I remember that yoga one a week helped too, at the height of my work stress.
Im sorry to hear this. Can i suggest that you and the people you love make a book with pictures, with the people labelled with their relationship to you. Eg this is a Picture of my husband Bill that I took in Canada in front of Niagra Falls. It was my birthday, July the fifth. Write a page for each topic. Read it every day, it can really help. I made one for my mum and it helped her for years, she lived until she was 88, and in the last few years it helped her carers understand her to talk about things she enjoyed, what she was good at etc
DEMENTIA CURE: Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact Homeocure Worldwide
Thank you for all your good information. I feel very isolated And have been disappointed in the lack of support for spouse caregivers. This is very helpful.
When she mentioned how the Alzheimer's patient forgets a conversation he has had even when the caregiver reminds him of it, I had to laugh. My husband had Alzheimer's and as the disease progressed his doctor told him it was not safe for him to drive any longer. He of course did not remember that the doctor had told him that and he could think of no reason why he should not be driving so he would just go get his keys and jump in the car. Before disaster struck I had to get the car keys and keep them hidden from him, which of course did not make him happy. One day we had our regular "the doctor told you not to drive" "No he didn't" "yes he did" conversation and the next time I saw his doctor (I'll call him Dr. Jones) I asked him if he would write a little short note stating that Mr. Anderson "is not to drive". I took that note home and put it in a safe place and the next time we started the "I am TOO allowed to drive" with something of a flourish I pulled the note out and presented it to him. It said "Mr. Anderson is not to drive any more" and that was all it said. My husband studied it for a while and then he said, "Well huh. I think I'll write a note that says 'Dr. Jones is not to practice medicine any more' ". Happily, he continued to know who I was and he could carry on a conversation with me and he still had his sense of humor right up to the day he died.
My grandmother would look at the note and believe it was a forgery created by her son in order to get the money from the sale of her car (and guess how far you'd get if you showed her the funds had been deposited in her bank account... nowhere!).
You are lucky. My grandmother turned into a mute doll. She didn't know me at all, or her husband or six daughters. NOTHING. I miss her to this day, and can tell you stories about us but not about what I did yesterday. I'm starting to lose words, get lost while driving ... it is so frightening because I think I 'm turning into her. At the end...a mute doll.
Teepa, your videos are so validating. My mother is living with us, and was an incredibly brilliant woman in her day. She probably hid the early dementia for years. It wasn't until I had to take over her finances and saw that she had given literally thousands of dollars to scam charities that I realized how long she had been sick. Now she can no longer live by herself, but forgets why or how she came to live with us. This explains why she always sounds so angry with me, when I do everything for her and with her best interest in mind. Thank you! I will be watching all your videos.
My Mother is 98, and has what I would call bouts of these type actions ! The other day, she began to speak gibberish ! Somehow with God's help, I was able to get her back ! It is extremely difficult to experience this type of behavior in someone that has always been a rock ! I'm unfortunately learning this myself, but cherish every word, as the next day, may bring an end, to communications with your Loved ones ! God Bless and keep us all !
OMG! Thank you for putting it into REAL examples people can understand. It's super hard to differentiate between normal aging & dementia. Thanks for this humorous video :)
Wonderful video. My dad began exhibiting these many signs years ago and we brushed them off as just, "Oh, Grandpa Joe..." thinking it was his own weirdness. He is now in an awful care facility (and this is #3 for him) after a bad fall/hip break/big surgery. My sister thankfully takes after my mom but I take after Dad and recognize early signs of Alzheimer's in me. For me...no worries about heart disease, cancers or worrying early death causes like that. I do NOT want to end up with a 'healthy' body and then have to deal with the long, slow death of dimentia/Alzheimers.
Hi there. My dad's been on a steep decline into dementia for the past year, his mom had it. Like you, I'm terrified that my sister or I will have it when we're older. The research regarding this aspect of the illness is all still very much in its infancy, but you might want to know that it's being referred to as Type 3 Diabetes amongst people who are looking into the standard North American high-sugar diet's effects on memory and cognition. I've been drastically cutting back on my sugar consumption and find that it helps my daily memory and mental clarity. Do some research of your own, of course. I hope you are (and stay) well.
@@LeahLaushway I lucked out and came across dr Berry on TH-cam a couple of years ago totally reversed my diabetes 2 and several other illnesses. At 80 I am now in the best health of my life. The avoidance of dementia is also addressed by him and other doctors in his podcasts. I’m not alone with my remarkable results. So many doctors are now involved in dietary cures through sugar/carb elimination that it seems to be acceptable for anyone. And it makes sense.
She so described my mom and all the trials and tribulations I went thought with being her caregiver. I'd do it all over again but it's hard to watch someone you love be there and yet not.
My greatest challenge in deLing with my husbands Dementia is lack of support from the doctors. While both the and and the specialist agree with me that he has Dementia, neither take it any further other than doing the “remember these words” test which he aces. Until I found Teepa Snow I felt frustratingly alone! And Teepa’s breathing exercize has saved my life!
There is a book entitled, The 36 Hour Day. It was given to me by a man whose wife had the mean/ nasty/screaming spectrum of behavior. It is filled with explanations, suggestions and strategies. You do NOT have to read it in order like a novel. You can jump around. I found the pages on "Taking a shower" helpful. Also, I have learned YOU have to go into their reality. For example, telling them their spouse died years ago when they think the spouse will be home from work any minute will be a losing battle. Instead, talk about fond memories. Calming and then you can try caring on with whatever task. Just thought I would share. The 36 Hour Day was recommended by a specialist in Dementia. Also, there are different types of dementia; therefore, proper diagnosis is key. If these doctors are dismissive, find another who SPECIALIZES in dementia.
I enjoy reflecting Teepa's approach to understand the behaviors that challenges one's self-esteem and how to find humor rather than getting irritable. Awesome and thanks. j
I went through every one of these with my mom and I didn’t have a clue about Dementia! We new something we going on but it took 3 doctors trying. Then I took her to a doctor appointment with me and my doctor just asked mom to draw a clock? Mom is an artist and I was in shock she couldn’t draw a circle it blew me away that was five years ago! I am so just like how Teepa is talking about! I failed my mom! I couldn’t do it! My heart broke and I am with her as much as I can. I THANK GOD FOR ALL OF YOU AMAZING PEOPLE CARING FOR PEOPLE WITH DEMENTIA 🙏🥰.
Been there, done that with my mother. It's so stressful to deal with. The least stressful part was listening to her same stories over and over again - that just got to be sorta humorous. Thank God I had my brother and sister to help me, as well as a wonderful home health aide.
I wanna be like you. I have always been fascinated by Dementia. In few days time- I will be starting my role as Dementia Clinical Nurse Specialist...God, bless me with wisdom and knowledge like this woman. I really wanna make a difference ...
Yep, after my Dad dying of Alzheimer's (age 60-67) and now seeing my Mom have early stage demintia, I'd welcome Cancer instead of Alzheimer's or demintia. I pray The Lord doesn't let my children go through this!
I agree. You can't understand that concept until you've experienced having a parent with Dementia. I lost my dad to a heart attack and I'd rather die of that than get Dementia like my mum did.
Ive been through ALL teepas stuff... that i can find anyway...she is amazing... my dad is better because of it, if i could only get my mom to buckle down and listen to a bunch! We would be in good shape! A big thank you to the dementia whisperer!!
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
Excellent description. Living it right now with my sister . The meaness is the worst, and the cursing, the digging into just plain being wrong but refusing to admit and accept the real help that is needed: the lies and the deceit. It makes you wonder: if a person is losing reason how are they able to sneak and lie so much? Awful terrifying disease.
As with childhood, innocence / ignorance are considered true bliss, 'cause no use blaming them for the damages even if they might be wilfully resorting to the ignorance! Guess thats why they call old age weirdly a second childhood. 🍷
I watched a lot of Teepa Snow Videos I care for my Brother he 76 he has Vascular Dementia he can be real mean to me but I understand it's the Dementia because my brother was always a humble nice quiet man.I liked that you talked about the mess with number 2 because I watched a lot of person who never talked about that.Thank You So Much Teepa Snow ❤
This is amazing. Such an eye opener to my family. We don't know if were coming or going some days. We definitely want to do what's best and enjoy the time we have left. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us.
After having worked as an RN on a Dementia unit for about 11 years and listening to many people speak and "give lectures," some who know what they are talking about and many who don't, this is the wisest person I have ever heard speak on this heartbreaking disease. I have been retired for years but I still enjoy her message. Thanks 😊
Me too, Teepa could help us here in Australia..
Me too, and in your expert opinion do you think Joe Biden has dementia?
Ty
How do you deal with a medical committee member (nurse) from the courts who says, my dad doesn’t need a guardian based on the 1 hr she spent with him? I’m afraid she is gonna screw me out of getting plenary guardianship. He has a court appointed guardian who looked at my dad for 5 minutes and said, he needs medical care. He has insomnia, paranoia (took his money out of a joint bank account and moved it into another checking account), getting scammed by a construction company, eats sweets and soup all day long, doesn’t take medication properly, doesn’t shower, wear the same outfit every day, short term memory issues, hasn’t turned on the tv in 3 months, gets angry with everyone’s opinion, etc. I want to put him in assisted living bc he can’t live alone and I’m in another state.
In your opinion you think the president of USA shows signs of dementia?
Shortly after my mom went into care for dementia, I was invited to a talk presented by this lady. Very impressive
I just became a Housekeeper at a Retirement home a month ago. I like how this woman explains things to where I can understand. I may not be a Nurse or a Caregiver. But I do talk to the Residents. So it's important for me to understand what is going on for people with Dementia/Alz.
Hanna you are just as important to the resident's care as anyone else. Everyone who comes into contact with someone living with dementia can have an impact which is either positive or negative. I see so many domestic staff who are more skilled at communicating positively with the residents than the nursing staff are. Well done to you for seeking further information and thank you so much for what you do for people living with dementia.
Well, you can certainly be a huge help and encouragement to the patients you will see each day. They are blessed to have you.
Bless you.
@Lynda Anthony thank you there was a resident here that had Dementia that I really enjoyed his company. He would sit in his recliner while I cleaned his room he would tell me stories about his family and his career as a Pediatrician. He even gave me some helpful tips on how to get my picky 3 year old to eat. He unfortunately caught the Covid-19 a month ago and sadly passed away. I'll miss him dearly. 😢
God bless you for caring about the residents. Housekeepers are definitely a part of the team. You may be the only person visiting a patient other than nursing staff and you are very important to the patients. It makes things go better if you greet them and they will get to know you (and you'll know them) and maybe make some new friends in the process. A caring heart is a happy heart.
This is legendary, the character and expressions this woman uses to show other people her perspective is amazing. She has so much knowledge not only about talking to the patient but also about teaching family members bout situation & technics...
This is TH-cam gold, giving someone the opportunity to share this kind of know how with the world...
I was on medication in my early 40’s that caused all the symptoms of dementia. I was like that for 3 years until I decided to stop my medication on my own. All my symptoms of dementia stopped altogether. Any medication the patient is taking should seriously be looked into as a possible cause of symptoms of dementia. Even if it’s not listed as a side effect it doesn’t mean for that person that’s not what’s happening. My dementia was caused by the antidepressant amitriptyline. Hope this helps someone out there.
L)lll]) OP ppp[]⁹
M L p
@@RandomRoulett3
I did not stop the antidepressant all of a sudden. I slowly decreased the amount I was taking until I was at a very low dose and then took that low dose every other day for a week then skipped 2 days and so on and so forth. I also varied the time I took the medication so my body forgot when the dose was due.
It took awhile for my short term memory to completely return but the first thing that happened is that I stopped inserting gibberish or the incorrect words in my sentences. On the medication I knew what word I wanted to say but would say a totally different word. I also started remembering peoples names that I should of known because they were my family and friends. Then I could finally read a sentence and remember the beginning…then a paragraph until finally I was reading and remembering what I read. The same for watching a movie. I use to sit in the living room and watch tv. Go into the kitchen and forget what I was just watching. Or ask my family the time over and over because I’d forget they had told me. I forgot how to drive. I got lost in a city because I kept driving in the same street forgetting I’d been there.
It took less than a year for my mind to finally be back to what it was prior to the medication. I will never forget how overwhelming and frightening it was to realize I was dependent on the kindness of my family and even strangers to keep me safe and bring me home if I forgot where I was or how to do simple things I knew how to do in my sleep.
So please be kind to those who are suffering from any type of dementia because it’s truly frightening when we get periods of lucidity and understand what’s happening to our mind.
I have been on amitriptyline for a very long time and I've never had any of these side effects.i tried to go off it years ago but I needed the medication for my depression. Did you go on to take another medication or was your clinical depression over?
@@nancymayberry27
I switched to Celexa (Citalopram). I have no side effects with that one. Everyone is different with side effects for meds…because mine affected my mental health in a negative way mimicking dementia I decided to mention it here.
Yes medication does act differently, from person to person. My side affects were more toward weight gain-sweets in particular. My husband had esophageal cancer 20 yrs ago and because the kept him on a acid reducing medicine he is dealing with dementia. We know it's not a inherited thing and they reduced it but he can't go without it. Such is life for now. Glad you are doing better!
This woman deserves huge official recognition
@Virgen Weed 🤦♀️🤦♀️😡 I hope that one of your famiky members or even you never get this because it's not something you want to deal with this. Demonic entities my ass!! 😡
Hardest job but most important and meaningful
Hardest
Absolutely!!!
She has a phd
I was trained under this woman!! She’s fantastic 🎉
In your opinion you think the president of USA shows signs of dementia?
This lady is outrageous! Her clarity for explaining WHY they do WHAT they do is PERFECT! I would benefit from a personal in home session with an angel just like her, to educate my family in taking care of my grandfather, specially surrounding the shower or, eh-hem, spa time with a nail clipping manicure following... Right now we have 4 generations in the house and it's an amazing blessing. I love grandpa so much. He is the most kind, loving, appreciative man. May God bless him deeply.
Wow, she is good! The way she acts and gives examples is extremely educational!
Hanne Lykke Poulsen I know. I thought I was listening to my parent. She was spot on.
Hanne Lykke Poulsen She is the best! Thank you for watching!
+Hanne Lykke Poulsen No she's not, she's a brain washer.
Are you aware of geoengineering?
Aware of what statins do to people brains? Look it up.
then why at 42 has this been happening to me often since I was 40?
New to this information, may I please have some sources on Teepa's connection to geoengineering? Thank you.
This should be shared with as many people with elderly parents as much as possible
Not just parents. In our case it is my husband who has dementia.
@@joanapthorp5592 Mine too.I'm totally lost.
My mom is in her late 50's, having rapid early onset dimentia the past two months. She finally said she is willing to get help. it is heartbreaking.
Agnes L My dad had dementia. I think the worst thing I had to do, in his view, was take his car keys away.
This is surely a long shot, but try reading Dale Bredesen's book, The End of Alzheimer's. He's developed a draconian protocol that may help reverse symptoms in some small percentage of Alzheimer's patients. Your mom would have to change almost every aspect of her life, but you would know if its working or not in less than a year. My wife was too far gone and would not accept this, but it sounds like your mom might be willing to give it a try. You have very little to lose but a couple thousand dollars for medical oversight and perhaps a few pounds of excess fat. I see on Amazon that a fellow named Francis McNear wrote "Defeating Dementia" about his successful experience with Bredesen's protocol. It's worth the time to learn about this option...
@@ralphwaters8905 is this about keto diet?
@@aprilapril2 The dietary aspect is probably more about leaky gut than just ketosis, but diet is only one of several dozen factors that Bredesen attempts to address.
Might also be Lyme disease or hormone imbalances.
This woman is a blessing in the world.
I am 58.
I have had issues with recalling familiar word names my entire life, even as a child.
Especially if I am very tired.
"You know the thing that starts the car".
I work in long term care as a nurse aide.
I have used this ladies information to help my residents.
I love her.
I have had depression, anxiety, PTSD, physical pain, loss of activity most of my life…and several items she has posted I have dealt with. As I’m aging, and all the above are getting worse, and then through in COVID-19 and not seeing friends for 17 month’s, now seeing my friends that had horrible diseases and have failed soo much, I’m struggling with many of those symptoms…I’m a Highly Sensitive Person also! Our brains at anytime have a difficult time dealing with all the crap going on in our lives and world…and we’re all overloaded!!! Yes deep Breathing is so important! Be well!
Good morning Dorothy. Would your physical pain prevent you from easy or moderate hiking,? There are studies showing that walking and being in nature can relieve some of these health issues. Check with your doctor first and best of luck to you.
Wow. This woman is a fabulous communicator. I could see every one of those people she was imitating, and I understand each point she was making.
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
She is helping me to understand my Mom. Thank you.
She is absolutely amazing, she got me through the journey with my sweet mama who had Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease. My mom died a few months ago, but thank you Tee for so many great tips on how to care for her until Jesus took her home. 😥🙏🏻🙏🏻 Now I am dealing with my father who is 88 and starting to show the same symptoms. 😥
Life can be rough. What ever happened to just going to sleep in your mid 70s and not waking up in the morning.?
I have first hand knowledge of what disoriented dementia is. I fell off boxes at work and woke up in the hospital, them telling me they called my husband. I didn't have a husband. They must've meant they called my father. I was in hospital because I passed out in high school...so I thought.
I had totally forgotten I graduated from high school, went to college, met a man, dated him, married him, and was living in a camper with him for nine months. When I started trying to think about it, it all began coming back to me.
I've since been scared to death that the fall and the other head injuries I suffered through my life - due to fainting and slipping on ice and just being clumsy - will one day catch up with me and manifest as Alzheimer's, dementia or Parkinson's.
I get why people don't fear cancer. Cancer can be fought. But once dementia gets its gnarly bony grip on the person's brain, they no longer have control. They rellinquish control to the disease, and stop fighting. Because they don't know how to fight. They don't remember what they're fighting. And family members are so exhausted, their life is on hold, and they're in limbo while waiting for their loved one to die, because they also can't fight the disease.
For family members, I imagine that it's like trying to carry a limp dead-weight body through a roaring fire while also carrying a screaming and thrashing child or two. At some point they have to let go of the dead-weight, but it's impossible, when they are still living and breathing. With cancer, at least they can carry their own weight. At least they know what's happening and they can express their pain or fears. And there's always that possibility that they will be cured of cancer. Cancer offers a possible glimmer of hope, where dementia offers none.
Doom death and despair. We get it.
💔
I wish I had seen these when I was losing my Mum. As I listen to Teepa talk, I now understand my Mum's world in the last 12 months of her life far more than I did at the time
I spent 3 months with my Mom this summer. We know she will be dying soon . I got to say good bye after getting to know her again. I left home at 18, I am 57 now and she just turned 82... it was so precious this time. 😭. I saw all these things in Mom. I was expecting it too as we knew already she had Dementia for 3 years. I Live in WA State and her in Ark. So I can't visit often. I prepared myself with watching talks about Dementia before I visited. It was hard but getting harder. I'm back in WA State and call weekly or when my Sister's who are in TX tell me Mom having a bad time. I call to see what's wrong and talk with her. Change subjects or just agree with her if needed, patience is my thing, kinda like the Mom Whispers to walk her thru basic we take for granted. I know she will be back in same boat over same thing next week. But that is okay. She has admitted now that she needs to move closer to home in TX so all family can help her out. That is a big relief on my sisters who have to go back n forth. But nothing prepares you for this illness nor the others of this type. I'm sad but understanding.
@@moirai1964 hope all is well for you and your family
This woman is incredible. I have just watched 5 of her videos on dementia and the knowledge she has and energy she exudes is amazing. I could listen to her all day. My heart goes out to you Teepa. Thank you for so much information and for sharing it with us all.❤
I watched this lady perhaps a year ago, just out of curiousity, and I was enthralled about her common sense approach to dealing with dementia. My mother died of it and pneumonia, and I guess I was just interested in finding out about it. And now, I am a caregiver for my older brother, who also has all the signs of dementia. Now instead of just being curious, I now need this in order to survive this experience and be the best caregiver I can be for my brother. Thank you so much for this; I never thought I would actually need this video and now I'm really paying attention like my life depends on it, and it probably does. This is going to help me to be more understanding of my brother as we both go through this horrible disease together. Thank you Teepa.
You might find something to relieve some stress through TH-cam physicians such as Doctor Berry. He and a hundred other doctors do these TH-cam podcasts concerning dementia and other illnesses by addressing them through diet successfully. I know I figured it would not hurt so I tried what they say and I totally reversed my diabetes 2 in little more than a month. I’m now off all medications and the healthiest I’ve been in twenty years.
Good luck to you ❤
Maybe not your life , but your brothers life may well be a lot better from the knowledge you have gained. Thanks for looking after him.
I’m a caregiver and I can say how accurate Teepa is with all this. I have clients who show these symptoms. Unfortunately, the spouses or the family members tend to really struggle with their expectations of the affected individual. They want to hold on to the idea of what their loved one “should” be able to do because it it’s the battle of acceptance of the disease and what it is doing. Denial is a powerful delusion, almost as bad as the dementia itself.
In your opinion you think the president of USA shows signs of dementia?
Teepa’s videos are so interesting. Her dementia knowledge is great.
I am a nurse who works in aged care and Teepa has taught me a lot about understanding the people I am with everyday. What she says is so spot on.
I watch her videos often and I always pick up a new skill I can use at work.
She is an utter crock of shit. She speaks Yank, she speaks almost valley. I, as a Brit with a degree in English grammar, cannot get past her poor grasp of the language.
In your opinion you think the president of USA shows signs of dementia?
I came across this lady a month or two ago. My mother was diagnosed with vascular dementia roughly 18/24mnths ago. This lady has given me the strength and an understanding of the disease in layman's terms and not to be so distraught with the process of the disease. I thank you so much. ❤️
This is pure gold, thank you, Teepa Snow, for your use of common sense, sense of humor and great experience, that shines through you in this presentation. Just saying it as it is, with a heart and mind in the right place. We can use more people like you, in our present time, with an enormous rise in dementia in Britain. I've learned much from your presentation, well done!
This is amazing! I wish I had all of this info while I was caregiving. I tried to study dementia on my own but she really teaches it well. Thank you!
She is so knowledgeable & a great teacher of all the pieces of this horrible circumstance. My Mom had Alzheimer & Dad dementia. It was horrific. I so wished I'd heard her speak before living it, I would've handed things so differently😥
I'm a personal care assistant and I've now had 2 clients with dementia...these videos are sooo helpful and needed!!! Thankyou!!
Attending a workshop/seminar given by Teepa last year was life-changing ... my mom is in mid-stage dementia and when I look back many years there were so many signs. Teepa sorted things out for us that helped us to understand and to deal with my mom in a very different, more compassionate, and helpful way.
If I may. What did you do? Wht can I do t get him to even think about it? Tanks
Teepa Snow really hits the nail on the head! Her examples are spot on.
I know nothing about this subject and fell onto it by accident (rock music videos), but love to see someone who really has a knowledge and passion about their subject. Hat doffed.
everyone should watch this !!!
Eileen Eatwell AMEN
Eileen Eatwell Thank you!
@@seniorhelpers 1
Wow never even looked for this. Fell on it. She is an amazing communicator! Teacher! Watched all her videos. Feel taught up!
This was a clearly outstanding video. Teepa Snow is so helpful in helping caregivers to better understand and be supportive of family members with dementia.
Teepa is a wonderful educator .Ive learn't so much. Humour helps too. Thankyou Teepa.
I believe 90% of modern-day dementia is rooted in people's chronic, LONG-TERM (Years) malnutrition and lack of physical exercise. When we are young, the body and brain are very resilient and adaptable to dealing with nutritional deficiencies. Not so when we hit our late 30s onwards. It's absolutely PHENOMENAL how many required brain health dietary nutrients American's are missing out on day after day: choline, I'd say, is just one of the most important substances necessary for good brain function. The B vitamins may be lacking in most dementia patients. Monosaturated healthy fats are critical, but most people are grossly derelict in ingesting these. The very first thing I would do if I had a loved one showing questionable signs, is to get them in front of a good Nutritionist for a dietary evaluation. The other MAJOR thing that is bringing on this tidal wave of dementia in our culture is the greatly disappointing lack of physical exercise in most older Americans. Nearly every "oldster" you see nowadays is either pathetically mouth breathing, barely breathing, and/or just panting with only the top portion of their lungs--and more often than not --are hooked up to an automatic breathing apparatus at night. Terrible for the maintenance of strong, healthy lungs! The point is, we need to get really good amounts of oxygen into our lungs all the time. Daily Physical exercise certainly helps maintain that steady flow of brain--powering oxygen!😃
@@walterscott2286 statins are also associated with dementia. So many people are on statins today. The brain is made from cholesterol. Statins lower cholesterol. We need to stop being afraid of cholesterol. Statins make lots of money for Big Pharma but don't do much to improve heart health and are devastating for brain health.
@@lauriehapner7315 Yes indeed, Laurie. Exactly. Anti-depressant drugs also significantly up the chances of eventual dementia.
I have a 61 year old sister who is "off the charts" likely to lose her brain function.(Has definite earmarks of already.) She checks every box for increased likelihood of becoming demented:
1. Morbidly obese through most of her 40s and 50s.
2. Chronic depression throughout her adult life.
3. Anti-depressant user for decades.
4. Bipolar status
5. Statin user (just recently at her dumb Doctor's urging)
6. No physical exercise whatsoever.
7. Almost no social involvement or support
8. Severe insomnia, sleep deprivation for many years now (average of maybe 3 hours sleep per night)
9. Eats typical American diet (a.k.a. "sad" Standard American Diet)
10. Etc, etc.
At least several things on the list here have INDIVIDUALLY been shown in medical studies to increase the likelihood of dementia by around 60%!
Prominent brain Doctor, Dr. Daniel Amen (of the famous brain health clinics) has said that he predicts a "tidal wave" of dementia will hit America in less than 20 years--which essentially, in numbers afflicted, would be about one out of every three American Seniors. Thanks in large part to the idiotic Doctors who keep pushing these damn crappy medications on everyone!!
Magnificent, loving, &
fun presentation on a
tragic, terrifying, and
possibly unavoidable
personal horizon.
I am training with Teepa ,there are so much I have learned very excited to share with those that need to have the right tools .to help those that have this mind change
Just amazing the way everything is clarified. I wish I had known this when my Mum was ill. It has taken years to begin regaining my own equilibrium. The stress, the cortisol and weight gain, and blood pressure. No one told me! The funny side helps... Laughter is the best medicine. Thank you so much. 🌟😘💙👏
Best advice I've ever been given..."breathe, just breathe". It helps a lot!
[ thank you. I’m now a care partner for my 55 year old husband. Thankfully I had experience with my grandmother who suffered with Parkinson’s and my experience working with special needs students. Teepa is a blessing to me. Mahalo. ]
Wonder full, very use full knowledge. Dementia awareness should be started at junior school level.
The best explanation i've seen, really helps you step in their shoes to see what they really go through. My grandma gets frustrated with my grandpa because he doesnt think things through and she doesnt understand how to be patient with him. I probably need to show her this video.
CORNWALL!!!!!
She is FABULOUS ❤❤❤
She is excellent--informative, practical and entertaining!
Thank goodness for this honesty = My 92 year old mother nearly drove me insane and other family members stayed well away
I just stumbled on to this video and I'm so glad I did! my Dad lost his Mom and sister to alzheimer's/dementia and I'm seeing the same symptoms with him. his primary care saw it almost 2 years ago and never reacted to it or did anything to help slow the progression. he had an in-home visit last year with another doctor and she said something to me about it but no one else. so I've been guessing as I've watched the progression. I am his caregiver and I'm doing the best I can but it's so hard watching him fade. when I was growing up, he was one of my biggest heroes and it's hard to see your hero fall! thank you for confirming what I think I already knew and everyone else has been afraid to admit to me..
*DEMENTIA CURE:* Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact Homeocure Worldwide
*This so sad, but anyone who has looked after a loved one with dementia will know how hard it is physically and mentally. My heart goes out to anyone/everyone affected by Alzheimer's/Dementia. A huge shout out to any caregiver doing this alone! I feel your journey. I feel your pain because I've been there. My mom was also diagnosed in her 60s. Feeling absolutely shattered, heartbroken, and drained, working with different physicians across the country with little or no improvement. I was exhausted and overwhelmed to look any further. Crying a lot through frustration, anger, and despair, But today with the help of Homeocure Worldwide Natural Medicine, my mother is completely healthy and well again. I think we only need more support and sunlight to overcome this dreadful disease. Search for support regardless and don't stop until you get it. With Homeocure Worldwide treatment, there is hope, don't give up! Check out this blog for useful info️; **homeocureworldwide.blogspot.com**, Be it any condition, natural treatment and a healthy diet is a road to fast recovery.*
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
@@nilyfoxx9645 dude who the hell are you talking to!?!? This is not a pick up area for you to find ur lady love. Get outta here with ur drivel
@@carryjgful hi Sarah how are you doing I hope you are good am Ben from Austin Texas am glad you responded to me I don't understand how you talk I really like you so much let's get to know each other very
Excellent, finally some help that I need. Taking care of my husband, struggling, doing the best I can, reading everything that can aid me in his care. Finally some relief with Teepa.
She is spot on! Wow, do I need this info right now...my mom is driving me crazy! I can feel the stress doing bad things to my own sense of wellbeing and confidence.
Seeing this made me realize that my mom had dementia but she never was diagnosed as she was a very stubborn woman who wouldn't go to a doctor. She had all these signs and got very mean at the end. I wish we had known this before as we could have done better for her. 😥
My mother too. For probably 10 years before she got so unruly that her doctor could no longer deflect and finally sent her to a neurologist.
So sorry but don't worry your mom knows now she knows you did not know. ☺
My mom had severe depression on and off for years; her depression masked the start of her dementia. By the time I took her to the neurologist, she was diagnosed as being in mid stage dementia. But at least it explained all the difficulties communicating we had been having. I found Teepa Snow online and was helped tremendously by what she shared. Mom passed almost 6 years ago now; and I am blessed that I was able to provide care in my home for her until the last few years of her life; when I was able to set up help for her in an excellent memory care cottage, and then an excellent Nursing home after a medical episode. Near the end of her life, every five minutes was a brand new day, and calm and patitence was what was needed. PRAYERS for all caregivers and their loved ones as they navigate their way through this difficult stage of life.
This is really great. My sister is suffering with dementia and I was concerned about her posture, memory, and other things. This lady right here answered more questions than the staff in memory care unit where she is. Thank you so much!
I agree totally. My Mom was diagnosed with Advanced Dementia over 7 years ago. I have nearly had a nervous breakdown dealing with her and working full time. I so wish I’d found Tee years sooner, it would have saved us so much grief, pain, & suffering. Mom is now in a senior care facility and after 12 months I am coming out of my fog and feel like my life may be salvageable and I am able to deal with Mom without coming home and curling up in a fetal position myself. It has been devastating for me watching her rapid decline the last year. Having the knowledge and tools to deal with Mom without having a meltdown myself is such a tremendous relief for us BOTH! Thank you for your dedication and teachings, I am recommending you to everyone I know who is dealing with someone with dementia. God Bless You! 🌷
I'll never forget the first time I heard Teepa Snow speak. It was in 2010 and my mom was in the late stages of Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia. It changed my life, and how I cared for my mom. It also showed me that more families need this education! This education empowers us to understand the disease and gives us the means and skills to care for our loved ones living with dementia. It also shows us that being a dementia care partner does NOT have to be such a doom and gloom, frustrating and stressful job. I learned a little too late with my mom, but my dad now has Alzheimer's and Teepa's training has helped to make this journey with him less heartbreaking and emotional. Yes, I'm slowly loosing my dad but I'm not dwelling on it, or in denial trying to fix it...I'm just enjoying our time together and making the very best of it!!
Hi, I'm from Poland. So similar story as yours. I left my nice life in London to take care for my dad in Poland. He's late stage of Alzheimer and vascular dementia. He gives me sooo hard time. He fights Always and for silly daily activities. I really hate him quite often. I feel helpless. I even can't recognize myself: I was happy 37 yo well educated feminist, doing interesting things, travilling and having good life. Now I feel like 138 years old, ugly, away from friends, unhappy, I can't plan my life again, exhausted, I'm kind of agressive sometimes. I can't/don't want to do this anymore. However there is little hope to me to feel little better.
@@amac5455 You can't do this alone. I hope that you have someone to help you with your father's care.
*DEMENTIA CURE:* Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact drmakusm@gmail.com
Teepa is so great, I admire her very much and I've tried to put her great advices into practice with my mother. It really works! Thank you so much!
Anyone who is going through this with family or friends, watch this lady's videos it will help you understand and become aware.
OMG!!!! This has shed so much light on the past with my parents, currently with aging siblings and my children's responses to me.
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
It is so frustrating for the people trying to deal with this. My Dad has it and he becomes defensive and denies everything. Judgement is totally compromised. Continues to blame everyone else or just doesn't remember anything or only remembers negative things. It's extremely hard. My Grandmother died from it so it's a horrible illness.
My mom is the same way. She refuses to be tested for dementia and says that there’s nothings nothing wrong with her. It is frustrating to the nth degree.
I also watch Dementia Care blazers which has helped me tremendously in giving care to my mom.
I wish you the very best. Know that you’re not alone though it seems that way. Take care of yourself as best as you can. And yes, taking deep belly breaths does help.
My mom has the onset of dementia and it is scary and exhausting to deal with. This is very informative.
So sorry x
Thanks
when Mom was Lost... I always asked her how old she was so I could adjust my questions & answers to her level. ~Mitsy#9~
That's a good idea , and something every one should bear in mind .
Toni O'Toole lp
P
Marilyn Bennett That's exactly what you were suppose to do!!! If it's 1942 today then that's the year it is for the caretaker.
Wow! Great idea.
My MiL knows her own age-brags about how old she is-but keeps telling her daughter "Well, when you grow up..." So we don't know if she's calling her immature or really thinks her 60+ year old daughter is a kid.
This is one of the best explanations of dementia I have ever seen and I've been working with seniors for 10 years. Thank you !!!Thank you!!! Love your humor too
thank you for this class god be with you
Peggy Riffle
i actually was able to learn from this woman it was amazing because i worked with some VERY hard to deal with patients and i was so tired of people coming in to tell us how we should handle them and at the time i had over 20 yrs with dementia experience and I had never seen or dealt with such volatile angry dementia patients and I needed someone to give us another way and to understand that we were doing our best and she did just that thank you so much Miss Snow some of your tricks really work and then others went straight down the shitter
th-cam.com/video/pXLbdpu1CcU/w-d-xo.html Another wonderful lady, and she speaks of patients reflecting the attitude of the caregiver and how it can be changed.
*This so sad, but anyone who has looked after a loved one with dementia will know how hard it is physically and mentally. My heart goes out to anyone/everyone affected by Alzheimer's/Dementia. A huge shout out to any caregiver doing this alone! I feel your journey. I feel your pain because I've been there. My mom was also diagnosed in her 60s. Feeling absolutely shattered, heartbroken, and drained, working with different physicians across the country with little or no improvement. I was exhausted and overwhelmed to look any further. Crying a lot through frustration, anger, and despair, But today with the help of Homeocure Worldwide Natural Medicine, my mother is completely healthy and well again. I think we only need more support and sunlight to overcome this dreadful disease. Search for support regardless and don't stop until you get it. With Homeocure Worldwide treatment, there is hope, don't give up! Check out this blog for useful info️; **homeocureworldwide.blogspot.com**, Be it any condition, natural treatment and a healthy diet is a road to fast recovery.*
oh my goodness! Thank you so much! I feel like I'm all alone taking care of my dad. This may help my husband understand what Dad is going through. I'm fighting to keep him home with us but I feel like I'm losing. I'm failing.
What an amazing speaker. Teepa I can listen to you all day. Thank you for sharing your knowledge
Sever anxiety mimics these early symptoms so much wow
Learning to just go with the delusions and comfort my mom was the main thing that helped me when I was caring for my mother. She was very very poor growing up and she would beg me to let her mother come live with us "She can have my food"...her mother has been dead for a long time....but she was stuck in the times of her youth when she was scared her mother was going to starve to death. It's heartbreaking to know she went through that not once but twice (once in real life, and again with the dementia). I would just reassure her, nightly, that her Mom was 'at Aunt Sophie's house out in Kansas, remember? It's late and she's probably asleep, do you want to call Aunt Sophie to check on her?" and that reassured her that her mom was ok. Another thing was she was always wondering if 'the baby' was ok. And I'd say "She's in there in the bedroom sleeping" and she was fine with that. Now she's been gone for 6 years and I am so scared I am already showing signs...these videos are reassuring.
She wasucky to have you.
I hope everyone takes that away from the video, even if they learned nothing else. Do not argue with them under any circumstance.
15:40 "it could be depression." That's true for me. These stress reactions are exactly what have been keeping my life small, dark, and uninitiated for years. I hope that I will breathe when I remember to. I remember that yoga one a week helped too, at the height of my work stress.
I saw this wonderful lady in person. She was very informative and also very easy to listen to.
Thank you, I have early onset dementia and it is very difficult.
I’m sorry
prayers. we are all on one day at a time. bless you.
Im sorry to hear this. Can i suggest that you and the people you love make a book with pictures, with the people labelled with their relationship to you. Eg this is a Picture of my husband Bill that I took in Canada in front of Niagra Falls. It was my birthday, July the fifth.
Write a page for each topic. Read it every day, it can really help. I made one for my mum and it helped her for years, she lived until she was 88, and in the last few years it helped her carers understand her to talk about things she enjoyed, what she was good at etc
@@billswifejo That is absolutely brilliant.
DEMENTIA CURE: Thanks for sharing some of your own story. I am a 74-year-old man, I was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease 15 years ago, I always like to use my experience in a positive way to educate others. It is common knowledge that Alzheimer's robs people of their ability to remember. Having dementia for me was lonely, isolating and scary. But when people share their stories, it can provide inspiration, hope and a welcome reminder that you are not alone. Homeocure Worldwide is natural cure medicine. The professional had earlier told me there is no cure, I asked a professional to explain this to me? They said it is a miracle. All the patients I have directed to Homeocure Worldwide return with thanks. Don't let drug companies keep you as a slave to their mediocre medications. Don't let them tell you there's nothing that will help you. Today I can say that I'm living life instead of surviving it. For more info, contact Homeocure Worldwide
Thank you for all your good information. I feel very isolated
And have been disappointed in the lack of support for spouse caregivers. This is very helpful.
When she mentioned how the Alzheimer's patient forgets a conversation he has had even when the caregiver reminds him of it, I had to laugh. My husband had Alzheimer's and as the disease progressed his doctor told him it was not safe for him to drive any longer. He of course did not remember that the doctor had told him that and he could think of no reason why he should not be driving so he would just go get his keys and jump in the car. Before disaster struck I had to get the car keys and keep them hidden from him, which of course did not make him happy. One day we had our regular "the doctor told you not to drive" "No he didn't" "yes he did" conversation and the next time I saw his doctor (I'll call him Dr. Jones) I asked him if he would write a little short note stating that Mr. Anderson "is not to drive". I took that note home and put it in a safe place and the next time we started the "I am TOO allowed to drive" with something of a flourish I pulled the note out and presented it to him. It said "Mr. Anderson is not to drive any more" and that was all it said. My husband studied it for a while and then he said, "Well huh. I think I'll write a note that says 'Dr. Jones is not to practice medicine any more' ". Happily, he continued to know who I was and he could carry on a conversation with me and he still had his sense of humor right up to the day he died.
Thank you. That was very interesting
We had to be creative! Glad he kept his sense of humor . My husband thank God never forgot me, and stayed sweet to the end.❤️
Maryann Anderson p
My grandmother would look at the note and believe it was a forgery created by her son in order to get the money from the sale of her car (and guess how far you'd get if you showed her the funds had been deposited in her bank account... nowhere!).
You are lucky. My grandmother turned into a mute doll. She didn't know me at all, or her husband or six daughters. NOTHING. I miss her to this day, and can tell you stories about us but not about what I did yesterday. I'm starting to lose words, get lost while driving ... it is so frightening because I think I 'm turning into her. At the end...a mute doll.
You are a Godsend. Thank you for such valuable information.
Brilliant awareness and an awesome talent for clearly explaining such a tough subject!
Teepa, your videos are so validating. My mother is living with us, and was an incredibly brilliant woman in her day. She probably hid the early dementia for years. It wasn't until I had to take over her finances and saw that she had given literally thousands of dollars to scam charities that I realized how long she had been sick. Now she can no longer live by herself, but forgets why or how she came to live with us. This explains why she always sounds so angry with me, when I do everything for her and with her best interest in mind. Thank you! I will be watching all your videos.
My Mother is 98, and has what I would call bouts of these type actions !
The other day, she began to speak gibberish !
Somehow with God's help, I was able to get her back !
It is extremely difficult to experience this type of behavior in someone that has always been a rock !
I'm unfortunately learning this myself, but cherish every word, as the next day, may bring an end, to communications with your Loved ones !
God Bless and keep us all !
please take your mom to the doctor. Seriously please.
Could be a stroke also. Take her right away.
Thank you from an exhausted care giver in the UK 🙏
OMG! Thank you for putting it into REAL examples people can understand. It's super hard to differentiate between normal aging & dementia. Thanks for this humorous video :)
Try
😅😢😮😢😮🏯🗺🗺⛽️⛴📸📸❤❤❤ we we r Ty g 17:00
I needed this a year ago.
Wonderful video. My dad began exhibiting these many signs years ago and we brushed them off as just, "Oh, Grandpa Joe..." thinking it was his own weirdness. He is now in an awful care facility (and this is #3 for him) after a bad fall/hip break/big surgery. My sister thankfully takes after my mom but I take after Dad and recognize early signs of Alzheimer's in me. For me...no worries about heart disease, cancers or worrying early death causes like that. I do NOT want to end up with a 'healthy' body and then have to deal with the long, slow death of dimentia/Alzheimers.
Hi there. My dad's been on a steep decline into dementia for the past year, his mom had it. Like you, I'm terrified that my sister or I will have it when we're older. The research regarding this aspect of the illness is all still very much in its infancy, but you might want to know that it's being referred to as Type 3 Diabetes amongst people who are looking into the standard North American high-sugar diet's effects on memory and cognition. I've been drastically cutting back on my sugar consumption and find that it helps my daily memory and mental clarity. Do some research of your own, of course. I hope you are (and stay) well.
Google Dr. Mark Hyman, you can reverse early signs with MCT oil, and Ketogenic diet.
I'm sorry to hear it. Exercise does help (mind/body/soul connection), so please don't give up. Mental exercises help, too.
@@LeahLaushway I lucked out and came across dr Berry on TH-cam a couple of years ago totally reversed my diabetes 2 and several other illnesses. At 80 I am now in the best health of my life. The avoidance of dementia is also addressed by him and other doctors in his podcasts. I’m not alone with my remarkable results. So many doctors are now involved in dietary cures through sugar/carb elimination that it seems to be acceptable for anyone. And it makes sense.
She is fantastic! So glad I found her!
She so described my mom and all the trials and tribulations I went thought with being her caregiver. I'd do it all over again but it's hard to watch someone you love be there and yet not.
She’s fantastic. Engaging and real.
My greatest challenge in deLing with my husbands Dementia is lack of support from the doctors. While both the and and the specialist agree with me that he has Dementia, neither take it any further other than doing the “remember these words” test which he aces. Until I found Teepa Snow I felt frustratingly alone! And Teepa’s breathing exercize has saved my life!
There is a book entitled, The 36 Hour Day. It was given to me by a man whose wife had the mean/ nasty/screaming spectrum of behavior. It is filled with explanations, suggestions and strategies. You do NOT have to read it in order like a novel. You can jump around. I found the pages on "Taking a shower" helpful. Also, I have learned YOU have to go into their reality. For example, telling them their spouse died years ago when they think the spouse will be home from work any minute will be a losing battle. Instead, talk about fond memories. Calming and then you can try caring on with whatever task. Just thought I would share. The 36 Hour Day was recommended by a specialist in Dementia. Also, there are different types of dementia; therefore, proper diagnosis is key. If these doctors are dismissive, find another who SPECIALIZES in dementia.
I enjoy reflecting Teepa's approach to understand the behaviors that challenges one's self-esteem and how to find humor rather than getting irritable. Awesome and thanks. j
Fantastic ! So grateful this kind of important information and facts are readily available and free!!!! Thank you!!!
I went through every one of these with my mom and I didn’t have a clue about Dementia!
We new something we going on but it took 3 doctors trying. Then I took her to a doctor appointment with me and my doctor just asked mom to draw a clock? Mom is an artist and I was in shock she couldn’t draw a circle it blew me away that was five years ago! I am so just like how Teepa is talking about! I failed my mom! I couldn’t do it! My heart broke and I am with her as much as I can. I THANK GOD FOR ALL OF YOU AMAZING PEOPLE CARING FOR PEOPLE WITH DEMENTIA 🙏🥰.
Been there, done that with my mother. It's so stressful to deal with. The least stressful part was listening to her same stories over and over again - that just got to be sorta humorous. Thank God I had my brother and sister to help me, as well as a wonderful home health aide.
I wanna be like you. I have always been fascinated by Dementia. In few days time- I will be starting my role as Dementia Clinical Nurse Specialist...God, bless me with wisdom and knowledge like this woman. I really wanna make a difference ...
Yep, after my Dad dying of Alzheimer's (age 60-67) and now seeing my Mom have early stage demintia, I'd welcome Cancer instead of Alzheimer's or demintia. I pray The Lord doesn't let my children go through this!
I agree. You can't understand that concept until you've experienced having a parent with Dementia. I lost my dad to a heart attack and I'd rather die of that than get Dementia like my mum did.
😭😭😭😭🙏🙏u have helped me so much!!!! I feel like I've been a monster to my mother. Today I will try to put in place what u have given.
she's the best to explain and let you feel
Just learned of this TH-cam channel today. It's wonderful. Thank you!
Fantastic information for care at home. Thanks for the help. Caregiver in Seattle.
vanessa car
I wish we could see the whole thing. This is so, so helpful.
this woman may be the greatest woman alive.
Ive been through ALL teepas stuff... that i can find anyway...she is amazing... my dad is better because of it, if i could only get my mom to buckle down and listen to a bunch! We would be in good shape! A big thank you to the dementia whisperer!!
This lady really gets the point across! Thank you!
Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks
Ma’am I have memory issues and these videos are comforting. I love you, thank you.
Excellent description. Living it right now with my sister . The meaness is the worst, and the cursing, the digging into just plain being wrong but refusing to admit and accept the real help that is needed: the lies and the deceit. It makes you wonder: if a person is losing reason how are they able to sneak and lie so much? Awful terrifying disease.
As with childhood, innocence / ignorance are considered true bliss, 'cause no use blaming them for the damages even if they might be wilfully resorting to the ignorance! Guess thats why they call old age weirdly a second childhood. 🍷
I watched a lot of Teepa Snow Videos I care for my Brother he 76 he has Vascular Dementia he can be real mean to me but I understand it's the Dementia because my brother was always a humble nice quiet man.I liked that you talked about the mess with number 2 because I watched a lot of person who never talked about that.Thank You So Much Teepa Snow ❤
This is amazing. Such an eye opener to my family. We don't know if were coming or going some days. We definitely want to do what's best and enjoy the time we have left. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us.
So Sad but true.Very good interpretation of the Diease.Take care.
Wow, this woman made me cry, everything she said was so real and very scary 😨 ...