POPULARITY, BOYS, ANXIETY \\ HIGH SCHOOL ADVICE W/ ALEXA LOSEY | Mel Joy

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  • @shruthituplur188
    @shruthituplur188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    Ok honestly, as somebody going into senior year, this video is pretty much on point :')
    My advice to people:
    - Don't sweat relationships and boys/girls/whoever you're into. I did during freshman year and it SUCKED and i feel like I missed out on a lot. Personally, I feel like in high school, romance is not ideal or important.
    - Grades are important, but they're not the end of the world. I live in an extremely academic area (seriously, I took calculus A as a junior and there were freshman in my class) and so many kids lose themselves while trying to be the perfect student. My school is off the charts in terms of mental illness (over 2/3 of juniors in my school have at least one mental illness, especially anxiety or depression) and as somebody who suffers from anxiety as a result of academic pressure, I can tell you that it fucking sucks : (
    - Don't go to school with a negative attitude. Learning is such an amazing process, and rejecting that opportunity is only hurting YOU.

    • @shruthituplur188
      @shruthituplur188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can't add anything more bc I ran out of characters, but I hope this helps at least one person!

    • @valwilliams9993
      @valwilliams9993 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is beautiful

    • @sarahelaine3858
      @sarahelaine3858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Shruthi Tuplur It helped me!! I am going to be a freshman in August. I'm so nervous! But this really did help! Thanks

    • @shruthituplur188
      @shruthituplur188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Oh a few more things I forgot to add!
      -What they said about not trying to fit in is so, so, SO important. As a freshman, I was so concerned with being super popular and other things that really don't matter. At all. And I was changing my outward personality all the time to try and appeal to people and as a result, I had very few friends.
      That being said, don't try to rebel against everybody either. I tried that in sophomore year during my "rebellious phase" and I am now extremely embarrassed by that entire year so I am going to stop talking about that now.
      Honestly, being openly myself has paid off in so many ways because I have so many more friends and I'm happier and much more confident. When people see a genuine person, they WILL want to be friends with that person.
      -Toxic friendships! I am currently in a toxic friendship that I unfortunately can't get out of (but I only have another year in that friendship so it's 🆗) but honestly, do try to cut out negativity from your life!

    • @jersienicole2676
      @jersienicole2676 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you

  • @ericagrace4700
    @ericagrace4700 8 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    One huge rip for high school that I can give you guys is to FOCUS ON YOUR MENTAL HEALTH. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health.

    • @shruthituplur188
      @shruthituplur188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mental health is so, so, SO important. I mentioned this in another comment, but over 2/3 of the students in my school (including me) suffer from mental health disorders because of our extremely academically oriented community. I mean, our average SAT score is over 2000 and it is an expectation to take at LEAST 3 or 4 APs/honors classes, maintain a 4.0 or above, do several extracurriculars, have a social life, AND get into a UC. Sleep is a bonus. This was how I spent my junior year. I survived off of 4-5 hours of sleep a night, and by the end, my mental health was at an all time low and I developed an anxiety disorder and it sucks butt : (
      Sorry for rambling on your comment, but as somebody who's gonna major in psychology, mental health is extremely important to me and I am so, so glad somebody brought this up!

    • @simrose8130
      @simrose8130 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Shruthi Tuplur do you still have anxiety? I have anxiety and idk what to do😣

    • @shruthituplur188
      @shruthituplur188 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +tia tin i do : / it's reduced quite a bit since summer ended, and i've mostly stopped getting panic attacks, but i do get stressed EXTREMELY easily. I am working to learn how to control my anxiety though. Hopefully soon your anxiety will subside as well!

    • @calliebennett7261
      @calliebennett7261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Legit. The CDC had to come to my school and conduct an investigation because we had too many suicides due to academic stress.

  • @christielee3626
    @christielee3626 8 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    alexa losey kinda looks like lindsay lohan! she's so pretty!

    • @jessicaellis7230
      @jessicaellis7230 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha I was thinking the same thing!

    • @nylahnarwhal1061
      @nylahnarwhal1061 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Gabbi Barrett really???!? Lit😎💯

    • @Brl-jz7co
      @Brl-jz7co 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Gabbi Barrett girl do you still have the yearbook, cause if so that's so cool

    • @Brl-jz7co
      @Brl-jz7co 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Gabbi Barrett oh lol

    • @samblanchard2570
      @samblanchard2570 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss!

  • @friendlylittlefriend2346
    @friendlylittlefriend2346 8 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    My heart says yes but my mom says no

    • @cindyunicornz
      @cindyunicornz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lmao same

    • @amethystrobbins1531
      @amethystrobbins1531 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +elena dash she means she isn't allowed to date😂

    • @jersienicole2676
      @jersienicole2676 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      relatable

    • @verniellove891
      @verniellove891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sara Farahani so fudging relatable😂😂😂😩💔

    • @ayanadan7117
      @ayanadan7117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Literally my life😫😂

  • @kelscc21
    @kelscc21 8 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    usually when you think there's no popular people in your school you are in the popular group and just don't know it.

    • @directionerstyels4132
      @directionerstyels4132 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Fr!?

    • @imbouttoheadout6731
      @imbouttoheadout6731 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yup. Nope. It just can't be.... Right? I mean my friends are weird. And their is no popular girls. So... What? 😰

    • @shazajo1
      @shazajo1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      My school doesn't have a popular group either its just not a thing that exists in many high schools bc everyones busy studying

    • @randomweirdo7414
      @randomweirdo7414 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SOMEONE SAID IT

    • @sarapagnis3659
      @sarapagnis3659 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kels honestly the whole "groups" and "social divisions" this is there more in Middle School... it's not really a thing in my High School.

  • @aylam4545
    @aylam4545 8 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    My school kind of has like a "popular" group but they aren't like mean girl type. A lot of them are really nice actually but everyone knows them

    • @aylam4545
      @aylam4545 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I totally agree with the dating thing. I learned that it's important to be close with someone you want to date instead of dating them like hardly after you meet them. Date your best friend 👏🏻👏🏻 it's so easy

    • @beastmonster22msp32
      @beastmonster22msp32 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Ayla M my school too but I'm a popular tho

    • @aliadams1311
      @aliadams1311 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Luckyy

    • @G1ovanna21
      @G1ovanna21 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe they are just well known

    • @Kelly-jj4cq
      @Kelly-jj4cq 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      That means they are fake

  • @ameliarose4461
    @ameliarose4461 8 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    You look so good in this !

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      omg stawp thank ya ily

    • @ameliarose4461
      @ameliarose4461 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Mel Joy ily2

    • @melia8372
      @melia8372 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      She does look really good.. but my name is amelia tooooo!

    • @ameliarose4461
      @ameliarose4461 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Melia jean yay another Amelia !

    • @melia8372
      @melia8372 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amelia Rose yassss

  • @BeautyByBriChannel
    @BeautyByBriChannel 8 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    why does she look like cady from mean girls(but like with blonde hair)? lmao thats just the first thing i thought of

    • @abbyxoxo6608
      @abbyxoxo6608 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought that to😂

    • @BeautyByBriChannel
      @BeautyByBriChannel 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @emmaweyrauch1817
      @emmaweyrauch1817 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's what I was thinking😂

    • @keya7774
      @keya7774 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just about to comment this

    • @charliekenton3399
      @charliekenton3399 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was just about to comment this! She looks so much like her haha

  • @trinityyoung4820
    @trinityyoung4820 8 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Class of 2020!!!!!!! Yasssss WHO ELSE?!?!🎓🎓🎓

  • @zoeanna6647
    @zoeanna6647 8 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    CLASS OF 2018 WYAAAA

  • @mal2541
    @mal2541 8 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    There's no such thing as popularity in highschool just a lot if cliques

    • @mal2541
      @mal2541 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      *of

    • @Princessesforlifexo
      @Princessesforlifexo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      There's definitely popularity in high school..

    • @kaylinandmorgan3845
      @kaylinandmorgan3845 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      There the cliques and each clique has its own level of popularity I don't think there's just one person above the rest (at least in my school)

    • @tiny_5708
      @tiny_5708 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There's a lot of popularity in high school

    • @Princessesforlifexo
      @Princessesforlifexo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +HighkeyLowkey MK at my school it's like everyone is friends there's not really cliques and out of us there's the "cool people" who are considered popular and everyone else are like not cool, probably because my class is only like 50 people though lol

  • @kerrifraser2947
    @kerrifraser2947 8 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    whoever is reading this, I wanted to tell you that you are absolutely perfect the way you are, you are beautiful and I hope you have a great day/night. ❤

    • @gurudyy2284
      @gurudyy2284 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AWH this made me smile

    • @kerrifraser2947
      @kerrifraser2947 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Guru DYY I'm really glad 😙

    • @destinee7326
      @destinee7326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right back at ya 😊❤️

    • @aaa9631
      @aaa9631 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why r u so nice

    • @kerrifraser2947
      @kerrifraser2947 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Andrea Marquez ntah thank you❤ I like making people happy and just brightening up their day.

  • @izabellaposadowska
    @izabellaposadowska 8 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Most beautiful girls on TH-cam 😍

  • @awanderer7201
    @awanderer7201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Becoming freshman in 1 month Gosh I am sooooo nervous but this helped so much, I will be myself, do my own thing and just work hard instead of getting into drama. Idk.🙄
    Edit: Y'all, been already 1 month of high school and it's actually kinda lit except more hws, quizzes, tests but yass more freedom it's kinda cool. U will meet new ppl and new friends. New opportunities!! Do ur hw, it helps

  • @emmacowles9697
    @emmacowles9697 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    omg i thought mel was like 20 and then she said "i'm going to be a junior" and my mind was blown... she's so mature and so beautiful for her age omg!!

  • @CourtneyMarmo
    @CourtneyMarmo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I've been homeschooled my whole like and I'm going to public high school for 10th grade :( wish me luck lol

    • @CourtneyMarmo
      @CourtneyMarmo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      life*

    • @bawkah
      @bawkah 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck!!! Don't be nervous! I was homeschooled from 4th-7th grade and so I was really nervous for 8th Grade, but now I'm an 11th Grader, and I'm not dead yet! 😜

    • @katherinebieber888
      @katherinebieber888 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!! I have been homeschooled my whole life and going to high school this year!! I'm so nervous also

    • @adonal7903
      @adonal7903 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i know this will sound cliché but don't be scared its a lot of fun if you are positive! go to all school
      events and don't be afraid to talk to anyone. also you are super pretty so im sure people wont be hesitant to talk to you lol

    • @isabellacristina9118
      @isabellacristina9118 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ONG ME TOO!!! Except I went to an EXTREMELY small private school my whole life:( but I'm going to Public school this year for 10th grade and I'm soooo scared:(

  • @itsmariaa18
    @itsmariaa18 8 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I WAS THINKING ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL AND HOW I'M FREAKING SCARED AND THEN THIS POPPED UP THAT YOU SO MUCH GIRLS
    YOU'RE BOTH SO GORGEOUS I CAN'T

  • @arielalena
    @arielalena 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I'M WAY TOO EXCITED FOR THIS COLLAB!! 😍😭 you two are too gorgeous!!

  • @parisgracexo
    @parisgracexo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i think popular is used as a negative term. in my head; popular is being known, like you said & being nice to people!!! ((:

  • @KawaiiKiwi-pw3zn
    @KawaiiKiwi-pw3zn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how chill and comfortable this video is.

  • @awwlexis
    @awwlexis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    If Mel sponsors Best Fiends im gonna cry

    • @emmabarolin
      @emmabarolin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      she already does 😂😂 she mentioned it a few videos back haha

    • @aaa9631
      @aaa9631 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      In her what's on my iphone video she did 😂😂

    • @ayanarivers7957
      @ayanarivers7957 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      she did already

    • @ayanarivers7957
      @ayanarivers7957 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      sadly

    • @sannamalina
      @sannamalina 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      She already has hahaha

  • @ilikefood9094
    @ilikefood9094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    CLASS OF 2021 ALL RISE😂😂🙌 I'm gonna be a freshman this year and I'm so scared. I can just imagine the first day of school and me being so alone😨😨 and I wouldn't be as nervous if I was going into the same district as I was but I'm going into a new district bc its just a better option for me and a lot of my friends are going to the other one and staying with the same district. there's 2 main high school everybody goes to for high school btw. its just I've been in the same district all my life since kindergarten and now I'm leaving the hell hole I was in for 8 years😂😂

    • @keya9695
      @keya9695 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've moved around the world to different countries like 4 times. I've been the new kid and it sucks. But I did make lot's of friends where I went. you will too. Trust me, you will be okay. Just be yourself and you'll find the right people. I'm also gonna be a freshman this year :D good luck

  • @veronicasteiner5356
    @veronicasteiner5356 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Honestly, the way I learned to be confident when presenting is when I was singing in front of a bunch of upperclassmen in preparation for some auditions. Like because of that - if you can SING in front of UPPERCLASSMEN then you can talk in front of your peers and not be afraid (I'm currently a freshman)

  • @anonymous8551
    @anonymous8551 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Class of 2022??? Just me? Ok😔

  • @aceilshiha4854
    @aceilshiha4854 8 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I love u and ur jacket 😍

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  8 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      omg thank you i love you

    • @aceilshiha4854
      @aceilshiha4854 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Mel Joy thanks for replying 😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @kelliadaniel2859
    @kelliadaniel2859 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Do a collab with Hailey Sani!!! It would be amaixng

  • @nourmakarem8682
    @nourmakarem8682 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    YOU GUYS ARE FABBBB

    • @nourmakarem8682
      @nourmakarem8682 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SO USEFUL. DONT WANNA BE KILLED BY THE PLASTICS (😉)

  • @chloekylee8655
    @chloekylee8655 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    going into senior year! soooo bittersweet. guys, don't take anything for granted. never ever wish years away. my whole high school career ended so quickly. to freshman: focus on yourself, take every opportunity, study, and have school spirit! good luck everyone!

  • @natnavarro419
    @natnavarro419 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you should do a makeup tutorial on this look Mel, it's so glowy w/ a light bronze♡ so gorgeous

  • @laurenmist4859
    @laurenmist4859 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Alexa I can't stop staring at your highlight!!!!

  • @jamiedriscoll1944
    @jamiedriscoll1944 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm in IB too! I never see any TH-camrs who are in it

    • @Ziyalaw
      @Ziyalaw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was accepted but I decide to go with a science program !

    • @samonedoyle4728
      @samonedoyle4728 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I go to a full IB school!!!! 12th in the nation!😂

    • @jessicavo7289
      @jessicavo7289 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!

    • @dienabou4
      @dienabou4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didnt hear them say anything about IB :( which one is in it? I got accepted this year & idek what I signed myself up for tbh :(:

    • @jessicavo7289
      @jessicavo7289 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      alexa didn't talk much about it, it was the part where she was talking about hanging out with friends and she studies with them

  • @lenaslattery4659
    @lenaslattery4659 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your makeup in this is sooo pretty 💕💕💕

  • @carlymarie8910
    @carlymarie8910 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice that I've been given is that there are "popular" people but the happiest people don't care about the "popular" people. Thanks for making this video Mel and Alexis!

  • @heyitsmags8250
    @heyitsmags8250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    honestly there is no popular group. sure there's clicks but honestly nobody cares. and the people that do have the meaning of life twisted. popularity isn't worth it, do you, and keep your head high

  • @laurenhoagland7881
    @laurenhoagland7881 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Collab with summer Mckeen!

    • @inayahjackson875
      @inayahjackson875 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg yessss!!!!

    • @Kiara-tu2gk
      @Kiara-tu2gk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They did summer said it in her vlog!

  • @gigigutierrez7703
    @gigigutierrez7703 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Mel thanks I'm starting high school in august so this really helped!!! Ly!!!!!

  • @madisonnicole7594
    @madisonnicole7594 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can u do a back to school supplies & clothing haul plz because I LOVE U !!!!❤️

  • @mariniikk
    @mariniikk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have no real friends at school cuz of a rumor spread a long time ago that had ruined me and I have the reputation of the chill "smart" girl that everyone doesn't want to talk to. That's ironic because I went to a sleepaway camp for 4 years and was with people that would never even look at me if they knew my past. This shows that everyone should just forget the past, focus on urself rigjt now and be the best version of yourself u can. Truly Don't worry about what other people think

  • @RachelSidorchuk
    @RachelSidorchuk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is very true and i know its hard to hear but I legitimately happened to me, i've got severe anxiety problems and in freshman year i realized that the people i called my friends didnt really give a shit and were so fake and self absorbed that they didnt notice my mental health dropping rapidly, only one of them and shes still my best (and only close) friend to this day, we're going into senior year together happier and better together because we realized that you dont need lots of friends or people you just need one that really does cares and supports you

    • @RachelSidorchuk
      @RachelSidorchuk 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      that group of girls are the 'popular' snobby group and i'm so glad we left them

  • @okaykatee
    @okaykatee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    She has been 1 month and a half in summer vacation?!? I've only been 2 weeks into summer vacation

    • @phoebelois237
      @phoebelois237 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm still in school!!! ugh

    • @emmartinez03
      @emmartinez03 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Phoebe Lois dang girl. When is the last day for you? And love your name!!!

    • @aoife4495
      @aoife4495 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been 2 months 😂😂

    • @chani.gerhardt
      @chani.gerhardt 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Phoebe Lois same

    • @hannahstewart8299
      @hannahstewart8299 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I haven't even started

  • @useryeahgoodbye
    @useryeahgoodbye 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You look so great in that color green!

  • @zarah3528
    @zarah3528 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    WOAH ALEXA DID IB??? I'M HALFWAY THROUGH AH I CAN'T WAIT TO FINISH

    • @AngelinaSerenaXO
      @AngelinaSerenaXO 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      HONESTLY

    • @ellas.espresso
      @ellas.espresso 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      IB killing social lives since 1977 RIP

    • @victoriahx5057
      @victoriahx5057 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a junior in IB too and I don't even know if I'll make through lmao GOOD LUCK though!

    • @ki6382
      @ki6382 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IB is hell

    • @briannat1486
      @briannat1486 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      stating IB next year, wish me luck :/

  • @leslieregalado9660
    @leslieregalado9660 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aweee when she said to " tweet me if that is happening to you " was so sweet I'm so happy I started watching their channels they seem so sweet

  • @clairerasa
    @clairerasa 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was so great, especially when talking about bullying as it's great to be open about it. Go Alexa, with overcoming mean girls. You both are so beautiful!

  • @imanifudge5747
    @imanifudge5747 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i will be a freshman this fall!😍

    • @star1-252
      @star1-252 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imani Fudge yea same

    • @mvrycooper
      @mvrycooper 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imani Fudge same :)

    • @star1-252
      @star1-252 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imani Fudge same :)

    • @Lo-kf8xj
      @Lo-kf8xj 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayy me too!

    • @tatianamary2522
      @tatianamary2522 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GOODLUCK!! Don't stress, just remember all the advice they gave in this video which are really helpful. I'm going to be a junior (11th grade)💗

  • @mitchellyaldophe6617
    @mitchellyaldophe6617 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You looked so cute!!

  • @star1-252
    @star1-252 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Where's my class of 2021 At????? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😄😄😄✌🏼

  • @Dankertje13
    @Dankertje13 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You girls are so right about the friends part, I really only noticed it myself this year. made so many great friends even though I didn't have a lot in high school! If you are a friendless person is high school, power through it and think about the future!!

  • @beautywithsidneey
    @beautywithsidneey 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you look gorgeous omg i love the jacket !!!!

  • @angellinamcgill
    @angellinamcgill 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I had friends like you guys! High school would be so much better.

  • @layiiimarie2471
    @layiiimarie2471 8 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Class 2019!!!🤗🤘💙

  • @dmac4287
    @dmac4287 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mel gets prettier and prettier each video ugh

  • @NadiaVenice
    @NadiaVenice 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    alexa has always seemed so genuine, I friggin love her

  • @taniaswani1301
    @taniaswani1301 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    mel and alexa are forever goals and mel looks rly rly good in this

  • @Brl-jz7co
    @Brl-jz7co 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is such a weird thing to say but I love Mel's under eyes, they are like non existent and perfect, like girl what concealer you using?

  • @liane.4588
    @liane.4588 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    class of 2021 wya ??

  • @ariswelch
    @ariswelch 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so glad you uploaded this video thank you ilysm

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yay ilysm!

  • @evanamintx
    @evanamintx 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    please start an advice series with alexa! even if it's one video every year, this was the best advice video on TH-cam. in my three years of watching 'high school/ middle school advice' videos, this was my favorite. thank you x

  • @Rayasunshine10
    @Rayasunshine10 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I graduated highschool in May and my tip #1 is PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR STUDIES!!! Seriously!!! Boys and drama don't matter an ounce after you get out

  • @adriarose
    @adriarose 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm going into 8th grade, this helped me so much!

    • @adriarose
      @adriarose 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just have to remember that I'll find the right friends that love me for me and to get rid of the bad ones because yolo and be myself.

    • @TheAGCutie
      @TheAGCutie 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Adria Rose haha I'm more introverted so ppl don't want to talk to me and I lost a lot of friends but ya know Wat I don't give a crap bc one day they are going to die... wait that came out wrong😂 ignore that

    • @tylerimdun4478
      @tylerimdun4478 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is for hs.

    • @mariamontgomery1887
      @mariamontgomery1887 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Artemis it's pretty much for everyone

    • @star1-252
      @star1-252 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adria Rose are you going to hs this year now

  • @milliemaria8236
    @milliemaria8236 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this videoooooooooooooo!!

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yaaay so glad!

  • @XAnnaGraceX
    @XAnnaGraceX 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm in a bad position rn. There is this girl who keeps telling everyone bad things about me and now no one talks to me. I'm alone. All my friends left me and no one likes me anymore for NO REASON 😥😥

  • @shazzybear3280
    @shazzybear3280 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg Mel, in this video your makeup looks so amazing!! Please do a tutorial of this look or some of your current go to makeup products? xxx

  • @mckenzieduncan608
    @mckenzieduncan608 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mel you should start doing outfits of the week and tell us where your outfits are from and I love you!

  • @beautywithJade5
    @beautywithJade5 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Anyone know what lip color Mel is wearing?

  • @Vianka-j2l
    @Vianka-j2l 8 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Any incoming freshmen 😑😕😕 (class of 2020)

    • @montserratramos8114
      @montserratramos8114 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here🙋✋🏽

    • @kayleer9712
      @kayleer9712 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me and I'm actually pretty excited

    • @lo4950
      @lo4950 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      me and im already pumped to get out

    • @Vianka-j2l
      @Vianka-j2l 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Violet !! Same😂👽

    • @nathaliekulik2855
      @nathaliekulik2855 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      same but german school us different because Highschool is from 5th to 12th grade

  • @londoncook8351
    @londoncook8351 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you film a grwm first day of school

  • @finlaycampbell-withe3192
    @finlaycampbell-withe3192 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm from England and I'm going into year 10 which equivalents to sophomore year. this video has honestly helped me so much because I'm constantly worrying about what other people are thinking when I've know learnt that I do NOT need to and spend more of my time on myself. so thankyou Mel lots of love XXXX

  • @madisonrock7871
    @madisonrock7871 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like how both of them were talking and giving advice and communicating to the viewers where as some you tubers when they collab on videos like these the main channel person is the one talking and the "guest" is just awkwardly sitting there

  • @balloonddqueen5993
    @balloonddqueen5993 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    LIKED BEFORE WATCHING

  • @suaadzafar6239
    @suaadzafar6239 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yikes about to go to grade 9 in a few months AHHH

  • @dabebasings
    @dabebasings 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shout out to anyone who has parents who were high school sweethearts and got your hopes up on love🙃

  • @l4ndree
    @l4ndree 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    i so agree with the whole freshmen year thing! i was trying my best to make everyone like me and i realized that i didn't need to do that, people will like me for me. i started to enjoy highschool my junior year, it was amazing and i found my real friends.

  • @jenthetromp3448
    @jenthetromp3448 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    mel you literally look FLAWLESS in this videoooo

  • @annafrenay3132
    @annafrenay3132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i graduate at 17 class of 2021 yayy

  • @liladixon8886
    @liladixon8886 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Alexa looks like she can be in scream queens

  • @phebeb.7624
    @phebeb.7624 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so helpful! Thank you so much :) You're both beautiful btw #classof2020

  • @yasmineazmi1794
    @yasmineazmi1794 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I the only one who gets super duper exited when she uploads a new video? idk I just love you soo much and you literally make my dayyy

  • @courtneyc9908
    @courtneyc9908 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mel is legit so perfect wow

  • @BeautybyNat18
    @BeautybyNat18 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    where's the updated fitness routine??

    • @MelJoy
      @MelJoy  8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      coming super soon i promise

    • @leahmarie6850
      @leahmarie6850 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yass

  • @sarai4638
    @sarai4638 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm senior and never had a bf or a first kiss. I'm ashamed lmao

    • @mooglare
      @mooglare 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Aww don't be ashamed about it 😉 that stuff doesn't really matter anyways

    • @cindyunicornz
      @cindyunicornz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's okay bb! I'm gonna be a Junior next month and I haven't dated or kissed anyone.

    • @phoenixjanae
      @phoenixjanae 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      At least you can save the first kiss for the one maybe

    • @larissarose3764
      @larissarose3764 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Zaraie deleon don't worry its no big deal really ☺☺☺

  • @estelleboo
    @estelleboo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Class of 2017 almost out

    • @iwantjustice6282
      @iwantjustice6282 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right 😁

    • @pamy399
      @pamy399 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Estelle Boo I'm petrified!

    • @estelleboo
      @estelleboo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mochis not me. I want out. 43 more school days

    • @mvrycooper
      @mvrycooper 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Estelle Boo Congrats on graduating! 🎉🎓🎊

    • @estelleboo
      @estelleboo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary Love thank you!

  • @kristashook6654
    @kristashook6654 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    i had severe depression and my boyfriend really helped me through it all and he's so supportive and caring and loving when I though no one else was there for me

  • @caseycarlsonn
    @caseycarlsonn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please do a school winter morning or night routine btw I love you soooooooooooooo much!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mimimboni6266
    @mimimboni6266 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    early squad! wassup?!

  • @YaBoiJuice
    @YaBoiJuice 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Class of 2k17 boi 😎

  • @sophia5779
    @sophia5779 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why is no one talking about how Alexa got thrown into a dumpster?!?! Like wtf did kids do back then.

  • @rerodriguezz
    @rerodriguezz 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember in 8th grade (Im going to freshman year), when I lost a lot of my friends. I decided to be myself, but I got hurt because I met people who broke me down and made me ashamed of my emotions. I've dealt with quite a lot, and I've kept it in for a while. I decided to let it out on this poetry presentation, but the words flew out less dramatic because not everyone needs to know your business lol. Turned out everyone loved it & I realized in that moment being yourself ALL the time is key:)

  • @angelinalimonta3177
    @angelinalimonta3177 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    please do a studio tour!! like what lighting, camera, software etc you use to make your videos!! that would be so helpful!!

  • @daliadabic1682
    @daliadabic1682 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    where are the BTS ARMY's?

  • @sashababyloves
    @sashababyloves 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    High school is not that serious at all let me tell you

  • @katlyndailey2957
    @katlyndailey2957 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    class of 2021

  • @shamaila7574
    @shamaila7574 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're both so beautiful and literally such a joy to watch I was smiling the whole time

  • @isabellarose8927
    @isabellarose8927 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going into high school and I honestly found this so helpful❤️. I've loved Alexa's and Mel's videos for a long time so I knew I'd love their collab. Thanks for such great content💕💕

  • @angel4499
    @angel4499 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    am i the only one thats in 6th grade but watching this? 😂😉

  • @breannamay8800
    @breannamay8800 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    No office, but most of this is just generic advice that doesn't work.

    • @ciarraweaver2382
      @ciarraweaver2382 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +potato I think the meant offense

    • @ciarraweaver2382
      @ciarraweaver2382 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ciarra Weaver they*

    • @ciarraweaver2382
      @ciarraweaver2382 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And to you it may be generic advice but it could help a lot of other people, it definitely will help me.

    • @emmaskelton1783
      @emmaskelton1783 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol I think she meant offense

    • @emmaskelton1783
      @emmaskelton1783 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +potato what

  • @ziatenderich640
    @ziatenderich640 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Madison Beer and Lindsay Lohan

  • @adenturi9591
    @adenturi9591 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So... I've been watching Mel's videos lately, hi Mel, even though you won't ever see this hehe but it's worth a try.
    I'm now a senior, I go back to school in less than a month and I'm so stressed out, I never had friends my age, my soulmate and bae was a senior last year and now is on her way to college, even though I was the most outgoing and the most let's have a talk kind of person where I just talked to everyone, younger, older, my age. But my one true friend was a senior and last years things just... changed so much! I can't get myself to smile at someone anymore, I just feel like, I don't know how but it's scarry. It's the most important year in high school and I can't imagine going back to high school... I got a lot of bad grades not fail but bad grades...
    I don't know what to do or who to go to or how to overcome this.
    So, I'm writing a random message that no one wold notice.. in hopes I'd feel better...

  • @harleystreetman5681
    @harleystreetman5681 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love when Mel makes these videos omg

  • @InvisibleKatana543
    @InvisibleKatana543 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cheek bones 😍