@@PaulM745 it's strange how people will make malicious comments to you online but would never have the gaul to say it to your face ... cowardly and just plain weird.
There remains alot of questions on this very fast relationship. I am the type that questions things and not afraid to ask those hard questions especially when I see so many in the comments that just go along with the flow and dont want to upset the apple cart of romance in the air, and dont address the obvious flags. I am old enough and experienced enough to know this relationship has moved way to fast with way to many red flags. Were is the grieving for the loss of a husband and the FATHER of her kids? He said he has three kids, is he paying child support, do the kids live with him, what is the status of his children. Are her children grieving the loss of their father? I never advise people to rush into another relationship after a divorce or death in the family. It takes TIME to work through the grieving process and work through the healing that needs to be done. Yes, they are just dating for now. But from what I saw there is already a physical and emotional bond, and this comes from a man that stepped in as the "hero", the one she could talk to through the initial separation and then death of her husband. She clings to him for support, emotionally and financially. These dynamics dont allow for REAL LOVE to grow and blossom. The concern will be later down the line with the healing process for her and her kids as well as him and his divorce and three kids. There is alot to unravel here and they should not take things lightly or let a physical attraction get in the way. I can tell they already have slept with each other. They are both more liberated as they have tattoos, so probably are not conservative or religious and may not have a faith to rely on to help them through all that is to come. Many like this just dont see what all the fuss is about. They just hop into bed with each other, figure they are good people and expect everything to just magically work out. I have questioned her TH-cam channel as well and the way she comes across and projects herself. She also just did an interview with an 18 year old, and it came across as supporting the "independent" woman, and getting an education and job before getting a man. It sounded just like the advice women get here in the states and from which ex pats are leaving. We want traditional women, with traditional values and not this independence mindset. Its also the same reasoning with single mothers. Single mothers present a certain mindset and issues that come with that mindset that most men do not want to deal with. Again, a warning flag to consider and evaluate before making any commitments. I certainly want the best for them and their children and the best advice I can give them i to SLOW DOWN, stop the sex, take the time to get to know each other outside of the grieving process. I would talk to a pastor or priest they can trust as well, maybe get some pre-marital counseling to guide them through this major transition in their lives. Again, go slow, no rush, take alot of long walks together, talk things through, be realistic and honest with each other. Maybe take some time apart as well to allow yourself to grieve and process the death of a husband and Father.
I lived in the Philippines for 12yrs and have seen the coming and going of relationships. She talks a pretty good game but watch her expressions we he is speaking. In my opinion she found a mark. The gentleman has no street smarts and “excuse the term but I don’t know how else to say it in a more polite way” but he is not the brightest bulb on the tree. I wish them well, sometimes you get lemonade because I see an awful lot of lemons. The gentleman lacks
Hi @MichaelBuck I respect your concerns and appreciate your honesty. We're taking things slow and focusing on healing together. Thanks for looking out for us!
Great interview of a beautiful couple, Paul. They both have a great mindset going into their relationship. She understands her role as a girlfriend as she shows her appreciation and is willing to do her part in supporting her partner in their relationship. Most western women are narcissistic, self entitled and spoiled. I totally understand why western men seek love and relationships in other countries where the women are feminine, beautiful and supportive in their relationship. All the best to them and may their love continue to grow stronger each day. God bless them. 🙏🏼❤️
HOLD ON THERE BUD. THERE ARE FANTASTIC, WONDERFUL WESTERN WOMEN......AS THERE ARE DECEITFUL, EGOCENTRIC, AND JUST PLAIN BAD FILIPINAS. IT'S THE LUCK OF THE DRAW IN MANY CASES. AND LOOK AT THE PATHETIC BAG OF OLD, FAT, SLUG WESTERN MEN THAT HAVE SUCH A HARD TIME FINDING A GOOD WOMAN IN THE WEST. THESE DREGS ARE HERE, IN THE PHILIPPINES, KNOWING THAT THEY PROBABLY WILL GET LUCKY AND FIND A POOR, DESPERATE FILIPINA. SO THIS OH-SO-HANSOME MAN (RIGHT PAUL?) IS GETTING A TATTOOED, LIVEWIRE FILIPINA THAT I SUSPECT WILL BE MORE THAN THIS SAP CAN HANDLE. I WISH HIM LUCK.
@@lady_g1515 There are relationships like this all over the world. When the right woman and the right man get together...........it just works. Chose wisely.
God bless them, but I don't understand the economics. He has three kids back in the States and moves to the Philippines to live with a single mom with several kids of her own, and one has cancer? I would be interested in learning about how that works financially. Because I don't understand how people do that. I wish love, health, and happiness to all involved.
Wow! David doesnt even look 30... Great interview Paul... So glad they found each other...Sizzy got her a good southern boy... David got him a very special girl... Thats awesome! Praying for them both... David, take her to church and put a ring on her finger... So God will bless ya'll... ❤🙏❤🙏
More red flags going in both directions with this couple than a Chinese Communist Parade. Ole mate Rich Cooper nails this perfect in his book.... Red Flag Single mothers too much baggage and this lady has lost a husband in a extremely sad circumstance....good luck to them!
They are just dating so Paul could not move beyond that with his questions. This is a unique interview and would be interesting to hear more of how this younger adult from the US is actually planning on making a new life in the Philippines. I have watched her channel and ask if that is her only income. As with most fillipina channels, they cater to foreign men and I ask how he feels about that. I don't think she will want to delete or do a cooking channel just because he asked her to. Is he living off a military pension. His age would indicate that he might have young children in the States. Is he living in the Philippines permanently and if he is, is he divorced and paying allimony and or child support back in the states. How does she feel about him having and leaving young children when they need their Dad the most.
@@AmericaManFilipinoWife family dynamics plays an important role in any relationship. If he plans to remain in the Philippines and move his children, there will be much dedicated time for adjustment. A lot to take on and if this is the women he choses to marry, hopefully all will fall into place.
I agree. There remains alot of questions on this very fast relationship. I am the type that questions things and not afraid to ask those hard questions especially when I se so many in the comments that just go along with the flow and dont want to upset the apple cart of romance in the air, and dont address the obvious flags. I am old enough and experienced enough to know this relationship has moved way to fast with way to many red flags. Were is the grieving for the loss of a husband and the FATHER of her kids? He said he has three kids, is he paying child support, do the kids live with him, what is the status of his children. Are her children grieving the loss of their father? I never advise people to rush into another relationship after a divorce or death in the family. It takes TIME to work through the grieving process and work through the healing that needs to be done. Yes, they are just dating for now. But from what I saw there is already a physical and emotional bond, and this comes from a man that stepped in as the "hero", the one she could talk to through the initial separation and then death of her husband. She clings to him for support, emotionally and financially. These dynamics dont allow for REAL LOVE to grow and blossom. The concern will be later down the line with the healing process for her and her kids as well as him and his divorce and three kids. There is alot to unravel here and they should not take things lightly or let a physical attraction get in the way. I can tell they already have slept with each other. They are both more liberated as they have tattoos, so probably are not conservative or religious and may not have a faith to rely on to help them through all that is to come. Many like this just dont see what all the fuss is about. They just hop into bed with each other, figure they are good people and expect everything to just magically work out. I have questioned her TH-cam channel as well and the way she comes across and projects herself. She also just did an interview with an 18 year old, and it came across as supporting the "independent" woman, and getting an education and job before getting a man. IT sounded just like the advice women get her in the states and from which ex pats are leaving. We want traditional women, with traditional values and not this independence mindset. Its also the same reasoning with single mothers. Single mothers present a certain mindset and issues that come with that mindset that most men do not want to deal with. Again, a warning flag to consider and evaluate before making any commitments.
He doesn’t seem to be very well educated and she seems to be well educated on how the game is played. David has 3 children and plans to move to the Philippines and live with a lady that already has children, one sadly with cancer. What could go wrong with this relationship???
Great interview, great couple. One thing though is I broke all the rules,met my Phillapina partner online and have been to the Phillipines twice in the past year and going back again in February. I have lead with my wallet not through her asking but on basic necessities and putting her through a caregiver course to give her the opportunity to make a difference to her life. We are now committed to each other and when she finishes her last 6 months of training will join me in New Zealand as a qualified caregiver with great employment opportunities. Each situation is different and leading with the wallet is about making smart choices not trying to impress. Again great channel.
I have been through a long online dating with a great SEA lady journey. Its much easier to be brutally honest with things. If your honest you don't have to keep track of what your said. 10 married years later ... Best of luck to Steph and Dave. I hope things go well for you. Thanks Paul
I agree on being grateful for his service. Unfortunately TOO MANY soldiers get killed and kill many patriots of foreign lands all based on USA propaganda. We thank them for preserving our democracy but realize this - the USA are not the ones who wear WHITE HATS.
I’ve followed Sizzy’s channel and her challenges life has dealt her. This guy seems like such a sincere guy but he’s young. I wish them both all the best in their relationship. Thanks for sharing Paul!
Nice video, well done Paul, great line of questioning as always. This is a great story and one that was meant to be. The way they came together is like God brought them together. They make a very nice couple and I wish them all the best. I have subscribed to Sizzy Kelly The Hot Mama, so I look forward to checking out her content. As always Paul, great content and always quality watching. I also thank David for his service to our country, well done sir, and God Bless. Wishing Stefanie and David a lifetime of love and contentment for each other. Enjoy life, the lord knows it is short.
Hi Paul, i was laughing out loud 😆 i am glad Sizzy Kelly got herself a great guy. We all like Sizzy because she is very realistic. All the best for there journey ahead 👍😊
Great interview with a great couple, Paul 👍 Not all relationships are ‘conventional’, and mine definitely isn’t 😲 If we ever get the chance to sit down and meet, you’ll see that not all relationships follow the same script, and a couple can still be very happy together ❤️ Lessons learned from many mistakes, on both of our lives
I sit at home watching my gorgeous pinay on the dating site videos I first saw last July and then I read her many mails to me. WOW! I hope things work out for these 2. It is nice to know that it isn't just us antiques hooking up with the lovely pinay's. I'll bet that David enjoys being Stefani's camera guy and Paul knows how that goes. HA! I wonder when he will buy her elevator shoes... On line dating: I've found that we have the opportunity to ask relevant questions and consider our options without $$$ or sex being an issue. WHEN I finally meet her our foundation to our relationship will be fully formed. Then is when we will decide on whether to build it up, or let it die on the vine. It has to be better than playing pinay hunter in the Philippines. GREAT CONTENT! Thank you for sharing this, Paul. 👍 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
In my experience, most Pinays will fall in love with a guy who is good to them, sincere, and accept them as they are as a woman. This relationship has moved on a fast track, it might fail.. But hey, good things come to those who are willing to give it an honest try. Best of luck to both of them.
"how she got so lucky" and Steph bursts out laughing! Now there is something you'd never see if he said that back home. Every woman thinks she is a 10, really a 12, but she is "humble". Regardless of how many teeth or how many extra roll of fat, or even a complete LACK of understanding basic math. I've been watching multiple channels of the Philippines. And the 1 thing I have yet to see is a fake smile. Thanks guys.
Your comments are appreciated iated by other viewers and I'm sure by the interviewees and Paul. They look like a success story. Hope he is welcomed by her family and not taken for granted or exploited. Kudos to him for taking on a ready made family. I don't know how he can adjust to such a drastic change in environment and daily routine. From 100 mph. > 10mph. I'd like to speak to them about potential business opportunities sense he probably will marry a national as well as my wife has dual citizenship. Several of the expats would benefit from like minded ( genuine ) expats who want to create security for their families as well as provide incomes for many Filipinos.
I would like to know from you the following please: Do you have any suggestions for the general public as far as hotels and other venues for the upcoming new year's celebration? Thank you.
Hi @fernandomofreita79 Thanks! We recommend checking out Dumaguete's popular spots like Robinsons Mall, Silliman University, or the Rizal Boulevard for a lively NYE celebration.
Dear Sissy Kelly, experientially you’ve been Brutally Honest through your channel so Prayers 🙏🏼that your Overwhelming Consideration for others, has drawn you to a Worthy Life Partner, Oo. SipaG ArumunA 🎗️🎖️☂️🎶 26:06
Hey Paul I just wanted to say I love watching your channel. My story is sort of long, but I'll try to keep it short. I'm from Los Angeles, California area and been living there since 2017 2018.. I was working for a high-tech company which everybody knows is AT&T. Working as a desktop support engineer.. When I came across your video I thought to myself. Why am I beating myself up living in struggling in California. I was only making 64k a year. 2 years ago when I was approaching my retirement age at 62 I thought to myself. Why don't I retire but Live a comfortable living. Then in 2020 22 I pulled the trigger and started to receive my SS. During that time I was communicating with a Filipino in the Philippines. And this video will tell you pretty much the story.
Hey, great video Paul! I have to admit though, that I though you were teeing it up for the Filipina Pea! Well, at least now I know she's still available!
Good luck to them. For some reason, I don't see a long term future. Who really knows. But... usually ... I think you should be there for at least a few years before making that kind of commitment.
Congradulation Stephany you found love my friend, thats awesome, glad you are so happy again, and hope your daughter is much better now, god bless You mate and your family and new lover, well done, your mate always Daza x
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Oops, I found it and posted before I saw you reply. Sorry man. :) BTW, I'm over here now in Tanza, Cavite :) Similar story and loving the womderful woman I am now with! Thank you for all the truth and information you share on your channel. You are the best!
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234You're Welcome And Thank You ! I Love Your Channel , Mae's Channel And Stephany's Channel And Think David Is A Great Guy ! 🙂🙂🙂
I made so many mistakes with the first philipina gf. Led with my wallet. She was trying to support her whole family through me. Always financial emergencies came up. Went to visit her. Let her hold the money. Out of money the first week. Cash advance to continue the vacation. She didn't love me, she needed me. Feels good at first to be needed but then it becomes a heavy burden. Back home, I would live frugallly in order to send support. Meanwhile, she would take the family out and enjoy life. It was unsustainable. My new philipina gf has 3 jobs and never asks for money. I think I should see if she'll send me money
quick summary: his profile is instant attraction. Nothing more nothing less. she's average Pinay who got her lotto guy. Guys remember you are the lottery. No need to dream.
He is probably getting VA benefits for disability since he was in the military. If he is 100% medically rated he's getting almost 4k a month. The issue would be how is he supporting his kids back home. He probably has to pay alimony to his first wife. @@Baloybeach
"Don't lead with your wallet" Guys this great advice. But you probably will. I made that mistake unconsciously. The difference in prices compared to my home was so drastic. The things I considered small and unsignificant they still regarded as wealthy.
Hi @Fat_Old_Bald Good reminder! We've learned the hard way too, having to adjust our spending habits significantly. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I am glad they found each other. They seem like a good match and can have a good life together. I like how he respects that she is an independent, strong woman and saw she also was loyal. They can exist together.
He's too proud, I've never seen a Filipina that accepts that behavior. He's completely new to the country, still he's talking about it like a man living here for years would do. No one likes that, try to cool down, be humble, listen and learn. Let your girlfriend talk, don't interrupt her to show how much more you know. Otherwise you will lose both this girl and the one after that too.
Paul, I have a question for you in regards to the truth about the "off loading" of PH citizens; how difficult has it been for Baby Mae to be given permission to leave on your excursions to neighboring countries? I'm a recent subscriber to the expat community on YT and my feed is now generating videos about the offloading of citizens who are attempting to travel out of the country with their expat partners/husbands. What is your take on this issue? I also want to say that I enjoy yours and Baby Mae's videos and appreciate the wonderful cohesion among the PH community of expat bloggers as seen on YT; it's interesting and positive to see a significant number of expats regularly interacting on each other's channels.
Paul, I'm getting ready to return after a unexpected lengthly stay back in the states. I asked you before if I could bring back ANYTHING you desired from the states and got nothing back but so.e chocolate for Mae. If you haven't purchased the S23 Samsung phone yet ( ? ) let me know a nd SAVE the import tax through Amazon. There is T-MOBILE just blocks from where I'm staying. I've already gotten you a few things that I know you use. I'll get Mae her candy when I know when our flight will be. Please reply.
Dirty Paul is cheap
and your a coward
your mothers a wharfy@@libatalklieb5793
This troll made a user account ONE day ago to make that comment here...🤣🤣🤣 He/she/it must have had all his/her/its other accounts banned by TH-cam...
@@PaulM745 or maybe in just telling the truth , how bout your glory hole Paul M
@@PaulM745 it's strange how people will make malicious comments to you online but would never have the gaul to say it to your face ... cowardly and just plain weird.
There remains alot of questions on this very fast relationship. I am the type that questions things and not afraid to ask those hard questions especially when I see so many in the comments that just go along with the flow and dont want to upset the apple cart of romance in the air, and dont address the obvious flags.
I am old enough and experienced enough to know this relationship has moved way to fast with way to many red flags. Were is the grieving for the loss of a husband and the FATHER of her kids? He said he has three kids, is he paying child support, do the kids live with him, what is the status of his children. Are her children grieving the loss of their father? I never advise people to rush into another relationship after a divorce or death in the family. It takes TIME to work through the grieving process and work through the healing that needs to be done.
Yes, they are just dating for now. But from what I saw there is already a physical and emotional bond, and this comes from a man that stepped in as the "hero", the one she could talk to through the initial separation and then death of her husband. She clings to him for support, emotionally and financially. These dynamics dont allow for REAL LOVE to grow and blossom. The concern will be later down the line with the healing process for her and her kids as well as him and his divorce and three kids.
There is alot to unravel here and they should not take things lightly or let a physical attraction get in the way. I can tell they already have slept with each other. They are both more liberated as they have tattoos, so probably are not conservative or religious and may not have a faith to rely on to help them through all that is to come. Many like this just dont see what all the fuss is about. They just hop into bed with each other, figure they are good people and expect everything to just magically work out.
I have questioned her TH-cam channel as well and the way she comes across and projects herself. She also just did an interview with an 18 year old, and it came across as supporting the "independent" woman, and getting an education and job before getting a man. It sounded just like the advice women get here in the states and from which ex pats are leaving. We want traditional women, with traditional values and not this independence mindset. Its also the same reasoning with single mothers. Single mothers present a certain mindset and issues that come with that mindset that most men do not want to deal with. Again, a warning flag to consider and evaluate before making any commitments.
I certainly want the best for them and their children and the best advice I can give them i to SLOW DOWN, stop the sex, take the time to get to know each other outside of the grieving process. I would talk to a pastor or priest they can trust as well, maybe get some pre-marital counseling to guide them through this major transition in their lives. Again, go slow, no rush, take alot of long walks together, talk things through, be realistic and honest with each other. Maybe take some time apart as well to allow yourself to grieve and process the death of a husband and Father.
I lived in the Philippines for 12yrs and have seen the coming and going of relationships.
She talks a pretty good game but watch her expressions we he is speaking. In my opinion she found a mark.
The gentleman has no street smarts and “excuse the term but I don’t know how else to say it in a more polite way” but he is not the brightest bulb on the tree.
I wish them well, sometimes you get lemonade because I see an awful lot of lemons.
The gentleman lacks
I believe it’s her who has 3 kids not him and she said she had a grieving period of 6 months
Hi @MichaelBuck I respect your concerns and appreciate your honesty. We're taking things slow and focusing on healing together. Thanks for looking out for us!
Interesting video Paul, thanks for posting
Hi @samuelmendoza8585 You're welcome!
sad to say but this relationship is doomed to fail, this guy has a family in the US the sheer economics will overwhelm them
Hi @robertdavis7312 Understood that there may be challenges ahead, but we're taking it one step at a time and focusing on our love for each other.
Amusing as always
Great interview of a beautiful couple, Paul. They both have a great mindset going into their relationship. She understands her role as a girlfriend as she shows her appreciation and is willing to do her part in supporting her partner in their relationship. Most western women are narcissistic, self entitled and spoiled. I totally understand why western men seek love and relationships in other countries where the women are feminine, beautiful and supportive in their relationship. All the best to them and may their love continue to grow stronger each day. God bless them. 🙏🏼❤️
HOLD ON THERE BUD. THERE ARE FANTASTIC, WONDERFUL WESTERN WOMEN......AS THERE ARE DECEITFUL, EGOCENTRIC, AND JUST PLAIN BAD FILIPINAS. IT'S THE LUCK OF THE DRAW IN MANY CASES. AND LOOK AT THE PATHETIC BAG OF OLD, FAT, SLUG WESTERN MEN THAT HAVE SUCH A HARD TIME FINDING A GOOD WOMAN IN THE WEST. THESE DREGS ARE HERE, IN THE PHILIPPINES, KNOWING THAT THEY PROBABLY WILL GET LUCKY AND FIND A POOR, DESPERATE FILIPINA. SO THIS OH-SO-HANSOME MAN (RIGHT PAUL?) IS GETTING A TATTOOED, LIVEWIRE FILIPINA THAT I SUSPECT WILL BE MORE THAN THIS SAP CAN HANDLE. I WISH HIM LUCK.
Hi @azspeedster5465 Thank you for your kind words! We appreciate the support.
Keep up the good work Paul
Great video Paul, please do more videos on Philippine American relationships.
Hi @1951Roy Thanks for the feedback! We'll definitely consider creating more content around our cultural differences and similarities.
I’m Filipina but I think she’s liberated she has tattoo ,strong personality ,
She’s liberated because she has a tattoo 🙄What a goofy correlation.
@@lady_g1515 There are relationships like this all over the world. When the right woman and the right man get together...........it just works. Chose wisely.
Hi @gheecute5573 Love her spirit!
What a great couple!
Unfortunately I led with my wallet in Thailand with a lady, but, we learn from our mistakes.
Totally understand
Take some time off from relationships and focus on you
Get out there and travel
I think we all make mistakes but do we learn or do the same over? I learned my lesson ask God to help me, prayers was answered! I found her! Amen.
I'm really happy for you
@@RetireandGo Thank you for your feedback
Hi @stephengarratt8027 Thanks for sharing your experience! We've learned from ours too!
David, Stefanie & Old Dog :
Tks., much appreciative.
Hi @JMoroccoMisterBoy Thanks!
hopefully the dream is close to the reality. good luck yall
Hi @DHcycling Thanks, hope so too!
God bless them, but I don't understand the economics. He has three kids back in the States and moves to the Philippines to live with a single mom with several kids of her own, and one has cancer? I would be interested in learning about how that works financially. Because I don't understand how people do that. I wish love, health, and happiness to all involved.
Hi @jimsullivanyoutube We're blessed to have found each other, and we make it work with some careful planning!
Nice video. Thanks.
Hey Paul, great job on helping out Ken! Well done! Cheers 👍
Thanks so much 👍
Great job Paul and Mae.
Great inter they look like a happy couple
Thank you Paul, to this couples interview as they are what I feel is what a FilAm couple should be 😊
Hi @steveperyer4850 Thank you! We're grateful for your kind words.
Wow! David doesnt even look 30... Great interview Paul... So glad they found each other...Sizzy got her a good southern boy... David got him a very special girl... Thats awesome! Praying for them both... David, take her to church and put a ring on her finger... So God will bless ya'll... ❤🙏❤🙏
Hi @robertputt7794 Thanks for the kind words and blessings for our friends David and Sizzy!
Single mom red flag 🚩
Tats red 🚩
Family could also be red 🚩
Good luck to this young couple. They both seem great
EXACTLY what I was thinking. But hey, to each his own as this guy may not have many other options.
@@frankjarlesen8978 you might be right. I would read rich coopers 20 red flags though.
More red flags going in both directions with this couple than a Chinese Communist Parade. Ole mate Rich Cooper nails this perfect in his book.... Red Flag Single mothers too much baggage and this lady has lost a husband in a extremely sad circumstance....good luck to them!
They are just dating so Paul could not move beyond that with his questions. This is a unique interview and would be interesting to hear more of how this younger adult from the US is actually planning on making a new life in the Philippines. I have watched her channel and ask if that is her only income. As with most fillipina channels, they cater to foreign men and I ask how he feels about that. I don't think she will want to delete or do a cooking channel just because he asked her to. Is he living off a military pension. His age would indicate that he might have young children in the States. Is he living in the Philippines permanently and if he is, is he divorced and paying allimony and or child support back in the states. How does she feel about him having and leaving young children when they need their Dad the most.
all good questions.
@@AmericaManFilipinoWife family dynamics plays an important role in any relationship. If he plans to remain in the Philippines and move his children, there will be much dedicated time for adjustment. A lot to take on and if this is the women he choses to marry, hopefully all will fall into place.
I agree. There remains alot of questions on this very fast relationship. I am the type that questions things and not afraid to ask those hard questions especially when I se so many in the comments that just go along with the flow and dont want to upset the apple cart of romance in the air, and dont address the obvious flags.
I am old enough and experienced enough to know this relationship has moved way to fast with way to many red flags. Were is the grieving for the loss of a husband and the FATHER of her kids? He said he has three kids, is he paying child support, do the kids live with him, what is the status of his children. Are her children grieving the loss of their father? I never advise people to rush into another relationship after a divorce or death in the family. It takes TIME to work through the grieving process and work through the healing that needs to be done.
Yes, they are just dating for now. But from what I saw there is already a physical and emotional bond, and this comes from a man that stepped in as the "hero", the one she could talk to through the initial separation and then death of her husband. She clings to him for support, emotionally and financially. These dynamics dont allow for REAL LOVE to grow and blossom. The concern will be later down the line with the healing process for her and her kids as well as him and his divorce and three kids.
There is alot to unravel here and they should not take things lightly or let a physical attraction get in the way. I can tell they already have slept with each other. They are both more liberated as they have tattoos, so probably are not conservative or religious and may not have a faith to rely on to help them through all that is to come. Many like this just dont see what all the fuss is about. They just hop into bed with each other, figure they are good people and expect everything to just magically work out.
I have questioned her TH-cam channel as well and the way she comes across and projects herself. She also just did an interview with an 18 year old, and it came across as supporting the "independent" woman, and getting an education and job before getting a man. IT sounded just like the advice women get her in the states and from which ex pats are leaving. We want traditional women, with traditional values and not this independence mindset. Its also the same reasoning with single mothers. Single mothers present a certain mindset and issues that come with that mindset that most men do not want to deal with. Again, a warning flag to consider and evaluate before making any commitments.
He doesn’t seem to be very well educated and she seems to be well educated on how the game is played.
David has 3 children and plans to move to the Philippines and live with a lady that already has children, one sadly with cancer.
What could go wrong with this relationship???
That's the truth. Definitely
This man's dedication to his doggo is impressive. God rest the pups soul . Good work boss
Magandag Gabi Po! Lovely couple, keep it going. My best wishes on their endeavor.
Maraming Salamat for serving the Good Old USA.
Mabuhay
Nice interview Paul, Congratulations Steph ( Sizzy Kelly ) !!! Good luck to the couple !
Hi @stanleyboothe4893 Thanks for the congrats! We appreciate your support.
Great content and information like the couple
Hi @bernardknowles8421 Thanks for watching!
Best wishes to you both.
Hi @freedomwillring6749 Thank you!
Great interview, great couple. One thing though is I broke all the rules,met my Phillapina partner online and have been to the Phillipines twice in the past year and going back again in February. I have lead with my wallet not through her asking but on basic necessities and putting her through a caregiver course to give her the opportunity to make a difference to her life. We are now committed to each other and when she finishes her last 6 months of training will join me in New Zealand as a qualified caregiver with great employment opportunities. Each situation is different and leading with the wallet is about making smart choices not trying to impress. Again great channel.
Hi @johnjury4334 Thanks for sharing your story, glad you enjoyed the interview!
Paul’s videos are best when Paul talks the most.
Hi @elephantinrm I'll make sure to share more of my thoughts and experiences from now on!
Thanks Paul I am very appreciated your interview both couple
Hi @rosemariemandal4568 You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed the vlog.
Great Video/Interview Paul 😊. David and Stephanie seem like a very good couple 💑.
Good content Sir Paul 👏.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏.
Hi @rickylee6129 Thanks, appreciate it! David and Stephanie are awesome, we're lucky to have them on our channel. Stay tuned for more!
Good video 👍🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Have a great interview both couple
Hi @rosemariemandal4568 Thanks! We appreciate your support.
I have been through a long online dating with a great SEA lady journey. Its much easier to be brutally honest with things. If your honest you don't have to keep track of what your said. 10 married years later ...
Best of luck to Steph and Dave. I hope things go well for you.
Thanks Paul
Hi @paulperano9236 Thanks for sharing your experience! We appreciate the honesty tip
Morning Paul. Thanks for our freedoms David USA 🇺🇸
Good morning!
I agree on being grateful for his service. Unfortunately TOO MANY soldiers get killed and kill many patriots of foreign lands all based on USA propaganda. We thank them for preserving our democracy but realize this - the USA are not the ones who wear WHITE HATS.
I’ve followed Sizzy’s channel and her challenges life has dealt her. This guy seems like such a sincere guy but he’s young. I wish them both all the best in their relationship. Thanks for sharing Paul!
Hi @oncall21 Appreciate your kind words! Wishing the couple all the best too!
I'm leaving december for the philippines Have to leave my dog behind Please god take care of nana. Thank you for your service
Hi @markthomson170 Sorry to hear that! We hope Nana is well taken care of while you're away. Good luck with your move!
Nice video, well done Paul, great line of questioning as always. This is a great story and one that was meant to be. The way they came together is like God brought them together. They make a very nice couple and I wish them all the best. I have subscribed to Sizzy Kelly The Hot Mama, so I look forward to checking out her content.
As always Paul, great content and always quality watching. I also thank David for his service to our country, well done sir, and God Bless. Wishing Stefanie and David a lifetime of love and contentment for each other. Enjoy life, the lord knows it is short.
Hi @waynebard5809 Thanks for your kind words! Glad you enjoyed the video. Appreciate your support for Sizzy Kelly too. - Paul
Good for them, she got a well mannered Ga. Boy, much luck to them both 😊
Hi @unclejessiephilippinesadve7050 Thanks! We appreciate your kind words.
CONGRADULATIONS Sizzy kelly,you deserve each other!
Hi @danielashlock4156 Thanks for the congratulations!
Great couple. I wish them much success.
Hi @ronwilliams1385 Thank you! We appreciate your support.
My favorite Philippines channels are this one and the Pea😊
Hi @clydekimsey7503 Thanks for watching! We're glad to be among your favorites!
Hi Paul, i was laughing out loud 😆 i am glad Sizzy Kelly got herself a great guy. We all like Sizzy because she is very realistic. All the best for there journey ahead 👍😊
Hi @KevinVanRooyen-ik1pr Thanks! I'm happy for them too, Sizzy's a great person!
Great interview Paul, I'll be in Dumaguete in February, maybe I'll see you then.
Hi @miguelc.819 Thanks! Would love to catch up if you're in town!
I wish these two the best of luck with their relationship. Glad Sizzy found someone she likes.
Hi @williambreeze2659 Thanks for the kind words! We're grateful too.
What a lovely couple -- I wish them much happyness in the PH.
Hi @boink800 Thank you, we appreciate your kind words!
Lovely couple!
Hi @c1catwoman794 Thanks for watching and loving our story!
Great interview with a great couple, Paul 👍
Not all relationships are ‘conventional’, and mine definitely isn’t 😲 If we ever get the chance to sit down and meet, you’ll see that not all relationships follow the same script, and a couple can still be very happy together ❤️
Lessons learned from many mistakes, on both of our lives
Hi @jerrymarshall2728 Thank you for watching! We're grateful for the opportunity to share our story.
Paul and baby Mae! Hope you guys are ok in Dumaguete? Vlog soon! Prayers and thoughts to you and all!!!
We are fine, thanks so much for your concern
perfect match I salute you nawa'y lumigaya kayoing dalawa. Kahanga-hangang talaga.
Congratulations Stephanie
Hi @thomassflorida9886 Thank you!
I sit at home watching my gorgeous pinay on the dating site videos I first saw last July and then I read her many mails to me.
WOW! I hope things work out for these 2. It is nice to know that it isn't just us antiques hooking up with the lovely pinay's.
I'll bet that David enjoys being Stefani's camera guy and Paul knows how that goes. HA! I wonder when he will buy her elevator shoes...
On line dating: I've found that we have the opportunity to ask relevant questions and consider our options without $$$ or sex being an issue. WHEN I finally meet her our foundation to our relationship will be fully formed. Then is when we will decide on whether to build it up, or let it die on the vine. It has to be better than playing pinay hunter in the Philippines.
GREAT CONTENT! Thank you for sharing this, Paul. 👍
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Hi @Danno_A_Jyd Thanks! I'm glad you enjoyed the video and story of our relationship.
In my experience, most Pinays will fall in love with a guy who is good to them, sincere, and accept them as they are as a woman. This relationship has moved on a fast track, it might fail.. But hey, good things come to those who are willing to give it an honest try. Best of luck to both of them.
Hi @PaulM745 Thanks for sharing your insights! We're just taking things one day at a time and being genuine in our relationship.
"how she got so lucky" and Steph bursts out laughing! Now there is something you'd never see if he said that back home. Every woman thinks she is a 10, really a 12, but she is "humble". Regardless of how many teeth or how many extra roll of fat, or even a complete LACK of understanding basic math. I've been watching multiple channels of the Philippines. And the 1 thing I have yet to see is a fake smile. Thanks guys.
Your comments are appreciated iated by other viewers and I'm sure by the interviewees and Paul. They look like a success story. Hope he is welcomed by her family and not taken for granted or exploited. Kudos to him for taking on a ready made family. I don't know how he can adjust to such a drastic change in environment and daily routine. From 100 mph. > 10mph. I'd like to speak to them about potential business opportunities sense he probably will marry a national as well as my wife has dual citizenship. Several of the expats would benefit from like minded ( genuine ) expats who want to create security for their families as well as provide incomes for many Filipinos.
@@ksmithpmp why did she laugh then?
Hi @goatman3828 Love that observation! We agree, Filipinas are known for their genuine smiles.
Congratulations Sizzy Kelly ❤
Thanks ate
Hi @annbreakable4228 Thanks!
I would like to know from you the following please:
Do you have any suggestions for the general public as far as hotels and other venues for the upcoming new year's celebration?
Thank you.
Hi @fernandomofreita79 Thanks! We recommend checking out Dumaguete's popular spots like Robinsons Mall, Silliman University, or the Rizal Boulevard for a lively NYE celebration.
Dear Sissy Kelly, experientially you’ve been Brutally Honest through your channel so Prayers 🙏🏼that your Overwhelming Consideration for others, has drawn you to a Worthy Life Partner, Oo.
SipaG ArumunA 🎗️🎖️☂️🎶 26:06
Hi @fanaticforager6610 Thank you! We're grateful for the love and support 🙏
They look so good together. High hopes for them.
Hi @Mexicobeanpole Thanks, we appreciate your kind words!
Hey Paul I just wanted to say I love watching your channel. My story is sort of long, but I'll try to keep it short. I'm from Los Angeles, California area and been living there since 2017 2018.. I was working for a high-tech company which everybody knows is AT&T. Working as a desktop support engineer.. When I came across your video I thought to myself. Why am I beating myself up living in struggling in California. I was only making 64k a year. 2 years ago when I was approaching my retirement age at 62 I thought to myself. Why don't I retire but Live a comfortable living. Then in 2020 22 I pulled the trigger and started to receive my SS. During that time I was communicating with a Filipino in the Philippines. And this video will tell you pretty much the story.
Hi @tonya2583 Thanks for sharing your story! Glad to hear our videos helped inspire change.
Let's see if this works out 🧐🙄 all sweet in the beginning
Hi @DaveD4v3 Sweet beginnings make for great memories!
Hey, great video Paul! I have to admit though, that I though you were teeing it up for the Filipina Pea! Well, at least now I know she's still available!
Hi @mikeb8872 Thanks for watching and laughing with us! We're glad we could surprise you.
I took note of his red flag about the slow response times. Similarly unusual absences for more than 2 days could also be a red flag.
Hi Paul. I'm planning on coming to Dumaguete with my gf for a week starting December 8th. I would love to meet you when we're here.
Hi @JJthelonelybullinasia Awesome, would be great to meet you both! We'd love to show you around and share some of our favorite spots in Dumaguete.
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Hi Paul. Most likely will make a trip back to Dumaguete sometime in June or July. I'll let you know.
Good luck to them. For some reason, I don't see a long term future. Who really knows. But... usually ... I think you should be there for at least a few years before making that kind of commitment.
Hi @151mcx Appreciate the well-wishes! We're taking things one day at a time and enjoying our journey together.
Seems That TH-cam link does not work for her channel
I think I got it fixed
Beautiful couple❤
Hi @Singlemomshie336 Thank you!
Solid dude. He will do well.
Hi @allgold8003 Thanks, appreciate your support!
Congradulation Stephany you found love my friend, thats awesome, glad you are so happy again, and hope your daughter is much better now, god bless You mate and your family and new lover, well done, your mate always Daza x
Thanks so much
watching this my gut is telling me i hope this young man keeps his money in his pocket
I hope he is supporting his children.
Hi @RetiredArmy2012 Understood! We'll just take things as they come and see where life takes us.
Just like to say great interview Old Dog.
I'm happy 😊 for Stephanie found love ❤️,they both look happy 😊 great looking couple. Luv you both Content.
Hi @user-gg3rb3lq6c Thanks for watching! We're glad you enjoyed the video.
What an awesome dude
Hi @mavrick5006 Thanks, appreciate the kind words!
Great video and a great love story, thank you so much.
Hi @jspice-kl2wc Thank you!
Good interview, I'm wondering how do you like your Wigo? maybe you could do a walk around, tell us what you like or don't like about it.
And how does he support, raise and see his children?
Hi @seaside2001 We're focusing on married life right now, but I'll make sure to share an update on family and kids soon!
After the earthquake today hope all is well.
We are fine 🙂
I like these kind of stories Paul ,,,,, wish the best for this nice couple
Hi @ARtruckdriver Thanks! We're grateful for your support!
Beautiful story.
Hi @dennisgonya4500 Thank you!
The link to her channel isn't working.
www.youtube.com/@sizzykelly
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Oops, I found it and posted before I saw you reply. Sorry man. :) BTW, I'm over here now in Tanza, Cavite :) Similar story and loving the womderful woman I am now with! Thank you for all the truth and information you share on your channel. You are the best!
I'm Happy For Both Of You ! I'm Glad He Was There For Stephany And Zeana During Zeana's Surgery ! 🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯
Hi @scottmason6282 Thank you, we're grateful for your kind words!
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234You're Welcome And Thank You ! I Love Your Channel , Mae's Channel And Stephany's Channel And Think David Is A Great Guy ! 🙂🙂🙂
I made so many mistakes with the first philipina gf. Led with my wallet. She was trying to support her whole family through me. Always financial emergencies came up. Went to visit her. Let her hold the money. Out of money the first week. Cash advance to continue the vacation. She didn't love me, she needed me. Feels good at first to be needed but then it becomes a heavy burden. Back home, I would live frugallly in order to send support. Meanwhile, she would take the family out and enjoy life. It was unsustainable. My new philipina gf has 3 jobs and never asks for money. I think I should see if she'll send me money
" The Devil traps the Man with Beautiful Women "
quick summary: his profile is instant attraction. Nothing more nothing less. she's average Pinay who got her lotto guy. Guys remember you are the lottery. No need to dream.
no way its lotto girl!
Where is the money coming from. 8yrs of service gives you zip. So show me the money. He has 3 kids she has kids. Show me the money.
He is probably getting VA benefits for disability since he was in the military. If he is 100% medically rated he's getting almost 4k a month.
The issue would be how is he supporting his kids back home. He probably has to pay alimony to his first wife. @@Baloybeach
Hi @AaronOlafson Thanks for sharing your thoughts! We're glad love found us, and it's all about being grateful.
I love this guy's hand gestures... just sayin'.
Unfortunately for me I am less interested in women with ink except Wang Od👍🇵🇭🇺🇸
Hi @Joepoe20041 Thanks for watching! We appreciate your honesty.
Morning Paul☕
Hi @randyr365 Morning! Thanks for tuning in!
Hey Dog, Juelles is better! Did you know about it?
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"Don't lead with your wallet" Guys this great advice. But you probably will. I made that mistake unconsciously. The difference in prices compared to my home was so drastic. The things I considered small and unsignificant they still regarded as wealthy.
Hi @Fat_Old_Bald Good reminder! We've learned the hard way too, having to adjust our spending habits significantly. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I am glad they found each other. They seem like a good match and can have a good life together. I like how he respects that she is an independent, strong woman and saw she also was loyal. They can exist together.
Hi @LKay742 Thanks for the kind words! We're grateful to have found each other too.
Hmmm.... She is a lucky filipina.
This looks like a rough path....
She was like wow, he has a veterans pension, sugar daddy! Seems like a good match anyway, haha.
What a lovely couple.
Hi @rikkim4818 Thanks! We're grateful for your kind words.
Please bring anyone to the U.S. Read about horror stories that exist in 2/3rd of these relationships
He's too proud, I've never seen a Filipina that accepts that behavior. He's completely new to the country, still he's talking about it like a man living here for years would do. No one likes that, try to cool down, be humble, listen and learn. Let your girlfriend talk, don't interrupt her to show how much more you know. Otherwise you will lose both this girl and the one after that too.
So true!
He's young so he has many options available.
👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Hi @ericsolkamans-kj2fd All good
Hmmm, ?????
Lol..I wish I was in his shoes. They both seem very happy and thats awesome!!
Paul, I have a question for you in regards to the truth about the "off loading" of PH citizens; how difficult has it been for Baby Mae to be given permission to leave on your excursions to neighboring countries? I'm a recent subscriber to the expat community on YT and my feed is now generating videos about the offloading of citizens who are attempting to travel out of the country with their expat partners/husbands. What is your take on this issue? I also want to say that I enjoy yours and Baby Mae's videos and appreciate the wonderful cohesion among the PH community of expat bloggers as seen on YT; it's interesting and positive to see a significant number of expats regularly interacting on each other's channels.
Paul, I'm getting ready to return after a unexpected lengthly stay back in the states. I asked you before if I could bring back ANYTHING you desired from the states and got nothing back but so.e chocolate for Mae. If you haven't purchased the S23 Samsung phone yet ( ? ) let me know a nd SAVE the import tax through Amazon. There is T-MOBILE just blocks from where I'm staying. I've already gotten you a few things that I know you use. I'll get Mae her candy when I know when our flight will be. Please reply.
S23 would be awesome! They charge $700 import fees and shipping costs from Amazon
Ewe, "...no more play for me...." the girlalu said 😂
The guy is dreaming 😂
Hi @gaboristvankiska7655 Thanks for watching! We're just enjoying the journey.