Great lessons learnt from this episode. 1. Before you consider the D word, try to utilise the C word. 2. Marriage is a cycle of problem and repair. 3. Repair your relationship with the Creator and He'll repair the relationship with the creations.
16:20 This always amazes and touches me! Allah swt created us in pairs and He did this so beautifully. When we embrace our male and female traits we complement each other so well and are able to live harmonious symbiosis subhanAllah. The relationship between husband and wife is such a beautiful thing!
May Allah give me an attractive, pious and powerful husband. A person who can be a beautiful garment for me. A best friend. Ameen. Am a 28yr old sister and i shall never give up hope.
Masha Allah, i was watching this randomly, had just woken up, now i know why "my marriage" is postponed SUBHAN ALLAH THERE IS SO MUCH and so much to know, i should write this now BARAKA ALLAHU LAKUMA,
It would be nice if there was a talk on step families. No one seems to talk about this part of the community. Also the new issues that are arising from ex wives and husbands being "friends" the chit chat that happens between them causing problems in the new marriage. What are the does and don'ts with ex spouses. So many second time marriages are failing because of this. And using children to meet up and so on. It would be great to address this part of the community life.
@@faebalina7786 yes, more rates of divorce and forming marriage with new spouses who come with children from both side if not one side. But the new issues really are the issues with ex husbands and wives still thinking they have rights over the person they are divorced from. I know a case where the ex wife still lives in the house with the man she is divorced from! And the man wants to marry and doesn't understand why his new wife has a problem with his ex wife! Crazy situation like this do exist. Then theirs the children card, we've got children so we do have to chit chat about them like as though we are still married. It's just chaos for anyone to move on. Also what is it teaching the children about divorce? It's okay to divorce but you can still be friends, when did islam allow friendship between men and women just because they have children. New spouses are told to just put up with the demands of their husband or wives ex spouses. This is not fair for any newly married person to put up with, too much unnecessary baggage. Anyway, these issues need to be sorted.
I love Sheikh Bilal. He has the knowledge and I absolutely adore his sense of humour. This is the 10 time I watched this episode on here, Facebook and spotify. May Alleh SWT reward you on everything you did for the umah. ❤
In my private elementary school we had to bring valentine cards for everyone. We decorated shoe boxes and milled around delivering cards. As a grown up looking back, it was quite silly, but it was fun for us as children. High school wasn't fun because it was different and no one delivered a rose to me and nothing was dropped in my locker. It was quite painful at the time, but no permanent scarring. That is such a problematic "holiday" in multiple ways.
Al salamu alaikum. barak Allah feekum for this great episode. you mentioned that before a couple go into divorce you ask them to try your way and give them strategies, PLEASE please make a part 2 where you go into details on what are some of the tips or the strategies you give to couples so at least we could start implementing them before it is too late.
Ihsan-- excellence in worship of The Merciful Rabb-- gratitude, dikr and shukr, for all the Ni'mah leads to more Barakah in the relationship... la'in shakartum la azeedannakum..Subhan Allah
You guys have very beautiful beards. Ma shaa Allah, Allahumma Baarik. I am jealous. may Allah forgive me and protect you from my jealousy and all others. aameen.
Saw this on digital mimbar, really entertaining! May Allah bless your marriages, i am really grateful for such a great video. The podcast format fits really well 😊
What a sweetie Sheikh Bilal, mashaALLAH. May ALLAH bless him, his family and his work, amin 🤲🏻 I am so happy to meet him for the first time here alhamduliLLAH I will be looking for his videos inshaALLAH 😊
Yeah,I feel like when it comes to the prophet's character (SAW)and how he dealt with his wives, it seems like some or a lot of men do not really take on that Sunnah, or else women wouldn't be asking for divorce
What is the name of this presenter? Alhamdulillah I’ve only come across him in the last two videos and already want to watch more content involving him seems like a genuine and humble brother ma sha Allah
Sheikh Bilal is so sweet and knowledgeable! So much good advice on a range of topics that I think the Sheikh can provide more advice and insight on. Please do have him on the show more. Thank you for this episode. Also, please have more female scholars and experts too. jzk
mashallah really enjoyed your conversation, may allah help this ummah to build healthy relationships and facilitating an enviroment for rightous generations
Allahummabaariklakumaa, that was really nice! Loved the mixture of seriousness and light jokes. These types of discussions always give me hope regarding marriage and finding a suitable spouse, as this can become quite an exhausting and disheartening experience. JazakumAllahukhairan!
jisse hmari shadi hoti hai..wahi suitable hota hai..islie marriges late i rahi hai..khud suitale dhoondne me umar nikal jati hai.or haram me parh jae hain.ye logon ki galt fehmi hai..suitable spous search krna parhta hai.
Masha Allah, good to listen this podcast as, I m looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
After I have read the Quran, I realized that all what humanity needs is this heavenly law. “The legislation of Quran will spread all over the world, because it agrees with the mind, logic and wisdom.” - Leo Tolstoy
32:09 Divorce is not a problem by itself, we have made it a problem. The Mother of the belivers where married and divorced or widowed 2 times (most of them, Except Aysha RA) Before getting married to Messenger of God (SA). As well as the sahabias. They understood the way it was. It just didn't worked out and they were okay with it. Both of them (marriage and divorce) are by the will of ALLAH. And is best for our self development. Marriage is a relationship of choice. Just make sure, you have the best intention and you do it by the way ALLAH commanded you to do so, and enter it and leave it as you like (with out doing julm on the opposite person.) Its a crucial medium by which you and your spouse improve as husband and wife.
Mohammad Mishkat Divorce is a problem. Your examples are not proving anything else. You should know despite being halal, divorce is hated by Allah SWT. Add to that the fact satan loves divorce more than adultery or fornication.
Unlike you brov, AlhamduliLLAH I actually know what I'm talking about, AlhamduliLLAH pretty well. And this is also the same stance on divorce of Dr. Yasir Qadhi. And most of my knowledge is, by the will of ALLAH, from YQ. If I thought you to be any what knowledgeable, I would certainly take the time to research, again, and pickup the numbers and stats and names and inform you about it. But the fact that you have based your aggressive comment on a hadidh which is not authentic and is also considered by a lot of u'lama including ustad Nouman Ali khan to be fabricated, shows you knowledge base. And you are arguing with me with these 2 extremely week hadidh shows your aggressive and twisted mentality. So I suggest you go and research from the best u'lama and sources. Islam is so beautiful brov, not only that it is the most documented religion in the history, but also we Muslims don't have to believe in anything which is not authentic. Let this be a reminder for you to gain authentic, dalil based knowledge. And of coarse ALLAH Ta ALA said, "Let the believers benefit from the reminders. I apologize if I hurt anyone. Salam brov.
Mohammad Mishkat I stopped reading at "Yasir Qadhi". I'm sorry to say but nothing I say either from Qur'an or Hadith will convince you if you're taking heed from a deviant like Yasir Qadhi.
I'm in my late 30s and have been divorced since my mid 20s...... Still single, when I was younger I focused on raising my child and getting to know myself..... When I processed and preserved in my 30s, I'm now too old to have kids, all my friends are married so not aware of any non married men in my age bracket, but loads 10 years younger..... So what I'm saying in a long winded way is..... Just asking your friends, parents and university isn't an option for people my age.....
Follow into the footsteps of our beloved Rasulallah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and marry those who are divorced or widowed and surely you will receive a lot of barakat. I am a 30yo divorced sister with a little girl and I just got married to a 32yo brother who is also a divorcee alhamdulillah. With today's divorce rates soaring you are sure to find your other half even beyond the age of 30 inshaAllah.
@@diruholic jazallah khayr sister and congratulations on your marriage. I have to say though a 30 year old woman has more options open to her, than a 38 year old woman. Divorced men my age are marrying women your age, as women younger than 35 are at their premium (fertility wise) . Men in 40s are also looking for women 35 and younger. I'm open to marrying a man who is divorced, from a different ethnicity and race however its harder the old you become and there really isn't a place that facilitates introductions or even discuss the difficulties people my age and older are facing or ways in which we can solve it. But at the end of the day, it is was Allah wills.
@@nua.h2757 Lol I'm confused that you're confused.... To clarify I'm a woman 😂 The young men I mentioned are 10 years or more younger than me. A men a few years younger is OK, but ideally a divorcee would be best in his mid to late 30's as we would have shared experiences... Its difficult the older you become, however if it's Allah will then it will happen inshallah
الحَمْد لله Allahumma Barik I and My husband had a very simple Nikah in presence of few relatives only and segregated,no free mixing Nikah had food and dispersed and سبحان الله we are reaping the benefits and barakah to this day Allahumma Barik❤️❤️❤️ May Allah increase each other in Barakah آمين
14:30 Why is it always said man wants respect and woman want love? Mostly men are already disrespectful to their wives. Soothing them by such kind of statements!!! Both need love and respect
Respect is earned and love is a 2 way street. Both of them need to be given by both for one to feel them. The average person understands they need to be able to provide both of their needs for a happy life. But the thing about averages is that there are people who are below average. They want to just take take and take. And 1 of those people leaves such a bad taste we need about 10 people to balance them out.
Allahumma baarik, may allah bless you brothers and also our fellow Muslims who are involved in producing all of these extremely beneficial videos. If possible, please could you continue this particular topic/discussion by releasing further versions/episodes e.g. part 1, part 2 etc. Jazakallahu khairan
A husband who does not controls anger due to pride and arrogance then violates the marriage with abuse cannot save his family. Once abuse takes place the family deteriorates to a level where worship of Allah is minimised, the husband becomes a hypocrite and he prays but shows no love and deprives the woman and children. Its healthier to detach if a man seeks no help then no one can help him. The woman stays on but then she breaks and it cause more damage that is when one should get out and save the children.
It's like you were a witness to what happened in my family. Now me and my siblings have mental health/emotional issues due to our fathers abuse for so long( literally until my mom died last year). Abuse is so destructive to the family unit. If you "stay for the sake of the kid(s)" or whatever excuse you are telling yourself, you are going to cause life long damage to yourself and your child(ren). Not to mention a high risk of you or your child(ren) completely removing themselves from the Deen as a result. Your child(ren) will also normalize the abuse and continue this horrible legacy by choosing abusive partners or become abusers themselves. Is it worth it? Ask yourself that...
@@FutureFendiFsnista they seem to worry about what people will say, or being alone, and so they just stay in the abuse ,which affects them and the children
Marriage nowadays has nothing to do with what it should be or what it used to be.. It's all about money now.. Unfortunately.. I want to get married. I know that I can provide.. But No. Providing isn't enough these days.. Luxury is the key..
Good podcast but I think you should go a bit deeper it's too shallow when you guys speak about marriage. There are many many things you should speak about. The influence of mothers on either husband or wife, the influence of society etc all these play a big role
They are both equal, The beauty of the partner Where they are, what level are they on in deen. Imagine you marry the later. So they are attractive but have a base line of deen and they are not coming with you on your journey. You end up being on your own even though there is two of you. If they have deen and are on your journey actually, they are a few steps further from you, that’s great ! but not so much if you don’t find them attractive. You need to find a nice balance of both.
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“Good marriages keep us happier and healthier.” ❤️ So true, Masha Allah.
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Polygamy marriages destroy happiness!
@@JahannamHellfire it only makes womanizer men happy but makes women and children unhappy
What a gem "Don't make permanent decisions from a temporary situation" Subhanallah this applies to all parts of life!
Great lessons learnt from this episode.
1. Before you consider the D word, try to utilise the C word.
2. Marriage is a cycle of problem and repair.
3. Repair your relationship with the Creator and He'll repair the relationship with the creations.
d word c word?
Roonz AKA HR60
Divorce and Creator .... not the naughty words
3. Is so beautyfull jamila. If better If still Peace of Point.
@@haroonq2456 38:19 divorce and counselling
Jazakallah for rephrasing...
16:20 This always amazes and touches me! Allah swt created us in pairs and He did this so beautifully. When we embrace our male and female traits we complement each other so well and are able to live harmonious symbiosis subhanAllah. The relationship between husband and wife is such a beautiful thing!
Calmly and interestingly discussing a very important topic. I really enjoy the sheikh being very practical.
May Allah give me an attractive, pious and powerful husband. A person who can be a beautiful garment for me. A best friend. Ameen. Am a 28yr old sister and i shall never give up hope.
Ameen, may Allah make is easy for us all
Aameen Allahumma aameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Masha Allah, i was watching this randomly, had just woken up, now i know why "my marriage" is postponed SUBHAN ALLAH THERE IS SO MUCH and so much to know, i should write this now BARAKA ALLAHU LAKUMA,
It would be nice if there was a talk on step families. No one seems to talk about this part of the community. Also the new issues that are arising from ex wives and husbands being "friends" the chit chat that happens between them causing problems in the new marriage. What are the does and don'ts with ex spouses. So many second time marriages are failing because of this. And using children to meet up and so on. It would be great to address this part of the community life.
Yea step families
Ah this is very true.As sadly higher rates of divorces in modern times this is a real issue you mention.
@@faebalina7786 yes, more rates of divorce and forming marriage with new spouses who come with children from both side if not one side. But the new issues really are the issues with ex husbands and wives still thinking they have rights over the person they are divorced from. I know a case where the ex wife still lives in the house with the man she is divorced from! And the man wants to marry and doesn't understand why his new wife has a problem with his ex wife! Crazy situation like this do exist. Then theirs the children card, we've got children so we do have to chit chat about them like as though we are still married. It's just chaos for anyone to move on. Also what is it teaching the children about divorce? It's okay to divorce but you can still be friends, when did islam allow friendship between men and women just because they have children. New spouses are told to just put up with the demands of their husband or wives ex spouses. This is not fair for any newly married person to put up with, too much unnecessary baggage. Anyway, these issues need to be sorted.
I love Sheikh Bilal. He has the knowledge and I absolutely adore his sense of humour. This is the 10 time I watched this episode on here, Facebook and spotify. May Alleh SWT reward you on everything you did for the umah. ❤
I have been married for 9 years but the advice I got in last 49 minutes is better than what I got in the entire last 9 years
MashaAllah brother
Maashaa2Allah
-Sheikh happy Valentine’s Day
-Are you serious?
😂😂😂
“Do people still celebrate that?!” 😅 Oh boy!
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😁😁🤪
What? Please Time stamp.
El Othemany right at the beginning
" *Sometimes we are not in our right head Space and it's unfortunate to take a Permanent Decision in a Temporary Situation!* "
I love this interviewer, your points are very well articulated!
Man I love these pod casts please keep going guys
Kamal please bring Sheikh Bilal back. We love him❤
Definitely we need more fruitful episodes like this. Jazakum Llah khayr.
I love the Sheik Maturity in holding the conversation.
No wife, only have life, no spouse, only have house. :D
we live in a time where it's much easier to do the haram than to do the halal.
😂
Oh Aramco! Still no wife?😊
@@sarahqamar6377 Sre
Muslims giving zina likes....
inshaallah you will got married
In my private elementary school we had to bring valentine cards for everyone. We decorated shoe boxes and milled around delivering cards. As a grown up looking back, it was quite silly, but it was fun for us as children. High school wasn't fun because it was different and no one delivered a rose to me and nothing was dropped in my locker. It was quite painful at the time, but no permanent scarring. That is such a problematic "holiday" in multiple ways.
How do you find a non-abusive, non-manipulative but non-boring spouse, with zero drama! Thanks for this clip!
@@moudalan4462 2 :P
25 is long gone for me friend
Fairy tales
Only jennah. I hope that Disney princess syndrome is working for you
Be the kind of person you want to marry, have those qualities you want to see in him/her and you will attract Ur kind.
Alhamdullilah i think you brothers need this subject to turn a series. A few episodes subjected on marriage. May Allah swt reward you brothers
Al salamu alaikum. barak Allah feekum for this great episode. you mentioned that before a couple go into divorce you ask them to try your way and give them strategies, PLEASE please make a part 2 where you go into details on what are some of the tips or the strategies you give to couples so at least we could start implementing them before it is too late.
Ihsan-- excellence in worship of The Merciful Rabb-- gratitude, dikr and shukr, for all the Ni'mah leads to more Barakah in the relationship... la'in shakartum la azeedannakum..Subhan Allah
Can you bring back the sheikh we need another episode please. Very fruitful indeed.
Thank you
Brother Kamal, Love from Bangladesh. 😍
No No, love from Dhaka lol
A very important podcast and I definitely think all people about to get married or are already married should watch! Jazakum Allahu khairan
Brother, maybe for next time you have him on, tell us to send in questions about marriage which he can answer iA
ما شاء الله تبارك الله
استمتعت كثيرا بالحوار، اكثر من رائع
شكرا لكم جميعا
وبارك الله فيكم
JazakumAllah Khayr. Please continue making podcasts..
You guys have very beautiful beards. Ma shaa Allah, Allahumma Baarik. I am jealous. may Allah forgive me and protect you from my jealousy and all others. aameen.
@norah Leah jazak Allahu khair.
norah Leah arent they the same?? Don’t you mean white jealousy??
@norah Leah oh ok
May Allah bless you
norah Leah eloquently said
Why you jealous of the beard are you trying to impress the creation or the creator
Saw this on digital mimbar, really entertaining! May Allah bless your marriages, i am really grateful for such a great video. The podcast format fits really well 😊
Jazaaka Allah khairun for the good work done... We want more videos like this
I wish am married...
With my sheikh's guide, I will obviously hv a happy marriage and enjoy happy life inshAllah.....
Barakallahu fiikum one path network
What a sweetie Sheikh Bilal, mashaALLAH. May ALLAH bless him, his family and his work, amin 🤲🏻 I am so happy to meet him for the first time here alhamduliLLAH I will be looking for his videos inshaALLAH 😊
I would also add reading seera of how prophet dealt with certain situations with his wife's and copying the exact same way , this helps alot
Yeah,I feel like when it comes to the prophet's character (SAW)and how he dealt with his wives, it seems like some or a lot of men do not really take on that Sunnah, or else women wouldn't be asking for divorce
What is the name of this presenter? Alhamdulillah I’ve only come across him in the last two videos and already want to watch more content involving him seems like a genuine and humble brother ma sha Allah
Kamal Saleh
Look for talk Islam you will find more video of him
Sheikh Bilal is so sweet and knowledgeable! So much good advice on a range of topics that I think the Sheikh can provide more advice and insight on. Please do have him on the show more. Thank you for this episode. Also, please have more female scholars and experts too. jzk
Ma sha Allah.. very well presented. Truly beneficial knowledge to impart to the youth.. Alhamdulillah .jazak Allahu khairan katheerah.. Aameen
I loved this talk ... Thank you .. please keep posting
Love the banter between you two, lol
Why don't you have these on a podcast platform too? would love to hear it on the jog / walk
Definitely agree! I would love doing other things while listening to these podcasts
These are on podcast platform too
@@alineaeuropa Thankyou, alhamdulillah was able to find them on podcast too !!!
It's a beutiful lecture...so sweet to listen to... Alhamdulilah
WHEN WE REPAIR OUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH ALLAH HE REPAIRS EVERYTHING
ELSE FOR US. 🎯
I like how he says jokes without any emoji😂
Ma shaa Allah so inspiring talk...jazakallah sheik. May Allah grant us happier healthier marriages... Ameen
mashallah really enjoyed your conversation, may allah help this ummah to build healthy relationships and facilitating an enviroment for rightous generations
Allahummabaariklakumaa, that was really nice! Loved the mixture of seriousness and light jokes. These types of discussions always give me hope regarding marriage and finding a suitable spouse, as this can become quite an exhausting and disheartening experience. JazakumAllahukhairan!
jisse hmari shadi hoti hai..wahi suitable hota hai..islie marriges late i rahi hai..khud suitale dhoondne me umar nikal jati hai.or haram me parh jae hain.ye logon ki galt fehmi hai..suitable spous search krna parhta hai.
@@maryamkhan7138 sorry sis I don't understand 🙏 Urdu right :) ?
Thank you for these Golden King Advices 🙂
I like this room, is so antique. Light bulb ! Very old TV ! Old is gold. Like the environment.
"هل جزاء الإحسان إلا الإحسان"
Assalamu'Alaikum..
How nice talk show and useful for us..
Thanks Shayekh..
JazakAllohu Khoir...
Masha Allah, good to listen this podcast as, I m looking a partner for myself a girl practicing Muslim, family oriented, done any Islamic education, person with pure heart, should be sincere, caring & loving with good moral values.
Brother i was waiting for your video eagerly.
After I have read the Quran, I realized that all what humanity needs is this heavenly law. “The legislation of Quran will spread all over the world, because it agrees with the mind, logic and wisdom.” - Leo Tolstoy
Allahuma barik may Allah bless you and grant you jannah alferdous
May Allah swt reward your efforts my brothers very beneficial
MashaAllah it’s nice to see the Host making us laugh 😄😄 Jazakumullahu khayran 💛
It would be great if you bring female sheikhah I guess. The talk would be more interesting.
0:38 lmao Sheikh Bilal was horrified 😆
Ashrafur Ahmed LOOOL I was looking for a comment like this. His “haram senses” were going OFF! 😭😂
I love and wait for any videos u upload. May Allah reward you in this world and the next world.
Very good discussion. Thank You.
32:09 Divorce is not a problem by itself, we have made it a problem. The Mother of the belivers where married and divorced or widowed 2 times (most of them, Except Aysha RA) Before getting married to Messenger of God (SA). As well as the sahabias. They understood the way it was. It just didn't worked out and they were okay with it. Both of them (marriage and divorce) are by the will of ALLAH. And is best for our self development.
Marriage is a relationship of choice. Just make sure, you have the best intention and you do it by the way ALLAH commanded you to do so, and enter it and leave it as you like (with out doing julm on the opposite person.) Its a crucial medium by which you and your spouse improve as husband and wife.
Mohammad Mishkat Divorce is a problem. Your examples are not proving anything else. You should know despite being halal, divorce is hated by Allah SWT. Add to that the fact satan loves divorce more than adultery or fornication.
Unlike you brov, AlhamduliLLAH I actually know what I'm talking about, AlhamduliLLAH pretty well. And this is also the same stance on divorce of Dr. Yasir Qadhi. And most of my knowledge is, by the will of ALLAH, from YQ.
If I thought you to be any what knowledgeable, I would certainly take the time to research, again, and pickup the numbers and stats and names and inform you about it. But the fact that you have based your aggressive comment on a hadidh which is not authentic and is also considered by a lot of u'lama including ustad Nouman Ali khan to be fabricated, shows you knowledge base. And you are arguing with me with these 2 extremely week hadidh shows your aggressive and twisted mentality. So I suggest you go and research from the best u'lama and sources. Islam is so beautiful brov, not only that it is the most documented religion in the history, but also we Muslims don't have to believe in anything which is not authentic.
Let this be a reminder for you to gain authentic, dalil based knowledge. And of coarse ALLAH Ta ALA said, "Let the believers benefit from the reminders.
I apologize if I hurt anyone. Salam brov.
Mohammad Mishkat
I stopped reading at "Yasir Qadhi". I'm sorry to say but nothing I say either from Qur'an or Hadith will convince you if you're taking heed from a deviant like Yasir Qadhi.
@@hanzalaomar3234 thanks for proofing on the internet yourself, what I thought and said you to be.
Mohammad Mishkat You did that to your own self by bringing up a reformist Yasir Qadhi. Pity
Really a fruitful discussion
fruit is a dangerous word my friend (as we are finding out)
Very beneficial pod cast. May Allah reward you .Brothers
the reason halal became hard is because everyone thinks they have to have a big wedding to get married
MashaAllah. Loved this podcast❤
I'm in my late 30s and have been divorced since my mid 20s...... Still single, when I was younger I focused on raising my child and getting to know myself..... When I processed and preserved in my 30s, I'm now too old to have kids, all my friends are married so not aware of any non married men in my age bracket, but loads 10 years younger..... So what I'm saying in a long winded way is..... Just asking your friends, parents and university isn't an option for people my age.....
Follow into the footsteps of our beloved Rasulallah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and marry those who are divorced or widowed and surely you will receive a lot of barakat. I am a 30yo divorced sister with a little girl and I just got married to a 32yo brother who is also a divorcee alhamdulillah. With today's divorce rates soaring you are sure to find your other half even beyond the age of 30 inshaAllah.
@@diruholic jazallah khayr sister and congratulations on your marriage. I have to say though a 30 year old woman has more options open to her, than a 38 year old woman. Divorced men my age are marrying women your age, as women younger than 35 are at their premium (fertility wise) . Men in 40s are also looking for women 35 and younger. I'm open to marrying a man who is divorced, from a different ethnicity and race however its harder the old you become and there really isn't a place that facilitates introductions or even discuss the difficulties people my age and older are facing or ways in which we can solve it. But at the end of the day, it is was Allah wills.
@@Abdullahin1
Are you male or female I'm confused 😊
But I think you're a female
So why can't married who is younger than you if he responsible ❤️
@@nua.h2757 Lol I'm confused that you're confused.... To clarify I'm a woman 😂
The young men I mentioned are 10 years or more younger than me. A men a few years younger is OK, but ideally a divorcee would be best in his mid to late 30's as we would have shared experiences... Its difficult the older you become, however if it's Allah will then it will happen inshallah
We would like to hear more about Ihsan within marriage. How to develop marriage relationship to that level, Ihsan. Jazakm Allah kharan.
Couldn't agree more subhanallah 100% facts and truthful. ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤
Awesome topic full of wisdom but the moderator was so excited that he spoke more than his guest 😂
Thanks a lot
جزاكم الله كل خير
loved the podcast, MashaAllah
Nice. Informative video.
Masha Allah Happy wife happy life and happy spouse happy health
MashAllah
Alhamdulillah
JazakAllah khair
All Muslim happy life alxamdulaha secondly our Deen dawah together work because all muslim brothers is like them our religious haq our dawah haq
Jezklahu kayren. 🙂
I loved this interview mashallah
7:19 - 8:13 I wish more and more people would pay attention to this (For both the guys side and the girls side)
الحَمْد لله
Allahumma Barik I and My husband had a very simple Nikah in presence of few relatives only and segregated,no free mixing Nikah had food and dispersed and سبحان الله we are reaping the benefits and barakah to this day Allahumma Barik❤️❤️❤️ May Allah increase each other in Barakah آمين
Very nice topic and we need to know more about it.....🙂
May Allah bless you all ✨
14:30
Why is it always said man wants respect and woman want love?
Mostly men are already disrespectful to their wives. Soothing them by such kind of statements!!!
Both need love and respect
Respect is earned and love is a 2 way street.
Both of them need to be given by both for one to feel them.
The average person understands they need to be able to provide both of their needs for a happy life.
But the thing about averages is that there are people who are below average. They want to just take take and take.
And 1 of those people leaves such a bad taste we need about 10 people to balance them out.
جزاكم الله خيراً
Allahumma baarik, may allah bless you brothers and also our fellow Muslims who are involved in producing all of these extremely beneficial videos. If possible, please could you continue this particular topic/discussion by releasing further versions/episodes e.g. part 1, part 2 etc. Jazakallahu khairan
Allah,don't write Allah's name with a small letter, that's disrespectful
@@purplelove3666Sorry about that, thank you 🙏🏽
First, we need to look at our relationship with our Creator then focus on relationship with the creation
A husband who does not controls anger due to pride and arrogance then violates the marriage with abuse cannot save his family. Once abuse takes place the family deteriorates to a level where worship of Allah is minimised, the husband becomes a hypocrite and he prays but shows no love and deprives the woman and children. Its healthier to detach if a man seeks no help then no one can help him. The woman stays on but then she breaks and it cause more damage that is when one should get out and save the children.
It's like you were a witness to what happened in my family. Now me and my siblings have mental health/emotional issues due to our fathers abuse for so long( literally until my mom died last year). Abuse is so destructive to the family unit. If you "stay for the sake of the kid(s)" or whatever excuse you are telling yourself, you are going to cause life long damage to yourself and your child(ren). Not to mention a high risk of you or your child(ren) completely removing themselves from the Deen as a result. Your child(ren) will also normalize the abuse and continue this horrible legacy by choosing abusive partners or become abusers themselves. Is it worth it? Ask yourself that...
@@FutureFendiFsnista they seem to worry about what people will say, or being alone, and so they just stay in the abuse ,which affects them and the children
Really thank you for this wonderful video and topic
Nice to find your channel
May Allah reward you brother
Brother kamal..uhibbu fillah😊💙
jazakaAllah both it was awesome
اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُم
Brother please organise a podcast with Hasan Minhaj. (Inshallah)
Jazakallah khair
Can you put the podcast on apple podcast
Love u brother kamal from bangladesh
Marriage nowadays has nothing to do with what it should be or what it used to be.. It's all about money now.. Unfortunately.. I want to get married. I know that I can provide.. But No. Providing isn't enough these days.. Luxury is the key..
Good podcast but I think you should go a bit deeper it's too shallow when you guys speak about marriage. There are many many things you should speak about. The influence of mothers on either husband or wife, the influence of society etc all these play a big role
They are both equal,
The beauty of the partner
Where they are, what level are they on in deen.
Imagine you marry the later.
So they are attractive but have a base line of deen and they are not coming with you on your journey.
You end up being on your own even though there is two of you.
If they have deen and are on your journey actually, they are a few steps further from you, that’s great ! but not so much if you don’t find them attractive.
You need to find a nice balance of both.
Sheikh is going hard on the paint 🤜🤜